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AUGUST, 2011 VOL. 3 NO. 8<br />
Cover Story<br />
Editorials<br />
16 - Tony Alessandra:<br />
Assuring Customer Satisfaction<br />
28 - Jon Boe:<br />
Actions Speak Louder Than<br />
Words<br />
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30 - Jeanne Gura:<br />
Sales Success With First Time<br />
Home Buyers<br />
20 - Craig Harrison:<br />
From Told To Sold!<br />
24 - Richard Weylman:<br />
What Is It That You Do<br />
32 - Dirk Zeller:<br />
The Greatest Leverage In Real<br />
Estate<br />
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Carlos & Ileana Amiel<br />
Keller Williams Realty<br />
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Shannon Hartsoe<br />
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Cover Story<br />
<strong>Gail</strong> <strong>Anderson</strong><br />
<strong>Executive</strong> <strong>Agent</strong> of the Month<br />
<strong>Executive</strong><strong>Agent</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>
GAIL<br />
ANDERSON<br />
As a real estate professional with nearly 15 years’<br />
experience in the field, <strong>Gail</strong> <strong>Anderson</strong> is wellversed<br />
in the business of buying, marketing<br />
and selling homes. Like many of her contemporaries,<br />
she is skilled at identifying the features that make<br />
each property unique. And she pays extraordinary<br />
attention to details in every aspect of the transactions<br />
she represents. But what truly distinguishes <strong>Gail</strong> is her<br />
By Lalaena Gonzalez-Figueroa - Ian Wiant Photographer<br />
passion for historical preservation and her commitment<br />
to helping others as they endeavor to maintain the<br />
significance of some of the region’s most established<br />
and distinguished properties.<br />
She didn’t intend to become a specialist in the<br />
architectural treasures of Anaheim’s historic district.<br />
<strong>Gail</strong> explains that her foray into this niche market came<br />
when she purchased her own home, a<br />
1910’s bungalow in serious need of<br />
care and refurbishment. “I began to<br />
love the home, to understand it,” she<br />
smiles. “Though it needed work, I<br />
realized that I had to honor the history<br />
of the property and the neighborhood.”<br />
It was a pivotal incident, a seed sown<br />
that would eventually blossom into a<br />
veritable garden of historical homes.<br />
<strong>Gail</strong> carefully tends to the blooms – her<br />
clients and their homes – and cherishes<br />
the unique beauty of each one.<br />
Like the houses she so treasures, <strong>Gail</strong><br />
is also a unique and complex individual<br />
with a ripe history of her own. Before<br />
she became a real estate professional<br />
she was a social worker, then a custom<br />
decorator. She went on to enjoy a<br />
thriving career as a top-producing<br />
mortgage broker. For 15 years she<br />
built her business on an acute ability to<br />
connect with others and determine their<br />
specific needs, then to work with them<br />
as they obtained their loan packages.<br />
When the industry began to suffer as a<br />
result of worldwide economic climate<br />
changes, <strong>Gail</strong> discovered that the spark<br />
that had long driven her professional<br />
success had begun to fade. “There<br />
were so many challenges, and everyone<br />
was stressed,” she recalls. “What had<br />
once been a natural fit and a really fun<br />
experience became tedious.” Wellconnected<br />
within the industry and busy<br />
with the restoration of her own home,<br />
she determined that a transition into<br />
real estate sales would allow her to<br />
continue to nurture clients as they<br />
sought to accomplish their dreams of<br />
home ownership.<br />
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Her status as one of Anaheim’s most knowledgeable and<br />
trusted resources on the preservation and sale of historic homes<br />
has earned <strong>Gail</strong> the respect of colleagues and clients alike. In<br />
addition to inspiring many of her customers to become involved<br />
with her in the Anaheim Historic Society, <strong>Gail</strong> also caught the<br />
attention of broker/owner Paul Kott, a highly successful real<br />
estate professional with a passion for his community and his<br />
profession. The two shared a mutual respect for each other, and<br />
realized that their business models and philosophies were really<br />
in sync. In 2009 <strong>Gail</strong> joined the team of professionals at Paul<br />
Kott Realtors®, Inc., spearheading and leading the brokerage’s<br />
historic homes division. “Paul is such a huge community<br />
activist and a truly amazing man,” offers <strong>Gail</strong>. “It has been a<br />
wonderful opportunity to work with him in this capacity.”<br />
Paul is equally as complimentary. “In my opinion, <strong>Gail</strong> is the<br />
foremost authority on historic homes in the City of Anaheim,”<br />
he states, adding, “She has the unique ability to blend her<br />
expertise, dynamic personality and caring heart to each client’s<br />
best advantage. Honesty, integrity and trustworthiness are the<br />
cornerstones of her personal and professional life. We couldn’t<br />
be more proud to have <strong>Gail</strong> serve the needs of our clients and<br />
customers.”<br />
<strong>Gail</strong>’s intimate knowledge of the historical homes throughout<br />
Anaheim and the surrounding community enable her to work<br />
with individuals interested in buying these treasured gems<br />
as primary residences or for investment purposes. She and<br />
her husband Eric are active investors who own a number of<br />
refurbished rental homes. This hands-on experience allows<br />
her to offer her clients sound input on the cost-to-value aspect<br />
of purchasing and restoring any home, historical or otherwise.<br />
She has been heavily involved in the Mills Act, which provides<br />
Californians with an opportunity to pay reduced property taxes<br />
on historic homes. “To date my husband and I have six Mills<br />
Act homes, and I file the paperwork for my clients, presenting<br />
them with their Mills Act plaques once our transactions have<br />
successfully closed,” she says. “The bronze plaques are<br />
beautiful reminders of each home’s unique significance to our<br />
community.”<br />
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PRESERVING THE PAST, EMBRACING THE FUTURE<br />
Her passion for historic homes is not the only focus in<br />
<strong>Gail</strong>’s real estate career. What truly drives her business<br />
is her love of helping others to achieve their objectives.<br />
“I represent clients in selling and purchasing all types<br />
of homes,” she explains. “I love building relationships<br />
with people as I learn their wants and needs, their<br />
hopes and their goals.” Her empathetic and positive<br />
nature is enhanced by a keen understanding of the<br />
elements involved in a real estate transaction. <strong>Gail</strong>,<br />
who still handles loans on request, works closely with<br />
her clients as they navigate the often intimidating<br />
process of acquiring funding for their purchases. Even<br />
more time is dedicated to building a strong working<br />
knowledge of the criteria each buyer presents. “I<br />
pay extra attention to the needs of a family,<br />
because they are laying important roots,” she<br />
says. A challenging market means nothing<br />
to this focused real estate professional. “I<br />
never give up,” laughs <strong>Gail</strong> as she reflects<br />
on past transactions. “There have been times<br />
when it took years to find the right homes for<br />
my clients, but in the end, they knew they<br />
had made the right decisions.” Her diligence<br />
has made her a natural fit for first-time<br />
buyers as well, who appreciate the breadth of<br />
knowledge she has on local communities and<br />
their distinct markets.<br />
Before Restoration<br />
After Restoration<br />
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As a listing agent, <strong>Gail</strong> excels in<br />
preparing all properties to show to their<br />
full potential. She offers staging services<br />
designed to maximize interior spaces and<br />
improve curb appeal, transforming even<br />
the simplest of structures into adorable<br />
and inviting spaces. <strong>Gail</strong> is a licensed<br />
broker who continues to pursue ongoing<br />
education and professional development<br />
through coaching, seminars, meetings,<br />
personal research and networking. Her<br />
local involvement has connected her to<br />
a wealth of resources within the region,<br />
including home repair specialists, lenders<br />
and civic leaders. A true community<br />
activist, <strong>Gail</strong> is a member of an<br />
impressive number of organizations: The<br />
Anaheim Neighborhood Association,<br />
Anaheim Beautiful, Anaheim Historic<br />
Society, and the Anaheim Chamber<br />
of Commerce are just some of the<br />
groups with which she regularly works<br />
and participates. Her residence has<br />
been featured in “American Bungalow<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>” and she proudly maintains<br />
that her garden, cultivated by Eric, is<br />
one of the most outstanding personal<br />
gardens throughout Anaheim.<br />
Dedicating an extraordinary amount<br />
of time and energy into her business,<br />
her clients and her community can be<br />
challenging, but <strong>Gail</strong> wouldn’t have<br />
it any other way. “It’s my life,” she<br />
smiles. “And I’m grateful to Eric, who<br />
is also very involved in many of these<br />
organizations.”<br />
While the beauty of some historic<br />
homes isn’t immediately visible, the<br />
work of preservationists like <strong>Gail</strong><br />
<strong>Anderson</strong> is the stuff of miracles.<br />
Consider the California poppy: what<br />
may look like a weedy plant yields a<br />
glorious bloom, fierce in its beauty and<br />
color. <strong>Gail</strong> is a cultivator of magnificent<br />
homes that, oftentimes, simply need a<br />
bit of tender care in order to blossom to<br />
their fullest.<br />
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Paul Kott Realtors®, Inc.<br />
1225 W. Lincoln Ave.<br />
Anaheim, CA 92805<br />
(714) 343-7531<br />
gailandersonshomes@gmail.com<br />
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Carlos and Ileana Amiel<br />
Teaming Up for Success<br />
By Lalaena Gonzalez-Figueroa<br />
Husband and wife team Carlos and Ileana Amiel<br />
know well the impact – positive or negative – that<br />
a real estate experience can have on a consumer.<br />
Years ago, in their own search for a first home for<br />
their family; they experienced a tremendous sense of<br />
frustration and disappointment when their agent took a<br />
less-than-empathetic approach to the transaction. “We<br />
were told, ‘This is where you can live,’” recalls Ileana. “I<br />
felt like my dream home was completely out of reach. It<br />
was heartbreaking.”<br />
her clients as they navigate the often complex process<br />
of buying or selling a home. “She has amazing people<br />
skills,” offers Carlos. “Ileana does a great job of working<br />
with our clients and helping them to accomplish their<br />
goals.”<br />
Carlos’ background was an invaluable foundation upon<br />
which to build their business. As a general contractor<br />
and the owner of a small construction company, he<br />
brought extensive experience in residential and commercial<br />
construction and remodeling. He’s also a detail-oriented<br />
individual who takes a thoughtful approach to his career.<br />
Carlos explains, “I like to get to the bottom of things. I’m<br />
constantly learning about the business and industry of real<br />
estate, and the knowledge I have gained has helped us to<br />
maintain smooth and successful transactions.”<br />
So successful, in fact, that the couple earned a coveted<br />
top-production award their first full year in business.<br />
They continue to thrive, earning consistent recognition<br />
for their status as a top-producing team. The secret: “We<br />
don’t focus on what we’re earning,” notes Ileana. “Our<br />
business is driven by our clients’ needs.” Clear and open<br />
Lana Farfan Photographer<br />
That event, as painful as it was, served as a catalyst<br />
for action. Ileana and Carlos realized that they had an<br />
opportunity to better their own lives, and the lives of<br />
others, as real estate professionals. And once they set<br />
their sights on success, no one would ever hold them back<br />
again.<br />
Early on, the couple determined that a joint business<br />
would allow them to capitalize on their respective<br />
strengths and backgrounds. A former educator, Ileana<br />
quickly discovered that she had a knack for connecting<br />
with customers and seeing the big picture. Direct in her<br />
communication, she understands how to inform and guide<br />
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communication, she adds, is the key to building trusting<br />
relationships that last. And in the end, says Ileana, she and<br />
Carlos are simply there to advocate for their clients and<br />
assist them in reaching their goals. “I tell my clients that<br />
they are the ones who will find their home,” she reveals. “It<br />
happens. When we have clearly identified what it is that<br />
they really want and need, it will come to them. It always<br />
does.”<br />
Carlos agrees. “We set our clients up for success by ensuring<br />
that we understand their expectations and establishing<br />
a system of accountability for everyone. This way, we are<br />
always working toward their short- and long-term goals.”<br />
Ileana and Carlos enjoy the opportunity to assist clients<br />
at every level of the real estate market, from first-time<br />
buyers to seasoned investors. They specialize in Orange<br />
and Los Angeles Counties, though they note that they work<br />
throughout the state per their clients’ needs. The Amiels are<br />
adept at handling equity, REO and short sale transactions.<br />
As Certified Short Sale Professionals, they work to help<br />
families avoid foreclosures and rebuild their lives. “We<br />
connect people to the right individuals,” explains Ileana.<br />
“Our network includes lending professionals who can<br />
modify loans and save homes.” Bilingual in English and<br />
Spanish, they enjoy the opportunity to help a range of<br />
individuals in pursuing their real estate-related goals.<br />
Thanks to the support and resources of Keller Williams<br />
Realty, Carlos and Ileana are able to offer their clients<br />
an exceptional level of customer care. From world-class<br />
systems to the latest in technological tools and developments,<br />
the internationally-renowned brokerage is committed to<br />
meeting the needs of a constantly-changing real estate<br />
market, and to providing agents with the educational<br />
opportunities necessary to maintain a competitive edge for<br />
their clientele.<br />
Carlos and Ileana are proud parents to two children,<br />
Carlos Jr. and Brenda. “We teach our children to live based<br />
on a principle of, ‘don’t let anyone tell you either what<br />
you can and can not accomplish nor to tell you how high<br />
you can go in life,’” says Carlos. “Make your own goals<br />
and standards, and work consistently and diligently toward<br />
those goals. The worst that can happen is that you may<br />
fall short but you will still be much higher and satisfied<br />
knowing you pursued what you wanted and dreamed of<br />
achieving, rather than simply thinking about it.”<br />
Though they have created their own path to the home of<br />
their dreams, Ileana and Carlos will never forget their first<br />
home buying experience. Staying connected to the past<br />
allows them to help create better futures for their clients,<br />
explains Carlos. “We will never tell a client, ‘This is the<br />
best you can do,’” he asserts. “Instead, we look at each<br />
transaction as part of a process. Maybe the first house is a<br />
stepping stone; that doesn’t mean that the road stops there.<br />
Ultimately, we are dedicated to helping our clients achieve<br />
their own dreams.”<br />
Carlos and Ileana Amiel<br />
The Amiel Team<br />
Carlos: 562-972-0484<br />
Ileana: 562-972-6783<br />
carlosamiel1@gmail.com<br />
ileanasells@gmail.com<br />
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Assuring Customer Satisfaction<br />
By Dr. Tony Alessandra<br />
The attitude of the professional is summed up in<br />
this statement. It establishes the customer as the<br />
person to whom you are responsible. Customers<br />
support you; therefore, they deserve VIP treatment.<br />
When your customers are happy, you are happy. When<br />
they complain, you are unhappy, but you examine the<br />
complaint calmly and see it as an opportunity to learn<br />
as well as satisfy their needs. The quote echoes the fear<br />
that customers will not vocalize their dissatisfaction, but<br />
instead take their business elsewhere.<br />
There’s another quote that’s even more important to<br />
salespeople and companies immediately upon making<br />
a sale--”The Sale Begins When the Customer Says...<br />
Yes.” In the old days, It used to be, “The Sale Begins<br />
the complaint is reasonable or exaggerated. If it is<br />
exaggerated, try to resolve the problem by pointing out<br />
benefits and features that compensate. Put the negative<br />
detail in a different perspective for your client so that it<br />
becomes one small part of the total picture.<br />
Many sales involve the installation of a new system<br />
or piece of equipment, and the buyer or their employees<br />
must be trained to use it. their successful use of the<br />
equipment depends upon the effectiveness of the<br />
training, and it is imperative that the salesperson follow<br />
through after the training period to make sure the<br />
client uses the purchase properly. It is not uncommon<br />
for people to forget 75 percent of what they hear after<br />
two days. This can cause “user error”, which will<br />
“Those who enter to buy, support me. Those who come to flatter, please me. Those<br />
who complain, teach me how I may please others so that more will come. Only<br />
those who hurt me are displeased but do not complain. They refuse me permission<br />
to correct my errors and thus improve my service.” -- Marshall Field.<br />
When the Customer Says...NO,” but that’s a totally<br />
Inappropriate attitude to embrace In today’s customerdriven<br />
business environment.<br />
Keeping Your Customers Happy<br />
Since your first concern is customer satisfaction you<br />
should be aware of some emotional stumbling blocks in<br />
your path: selective perception, user error and buyer’s<br />
remorse.<br />
Selective perception is the process in which a person<br />
sees only selected details from the entire picture. This<br />
attention to detail is sometimes petty. For example, a<br />
customer may have a new copying machine that works<br />
like a charm, but he is irritated by the sound of the<br />
motor. He focuses only on what is wrong rather than<br />
what is right.<br />
This occurs because buyers expect their purchases<br />
to be perfect. Regardless of the purchase price, they<br />
figure that for what they spent, they deserve perfection.<br />
When you encounter someone who practices selective<br />
perception, evaluate the situation to determine if<br />
significantly affect the outcome of your test and may<br />
prevent your client from reaching his success criteria.<br />
Often a client will be unhappy about a purchase and not<br />
realize that it is due to improper operation. The more<br />
complex something is, the more training it requires<br />
to use it properly. In the interest of implementing<br />
the product quickly, users may settle for incomplete<br />
training or become sloppy in their application of good<br />
training. In any case, look for user error whenever a<br />
success criterion is not reached.<br />
“Buyer’s remorse” refers to the regret that a buyer<br />
feels after making a purchase. It could be caused by<br />
selective perception, user error, or the client’s error.<br />
Whatever the reason, the full benefits of the product<br />
are not realized. Buyer’s remorse can also be caused<br />
by the economics of the purchase: until the benefits<br />
prove themselves to be cost-effective, a buyer regrets<br />
having made the purchase. It is the responsibility of<br />
the salesperson to assuage these fears by assuring the<br />
client that his investment is wise and sound. Reiterate<br />
some of the selling points that convinced him to buy it<br />
originally, present data, and put him at ease.<br />
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Handling Customer Complaints<br />
Whether your customer’s complaint is legitimate or<br />
not, follow it up with a service call. Whenever possible,<br />
do it personally instead of sending someone from the<br />
customer service department. It provides the personal<br />
service that your customer appreciates and it may<br />
obviate the need for a technician or serviceman to call.<br />
As an alternative, both of you can go together to handle<br />
customer complaints.<br />
Keep the following guidelines in mind:<br />
1. Don’t procrastinate making the call. Often the<br />
problem is not as serious as it sounds. Some customers<br />
“read the riot act” when they call about a complaint. A<br />
delay in responding will only irritate your client more.<br />
2. Admit mistakes and apologize. Just because you<br />
made the sale does not mean you can become defensive<br />
about your company, product or service. Even the most<br />
reputable companies make mistakes and have problems<br />
with their products. You may want to restate the<br />
customer’s complaint to show that you are listening and<br />
have an understanding of the problem.<br />
3. Show compassion for your customer. Whether the<br />
complaint proves to be true or false, show your customer<br />
that you are concerned and will investigate the problem<br />
immediately. Help the customer calm down by saying “I<br />
can understand why you feel they way you do.”<br />
4. Actively listen to your customer’s complaint.<br />
Talking will make him feel less anxious about it. Let<br />
your customer “vent” his feelings before you react to the<br />
situation. Be sympathetic and encourage the customer to<br />
“blow up.” Afterward, he’ll feel better; this means he’ll<br />
be in a better frame of mind.<br />
5. Don’t pass the buck to your company or someone<br />
else within it. This may take the blame off you, but<br />
it undermines the integrity and organization of the<br />
company, and your customer will lose confidence in<br />
your firm.<br />
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E A<br />
FROM TOLD TO SOLD!<br />
Leverage Your Stories To Resonate With Prospects and Customers<br />
By Craig Harrison<br />
Have you ever heard a story that could have been<br />
about you Ever heard a story that reminded you<br />
of another one What about a story that sounded<br />
vaguely familiar Welcome to the power of story.<br />
Unlike facts and figures, that often leave us cold,<br />
stories connect! And they connect deeply, often stirring<br />
us emotionally at a heart level. That’s what makes them<br />
memorable, and powerful as a sales tool.<br />
The Prevalence of Stories<br />
We’re wired for stories! And since birth we’ve<br />
been conditioned to respond to stories. It’s how we<br />
learned about our family and environment, culture and<br />
country, our religion, strangers and the world at large.<br />
We remember stories, and we tell ours and others,<br />
repeatedly. And stories aren’t just transmitted orally.<br />
They are fed us in and out of school, through books,<br />
you tell a story that echoes an archetypal theme your<br />
listener nods in agreement on multiple levels. Think<br />
about the stories you tell as you sell. Do they mimic<br />
traditional themes that represent the human experience<br />
For your stories to connect, I recommend they allude to<br />
one of various familiar archetypal themes:<br />
- The hero’s journey<br />
- Coming of age<br />
- The acquiring of wisdom<br />
- Pacts with the devil / fooling the devil<br />
- Tricking the tricksters<br />
Using The Archetypal Advantage to Connect with<br />
Customers<br />
Consider some of these story genres and motifs for<br />
your use in selling products, services, and loyalty to<br />
brand affiliations and organizations.<br />
Cautionary tales are stories that warn of danger<br />
or harm that awaits you if you do or don’t<br />
follow a particular course of action.<br />
radio, newspapers, opera, television and even through<br />
the Internet.<br />
Stories in Sales: Story Tell, Story Sell<br />
I’ve written before about the use of short success stories<br />
to help you sell. I prefer a three-part story, utilizing a<br />
Setting-Situation-Solution format. Using this format, you<br />
soft sell a listener on what you did for past clients, what<br />
you did on past projects, or the difference a product or<br />
service of yours made in solving a problem, overcoming<br />
a challenge or generating a favorable outcome.<br />
The Power of Archetypal Stories<br />
Your stories can work on both conscious and unconscious<br />
levels with prospects and clients. When<br />
Cautionary Tales<br />
Cautionary tales are stories that warn of danger<br />
or harm that awaits you if you do or don’t follow a<br />
particular course of action. Think of the boy who cries<br />
wolf one too many times and was no longer trusted.<br />
Or the story of the three little pigs. These tales are<br />
great for selling products and services. Perhaps you<br />
tell your story about the client who didn’t back up, buy<br />
insurance or create redundant systems.<br />
The Achilles Heel<br />
From Greek mythology we know the tale of Achilles,<br />
the great warrior with a fatal flaw. If your story involves<br />
a competitor’s product and its fatal flaw, we’ll nod<br />
knowingly in light of Achilles’ fate.<br />
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The Hero’s Journey<br />
The late Joseph Campbell devoted his life to studying<br />
hero tales from around the world. We can all relate to<br />
an irrepressible hero on a noble quest. The struggles to<br />
overcome, obstacles to negotiate, and sacrifices endured<br />
on the way to ultimate success. When your story echoes<br />
this arc your listener can become the hero or heroine, or<br />
is otherwise rooting for them. That’s the power of story.<br />
Creation Stories<br />
Stories that explain how the world was created, or why<br />
the universe, world or life came to be the way they are.<br />
Found in many cultures around the world, these stories<br />
frame the world we live in, explaining its origins. Your<br />
creation story may explain the lineage of a device, an<br />
industry or your company.<br />
Pourquoi Stories<br />
These stories tell you why and how things are. They<br />
are great for teaching purposes. Stories such as “how the<br />
leopard got its stripes” explain a natural phenomenon or<br />
a reality we all accept. You can tell these why storiesto<br />
explain the advent of trends, policies, research and<br />
migration paths for products and services.<br />
Cinderella Stories<br />
That elusive match, the magical shoe that fits just one<br />
foot; the chase, search or quest that ends in a match.<br />
An unjust oppression that is transcended. The conquest<br />
of love. These are universal sentiments you can tap in<br />
your sales story. Your love story can meld two devices,<br />
technologies, cultures or even ingredients.<br />
From Told to Sold<br />
As you can see, there are countless themes that echo<br />
the human experience. And they work across cultures and<br />
borders. Many of these same themes and motifs are present<br />
in Asian, European, African, Native American and other<br />
cultures. When your story is built atop a familiar theme it’s<br />
that much more believable, tangible and powerful. Sell it<br />
through stories and you’ll live happily ever after!<br />
Craig Harrison is an instructor with the University of<br />
California at Santa Cruz Extension’s Business department,<br />
has been profiled in The Wall Street Journal and cited in<br />
Business Week. As a manager, consultant, publisher and<br />
curriculum developer, he developed his digital dexterity,<br />
helping the technical world train and communicate more<br />
effectively. © 2008, Craig Harrison. All rights reserved. For<br />
information contact FrogPond at 800.704.FROG(3764) or<br />
email susie@FrogPond.com; http://www.FrogPond.com.<br />
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E A<br />
What Is It That You Do<br />
By Richard Weylman<br />
One great frustration in the prospecting process<br />
is becoming comfortable with letting people<br />
you meet know what you do for a living. Over<br />
the years, as I’ve spoken at company and industry<br />
events, many financial services professionals have<br />
expressed their confusion and concern about how to<br />
approach people and what to say to them. Some feel<br />
they shouldn’t bring it up until they’re asked; others<br />
feel that if they bring it up, they will be seen as pushy.<br />
The apparent reason for this ongoing debate is a lack of<br />
rapport-building skills and self-confidence about your<br />
chosen occupation and its value to others.<br />
Use these strategies to gain the confidence and skills<br />
to let the people you meet in a business or social setting<br />
know what you do for a living:<br />
1. Make a list of all the reasons why financial<br />
planning is so important. The purpose of this list is to<br />
get you focused on the benefits and to give you some<br />
internal motivation.<br />
2. Ask the centers of influence (the presidents,<br />
executive directors, clients, etc.) in the markets that you<br />
have chosen to suggest how you could best approach<br />
individuals about what you do for a living. Ask for<br />
specific direction here, even down to the phrases that<br />
they would use.<br />
3. Schedule some time with your manager and ask<br />
him to tell you specifically the words he uses to tell<br />
others what he does for a living. Be sure your manager<br />
gives you the specific words that he uses. Write those<br />
words down so you can adapt them to your own use.<br />
4. Role-play with your manager and colleagues so<br />
that you hone and sharpen your skill at bringing up<br />
what you do in a non-threatening way. It’s important<br />
to create an environment as close as possible to a real<br />
situation. Perhaps you could sit down at the conference<br />
room table and have four or five of your colleagues sit<br />
with you as if you were having a meal at a function<br />
that your target market is putting on. Turn to the person<br />
on your left and the person on your right and simply<br />
say, “I’ve certainly enjoyed talking with you again.<br />
We’ve seen each other over the last several months at<br />
these meetings, and I would be delighted to have an<br />
opportunity to get together with you sometime during<br />
the next month and hear more about your business<br />
and to tell you more about some of the things that I’m<br />
doing to help people in the industry achieve financial<br />
well-being.” Then ask for the appointment, “Is there a<br />
particular day of the month that would work for you”<br />
Then quietly listen to what the individual has to say. In<br />
most cases, they’ll respond favorably. As you role-play<br />
this, have your day planner ready just as you would at<br />
the function. Use your day planner as you would in real<br />
life so you actually practice the process.<br />
5. Work on your rapport-building skills. Often you<br />
find yourself in a situation where you’re not sitting<br />
next to someone at a meeting and, therefore, you don’t<br />
have the ability to establish a sense of elationship over<br />
a meal or during the meeting. Many times you may<br />
be standing in a crowd at the hors d’oeuvre table or<br />
the registration desk where you’re unsure of how to<br />
proceed. George Walther, a good friend of mine and<br />
the author of Phone Power says, “Stand shoulder to<br />
shoulder with someone as you watch an event or before<br />
a meeting begins. Lean in and make a comment on the<br />
program or ask a question about the other individual,<br />
then introduce yourself.” Undoubtedly, one of the best<br />
ways to mingle and to establish rapport is to ask a<br />
question and make a positive comment. This interaction<br />
almost always leads to introductions which present you<br />
with a golden opportunity to not only tell people what<br />
you do, but to make it interesting.<br />
As you develop the words that you will use and the<br />
way that you will approach prospects, keep in mind<br />
these three things:<br />
1. Let prospects know your intent while making it<br />
clear you enjoy working with people like them. It’s not<br />
necessary to blatantly say, “I’m here to sell you.” But<br />
do let them know you’re a resource.<br />
2. Avoid being coy and thereby harming trust and<br />
credibility. Be forthright and forthcoming so that you<br />
avoid getting the reputation that you are simply using<br />
the group.<br />
3. Let them know you’re there because you have an<br />
affinity to the organization and that they are the type<br />
of people you choose to do business with and wish to<br />
serve. By having a well-though-out brief commercial<br />
about what you do and how it will help the prospect,<br />
any skepticism about your intent will be overcome by<br />
your professionalism.<br />
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E A<br />
C. Richard Weylman is an expert in marketing, selling<br />
and communicating to affluent and high net worth people.<br />
He is the author of “Opening Closed Doors, Keys To<br />
Reaching Hard-to-Reach People,” as well as numerous<br />
sales, relationship and marketing and management audio<br />
and video education programs. To discover the many<br />
resources he has to offer you and your organization,<br />
including his speaking topics, free weekly marketing<br />
tips (emailed to you), free articles and much more, go<br />
to www.richardweylman.com or call 1-800-535-4332 to<br />
schedule Richard to speak at your next event.<br />
CopyrightC 2002, Richard Weylman. All right<br />
reserved. Richard Weylman, CSP, serves as President<br />
of The Achievement Group, Inc., an Florida-based<br />
consulting firm dedicated to professionally and ethically<br />
help people move to the next level o f productivity and<br />
fulfillment. He is the author of “Opening Closed Doors,<br />
Keys to Reaching Hard-to-Reach People” and numerous<br />
other sales, relationship marketing and management<br />
audio and video programs. To receive more ideas and<br />
insight on how to market to high net worth people,<br />
recruit quality people, or practice management issues,<br />
schedule Richard to speak at your next meeting, contact<br />
the FrogPond at 800.704.FROG(3764) or email susie@<br />
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EXECUTIVEAGEN TM<br />
MAGAZINE<br />
TEAM GRAHAM<br />
By Lalaena Gonzalez-Figueroa<br />
Tom Slyman and Derek Graham<br />
P<br />
roactive entrepreneurs with long-term careers<br />
in the title industry, Derek Graham and Tom<br />
Slyman have proven their mettle during a highly<br />
challenging market cycle. The duo’s adaptability and<br />
commitment to meeting their clients’ needs has led<br />
them to Advantage Title, a company that is making<br />
strides within Southern California’s real estate industry.<br />
Unified as Team Graham, Derek and Tom offer<br />
their agent partners a consistently exceptional level of<br />
customer service.<br />
Derek notes that while teams don’t typically enjoy<br />
longevity within the title industry, he and Tom have<br />
developed a system that works. “Finding partnerships<br />
where both parties share a common philosophy and<br />
business model can be a challenge,” he acknowledges.<br />
“But Tom and I were friends and colleagues for over ten<br />
years. Not only do we know how to do good business,<br />
but we also collaborate so that we can capitalize on our<br />
individual strengths and skills. Together we offer a<br />
really comprehensive experience for our clientele.”<br />
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We Are Your<br />
High Tech-High Touch<br />
Title Team<br />
Managing a thriving client base can be challenging for<br />
a solo title representative. As a team, Derek and Tom<br />
facilitate smooth services while maintaining open lines<br />
of communication with their customers. They act as<br />
extended teammates with their real estate partners, who<br />
appreciate the ability to rely on the duo’s promise of<br />
quality. Says Tom, “When agents work with our team,<br />
they know that we’ll take care of our end of the business.<br />
We handle the title process, addressing any issues or<br />
potential problems before they become impediments to a<br />
successful closing, so that they can focus on building their<br />
businesses.”<br />
Derek says that Advantage Title’s systematic approach<br />
and technological focus is a driving factor in the team’s<br />
success. “Our business, which includes the operational<br />
staff within our company, runs incredibly smoothly,”<br />
he observes. “It’s like a set of gears; each element of<br />
the process is connected and coordinated for maximum<br />
efficiency.” The company is establishing itself as a<br />
technological leader, utilizing innovative software and<br />
tools to accomplish an unparalleled title experience.<br />
“Advantage Title gives its clients a distinctive edge with<br />
its amazing technology and tools,” asserts Derek. “When<br />
I was offered the opportunity to build my business with<br />
a company that maximizes the use of technology while<br />
maintaining a focus on the personal aspect of the industry,<br />
I knew I needed to be a part of it.”<br />
Perhaps what’s most notable in Advantage Title’s<br />
technological arsenal is the way that tools are used. While<br />
so many title companies continue to adhere to systems<br />
that require person-to-person contact, Advantage Title’s<br />
systems allow real estate professionals and other clients<br />
to independently access pertinent information through<br />
its website or via wireless devices including iPhones and<br />
iPads. “We actually have apps that push detailed property<br />
information to our clients on the fly,” explains Derek.<br />
“It’s groundbreaking.”<br />
Also notable is the option for agents to access detailed<br />
good faith estimates online, with guaranteed fees included.<br />
“With the ongoing changes that have impacted the lending<br />
industry, settlement service fees can vary drastically<br />
throughout the course of a transaction,” explains Derek.<br />
“Advantage Title gives our clients the confidence of<br />
providing accurate information to their customers. The<br />
system is designed as a nationwide title solution, working<br />
for every county of every state throughout the nation.”<br />
Advantage Title is also implementing technology that<br />
recaptures future business. Derek notes that this technology<br />
will, in turn, help create stronger bonds between the Real<br />
Estate <strong>Agent</strong>, Commercial Broker, REO Asset Managers,<br />
Mortgage Professional, Real Estate Attorneys and the<br />
Consumer. All of this, helping the Real Estate Industry<br />
recovery.<br />
Transparency is a given with Advantage Title, where<br />
clients are kept in the loop throughout the course of any<br />
transaction. “Our automated system maintains ongoing<br />
communication as each task is completed,” says Derek.<br />
“This drastically reduces time spent on non-urgent matters<br />
and issues.” He explains, “We utilize technology as a<br />
portal between our team, our company and our clients.<br />
Tom and I are always available to speak with our clients<br />
and meet their ongoing needs.”<br />
Supporting their efforts is an accomplished group of<br />
professionals with ample industry experience. “Our<br />
company is newer to the market, but our staff is established,”<br />
Derek states. “Many of our title specialists were working<br />
together for ten to twenty years before they joined our<br />
office. There’s a great sense of synergy and we were able<br />
to hit the ground running.”<br />
Derek and Tom are enthusiastic about the opportunities<br />
that Advantage Title provides to them, their clients and<br />
consumers. “We continue to learn, grow and adapt,” says<br />
Derek. “Tom and I are fortunate to be in a position to add<br />
significant value to our clients’ businesses, and we look<br />
forward to continued success.”<br />
Team Graham<br />
Derek Graham & Tom Slyman<br />
ADVANTAGE TITLE365<br />
19500 Jamboree Road, 2nd Floor<br />
Irvine, CA 92612<br />
Derek: 949-584-2570<br />
Tom: 714-585-9333<br />
TeamGraham@Title365.com<br />
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S<br />
urprisingly, opinion polls revealed a sharp contrast<br />
between the voters who had actually watched<br />
the debates on TV versus those who had merely<br />
listened to them on the radio. While radio listeners<br />
clearly thought that Nixon had won the first debate,<br />
television viewers were captivated by Kennedy’s smile,<br />
charm and athletic appearance.<br />
The majority of viewers interviewed reported that<br />
Nixon’s five-o’clock shadow and darting eyes made him<br />
appear sinister and far less presidential than Senator<br />
Kennedy. The television cameras underscored the<br />
significance of nonverbal communication and forever<br />
changed the political landscape.<br />
Are You Missing Your Prospect’s “Buy Signals”<br />
Think about the tremendous advantage you would have<br />
as a baseball manager if you knew the opposing team’s<br />
signals and were able to anticipate their game plan. For<br />
example, suppose you knew in advance that the other<br />
team was planning to steal second base. Obviously, your<br />
team would have a competitive edge because you would<br />
be able to adjust your strategy as necessary. Likewise,<br />
as a professional salesperson, you would be wise to<br />
monitor your prospect’s body language and adjust your<br />
presentation accordingly. By reading your prospect’s<br />
gestures you will minimize perceived sales pressure and<br />
know when it’s appropriate to close the sale.<br />
In 1872, Charles Darwin published the book “The<br />
expressions in Man and Animals” and launched the<br />
modern study of nonverbal communication. Essentially,<br />
body language is a mixture of movement, posture and<br />
tone of voice. The good news about this subject is<br />
that your subconscious mind already understands the<br />
meaning of every gesture, posture and voice inflection.<br />
The bad news is, without the proper training you are<br />
unable to consciously apply this information during your<br />
client appointments.<br />
E A<br />
Actions Speak Louder<br />
Than Words<br />
By Jon Boe<br />
language, it’s important to be mindful of your own<br />
gestures and keep them positive. Remember to unfold<br />
your arms, uncross your legs, nod your head in agreement<br />
and smile frequently.<br />
The study of nonverbal communication is similar to<br />
learning a foreign language in that it requires time and<br />
effort to achieve fluency. Acquiring this important skill<br />
will allow you to communicate more effectively, read<br />
your prospect like a book and close more sales in less<br />
time.<br />
Build Trust and Rapport<br />
Matching and mirroring your prospect’s body<br />
language gestures is unconscious mimicry. It is a way<br />
of subconsciously telling another that you like them<br />
and agree with them. The next time you are at a social<br />
event, notice how many people are subconsciously<br />
matching one another. Likewise, when people disagree<br />
they subconsciously mismatch their body language<br />
gestures. The psychological principle behind matching<br />
and mirroring is that people want to do business with<br />
salespeople that they believe are similar to them.<br />
You can build trust and rapport by deliberately, but<br />
subtly, matching your prospect’s body language in the<br />
first fifteen minutes of the appointment. For example,<br />
if you notice that your prospect is crossing their arms,<br />
subtly cross your arms to match them. After you believe<br />
you have developed trust and rapport, verify it by seeing<br />
if your prospect will match you. Uncross your arms<br />
and see if your prospect will match and mirror you as<br />
you move into a more open posture. If you notice your<br />
prospect subconsciously matching your body language<br />
gestures, congratulations, this indicates that you have<br />
developed trust and rapport. Conversely, if you notice<br />
your prospect mismatching your body language gestures,<br />
you know trust and rapport has not been established and<br />
you need to continue matching and mirroring them.<br />
Top salespeople and the most successful managers<br />
recognize the importance of nonverbal communication<br />
in the selling process and have learned to “listen with<br />
their eyes.” They understand that one of the easiest and<br />
most effective ways to close sales is to be aware of their<br />
prospect’s “buy signals.”<br />
In addition to monitoring your prospect’s body<br />
Body Language Quiz<br />
If you’re a manager, consider using this quiz at<br />
your next training meeting to assess your sales team’s<br />
current level of expertise. When sitting in on a sales<br />
appointment with your sales rep, be sure to incorporate<br />
nonverbal communications feedback in your critique.<br />
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While you may not be called upon to participate in a presidential<br />
debate or manage a baseball team, you need to be able to recognize<br />
your prospect’s “buy signals.”<br />
Do you have a working knowledge of body language<br />
See how many of the eight questions you can answer.<br />
1. What emotion is associated with the “palm to chest”<br />
gesture<br />
A. Superiority<br />
B. Critical judgment<br />
C. Sincerity<br />
D. Confidence<br />
2. What is the meaning of the “thumb under the chin”<br />
gesture<br />
A. Deceit<br />
B. Boredom<br />
C. Anxiety<br />
D. Critical judgment<br />
3. What nonverbal message is conveyed with the “chin<br />
rub” gesture<br />
A. Decision<br />
B. Deceit<br />
C. Control<br />
D. None of the above<br />
4. What does it mean when a person rubs his or her nose<br />
A. Superiority<br />
B. Anticipation<br />
C. Dislike<br />
D. Anger<br />
5. What message is conveyed when a person touches his<br />
or her eyeglasses to their lips<br />
A. Interest<br />
B. Stalling<br />
C. Disbelief<br />
D. Impatience<br />
6. When a person looks over the top of his or her<br />
eyeglasses, what message are they sending<br />
A. Contempt<br />
B. Distrust<br />
C. Scrutiny<br />
D. Suspicion<br />
7. What is the impact of nonverbal communication in a<br />
face-to-face conversation<br />
A. 20%<br />
B. 40%<br />
C. 70%<br />
D. 85%<br />
8. Which of the following gestures is/are associated with<br />
lying<br />
A. Talking through fingers<br />
B. Eye rub<br />
C. Ear rub<br />
D. Lack of direct eye contact<br />
E. All of the above<br />
Quiz Answer Key<br />
1. (C) The palm to chest gesture indicates sincerity.<br />
2. (D) The thumb under the chin gesture indicates critical<br />
judgment and a negative attitude. A good way to get your<br />
prospect to drop this gesture is to hand them something.<br />
3. (A) The chin rub gesture indicates decision. When you<br />
see this gesture, avoid the temptation to interrupt. If the<br />
gestures that follow chin stoking are positive, ask for the<br />
order.<br />
4. (C) When someone rubs his or her nose it’s an<br />
indication that they don’t like the subject. When you see<br />
this gesture you would be wise to probe with open-ended<br />
questions to draw out your customer’s concern.<br />
5. (B) When someone touches his or her eyeglasses<br />
to their lips it signals that they’re stalling or delaying a<br />
decision. If they put their glasses back on, it’s a buy signal.<br />
If they put them away, you have more work to do.<br />
6. (C) When a person looks over his or her eyeglasses it<br />
indicates judgment and scrutiny.<br />
7. (C) Research indicates over 70 percent of our<br />
communication is achieved nonverbally. In addition,<br />
studies show that nonverbal communication has a much<br />
greater reliability than the spoken word. Therefore, you<br />
would be wise to rely on body language as a more accurate<br />
reflection of a person’s true feelings.<br />
8. (E) All of the above. The statue of the Three Wise<br />
Monkeys accurately depicts the three primary hand-to-face<br />
gestures associated with deceit. See no evil, hear no evil<br />
and speak no evil.<br />
While you may not be called upon to participate in a<br />
presidential debate or manage a baseball team, you need to be<br />
able to recognize your prospect’s “buy signals.” By gaining<br />
a working understanding of nonverbal communication, you<br />
will be able to reduce sales pressure, build rapport quickly<br />
and dramatically increase your sales effectiveness!<br />
John Boe presents a wide variety of motivational<br />
and sales-oriented keynote/breakout session/seminar<br />
programs for sales meetings and conventions. When you<br />
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Sales Success With First<br />
Time Homebuyers<br />
By Jeanne Gura<br />
Just a few years ago, Jackie Simon left a career as a<br />
housing authority employee and turned to real estate.<br />
Now a Realtor® with Avery-Hess, Realtors® of<br />
Rockville, MD, she averages $10-17 million in sales<br />
each year by specializing in the first time homebuyer<br />
market. What’s even more amazing is that her average<br />
home price is $69,000. Simple math will tell you that<br />
Jackie is closing lots of sales.<br />
Hugh Rowden, now an Assistant<br />
Vice President at First Union Mortgage<br />
Corporation in Atlanta, also specializes in<br />
first-time homebuyers, as a loan officer.<br />
Hugh is a member of the President’s Club<br />
and last year was 10th in the company for<br />
the number of units closed.<br />
recommends that you determine where your target<br />
audience lives, works and relaxes, and that you saturate<br />
those areas with your message, “Think like a first time<br />
homebuyer, where would you go for information on how<br />
to purchase a home”<br />
“Product knowledge is key,” says Hugh “There’s<br />
more to life than FHA, VA and Conventional, you<br />
have to seek out the other outside programs that can<br />
How do they do it For starters, they<br />
make a point of knowing and reaching their<br />
audiences, and are both active in trying<br />
to connect with homebuyers early in the<br />
process. Both Jackie and Hugh participate<br />
in homebuyer seminars led by local housing<br />
and credit counseling agencies, downpayment<br />
assistance programs and churches.<br />
Both stay in contact with other professionals<br />
who are likely to refer potential clients, such<br />
as housing authorities and builders who<br />
are building for the first time homebuyer<br />
market. Jackie and Hugh both donate<br />
volunteer time to help these agencies, and<br />
are rewarded with personal referrals, as both<br />
have built great levels of trust among the<br />
staff and clients.<br />
“Remember when you’re volunteering<br />
with these agencies you have to really give.<br />
You can’t always be pushing your business<br />
or your product, people see through that<br />
in a minute,” advises Jackie. Jackie<br />
has also worked with large employers in<br />
the Maryland area to convince them that<br />
providing a downpayment assistance or<br />
closing costs as an employee benefit will<br />
help them with employee retention. Hugh<br />
Product<br />
knowledge is key<br />
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combine with different loan products.” “I’ve had agents<br />
tell me proudly that they’ve never done a FHA or VA<br />
loan, they don’t know what a big part of the market<br />
they’re missing,” says Jackie, “and they don’t bother to<br />
learn about down-payment assistance programs, closing<br />
cost programs, or employer sponsored Homebuying<br />
programs. You want to have lots of tools in your kit<br />
and then be able to use the right one for the situation,<br />
otherwise you’re using a hammer in place of a wrench.”<br />
Helping the first time homebuyer avoid costly mistakes<br />
is another area that both excel at. Jackie insists that<br />
her clients have the home inspected by a professional<br />
inspector, whether or not the loan requires it. She also<br />
strongly recommends home warranties. “I’ve never<br />
had a seller object to providing one for the first year of<br />
ownership, and I advise the client to purchase it each<br />
year after the first.” That way, her clients will only have<br />
to come up with $100 in the event of major repairs. One<br />
client wound up having a virtually “new” home during<br />
the ten-year period they owned the home, for the cost of<br />
$3500 in warranty expenses and $100 per system.<br />
They wound up having the plumbing, wiring, furnace,<br />
hot water heater and several items re-done, all for less<br />
than just one or two repairs would have cost them. When<br />
you save people that kind of money they remember you!”<br />
Both now receive almost all of their business by<br />
referral. Neither did it by design but as their reputation<br />
spread, both began receiving referrals from past clients.<br />
“Usually when someone you’re working with is in the<br />
process of buying a home, they have friends at the office<br />
and family members who are watching them go through<br />
the process and thinking about doing it themselves,” says<br />
Hugh. “When you do a great job, they’re going to give<br />
your name and number to their friends when they ask how<br />
they did it.”<br />
Jackie concurs, “When you help someone achieve a goal<br />
that is important to them, they are fiercely loyal, it’s good<br />
for you and good for your business.”<br />
Jeanne Goldie Gura is a consultant helping lenders,<br />
agents, developers, Internet businesses and government<br />
agencies tap the first-time homebuyer market. She was<br />
a featured speaker on public and private homeownership<br />
partnerships at the White House Conference on<br />
Empowerment Zones in 1999 and served as the former<br />
director of the Atlanta Center for Homeownership.<br />
She has won several national awards for her work<br />
in homeownership. For information about Jeanne’s<br />
presentations, please contact the Frog Pond Group at<br />
800-704-FROG (3764) or email Susie@frogpondgroup.<br />
com; http://www.frogpondgroup.com.<br />
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The Greatest Leverage In Real Estate<br />
By Dirk Zeller<br />
Being a Champion Listing <strong>Agent</strong> spawns opportunity<br />
that carries new risk and high rewards. As a Champion<br />
Listing <strong>Agent</strong>, you will enjoy these benefits:<br />
1. Gaining leverage by employing numerous people<br />
to work for you at no cost<br />
How many licensed agents are in your board of<br />
Realtors® That will be the number of people you<br />
will employ to sell your inventory each day. The best<br />
part is that all of these people working for you cost<br />
you nothing! There are no wages, withholdings, taxes,<br />
insurance, workman’s compensation, or equipment<br />
changes (telephone, desks, and office supplies). There<br />
are no expenses of any kind. Now, I know that many<br />
of you are saying, my company covers all that with my<br />
buyer’s agents who work for me. That may be true,<br />
but you still have to manage these people and deal with<br />
personal problems, mistakes, low motivation at times,<br />
and interpersonal office politics. All of those still need<br />
to be controlled and managed with leadership exerted<br />
to produce a result.<br />
There is a growing belief that creating a large team<br />
of producing agents under you creates the best<br />
leverage in the business. There are more agents<br />
today trying to create leverage through people than ever<br />
before. While I agree this approach is valid, you must<br />
ask yourself, if now is the right time for you make that<br />
play. Are you personally ready to build and use that<br />
time Most importantly, have you used the easiest and<br />
greatest form of leverage in real estate before you start<br />
exploring people leverage<br />
The greatest, easiest, and most profitable leverage<br />
in real estate sales is becoming a listing agent. Too<br />
many of us are not using this leverage to establish<br />
the foundation of our success. We are getting drawn<br />
into the more-people-bigger-team mentality before we<br />
dominate as listing agents. Once you have the skills<br />
and production of a Champion Listing <strong>Agent</strong>, you can<br />
then build a team more easily with producing agents.<br />
If you focus on being a great listing agent first, you<br />
don’t’ have to manage and lead any of these agent<br />
co-ops out selling your property until they actually<br />
write a contract to present. You employ all of these<br />
co-op agents for little time investment, no cost, and no<br />
risk. With producing agents on your team, you take a<br />
risk in terms of your leads and how they convert them.<br />
You invest large amounts of your time to train, coach,<br />
and direct them to success. Champion Listing <strong>Agent</strong>s<br />
eliminate the risk and receive the reward.<br />
I want to stress, again, I am not anti-team or antibuyer’s<br />
agent. I do, however, believe we, in our<br />
excitement to achieve a Champion Team real estate<br />
practice, take higher risk and lower net reward avenues<br />
because we heard an “expert” claim success, or because<br />
we really didn’t evaluate the return on investment or<br />
evaluate the risk/reward equation.<br />
2. Generating multiple streams of income<br />
The residual value of a listing, in terms of additional<br />
business creation, brand recognition growth, market<br />
share, and market presence, develops leverage. By<br />
taking a listing, you are, in effect, creating a storefront<br />
from which to sell your services. A listing creates sign<br />
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The greatest, easiest, and most profitable leverage in<br />
real estate sales is becoming a listing agent<br />
calls, ad calls, and Internet leads to convert to both buyers<br />
and sellers. It allows you to raise your personal profile<br />
in a neighborhood to generate future business. An agent<br />
who works with buyers almost exclusively has no profile.<br />
What is a listing worth to you beyond just making a<br />
commission from the sale One of the numbers I tracked<br />
was additional revenue and additional transactions created<br />
through securing a listing. For me, I tracked an average<br />
of 1.68 transactions for every listing I took. By<br />
pounding a sign in someone’s yard instead of working<br />
with a buyer, I enjoyed the leverage of another .68 of a<br />
transaction. Track the buyers generated and converted<br />
from your listings, the sellers who buy through you,<br />
and listings you generate additionally because you sold<br />
the house down the street. I am sure that you will find<br />
leverage from every listing you take. I am sure your<br />
ratios will be as good or better than mine.<br />
continued on page # 38<br />
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Assuring Customer Satisfaction<br />
continued from page # 17<br />
Maintaining Customer Satisfaction<br />
The philosophy behind maintaining your customers is<br />
simple; now that you have them, maintain them. When<br />
you consider the amount of time and money invested in<br />
them, you cannot afford to lose them. this investment<br />
goes beyond your personal expenditures. It also includes<br />
your firm’s advertising and marketing costs to reach that<br />
particular market segment. Your customers, therefore,<br />
should be treated as if the life of your business depended<br />
on them -- which it does!<br />
15 Ways To Keep Your Customer Satisfied<br />
1. Show them that you think of them. Send them helpful<br />
newspaper clippings or articles, cartoons related to their<br />
business and “Here’s an idea I thought you’d enjoy” notes.<br />
Send your clients Christmas/ New Year’s cards, birthday<br />
cards, and thank you notes.<br />
2. Drop by to show them new products and brochures<br />
and offer additional services. Always make an appointment<br />
before making your call! Respect your clients’ time as you<br />
do your own.<br />
3. Offer a sample gift to enhance the use of your product.<br />
See how they are utilizing your product or service and<br />
suggest other ways that they can benefit from it. they may<br />
not be realizing its full potential.<br />
4. Offer “customer discounts” on new products or<br />
services to encourage additional business.<br />
5. When new employees are hired, offer to train them free<br />
of charge in the use of your product.<br />
6. Repay or compensate them for lost time or money<br />
caused by problems encountered with your product. If you<br />
pinch pennies, your customer may do the same.<br />
7. Be personal. Record details about your client’s life and<br />
enter these in your file. It’s so much nicer to say to someone,<br />
“How is Bob” rather than, “How’s your husband”<br />
8. Tell the truth; lies have a way of coming back to haunt<br />
you.<br />
9. Accept returns without batting an eyelash. In the<br />
long-run, they are much less expensive than finding a new<br />
customer.<br />
10. Be ethical. Keep all your information about the<br />
account confidential.<br />
11. Be certain that your company follows through on its<br />
commitment. this includes delivery, installation, packaging,<br />
and so on.<br />
12. Show your appreciation for their referrals by reporting<br />
back to them on the outcome.<br />
13. If your company has a newsletter, obtain permission<br />
from your successful clients to write about them in it.<br />
Naturally, you would send them a copy.<br />
14. Keep track of their results with your product and meet<br />
periodically to review the entire picture (their business,<br />
industry, trends, competition, etc.)<br />
15. Keep the lines of communication forever open. As in<br />
any relationship, you must be able to exchange grievances,<br />
ideas praises, losses, and victories.<br />
What all of this comes down to is that you should be<br />
willing to “go the extra mile” for your accounts. They extra<br />
effort you expend now will be repaid handsomely in the<br />
future.<br />
The bottom line in maintaining your clients is service,<br />
service and more service. Be there for your customers and<br />
they’ll want to stick with you. If you meet their needs,<br />
they’ll think twice before switching to another company,<br />
even if they’ve voiced some serious concerns. “Make new<br />
clients, but keep the old. One is silver and the other gold.”<br />
Develop the “gold” you have and the silver may take care<br />
of itself.<br />
Dr. Tony Alessandra, CSP, CPAE has authored 13 books,<br />
recorded over 50 audio and video programs, and delivered<br />
over 2,000 keynote speeches since 1976. Copyright© 1999-<br />
2001, Tony Alessandra. All rights reserved. This article<br />
has been adapted from Dr. Alessandra’s book, Charisma<br />
(Warner books, 1998. Dr. Tony Alessandra is recognized<br />
by Meetings and Conventions <strong>Magazine</strong> as... “one of<br />
America’s most electrifying speakers.” For information<br />
about Tony’s keynote presentations, please call The Frog<br />
Pond Group at 800-704-FROG (3764) or email susie@<br />
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The Greatest Leverage In Real Estate<br />
continued from page # 33<br />
3. Maintaining a client even if the transaction fails<br />
When representing a seller, if a transaction in pending<br />
fails to close, you still have a client. You can put the<br />
home back on the market, salvage the relationship, and<br />
sell the home. With the buyer, they have the option to<br />
not do business with you in the future. They can decide<br />
to use someone else to represent them on their purchase.<br />
The seller provides more security to your income should<br />
something fail to close or go smoothly.<br />
4. Gaining control of your life<br />
As a listing agent, you will be able to create a business<br />
devoid of the weekends and multiple nights that most<br />
agents must work. You can build a business that is more<br />
family friendly for your children and spouse. While you<br />
are away, you will still be creating growing activity on<br />
offers if you are a listing agent.<br />
I remember very few Monday mornings (after a nice<br />
long weekend with Joan at our vacation home) when there<br />
wasn’t a contract waiting on one of my seller’s homes. I<br />
didn’t know about it until I walked in the door on Monday<br />
morning.<br />
5. Investing less time per transaction<br />
It takes less time to represent a seller than a buyer.<br />
There will be a transaction every so often that will be the<br />
exception to that rule, but over time, the seller is clearly a<br />
lower investment of time. Because the seller uses small<br />
amounts of your time, this enables you to invest that time<br />
elsewhere to create more income.<br />
I believe that our focus as the lead agent or Chief<br />
Rainmaker, of a Champion Team isn’t to achieve a 50/50<br />
mix of buyers and sellers. The objective is to be weighted<br />
to the seller side. The only way your mix should be at<br />
50/50 is if you have two or more buyer’s agents working<br />
for you. Listing agents, ultimately, dictate the marketplace.<br />
They set the terms, conditions, and the control level of the<br />
marketplace. Your leverage benefits need to be established<br />
as a strong listing agent before you hire your first producing<br />
agent assistant like a buyer’s agent.<br />
Dirk Zeller is an <strong>Agent</strong>, an Investor, and the President<br />
& CEO of Real Estate Champions. His company trains<br />
more than 350,000 <strong>Agent</strong>s worldwide each year through<br />
live events, online training, self-study programs, and<br />
newsletters. He’s the widely published author of Your<br />
First Year in Real Estate, Success as a Real Estate<br />
<strong>Agent</strong> for Dummies®, The Champion Real Estate <strong>Agent</strong>,<br />
Telephone Sales for Dummies®, and over 300 articles<br />
in print. You can get more information by visiting www.<br />
RealEstateChampions.com. © 2008, Dirk Zeller. All rights<br />
reserved. For information contact FrogPond at 800.704.<br />
FROG(3764) or email susie@FrogPond.com; http://www.<br />
FrogPond.com<br />
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