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and denomination. To my surprise, the next<br />
Sunday Mark was in the congregation. The rest of<br />
the fall and all winter, he attended regularly, only<br />
missing our worship on the Sundays he sang<br />
somewhere else. Those weeks he would listen to the<br />
celebrations online or on CD.<br />
Does authentic witness sometimes mean going<br />
it alone? How do I determine those times?<br />
Last spring, Mark learned that he is HIV+. I didn’t<br />
realize he shared this with anyone until his name was<br />
mentioned by a colleague during a local ministerial<br />
association meeting. Looks between four or five<br />
ministers present were exchanged. I faced a<br />
dilemma: Do I pretend like I didn’t notice the looks<br />
and see how the conversation develops, if at all, or<br />
do I ask what the looks were intended to mean and<br />
possibly disrupt the otherwise docile fellowship? I<br />
decide to ask. The conversation that followed was<br />
difficult and uncomfortable and, ultimately, has<br />
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alienated some of my local colleagues from me—<br />
which I truly regret.<br />
At the same time, I am tired of tolerating the<br />
intolerance of the intolerant! I can almost tolerate<br />
the intolerant, but tolerating their intolerance feels<br />
like more than I can or at least want to do. Here’s<br />
the issue, though: Maybe that’s just my problem.<br />
Maybe, for the sake of the gospel, I must tolerate<br />
even the intolerance of the intolerant—suck it up<br />
and deal with it because there are bigger issues at<br />
stake here. On the other hand, is there a time or<br />
place when my desire for authentic witness overtakes<br />
my desire for unity? Does authentic witness<br />
sometimes mean going it alone? How do I determine<br />
those times?<br />
One of my favorite passages from the Talmud says,<br />
“If people of learning participate in public affairs,<br />
they give stability to the land. But if they sit at home<br />
and say to themselves, ‘What have the affairs of<br />
society to do with me?’ they bring about the<br />
destruction of the world.” I’m glad that we’re not<br />
sitting at home. I look forward to our discussions.<br />
Wilson • Christian Unity and Prophetic Witness