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and denomination. To my surprise, the next<br />

Sunday Mark was in the congregation. The rest of<br />

the fall and all winter, he attended regularly, only<br />

missing our worship on the Sundays he sang<br />

somewhere else. Those weeks he would listen to the<br />

celebrations online or on CD.<br />

Does authentic witness sometimes mean going<br />

it alone? How do I determine those times?<br />

Last spring, Mark learned that he is HIV+. I didn’t<br />

realize he shared this with anyone until his name was<br />

mentioned by a colleague during a local ministerial<br />

association meeting. Looks between four or five<br />

ministers present were exchanged. I faced a<br />

dilemma: Do I pretend like I didn’t notice the looks<br />

and see how the conversation develops, if at all, or<br />

do I ask what the looks were intended to mean and<br />

possibly disrupt the otherwise docile fellowship? I<br />

decide to ask. The conversation that followed was<br />

difficult and uncomfortable and, ultimately, has<br />

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alienated some of my local colleagues from me—<br />

which I truly regret.<br />

At the same time, I am tired of tolerating the<br />

intolerance of the intolerant! I can almost tolerate<br />

the intolerant, but tolerating their intolerance feels<br />

like more than I can or at least want to do. Here’s<br />

the issue, though: Maybe that’s just my problem.<br />

Maybe, for the sake of the gospel, I must tolerate<br />

even the intolerance of the intolerant—suck it up<br />

and deal with it because there are bigger issues at<br />

stake here. On the other hand, is there a time or<br />

place when my desire for authentic witness overtakes<br />

my desire for unity? Does authentic witness<br />

sometimes mean going it alone? How do I determine<br />

those times?<br />

One of my favorite passages from the Talmud says,<br />

“If people of learning participate in public affairs,<br />

they give stability to the land. But if they sit at home<br />

and say to themselves, ‘What have the affairs of<br />

society to do with me?’ they bring about the<br />

destruction of the world.” I’m glad that we’re not<br />

sitting at home. I look forward to our discussions.<br />

Wilson • Christian Unity and Prophetic Witness

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