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EXECUTIVEAGEN TM<br />

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<strong>Gail</strong> <strong>Anderson</strong><br />

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<strong>Executive</strong><strong>Agent</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />

AUGUST, 2011 VOL. 3 NO. 8<br />

Cover Story<br />

Editorials<br />

16 - Tony Alessandra:<br />

Assuring Customer Satisfaction<br />

28 - Jon Boe:<br />

Actions Speak Louder Than<br />

Words<br />

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30 - Jeanne Gura:<br />

Sales Success With First Time<br />

Home Buyers<br />

20 - Craig Harrison:<br />

From Told To Sold!<br />

24 - Richard Weylman:<br />

What Is It That You Do<br />

32 - Dirk Zeller:<br />

The Greatest Leverage In Real<br />

Estate<br />

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Cover Story<br />

<strong>Gail</strong> <strong>Anderson</strong><br />

<strong>Executive</strong> <strong>Agent</strong> of the Month<br />

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GAIL<br />

ANDERSON<br />

As a real estate professional with nearly 15 years’<br />

experience in the field, <strong>Gail</strong> <strong>Anderson</strong> is wellversed<br />

in the business of buying, marketing<br />

and selling homes. Like many of her contemporaries,<br />

she is skilled at identifying the features that make<br />

each property unique. And she pays extraordinary<br />

attention to details in every aspect of the transactions<br />

she represents. But what truly distinguishes <strong>Gail</strong> is her<br />

By Lalaena Gonzalez-Figueroa - Ian Wiant Photographer<br />

passion for historical preservation and her commitment<br />

to helping others as they endeavor to maintain the<br />

significance of some of the region’s most established<br />

and distinguished properties.<br />

She didn’t intend to become a specialist in the<br />

architectural treasures of Anaheim’s historic district.<br />

<strong>Gail</strong> explains that her foray into this niche market came<br />

when she purchased her own home, a<br />

1910’s bungalow in serious need of<br />

care and refurbishment. “I began to<br />

love the home, to understand it,” she<br />

smiles. “Though it needed work, I<br />

realized that I had to honor the history<br />

of the property and the neighborhood.”<br />

It was a pivotal incident, a seed sown<br />

that would eventually blossom into a<br />

veritable garden of historical homes.<br />

<strong>Gail</strong> carefully tends to the blooms – her<br />

clients and their homes – and cherishes<br />

the unique beauty of each one.<br />

Like the houses she so treasures, <strong>Gail</strong><br />

is also a unique and complex individual<br />

with a ripe history of her own. Before<br />

she became a real estate professional<br />

she was a social worker, then a custom<br />

decorator. She went on to enjoy a<br />

thriving career as a top-producing<br />

mortgage broker. For 15 years she<br />

built her business on an acute ability to<br />

connect with others and determine their<br />

specific needs, then to work with them<br />

as they obtained their loan packages.<br />

When the industry began to suffer as a<br />

result of worldwide economic climate<br />

changes, <strong>Gail</strong> discovered that the spark<br />

that had long driven her professional<br />

success had begun to fade. “There<br />

were so many challenges, and everyone<br />

was stressed,” she recalls. “What had<br />

once been a natural fit and a really fun<br />

experience became tedious.” Wellconnected<br />

within the industry and busy<br />

with the restoration of her own home,<br />

she determined that a transition into<br />

real estate sales would allow her to<br />

continue to nurture clients as they<br />

sought to accomplish their dreams of<br />

home ownership.<br />

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Her status as one of Anaheim’s most knowledgeable and<br />

trusted resources on the preservation and sale of historic homes<br />

has earned <strong>Gail</strong> the respect of colleagues and clients alike. In<br />

addition to inspiring many of her customers to become involved<br />

with her in the Anaheim Historic Society, <strong>Gail</strong> also caught the<br />

attention of broker/owner Paul Kott, a highly successful real<br />

estate professional with a passion for his community and his<br />

profession. The two shared a mutual respect for each other, and<br />

realized that their business models and philosophies were really<br />

in sync. In 2009 <strong>Gail</strong> joined the team of professionals at Paul<br />

Kott Realtors®, Inc., spearheading and leading the brokerage’s<br />

historic homes division. “Paul is such a huge community<br />

activist and a truly amazing man,” offers <strong>Gail</strong>. “It has been a<br />

wonderful opportunity to work with him in this capacity.”<br />

Paul is equally as complimentary. “In my opinion, <strong>Gail</strong> is the<br />

foremost authority on historic homes in the City of Anaheim,”<br />

he states, adding, “She has the unique ability to blend her<br />

expertise, dynamic personality and caring heart to each client’s<br />

best advantage. Honesty, integrity and trustworthiness are the<br />

cornerstones of her personal and professional life. We couldn’t<br />

be more proud to have <strong>Gail</strong> serve the needs of our clients and<br />

customers.”<br />

<strong>Gail</strong>’s intimate knowledge of the historical homes throughout<br />

Anaheim and the surrounding community enable her to work<br />

with individuals interested in buying these treasured gems<br />

as primary residences or for investment purposes. She and<br />

her husband Eric are active investors who own a number of<br />

refurbished rental homes. This hands-on experience allows<br />

her to offer her clients sound input on the cost-to-value aspect<br />

of purchasing and restoring any home, historical or otherwise.<br />

She has been heavily involved in the Mills Act, which provides<br />

Californians with an opportunity to pay reduced property taxes<br />

on historic homes. “To date my husband and I have six Mills<br />

Act homes, and I file the paperwork for my clients, presenting<br />

them with their Mills Act plaques once our transactions have<br />

successfully closed,” she says. “The bronze plaques are<br />

beautiful reminders of each home’s unique significance to our<br />

community.”<br />

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PRESERVING THE PAST, EMBRACING THE FUTURE<br />

Her passion for historic homes is not the only focus in<br />

<strong>Gail</strong>’s real estate career. What truly drives her business<br />

is her love of helping others to achieve their objectives.<br />

“I represent clients in selling and purchasing all types<br />

of homes,” she explains. “I love building relationships<br />

with people as I learn their wants and needs, their<br />

hopes and their goals.” Her empathetic and positive<br />

nature is enhanced by a keen understanding of the<br />

elements involved in a real estate transaction. <strong>Gail</strong>,<br />

who still handles loans on request, works closely with<br />

her clients as they navigate the often intimidating<br />

process of acquiring funding for their purchases. Even<br />

more time is dedicated to building a strong working<br />

knowledge of the criteria each buyer presents. “I<br />

pay extra attention to the needs of a family,<br />

because they are laying important roots,” she<br />

says. A challenging market means nothing<br />

to this focused real estate professional. “I<br />

never give up,” laughs <strong>Gail</strong> as she reflects<br />

on past transactions. “There have been times<br />

when it took years to find the right homes for<br />

my clients, but in the end, they knew they<br />

had made the right decisions.” Her diligence<br />

has made her a natural fit for first-time<br />

buyers as well, who appreciate the breadth of<br />

knowledge she has on local communities and<br />

their distinct markets.<br />

Before Restoration<br />

After Restoration<br />

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As a listing agent, <strong>Gail</strong> excels in<br />

preparing all properties to show to their<br />

full potential. She offers staging services<br />

designed to maximize interior spaces and<br />

improve curb appeal, transforming even<br />

the simplest of structures into adorable<br />

and inviting spaces. <strong>Gail</strong> is a licensed<br />

broker who continues to pursue ongoing<br />

education and professional development<br />

through coaching, seminars, meetings,<br />

personal research and networking. Her<br />

local involvement has connected her to<br />

a wealth of resources within the region,<br />

including home repair specialists, lenders<br />

and civic leaders. A true community<br />

activist, <strong>Gail</strong> is a member of an<br />

impressive number of organizations: The<br />

Anaheim Neighborhood Association,<br />

Anaheim Beautiful, Anaheim Historic<br />

Society, and the Anaheim Chamber<br />

of Commerce are just some of the<br />

groups with which she regularly works<br />

and participates. Her residence has<br />

been featured in “American Bungalow<br />

<strong>Magazine</strong>” and she proudly maintains<br />

that her garden, cultivated by Eric, is<br />

one of the most outstanding personal<br />

gardens throughout Anaheim.<br />

Dedicating an extraordinary amount<br />

of time and energy into her business,<br />

her clients and her community can be<br />

challenging, but <strong>Gail</strong> wouldn’t have<br />

it any other way. “It’s my life,” she<br />

smiles. “And I’m grateful to Eric, who<br />

is also very involved in many of these<br />

organizations.”<br />

While the beauty of some historic<br />

homes isn’t immediately visible, the<br />

work of preservationists like <strong>Gail</strong><br />

<strong>Anderson</strong> is the stuff of miracles.<br />

Consider the California poppy: what<br />

may look like a weedy plant yields a<br />

glorious bloom, fierce in its beauty and<br />

color. <strong>Gail</strong> is a cultivator of magnificent<br />

homes that, oftentimes, simply need a<br />

bit of tender care in order to blossom to<br />

their fullest.<br />

Paul Kott and <strong>Gail</strong> <strong>Anderson</strong><br />

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Anaheim, CA 92805<br />

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Carlos and Ileana Amiel<br />

Teaming Up for Success<br />

By Lalaena Gonzalez-Figueroa<br />

Husband and wife team Carlos and Ileana Amiel<br />

know well the impact – positive or negative – that<br />

a real estate experience can have on a consumer.<br />

Years ago, in their own search for a first home for<br />

their family; they experienced a tremendous sense of<br />

frustration and disappointment when their agent took a<br />

less-than-empathetic approach to the transaction. “We<br />

were told, ‘This is where you can live,’” recalls Ileana. “I<br />

felt like my dream home was completely out of reach. It<br />

was heartbreaking.”<br />

her clients as they navigate the often complex process<br />

of buying or selling a home. “She has amazing people<br />

skills,” offers Carlos. “Ileana does a great job of working<br />

with our clients and helping them to accomplish their<br />

goals.”<br />

Carlos’ background was an invaluable foundation upon<br />

which to build their business. As a general contractor<br />

and the owner of a small construction company, he<br />

brought extensive experience in residential and commercial<br />

construction and remodeling. He’s also a detail-oriented<br />

individual who takes a thoughtful approach to his career.<br />

Carlos explains, “I like to get to the bottom of things. I’m<br />

constantly learning about the business and industry of real<br />

estate, and the knowledge I have gained has helped us to<br />

maintain smooth and successful transactions.”<br />

So successful, in fact, that the couple earned a coveted<br />

top-production award their first full year in business.<br />

They continue to thrive, earning consistent recognition<br />

for their status as a top-producing team. The secret: “We<br />

don’t focus on what we’re earning,” notes Ileana. “Our<br />

business is driven by our clients’ needs.” Clear and open<br />

Lana Farfan Photographer<br />

That event, as painful as it was, served as a catalyst<br />

for action. Ileana and Carlos realized that they had an<br />

opportunity to better their own lives, and the lives of<br />

others, as real estate professionals. And once they set<br />

their sights on success, no one would ever hold them back<br />

again.<br />

Early on, the couple determined that a joint business<br />

would allow them to capitalize on their respective<br />

strengths and backgrounds. A former educator, Ileana<br />

quickly discovered that she had a knack for connecting<br />

with customers and seeing the big picture. Direct in her<br />

communication, she understands how to inform and guide<br />

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communication, she adds, is the key to building trusting<br />

relationships that last. And in the end, says Ileana, she and<br />

Carlos are simply there to advocate for their clients and<br />

assist them in reaching their goals. “I tell my clients that<br />

they are the ones who will find their home,” she reveals. “It<br />

happens. When we have clearly identified what it is that<br />

they really want and need, it will come to them. It always<br />

does.”<br />

Carlos agrees. “We set our clients up for success by ensuring<br />

that we understand their expectations and establishing<br />

a system of accountability for everyone. This way, we are<br />

always working toward their short- and long-term goals.”<br />

Ileana and Carlos enjoy the opportunity to assist clients<br />

at every level of the real estate market, from first-time<br />

buyers to seasoned investors. They specialize in Orange<br />

and Los Angeles Counties, though they note that they work<br />

throughout the state per their clients’ needs. The Amiels are<br />

adept at handling equity, REO and short sale transactions.<br />

As Certified Short Sale Professionals, they work to help<br />

families avoid foreclosures and rebuild their lives. “We<br />

connect people to the right individuals,” explains Ileana.<br />

“Our network includes lending professionals who can<br />

modify loans and save homes.” Bilingual in English and<br />

Spanish, they enjoy the opportunity to help a range of<br />

individuals in pursuing their real estate-related goals.<br />

Thanks to the support and resources of Keller Williams<br />

Realty, Carlos and Ileana are able to offer their clients<br />

an exceptional level of customer care. From world-class<br />

systems to the latest in technological tools and developments,<br />

the internationally-renowned brokerage is committed to<br />

meeting the needs of a constantly-changing real estate<br />

market, and to providing agents with the educational<br />

opportunities necessary to maintain a competitive edge for<br />

their clientele.<br />

Carlos and Ileana are proud parents to two children,<br />

Carlos Jr. and Brenda. “We teach our children to live based<br />

on a principle of, ‘don’t let anyone tell you either what<br />

you can and can not accomplish nor to tell you how high<br />

you can go in life,’” says Carlos. “Make your own goals<br />

and standards, and work consistently and diligently toward<br />

those goals. The worst that can happen is that you may<br />

fall short but you will still be much higher and satisfied<br />

knowing you pursued what you wanted and dreamed of<br />

achieving, rather than simply thinking about it.”<br />

Though they have created their own path to the home of<br />

their dreams, Ileana and Carlos will never forget their first<br />

home buying experience. Staying connected to the past<br />

allows them to help create better futures for their clients,<br />

explains Carlos. “We will never tell a client, ‘This is the<br />

best you can do,’” he asserts. “Instead, we look at each<br />

transaction as part of a process. Maybe the first house is a<br />

stepping stone; that doesn’t mean that the road stops there.<br />

Ultimately, we are dedicated to helping our clients achieve<br />

their own dreams.”<br />

Carlos and Ileana Amiel<br />

The Amiel Team<br />

Carlos: 562-972-0484<br />

Ileana: 562-972-6783<br />

carlosamiel1@gmail.com<br />

ileanasells@gmail.com<br />

www.LongBeachCaShortSales.com<br />

www.LosAlandRossmoorShortSales.com<br />

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Assuring Customer Satisfaction<br />

By Dr. Tony Alessandra<br />

The attitude of the professional is summed up in<br />

this statement. It establishes the customer as the<br />

person to whom you are responsible. Customers<br />

support you; therefore, they deserve VIP treatment.<br />

When your customers are happy, you are happy. When<br />

they complain, you are unhappy, but you examine the<br />

complaint calmly and see it as an opportunity to learn<br />

as well as satisfy their needs. The quote echoes the fear<br />

that customers will not vocalize their dissatisfaction, but<br />

instead take their business elsewhere.<br />

There’s another quote that’s even more important to<br />

salespeople and companies immediately upon making<br />

a sale--”The Sale Begins When the Customer Says...<br />

Yes.” In the old days, It used to be, “The Sale Begins<br />

the complaint is reasonable or exaggerated. If it is<br />

exaggerated, try to resolve the problem by pointing out<br />

benefits and features that compensate. Put the negative<br />

detail in a different perspective for your client so that it<br />

becomes one small part of the total picture.<br />

Many sales involve the installation of a new system<br />

or piece of equipment, and the buyer or their employees<br />

must be trained to use it. their successful use of the<br />

equipment depends upon the effectiveness of the<br />

training, and it is imperative that the salesperson follow<br />

through after the training period to make sure the<br />

client uses the purchase properly. It is not uncommon<br />

for people to forget 75 percent of what they hear after<br />

two days. This can cause “user error”, which will<br />

“Those who enter to buy, support me. Those who come to flatter, please me. Those<br />

who complain, teach me how I may please others so that more will come. Only<br />

those who hurt me are displeased but do not complain. They refuse me permission<br />

to correct my errors and thus improve my service.” -- Marshall Field.<br />

When the Customer Says...NO,” but that’s a totally<br />

Inappropriate attitude to embrace In today’s customerdriven<br />

business environment.<br />

Keeping Your Customers Happy<br />

Since your first concern is customer satisfaction you<br />

should be aware of some emotional stumbling blocks in<br />

your path: selective perception, user error and buyer’s<br />

remorse.<br />

Selective perception is the process in which a person<br />

sees only selected details from the entire picture. This<br />

attention to detail is sometimes petty. For example, a<br />

customer may have a new copying machine that works<br />

like a charm, but he is irritated by the sound of the<br />

motor. He focuses only on what is wrong rather than<br />

what is right.<br />

This occurs because buyers expect their purchases<br />

to be perfect. Regardless of the purchase price, they<br />

figure that for what they spent, they deserve perfection.<br />

When you encounter someone who practices selective<br />

perception, evaluate the situation to determine if<br />

significantly affect the outcome of your test and may<br />

prevent your client from reaching his success criteria.<br />

Often a client will be unhappy about a purchase and not<br />

realize that it is due to improper operation. The more<br />

complex something is, the more training it requires<br />

to use it properly. In the interest of implementing<br />

the product quickly, users may settle for incomplete<br />

training or become sloppy in their application of good<br />

training. In any case, look for user error whenever a<br />

success criterion is not reached.<br />

“Buyer’s remorse” refers to the regret that a buyer<br />

feels after making a purchase. It could be caused by<br />

selective perception, user error, or the client’s error.<br />

Whatever the reason, the full benefits of the product<br />

are not realized. Buyer’s remorse can also be caused<br />

by the economics of the purchase: until the benefits<br />

prove themselves to be cost-effective, a buyer regrets<br />

having made the purchase. It is the responsibility of<br />

the salesperson to assuage these fears by assuring the<br />

client that his investment is wise and sound. Reiterate<br />

some of the selling points that convinced him to buy it<br />

originally, present data, and put him at ease.<br />

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Handling Customer Complaints<br />

Whether your customer’s complaint is legitimate or<br />

not, follow it up with a service call. Whenever possible,<br />

do it personally instead of sending someone from the<br />

customer service department. It provides the personal<br />

service that your customer appreciates and it may<br />

obviate the need for a technician or serviceman to call.<br />

As an alternative, both of you can go together to handle<br />

customer complaints.<br />

Keep the following guidelines in mind:<br />

1. Don’t procrastinate making the call. Often the<br />

problem is not as serious as it sounds. Some customers<br />

“read the riot act” when they call about a complaint. A<br />

delay in responding will only irritate your client more.<br />

2. Admit mistakes and apologize. Just because you<br />

made the sale does not mean you can become defensive<br />

about your company, product or service. Even the most<br />

reputable companies make mistakes and have problems<br />

with their products. You may want to restate the<br />

customer’s complaint to show that you are listening and<br />

have an understanding of the problem.<br />

3. Show compassion for your customer. Whether the<br />

complaint proves to be true or false, show your customer<br />

that you are concerned and will investigate the problem<br />

immediately. Help the customer calm down by saying “I<br />

can understand why you feel they way you do.”<br />

4. Actively listen to your customer’s complaint.<br />

Talking will make him feel less anxious about it. Let<br />

your customer “vent” his feelings before you react to the<br />

situation. Be sympathetic and encourage the customer to<br />

“blow up.” Afterward, he’ll feel better; this means he’ll<br />

be in a better frame of mind.<br />

5. Don’t pass the buck to your company or someone<br />

else within it. This may take the blame off you, but<br />

it undermines the integrity and organization of the<br />

company, and your customer will lose confidence in<br />

your firm.<br />

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E A<br />

FROM TOLD TO SOLD!<br />

Leverage Your Stories To Resonate With Prospects and Customers<br />

By Craig Harrison<br />

Have you ever heard a story that could have been<br />

about you Ever heard a story that reminded you<br />

of another one What about a story that sounded<br />

vaguely familiar Welcome to the power of story.<br />

Unlike facts and figures, that often leave us cold,<br />

stories connect! And they connect deeply, often stirring<br />

us emotionally at a heart level. That’s what makes them<br />

memorable, and powerful as a sales tool.<br />

The Prevalence of Stories<br />

We’re wired for stories! And since birth we’ve<br />

been conditioned to respond to stories. It’s how we<br />

learned about our family and environment, culture and<br />

country, our religion, strangers and the world at large.<br />

We remember stories, and we tell ours and others,<br />

repeatedly. And stories aren’t just transmitted orally.<br />

They are fed us in and out of school, through books,<br />

you tell a story that echoes an archetypal theme your<br />

listener nods in agreement on multiple levels. Think<br />

about the stories you tell as you sell. Do they mimic<br />

traditional themes that represent the human experience<br />

For your stories to connect, I recommend they allude to<br />

one of various familiar archetypal themes:<br />

- The hero’s journey<br />

- Coming of age<br />

- The acquiring of wisdom<br />

- Pacts with the devil / fooling the devil<br />

- Tricking the tricksters<br />

Using The Archetypal Advantage to Connect with<br />

Customers<br />

Consider some of these story genres and motifs for<br />

your use in selling products, services, and loyalty to<br />

brand affiliations and organizations.<br />

Cautionary tales are stories that warn of danger<br />

or harm that awaits you if you do or don’t<br />

follow a particular course of action.<br />

radio, newspapers, opera, television and even through<br />

the Internet.<br />

Stories in Sales: Story Tell, Story Sell<br />

I’ve written before about the use of short success stories<br />

to help you sell. I prefer a three-part story, utilizing a<br />

Setting-Situation-Solution format. Using this format, you<br />

soft sell a listener on what you did for past clients, what<br />

you did on past projects, or the difference a product or<br />

service of yours made in solving a problem, overcoming<br />

a challenge or generating a favorable outcome.<br />

The Power of Archetypal Stories<br />

Your stories can work on both conscious and unconscious<br />

levels with prospects and clients. When<br />

Cautionary Tales<br />

Cautionary tales are stories that warn of danger<br />

or harm that awaits you if you do or don’t follow a<br />

particular course of action. Think of the boy who cries<br />

wolf one too many times and was no longer trusted.<br />

Or the story of the three little pigs. These tales are<br />

great for selling products and services. Perhaps you<br />

tell your story about the client who didn’t back up, buy<br />

insurance or create redundant systems.<br />

The Achilles Heel<br />

From Greek mythology we know the tale of Achilles,<br />

the great warrior with a fatal flaw. If your story involves<br />

a competitor’s product and its fatal flaw, we’ll nod<br />

knowingly in light of Achilles’ fate.<br />

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The Hero’s Journey<br />

The late Joseph Campbell devoted his life to studying<br />

hero tales from around the world. We can all relate to<br />

an irrepressible hero on a noble quest. The struggles to<br />

overcome, obstacles to negotiate, and sacrifices endured<br />

on the way to ultimate success. When your story echoes<br />

this arc your listener can become the hero or heroine, or<br />

is otherwise rooting for them. That’s the power of story.<br />

Creation Stories<br />

Stories that explain how the world was created, or why<br />

the universe, world or life came to be the way they are.<br />

Found in many cultures around the world, these stories<br />

frame the world we live in, explaining its origins. Your<br />

creation story may explain the lineage of a device, an<br />

industry or your company.<br />

Pourquoi Stories<br />

These stories tell you why and how things are. They<br />

are great for teaching purposes. Stories such as “how the<br />

leopard got its stripes” explain a natural phenomenon or<br />

a reality we all accept. You can tell these why storiesto<br />

explain the advent of trends, policies, research and<br />

migration paths for products and services.<br />

Cinderella Stories<br />

That elusive match, the magical shoe that fits just one<br />

foot; the chase, search or quest that ends in a match.<br />

An unjust oppression that is transcended. The conquest<br />

of love. These are universal sentiments you can tap in<br />

your sales story. Your love story can meld two devices,<br />

technologies, cultures or even ingredients.<br />

From Told to Sold<br />

As you can see, there are countless themes that echo<br />

the human experience. And they work across cultures and<br />

borders. Many of these same themes and motifs are present<br />

in Asian, European, African, Native American and other<br />

cultures. When your story is built atop a familiar theme it’s<br />

that much more believable, tangible and powerful. Sell it<br />

through stories and you’ll live happily ever after!<br />

Craig Harrison is an instructor with the University of<br />

California at Santa Cruz Extension’s Business department,<br />

has been profiled in The Wall Street Journal and cited in<br />

Business Week. As a manager, consultant, publisher and<br />

curriculum developer, he developed his digital dexterity,<br />

helping the technical world train and communicate more<br />

effectively. © 2008, Craig Harrison. All rights reserved. For<br />

information contact FrogPond at 800.704.FROG(3764) or<br />

email susie@FrogPond.com; http://www.FrogPond.com.<br />

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E A<br />

What Is It That You Do<br />

By Richard Weylman<br />

One great frustration in the prospecting process<br />

is becoming comfortable with letting people<br />

you meet know what you do for a living. Over<br />

the years, as I’ve spoken at company and industry<br />

events, many financial services professionals have<br />

expressed their confusion and concern about how to<br />

approach people and what to say to them. Some feel<br />

they shouldn’t bring it up until they’re asked; others<br />

feel that if they bring it up, they will be seen as pushy.<br />

The apparent reason for this ongoing debate is a lack of<br />

rapport-building skills and self-confidence about your<br />

chosen occupation and its value to others.<br />

Use these strategies to gain the confidence and skills<br />

to let the people you meet in a business or social setting<br />

know what you do for a living:<br />

1. Make a list of all the reasons why financial<br />

planning is so important. The purpose of this list is to<br />

get you focused on the benefits and to give you some<br />

internal motivation.<br />

2. Ask the centers of influence (the presidents,<br />

executive directors, clients, etc.) in the markets that you<br />

have chosen to suggest how you could best approach<br />

individuals about what you do for a living. Ask for<br />

specific direction here, even down to the phrases that<br />

they would use.<br />

3. Schedule some time with your manager and ask<br />

him to tell you specifically the words he uses to tell<br />

others what he does for a living. Be sure your manager<br />

gives you the specific words that he uses. Write those<br />

words down so you can adapt them to your own use.<br />

4. Role-play with your manager and colleagues so<br />

that you hone and sharpen your skill at bringing up<br />

what you do in a non-threatening way. It’s important<br />

to create an environment as close as possible to a real<br />

situation. Perhaps you could sit down at the conference<br />

room table and have four or five of your colleagues sit<br />

with you as if you were having a meal at a function<br />

that your target market is putting on. Turn to the person<br />

on your left and the person on your right and simply<br />

say, “I’ve certainly enjoyed talking with you again.<br />

We’ve seen each other over the last several months at<br />

these meetings, and I would be delighted to have an<br />

opportunity to get together with you sometime during<br />

the next month and hear more about your business<br />

and to tell you more about some of the things that I’m<br />

doing to help people in the industry achieve financial<br />

well-being.” Then ask for the appointment, “Is there a<br />

particular day of the month that would work for you”<br />

Then quietly listen to what the individual has to say. In<br />

most cases, they’ll respond favorably. As you role-play<br />

this, have your day planner ready just as you would at<br />

the function. Use your day planner as you would in real<br />

life so you actually practice the process.<br />

5. Work on your rapport-building skills. Often you<br />

find yourself in a situation where you’re not sitting<br />

next to someone at a meeting and, therefore, you don’t<br />

have the ability to establish a sense of elationship over<br />

a meal or during the meeting. Many times you may<br />

be standing in a crowd at the hors d’oeuvre table or<br />

the registration desk where you’re unsure of how to<br />

proceed. George Walther, a good friend of mine and<br />

the author of Phone Power says, “Stand shoulder to<br />

shoulder with someone as you watch an event or before<br />

a meeting begins. Lean in and make a comment on the<br />

program or ask a question about the other individual,<br />

then introduce yourself.” Undoubtedly, one of the best<br />

ways to mingle and to establish rapport is to ask a<br />

question and make a positive comment. This interaction<br />

almost always leads to introductions which present you<br />

with a golden opportunity to not only tell people what<br />

you do, but to make it interesting.<br />

As you develop the words that you will use and the<br />

way that you will approach prospects, keep in mind<br />

these three things:<br />

1. Let prospects know your intent while making it<br />

clear you enjoy working with people like them. It’s not<br />

necessary to blatantly say, “I’m here to sell you.” But<br />

do let them know you’re a resource.<br />

2. Avoid being coy and thereby harming trust and<br />

credibility. Be forthright and forthcoming so that you<br />

avoid getting the reputation that you are simply using<br />

the group.<br />

3. Let them know you’re there because you have an<br />

affinity to the organization and that they are the type<br />

of people you choose to do business with and wish to<br />

serve. By having a well-though-out brief commercial<br />

about what you do and how it will help the prospect,<br />

any skepticism about your intent will be overcome by<br />

your professionalism.<br />

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E A<br />

C. Richard Weylman is an expert in marketing, selling<br />

and communicating to affluent and high net worth people.<br />

He is the author of “Opening Closed Doors, Keys To<br />

Reaching Hard-to-Reach People,” as well as numerous<br />

sales, relationship and marketing and management audio<br />

and video education programs. To discover the many<br />

resources he has to offer you and your organization,<br />

including his speaking topics, free weekly marketing<br />

tips (emailed to you), free articles and much more, go<br />

to www.richardweylman.com or call 1-800-535-4332 to<br />

schedule Richard to speak at your next event.<br />

CopyrightC 2002, Richard Weylman. All right<br />

reserved. Richard Weylman, CSP, serves as President<br />

of The Achievement Group, Inc., an Florida-based<br />

consulting firm dedicated to professionally and ethically<br />

help people move to the next level o f productivity and<br />

fulfillment. He is the author of “Opening Closed Doors,<br />

Keys to Reaching Hard-to-Reach People” and numerous<br />

other sales, relationship marketing and management<br />

audio and video programs. To receive more ideas and<br />

insight on how to market to high net worth people,<br />

recruit quality people, or practice management issues,<br />

schedule Richard to speak at your next meeting, contact<br />

the FrogPond at 800.704.FROG(3764) or email susie@<br />

FrogPond.com<br />

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EXECUTIVEAGEN TM<br />

MAGAZINE<br />

TEAM GRAHAM<br />

By Lalaena Gonzalez-Figueroa<br />

Tom Slyman and Derek Graham<br />

P<br />

roactive entrepreneurs with long-term careers<br />

in the title industry, Derek Graham and Tom<br />

Slyman have proven their mettle during a highly<br />

challenging market cycle. The duo’s adaptability and<br />

commitment to meeting their clients’ needs has led<br />

them to Advantage Title, a company that is making<br />

strides within Southern California’s real estate industry.<br />

Unified as Team Graham, Derek and Tom offer<br />

their agent partners a consistently exceptional level of<br />

customer service.<br />

Derek notes that while teams don’t typically enjoy<br />

longevity within the title industry, he and Tom have<br />

developed a system that works. “Finding partnerships<br />

where both parties share a common philosophy and<br />

business model can be a challenge,” he acknowledges.<br />

“But Tom and I were friends and colleagues for over ten<br />

years. Not only do we know how to do good business,<br />

but we also collaborate so that we can capitalize on our<br />

individual strengths and skills. Together we offer a<br />

really comprehensive experience for our clientele.”<br />

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E A<br />

We Are Your<br />

High Tech-High Touch<br />

Title Team<br />

Managing a thriving client base can be challenging for<br />

a solo title representative. As a team, Derek and Tom<br />

facilitate smooth services while maintaining open lines<br />

of communication with their customers. They act as<br />

extended teammates with their real estate partners, who<br />

appreciate the ability to rely on the duo’s promise of<br />

quality. Says Tom, “When agents work with our team,<br />

they know that we’ll take care of our end of the business.<br />

We handle the title process, addressing any issues or<br />

potential problems before they become impediments to a<br />

successful closing, so that they can focus on building their<br />

businesses.”<br />

Derek says that Advantage Title’s systematic approach<br />

and technological focus is a driving factor in the team’s<br />

success. “Our business, which includes the operational<br />

staff within our company, runs incredibly smoothly,”<br />

he observes. “It’s like a set of gears; each element of<br />

the process is connected and coordinated for maximum<br />

efficiency.” The company is establishing itself as a<br />

technological leader, utilizing innovative software and<br />

tools to accomplish an unparalleled title experience.<br />

“Advantage Title gives its clients a distinctive edge with<br />

its amazing technology and tools,” asserts Derek. “When<br />

I was offered the opportunity to build my business with<br />

a company that maximizes the use of technology while<br />

maintaining a focus on the personal aspect of the industry,<br />

I knew I needed to be a part of it.”<br />

Perhaps what’s most notable in Advantage Title’s<br />

technological arsenal is the way that tools are used. While<br />

so many title companies continue to adhere to systems<br />

that require person-to-person contact, Advantage Title’s<br />

systems allow real estate professionals and other clients<br />

to independently access pertinent information through<br />

its website or via wireless devices including iPhones and<br />

iPads. “We actually have apps that push detailed property<br />

information to our clients on the fly,” explains Derek.<br />

“It’s groundbreaking.”<br />

Also notable is the option for agents to access detailed<br />

good faith estimates online, with guaranteed fees included.<br />

“With the ongoing changes that have impacted the lending<br />

industry, settlement service fees can vary drastically<br />

throughout the course of a transaction,” explains Derek.<br />

“Advantage Title gives our clients the confidence of<br />

providing accurate information to their customers. The<br />

system is designed as a nationwide title solution, working<br />

for every county of every state throughout the nation.”<br />

Advantage Title is also implementing technology that<br />

recaptures future business. Derek notes that this technology<br />

will, in turn, help create stronger bonds between the Real<br />

Estate <strong>Agent</strong>, Commercial Broker, REO Asset Managers,<br />

Mortgage Professional, Real Estate Attorneys and the<br />

Consumer. All of this, helping the Real Estate Industry<br />

recovery.<br />

Transparency is a given with Advantage Title, where<br />

clients are kept in the loop throughout the course of any<br />

transaction. “Our automated system maintains ongoing<br />

communication as each task is completed,” says Derek.<br />

“This drastically reduces time spent on non-urgent matters<br />

and issues.” He explains, “We utilize technology as a<br />

portal between our team, our company and our clients.<br />

Tom and I are always available to speak with our clients<br />

and meet their ongoing needs.”<br />

Supporting their efforts is an accomplished group of<br />

professionals with ample industry experience. “Our<br />

company is newer to the market, but our staff is established,”<br />

Derek states. “Many of our title specialists were working<br />

together for ten to twenty years before they joined our<br />

office. There’s a great sense of synergy and we were able<br />

to hit the ground running.”<br />

Derek and Tom are enthusiastic about the opportunities<br />

that Advantage Title provides to them, their clients and<br />

consumers. “We continue to learn, grow and adapt,” says<br />

Derek. “Tom and I are fortunate to be in a position to add<br />

significant value to our clients’ businesses, and we look<br />

forward to continued success.”<br />

Team Graham<br />

Derek Graham & Tom Slyman<br />

ADVANTAGE TITLE365<br />

19500 Jamboree Road, 2nd Floor<br />

Irvine, CA 92612<br />

Derek: 949-584-2570<br />

Tom: 714-585-9333<br />

TeamGraham@Title365.com<br />

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S<br />

urprisingly, opinion polls revealed a sharp contrast<br />

between the voters who had actually watched<br />

the debates on TV versus those who had merely<br />

listened to them on the radio. While radio listeners<br />

clearly thought that Nixon had won the first debate,<br />

television viewers were captivated by Kennedy’s smile,<br />

charm and athletic appearance.<br />

The majority of viewers interviewed reported that<br />

Nixon’s five-o’clock shadow and darting eyes made him<br />

appear sinister and far less presidential than Senator<br />

Kennedy. The television cameras underscored the<br />

significance of nonverbal communication and forever<br />

changed the political landscape.<br />

Are You Missing Your Prospect’s “Buy Signals”<br />

Think about the tremendous advantage you would have<br />

as a baseball manager if you knew the opposing team’s<br />

signals and were able to anticipate their game plan. For<br />

example, suppose you knew in advance that the other<br />

team was planning to steal second base. Obviously, your<br />

team would have a competitive edge because you would<br />

be able to adjust your strategy as necessary. Likewise,<br />

as a professional salesperson, you would be wise to<br />

monitor your prospect’s body language and adjust your<br />

presentation accordingly. By reading your prospect’s<br />

gestures you will minimize perceived sales pressure and<br />

know when it’s appropriate to close the sale.<br />

In 1872, Charles Darwin published the book “The<br />

expressions in Man and Animals” and launched the<br />

modern study of nonverbal communication. Essentially,<br />

body language is a mixture of movement, posture and<br />

tone of voice. The good news about this subject is<br />

that your subconscious mind already understands the<br />

meaning of every gesture, posture and voice inflection.<br />

The bad news is, without the proper training you are<br />

unable to consciously apply this information during your<br />

client appointments.<br />

E A<br />

Actions Speak Louder<br />

Than Words<br />

By Jon Boe<br />

language, it’s important to be mindful of your own<br />

gestures and keep them positive. Remember to unfold<br />

your arms, uncross your legs, nod your head in agreement<br />

and smile frequently.<br />

The study of nonverbal communication is similar to<br />

learning a foreign language in that it requires time and<br />

effort to achieve fluency. Acquiring this important skill<br />

will allow you to communicate more effectively, read<br />

your prospect like a book and close more sales in less<br />

time.<br />

Build Trust and Rapport<br />

Matching and mirroring your prospect’s body<br />

language gestures is unconscious mimicry. It is a way<br />

of subconsciously telling another that you like them<br />

and agree with them. The next time you are at a social<br />

event, notice how many people are subconsciously<br />

matching one another. Likewise, when people disagree<br />

they subconsciously mismatch their body language<br />

gestures. The psychological principle behind matching<br />

and mirroring is that people want to do business with<br />

salespeople that they believe are similar to them.<br />

You can build trust and rapport by deliberately, but<br />

subtly, matching your prospect’s body language in the<br />

first fifteen minutes of the appointment. For example,<br />

if you notice that your prospect is crossing their arms,<br />

subtly cross your arms to match them. After you believe<br />

you have developed trust and rapport, verify it by seeing<br />

if your prospect will match you. Uncross your arms<br />

and see if your prospect will match and mirror you as<br />

you move into a more open posture. If you notice your<br />

prospect subconsciously matching your body language<br />

gestures, congratulations, this indicates that you have<br />

developed trust and rapport. Conversely, if you notice<br />

your prospect mismatching your body language gestures,<br />

you know trust and rapport has not been established and<br />

you need to continue matching and mirroring them.<br />

Top salespeople and the most successful managers<br />

recognize the importance of nonverbal communication<br />

in the selling process and have learned to “listen with<br />

their eyes.” They understand that one of the easiest and<br />

most effective ways to close sales is to be aware of their<br />

prospect’s “buy signals.”<br />

In addition to monitoring your prospect’s body<br />

Body Language Quiz<br />

If you’re a manager, consider using this quiz at<br />

your next training meeting to assess your sales team’s<br />

current level of expertise. When sitting in on a sales<br />

appointment with your sales rep, be sure to incorporate<br />

nonverbal communications feedback in your critique.<br />

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While you may not be called upon to participate in a presidential<br />

debate or manage a baseball team, you need to be able to recognize<br />

your prospect’s “buy signals.”<br />

Do you have a working knowledge of body language<br />

See how many of the eight questions you can answer.<br />

1. What emotion is associated with the “palm to chest”<br />

gesture<br />

A. Superiority<br />

B. Critical judgment<br />

C. Sincerity<br />

D. Confidence<br />

2. What is the meaning of the “thumb under the chin”<br />

gesture<br />

A. Deceit<br />

B. Boredom<br />

C. Anxiety<br />

D. Critical judgment<br />

3. What nonverbal message is conveyed with the “chin<br />

rub” gesture<br />

A. Decision<br />

B. Deceit<br />

C. Control<br />

D. None of the above<br />

4. What does it mean when a person rubs his or her nose<br />

A. Superiority<br />

B. Anticipation<br />

C. Dislike<br />

D. Anger<br />

5. What message is conveyed when a person touches his<br />

or her eyeglasses to their lips<br />

A. Interest<br />

B. Stalling<br />

C. Disbelief<br />

D. Impatience<br />

6. When a person looks over the top of his or her<br />

eyeglasses, what message are they sending<br />

A. Contempt<br />

B. Distrust<br />

C. Scrutiny<br />

D. Suspicion<br />

7. What is the impact of nonverbal communication in a<br />

face-to-face conversation<br />

A. 20%<br />

B. 40%<br />

C. 70%<br />

D. 85%<br />

8. Which of the following gestures is/are associated with<br />

lying<br />

A. Talking through fingers<br />

B. Eye rub<br />

C. Ear rub<br />

D. Lack of direct eye contact<br />

E. All of the above<br />

Quiz Answer Key<br />

1. (C) The palm to chest gesture indicates sincerity.<br />

2. (D) The thumb under the chin gesture indicates critical<br />

judgment and a negative attitude. A good way to get your<br />

prospect to drop this gesture is to hand them something.<br />

3. (A) The chin rub gesture indicates decision. When you<br />

see this gesture, avoid the temptation to interrupt. If the<br />

gestures that follow chin stoking are positive, ask for the<br />

order.<br />

4. (C) When someone rubs his or her nose it’s an<br />

indication that they don’t like the subject. When you see<br />

this gesture you would be wise to probe with open-ended<br />

questions to draw out your customer’s concern.<br />

5. (B) When someone touches his or her eyeglasses<br />

to their lips it signals that they’re stalling or delaying a<br />

decision. If they put their glasses back on, it’s a buy signal.<br />

If they put them away, you have more work to do.<br />

6. (C) When a person looks over his or her eyeglasses it<br />

indicates judgment and scrutiny.<br />

7. (C) Research indicates over 70 percent of our<br />

communication is achieved nonverbally. In addition,<br />

studies show that nonverbal communication has a much<br />

greater reliability than the spoken word. Therefore, you<br />

would be wise to rely on body language as a more accurate<br />

reflection of a person’s true feelings.<br />

8. (E) All of the above. The statue of the Three Wise<br />

Monkeys accurately depicts the three primary hand-to-face<br />

gestures associated with deceit. See no evil, hear no evil<br />

and speak no evil.<br />

While you may not be called upon to participate in a<br />

presidential debate or manage a baseball team, you need to be<br />

able to recognize your prospect’s “buy signals.” By gaining<br />

a working understanding of nonverbal communication, you<br />

will be able to reduce sales pressure, build rapport quickly<br />

and dramatically increase your sales effectiveness!<br />

John Boe presents a wide variety of motivational<br />

and sales-oriented keynote/breakout session/seminar<br />

programs for sales meetings and conventions. When you<br />

book John for your next sales meeting or convention,<br />

you get a nationally recognized author, sales trainer<br />

and business motivational speaker with an impeccable<br />

track record in the meeting industry. For additional<br />

information, contact the FrogPond at email susie@<br />

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Sales Success With First<br />

Time Homebuyers<br />

By Jeanne Gura<br />

Just a few years ago, Jackie Simon left a career as a<br />

housing authority employee and turned to real estate.<br />

Now a Realtor® with Avery-Hess, Realtors® of<br />

Rockville, MD, she averages $10-17 million in sales<br />

each year by specializing in the first time homebuyer<br />

market. What’s even more amazing is that her average<br />

home price is $69,000. Simple math will tell you that<br />

Jackie is closing lots of sales.<br />

Hugh Rowden, now an Assistant<br />

Vice President at First Union Mortgage<br />

Corporation in Atlanta, also specializes in<br />

first-time homebuyers, as a loan officer.<br />

Hugh is a member of the President’s Club<br />

and last year was 10th in the company for<br />

the number of units closed.<br />

recommends that you determine where your target<br />

audience lives, works and relaxes, and that you saturate<br />

those areas with your message, “Think like a first time<br />

homebuyer, where would you go for information on how<br />

to purchase a home”<br />

“Product knowledge is key,” says Hugh “There’s<br />

more to life than FHA, VA and Conventional, you<br />

have to seek out the other outside programs that can<br />

How do they do it For starters, they<br />

make a point of knowing and reaching their<br />

audiences, and are both active in trying<br />

to connect with homebuyers early in the<br />

process. Both Jackie and Hugh participate<br />

in homebuyer seminars led by local housing<br />

and credit counseling agencies, downpayment<br />

assistance programs and churches.<br />

Both stay in contact with other professionals<br />

who are likely to refer potential clients, such<br />

as housing authorities and builders who<br />

are building for the first time homebuyer<br />

market. Jackie and Hugh both donate<br />

volunteer time to help these agencies, and<br />

are rewarded with personal referrals, as both<br />

have built great levels of trust among the<br />

staff and clients.<br />

“Remember when you’re volunteering<br />

with these agencies you have to really give.<br />

You can’t always be pushing your business<br />

or your product, people see through that<br />

in a minute,” advises Jackie. Jackie<br />

has also worked with large employers in<br />

the Maryland area to convince them that<br />

providing a downpayment assistance or<br />

closing costs as an employee benefit will<br />

help them with employee retention. Hugh<br />

Product<br />

knowledge is key<br />

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combine with different loan products.” “I’ve had agents<br />

tell me proudly that they’ve never done a FHA or VA<br />

loan, they don’t know what a big part of the market<br />

they’re missing,” says Jackie, “and they don’t bother to<br />

learn about down-payment assistance programs, closing<br />

cost programs, or employer sponsored Homebuying<br />

programs. You want to have lots of tools in your kit<br />

and then be able to use the right one for the situation,<br />

otherwise you’re using a hammer in place of a wrench.”<br />

Helping the first time homebuyer avoid costly mistakes<br />

is another area that both excel at. Jackie insists that<br />

her clients have the home inspected by a professional<br />

inspector, whether or not the loan requires it. She also<br />

strongly recommends home warranties. “I’ve never<br />

had a seller object to providing one for the first year of<br />

ownership, and I advise the client to purchase it each<br />

year after the first.” That way, her clients will only have<br />

to come up with $100 in the event of major repairs. One<br />

client wound up having a virtually “new” home during<br />

the ten-year period they owned the home, for the cost of<br />

$3500 in warranty expenses and $100 per system.<br />

They wound up having the plumbing, wiring, furnace,<br />

hot water heater and several items re-done, all for less<br />

than just one or two repairs would have cost them. When<br />

you save people that kind of money they remember you!”<br />

Both now receive almost all of their business by<br />

referral. Neither did it by design but as their reputation<br />

spread, both began receiving referrals from past clients.<br />

“Usually when someone you’re working with is in the<br />

process of buying a home, they have friends at the office<br />

and family members who are watching them go through<br />

the process and thinking about doing it themselves,” says<br />

Hugh. “When you do a great job, they’re going to give<br />

your name and number to their friends when they ask how<br />

they did it.”<br />

Jackie concurs, “When you help someone achieve a goal<br />

that is important to them, they are fiercely loyal, it’s good<br />

for you and good for your business.”<br />

Jeanne Goldie Gura is a consultant helping lenders,<br />

agents, developers, Internet businesses and government<br />

agencies tap the first-time homebuyer market. She was<br />

a featured speaker on public and private homeownership<br />

partnerships at the White House Conference on<br />

Empowerment Zones in 1999 and served as the former<br />

director of the Atlanta Center for Homeownership.<br />

She has won several national awards for her work<br />

in homeownership. For information about Jeanne’s<br />

presentations, please contact the Frog Pond Group at<br />

800-704-FROG (3764) or email Susie@frogpondgroup.<br />

com; http://www.frogpondgroup.com.<br />

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E A<br />

The Greatest Leverage In Real Estate<br />

By Dirk Zeller<br />

Being a Champion Listing <strong>Agent</strong> spawns opportunity<br />

that carries new risk and high rewards. As a Champion<br />

Listing <strong>Agent</strong>, you will enjoy these benefits:<br />

1. Gaining leverage by employing numerous people<br />

to work for you at no cost<br />

How many licensed agents are in your board of<br />

Realtors® That will be the number of people you<br />

will employ to sell your inventory each day. The best<br />

part is that all of these people working for you cost<br />

you nothing! There are no wages, withholdings, taxes,<br />

insurance, workman’s compensation, or equipment<br />

changes (telephone, desks, and office supplies). There<br />

are no expenses of any kind. Now, I know that many<br />

of you are saying, my company covers all that with my<br />

buyer’s agents who work for me. That may be true,<br />

but you still have to manage these people and deal with<br />

personal problems, mistakes, low motivation at times,<br />

and interpersonal office politics. All of those still need<br />

to be controlled and managed with leadership exerted<br />

to produce a result.<br />

There is a growing belief that creating a large team<br />

of producing agents under you creates the best<br />

leverage in the business. There are more agents<br />

today trying to create leverage through people than ever<br />

before. While I agree this approach is valid, you must<br />

ask yourself, if now is the right time for you make that<br />

play. Are you personally ready to build and use that<br />

time Most importantly, have you used the easiest and<br />

greatest form of leverage in real estate before you start<br />

exploring people leverage<br />

The greatest, easiest, and most profitable leverage<br />

in real estate sales is becoming a listing agent. Too<br />

many of us are not using this leverage to establish<br />

the foundation of our success. We are getting drawn<br />

into the more-people-bigger-team mentality before we<br />

dominate as listing agents. Once you have the skills<br />

and production of a Champion Listing <strong>Agent</strong>, you can<br />

then build a team more easily with producing agents.<br />

If you focus on being a great listing agent first, you<br />

don’t’ have to manage and lead any of these agent<br />

co-ops out selling your property until they actually<br />

write a contract to present. You employ all of these<br />

co-op agents for little time investment, no cost, and no<br />

risk. With producing agents on your team, you take a<br />

risk in terms of your leads and how they convert them.<br />

You invest large amounts of your time to train, coach,<br />

and direct them to success. Champion Listing <strong>Agent</strong>s<br />

eliminate the risk and receive the reward.<br />

I want to stress, again, I am not anti-team or antibuyer’s<br />

agent. I do, however, believe we, in our<br />

excitement to achieve a Champion Team real estate<br />

practice, take higher risk and lower net reward avenues<br />

because we heard an “expert” claim success, or because<br />

we really didn’t evaluate the return on investment or<br />

evaluate the risk/reward equation.<br />

2. Generating multiple streams of income<br />

The residual value of a listing, in terms of additional<br />

business creation, brand recognition growth, market<br />

share, and market presence, develops leverage. By<br />

taking a listing, you are, in effect, creating a storefront<br />

from which to sell your services. A listing creates sign<br />

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The greatest, easiest, and most profitable leverage in<br />

real estate sales is becoming a listing agent<br />

calls, ad calls, and Internet leads to convert to both buyers<br />

and sellers. It allows you to raise your personal profile<br />

in a neighborhood to generate future business. An agent<br />

who works with buyers almost exclusively has no profile.<br />

What is a listing worth to you beyond just making a<br />

commission from the sale One of the numbers I tracked<br />

was additional revenue and additional transactions created<br />

through securing a listing. For me, I tracked an average<br />

of 1.68 transactions for every listing I took. By<br />

pounding a sign in someone’s yard instead of working<br />

with a buyer, I enjoyed the leverage of another .68 of a<br />

transaction. Track the buyers generated and converted<br />

from your listings, the sellers who buy through you,<br />

and listings you generate additionally because you sold<br />

the house down the street. I am sure that you will find<br />

leverage from every listing you take. I am sure your<br />

ratios will be as good or better than mine.<br />

continued on page # 38<br />

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Assuring Customer Satisfaction<br />

continued from page # 17<br />

Maintaining Customer Satisfaction<br />

The philosophy behind maintaining your customers is<br />

simple; now that you have them, maintain them. When<br />

you consider the amount of time and money invested in<br />

them, you cannot afford to lose them. this investment<br />

goes beyond your personal expenditures. It also includes<br />

your firm’s advertising and marketing costs to reach that<br />

particular market segment. Your customers, therefore,<br />

should be treated as if the life of your business depended<br />

on them -- which it does!<br />

15 Ways To Keep Your Customer Satisfied<br />

1. Show them that you think of them. Send them helpful<br />

newspaper clippings or articles, cartoons related to their<br />

business and “Here’s an idea I thought you’d enjoy” notes.<br />

Send your clients Christmas/ New Year’s cards, birthday<br />

cards, and thank you notes.<br />

2. Drop by to show them new products and brochures<br />

and offer additional services. Always make an appointment<br />

before making your call! Respect your clients’ time as you<br />

do your own.<br />

3. Offer a sample gift to enhance the use of your product.<br />

See how they are utilizing your product or service and<br />

suggest other ways that they can benefit from it. they may<br />

not be realizing its full potential.<br />

4. Offer “customer discounts” on new products or<br />

services to encourage additional business.<br />

5. When new employees are hired, offer to train them free<br />

of charge in the use of your product.<br />

6. Repay or compensate them for lost time or money<br />

caused by problems encountered with your product. If you<br />

pinch pennies, your customer may do the same.<br />

7. Be personal. Record details about your client’s life and<br />

enter these in your file. It’s so much nicer to say to someone,<br />

“How is Bob” rather than, “How’s your husband”<br />

8. Tell the truth; lies have a way of coming back to haunt<br />

you.<br />

9. Accept returns without batting an eyelash. In the<br />

long-run, they are much less expensive than finding a new<br />

customer.<br />

10. Be ethical. Keep all your information about the<br />

account confidential.<br />

11. Be certain that your company follows through on its<br />

commitment. this includes delivery, installation, packaging,<br />

and so on.<br />

12. Show your appreciation for their referrals by reporting<br />

back to them on the outcome.<br />

13. If your company has a newsletter, obtain permission<br />

from your successful clients to write about them in it.<br />

Naturally, you would send them a copy.<br />

14. Keep track of their results with your product and meet<br />

periodically to review the entire picture (their business,<br />

industry, trends, competition, etc.)<br />

15. Keep the lines of communication forever open. As in<br />

any relationship, you must be able to exchange grievances,<br />

ideas praises, losses, and victories.<br />

What all of this comes down to is that you should be<br />

willing to “go the extra mile” for your accounts. They extra<br />

effort you expend now will be repaid handsomely in the<br />

future.<br />

The bottom line in maintaining your clients is service,<br />

service and more service. Be there for your customers and<br />

they’ll want to stick with you. If you meet their needs,<br />

they’ll think twice before switching to another company,<br />

even if they’ve voiced some serious concerns. “Make new<br />

clients, but keep the old. One is silver and the other gold.”<br />

Develop the “gold” you have and the silver may take care<br />

of itself.<br />

Dr. Tony Alessandra, CSP, CPAE has authored 13 books,<br />

recorded over 50 audio and video programs, and delivered<br />

over 2,000 keynote speeches since 1976. Copyright© 1999-<br />

2001, Tony Alessandra. All rights reserved. This article<br />

has been adapted from Dr. Alessandra’s book, Charisma<br />

(Warner books, 1998. Dr. Tony Alessandra is recognized<br />

by Meetings and Conventions <strong>Magazine</strong> as... “one of<br />

America’s most electrifying speakers.” For information<br />

about Tony’s keynote presentations, please call The Frog<br />

Pond Group at 800-704-FROG (3764) or email susie@<br />

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The Greatest Leverage In Real Estate<br />

continued from page # 33<br />

3. Maintaining a client even if the transaction fails<br />

When representing a seller, if a transaction in pending<br />

fails to close, you still have a client. You can put the<br />

home back on the market, salvage the relationship, and<br />

sell the home. With the buyer, they have the option to<br />

not do business with you in the future. They can decide<br />

to use someone else to represent them on their purchase.<br />

The seller provides more security to your income should<br />

something fail to close or go smoothly.<br />

4. Gaining control of your life<br />

As a listing agent, you will be able to create a business<br />

devoid of the weekends and multiple nights that most<br />

agents must work. You can build a business that is more<br />

family friendly for your children and spouse. While you<br />

are away, you will still be creating growing activity on<br />

offers if you are a listing agent.<br />

I remember very few Monday mornings (after a nice<br />

long weekend with Joan at our vacation home) when there<br />

wasn’t a contract waiting on one of my seller’s homes. I<br />

didn’t know about it until I walked in the door on Monday<br />

morning.<br />

5. Investing less time per transaction<br />

It takes less time to represent a seller than a buyer.<br />

There will be a transaction every so often that will be the<br />

exception to that rule, but over time, the seller is clearly a<br />

lower investment of time. Because the seller uses small<br />

amounts of your time, this enables you to invest that time<br />

elsewhere to create more income.<br />

I believe that our focus as the lead agent or Chief<br />

Rainmaker, of a Champion Team isn’t to achieve a 50/50<br />

mix of buyers and sellers. The objective is to be weighted<br />

to the seller side. The only way your mix should be at<br />

50/50 is if you have two or more buyer’s agents working<br />

for you. Listing agents, ultimately, dictate the marketplace.<br />

They set the terms, conditions, and the control level of the<br />

marketplace. Your leverage benefits need to be established<br />

as a strong listing agent before you hire your first producing<br />

agent assistant like a buyer’s agent.<br />

Dirk Zeller is an <strong>Agent</strong>, an Investor, and the President<br />

& CEO of Real Estate Champions. His company trains<br />

more than 350,000 <strong>Agent</strong>s worldwide each year through<br />

live events, online training, self-study programs, and<br />

newsletters. He’s the widely published author of Your<br />

First Year in Real Estate, Success as a Real Estate<br />

<strong>Agent</strong> for Dummies®, The Champion Real Estate <strong>Agent</strong>,<br />

Telephone Sales for Dummies®, and over 300 articles<br />

in print. You can get more information by visiting www.<br />

RealEstateChampions.com. © 2008, Dirk Zeller. All rights<br />

reserved. For information contact FrogPond at 800.704.<br />

FROG(3764) or email susie@FrogPond.com; http://www.<br />

FrogPond.com<br />

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