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halt<strong>in</strong>gly—and I knew that I wasthere for a moment <strong>in</strong> time thatwould be repeated aga<strong>in</strong> and aga<strong>in</strong>.I didn't disturb Kaplan—theconnect<strong>in</strong>g l<strong>in</strong>e was too important. Itouched\his shoulder as I left feel<strong>in</strong>gspecialness of these people.Calv<strong>in</strong> died last week. He died<strong>in</strong> San Francisco.Was he accept<strong>in</strong>g—or was itmore of the "do not go gently <strong>in</strong>tothat good night; Rage aga<strong>in</strong>st thedy<strong>in</strong>g of the light..."Whatever...Did Calv<strong>in</strong> remember mycar<strong>in</strong>g?<strong>The</strong> only th<strong>in</strong>g I can th<strong>in</strong>k ofnow is that I hope wherever he wasthat they let him have flowers.—Merle Hoffmancont<strong>in</strong>uedfrom pg. 19\oo<strong>The</strong> equality of women requires theirability to abort. This equality cannotbe compromised by medical technology,by legal or Constitutionalarguments and must not be compromisedby moral, religious or ethicalpronouncements. Freedom, libertyand equality must have no boundaries.<strong>The</strong> Civil War was fought tounite this country as one. Women'sfreedom and equality must not beallowed to exist on a state by statebasis. Any legislation that throwscontrol of these <strong>issue</strong>s back to thestates is tantamount to states rights"Emancipation Proclamations" giv<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>dividual states the power to decidewho should be free and who shouldnot be free. Just as blacks are free <strong>in</strong>all states, so must women be. Nowoman should have to travel fromone state to another to get adequatemedical care. In America, equalityand freedom must not be determ<strong>in</strong>edby one's geographic location.Liberty and freedom to choose,like breath<strong>in</strong>g, eat<strong>in</strong>g, walk<strong>in</strong>g andlov<strong>in</strong>g, are rights granted to us by ahigher authority. No government, nolegislative body, no religious pronouncementor philosophical treatise,no explod<strong>in</strong>g bombs, noterrorists, noth<strong>in</strong>g and no one mustever stop women from exercis<strong>in</strong>gtheir Constitutional, biological andGod-given right to choose! —M.H.Term<strong>in</strong>al Illness cont<strong>in</strong>ued from pg. 6Sense Suicide, has put it, women will"be more easily exploited becausethey're there.. .there for aboutanother eight years, on average."In addition, it is statisticallylikely that a woman will near deathwithout a mate or close contemporaryat her side. Generally speak<strong>in</strong>g,the man with term<strong>in</strong>al illness willhave the support of his wife. <strong>The</strong>two will discuss treatment optionsand the likely consequences. Moreoften than not, they will arrive at ashared decision. Difficult as it maybe, on many levels, the wife will, <strong>in</strong>my experience, always accede to ahusband's decision to end or avoiddeath-prolong<strong>in</strong>g treatment.Children and other relativesmight not always be so understand<strong>in</strong>g.(As an <strong>in</strong>terest<strong>in</strong>g sidelight, it isusually the estranged or guilty child,perhaps liv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> another state, whoresists a parent's decision to curtailunnecessary treatment.) A woman,therefore, may f<strong>in</strong>d herself expla<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>gher decision to lov<strong>in</strong>g relativeswho cannot really share her feel<strong>in</strong>gsabout the situation. Or, she may, as amother, feel that she cannot ask herchildren to share the burden of atreatment decision that will result <strong>in</strong>her dy<strong>in</strong>g naturally. She may not, <strong>in</strong>sum, have the peer support her husbandhad.What about the relationshipbetween the term<strong>in</strong>ally ill womanand her physician? <strong>The</strong>re are no statistics,but, because so many womenare older than men when deathapproaches, it seems to be true thatsome are less likely to question adoctor's treatment decision. Afterall, women <strong>in</strong> their 80s today grewup <strong>in</strong> the period when the medicalprofessional changed from a comfort<strong>in</strong>g,but fairly helpless, bedsidepresence to a miracle worker. Literally,dur<strong>in</strong>g a lifetime as long as thecentury is old, medical research hasdiscovered penicill<strong>in</strong>, <strong>in</strong>sul<strong>in</strong> and vacc<strong>in</strong>esfor many fatal illnesses. It wouldnot be strange if women of this andeven later generations were likely tobelieve that any new medical strategyis by def<strong>in</strong>ition, a good th<strong>in</strong>g.Probably, as more and morepeople understand and experiencethe realities of medical technology,even these older women will be lesstrust<strong>in</strong>g of the professional's decision.Currently, however, what mayseem like a characteristic of somewomen patients—a will<strong>in</strong>gness toaccept without question—is probablythe characteristic of a generation.As we all have seen, attitudesof women <strong>in</strong> the older generationsare be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>fluenced by the attitudesof younger women. We may soonhave daughters help<strong>in</strong>g their mothersstand by the decision to resistunwanted treatment.But after discount<strong>in</strong>g differencescaused by greater age, womenwill face the same problems as menaad to the same degree. As oneadm<strong>in</strong>istrator at a hospital <strong>in</strong> NewYork City has said, "When it comesto term<strong>in</strong>al illness and treatmentdecisions, there is absolutely no differencebetween men and women.Anyone can be unprepared."And that is the real po<strong>in</strong>t.Woman or man, each <strong>in</strong>dividualshould commit treatment decisionsto paper, then ensure that familyphysician, personal attorney andclose relatives or friends know preciselywhat is wanted.Remember, even with a Liv<strong>in</strong>gWill and a Durable Power of Attorney,the term<strong>in</strong>ally ill patient todaymight encounter difficulties <strong>in</strong> ward<strong>in</strong>goff unwanted treatment, butpower is gradually mov<strong>in</strong>g towardthose patients who have made theirwishes explicit. Today, patients are<strong>in</strong>deed realiz<strong>in</strong>g that, just as theyhave taken charge of their lives, theymust take charge of their owndeaths. Today also, professionals arebeg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g to understand that suchaction is an affirmation of a basicfreedom, as fundamental to thiscountry's law as any other right.So my advice is simple anddirect. First, sit down today andwrite your own advance directives.Next, discuss your decisions, as suggestedabove, with everyone whomight conceivably be concerned. Youhave the right to be free from <strong>in</strong>vasive,pa<strong>in</strong>ful or otherwise unwantedtreatment; you have, <strong>in</strong> other words,the right to a dignified and peacefuldeath.A. J. Lev<strong>in</strong>son has been executive director ofConcern for Dy<strong>in</strong>g s<strong>in</strong>ce 1976. She has spokenat national and <strong>in</strong>ternational conferences, haspublished numerous pieces and is a frequentsource of <strong>in</strong><strong>format</strong>ion for the media on term<strong>in</strong>aldecision mak<strong>in</strong>g. Concern for Dy<strong>in</strong>g is thelargest organization of its k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>in</strong> the world,direct<strong>in</strong>g its energies to the recognition ofthe patient's role <strong>in</strong> treatment decision mak<strong>in</strong>g.Those who want copies of the Liv<strong>in</strong>g Willor Durable Power of Attorney, or who wantto share their experiences, can contact themat 250 West 57 St., New York. NY 10107.21