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FUTURE QUEST<br />

cont<strong>in</strong>ued from page 96<br />

for about half of my life before<br />

I figured out that vertical direct<br />

access <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Make</strong>r is possible<br />

w<strong>it</strong>hout <strong>the</strong> aid of middlemen.<br />

Look<strong>in</strong>g back at my own<br />

experience and see<strong>in</strong>g how<br />

universally every religious system<br />

basically controls <strong>it</strong>s members,<br />

I wonder if most people live <strong>in</strong><br />

a world where unw<strong>it</strong>t<strong>in</strong>gly <strong>the</strong>y<br />

have voluntarily given up <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

God given right <strong>to</strong> evaluate <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

spir<strong>it</strong>ual life – most have been so<br />

thoroughly cond<strong>it</strong>ioned <strong>to</strong> “do,”<br />

not <strong>to</strong> th<strong>in</strong>k.<br />

But Truth is an ocean wide<br />

and deep and etern<strong>it</strong>y is set <strong>in</strong><br />

our hearts. We are all given<br />

a few precious drops of truth<br />

that can lead us <strong>to</strong> understand<br />

why eternal salvation cannot be<br />

earned by good works hop<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong><br />

bribe God. True righteousness<br />

flows from a pen<strong>it</strong>ent heart that<br />

humbly receives salvation as an<br />

unmer<strong>it</strong>ed gift of div<strong>in</strong>e grace.<br />

Fear, <strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong>lerance or cus<strong>to</strong>m<br />

should not h<strong>in</strong>der us <strong>in</strong> our<br />

<strong>in</strong>dividual pursu<strong>it</strong> of God. We<br />

are eng<strong>in</strong>eered <strong>to</strong> be free, we are<br />

not meant <strong>to</strong> be <strong>in</strong> awe of o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

There are many levels at which we connect w<strong>it</strong>h<br />

people but I f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>the</strong>re is noth<strong>in</strong>g deeper than a<br />

meet<strong>in</strong>g of m<strong>in</strong>ds search<strong>in</strong>g for <strong>the</strong> Truth.<br />

people no matter how wise or<br />

religious <strong>the</strong>y appear.<br />

Today I am an ord<strong>in</strong>ary<br />

follower of <strong>the</strong> One who promised<br />

that we shall know <strong>the</strong> truth and<br />

<strong>the</strong> truth shall set us free. I <strong>to</strong>ok<br />

him at his word and discovered<br />

<strong>the</strong> promise is real. Reflect<strong>in</strong>g<br />

on my life as <strong>the</strong> days pass, I<br />

constantly review and exam<strong>in</strong>e<br />

<strong>the</strong> wonder of <strong>it</strong> all. It is qu<strong>it</strong>e<br />

fasc<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g – where I started and<br />

where I have ended up w<strong>it</strong>h no regrets about my spir<strong>it</strong>ual journey <strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong><br />

freedom and out of bondage.<br />

If you ask me whe<strong>the</strong>r what I have done is my life, what can I really<br />

say w<strong>it</strong>h confidence? Only that my spir<strong>it</strong>ual quest has been <strong>in</strong>valuable<br />

– I’ve learned <strong>it</strong> is <strong>in</strong>deed possible <strong>to</strong> understand <strong>the</strong> character of this<br />

great Crea<strong>to</strong>r of <strong>the</strong> universe because he allows us <strong>to</strong>. It is compell<strong>in</strong>g<br />

how he reveals himself – someth<strong>in</strong>g he alone does uniquely and<br />

personally for everyone who calls upon his name. One th<strong>in</strong>g I know<br />

for sure - he is not <strong>the</strong> exclusive property of any religion nor does any<br />

religion have <strong>the</strong> author<strong>it</strong>y <strong>to</strong> guarantee that mere membership will<br />

take you <strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong> his presence. Still you might persist <strong>in</strong> ask<strong>in</strong>g - Is what<br />

I have done my life? Yes! In terms of work I found my labor of love.<br />

In terms of family I have met my obligations. In terms of health I’m<br />

<strong>in</strong> reasonably good shape. In surrender<strong>in</strong>g my life <strong>to</strong> him not <strong>to</strong> any<br />

<strong>in</strong>st<strong>it</strong>ution, I couldn’t “do” better! I f<strong>in</strong>ally learned not <strong>to</strong> be <strong>in</strong> awe of<br />

people w<strong>it</strong>h religious knowledge because <strong>it</strong> is possible <strong>to</strong> ga<strong>in</strong> wisdom<br />

directly from <strong>the</strong> source of <strong>the</strong> Truth <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> holy scriptures. There I<br />

found <strong>the</strong> knowledge and freedom I longed for hidden <strong>in</strong> pla<strong>in</strong> view. It<br />

is visible only <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> lowly <strong>in</strong> heart who can lay aside <strong>the</strong>ir pride, for he<br />

turns away <strong>the</strong> proud <strong>in</strong> heart.<br />

Observ<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> joy and mean<strong>in</strong>g people f<strong>in</strong>d when <strong>the</strong>y genu<strong>in</strong>ely<br />

engage one ano<strong>the</strong>r on matters of fa<strong>it</strong>h is very <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g. Why this<br />

particular awareness has developed for me I can’t say, except that I have<br />

always been <strong>in</strong>trigued by <strong>the</strong> mystery of human relationships. There are<br />

many levels at which we connect w<strong>it</strong>h people but I f<strong>in</strong>d <strong>the</strong>re is noth<strong>in</strong>g<br />

deeper than a meet<strong>in</strong>g of m<strong>in</strong>ds search<strong>in</strong>g for <strong>the</strong> Truth. At first this is<br />

difficult because each of us is unwill<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> accept <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r person’s views.<br />

We may hardly have exam<strong>in</strong>ed our own beliefs so how can we <strong>in</strong>teract<br />

mean<strong>in</strong>gfully w<strong>it</strong>h someone else’s? A nugget of wisdom might have been<br />

ga<strong>in</strong>ed, but <strong>in</strong> fear we refuse an opportun<strong>it</strong>y <strong>to</strong> share life’s brief journey<br />

w<strong>it</strong>h a fellow human be<strong>in</strong>g of <strong>in</strong>f<strong>in</strong><strong>it</strong>e worth. Or worse still we pretend we<br />

have someth<strong>in</strong>g better when we do<br />

not. Perhaps we even go so far as <strong>to</strong><br />

engage <strong>in</strong> an act of violence.<br />

For much of my life I <strong>to</strong>o was<br />

<strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong>lerant of o<strong>the</strong>r beliefs. My m<strong>in</strong>d<br />

would not consider even <strong>the</strong> tenets<br />

I believe <strong>in</strong> that require me <strong>to</strong> love my neighbor as myself w<strong>it</strong>hout any<br />

exceptions. But for most of my life I preferred <strong>to</strong> choose my neighbors<br />

and as a result I have few friends. Now after six decades of my life<br />

<strong>the</strong>re is a desire <strong>to</strong> understand more, <strong>to</strong> share more - <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g lessons<br />

learned from disappo<strong>in</strong>tments and failures as well as successes, and <strong>to</strong><br />

love people more. I am at an age when such desires are less likely <strong>to</strong> be<br />

misunders<strong>to</strong>od! I keep knock<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> hope a few doors will open if<br />

only <strong>to</strong> commiserate w<strong>it</strong>h someone <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> even<strong>in</strong>g of his life who could<br />

have done better and been less judgmental of his fellow man.<br />

Alpha and Omega, <strong>the</strong> beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g and <strong>the</strong> end.<br />

Futurequest is a search for <strong>the</strong> truth <strong>in</strong> our times.<br />

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