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certainly done the so-called responsible thing. He was an<br />
educational administrator—had worked hard for his pension and<br />
counted on Social Security to tide him over during the “golden<br />
years”. What he had not counted on in all his careful planning<br />
was inflation and the high cost of minimally covered healthrelated<br />
expenses. Back in his day you bought a house on property<br />
that would accrue in value, so that you could turn it over in<br />
latter life for more inexpensive digs and a financial cushion.<br />
Sure, Dad could sell the family house now, but then where would<br />
he live? Certainly not with me, and there really are few<br />
affordable alternatives for aging adults of modest means.<br />
I understood all this, yet was unable to tolerate poor old<br />
Dad’s going for the love in his twilight years. This Cynthia, I<br />
calculated, is only thirteen years older than me: what could she<br />
possibly want from my 81-year-old father? Probably, I surmised,<br />
the house and what’s left of the funds my parents had set aside<br />
to sustain themselves in their old age.<br />
I telephoned my father right after I got a second letter<br />
announcing that he had invited Cynthia to move in with him. At<br />
the time, I was vaguely uneasy, but tried to be supportive. In a<br />
subsequent letter, however, when he mentioned the possibly of<br />
getting married, I quickly made plans to visit and throw<br />
interference. Dad described Cynthia as “charming, energetic, and<br />
well-spoken”. Of course (I shrewdly concluded), just the<br />
qualities required of a grifter to hustle an old man. You read<br />
about it in the papers all the time: there’s always a son or<br />
lover skulking in the shadows, coaching the shill and waiting to<br />
swoop down on the elderly person’s possessions and bank account.<br />
My father, no doubt, was one of numerous geriatric victims<br />
ensnared in this evil scheme. Thinking about it now, there was<br />
also the Bingo connection, further evidence of Cynthia’s moral<br />
lapses. Dad had reported that he met Cynthia at the weekly Bingo<br />
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