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graduate news1956Class CorrespondentGren “Rocky” Whitman410-639-7551grenwhitman@verizon.netRocky Whitman reports on TimLeL<strong>and</strong>: “After 35 years in a SouthEnd condo with a dramatic viewof Boston’s skyline, Tim <strong>and</strong> Juliehave moved into a condo at HarborTowers on <strong>the</strong> waterfront withan even better view of Boston’sskyline—<strong>and</strong> an elevator to boot.Tim seems to favor <strong>the</strong> latter over<strong>the</strong> former. ‘Views of <strong>the</strong> skylineare nice, but <strong>the</strong>y don’t help youcarry your groceries up five flightsof stairs,’ he notes. ‘And <strong>the</strong>y don’<strong>the</strong>lp you shovel your car out aftera snowstorm, ei<strong>the</strong>r.’ Besides anelevator, his new place has anunderground garage.”John Fritts writes, “My gr<strong>and</strong>childrenbrought up <strong>the</strong> topic oftoys <strong>and</strong> Christmas when I was akid. I explained that World WarII made life very different in <strong>the</strong>1940s. With everything rationed,<strong>the</strong>re was little that we now takefor granted. With no gas, wewalked or rode bicycles. With nobuses, we hiked to school (uphill,both ways). If a tire tube blew out,we patched it.We also did some ridiculousthings, or at least <strong>the</strong>y seem sotoday. We put black tape over <strong>the</strong>top half of car headlights <strong>and</strong> madesure our window shades weresupertight so no light escaped—allthis to prevent enemy bombersfrom seeing our houses or cars atnight. My fa<strong>the</strong>r put pails of s<strong>and</strong>in <strong>the</strong> attic, so if a bomb hit <strong>the</strong>house we could put out <strong>the</strong> fire. Foryears after, my sister <strong>and</strong> I wouldrecount all <strong>the</strong>se foolish things <strong>and</strong>marvel at how we survived.The gr<strong>and</strong>kids, of course, wonderedabout toys, <strong>and</strong> I explainedthat most materials were notavailable; <strong>the</strong>y were needed for<strong>the</strong> war effort. We made thingsout of wood, using glue <strong>and</strong> nails.We decorated Christmas treeswith paper chains. We choppedfirewood <strong>and</strong> listened to JackBenny, Fred Allen, <strong>the</strong> great Gildersleeve,Amos <strong>and</strong> Andy, etc., on<strong>the</strong> radio in front of <strong>the</strong> fireplace.We had no TV, cellphones,computers, electronic games ortexting. To use a telephone, wewaited for <strong>the</strong> operator to say,‘Number, please.’ We read <strong>and</strong>talked a lot, <strong>and</strong> somehow made itinto <strong>the</strong> 21st century without <strong>the</strong>devices kids enjoy today. My kids<strong>and</strong> gr<strong>and</strong>children have a difficulttime underst<strong>and</strong>ing all this. Theynever will, but I enjoy telling <strong>the</strong>mhow we lived back <strong>the</strong>n <strong>and</strong> howmuch fun we had growing up. Isometimes wonder if <strong>the</strong>y reallybelieve me.”Kit Hayden reports, “I veryrecently <strong>and</strong> very reluctantly purchasedan iPod Touch. Suddenly,<strong>the</strong> rabbit hole is much larger;<strong>the</strong> ground is tipping; <strong>the</strong> slopeis slippery. From T.S. Eliot’s DrySavages: ‘The bitter apple <strong>and</strong> <strong>the</strong>bite in <strong>the</strong> apple…’ The man wasprescient.”1957Class CorrespondentJohn Valentine413-256-6676jvalj1@yahoo.comLance Gr<strong>and</strong>one writes, “I amstill president of my HOA <strong>and</strong> amrunning for ano<strong>the</strong>r term. What iswrong with me? Because of a lot oflegal issues in <strong>the</strong> community, I amspending much more time on <strong>the</strong>job <strong>and</strong> have cut back my participationwith <strong>the</strong> Lifelong LearningAcademy <strong>and</strong> my volunteer workat <strong>the</strong> Florida Philatelic FoundationLibrary. I am still involved with buying<strong>and</strong> selling rare stamps, though,<strong>and</strong> it appears to be a better investmentthan <strong>the</strong> stock market.I won’t get into all <strong>the</strong> healthissues that <strong>the</strong> golden agers loveto go on <strong>and</strong> on about. Since I’vewritten last, I’ve have a couple ofsurgeries for peripheral neuropathy<strong>and</strong> got to try every medicationknown to man, <strong>and</strong> experiencedfirst-h<strong>and</strong> all <strong>the</strong> side effects of<strong>the</strong> meds. Not recommended. Wethought <strong>the</strong> peripheral neuropathymight have been diabetes related,but after a bunch of MRIs, it turnedout I have scar tissue on my spinalcord, probably from an old injury orcar accident. I have limited feelingin my right h<strong>and</strong>, which makescomputer typing a real pain. So Igot Dragon diction, which worksvery well for most correspondence.I strongly recommend it to all youtwo-finger typists.Karin <strong>and</strong> I have taken a coupleof cruises that were a nice break,<strong>and</strong> we’re leaving for ano<strong>the</strong>r 10-day trip. I am planning to take anextra suitcase containing a chemicaltoilet, 30 MREs <strong>and</strong> a sleepingbag for on-deck sleeping, just incase we run into trouble like thosepoor souls in February. Frankly, I’dra<strong>the</strong>r <strong>the</strong> trip was shorter becausewe will miss our great little dog,Duffy, <strong>and</strong> <strong>the</strong> community here.We are going with ano<strong>the</strong>r couple<strong>and</strong> expect to play lots of bridge.Our twin gr<strong>and</strong>daughters arecollege sophomores at Colorado<strong>and</strong> Tufts. Sara is a dual major inphysics <strong>and</strong> aerospace engineering,<strong>and</strong> Megan is concentratingon microbiology <strong>and</strong> math. I amtotally lost when <strong>the</strong>y talk about<strong>the</strong>ir classes.O<strong>the</strong>r good news on <strong>the</strong> homefront is that we have reconciled withour daughter, Susan, after a fiveyearhiatus, <strong>and</strong> she bought a condolast month about 20 miles northof us in Long Boat Key, <strong>and</strong> abouthalf a mile from our son, Cass, whoalso has a place <strong>the</strong>re. She has beenfurnishing it with <strong>the</strong> help of <strong>the</strong>Internet <strong>and</strong> Karin, who is <strong>the</strong>re asI write this. Susan has an excellentjob with Rio Tinto <strong>and</strong> is currentlyon a three-year assignment in Serbiaheading up an $8 billion lithiumminingproject. She comes back to<strong>the</strong> states two to three times peryear <strong>and</strong> spent Christmas with us.We had a great time. Our son isstill with Abbott Labs as a VP <strong>and</strong>will probably take full retirement inano<strong>the</strong>r three years at age 55. It’squite a rarity to have an individualspend an entire business careerwith a single company.That’s about it from sunnyFlorida. I read about your wea<strong>the</strong>rin New Engl<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> just can’t believewhat you are going through.We have had a very mild winterhere, although tonight will be <strong>the</strong>coldest night of <strong>the</strong> winter, dippingto <strong>the</strong> low 30s. As always, ourdoors are always open to any classmembers, spouses, partners, etc.My best wishes to all.”Robert McElwain writes,“Nowadays (euphemism for ‘inmy mid-70s’) I find reading morepleasurable than ever. I tend to gofor nonfiction, but recently I read ATale of Two Cities <strong>and</strong> really enjoyed48 <strong>Noble</strong>s spring 2013

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