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<strong>Isle</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Man</strong> Examiner, March 2006 Businessupdate 19<br />

BOOKS<br />

Review<br />

by<br />

Hannah<br />

Stephenson<br />

I’m an entrepreneur,<br />

not an apprentice<br />

Loudmouthed Saira Khan, the volatile<br />

firecracker who came runner-up in<br />

BBC2’s The Apprentice last year, has<br />

not looked back since her determined<br />

performance made her the star <strong>of</strong> the show.<br />

Few will forget how this supersonic<br />

saleswoman with the big voice wound<br />

up her colleagues with her pushy<br />

tactics.<br />

Although she received regular<br />

verbal lashings from businessman<br />

Sir Alan Sugar, it seemed he had a<br />

s<strong>of</strong>t spot for the 5ft 2in dynamo.<br />

When you meet her you can<br />

understand why. She seems tiny<br />

and prettier than she appeared on<br />

the show, and her enthusiasm is<br />

infectious rather than irritating.<br />

Although Saira, 35, lost out on the<br />

£100,000 dream job to winner Tim<br />

Campbell, she did work for Sir Alan<br />

for six months before moving on.<br />

‘The role he gave me was another<br />

sales role. I was effectively selling<br />

computers. I thought I was worth<br />

more than that. Sir Alan was,<br />

shall we say, disappointed.’<br />

Still, she says she has earned<br />

the equivalent <strong>of</strong> Tim’s salary in<br />

the past year through a number<br />

<strong>of</strong> media jobs, including a<br />

column in The Mirror,<br />

corporate speaking<br />

appearances and her own<br />

online business with her<br />

husband, internet consultant<br />

Steve Hide.<br />

She’s currently appearing on<br />

You’re Fired, the new<br />

Apprentice spin-<strong>of</strong>f show on<br />

BBC3, and this month she<br />

begins filming her new<br />

daytime show on anger<br />

management, Temper Your<br />

Temper, which is due out in<br />

autumn.<br />

As ever, she is in saleswoman<br />

mode today as she eagerly fills<br />

me in on her new self-help<br />

book, P.U.S.H. For Success.<br />

‘In this country people see me as<br />

being pushy. I don’t think pushy’s a<br />

negative thing. As a young woman<br />

you have to really push yourself to<br />

succeed. It gives you an edge over the<br />

competition.’<br />

She keeps in touch with Apprentice<br />

winner Tim Campbell, who is still<br />

working for Sir Alan.<br />

‘We have a lot in common. He’s pretty<br />

laid-back and chilled out, whereas I’m<br />

pushy and feisty, but it works. He calls<br />

me his sister.’<br />

As for Sir Alan, she says: ‘I have an<br />

enormous amount <strong>of</strong> respect for him. I<br />

really like him because he reminds me a<br />

bit <strong>of</strong> my dad. He’s very hard on the<br />

outside but on the inside he is a very<br />

responsible man who cares deeply about<br />

his family.’<br />

Saira’s parents emigrated to England from war-torn<br />

Kashmir in 1965, hoping to build a better life and earn<br />

money they could send back to the family. Saira, the<br />

eldest <strong>of</strong> four children, was born in 1970 and grew up in<br />

a predominantly white area in Long Eaton, between<br />

Nottingham and Derby.<br />

Her father, Jan Mohammed, was forced to work in lace<br />

factories because his qualifications as a doctor in<br />

Kashmir were not recognised.<br />

He was extremely strict. She was forced to wear school<br />

uniform to a non-uniform school and as soon as she<br />

came home she’d change into the traditional salwar<br />

kameez — a long tunic and baggy trousers designed not<br />

to draw attention to a woman’s physical shape.<br />

‘My childhood was quite painful at times. I really just<br />

wanted to be a<br />

part <strong>of</strong> British<br />

society. At home I ate<br />

different food to the meals my<br />

English friends ate and watched<br />

Bollywood films while my friends<br />

were going to the cinema.<br />

‘I would have loved to have had<br />

sausages and baked beans at home,<br />

or get my dad to go to the pub and<br />

drink cider, but that was never going to be.’<br />

If Saira or her siblings stepped out <strong>of</strong> line, her<br />

father would beat them with belts, shoes, a<br />

cane or even a wire coat hanger. He also<br />

lashed out at his wife, once giving her a black<br />

eye.<br />

‘His frustrations with his life and the<br />

injustices he had to deal with at work<br />

translated into anger and violence, and most<br />

<strong>of</strong> that was taken out on the family.’<br />

At home they spoke only Urdu and Bhari<br />

and her mother didn’t speak a word <strong>of</strong><br />

English for a long time.<br />

Life didn’t get any easier as she grew up.<br />

‘My parents were from an arranged marriage<br />

and wanted the same for me. My mother would<br />

invite young men to the house and get me to<br />

serve them tea on a tray. I didn’t fancy any <strong>of</strong><br />

them. It was just like East Is East.’<br />

To her father, education was everything. Saira<br />

went to Brighton Polytechnic when she was 18 and<br />

later gained a Masters at Nottingham University.<br />

‘I had boyfriends at university but my parents<br />

never knew about them. I was sensitive towards my<br />

religion and culture.’<br />

Her father worked longer hours in the factory to<br />

help pay her university fees and she now realises that<br />

she was driven by the yearning for his approval. That<br />

focus disappeared when he died suddenly in 1998 <strong>of</strong><br />

a heart attack, while visiting family in Kashmir.<br />

‘I was absolutely devastated. For the first time I felt<br />

really alone.’<br />

To deal with the grief, she flung herself into work<br />

and set out to achieve more.<br />

She met her husband, Steve, in 2002 when<br />

they both worked for United Biscuits.<br />

‘I knew instantly that Steve was the one,’<br />

says Saira. ‘I had a mental tick list <strong>of</strong> what I<br />

wanted in a person. It was never about the<br />

looks. He was career-minded and I never<br />

wanted to be hanging around with a lazy slob.<br />

Keeping fit was a big part <strong>of</strong> his life, and mine,<br />

and he liked a hot curry. He ticked all my<br />

boxes.’<br />

The first time Steve, a Christian, met Saira's<br />

mother was to ask for Saira’s hand in marriage.<br />

‘I never introduced Steve as a boyfriend. She was<br />

furious at first but she’s come round. I was the first girl in<br />

my family to marry outside the culture.’<br />

They live in west London and she would love to have a<br />

big family. At 35 she is well aware that the biological<br />

clock is ticking, but talks in terms <strong>of</strong> when they have<br />

children rather than if.<br />

And at the end <strong>of</strong> a rather exhausting conversationfilled<br />

hour, Saira doesn’t pause for breath as she<br />

launches into her plans for the future — to be a<br />

successful businesswoman launching new products,<br />

influencing government on a variety <strong>of</strong> issues and<br />

making a difference. She even suggests that one day she<br />

may be prime minister.<br />

‘I don’t want to work for anybody else,’ she asserts. ‘I’m<br />

an entrepreneur, not an apprentice.’<br />

As this<br />

year’s<br />

candidates<br />

continue to<br />

battle it out<br />

for Sir Alan<br />

Sugar's<br />

dream job in<br />

the second<br />

series <strong>of</strong><br />

BBC2’s The<br />

Apprentice,<br />

P.U.S.H.<br />

For Success, by Saira Khan, is<br />

published by Ebury, priced at<br />

£9.99. Out now<br />

last year's runner-up Saira Khan has a<br />

new book out, appropriately named<br />

P.U.S.H. For Success. She reflects on her<br />

fortunes since the show.<br />

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