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<strong>No</strong> <strong>Greater</strong> <strong>Joy</strong><br />
January – February 2006<br />
Jumping Ship (part 4) p. 3 • Tomato Head p. 10 • Which Curriculum is Best? p. 12 • Bble Story Book/Missions p. 15
I Am A Mommy<br />
JOSHUA AND KELSIE STEELE, MISSIONARIES TO UKRAINE<br />
By Kelsie Steele<br />
It was Christmas morning, 1983.<br />
The scent of a Christmas roast,<br />
telltale of a delicous dinner to<br />
come, wafted through <strong>the</strong> house.<br />
Happy voices and laughter rang out<br />
with expressions of delight. Paper littered<br />
<strong>the</strong> floor, and children ran in all<br />
directions. Lights on <strong>the</strong> tree twinkled<br />
merrily as one of <strong>the</strong> older kids<br />
selected packages, parceling <strong>the</strong>m out<br />
to <strong>the</strong>ir various recipients. The scene<br />
must have been an absorbing one to<br />
<strong>the</strong> little 18 month-old girl sitting<br />
waiting for her gift. Soon someone<br />
handed this tiny observer a package<br />
and said, “Here Kelsie, this one’s for<br />
you.” Mom and Dad helped to tear off<br />
<strong>the</strong> wrapping paper and open <strong>the</strong> box.<br />
Inside was a tiny baby doll with a soft<br />
pink flannel dress and bonnet. Kelsie<br />
picked up her little<br />
doll, wrapping her<br />
chubby arms tightly<br />
around it. Oblivious<br />
to a stack of presents<br />
that sat waiting<br />
for her to open, she<br />
turned around and<br />
toddled off with her<br />
new treasure. She<br />
had her baby.<br />
That was <strong>the</strong><br />
beginning of my<br />
journey toward<br />
mo<strong>the</strong>rhood. New<br />
dolls replaced older<br />
ones, each doll as<br />
realistic and life-size as possible.<br />
My dolls went with me everwhere.<br />
I remember pushing my “babies” in<br />
my own plastic cart down <strong>the</strong> grocery<br />
store aisles, and taking <strong>the</strong>m on family<br />
excursions. Hardly a day of my<br />
childhood passed that I did not spend<br />
hours playing with my babies and<br />
dreaming of <strong>the</strong> day when I would<br />
be a mo<strong>the</strong>r. I was well into my teens<br />
when I finally packed my dolls away<br />
to be stored in <strong>the</strong> attic.<br />
Twenty-two years have passed<br />
since that first “baby,” and now I find<br />
myself enjoying a gift of far greater<br />
worth. My own tiny bundle of joy<br />
arrived safely in this world September<br />
25th. Ever since <strong>the</strong>n I have felt a new<br />
purpose and fulfillment. As I ba<strong>the</strong><br />
little Abby,<br />
change her, or<br />
get up with her<br />
in <strong>the</strong> night, I<br />
realize that I am living my lifelong<br />
dream. I am a mo<strong>the</strong>r.<br />
Joshua and I thank God for our<br />
precious little Abigail. She delights<br />
us daily with her bright eyes and cute<br />
little smiles. We are looking forward<br />
to bringing her home to America to<br />
visit her Grandmas and Grandpas and<br />
all her cousins. We are so thankful<br />
to all of you who pray for us as we<br />
minister in Ukraine.<br />
For more infomation on Joshua<br />
and Kelsie Steele, sign up for <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
e-report at www.OFReport.com<br />
(Steeles are currently involved in<br />
<strong>the</strong> translation of <strong>the</strong> Illustrated<br />
Bible Story Book into <strong>the</strong> Ukranian<br />
language.)<br />
All Scripture taken from <strong>the</strong> Authorized Version (King James) Holy Bible January - February 2006 Vol. 12 <strong>No</strong>. 1<br />
On <strong>the</strong> Cover: Newborn, Jeremiah, getting a life-giving sun bath. Cover Photo: Clint Cearley<br />
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Jumping Ship<br />
PART FOUR<br />
By Michael Pearl<br />
becomes a<br />
consuming interest.”<br />
“Mating<br />
Provide entertainment<br />
“All work and no play makes<br />
Jack a dull boy,” so says <strong>the</strong> popular<br />
children’s rhyme. “<strong>No</strong> play” will also<br />
make Jack very dissatisfied with <strong>the</strong><br />
life ship he is on, and when he gets<br />
old enough, he will observe <strong>the</strong> gaiety<br />
of o<strong>the</strong>rs and begin to think about<br />
jumping ship for one that is more fun.<br />
If you are going to keep your children<br />
from longingly looking at o<strong>the</strong>r passing<br />
vessels, you must meet <strong>the</strong>ir need<br />
for diversion and entertainment. It is<br />
true that if left to <strong>the</strong>mselves, children<br />
will overdose on entertainment, and,<br />
like Pinocchio, <strong>the</strong>y will come to ruin<br />
on Pleasure Island. Yet, even with that<br />
danger in mind, <strong>the</strong> fact remains that<br />
children, just like adults, have both a<br />
legitimate and physical need to indulge<br />
in playful fun.<br />
Mature, well-adjusted adults live<br />
to produce, and recreational play is<br />
clearly secondary, whereas small<br />
children live to play (“…when I was a<br />
child I thought as a child…”). Children<br />
would never work if not constrained<br />
and trained to do so. During <strong>the</strong>ir first<br />
twenty years, <strong>the</strong>y evolve from fulltime<br />
life of play to full- time working.<br />
There is also a rapid transition<br />
in <strong>the</strong>ir forms of play. In a period of<br />
fifteen years, <strong>the</strong>y will go from tasting<br />
everything on <strong>the</strong> floor to riding motor<br />
cycles in competitions, or competing<br />
in international chess games. It<br />
becomes very difficult for parents to<br />
keep up with <strong>the</strong>ir children’s changing<br />
interests. I now clearly understand why<br />
God chose to give babies to young<br />
people, and not to us old folks. It takes<br />
a lot of energy to meet <strong>the</strong>ir everchanging<br />
and increasing needs.<br />
The key to providing proper and adequate<br />
entertainment is that you must<br />
It you want to almost guarantee that your children will not<br />
jump ship (o<strong>the</strong>r factors being equal), provide a community life<br />
that holds promise of suitable future mates.<br />
thoroughly enjoy seeing <strong>the</strong>m immersed<br />
in good healthy fun. Children<br />
have always loved pushing or riding<br />
something. They love <strong>the</strong> thrill of simple<br />
things, like sliding down a steep,<br />
grassy hill on a piece of cardboard, or<br />
sledding on snow and skating on ice.<br />
Kids love wheels, even at <strong>the</strong> earliest<br />
age, and will continue to do so until<br />
eventually <strong>the</strong>y are begging to take<br />
“your wheels” out for a joyride. I just<br />
love putting one-year-olds on plastic<br />
riding toys and teaching <strong>the</strong>m to push<br />
<strong>the</strong>mselves along with <strong>the</strong>ir feet. They<br />
soon graduate to a tricycle and <strong>the</strong>n<br />
on to a bicycle. Can you remember<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir thrill when <strong>the</strong>y first rode without<br />
training wheels, and how exhilarated<br />
<strong>the</strong>y were when <strong>the</strong>y mastered roller<br />
skates, skateboards, and skies–<strong>the</strong><br />
faster <strong>the</strong> better?<br />
When I was a kid, my daddy assisted<br />
me by bringing home old wagon<br />
wheels and axles and scrap boards.<br />
Lawn mower wheels are excellent. At<br />
eight years old, along with <strong>the</strong> rest of<br />
<strong>the</strong> neighbor kids, I would build what<br />
we called a push car—something with<br />
four wheels, a seat, and a way to steer<br />
it. Dad would bring home buckets with<br />
<strong>the</strong> remnants of bright-colored paints,<br />
and we would paint our push cars to<br />
be <strong>the</strong> snazziest in <strong>the</strong> neighborhood.<br />
Then we would find a hill where<br />
<strong>the</strong> road was momentarily empty of<br />
cars, and, while one person rode and<br />
steered, <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r would push him<br />
as fast as legs could go. It was <strong>the</strong>n<br />
“freewheeling” it to <strong>the</strong> bottom of <strong>the</strong><br />
hill to see whose car was <strong>the</strong> fastest.<br />
Yes, <strong>the</strong>re was many a wreck, and <strong>the</strong><br />
pusher would sometimes fall flat on his<br />
face in <strong>the</strong> road. And, yes, occasionally<br />
<strong>the</strong> cars would turn over or crash into<br />
<strong>the</strong> ditch. But, <strong>the</strong> “challenge and <strong>the</strong><br />
thrill” is what made it all fun.<br />
My parents played <strong>the</strong>ir parts quite<br />
well. Daddy provided <strong>the</strong> raw material<br />
and an occasional suggestion as<br />
to improvements in <strong>the</strong> design. Mama<br />
was fitly admiring of my paint job and<br />
ingenuity. Grandma liked to watch <strong>the</strong><br />
races, especially if <strong>the</strong>re was a crash.<br />
To finally get Dad to sit on our masterpiece<br />
of a push car and let us push<br />
him was <strong>the</strong> ultimate thrill. And to see<br />
him sitting <strong>the</strong>re so vulnerable and so<br />
stiff and scared, just added more to our<br />
“great” achievement.<br />
Times change and toys change, but<br />
children remain <strong>the</strong> same. They have<br />
an inherent need to tackle challenges<br />
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and turn <strong>the</strong>m into thrills. They will<br />
climb to <strong>the</strong> top of <strong>the</strong> tallest tree,<br />
jump into <strong>the</strong> water from <strong>the</strong> highest<br />
spot <strong>the</strong>y dare, and <strong>the</strong>n later <strong>the</strong>y will<br />
“need” to see how fast <strong>the</strong> family car<br />
will go. It is dangerous being a kid,<br />
always has been, but to <strong>the</strong>m it is just<br />
sheer fun. We adults must provide<br />
restraint and caution while we still can,<br />
before <strong>the</strong>y get big enough to get out<br />
of our sight too quickly. But play <strong>the</strong>y<br />
will, and play will inevitably find <strong>the</strong><br />
thrill in everything, whe<strong>the</strong>r it is a tenmonth-old<br />
climbing to <strong>the</strong> top of <strong>the</strong><br />
stairs, or a ten-year-old climbing to <strong>the</strong><br />
top of <strong>the</strong> fire tower, or a twenty-yearold<br />
checking out hang gliding.<br />
Girls start off playing much like<br />
<strong>the</strong> boys, but with a little less of<br />
thrill seeking. They love horses and<br />
bicycles, but <strong>the</strong>y also enjoy practicing<br />
to be mo<strong>the</strong>rs. Young girls, right down<br />
to <strong>the</strong> one-year-olds, entertain<br />
<strong>the</strong>mselves with playing<br />
house and family. Mama<br />
Pearl, my wife, just bought<br />
a two-foot-long broom for<br />
ten-month-old Gracie. She<br />
spends a lot of time “sweeping”<br />
<strong>the</strong> floor. Almost<br />
three-year-old Laura Rose<br />
has her own little china tea<br />
set. She will spend an hour<br />
playing with <strong>the</strong> dishes and<br />
pouring tea for everyone.<br />
When my daughters were<br />
six years old, <strong>the</strong>y would<br />
bake something and expect<br />
<strong>the</strong> whole world to stop and<br />
indulge in <strong>the</strong>ir delectable<br />
delight. I was delighted<br />
with <strong>the</strong>m for <strong>the</strong>ir many<br />
attempts, even when I often<br />
had to pretend to swallow and <strong>the</strong>n<br />
slip outside unnoticed to get rid of <strong>the</strong><br />
unpleasant mouthful.<br />
Parents who habitually push <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
children aside, not wanting to be bo<strong>the</strong>red<br />
with <strong>the</strong>ir frivolous play, will lose<br />
<strong>the</strong> hearts of <strong>the</strong>ir children. It is not<br />
enough to allow time for your children<br />
to play; you must “sacrifice” your time<br />
and yourself and play with <strong>the</strong>m. You<br />
don’t have to physically be <strong>the</strong>re at <strong>the</strong><br />
swing set all <strong>the</strong> time, but <strong>the</strong>y must<br />
feel that your eyes are watching <strong>the</strong>m<br />
from <strong>the</strong> kitchen window. You can<br />
even stop your work and run outside<br />
occasionally to laugh at <strong>the</strong>m or to be<br />
“amazed” at <strong>the</strong>ir abilities.<br />
I sought to be <strong>the</strong> most thrilling<br />
source of entertainment available to<br />
my kids. I actually pushed <strong>the</strong>m to do<br />
<strong>the</strong> daring thing. I helped <strong>the</strong>m set up<br />
a jump for <strong>the</strong>ir bicycles, encouraged<br />
<strong>the</strong>m to swing higher, do flips off of<br />
<strong>the</strong> rope swing into <strong>the</strong> pond, or difficult<br />
dives from <strong>the</strong> diving board. I took<br />
<strong>the</strong>m skating, and we raced around<br />
<strong>the</strong> rink. When it snowed, which was<br />
only once or twice a year in Memphis,<br />
I stopped everything I was doing just<br />
to play with <strong>the</strong>m. We would make a<br />
sled and go find <strong>the</strong> highest hill. We<br />
would even try at full speed to make<br />
it through <strong>the</strong> sharpest curve, and<br />
“piled up” time and time again until<br />
we finally got it right. We were rightly<br />
proud of ourselves and congratulated<br />
each o<strong>the</strong>r profusely.<br />
At times I took <strong>the</strong> boys into <strong>the</strong><br />
swamps where we regularly caught or<br />
killed snakes, and caught sacks full<br />
of fish. We speared <strong>the</strong> very large fish<br />
or shot <strong>the</strong>m with arrows. Exploring<br />
new “uncharted” territory was exciting,<br />
something we greatly enjoyed. I<br />
practiced baseball with <strong>the</strong> boys until<br />
<strong>the</strong>y were good enough to not be embarrassed<br />
playing on a local team. But<br />
one season was enough for <strong>the</strong>m. They<br />
liked <strong>the</strong> wild places much better, and<br />
throwing knives filled in <strong>the</strong> empty<br />
spots between <strong>the</strong>ir exciting outings<br />
with me.<br />
We had a pond for <strong>the</strong> kids to swim<br />
in, but <strong>the</strong>y would get bored swimming<br />
alone by <strong>the</strong>mselves and started begging<br />
me to join <strong>the</strong>m. When I headed<br />
toward <strong>the</strong> pond, <strong>the</strong>y all got excited,<br />
and <strong>the</strong> ones who were not already in<br />
<strong>the</strong> pond would rush to join us. They<br />
knew I was going to add a new dimension<br />
to <strong>the</strong> fun, even though it might<br />
be nothing more than my watching and<br />
laughing as <strong>the</strong>y did some new stunt in<br />
<strong>the</strong> water.<br />
Social life<br />
<strong>No</strong>w, important as it is to be<br />
involved with your children in <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
younger years, <strong>the</strong> most critical time<br />
for entertainment is when <strong>the</strong>y get to<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir middle teens. At around fifteen<br />
years old, <strong>the</strong>ir social life becomes a<br />
significant part of <strong>the</strong>ir entertainment,<br />
and, in many cases, it is <strong>the</strong>ir primary<br />
concern. Social entertainment, has<br />
<strong>the</strong> potential of impacting <strong>the</strong>m very<br />
negatively and is much more demanding<br />
of discerning parents. It is at this<br />
point that many parents make <strong>the</strong> mistake<br />
of trying to completely fence off<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir growing teens from o<strong>the</strong>r young<br />
people, lest <strong>the</strong>y do something foolish<br />
and destructive, ei<strong>the</strong>r physically or<br />
morally.<br />
When my kids were getting into<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir early teens, I set up a volleyball<br />
net in <strong>the</strong> “holler” back of <strong>the</strong> house<br />
and invited o<strong>the</strong>r families to join us.<br />
Girls and boys <strong>the</strong>ir own age came to<br />
play. We were always <strong>the</strong>re to oversee<br />
<strong>the</strong> kids toge<strong>the</strong>r. They got to socialize<br />
with <strong>the</strong> opposite sex naturally, and<br />
without resorting to <strong>the</strong> dating pattern<br />
so common in modern society.<br />
I will be quite plain about <strong>the</strong><br />
social life of teenagers. When kids<br />
go through puberty, especially boys,<br />
mating becomes a consuming interest.<br />
They begin to live in a daydream/<br />
night-dream world. You can’t prevent<br />
it. It is absolutely natural and is quite<br />
glorious and wonderful. It is God’s<br />
design, intended to cause <strong>the</strong>m to<br />
want to marry and reproduce. Fur<strong>the</strong>rmore,<br />
by divine design, <strong>the</strong> sexual<br />
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drive constitutes <strong>the</strong> most controlling<br />
temptation a boy or man will ever face.<br />
It is <strong>the</strong> ultimate test of character and<br />
<strong>the</strong> bedrock on which self-control can<br />
be established. On this single pivotal<br />
point, young men ei<strong>the</strong>r shipwreck,<br />
sometimes never to recover, or <strong>the</strong>y<br />
grow strong in character, possessing<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir vessel in honor and sanctification.<br />
Girls are not initially possessed<br />
of sexual drive, but <strong>the</strong>ir desires for<br />
romance and <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
God-given need to be<br />
treasured and possessed<br />
by a man renders<br />
<strong>the</strong>m vulnerable to <strong>the</strong><br />
predatory conniving of<br />
immoral males. Girls<br />
can too easily become<br />
junkies for male attention,<br />
selling <strong>the</strong>mselves<br />
cheap to get it. Girls in<br />
unhappy homes are <strong>the</strong><br />
quickest to jump ship<br />
into <strong>the</strong> first male arms<br />
directed toward <strong>the</strong>m.<br />
I can understand why<br />
many parents want to<br />
isolate <strong>the</strong>ir children and<br />
save <strong>the</strong>m from <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
vulnerability in this area,<br />
but you cannot isolate<br />
<strong>the</strong>m from <strong>the</strong>ir imaginations and passions.<br />
It is extremely helpful if, when<br />
your children reach this age, <strong>the</strong>y are<br />
greatly occupied with o<strong>the</strong>r things.<br />
If a boy is engaged in hard work and<br />
hard play, he will expend much of his<br />
testosterone in that manner. “An idle<br />
mind is <strong>the</strong> devil’s workshop,” is not<br />
an idle statement.<br />
We are addressing <strong>the</strong> vital issue<br />
of providing a safe social life for your<br />
teenagers. Here is <strong>the</strong> delicate key:<br />
You can inoculate <strong>the</strong>m against runaway<br />
passions by controlled injections<br />
of a supervised social life. Children<br />
jump ship when <strong>the</strong>y think <strong>the</strong>ir most<br />
pressing needs cannot be met on <strong>the</strong><br />
present course of <strong>the</strong>ir voyage. If you<br />
continually isolate your boys on a ship<br />
with no exposure to girls, <strong>the</strong>y will<br />
eventually go overboard, and once<br />
<strong>the</strong>y do, you no longer have a say in<br />
<strong>the</strong> way <strong>the</strong>y seek fulfillment. So, you<br />
must provide a social life that promises<br />
a strong expectancy of future fulfillment<br />
in this area. Teenagers are more<br />
likely to be patient if <strong>the</strong>y can see that<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir ship is part of a fleet that will<br />
occasionally rendezvous in port with<br />
o<strong>the</strong>r ships carrying handsome young<br />
men and beautiful girls just waiting to<br />
be swept away.<br />
In most cases, your children will<br />
marry someone from <strong>the</strong> circle in<br />
which <strong>the</strong>y are raised. They will<br />
Children jump ship when <strong>the</strong>y think <strong>the</strong>ir most<br />
pressing needs cannot be met on <strong>the</strong> present<br />
course of <strong>the</strong>ir voyage.<br />
make <strong>the</strong>ir picks long before you ever<br />
imagined <strong>the</strong>y were showing interest.<br />
Although <strong>the</strong>y may change several<br />
times, <strong>the</strong>y will always have someone<br />
in <strong>the</strong>ir imaginations as a suitable<br />
future mate. Even if <strong>the</strong>y end up<br />
marrying someone from outside <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
common social circle, your boys’ ideas<br />
of what <strong>the</strong>y like in a girl will have<br />
been formed from <strong>the</strong>ir early contacts<br />
(which you provided) with thirteen-,<br />
fourteen-, and fifteen-year-old girls,<br />
and <strong>the</strong>y form <strong>the</strong>m when <strong>the</strong>y have<br />
just gone through puberty! And if you<br />
think you can replace this natural,<br />
God-given, God-ordered drive with<br />
teaching <strong>the</strong>m Bible principles, you<br />
are off your religious rocker! But, we<br />
will talk about biblical admonition and<br />
character building later.<br />
Community<br />
Ideally, your family should be<br />
part of a community of like-minded<br />
families who share <strong>the</strong> same biblical<br />
values and worldview. If your<br />
sixteen-year-old can look around and<br />
see a young woman whom he believes<br />
would make a great wife, he will hang<br />
around on your ship, doing his chores<br />
and making <strong>the</strong> sacrifices necessary to<br />
wait out <strong>the</strong> opportunity to enter into<br />
a marriage relationship on grounds<br />
that are acceptable to <strong>the</strong> community<br />
he is a part of. There it is. Read that<br />
sentence again. He will wait<br />
for <strong>the</strong> opportunity to enter into<br />
marriage on grounds that are<br />
acceptable to <strong>the</strong> community.<br />
The community is a more certain,<br />
powerful regulating factor<br />
than is <strong>the</strong> self-control of <strong>the</strong><br />
kids involved. Even teenagers<br />
who are not saved and do not<br />
possess personal convictions<br />
will go along with community<br />
values if that is what it takes<br />
for <strong>the</strong>m to attain <strong>the</strong> deepest<br />
desire of <strong>the</strong>ir hearts — or of<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir flesh.<br />
If you want to almost guarantee<br />
that you children with not<br />
jump ship (o<strong>the</strong>r factors being<br />
equal), provide a community<br />
life that holds promise of suitable<br />
future mates. If your community<br />
is narrow and self-righteous,<br />
your kids may decide early on that<br />
<strong>the</strong>y do not want to live like this <strong>the</strong><br />
rest of <strong>the</strong>ir lives, and <strong>the</strong>y may make<br />
up <strong>the</strong>ir minds that <strong>the</strong>y are not going<br />
to marry and live in your community<br />
circle. They will look over <strong>the</strong> railing<br />
at o<strong>the</strong>r passing ships that seem to be<br />
more sincere and friendly. Once kids<br />
leave <strong>the</strong> natural constraining factors<br />
of community, all that is left to control<br />
<strong>the</strong>m is <strong>the</strong>ir own wisdom and selfcontrol,<br />
which is usually not enough<br />
to keep teenagers, even “Christian”<br />
teenagers, from doing something foolish<br />
and regrettable.<br />
When I speak of providing a community,<br />
I am not necessarily speaking<br />
of <strong>the</strong> traditional “small town,” old<br />
friends and family, all in one accord,<br />
going to <strong>the</strong> same country church, and<br />
having picnics at <strong>the</strong> city park after listening<br />
to gospel music and a political<br />
speech. That would certainly be nice,<br />
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ut in most cases, such an idyllic environment<br />
is gone forever in America. In<br />
some areas it can be partially recovered,<br />
but only at great difficulty and<br />
sacrifice.<br />
Your family may be part of a very<br />
small church and community, offering<br />
few possibilities for your teenage children<br />
to find mates. It is a ship-jumping<br />
waiting to happen unless you can<br />
enlarge <strong>the</strong> community and <strong>the</strong> pool<br />
of possible marriage partners for your<br />
children. If you are in this situation,<br />
you must give immediate attention to<br />
increasing your community. One way<br />
of doing that is to get out and travel<br />
with your fifteen- to eighteen-yearolds,<br />
visiting o<strong>the</strong>r families with kids<br />
of a suitable age. Start attending camp<br />
meetings or Bible conferences, any<br />
ga<strong>the</strong>ring of Christians of like values.<br />
Your family must stay loosely connected<br />
in a way that provides your<br />
budding adult children with hope of<br />
finding suitable mates. Seeing o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
families with possible mates, even<br />
once or twice a year, can be enough<br />
to give your young dreamers hope.<br />
When teenagers start dreaming of a<br />
particular mate, it creates a stabilizing<br />
influence in <strong>the</strong>ir lives. They will now<br />
have incentive to preserve <strong>the</strong>ir virtue<br />
for one whom <strong>the</strong>y feel is worthy of<br />
nothing less.<br />
There is a popular teaching that<br />
you should just tell your children to be<br />
patient, and God will bring into <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
life <strong>the</strong> one person created in heaven to<br />
be <strong>the</strong>ir mate. For a few very dedicated<br />
kids, who have committed <strong>the</strong>ir lives<br />
to serving God on <strong>the</strong> mission field<br />
or in some full-time capacity, this is<br />
doubtless true. But, <strong>the</strong> average kid<br />
who has never experienced a walk of<br />
faith is not going to have faith in this<br />
one area and just sit around until he<br />
is thirty years old waiting for that one<br />
special female to fall out of heaven<br />
into his arms.<br />
We receive many letters like a recent<br />
one where a 28-year-old daughter<br />
has jumped ship and married an older<br />
divorced man with a smeared past<br />
and three children. As she was getting<br />
older, she saw <strong>the</strong> small pool of “possibles”<br />
dwindling away to nothing.<br />
She lost hope and needed love. She<br />
foolishly rejected her captain and her<br />
family, and threw herself to <strong>the</strong> sharks<br />
ra<strong>the</strong>r than continue on a hopeless voyage<br />
leading nowhere. Older children<br />
and young adults must have a tangible,<br />
visible hope, one with a social life that<br />
provides potential mates of <strong>the</strong> same<br />
caliber as <strong>the</strong>mselves.<br />
I know that kids should exercise<br />
more self-restraint, that <strong>the</strong>y should be<br />
more patient, and that <strong>the</strong>y should listen<br />
to <strong>the</strong> counsel of <strong>the</strong>ir parents and<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir church elders. I agree that <strong>the</strong>y<br />
should be wise and spiritual and seek<br />
God’s will first and foremost—but few<br />
do, whereas virtually all of <strong>the</strong>m will<br />
eventually marry. Don’t risk throwing<br />
your children away by setting <strong>the</strong> marriage<br />
standard so high that <strong>the</strong>y despair<br />
of reaching it. You are making a grave<br />
mistake if you fail to provide for <strong>the</strong><br />
possibility that your teenage children<br />
may not be spiritual, discerning giants.<br />
They may just end up marrying an acquaintance<br />
— one whom you provide<br />
or, one <strong>the</strong>y meet at <strong>the</strong> video store.<br />
God has chosen you as <strong>the</strong> captain<br />
of your ship. You are authorized to<br />
command your crew, but remember<br />
that many a voyage has ended with<br />
a very disheartened crew abandoning<br />
ship, or worse, in mutiny. Provide<br />
community for your children.<br />
Don’t fail in this one last task you are<br />
commanded to carry out: providing<br />
adequate community for <strong>the</strong>m so that<br />
you can happily send <strong>the</strong>m ashore to<br />
produce Godly seed. Give <strong>the</strong>m hope,<br />
and <strong>the</strong>y will stick it out until you have<br />
safely delivered <strong>the</strong>m to a lifemate<br />
worthy of <strong>the</strong> time and prayer you<br />
have invested in <strong>the</strong>m.<br />
City Dwellers<br />
If you live in an apartment in a big<br />
city, you can still provide community,<br />
but it will certainly not happen by<br />
default. It will take wise judgment and<br />
careful control. You must actively seek<br />
out o<strong>the</strong>rs of like faith and convictions<br />
and create an association with <strong>the</strong>m.<br />
In <strong>the</strong> city, you are not likely to find a<br />
church that provides a proper community<br />
life for your children. A church<br />
receives anyone and everyone who<br />
chooses to come through <strong>the</strong> door, as<br />
it rightly should. But to have a proper<br />
community for your teenage children,<br />
you must exercise your freedom not<br />
to associate with some families. You<br />
must pick and choose with wisdom.<br />
If you are a pushover, welcoming into<br />
your home all who would seek your<br />
association, you might as well throw<br />
your children to <strong>the</strong> dogs, for <strong>the</strong>y are<br />
prone to adopt <strong>the</strong> worst influences<br />
you allow into <strong>the</strong>ir lives. If you can’t<br />
judge between right and wrong and<br />
don’t exhibit <strong>the</strong> courage to flee <strong>the</strong><br />
company of evildoers, your children<br />
are in danger from your weak-kneed<br />
attitude. Learn to say “no” to companying<br />
with ungodly people, and mean<br />
it! Use <strong>the</strong> word, “<strong>No</strong>!” in ways that<br />
cannot be mistaken for, “Maybe some<br />
o<strong>the</strong>r time.”<br />
“<strong>No</strong> we don’t want to go <strong>the</strong>re.”<br />
“<strong>No</strong>, my children are busy this<br />
weekend.”<br />
“<strong>No</strong>, that is not our idea of fun.”<br />
“<strong>No</strong>, I think it would be better if<br />
our families did not mix; we have<br />
convictions that your children don’t<br />
seem to share.”<br />
Will <strong>the</strong>y call you “hypocrites,<br />
self-righteous, isolationists”? Yes, <strong>the</strong>y<br />
will, and things a whole lot worse,<br />
but when you live in Sodom (any city<br />
in America), you will ei<strong>the</strong>r let <strong>the</strong><br />
popular trend be your guide, or you<br />
will set your own agenda and enforce<br />
it, no matter whose feelings get hurt.<br />
To select a righteous community out<br />
of your church or your city and guard<br />
its borders is not an easy task, but I<br />
know many families who have been<br />
successful at it. If a deadly virus were<br />
to sweep through <strong>the</strong> world, no one<br />
would fault you for quarantining your<br />
family. How much more deadly is <strong>the</strong><br />
disease of sin that so infects <strong>the</strong> world<br />
today! Just make sure that your family<br />
“quarantine” shares its isolation with<br />
enough families so that it does not feel<br />
like isolation to <strong>the</strong> children. The point<br />
is not to cease having a social life, but<br />
to build your social life around your<br />
own worldview. There are families out<br />
<strong>the</strong>re who are part of God’s remnant,<br />
just like you. You might find some of<br />
<strong>the</strong>m on this web site:<br />
www.fellowshipdirectory.com<br />
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Ain To Train Up A Child, we hit a rough spot. Our oldest was <strong>the</strong>n four, and<br />
she became so defiant that no amount of discipline reached her. One mornloud,<br />
begging God for wisdom. And God answered!<br />
I sat up and told her <strong>the</strong>re would be no spanking. Today, she would stick to<br />
Mommy like GLUE! If I changed a diaper, so did she. If I had to sweep, make<br />
and laughing toge<strong>the</strong>r.<br />
Kimmy is now seven, and she is my best helper. Yesterday, when I had a lot<br />
of work to do, she made a cake, peeled potatoes, cleaned <strong>the</strong> living room, and,<br />
vision, but sometimes asks if we can “glue” today!<br />
and upbraideth not, and it shall be given him” James 1:5.<br />
Sincerely,<br />
Shannon Windham<br />
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When I get sick of some behavior in my children, we all play The Raisin<br />
Game. Last month, it was my children’s lack of acknowledging that <strong>the</strong>y heard<br />
me when I spoke to <strong>the</strong>m. I just wanted <strong>the</strong>m to say “Okay, Mom” (with a smile)<br />
whenever I’d make a simple request. So first thing in <strong>the</strong> morning, we ALL put<br />
on our Raisin Game Necklaces. These are Ziploc sandwich bags tied around our<br />
necks with yarn. Everyone starts <strong>the</strong> day with 25 raisins. Every time I make a<br />
request, <strong>the</strong> kids who answer “Okay, Mom” with a smile get one of my raisins.<br />
But if <strong>the</strong>y ignore what’s said, or respond with a less-than-enthusiastic response, I<br />
get one of <strong>the</strong>irs. At <strong>the</strong> end of <strong>the</strong> day, we all get to eat our booty. Good fun and<br />
great results guaranteed!<br />
Valerie Marsh<br />
Shannon is designated<br />
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Training Grandma<br />
I wanted to tell you a funny story about my parents’ opposition to our child training.<br />
sister-in-law to help her train her unhappy children. Meanwhile, our 2-year-old took up<br />
playing with <strong>the</strong> stack of paper plates near his chair. I didn’t stop <strong>the</strong> conversation, but<br />
To prove her point about our cruel child training, my mom said, “It’s like put-<br />
My parents dropped <strong>the</strong>ir forks and looked in amazement. I asked, “Do my<br />
children look unhappy?” And that has been <strong>the</strong> end of it! Thank you for all you’ve<br />
taught us. -S.W.<br />
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Thank you for sending<br />
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shipments! My husband<br />
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restaurant. We inquired about <strong>the</strong> “rod” <strong>the</strong>y had<br />
with <strong>the</strong>m and <strong>the</strong>y replied “we don’t have to use it<br />
very often anymore; it’s just a reminder to him.” The<br />
couple handed us one of <strong>the</strong> business cards, and<br />
4 months later when our fi rst was born, we started<br />
“To Train Up” our child. We are still in toddler-hood,<br />
but fi nd great peace and a lot of enjoyment in following<br />
your wisdom. Our 15-month-old is a delight!<br />
As he tests our boundaries, we pray for <strong>the</strong> fruit of<br />
<strong>the</strong> Spirit to be evident in our family as a witness<br />
to His ways! Keep enclosing those cards...<strong>the</strong>y are<br />
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Mailbox<br />
CREATED LETTERS<br />
I recently read “Created to be His Help<br />
Meet.” I was always taught that when you<br />
have a husband ‘like that” (a Mr. Steady)<br />
that it is necessary <strong>the</strong> wife/mo<strong>the</strong>r assume<br />
<strong>the</strong> position of head, o<strong>the</strong>rwise <strong>the</strong> marriage<br />
is like a chicken with its head cut off.<br />
Depression runs in our family’s women.<br />
Coincidence? I now think not. You mentioned<br />
that <strong>the</strong> wives of Mr. Steady are<br />
more prone to emotional disorders, and you<br />
nailed it on <strong>the</strong> head! I, too, am married to<br />
a Mr. Steady, and have struggled with emotional<br />
strain, but I never thought that it had<br />
anything to do with my marriage. I can now<br />
see that it is because I have stepped out of<br />
my rank as help meet and have assumed a<br />
position I cannot do. Period! I choose now<br />
to fulfi ll my calling as Help Meet to my<br />
man and to break <strong>the</strong> chain of depression<br />
in this family. My girls will grow up seeing<br />
a mama who is happy and content and one<br />
who honors her man. - J<br />
Bless you for letting God use you to write<br />
“Created”! Even though my husband and<br />
I have had 20 years of a happy marriage,<br />
I have to admit that <strong>the</strong>re was always this<br />
secret disappointment in my heart because<br />
my husband was not <strong>the</strong> spiritual leader<br />
I thought he should be. The part about<br />
<strong>the</strong> three types of men was so freeing for<br />
me. It seems so often we as wives expect a<br />
Mr. Command Man type of guy to lead us<br />
in Bible study, actively disciple <strong>the</strong> kids,<br />
etc., and if he does not, <strong>the</strong>n he is not <strong>the</strong><br />
spiritual leader. <strong>No</strong>w, I feel so free to love,<br />
enjoy, and respect my wonderful, GODLY<br />
Mr. Steady– God’s precious gift to me. I<br />
can see a Mr. Command Man would have<br />
been very hard for me to be married to, but<br />
–WOW—God knew what we both needed!<br />
I feel an urgent need to get this book in <strong>the</strong><br />
hands of some of <strong>the</strong> ladies in our church,<br />
as so many of our dear friends are having<br />
marriage problems. I’m saving my money<br />
for a case. - Proud to be B’s wife<br />
DOWNLOADS/BIBLE STUDIES<br />
I just fi nished listening to Sin <strong>No</strong> More and Romans, by Michael,<br />
and I can say with all honesty that <strong>the</strong>y have changed my life. I<br />
fi nd that I’m fi nally able to think about Jesus, to think about His<br />
death, burial, resurrection and ascension, without wondering<br />
what this or that ‘christian life’ writer says about it. There are<br />
quite a few bro<strong>the</strong>rs in <strong>the</strong> Lord in our area that feel like <strong>the</strong>y<br />
have fi nally been freed from <strong>the</strong> bondage of ‘works sanctifi cation’.<br />
I would have to say that for <strong>the</strong> fi rst time I’m not thinking about<br />
who said what, but I’m actually thinking about Christ. God bless<br />
you. - Dan<br />
I want to let you know, I am extremely thankful for <strong>the</strong> free downloads.<br />
We always look at ministry tools and add <strong>the</strong>m to our wish<br />
list. <strong>No</strong>w I can enjoy some of <strong>the</strong> teaching on audio! Praise <strong>the</strong><br />
Lord! He provides every need, thank you! - J.H.<br />
I just wanted to tell you thank you for presenting <strong>the</strong> heart of God,<br />
especially in regards to repentance when it comes to conversion.<br />
I believe this is what I needed to hear. I didn’t need someone to<br />
sugarcoat it for me; I needed to be told “unless I repent I will<br />
perish.” Thank you!!! I can’t be a punk about this. I want to<br />
get married one day, and if I am able to get married, I can’t be<br />
a pervert. The battle begins today, and I must by <strong>the</strong> grace of<br />
God fi ght to be a man after God’s heart. I thank God that you, his<br />
servant, have spoken to me, as this was God’s way of showing me<br />
mercy. It is up to me to respond. Thanks! - A Reader<br />
Bless you Mike Pearl! I had often looked longingly in your magazine<br />
at <strong>the</strong> Romans CD’s, and have wanted to hear good Bible<br />
teaching, but I did not have <strong>the</strong> money to purchase <strong>the</strong>m. How<br />
excited I was to read in last month’s magazine that <strong>the</strong>y are now<br />
available for download for FREE on your website! I am in <strong>the</strong><br />
process of downloading <strong>the</strong>m and burning <strong>the</strong>m to CD to listen<br />
to. What a great blessing! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK<br />
YOU! - Steve<br />
TESTIMONIES/THANKS<br />
At <strong>the</strong> San Antonio seminar,<br />
you encouraged me to read my<br />
Bible, <strong>the</strong>n map out what I see!<br />
I have begun with a freshness<br />
to simply read <strong>the</strong> Word and not<br />
spiritualize it like I was taught<br />
in <strong>the</strong> past. It has increased my<br />
faith and caused me to see God<br />
in truth.<br />
In Christ,<br />
Mike<br />
BIBLE STUDY CDS<br />
I listened to <strong>the</strong> 1st CD about<br />
being born again, and I realized<br />
to my shock, I don’t think I am<br />
truly born again. I sure don’t<br />
hear this kind of message at my<br />
church. I just wanted to thank<br />
you again for everything.<br />
Love, C<br />
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Tomato-Head Kids<br />
By Michael & Debi Pearl<br />
It is easy to recognize when a child<br />
has had significant interaction<br />
with his parents. His eyes are<br />
bright and alive with <strong>the</strong> pleasure of<br />
everything happening around him.<br />
He is always “in <strong>the</strong> way,” not wanting<br />
to be left out of anything interesting—<br />
and everything is interesting! He is full<br />
of meaningful questions and expects<br />
an intelligent answer. On <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
hand, children who have been raised<br />
by cartoons and computer games, and<br />
are relegated to <strong>the</strong> out-of-<strong>the</strong>-way<br />
back bedrooms filled with toys and<br />
music, are dull and unresponsive.<br />
They lack interest and generally seem<br />
to have a lower IQ than children of<br />
interactive parents. The shoved-aside,<br />
“come back when you grow up”<br />
children, are raised like greenhouse<br />
tomatoes, and have about as much<br />
personality as <strong>the</strong> tomato has flavor.<br />
The dull stare, <strong>the</strong> lack of interest in<br />
what visiting adults are talking about<br />
or doing, <strong>the</strong> wandering off to sit and<br />
play with toys, and <strong>the</strong> general “I mind<br />
my own business” attitude is obvious,<br />
even though in varying degrees.<br />
Of course, personalities differ, but<br />
when a very young child is constantly<br />
provoked into thinking and interacting<br />
with his parents, it becomes obvious<br />
that his understanding exceeds that of<br />
his greenhouse peers.<br />
We have observed that children<br />
who have been raised in an atmosphere<br />
where <strong>the</strong>y are challenged to use <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
minds and <strong>the</strong>ir voices will more<br />
likely grow up to become independent<br />
thinkers. The tomato-head will still be<br />
compliantly sitting, waiting for someone<br />
to tell him what to do when he is<br />
30 years old.<br />
Children who have been talked to,<br />
intellectually stimulated, challenged<br />
to understand, and<br />
who received explanations<br />
before <strong>the</strong>y<br />
were “old enough” to<br />
understand, will understand<br />
long before<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir peers. <strong>No</strong>t that<br />
we want our children to win out over<br />
o<strong>the</strong>r children in <strong>the</strong> social race. We<br />
just want <strong>the</strong>m to be wise and creative,<br />
to be aggressive in <strong>the</strong>ir desires to<br />
learn, and to be an active, productive<br />
part of life. But, more than just being a<br />
part, we actually want <strong>the</strong>m to be that<br />
part of life that makes things happen,<br />
not simply to be a recipient of what<br />
“happens” to come <strong>the</strong>ir way. It is <strong>the</strong><br />
difference between being <strong>the</strong> wind<br />
and being a piece of paper. A piece of<br />
paper won’t bo<strong>the</strong>r you, but give me a<br />
face full of wind any day.<br />
Some parents see it as a burdensome<br />
chore to “have to” interact<br />
with <strong>the</strong>ir children. Children who are<br />
blessed with lots of such interaction<br />
are interested in what adults are talking<br />
about, to <strong>the</strong> point of having to be<br />
told (often repeatedly) to wait before<br />
sharing <strong>the</strong>ir opinion. They expect you<br />
to want to know what is on <strong>the</strong>ir mind,<br />
just as <strong>the</strong>y want to know what is on<br />
yours. If you are sewing, <strong>the</strong>y want to<br />
try <strong>the</strong>ir hand at it. If you are cooking,<br />
<strong>the</strong>y want to smell <strong>the</strong> food, taste<br />
<strong>the</strong> mix, and stir everything. When<br />
you are loading firewood or cleaning<br />
out an old sewer pipe, <strong>the</strong>y want to be<br />
<strong>the</strong>re right smack in <strong>the</strong> way, holding<br />
something for you so as to feel a part<br />
of <strong>the</strong> project.<br />
The interacted-with child is no tomato-head.<br />
He will be marked with<br />
bubbling self-confidence, whereas<br />
that vegetable-headed child will tend<br />
to be easily bored and insecure. The<br />
set-aside child is <strong>the</strong> one who becomes<br />
self-loathing, knowing for certain<br />
that he is pushed away because he is<br />
clearly worthless. The interactive kid<br />
will grow up to be a shaker and mover<br />
of people and events.<br />
Where <strong>the</strong> TV with its soap operas<br />
once stole <strong>the</strong> children’s mo<strong>the</strong>rs, it is<br />
now <strong>the</strong> web. Mo<strong>the</strong>rs surf and children<br />
suffer. They learn to be quiet, to<br />
not bo<strong>the</strong>r. In time <strong>the</strong>y won’t bo<strong>the</strong>r<br />
with anything. Spend your hours<br />
talking and visiting with your friends<br />
instead of talking with your 2-year-old<br />
and your 2-year-old will not grow up<br />
to be your friend.<br />
Children who are spoken to and<br />
listened to throughout <strong>the</strong> day grow<br />
up to speak so that o<strong>the</strong>rs listen. And,<br />
<strong>the</strong>y grow up to listen carefully, so as<br />
to understand <strong>the</strong> subtle nuances of<br />
what is being said. A good vocabulary<br />
doesn’t necessarily come from<br />
books; it comes more from hearing<br />
an abundance of conversations of<br />
which <strong>the</strong>y are a part. Your babies<br />
cannot ride around in a car seat or a<br />
shopping cart and develop productive<br />
brain cells.<br />
Time at <strong>the</strong> table talking is more<br />
important than times tables. God said<br />
it like this in Isaiah 28:9-10, “Whom<br />
shall he teach knowledge? and whom<br />
shall he make to understand doctrine?<br />
<strong>the</strong>m that are weaned from <strong>the</strong> milk,<br />
and drawn from <strong>the</strong> breasts. For<br />
precept must be upon precept, precept<br />
upon precept; line upon line, line upon<br />
line; here a little, and <strong>the</strong>re a little:”<br />
Here a little, and <strong>the</strong>re a little—even<br />
while <strong>the</strong>y are nursing be giving <strong>the</strong>m<br />
Bible teaching (when <strong>the</strong>y come up for<br />
air). Don’t let ignorance get a hold on<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir young minds, and don’t let <strong>the</strong><br />
status quo become <strong>the</strong>ir default ambition.<br />
Yesterday Mike came in <strong>the</strong> door<br />
and said, “You know that 6-year-old<br />
kid outside? He is really smart!”<br />
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I asked Mike, “How’s that? What did<br />
he do that was so smart?” I could see<br />
Mike was trying to come up with an<br />
example to explain why he thought<br />
<strong>the</strong> child was so smart. Finally he said,<br />
“Well, he asked me if <strong>the</strong>re was going<br />
to be a contest for knife throwing,<br />
and if so, what would <strong>the</strong> rules be.”<br />
Through having<br />
conversations with<br />
<strong>the</strong> child, I had already<br />
observed that<br />
he is wise, alert,<br />
and eager to be an<br />
important part of a<br />
bigger world than<br />
that of <strong>the</strong> average<br />
boy. He seems<br />
to be more like a<br />
small man than a<br />
child. This little<br />
man has grown up<br />
in a very interactive family. His mama<br />
has no interest in life greater than<br />
instructing her children.<br />
Most dads, when <strong>the</strong>y come home<br />
in <strong>the</strong> evening, enjoy relating to <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
children what <strong>the</strong>y’ve done during that<br />
day. Evenings are but a small part of a<br />
child’s life—just <strong>the</strong> ending of a long<br />
day. Let’s face it Mama, we mo<strong>the</strong>rs<br />
are responsible for <strong>the</strong> greatest part of<br />
our children’s education and development.<br />
Some mamas are no more than<br />
loving babysitters, whose children<br />
reflect <strong>the</strong>ir lack of intellectual interaction.<br />
It is common for fa<strong>the</strong>rs to leave<br />
<strong>the</strong> raising of young children to mo<strong>the</strong>r<br />
and not get very involved in <strong>the</strong>ir sons’<br />
lives until <strong>the</strong>y are old enough to tag<br />
along and participate in <strong>the</strong>ir adult<br />
work and play—usually at about 4 to<br />
6 years old. Many fa<strong>the</strong>rs take <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
young son out with <strong>the</strong>m on a sort of<br />
“coming out to manhood venture,”<br />
only to discover that <strong>the</strong>ir son is a<br />
dumb, insecure, disinterested sissy.<br />
Dad can’t relate to him, and after<br />
several more unsuccessful tries, leaves<br />
him to Mo<strong>the</strong>r to finish raising. Sure,<br />
a wise and loving fa<strong>the</strong>r would be<br />
more involved all along and wouldn’t<br />
give up on his son no matter what, but<br />
statistics indicate that only about one<br />
out of one hundred dads is wise and<br />
patient. Many families today are made<br />
up of imperfect fa<strong>the</strong>rs and imperfect<br />
The interacted-with child<br />
is no tomato-head.<br />
He will be marked with<br />
bubbling self-confidence,<br />
whereas that<br />
vegetable-headed child<br />
will tend to be easily<br />
bored and insecure.<br />
mo<strong>the</strong>rs trying desperately to raise<br />
perfect kids—not an impossible task,<br />
but a demanding one.<br />
So, Mo<strong>the</strong>r, help make sure that<br />
when your husband does try to relate<br />
to your son, he finds him interesting<br />
and challenging. Your son should be<br />
snappy and quick-witted, interested in<br />
all that is happening,<br />
eager to try<br />
everything, full of<br />
curiosity and a zest<br />
for new experiences.<br />
Fa<strong>the</strong>rs are<br />
not interested in<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir boys being<br />
quiet, compliant,<br />
and kind. If your<br />
son is going to be<br />
able to ask an intelligent<br />
question, he<br />
will have to have a<br />
genuine interest in what his dad is doing.<br />
Your attitude and conversation can<br />
generate that interest in your son.<br />
We are not forgetting <strong>the</strong> girls.<br />
Many a capable young man has passed<br />
over a potential lifemate because she<br />
simply had no interest beyond clo<strong>the</strong>s<br />
and hair styles. A beautiful body<br />
without a vibrant interest in life-changing<br />
things is like a person without a<br />
heartbeat or like a frame without a<br />
picture. It’s what’s inside that counts!<br />
“Dumb” girls—girls never talked to<br />
at home—have limited options in<br />
life. They often become victims, and<br />
are used by bullying men. Little Jane<br />
should be able to sit at <strong>the</strong> Thanksgiving<br />
table and explain how long it<br />
took to cook <strong>the</strong> turkey, and why <strong>the</strong>y<br />
chose that particular method this year.<br />
Six-year-old Suzie should be able to<br />
answer questions from visitors and ask<br />
a few of her own.<br />
Encourage your children to speak<br />
of <strong>the</strong>ir ideas, recount <strong>the</strong>ir dreams,<br />
explain what <strong>the</strong>y meant, and defend<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir position with logic. We regularly<br />
told our children Bible stories and<br />
discussed <strong>the</strong> whys and hows of <strong>the</strong>m.<br />
The Bible says, “My people are destroyed<br />
for lack of knowledge: because<br />
thou hast rejected knowledge, I will<br />
also reject <strong>the</strong>e, that thou shalt be no<br />
priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten<br />
<strong>the</strong> law of thy God, I will also<br />
forget thy children” (Hosea 4:6). Bible<br />
knowledge is armor to <strong>the</strong> wearer<br />
<strong>the</strong>reof. It is wisdom. It is freedom.<br />
Read and tell your Bible stories until<br />
all your children can recite <strong>the</strong>m back<br />
to <strong>the</strong> family with exciting zeal. You<br />
will also discover that it is an excellent<br />
way to teach <strong>the</strong>m to speak in public<br />
with confidence.<br />
Life is always about interaction.<br />
“For none of us liveth to himself, and<br />
no man dieth to himself” (Romans 14:<br />
7). Give your children <strong>the</strong> gift of a vision<br />
of who and what <strong>the</strong>y can be. You<br />
don’t have to be highly educated to<br />
accomplish this, just highly motivated.<br />
Talk and laugh with your children.<br />
Listen to <strong>the</strong>m, ask questions, wait<br />
for <strong>the</strong> answers, respect <strong>the</strong>ir opinions,<br />
and, share your ideas. Don’t be<br />
surprised when <strong>the</strong>y soon pass you up<br />
in <strong>the</strong>ir insatiable quest for knowledge.<br />
Praise God when you see it happening,<br />
and pray faithfully that God will grant<br />
<strong>the</strong>m wisdom to match <strong>the</strong>ir acquired<br />
knowledge that you have inspired <strong>the</strong>m<br />
to attain. And <strong>the</strong>n rejoice with that<br />
growing number of faithful parents<br />
who, when finished with <strong>the</strong>ir childrearing<br />
days, will be able to proclaim<br />
in God’s presence, “I have no greater<br />
joy than to hear that my children walk<br />
in truth” (3 John 4). !<br />
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Which Curriculum is <strong>the</strong> Best?<br />
By Rebekah <strong>Joy</strong> Anast<br />
When parents decide to homeschool,<br />
one of <strong>the</strong> first questions<br />
raised in <strong>the</strong>ir minds is<br />
“which curriculum?” There are some<br />
wonderful lines of material out <strong>the</strong>re<br />
for <strong>the</strong> home-schooled kid of every<br />
grade and bent. How to choose one?<br />
Your homeschooling friend from <strong>the</strong><br />
church says such-and-such worked<br />
better for her son than anything else,<br />
and she has tried a score of options.<br />
The magazines you read are advertising<br />
<strong>the</strong> most up-and-coming curriculum<br />
available. And <strong>the</strong>n, <strong>the</strong>re is<br />
your budget to consider... What if you<br />
choose a lemon and put your kid and<br />
yourself through misery for <strong>the</strong> next<br />
10 months?<br />
Good question.<br />
I have not seen or sampled very<br />
many curricula. As a student, I used<br />
very little, but what I did use was a<br />
mixture of ABEKA and ACE paces. I<br />
don’t believe<br />
ei<strong>the</strong>r one of<br />
<strong>the</strong>m were tailored to<br />
meet my needs as a student. But I<br />
have no fear about choosing <strong>the</strong> correct<br />
curriculum for my children. You<br />
see, it’s not a question of “what type<br />
of curriculum,” but ra<strong>the</strong>r: “what type<br />
of child.”<br />
Flash cards, cassette tapes, school<br />
books, and Curious George Learns<br />
<strong>the</strong> Alphabet was my first approach<br />
to teaching Joe Courage his ABCs.<br />
He was learning at a moderate pace,<br />
I suppose, but not with <strong>the</strong> lightning<br />
speed and enthusiasm he shows in<br />
o<strong>the</strong>r areas of life. I wondered why.<br />
An unplanned trip to Walgreen’s with<br />
Joe was what I needed.<br />
We strolled down <strong>the</strong> crowded<br />
aisle, looking for a broom, and<br />
discovered a section of coffee table<br />
entertainment. Puzzles of all kinds, including<br />
3D puzzles of cars and trucks,<br />
a map of <strong>the</strong> United States, and even<br />
a couple of children’s puzzles of numbers<br />
and alphabet pieces. We bought<br />
<strong>the</strong>m all and spent less than twenty<br />
bucks. The first time Joe tried to put<br />
<strong>the</strong> alphabet puzzle toge<strong>the</strong>r, he got<br />
frustrated and stomped on <strong>the</strong> pieces.<br />
His reaction was so violent that I was<br />
amazed. He was duly spanked, but <strong>the</strong><br />
intensity of his emotions toward <strong>the</strong><br />
puzzle clued me in: Joe has a “handson”<br />
brain.<br />
Within twenty-four hours, he could<br />
put <strong>the</strong> puzzle toge<strong>the</strong>r in a matter of<br />
minutes. He had tried and retried a<br />
hundred times without prompting. He<br />
would not rest until he had it figured<br />
out. <strong>No</strong>t only would he repeat<br />
<strong>the</strong> process again and again, Joe<br />
would hold each piece up and ask<br />
me what it was - or guess. “Is this<br />
M for mama?” I had to be fast in<br />
my response, because he was<br />
not going to wait around for<br />
me to reply; two seconds later<br />
<strong>the</strong>re was ano<strong>the</strong>r piece in his<br />
hand. A couple of days later, he<br />
was able to put <strong>the</strong> puzzle toge<strong>the</strong>r<br />
while naming <strong>the</strong> letters and sounds<br />
to himself. “A is for a-a-alligator, B<br />
is for b-b-bear, C is for c-c-cookie,<br />
D is for d-d-daddy...” And that was<br />
<strong>the</strong> curriculum that Joe used to teach<br />
himself <strong>the</strong> alphabet.<br />
Sight, Hearing, and Touch<br />
You are probably already familiar<br />
with <strong>the</strong> three methods of learning;<br />
Sight, Hearing, and Touch. Almost<br />
everyone has at some time or o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
diagnosed <strong>the</strong>mselves by saying,<br />
“Oh, I learn best by seeing something<br />
done...” or “I need to read it for myself;<br />
you’re not making sense...”<br />
Ever wonder why some people<br />
prefer a map, while o<strong>the</strong>rs do just fine<br />
following verbal directions? Why do<br />
some people read instruction manuals<br />
and information books while o<strong>the</strong>rs<br />
prefer fiction for entertainment and<br />
seminars for learning? Aha! The light<br />
has gone on in your brain. Yes. Your<br />
child learns in a different way from<br />
o<strong>the</strong>rs. Some may learn well with a<br />
good mixture of two, or even all three<br />
methods, but many will prefer one<br />
single method of learning.<br />
Actions speak louder...<br />
Joseph Courage is a hands-on<br />
learner. He needs action and touch.<br />
Joe needs to be physically involved<br />
in <strong>the</strong> lessons he is learning. He likes<br />
to work, play, sing, and talk his way<br />
through “schoolwork.” This manner<br />
of learning may be <strong>the</strong> most difficult<br />
for <strong>the</strong> average teacher to work with.<br />
Hands-on teaching requires enormous<br />
creativity and involvement. There<br />
are not many curricula that can meet<br />
this learning bent, unless <strong>the</strong>y are<br />
project suggestion books and a series<br />
of games. There may be such a one<br />
out <strong>the</strong>re, but I am not aware of it. I<br />
had a sister and a bro<strong>the</strong>r who learned<br />
this way. I believe my Mom is also<br />
a hands-on learner, thus her manner<br />
of teaching was more hands-on and<br />
creative than it o<strong>the</strong>rwise would have<br />
been.<br />
When I was a child, one of my<br />
Mom’s most used teaching tools was<br />
peanut-butter “play-dough.” She<br />
made it regularly and kept plastic<br />
containers full of decorating supplies<br />
(peanuts, raisins, M&Ms) on hand.<br />
We crowded around <strong>the</strong> table and<br />
created all kinds of things, only to eat<br />
<strong>the</strong>m in <strong>the</strong> end. Almost every kid has<br />
eaten play-dough, but we did it legally<br />
and safely.<br />
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Here’s <strong>the</strong> recipe for peanut<br />
butter play-dough.<br />
1/3-part peanut butter<br />
1/3-part dry powdered milk<br />
1/3-part honey<br />
Mix well and knead for a few<br />
minutes until dough sticks<br />
toge<strong>the</strong>r. Refrigerate leftovers in<br />
airtight container to keep for a<br />
week or more.<br />
Ano<strong>the</strong>r method Mom used<br />
was <strong>the</strong> Math-It games which we<br />
bought from <strong>the</strong> Moore Foundation<br />
(www.moorefoundation.com or<br />
800-891-5255). Also, for math we<br />
counted change, and had “business”<br />
over <strong>the</strong> kitchen table, buying and<br />
selling snack goods to each o<strong>the</strong>r.<br />
We played games that involved a lot<br />
of vocabulary, history, and facts. We<br />
learned to read by taking turns reading<br />
aloud behind an imaginary pulpit,<br />
making our voices carry and our<br />
words clear for <strong>the</strong> “audience” of four<br />
siblings and two parents. The critics<br />
were very strict.<br />
Mom had project after project<br />
going for her own interest, from<br />
mushroom farming to making natural<br />
dyes. She read <strong>the</strong> instructions, but<br />
preferred to try things herself, and still<br />
does. We learned from her projects as<br />
well.<br />
I think one of <strong>the</strong> best curricula<br />
for a hands-on learner is to work with<br />
someone. My bro<strong>the</strong>r Gabriel learned<br />
an immense amount from working<br />
on construction sites with o<strong>the</strong>r men<br />
from <strong>the</strong> time he was twelve years<br />
old. The conversation and practical<br />
skills he acquired on <strong>the</strong> job-site<br />
opened <strong>the</strong> door of knowledge for<br />
him, and showed him how to “teach”<br />
himself. Finding a genre of knowledge<br />
and a “teacher” you trust may<br />
be difficult, but it is definitely worth<br />
a careful look. A girl could work at a<br />
fabric store, flower shop, milk farm,<br />
novelty shop, restaurant, with a midwife,<br />
etc... A boy could work with a<br />
black-smith, carpenter, veterinarian,<br />
businessman, etc... So much is learned<br />
by working at a job: knowledge, discipline,<br />
confidence, social interaction,<br />
and much more.<br />
As an aside, <strong>the</strong> famous Robert<br />
Kiyosaki, who wrote <strong>the</strong> book, Rich<br />
Dad, Poor Dad, recommended that<br />
before anyone starts a business, <strong>the</strong>y<br />
should get a job working for a small<br />
company, and “work through” all <strong>the</strong><br />
jobs in <strong>the</strong> company <strong>the</strong>y can in order<br />
to get a well-rounded business education.<br />
I would safely guess that Robert<br />
Kiyosaki is a hands-on learner.<br />
Godspeed, with your hands-on<br />
student!<br />
Ears to Hear<br />
Very few children will turn away<br />
from some project or game that<br />
requires <strong>the</strong>ir physical involvement.<br />
However, not all children prefer to<br />
learn by <strong>the</strong> hands-on method. The<br />
hearing-learner will be impatient with<br />
<strong>the</strong> process and want you to “just tell<br />
me...” so <strong>the</strong>y can get on with life. I<br />
am this way.<br />
When I was a young student,<br />
games and projects were fun, but<br />
not in conjunction with learning. If I<br />
wanted to learn something, I wanted<br />
to be told how to do it, succinctly<br />
and articulately. Then I wanted my<br />
teacher to get out of my way and let<br />
me at it. Games and projects slowed<br />
me down and bored my mind; reading<br />
instructions was loathsome. I loved<br />
to memorize by listening to tapes or<br />
learning songs.<br />
Mom made a series of cassette<br />
tapes accompanied by charts that<br />
taught phonics, and I can still remember<br />
<strong>the</strong>m clearly. I would have preferred<br />
doing school entirely by audio<br />
tape or with a classroom teacher, and<br />
would have learned twice as much,<br />
twice as fast if that had been my sole<br />
manner of instructional input.<br />
Even today, I have trouble reading<br />
directions. The page just goes blank<br />
when I look at it. I buy patterns (rarely)<br />
only to study <strong>the</strong> pictures and sew<br />
what “looks like it,” and rarely fail<br />
in this method. “A picture is worth a<br />
thousand words” is a true statement;<br />
seeing a picture is just like hearing<br />
something explained. Words on paper<br />
are not anywhere near <strong>the</strong> same as<br />
a spoken word. Homeschool videos<br />
were not around when I needed <strong>the</strong>m.<br />
I have no doubt I would have preferred<br />
teaching videos over any o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
method of learning.<br />
If you have a hearing-learner,<br />
reading aloud to <strong>the</strong>m is a great way<br />
to start. Mom began to read aloud to<br />
me when I was tiny, and she claims<br />
that I was reading by <strong>the</strong> time I turned<br />
four. Even now, at thirty years old,<br />
when I think of a word, I can hear<br />
it said in my mind. When I spell a<br />
difficult word, I do so by remembering<br />
it being spelled aloud. I learned to<br />
spell Wednesday by hearing someone<br />
pronounce it “Wed-nes-day” slowly<br />
for me.<br />
I still know my multiplication<br />
tables, because Mom chanted <strong>the</strong>m<br />
aloud to me, and had me chant <strong>the</strong>m<br />
back to her. Chanting <strong>the</strong> “times<br />
tables” drove my bro<strong>the</strong>r crazy, but<br />
for me <strong>the</strong>re was no o<strong>the</strong>r way. I enjoy<br />
reading, but I learn better from books<br />
that are written in a conversational<br />
style, ra<strong>the</strong>r than those that are written<br />
in instructional form.<br />
If you have<br />
a child who<br />
learns more<br />
easily by videos<br />
and tape curriculum,<br />
audited<br />
classes, songs and<br />
chant repetitions, and<br />
all o<strong>the</strong>r things taught by <strong>the</strong><br />
hearing method, <strong>the</strong>n it will be obvious<br />
to you what curricula to use for<br />
that student. If he or she is like me,<br />
hearing will open <strong>the</strong> door of ability<br />
to read for <strong>the</strong>mselves. Once <strong>the</strong>y can<br />
“hear” a word in <strong>the</strong>ir head when <strong>the</strong>y<br />
see it, <strong>the</strong>y will soon become “selftaught.”<br />
Eye of <strong>the</strong> Beholder<br />
This may be <strong>the</strong> most convenient<br />
type of student for parents to teach.<br />
Thankful are <strong>the</strong> teachers who have<br />
students who prefer to read <strong>the</strong> information<br />
for <strong>the</strong>mselves!<br />
My sister Shalom learns best<br />
by sight. In her case, a project was<br />
overwhelming and verbal instructions<br />
were ei<strong>the</strong>r too fast or too slow. She<br />
had no patience with being told <strong>the</strong><br />
teacher’s perceptions. Her mentality<br />
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was, “who cares what you know; give<br />
me <strong>the</strong> book, and soon I’ll know it.”<br />
Shalom spent hours in her room,<br />
surrounded by stacks of books that<br />
she studied with <strong>the</strong> patience of a sea<br />
turtle. The rest of us would walk by<br />
her door and peer in occasionally,<br />
simply amazed at her willingness<br />
to stay pinned to her desk. To force<br />
Shalom to study in a manner that was<br />
not comfortable to her was completely<br />
fruitless. She would sit through<br />
instructions and videos and family<br />
games, only to retire to her room to<br />
stay up all night studying and reading<br />
to learn what she needed to know.<br />
If Shalom ran out of books, her life<br />
was without form and void until she<br />
replenished <strong>the</strong> storehouse. Her walls<br />
and ceiling were lined with charts,<br />
maps, and posters of every sort.<br />
It is important for a sight-learner to<br />
know how to find written information.<br />
My husband is a sight-learner as well.<br />
He could not survive on this planet<br />
without <strong>the</strong> World Wide Web. Everything<br />
he wants to know is available to<br />
him by typing in a small command.<br />
For <strong>the</strong> sight-learner, such a tool is<br />
almost miraculous. There is no limit<br />
to what he/she can learn if <strong>the</strong> ability<br />
to find knowledge is given to <strong>the</strong>m.<br />
A local library offers <strong>the</strong> same type<br />
of resource. But, even in <strong>the</strong> library,<br />
Toddler Power<br />
By Rebekah <strong>Joy</strong> Anast<br />
a child needs to know how to look<br />
and where to look in order to find <strong>the</strong><br />
books he needs.<br />
<strong>No</strong>t only do sight-learners need to<br />
read instructional books, <strong>the</strong>y need<br />
demonstrations as well. If your sightlearner<br />
is interested in medical topics,<br />
<strong>the</strong>y will enjoy watching surgeries,<br />
births, and medical procedures in<br />
person, as well as on video. Seeing it<br />
done will give <strong>the</strong>m <strong>the</strong> confidence<br />
<strong>the</strong>y can do it <strong>the</strong>mselves. The smallest<br />
children need to be lifted up high<br />
to watch mama or daddy perform <strong>the</strong><br />
simple functions of life in <strong>the</strong> household.<br />
“Look, this is how you wash<br />
dishes...” “This is how you count<br />
money...” “This is <strong>the</strong> way you comb<br />
your hair...” Show-and-tell should be<br />
<strong>the</strong> teacher’s way of life for a sightlearner.<br />
Math problems, at times, will need<br />
to be solved on <strong>the</strong> white board step<br />
by step, but do so in a very visual<br />
manner. Spelling words will need to<br />
be on paper as well. Diagrams and<br />
graphs will make sense to a sight<br />
learner, where <strong>the</strong>y might look more<br />
like ancient Egyptian hieroglyphics to<br />
o<strong>the</strong>r children.<br />
And remember, if your sightlearner<br />
asks you to “show me,” what<br />
he/she really means is, “I need to see<br />
it done.”<br />
What <strong>No</strong>w?<br />
I believe that all three of <strong>the</strong>se<br />
methods of learning are likely to be<br />
found in your household. One child<br />
may need two methods to learn at<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir highest potential, and you might<br />
be completely different from that<br />
child. Experiment by teaching <strong>the</strong>m<br />
something three different ways, and<br />
see which method seems to “ring a<br />
bell” with your student. Once you<br />
know how <strong>the</strong>y learn, choosing a curriculum<br />
will be much easier and safer.<br />
You might discover that pieces of<br />
two different curricula are what you<br />
need for one child, whereas ano<strong>the</strong>r<br />
single curriculum might meet your<br />
second child’s needs entirely. If your<br />
best friend recommends what works<br />
for her, find out how her child learns<br />
before you invest a year’s savings in<br />
learning material that works great for<br />
someone else.<br />
And, if you are one of those<br />
teachers or students who has been<br />
badly burned by a curriculum that just<br />
didn’t take, take heart and let your<br />
hope return! You are not necessarily<br />
a poor teacher or a poor learner; you<br />
probably just need a new approach.<br />
<strong>No</strong>w you are much better equipped to<br />
find it! !<br />
Every morning Ryshoni <strong>Joy</strong> (19 months) and I pad sleepily into <strong>the</strong><br />
kitchen. I place all <strong>the</strong> dishes, silverware, and glasses on a low stool<br />
where she can reach <strong>the</strong>m. One dish at a time is carried and hoisted<br />
up on <strong>the</strong> table (just about as high as she can reach) while Joseph Courage (3 ½<br />
years) lays <strong>the</strong>m out in <strong>the</strong>ir proper places. When refrigerator items are needed on <strong>the</strong><br />
table, I open <strong>the</strong> door and place <strong>the</strong> items on <strong>the</strong> floor right next to <strong>the</strong> fridge. Again Rysha<br />
transports <strong>the</strong>m, one item at a time. I say <strong>the</strong> names of each item over my shoulder as I cook;<br />
“that’s <strong>the</strong> butter... that’s raisins... that’s <strong>the</strong> juice...”<br />
Occasionally Joe tries to butt in and claim his old job, which causes Rysha to panic. She is desperately<br />
protective of her place as table-setter. So I have to remind Joe that he has “big boy jobs” now, and redirect<br />
him to collecting trash, dirty clo<strong>the</strong>s, and mopping <strong>the</strong> floor.<br />
Every o<strong>the</strong>r day I need to vacuum. I turn on some “happy music” and announce with an excited voice, “It’s time to<br />
vacuum!” Joe and Rysha go into hyper-drive and start putting books and toys away as though it was <strong>the</strong> most fun <strong>the</strong>y<br />
ever had. This activity involves a lot of noisy squealing and vacuum-dodging games.<br />
They arrange <strong>the</strong> shoes by <strong>the</strong> door, make <strong>the</strong>ir beds (sort of), stack <strong>the</strong> magazines and notebooks, pick up crayons<br />
and alphabet letters, and wash windows. Joe is teaching Rysha all <strong>the</strong> finer details of “doing chores.” Much to Daddy’s<br />
satisfaction, <strong>the</strong> house stays clean AND kid-friendly.<br />
To be honest, I am a disorganized, space-cadet mo<strong>the</strong>r, but (thank God for toddlers!) nobody will ever know.<br />
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The Illustrated Bible Story Book<br />
AFTER YEARS OF DEDICATED WORK, THE PICTURE BIBLE IS TRAVELING AND SPREADING THE GOSPEL<br />
By Michael Pearl<br />
omplete at last! After seven<br />
years, countless days of work,<br />
and over $125,000 in expenditures,<br />
not counting any printing, that<br />
great missionary project is complete!<br />
It is <strong>the</strong> biggest undertaking we have<br />
ever attempted—certainly bigger than<br />
we imagined when we started. It began<br />
out of our concern to have printed<br />
material available to aid missionaries<br />
in communicating <strong>the</strong> Bible message.<br />
Our strong belief is that <strong>the</strong>re is<br />
nothing as effective in <strong>the</strong> evangelism<br />
of third world people as illustrated<br />
gospel messages.<br />
We didn’t want anything second<br />
rate, so we sought out and hired full<br />
time for two years a retired artist for<br />
Marvel Comics, who, after coming to<br />
know <strong>the</strong> Lord, had given up his art.<br />
We brought him back to <strong>the</strong> world of<br />
art with an assignment of 312 largeformat<br />
pages of Bible illustrations.<br />
Michael Pearl wrote <strong>the</strong> script and<br />
did <strong>the</strong> preliminary<br />
drawings in crude form, and <strong>the</strong>n<br />
Danny Bulanadi did <strong>the</strong> actual art<br />
work and <strong>the</strong> inking, followed by <strong>the</strong><br />
shading, done on <strong>the</strong> computer by our<br />
own Clint Cearley. After <strong>the</strong> artwork<br />
was finished, we had to put in all <strong>the</strong><br />
text frames and textbubbles with <strong>the</strong><br />
actual text. Wow! What a job! And<br />
<strong>the</strong>n came <strong>the</strong> proofing and tweaking<br />
and final editing. At last, a finished<br />
product!<br />
It has not yet gone to print, but<br />
it is going out in digital format now<br />
to missionaries for translation. We<br />
are making this tool available free<br />
to all missionaries who are faithful<br />
to <strong>the</strong> Word of God. It is in a format<br />
from which it can be translated as a<br />
whole book or can be divided into<br />
smaller portions, or single pages, or<br />
to individual pictures which can be<br />
singled out and enlarged for use as<br />
visual aids. It will be printed entirely<br />
in black and white to keep <strong>the</strong> printing<br />
cost down for missionaries. We<br />
are also adapting it as a children’s<br />
coloring book with no shading and no<br />
text that is being released through <strong>the</strong><br />
Calendar feature on our website.<br />
Missionaries can use single<br />
pictures from <strong>the</strong> Illustrated Bible or<br />
coloring book in producing gospel<br />
tracts. When we were asked why we<br />
didn’t just use some of <strong>the</strong> available<br />
works of art already in print, our<br />
answer was quick and concise: Too<br />
expensive. Too much restriction. <strong>No</strong>t<br />
enough “good” art. <strong>No</strong>t available in<br />
any language. And, not universally<br />
suitable for all people groups and<br />
primitive cultures.<br />
Soon Cambodian, Ukrainian, Mongolian,<br />
Hmong, Papua New Guinean,<br />
Thai, and o<strong>the</strong>r people in South East<br />
Asia will all have God’s story in <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
hands. It is our hope that missionaries<br />
to <strong>the</strong> folks we already know in<br />
East Timor and several Arabic people<br />
groups will soon be able to start<br />
translations. This is going to be a<br />
powerful tool in <strong>the</strong> hands of praying<br />
missionaries. If you are a missionary<br />
material, please have <strong>the</strong><br />
missionary contact us,<br />
and we will consider<br />
<strong>the</strong>m for use of this<br />
material.<br />
It is our goal to also<br />
The illustrated life story of Moses from his birth through his escape into <strong>the</strong> desert where<br />
God meets with him. This is one of <strong>the</strong> Bible stories from <strong>the</strong> Illustrated Picture Bible.<br />
work on <strong>the</strong> next page!<br />
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Translations <strong>No</strong>w In Progress<br />
THE ENTRANCE OF THY WORDS GIVETH LIGHT; IT GIVETH UNDERSTANDING UNTO THE SIMPLE Ps.119:130<br />
Cambodian People<br />
We came to Cambodia in 1998, and while <strong>the</strong><br />
gospel has made progress, <strong>the</strong> battle has been a<br />
slow, hard fight. We began studying<br />
<strong>the</strong> Khmer language immediately<br />
and have just recently become<br />
proficient speakers, able to preach<br />
and teach effectively (even preaching<br />
on <strong>the</strong> radio). Khmer is spoken<br />
by everyone and is <strong>the</strong> native tongue of over 96% of <strong>the</strong><br />
population. Buddhism, heavily mixed with ancestor<br />
and spirit worship, is <strong>the</strong> national religion with around<br />
98% of <strong>the</strong> country claiming to adhere. Sadly enough,<br />
many churches here have quite a few people in <strong>the</strong>m who<br />
failed to truly understand <strong>the</strong> Gospel and are just trading<br />
one tradition for ano<strong>the</strong>r that seems to be better at <strong>the</strong><br />
time. We greatly look forward to translating <strong>the</strong> Picture<br />
Bible Book and believe it will be a great weapon to use<br />
in attacking a satanic stronghold. Rarely are we able to<br />
spend long, single periods of time with anyone, so teaching<br />
<strong>the</strong> story of God from creation to redemption sometimes<br />
takes several months, and much continuity can<br />
be lost from one lesson to <strong>the</strong> next. Even when finished,<br />
<strong>the</strong> message has only gotten out to a handful of people.<br />
The Picture Bible Book should enable us to rapidly teach<br />
<strong>the</strong> whole story of <strong>the</strong> Bible and help <strong>the</strong> Khmer to see<br />
God in His entirety, not just bits and pieces over a long<br />
period of time. It will also be a book that we can quickly<br />
show <strong>the</strong> Khmer believers and Church leaders how to<br />
use, thus giving us a possibility of reaching many, many<br />
more people than we could have before.<br />
Steve Schnell<br />
Just in From Mongolia!<br />
I believe that <strong>the</strong> Picture Bible<br />
is just <strong>the</strong> tool we need to penetrate<br />
this culture and help transform <strong>the</strong><br />
worldview of <strong>the</strong> Mongolian people.<br />
Often times, we take for granted <strong>the</strong> Biblical viewpoint<br />
which even <strong>the</strong> lost of our nation have had <strong>the</strong> privilege<br />
of inheriting from our faithful forefa<strong>the</strong>rs. Those who<br />
have grown up in a<strong>the</strong>istic Communism or <strong>the</strong> multi-god<br />
systems of Buddhism and Animism have tremendous difficulty<br />
comprehending <strong>the</strong> gospel. It is necessary to start<br />
from “In <strong>the</strong> beginning God” in order to lay a foundation<br />
from which to believe. The Picture Bible does a great job<br />
summarizing <strong>the</strong> central message of <strong>the</strong> Scriptures and its<br />
application to our lives. The dynamic narrative and excellent<br />
illustrations will encourage readers of all ages to take<br />
in <strong>the</strong> Old Old Story for <strong>the</strong> very first time. We are in <strong>the</strong><br />
process of setting up a large-scale print shop in Mongolia.<br />
We are not only targeting <strong>the</strong> 10 million Mongols residing<br />
in Mongolia, China, Kazakhstan and Russia, but are hoping<br />
to be used of <strong>the</strong> Lord to see this book and <strong>the</strong> Bible<br />
distributed throughout <strong>the</strong> unreached people groups of <strong>the</strong><br />
10/40 window. If you want to take part in this effort, you<br />
can pray for, network with, and send funds to:<br />
45697.<br />
Mickey Cofer<br />
▲ This is ice<br />
you see on <strong>the</strong>ir potty<br />
(a missionary’s life)<br />
If you would like to be part of <strong>the</strong> Cambodian ministry,<br />
send support to: Central Missionary Clearinghouse,<br />
P.O. Box 12964, Houston, TX, 77217. Earmark your<br />
check for Steve Schnell.<br />
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Hmong People<br />
In <strong>the</strong> ’60s, <strong>the</strong> Hmong<br />
people of <strong>the</strong> highlands<br />
of <strong>No</strong>rth Vietnam fought<br />
alongside <strong>the</strong> USA in <strong>the</strong><br />
Vietnam War. After our<br />
withdrawal, <strong>the</strong>y came<br />
under severe persecution,<br />
many of <strong>the</strong>m<br />
shot on sight. Their plight continues<br />
until this day. Over <strong>the</strong> years, many<br />
thousands of Hmong were able to flee<br />
to America, but a few have been left<br />
behind in hostile countries.<br />
In September, some missionaries<br />
heard rumors of a large group<br />
of Hmong people living in a remote<br />
mountainous area in north central<br />
Thailand. They went to investigate<br />
and found around 7000 people who<br />
had been forcibly removed from<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir country. Their personal papers,<br />
passports and money were taken from<br />
<strong>the</strong>m. They were huddled on <strong>the</strong> side<br />
of <strong>the</strong> road without <strong>the</strong> bare essentials<br />
of life. They had constructed meager<br />
bamboo shacks with thatched roofs<br />
and dirt floors. <strong>No</strong>w <strong>the</strong>y are a people<br />
without citizenship in any country,<br />
having no food, not allowed to work<br />
and not even allowed land on which<br />
to grow food. To return to <strong>the</strong>ir own<br />
country would mean certain death.<br />
One of <strong>the</strong> missionaries, whom we<br />
know well but cannot name, said of<br />
<strong>the</strong> Hmong people, “It is amazing that<br />
most of <strong>the</strong> Hmong people can read<br />
and write, especially amazing since,<br />
for over 40 years, <strong>the</strong>y have been<br />
forbidden to teach <strong>the</strong>ir language.<br />
They are true home-schoolers.” Our<br />
missionary says of his contacts with<br />
<strong>the</strong>m, “For <strong>the</strong> last 10 years of my<br />
life, I have been in-training as a missionary<br />
(language and translation).<br />
The opportunity to preach and teach<br />
few weeks is worth every day<br />
of <strong>the</strong> 10 years of preparation<br />
I have made. It is a wonderful<br />
privilege to be able to share<br />
God’s Word with <strong>the</strong>se extraordinary,<br />
intelligent, thoughtful<br />
people, who eagerly listen to<br />
every word, <strong>the</strong>n rush out to<br />
share it with <strong>the</strong>ir whole family<br />
group.”<br />
To see a 5-minute clip on<br />
<strong>the</strong> rice relief effort to <strong>the</strong> Hmong<br />
people, go to: www.rlingo.org/<br />
HmongRLI.wmv or www.rlingo.org/<br />
Asia.html<br />
“And brought <strong>the</strong>m out, and said,<br />
Sirs, what must I do to be saved? And<br />
<strong>the</strong>y said, Believe on <strong>the</strong> Lord Jesus<br />
Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and<br />
thy house” Acts 16:30, 31.<br />
If you are interested in helping<br />
feed <strong>the</strong> Hmong people refugees,<br />
please contact:<br />
Relief Logistics International<br />
P.O. Box 136010<br />
Ft. Worth, TX 76136<br />
If you want to help, pray for, or send<br />
funds to <strong>the</strong> missionaries working<br />
with <strong>the</strong> Hmong people, send to:<br />
<strong>No</strong> <strong>Greater</strong> <strong>Joy</strong> <strong>Ministries</strong><br />
1000 Pearl Road<br />
Pleasantville TN 37033<br />
Designate funds for <strong>the</strong> Hmong work.<br />
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Bible Doctrine<br />
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AM I SAVED?<br />
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2 CDs 1310-45 $10. 00 1 CD 3730-45 $5. 00<br />
AUTHORITY PRAYING<br />
Michael Pearl preaches on <strong>the</strong><br />
believer’s position in Christ and how<br />
prayer is based on <strong>the</strong> authority that<br />
is ours in Christ.<br />
GOD’S ETERNAL PROGRAM<br />
Most of Michael’s tapes and CDs<br />
are teachings. This one is a sermon<br />
preached at a camp in California. It<br />
is fun and a blessing.<br />
1 Cassette 1330-40 $5. 00 1 Cassette 3610-40 $5. 00<br />
1 CD 3610-45 $5. 00<br />
BALAAM & HIS ASS<br />
GOD HATES SINNERS<br />
Insightful and entertaining story of<br />
It’s time you knew <strong>the</strong> truth.<br />
Balaam and his ass.<br />
1 Cassette 1405-40 $5. 00 1 CD 3615-45 $5. 00<br />
1 CD 1405-45 $5. 00 REPENTANCE<br />
BODY, SOUL, & SPIRIT<br />
Five messages discussing <strong>the</strong> nature<br />
of man, temptation and sin, <strong>the</strong><br />
sovereignty of God and <strong>the</strong> free will<br />
of man. Illustrated diagram included.<br />
When <strong>the</strong> Bible warns a sinner to<br />
repent, what is <strong>the</strong> nature of that<br />
repentance? Michael Pearl examines<br />
all 112 uses of ‘repent’ in <strong>the</strong> KJV.<br />
Designed to put hearts at rest in<br />
Christ and correct error.<br />
3 Cassettes 1435-40 $12. 00 44 pg. Book 8120-10 $4. 00<br />
3 CDs 1435-45 $12. 00 8 or more copies $2. 75 ea.<br />
BY DIVINE DESIGN<br />
RIGHTEOUSNESS<br />
If you are philosophically minded, Four messages on salvation: Blood,<br />
this book will appeal to you.<br />
Imputed Righteousness, The<br />
Michael discusses some of <strong>the</strong><br />
Man Christ Jesus and Saving<br />
basic presuppositions that lead us to<br />
Righteousness<br />
3 Cassettes 8135-40 $12.<br />
believe in and trust <strong>the</strong> unseen God.<br />
4 CDs 8135-41 $15.<br />
We are part of a great drama that is<br />
perfectly orchestrated by both <strong>the</strong><br />
sovereignty of God and <strong>the</strong> free will<br />
of man.<br />
SABBATH REST<br />
What does <strong>the</strong> Bible say about<br />
keeping <strong>the</strong> Sabbath, be it Saturday,<br />
85 pg. Book 2330-10 $5. 00 Sunday, or Tuesday?<br />
8-99 copies each $3. 00 1 Cassette 8310-40 $5. 00<br />
100+ copies each $2. 50 1 CD 8310-45 $5. 00<br />
3 Cassettes 2330-40 $12. 00<br />
SANCTIFICATION<br />
CHRONOLOGICAL<br />
Three sermons by Michael Pearl<br />
PROPHECIES<br />
contain <strong>the</strong> good news of complete<br />
The infidel is silenced with this<br />
irrefutable testimony of <strong>the</strong> Bible’s<br />
accuracy.<br />
and immediate deliverance from<br />
any and all sin by <strong>the</strong> miracle of <strong>the</strong><br />
gospel alone.<br />
1 Cassette 2080-40 $5. 00<br />
$5.<br />
3 Cassettes 8320-40 $12. 00<br />
THE BELIEVER<br />
This is new material concerning <strong>the</strong><br />
controversial subject of security of<br />
<strong>the</strong> believer. You will be surprised at<br />
what you hear. The Church (at large)<br />
has been divided, both sides holding<br />
to a portion of Scripture while<br />
explaining away <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r Scripture.<br />
Can one believe all <strong>the</strong> Scripture on<br />
both sides of <strong>the</strong> issue? Absolutely.<br />
2 Cassettes 8322-40 $10 . 00<br />
3 CDs 8322-45 $12. 00<br />
SINFUL NATURE<br />
These four messages answer some<br />
of <strong>the</strong> ridiculous teachings of an<br />
ancient heresy sometimes called<br />
“Calvinism.” For too long, Reformed<br />
<strong>the</strong>ology has robbed <strong>the</strong> church of<br />
<strong>the</strong> power of God. The petals fall off<br />
of Calvin’s tulip when it is held up to<br />
<strong>the</strong> light of Scripture.<br />
3 Cassettes 8330-40 $12. 00<br />
3 CDs 8330-45 $12. 00<br />
SIN NO MORE<br />
The big question is: “So how do I<br />
stop sinning?” You have confessed<br />
your sins, received <strong>the</strong> baptism of<br />
<strong>the</strong> Holy Ghost with evidence of<br />
everything but ceasing to sin, yet<br />
you are still a Romans 7 Christian.<br />
I assure you, God not only saves<br />
his children from <strong>the</strong> penalty of sin<br />
but he saves <strong>the</strong>m from its power as<br />
well. You can stop sinning.<br />
7 Cassettes 8315-40 $24. 00<br />
9 CDs 8315-41 $28. 00<br />
SONS OF GOD AND GIANTS<br />
Little known and forgotten facts of<br />
early human history<br />
1 Cassette 8336-40 $5. 00<br />
1 CD 8336-45 $5. 00<br />
WHEN FORGIVENESS<br />
IS A SIN<br />
There are times when to forgive<br />
someone would a grave sin.<br />
1 Cassette 9580-40 $5. 00<br />
1 CD 9580-45 $5. 00<br />
3 CDs 8320-41 $12. 00 SECURITY OF<br />
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Bible Doctrine<br />
Booklets & Posters<br />
Booklets<br />
All booklets are $1 each or<br />
60¢ each for 25 or more of any<br />
one of <strong>the</strong> below. These are great<br />
resources for teachers to use in<br />
Bible classes.<br />
AND THE BOOK OF JAMES<br />
James clearly teaches that works<br />
justify a man, while Paul teaches<br />
that a man is not justified by works.<br />
Are <strong>the</strong>y contradicting each o<strong>the</strong>r?<br />
Which one is correct? This study<br />
resolves <strong>the</strong> issue once and for all.<br />
26 pg. Booklet 4960-10 $1. 00<br />
JUSTIFICATION<br />
1 JOHN 1:9<br />
THE PROTESTANT<br />
CONFESSIONAL<br />
PORNOGRAPHY<br />
A core belief held by most<br />
- ROAD TO HELL<br />
conservative Christians is that<br />
Christians who have unconfessed<br />
sins in <strong>the</strong>ir life are in need of<br />
forgiveness, are out of fellowship<br />
with God, and are walking<br />
in darkness. The underlying<br />
assumption is that God forgives only<br />
sins that are confessed. What does<br />
<strong>the</strong> Bible teach? Does God withhold<br />
forgiveness until sin is confessed?<br />
<strong>No</strong>t on your life.<br />
23 pg. Booklet 4650-10 $1. 00<br />
BAPTISM IN JESUS’ NAME<br />
There are those who insist that New<br />
Testament water baptism is not valid<br />
unless <strong>the</strong> one doing <strong>the</strong> baptism<br />
vocally utters <strong>the</strong> words “in Jesus’<br />
name.” It is <strong>the</strong> conclusion of this<br />
study that <strong>the</strong> verbal utterance is<br />
never an issue in Scripture. It is<br />
erroneous to insist on any certain<br />
phrase being pronounced over <strong>the</strong><br />
baptized.<br />
17 pg. Booklet 1410-10 $1. 00<br />
IN DEFENSE OF BIBLICAL<br />
CHASTISEMENT<br />
Michael brings clear understanding Tracts<br />
back into <strong>the</strong> confusing and<br />
often-misunderstood subject of<br />
corporal chastisement. After firmly<br />
laying <strong>the</strong> Biblical foundation for<br />
chastisement, he <strong>the</strong>n answers <strong>the</strong><br />
question, “How do I apply corporal<br />
chastisement properly?” Finally, he<br />
shows <strong>the</strong> effectiveness of Biblical<br />
chastisement demonstrated in those<br />
families that practice it as taught.<br />
29 pg. Booklet 4530-10 $1. 00<br />
While most ministers avoid <strong>the</strong><br />
subject, Michael Pearl addresses<br />
<strong>the</strong> deadly scourge of pornography<br />
head-on. He shows how repentance<br />
toward God and <strong>the</strong> power of <strong>the</strong><br />
gospel of Jesus Christ can break <strong>the</strong><br />
bondage of this wicked perversion<br />
through <strong>the</strong> abundant mercy and<br />
grace of a loving God. There is<br />
hope for <strong>the</strong> man caught in <strong>the</strong> snare<br />
of pornography and hope for <strong>the</strong><br />
helpless, angry wife who finds it<br />
difficult to honor him.<br />
12 pg. Booklet 7030-10 $1. 00<br />
TO BETROTH<br />
OR NOT TO BETROTH<br />
All Christian parents want <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
children to have God’s first and<br />
best in all areas of <strong>the</strong>ir lives, and<br />
this includes marriage. In an effort<br />
to avoid <strong>the</strong> dangers of <strong>the</strong> modern<br />
dating game, families are giving<br />
attention to <strong>the</strong> concept of betrothal.<br />
The dangers of <strong>the</strong> betrothal system<br />
GOD MADE JESUS TO BE SIN<br />
Illustrated Gospel tract. Spread <strong>the</strong> Good<br />
request, plus $2.00 postage.<br />
DIOS HIZO A JESUS PECADO<br />
`<br />
are exposed with <strong>the</strong> light of Biblical<br />
truth, bringing objectivity back to an<br />
often-misunderstood subject.<br />
28 pg. Booklet 1420-10 $1. 00<br />
Posters<br />
REVELATION POSTER<br />
AND HANDBOOK<br />
This poster is a print of an<br />
original painting done by Michael<br />
Pearl which shows <strong>the</strong> events of<br />
Revelation in chronological order.<br />
It is 40"x19" on heavy, glossy paper.<br />
The handbook which accompanies<br />
it is filled with Old Testament<br />
references and commentary to <strong>the</strong><br />
events in Revelation.<br />
Poster 8130-10 $12. 00<br />
O<strong>the</strong>r Authors<br />
WHICH VERSION<br />
IS THE BIBLE?<br />
Author Floyd Jones. Answers all<br />
your questions about Bible versions.<br />
Proof that <strong>the</strong> King James Bible<br />
is <strong>the</strong> perfect Word of God to <strong>the</strong><br />
English-speaking people.<br />
Book 9510-10 $10. 00<br />
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Audio, Books, DVD & Video<br />
Family Resources<br />
THE JOY OF TRAINING NO GREATER JOY - VOL. 1<br />
8-99 copies each $3. 00 book set. This is a perfect gift for<br />
100+ copies each $2. 50<br />
friends or anyone who is seeking<br />
5 CDs 8610-40 $18. 00 help in parenting.<br />
Michael and Debi Pearl tell how<br />
<strong>the</strong>y successfully trained up <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
five children with love, humor, <strong>the</strong><br />
rod, and a King James Bible. The<br />
Reprints of <strong>the</strong> first two years of<br />
<strong>No</strong> <strong>Greater</strong> <strong>Joy</strong> articles. Covers <strong>the</strong><br />
subjects of sibling rivalry, pouting,<br />
bad attitudes, and much more.<br />
2 DVD set contains <strong>the</strong> same high Book 6230-10 $5. 00<br />
quality, digitally filmed content 8-99 copies each $3. 00<br />
100+ copies each $2.<br />
as <strong>the</strong> video set and hundreds of<br />
3 Cassettes 6230-40 $12.<br />
snapshots and video clips of family<br />
and children, illustrating <strong>the</strong> things NO GREATER JOY - VOL. 2<br />
being taught.<br />
Let your children listen to great<br />
2 DVDs 4910-75 $26. 00 bedtime stories. Covers <strong>the</strong> subjects<br />
3 VHS 4910-70 $26. 00 of rowdy boys, homeschooling,<br />
grief, and much more.<br />
TO TRAIN UP A CHILD Book 6235-10 $5. 00<br />
From successful parents, learn how 8-99 copies each $3. 00<br />
100+ copies each<br />
to train up your children ra<strong>the</strong>r than<br />
$2. 50<br />
3 Cassettes 6235-40 $12.<br />
discipline <strong>the</strong>m up. With humor and<br />
real-life examples, this book shows<br />
you how to train your children<br />
before <strong>the</strong> need to discipline arises.<br />
Be done with corrective discipline;<br />
make <strong>the</strong>m allies ra<strong>the</strong>r than<br />
adversaries. The stress will be gone<br />
and your obedient children will<br />
NO GREATER JOY - VOL. 3<br />
Children learn wisdom and enjoy<br />
listening to <strong>the</strong> stories as you<br />
read to <strong>the</strong>m volumes 1, 2, and 3.<br />
Covers <strong>the</strong> subjects of marriage<br />
relationships and how <strong>the</strong>y affect<br />
children, joy, much more.<br />
praise you.<br />
Book 6240-10 $5. 00<br />
Book 8610-10 $5. 00 8-99 copies each $3. 00<br />
8-99 copies each $3. 00 100+ copies each $2. 50<br />
100+ copies each $2. 50 3 Cassettes 6240-40 $12. 00<br />
3 Cassettes 8610-40 $12. 00 FOUR BOOK SET<br />
Spanish Translation<br />
Get <strong>the</strong> <strong>No</strong> <strong>Greater</strong> <strong>Joy</strong> Series and<br />
Book 8610-12 $5. 00 To Train Up a Child in this four<br />
4 Book Set 3200-00 $16. 00<br />
A-B-C BIBLE<br />
ALABAMA SEMINAR<br />
VERSE SONGS<br />
Beka and some of <strong>the</strong> kids in <strong>the</strong><br />
church sing <strong>the</strong> A-B-C Bible verse<br />
songs that her mo<strong>the</strong>r taught her<br />
when she was growing up. Your<br />
little ones will want to listen to this<br />
day and night, and by doing so <strong>the</strong>y FROM THE END<br />
will learn 26 Bible verses, with <strong>the</strong> OF THE EARTH<br />
references. This is <strong>the</strong> smilingest tape<br />
you will ever hear.<br />
1 Cassette 1010-40 $5. 00<br />
1 CD 1010-45 $5. 00<br />
Two hours of Michael Pearl speaking<br />
on child training. These tapes are<br />
geared toward <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r’s role in <strong>the</strong><br />
family. Tales of Mike and his sons’<br />
wild adventures. Boys love it!<br />
2 Cassettes 8325-40 $8. 00<br />
Songs by Rebekah Pearl. All alone<br />
in a bamboo hut on <strong>the</strong> top of a<br />
mountain in New Guinea, <strong>the</strong> first<br />
white woman ever seen by <strong>the</strong><br />
Kumboi village, Rebekah writes<br />
and sings songs about her God. She<br />
accompanies herself on a classical<br />
guitar.<br />
1 CD 3020-41 $8. 00<br />
1 Cassette 3020-40 $5. 00<br />
MY FAVORITE<br />
HOMESCHOOLING IDEAS<br />
Debi Pearl discusses her best<br />
homeschooling ideas. 20-plus years<br />
of accumulated wisdom. This tape<br />
can remove your burden. It is our<br />
best-selling tape!<br />
1 Cassette 6170-40 $5. 00<br />
1 CD 6170-45 $5. 00<br />
REBEKAH’S DIARY<br />
Rebekah Pearl, (now Rebekah Anast)<br />
daughter of Michael and Debi Pearl,<br />
tells <strong>the</strong> awesome story of God’s<br />
guidance and protection as she, a<br />
22 year old girl, all alone, where no<br />
white person had ever been, adapted<br />
to a primitive culture.<br />
106 pg. Book 7810-10 $5. 00<br />
8-99 copies each $3. 00<br />
100+ copies each $2. 50<br />
STARTING OVER<br />
The basic message, “OK, I know<br />
I’ve messed up in child training, now<br />
what do I do?”<br />
1 Cassette 8338-40 $5. 00<br />
1 CD 8338-45 $5. 00<br />
TESTIMONY OF<br />
DARLENE ROSE<br />
Hear <strong>the</strong> missionary story of Darlene<br />
Rose. Rebekah Pearl listened to<br />
<strong>the</strong>se tapes when she was young.<br />
She says <strong>the</strong>y helped mold her life<br />
toward missions.<br />
2 Cassettes 8605-40 $8. 00<br />
THE GAMI AKIJ STORY<br />
Your heart will be stirred as Rebekah<br />
Pearl recounts how God prepared<br />
a people for Himself. The story of<br />
her time in <strong>the</strong> mountains of Papua<br />
New Guinea, translating <strong>the</strong> Kumboi<br />
language. Young people love it.<br />
1 Cassette 3420-40 $5. 00<br />
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Marriage Resources<br />
CREATED TO BE HIS HELP MEET<br />
What God is doing through this new book is amazing!<br />
We are receiving thousands of letters from people giving<br />
testimony to marriages restored and made new. Pastors,<br />
bookstores, and teachers are ordering and reordering<br />
cases. 296 Pages.<br />
Book 2020-10 $12. 00<br />
Box of 24 books 2020-CS $172.80<br />
FOR WOMEN ONLY<br />
This book is based on surveys. It was a real eye-opener.<br />
Michael says it will help women understand men’s<br />
thoughts and struggles.<br />
Book 3210-10 $8. 50<br />
HOLY SEX<br />
Michael Pearl takes his readers through a refreshing<br />
journey of Biblical texts showing that God designed<br />
marriage to be <strong>the</strong> context of erotic pleasure. The world<br />
and <strong>the</strong> devil have attempted to make <strong>the</strong> subject of sex<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir domain. <strong>No</strong> longer.<br />
82 pg. Book 4125-10 $5. 00<br />
8-99 copies each $3.00<br />
100+ copies each $2.50<br />
MARRIAGE GOD’S WAY<br />
Husbands, learn how to sanctify your wife and cleanse<br />
her of spots, wrinkles, and blemishes. You have <strong>the</strong><br />
power to bring your wife into <strong>the</strong> fullness of all that God<br />
intended her to be. Wives, learn <strong>the</strong> freedom of honoring<br />
and ministering to your man. You can help him become<br />
all that God intended him to be.<br />
2 DVDs 4140-75 $18. 00<br />
2 VHS 4140-70 $18. 00<br />
ONLY MEN<br />
Michael Pearl speaks directly and frankly to men about <strong>the</strong>ir<br />
responsibilities as husbands. Wives should not listen to this<br />
tape. We don’t want you taking advantage of your man.<br />
1 Cassette 6650-40 $5. 00<br />
PANEL OF FIVE (LADIES)<br />
Five wives whose husbands have far-reaching ministries<br />
speak out on what a woman can do to be a helper to her<br />
husband.<br />
1 Cassette 7010-40 $5. 00<br />
YOUNG ADULTS & MARRIAGE<br />
This message, spoken by Michael Pearl in California, was<br />
given to help parents and <strong>the</strong>ir young adult children make<br />
wise decisions concerning marriage. It has <strong>the</strong> story of all<br />
five of our children finding <strong>the</strong>ir mates.<br />
1 Cassette 9810-40 $5. 00<br />
1 CD 9810-45 $5. 00<br />
FILLED WITH JOY AND LOVE<br />
I fi nally want to thank you for sharing<br />
your wisdom and experiences with us greenhorns. I<br />
am 52 years old. Just by accident, we found out about<br />
your ministry in how to raise children-- which we<br />
really needed. Then we got your book, “Created to be<br />
His Help Meet.” This book saved me, saved my marriage<br />
and probably many of our friends’ marriages.<br />
This is my second marriage, and I am so glad that I<br />
fi nally got my eyes opened to realize what a real wife<br />
is supposed to be! Since I turned myself around and<br />
followed what I learned, <strong>the</strong> change in our marriage<br />
has been miraculously wonderful. A big load has<br />
been taken from my shoulders. My husband is a 100%<br />
disabled veteran and is in constant pain. Since my<br />
awakening, I am fi lled with joy and love. All I want to<br />
say is thank you for helping me see God’s simple plan<br />
for a heavenly marriage. I loved <strong>the</strong> Marriage God’s<br />
Way and The <strong>Joy</strong> of Training videos. I have made an<br />
awful lot of mistakes but with God’s grace it is never<br />
too late. I am doing it HIS way from now on. - CT<br />
Making Melody<br />
Vickie Jackson, who was inspired by our book,<br />
“Created to Be His Help Meet,” wrote a sweet chorus<br />
“to sing during <strong>the</strong> day to help me remember to be a<br />
help meet.” Let it bless your day, too! Our own NGJ<br />
secretary, Carolyn Chambers, sings it on our website.<br />
Learn it as you sing along with her.<br />
If you want to read life-changing letters<br />
from women from all over <strong>the</strong> world<br />
who have read Created to Be His Help<br />
Meet, <strong>the</strong>n go to<br />
www.createdtobehishelpmeet.org<br />
If you want your testimony posted<br />
on this site, send it to us via email at<br />
ngj@nogreaterjoy.org.<br />
If you want your full name included, tell<br />
us. Go read what God is doing!<br />
OVER 180,000<br />
CREATED TO BE HIS HELP MEET IN PRINT<br />
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Children's Ministry<br />
in West Virginia<br />
Dear Gregg and company,<br />
My children had an unforgettable experience. We were children‛s<br />
ministers in a church for over 5 years. Yet, our children experienced <strong>the</strong><br />
Word of God at a new level. Your drama approach has impacted <strong>the</strong>m<br />
far more than Bible games, puppets, contemporary “Christian” music and<br />
videos. The greatest thing about <strong>the</strong>ir experience was watching young<br />
men and women excited about <strong>the</strong> word of God and ministering as a<br />
family. My children think that <strong>the</strong>ir teachers were <strong>the</strong> coolest adults in<br />
<strong>the</strong> world. Gracie, J.J., and Elizabeth were a huge hit. Our kids said<br />
this was <strong>the</strong> best vacation of <strong>the</strong>ir lives!<br />
Tolvos<br />
Ledford family, <strong>the</strong> staff would like to say, "Thank you, thank you, thank you for <strong>the</strong> goodies."<br />
I had a lot of fun watching <strong>the</strong> dramas and making <strong>the</strong> booklets My<br />
that you spent.<br />
R.G.<br />
P.S. I liked <strong>the</strong><br />
We enjoyed singing with you. My bro<strong>the</strong>rs are always singing; "and<br />
if <strong>the</strong> devil doesn't like it he can sit on a tack, sit on a tack..." - E.L.<br />
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Military Update<br />
NGJ has sent out 891 boxes full<br />
of books, tapes, CDs and o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
goodies to our military and<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir families. Thank you to all<br />
who have participated in this<br />
important ministry! Remember<br />
to send us names and addresses<br />
of men and women serving our<br />
country in foreign lands.<br />
Dear Bro<strong>the</strong>r Pearl:<br />
Greetings in <strong>the</strong> name of <strong>the</strong> Lord<br />
Jesus Christ! I pray that this<br />
e-mail fi nds you and your family<br />
and ministry prospering and<br />
enjoying <strong>the</strong> blessings of <strong>the</strong> Lord!<br />
I wanted to write to you and say a<br />
BIG “thank you” for <strong>the</strong> package<br />
that you mailed to me here in<br />
Iraq! I received it with great joy<br />
today. I thought that you would<br />
like to know that it arrived safely.<br />
I was eagerly looking forward<br />
to <strong>the</strong> Hebrews CD’s, but I was<br />
overjoyed to see that you had<br />
sent <strong>the</strong> Romans CD’s, as well!<br />
Praise <strong>the</strong> Lord! I eagerly look<br />
forward to listening to <strong>the</strong>se studies<br />
and to sharing <strong>the</strong>m with my<br />
fellow marines and sailors of 5th<br />
Platoon. I will also be distributing<br />
<strong>the</strong> booklets you sent on<br />
Pornography: Road to Hell. Like<br />
myself, many of <strong>the</strong> troops here<br />
have dealt or are dealing with this<br />
serious problem. Your book on<br />
Repentance looks like an intriguing<br />
read. This is a controversial<br />
subject <strong>the</strong>se days and I greatly<br />
anticipate reading what you have<br />
to say on <strong>the</strong> subject.<br />
Bro<strong>the</strong>r, God bless you for<br />
your support of <strong>the</strong> troops in<br />
<strong>the</strong> fi eld. You don’t realize how<br />
important such support is until<br />
you fi nd yourself in a place like<br />
Iraq! I look forward to sending<br />
a donation to NGJ at my fi rst opportunity<br />
to show my appreciation<br />
for your sacrifi ce for my platoon<br />
and I. Take care and keep standing<br />
for Jesus!<br />
In Christ, Bro. John<br />
I am a military wife (reservist)<br />
whose husband is in Iraq. We have<br />
11 children (9 at home) who are<br />
needing <strong>the</strong>ir daddy. <strong>No</strong> matter <strong>the</strong><br />
reason, <strong>the</strong>y miss him so much. I<br />
thank you for your love packages.<br />
It was such a blessing to both of<br />
us. I appreciate your kindness in<br />
thinking of us. The Lord had given<br />
me a word before he got orders—I<br />
knew <strong>the</strong>y were coming. I asked<br />
God to give me joy in this journey,<br />
and He has. Your book helped me<br />
remember that most important<br />
thing.<br />
Thank you, Proud Wife and Mom<br />
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