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<strong>Isle</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Man</strong> Examiner, March 2006 Businessupdate 19<br />
BOOKS<br />
Review<br />
by<br />
Hannah<br />
Stephenson<br />
I’m an entrepreneur,<br />
not an apprentice<br />
Loudmouthed Saira Khan, the volatile<br />
firecracker who came runner-up in<br />
BBC2’s The Apprentice last year, has<br />
not looked back since her determined<br />
performance made her the star <strong>of</strong> the show.<br />
Few will forget how this supersonic<br />
saleswoman with the big voice wound<br />
up her colleagues with her pushy<br />
tactics.<br />
Although she received regular<br />
verbal lashings from businessman<br />
Sir Alan Sugar, it seemed he had a<br />
s<strong>of</strong>t spot for the 5ft 2in dynamo.<br />
When you meet her you can<br />
understand why. She seems tiny<br />
and prettier than she appeared on<br />
the show, and her enthusiasm is<br />
infectious rather than irritating.<br />
Although Saira, 35, lost out on the<br />
£100,000 dream job to winner Tim<br />
Campbell, she did work for Sir Alan<br />
for six months before moving on.<br />
‘The role he gave me was another<br />
sales role. I was effectively selling<br />
computers. I thought I was worth<br />
more than that. Sir Alan was,<br />
shall we say, disappointed.’<br />
Still, she says she has earned<br />
the equivalent <strong>of</strong> Tim’s salary in<br />
the past year through a number<br />
<strong>of</strong> media jobs, including a<br />
column in The Mirror,<br />
corporate speaking<br />
appearances and her own<br />
online business with her<br />
husband, internet consultant<br />
Steve Hide.<br />
She’s currently appearing on<br />
You’re Fired, the new<br />
Apprentice spin-<strong>of</strong>f show on<br />
BBC3, and this month she<br />
begins filming her new<br />
daytime show on anger<br />
management, Temper Your<br />
Temper, which is due out in<br />
autumn.<br />
As ever, she is in saleswoman<br />
mode today as she eagerly fills<br />
me in on her new self-help<br />
book, P.U.S.H. For Success.<br />
‘In this country people see me as<br />
being pushy. I don’t think pushy’s a<br />
negative thing. As a young woman<br />
you have to really push yourself to<br />
succeed. It gives you an edge over the<br />
competition.’<br />
She keeps in touch with Apprentice<br />
winner Tim Campbell, who is still<br />
working for Sir Alan.<br />
‘We have a lot in common. He’s pretty<br />
laid-back and chilled out, whereas I’m<br />
pushy and feisty, but it works. He calls<br />
me his sister.’<br />
As for Sir Alan, she says: ‘I have an<br />
enormous amount <strong>of</strong> respect for him. I<br />
really like him because he reminds me a<br />
bit <strong>of</strong> my dad. He’s very hard on the<br />
outside but on the inside he is a very<br />
responsible man who cares deeply about<br />
his family.’<br />
Saira’s parents emigrated to England from war-torn<br />
Kashmir in 1965, hoping to build a better life and earn<br />
money they could send back to the family. Saira, the<br />
eldest <strong>of</strong> four children, was born in 1970 and grew up in<br />
a predominantly white area in Long Eaton, between<br />
Nottingham and Derby.<br />
Her father, Jan Mohammed, was forced to work in lace<br />
factories because his qualifications as a doctor in<br />
Kashmir were not recognised.<br />
He was extremely strict. She was forced to wear school<br />
uniform to a non-uniform school and as soon as she<br />
came home she’d change into the traditional salwar<br />
kameez — a long tunic and baggy trousers designed not<br />
to draw attention to a woman’s physical shape.<br />
‘My childhood was quite painful at times. I really just<br />
wanted to be a<br />
part <strong>of</strong> British<br />
society. At home I ate<br />
different food to the meals my<br />
English friends ate and watched<br />
Bollywood films while my friends<br />
were going to the cinema.<br />
‘I would have loved to have had<br />
sausages and baked beans at home,<br />
or get my dad to go to the pub and<br />
drink cider, but that was never going to be.’<br />
If Saira or her siblings stepped out <strong>of</strong> line, her<br />
father would beat them with belts, shoes, a<br />
cane or even a wire coat hanger. He also<br />
lashed out at his wife, once giving her a black<br />
eye.<br />
‘His frustrations with his life and the<br />
injustices he had to deal with at work<br />
translated into anger and violence, and most<br />
<strong>of</strong> that was taken out on the family.’<br />
At home they spoke only Urdu and Bhari<br />
and her mother didn’t speak a word <strong>of</strong><br />
English for a long time.<br />
Life didn’t get any easier as she grew up.<br />
‘My parents were from an arranged marriage<br />
and wanted the same for me. My mother would<br />
invite young men to the house and get me to<br />
serve them tea on a tray. I didn’t fancy any <strong>of</strong><br />
them. It was just like East Is East.’<br />
To her father, education was everything. Saira<br />
went to Brighton Polytechnic when she was 18 and<br />
later gained a Masters at Nottingham University.<br />
‘I had boyfriends at university but my parents<br />
never knew about them. I was sensitive towards my<br />
religion and culture.’<br />
Her father worked longer hours in the factory to<br />
help pay her university fees and she now realises that<br />
she was driven by the yearning for his approval. That<br />
focus disappeared when he died suddenly in 1998 <strong>of</strong><br />
a heart attack, while visiting family in Kashmir.<br />
‘I was absolutely devastated. For the first time I felt<br />
really alone.’<br />
To deal with the grief, she flung herself into work<br />
and set out to achieve more.<br />
She met her husband, Steve, in 2002 when<br />
they both worked for United Biscuits.<br />
‘I knew instantly that Steve was the one,’<br />
says Saira. ‘I had a mental tick list <strong>of</strong> what I<br />
wanted in a person. It was never about the<br />
looks. He was career-minded and I never<br />
wanted to be hanging around with a lazy slob.<br />
Keeping fit was a big part <strong>of</strong> his life, and mine,<br />
and he liked a hot curry. He ticked all my<br />
boxes.’<br />
The first time Steve, a Christian, met Saira's<br />
mother was to ask for Saira’s hand in marriage.<br />
‘I never introduced Steve as a boyfriend. She was<br />
furious at first but she’s come round. I was the first girl in<br />
my family to marry outside the culture.’<br />
They live in west London and she would love to have a<br />
big family. At 35 she is well aware that the biological<br />
clock is ticking, but talks in terms <strong>of</strong> when they have<br />
children rather than if.<br />
And at the end <strong>of</strong> a rather exhausting conversationfilled<br />
hour, Saira doesn’t pause for breath as she<br />
launches into her plans for the future — to be a<br />
successful businesswoman launching new products,<br />
influencing government on a variety <strong>of</strong> issues and<br />
making a difference. She even suggests that one day she<br />
may be prime minister.<br />
‘I don’t want to work for anybody else,’ she asserts. ‘I’m<br />
an entrepreneur, not an apprentice.’<br />
As this<br />
year’s<br />
candidates<br />
continue to<br />
battle it out<br />
for Sir Alan<br />
Sugar's<br />
dream job in<br />
the second<br />
series <strong>of</strong><br />
BBC2’s The<br />
Apprentice,<br />
P.U.S.H.<br />
For Success, by Saira Khan, is<br />
published by Ebury, priced at<br />
£9.99. Out now<br />
last year's runner-up Saira Khan has a<br />
new book out, appropriately named<br />
P.U.S.H. For Success. She reflects on her<br />
fortunes since the show.<br />
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