“ Rather than makingassumptions aboutwhat familieshave or have notcommunicated totheir children, weneed to define ourbehavioral standardsand expectations foreverybody. We’velearned that we needto be explicit abouteverything we’re tryingto teach teenagerstoday.”8 <strong>Milton</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>• The multifaceted student is a commoncharacter at <strong>Milton</strong>: someone whoruns for elected office, plays footballand dances in the dance concert; asquash player who acts and plays in theChamber Orchestra; a runner who editsthe arts and literature magazine andraises funds for children with AIDS.<strong>Milton</strong>’s boarder and day mix creates awhole that is greater than the sum of theparts.• Students at <strong>Milton</strong>, from across thecountry and around the world, generatea rare vitality, in and out of the classroom.Their geographical diversity aloneenergizes the conversations aroundthe Harkness tables or in the StudentCenter.• Boston families welcome their children’sfriends from far away, extendingan inclusive warmth and sense ofconnection.• Metropolitan parents share their diverseand interesting professions with us:speaking on campus, inviting studentsinto their labs or studios, introducingus to renowned figures and groups, orarranging internships, for instance.Bridget Johnson, Dean of Students• Activities at <strong>Milton</strong> continue day andnight, weekend and weekday; all students,boarding and day, can count onplenty of friends and plenty to do.Naming and meeting challenges:Bridget and Sarah name works inprogressWe are always exploring and testing newways to foster leadership—in the Self-Governing Association, in dormitories, asheads of the many student organizations,and simply as seniors in the School.Character education is a positive force inthe School.• It’s a four-year, integrated and requiredprogram that involves meeting weeklywith one faculty member and one groupof classmates.• It introduces and explores values.• It raises and explores with studentsissues such as racism, classism andgender.• It serves as a ready-made and safe discussiongroup to respond to the teachingopportunities that arise during the year.• Community relations assemblies, speakerson campus, and Monday morningassemblies strengthen the messages.• As students come into contact withinformation and discussion about ideas,they get the message that we believe it’simportant to raise, think and talk aboutthese life matters.• In the continual effort to improve thisprogram, we’re working now on makingsure that each year builds well on the last.
• We’re identifying age-appropriatethemes to weave through each week ofthe year.Each family is unique. Rather than makingassumptions about what families have orhave not communicated to their children,we need to define our behavioral standardsand expectations for everybody. We’velearned that we need to be explicit abouteverything we’re trying to teach teenagerstoday. For instance, we spend time articulatingand demonstrating the concept ofintegrity—personal and academic. Asanother example, we find ourselves teachingstudents about maintaining decorumand courtesy as they listen, speak and writeelectronically, the modalities of their time.Helping students (and families) findappropriate balance between the positivestress of challenge and the negative stressof overload has become a central challengeas they negotiate a ramped-up, ambitious,highly competitive set of culturalexpectations.Sarah Wehle, Interim Upper School PrincipalMore about Sarah and Bridget:Sarah Wehle joined <strong>Milton</strong>’s ClassicsDepartment in 1977, is the departmenthead, and holds the Sarah Storer GoodwinChair in Teaching. Educated at RadcliffeCollege and Harvard University, Sarahearned both the Classical Associationof New England’s Matthew I. WeinckeTeaching Award and <strong>Milton</strong> <strong>Academy</strong>’sTalbot Baker Award. She has long been afaculty parent in Forbes House.Before coming to <strong>Milton</strong>, Bridget Johnsonworked for eight years at the EpiscopalHigh School of Alexandria, Virginia.A graduate of Georgetown University,Bridget has been active with the NationalAssociation of Independent Schools, servingas part of a delegation for diversity toboth India and South Africa, participatingin the Equity and Justice Call to ActionCommittee, and presenting at the Peopleof Color Conference.Cathleen Everett<strong>Milton</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> 9