February 2008 - The Parklander Magazine

RELATIONSHIP TIPSBy Jared BergknoffValentine’s Day is not just another day created by the Hallmark Companyto sell cards and chocolates; it’s a day where romantics are given the opportunityto do the amazing to prove their love. Men, confronted with beingromantic tend to buy their significant other a material item, thereby equatinglove to a price tag. Women on the other hand may prefer a more spontaneousand extraordinary approach that they can share with their lovedone. So how do we get these two perspectives to meet?Men need to understand that it’s not how deep your pocket is, it’s howdeep your kisses are. Forget the expensive dinner, the box of chocolatesand the dozen roses. Take her breath away. Do something out of thenorm of daily life. Women love spontaneity; unplanned affection thatdoesn’t have to be scheduled in a blackberry is a good start. Plan somethingthat doesn’t seem as though it’s been planned. Make the momentseem spontaneous to her. Take her to the restaurant where you had yourfirst date or recreate the moment when you shared your first kiss.Women want to be reminded that you love them but they also want thatfirst kiss again that reminds them why they fell in love with you in thefirst place. The best way to describe this is a quote from the film Hitch“Life isn’t about how many breaths you take, it’s the moments that takeyour breath away.”Women need to understand not to set high expectations for Valentine’s Day.Setting expectations only ruins the possibility for spontaneity. However,don’t give up the desire to be swept off your feet. Be receptive to him if heprobes for information; he is showing interest and trying to do somethingspecial for you! The more complaints a man hears about his lack of romanceor spontaneity, the more prone he is to reject the idea altogether. Also, don’tforget that Valentine’s Day is for him as well. A backrub or breakfast in bedis always a nice way to start the day. If the day starts on the right foot thelikelihood for a wonderful evening is increased. Just remember, not all menare romantics and some need inspiration, guidance or a nudge in the rightdirection. Sometimes helping him along will ultimately help you.So there you have it. Men and women should now have a better grasp onwhat their partners want. The most important thing to remember is to loveeach other. Love is what brought us all here to celebrate this day together inthe first place. So go out there and enjoy life to it’s fullest, love for the sake oflove, live everyday like there’s no tomorrow, and guys, take their breath away.Jared Bergknoff graduated from the University of Central Florida with adegree in Film Production and Cinema Studies in 2004. He has worked onseveral local films and writes scripts and reviews in a variety of film genres.Services:• Precision• Haircutting• Coloring• Highlighting• Curl andFrizz Control• BrazilianChocolate KeratinCosta Rica Rainforest Honeymoons!Or a Great Getaway Package!Competitive RatesCONTACT US TODAYFOR MORE INFO!Full Service Salon954-752-44331951 N. University DriveCoral Springs, FL • 33071www. coralspringsstyling.comthe PARKLANDERExotic Splendor • Romantic EleganceAn Exquisitely Unique ExperienceExplore 225 acres inabsolute privacy and immerse yourselvesin the breathtaking natural beauty. Abundantwith tropical flowers, birds & waterfallsAll InclusivePrivate 2 Story Villa withpersonal staff in separate quarters.Gourmet Chef • Masseuse • ChauffeurTrail Guide • Internet • Direct TVFree US Calls • Customized Day ToursLight-of-Dawn-Rainforest.commediciassociates@yahoo.com • (US) 954.340.694829