Catching Up With Carolby Carol SilvaA Long Island Love StoryThis is a Long Island love story. Actually it’s a couple ofLong Island love stories.Chapter One starts after World War II. <strong>Rita</strong> Santaniellolived in a strong Italian Catholic home in Mineola andwas working as a receptionist in New York City.It was hard work. <strong>Rita</strong> was already in the bed the nighther girlfriend Gloria called and asked her to go a dance atthe United Nations headquarters in LakeSuccess. Gloria was a good saleswoman.Before she knew it, <strong>Rita</strong> was up and dressed in her new angorasweater. The dance was life changing. <strong>Rita</strong> saw Drake McGuffeyfor the first time. Drake worked on the radio news desk of theU.N. But what really got <strong>Rita</strong> was Drake’s nose. It was the noseshe wanted her children to have. Drake swept beautiful young<strong>Rita</strong> onto the dance floor and off her feet.Chapter Two takes place decades later. <strong>Rita</strong> and Drake McGuffeywere proudly raising their five children in a spirit packed Carle Place Cape. Danny20, Robbie 19, Jamie 18, Tina 17 and Mary 12. I met Robbie at New York Instituteof Technology. He was one of the most positive people I’d ever met. He invited mehome to a prayer meeting. And there she was – the power behind it all.This feisty little brunette Mom fit in with everyone: us college kids, the “grownups”and especially with Drake. <strong>Rita</strong> and Drake were giving their children the bestNow at 83, <strong>Rita</strong>Santinello McGuffeyis a publishedauthor!gift they could: a great marriage. <strong>Rita</strong> was never shy about sharing her faith. “Rememberwhat St. Thomas Aquinas said, ‘Work like everything depends on you, butpray like everything depends on God.’” My Mom passed away when my babieswere 1 and 2, so “Nana <strong>Rita</strong>” got the new Mom calls, from diaper rash to tantrums.Sadly Drake died a year ago, two months before their 60th anniversary. Itseemed <strong>Rita</strong> had lost her right arm, but not her faith. So, Chapter Three. <strong>Rita</strong>prayed harder. And at 82 she got serious about the book she’d played withon her laptop. It started as a record of the family history - howthe Santaniellos came from Italy to Port Washington in theearly 1900s. But Cross Over turned into a novel, about thelove and challenges of the three generations since.Now at 83, <strong>Rita</strong> Santinello McGuffey is a published author!Mystery writer Mary Higgens Clark’s endorsement is on hercover, “<strong>Rita</strong> Santaniello McGuffey is a gifted writer and I’m sureCross Over will be a splendid read.” <strong>Rita</strong>’s even got a websitewww.ritamybook.com. And <strong>Rita</strong> is on a book tour, doing booksignings around her new home up in Orange County, in New Jersey (whereJamie has become Father James) and even on Long Island.Chapter 4: <strong>Rita</strong> gives new life at 83. How inspiring. News 12’s Carol Silva has been bringing Long Islanders their local newsfor more than 20 years weekday mornings at 5:30AM on News 12 LongIsland.TroubleSleeping?TroubleWaking Up?We can help youGet your nights back!Call now to schedule an appointment!222 Rockaway Turnpike,Cedarhurst, NY516-239-1800SHOMER SHABBOS FACILITY. SEPARATE SESSIONS FOR MEN AND WOMEN UPON REQUEST.You’re Right!you should be advertising inLong Island’s only award wining monthly woman’spublication, available at over 1,000 Long Island locations.$300 OffAny Laser Hair Removal Package 631.940.1672 22April 2012Botox & Fillers Now Offered at Fusion‣Laser Hair Removal‣Laser Tattoo Removal‣Laser Treatment forToenail Fungus‣Laser Skin RepairVI Peel Special$175 (regularly $225) ‣Licensed Massage Therapist‣Licensed Esthetician‣Microdermabrasion‣Permanent Makeup‣Teeth Whitening30% OffAny PermanentMake-up Procedure Advertise YourMother’s DayPromotion in the May issue(reserve your space by April 5th)To advertise: call 516 505 0555 x1email ads@liwomanonline.comTo advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or ads@liwomanonline.com
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