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I would question him—he just said he wasn't feel<strong>in</strong>g wellsomestomach problems or someth<strong>in</strong>g.<strong>The</strong>n one day as 1 was sitt<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> his chair, while he went throughhis programatic cosmetic rituals—Ilooked up <strong>in</strong>to the mirror and caughthis eye—and aga<strong>in</strong> asked him whatwas wrong—He didn't answer verbally—buthe answered—1 knew atthat moment that he had AIDS and Ialso knew that he was dy<strong>in</strong>g.Gary put the phone down—hehad been on it for almost 15 m<strong>in</strong>utes—"You know that was Bobby —he's<strong>in</strong>credible—30 years old—AND HEHAS FOUR FATAL ILLNESSES—anyone of which can kill him but he'sstill go<strong>in</strong>g strong. He'll have to come<strong>in</strong>to the hospital for about a weekthis time." I looked at Gary—downthe hall which could have been anyward of any hospital anywhere <strong>in</strong>this country—but it was different. Ihad felt the anticipation when I got<strong>in</strong>to the taxi at Berkeley. It wasabout an hour's ride through the Bayarea over the Bridge <strong>in</strong>to the City.<strong>The</strong> driver left me off at the frontentrance of the hospital."Where is ward 86?" <strong>The</strong>attendant smiled broadly. "You knowyou're about the 50th person thatasked me today—but I'll do it onemore time." So he gave me directions—I had to go through the gatesmarked Family Plann<strong>in</strong>g Cl<strong>in</strong>ic—animmediate connection for me—then<strong>in</strong>to the elevator—press "86" <strong>The</strong>doors opened onto more conversation.TWo men seated at phone desks—similar medical words—phrases"no—you can't catch it by be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>the same room—yes we do havecommunity support systems"—<strong>in</strong>tense, <strong>in</strong>volved, car<strong>in</strong>g.<strong>The</strong>y were expect<strong>in</strong>g me. Yesthey would let Dr. Kaplan know thatI was here. I sat down <strong>in</strong> front ofthem—In a strange way I felt comfortable—safe—thatI could trustthese people.Dr. Kaplan came out to greetme. I was referred to him through acontact <strong>in</strong> New York—he would bemy guide—my connection to thecont<strong>in</strong>ued on pg. 20Combat<strong>in</strong>g ViolenceAga<strong>in</strong>st WomenThrough forums and conferences,women are exchang<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong><strong>format</strong>ionon the many forms violenceaga<strong>in</strong>st women can take and how tocombat it. Follow<strong>in</strong>g are a few of theevents that have happened, or arescheduled. In February, Merle spokeat the Cafe Nexus <strong>in</strong> New York Cityon anti-choice violence, the future ofabortion rights <strong>in</strong> the United Statesand the media distortion of prochoice<strong>issue</strong>s. <strong>The</strong> forum wasarranged by Women's QuarterlyRe<strong>view</strong>, a new fem<strong>in</strong>ist publication,and was attended by an enthusiasticand activist audience.In November:<strong>The</strong> First Annual Nurs<strong>in</strong>g Conference<strong>On</strong> Violence Aga<strong>in</strong>st Women will beheld at the University of Massachusetts,Amherst November 1-3. <strong>The</strong>Contraceptivesand the MediaIn May, CHOICES received <strong>in</strong><strong>format</strong>ionfrom the Center for PopulationOptions which urged support topress for contraceptive advertis<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> the electronic media and <strong>in</strong>cludedguidel<strong>in</strong>es which have been endorsedby a number of organizations<strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> family plann<strong>in</strong>g and/orwomen's health <strong>issue</strong>s. Unfortunately,the FDA has <strong>issue</strong>d a moratoriumon prescriptive contraceptiveadvertis<strong>in</strong>g, thereby limit<strong>in</strong>g theadvertis<strong>in</strong>g to over-the-countercontraceptives (OTCs). Although weare certa<strong>in</strong>ly very favorable towardcontraceptive advertis<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> all themedia, we must express certa<strong>in</strong>concerns:If only the OTC market is dealtwith, how can comparisons betweenproducts be made <strong>in</strong> an adequate,factual fashion? <strong>The</strong> public is be<strong>in</strong>gonly partially educated. We agreethat this is better than censorship ofgoal is to provide a forum for nursesand other health care providers<strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> the area of woman abuseto meet, share knowledge and ideas,and ga<strong>in</strong> support for their work.Merle Hoffman will be a presenter atthe conference. Contact JudyWardlaw, Division of Cont<strong>in</strong>u<strong>in</strong>g Education,University of Mass., AmherstMA 01003; tel: 413/545-0312.<strong>The</strong> 70th Annual Conference of theAmerican Medical Women's Association:"Violence: Dx and Rx" will beheld <strong>in</strong> San Francisco November 5-9.Merle will be conduct<strong>in</strong>g a workshopon cl<strong>in</strong>ic violence and the effects onwomen on November 6. For <strong>in</strong><strong>format</strong>ionon the conference contact: LeaScialo, American Medical Women'sAssociation, 465 Grand Street., NewYork. NY 10002; tel: 212/533-5104.COall k<strong>in</strong>ds of contraceptive <strong>in</strong><strong>format</strong>ion,but it could ultimately producenegative results if a "halo effect"surround<strong>in</strong>g OTCs is created byadvertis<strong>in</strong>g that the benefits, especiallyeffectiveness, are comparableto prescription contraceptives. It hasbeen evident through our work withhundreds of thousands of younggirls and women who have come toCHOICES s<strong>in</strong>ce 1971 that mis<strong>in</strong><strong>format</strong>ioncan, at times, be dangerous asno <strong>in</strong><strong>format</strong>ion at all.We would like CPO and other endors<strong>in</strong>gorganizations to consider these<strong>issue</strong>s, both by expand<strong>in</strong>g the guidel<strong>in</strong>esand by becom<strong>in</strong>g actively<strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> efforts to end the FDAmoratorium on prescriptive contraceptiveadvertis<strong>in</strong>g. It is only thenthat the female consum<strong>in</strong>g publicwill be given adequate <strong>in</strong><strong>format</strong>ionwith which to make their ownchoices.CD

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