Issue 17 - InJoy Magazine

Initiateyouth, family, community • • • •Diffrences that workby Cynthia ConnopPartnership parentingUnderstanding and honoring thedifferences between masculineand feminine helps us be betterparents.Research shows that motherstend to calm their children downin play, while fathers exciteand stimulate which makes thechildren better able to managehigh energy situations as theygrow up. Children need bothstyles to flourish so if you are asingle parent, rather than tryingto be both mother and father toyour children why not arrange foryour children to play with trustedrelatives or adult friends who caneasily offer their essence?Knowing that devotion to hismission and goals is an essentialmasculine desire will help youunderstand your boys, whileaccepting the feminine spiritualneed for appreciation of her innerand outer beauty, being truly seenas the light she is, allows yourdaughter to have wonderful selfesteemas she grows into a lovingwoman.Partnership in businessPartnership in business together isa challenge as the lines are beingblurred constantly between workand intimacy. Creating separationbetween the two occasionally isessential. For example if you havebusiness calls together separatethem from your personal calls.Make the business call, whichrequires you both to be in yourmasculine, then hang up and callback for the personal call whereyou can in the play of man and woman.This applies for couples that don’t worktogether too as most relationships haveorganisational needs.Commit to 30-second ‘love zings’where you play together as soon asyou both get home, or as soon asyou shut the office door. He mightpick her up or twirl her around in adance, immediately taking her into herfeminine energy or he can take a loadoff her shoulders by taking her bagsand guide her towards the bath. Shecan remind him of why he takes on theburdens of life by offering him loving,sensual touch, being playful or openheartedly letting him be vulnerable.Singles – datingWhat works to attract the partner youwant is being true to your essence andshowing that to a potential partner.He isn’t looking for a colleague or abiz partner, he’s looking for the wayshe moves him both physically andemotionally; his chosen feminine loveforce that will make him happier andmore successful in life. She’s not lookingfor a girlfriend or a pleaser; she’s lookingfor a trustable masculine presence thatcan love and swoon her open and helpguide her to greater fulfillment in herlife. Taking the risk to let your date seethis side of you can be scary but its alsofun.Singles – internet datingThis is the same as any other dating.Shine out who you are in your profileand you will attract the right peopleto you. For her, that means revealingyour heart not your bank balance oracademic achievements, and for him itmeans being on mission, showing whatyou believe in and where you are ableto take a woman.This is the tip of the iceberg. Cultivatingthe art of love and polarity is a lifetimelearning - one that brings challengesbut wonderful rewards. It affectsyour love relationships, your children,colleagues, friends and even yourchoice of career. Living love from ourmasculine and feminine essence willbe the core of a harmonious, vibrantsociety.Visit www.LivingLove.com.au for details onup-coming events and Cynthia’s individualsessions. You can email info@livinglove.com.au or call 0408 205 671the Sweetest Placeexperience quality23injoyMullumbimby Chocolate ShopDalley St Plaza Dalley St. Mullumbimbyopen Mon - Sat 9 till 5