3.3 APPRECIATION OF DIVERSITYCommunity Voices‘What we need in the community is only respect. <strong>In</strong> the school, supermarket, community service places such as an aquatic centre. Weneed respect to our culture <strong>and</strong> religion festivals. I had many story talking about how much we are not accepted in NZ community. I hadknowledge that it is a multicultural community <strong>and</strong> it is considered as the most famous country for its nationalities diversity. Unfortunately,I found others treat us as if we came from another planet as we are aliens. The image of overseas immigrants is completely distorted. <strong>In</strong>my situation, I came from the high social class in Egypt. My father is a professor in university; he had PhD <strong>and</strong> has his private company<strong>and</strong> big farm. We have 3 cars (BMW, FORD, SCODA). So we don’t have camels as some people believe. I only have two sisters, one isdoctor in USA <strong>and</strong> the other is a civil engineering. So we are not stupid as some believe. I came to NZ not for money; I came to live withmy family in better lifestyle. To enjoy the clean environment <strong>and</strong> breath a fresh air. Also, I seek the opportunity to live in community wherethe human rights are preserved.’‘At the school, my children refuse to eat their lunch due to other tell them “your food is stinky”.’SETTLING IN PALMERSTON NORTH AND FEILDING32‘When I came 24 yrs ago, there were few Fiji <strong>In</strong>dians in Wellington (where I initially came to) suffered from loneliness, isolation, was sadleaving my family behind, did not get the foods, veges, rice <strong>and</strong> spices which I was used to. Had difficult time getting used to people, theylooked upon me someone different, made me conscious of who I was. We were called “curry munchers” at school <strong>and</strong> work, had to hide<strong>and</strong> eat my curry <strong>and</strong> roti. It was a big culture shock for me. Now in Palmy, I have a good job <strong>and</strong> family is settled here, children were bornhere, so they are growing up as Kiwi kids, they are well adjusted to the surrounding <strong>and</strong> have no difficulty, they eat <strong>In</strong>dian food at homebut take s<strong>and</strong>wiches etc to school, they are conscious of that. Son actually wanted to change his name.’‘I want to learn <strong>In</strong>donesian language in school. I started to forget the language.’ Wilda, 6‘We are given privilege to participate in various activities such as festival of cultures; our meager contribution to our respective churchesare being recognised <strong>and</strong> we are well treated as members of the family, indicating that our ethnic identities are being respected.’‘Despite our hard work to contribute to the NZ society, there are many prejudices on our way. We try to be good citizens, lawful, hardworking, yet we are treated unfairly eg visas for our families to visit, family reunification …’‘I haven’t really had any worries – have been accepted well. More social networking would be good I think’From focus groups April/May 2009<strong>In</strong>troductionIt is always important to remember that successful settlement is a two-way process. Considerable effort is required on the part of newcomersto underst<strong>and</strong> their new communities, to respect the different values <strong>and</strong> ways of doing things <strong>and</strong> to make a contribution to the community <strong>and</strong>civic life of their new home. However, it is equally important that the host community is sufficiently ready <strong>and</strong> willing to welcome newcomers, tounderst<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> value the contribution that they make <strong>and</strong> to accept <strong>and</strong> embrace the difference that they will bring.<strong>In</strong> <strong>Palmerston</strong> <strong>North</strong>, the speed of demographic change has visibly changed the look <strong>and</strong> feel of the city in a relatively short period of time.<strong>In</strong>ternational student numbers have soared <strong>and</strong> recent refugee arrivals have brought additional diversity to the evolving population mix. It is reallyimportant that the host community is provided with information about their changing community <strong>and</strong> supported to underst<strong>and</strong> their new neighbours<strong>and</strong> appreciate the diversity <strong>and</strong> contributions that they bring to this mix. Some of these differences are fundamental <strong>and</strong> immediately obvious –differing dress codes, music <strong>and</strong> foods. However, it is also important to consider the less visible aspects of diversity that newcomers bring, suchas their spiritual beliefs <strong>and</strong> family values. These things may be more difficult for host communities to appreciate <strong>and</strong> more complicated for smallcommunities to accommodate.<strong>Palmerston</strong> <strong>North</strong> already enjoys <strong>and</strong> celebrates diversity in a number of ways – a flourishing ethnic food scene has evolved <strong>and</strong> the city hostssome excellent annual festivals <strong>and</strong> cultural celebrations. A number of ethnic associations have developed, cooking classes <strong>and</strong> social Englishclasses are held regularly <strong>and</strong> a mosque has been built to meet the spiritual needs of local Muslims. There is also a Sikh temple <strong>and</strong> a Buddhisttemple in the city <strong>and</strong> an Islamic Prayer Room at Massey University. The key to building on this foundation <strong>and</strong> embedding a deeper appreciationof diversity will be:• creating opportunities for the host community to connect in a meaningful way with newcomer families <strong>and</strong> communities• enabling newcomers to sustain their cultures/languages <strong>and</strong> to contribute their unique skills <strong>and</strong> perspectives to the wider community• improving the visibility of newcomer groups <strong>and</strong> promoting their contributions <strong>and</strong> capabilities• building underst<strong>and</strong>ing <strong>and</strong> appreciation of difference throughout the community from government agencies <strong>and</strong> service providers through tosports <strong>and</strong> recreation bodies, retailers <strong>and</strong> people on the street• celebrating diversity at every opportunity <strong>and</strong> enabling it to flourish.
What is Cultural Diversity? – A local opinion‘It means different things to different people, some people need longer to even think about the concept, let alone embrace it. While cities<strong>and</strong> towns are changing all over New Zeal<strong>and</strong> with the arrival of many new migrants <strong>and</strong> refugees to live <strong>and</strong> work in new communities,existing communities are sometimes, for the first time, talking about “Cultural Diversity”.‘Cultural diversity is about valuing others’ difference, valuing what they bring into the mix of an existing community <strong>and</strong> celebratingtogether.‘Cultural Diversity is not about a cultural festival once a year, when you eat ethnic food <strong>and</strong> the newcomers dress in their national dress.Cultural Diversity is about living every day respecting that everyone is different <strong>and</strong> valuing them for it.’Key Issues (direct feedback from focus groups) 28Living Diversity• ‘What we need in the community is only respect. <strong>In</strong> the school, supermarket, community service places such as an aquatic centre. We needrespect to our culture <strong>and</strong> religion festivals. I had many story talking about how much we are not accepted in NZ community. I had knowledgethat it is a multicultural community <strong>and</strong> it is considered as the most famous country for its nationalities diversity. Unfortunately, I found otherstreat us as if we came from another planet as we are aliens. The image of overseas immigrants is completely distorted.’• ‘Cultural shock – drinking young age, sexual freedom before marriage etc.’• ‘The government should accept that there is a social phenomena <strong>and</strong> should support programmes <strong>and</strong> projects for cultural diversity’• ‘More material in city library introducing Chinese language <strong>and</strong> cultures’• ‘Shop opening times, in <strong>In</strong>donesia shops open from morning till late 7 days a week. Compared to NZ that has “early” closing times.’• ‘Auckl<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> Wellington have large number of Fiji <strong>In</strong>dians, <strong>and</strong> good networks. It will be good if we will have this network setup here soon.’• ‘Holiday on our special occasions eg Diwali’• ‘Prejudice based on culture <strong>and</strong> what is said in the media, portrayed <strong>and</strong> labeled through media’• ‘Food: It is difficult to know what meat is Halal. This affected women especially at the beginning of Settlement’• ‘Loss of original identity (culture, language)’• ‘Culture Shock with comparing what she was used to in <strong>In</strong>donesia <strong>and</strong> what she found in NZ’Building Wider Community Underst<strong>and</strong>ing <strong>and</strong> <strong>In</strong>volvement with Newcomers• ‘Have found in general her own experience was more pleasant to speak to a Canadian, as most NZers in her experience (she underst<strong>and</strong>s,that not ALL NZers are like this) are not as friendly <strong>and</strong> patient speaking to a foreigner – have found that Kiwis are not as sensitive/tolerant inslowing down when dealing with a foreigner.’• ‘The feel of being alone in a new country, a new neighbourhood sometimes make everything looks difficult. Having a friend (or more) in theneighbourhood could be really helpful.• ‘Many people found it hard to meet New Zeal<strong>and</strong>ers, <strong>and</strong> thus did not have many opportunities to practice their English. Most NZers seemedtoo busy with their own work <strong>and</strong> families to be available to migrants who would like to get to know them.’• ‘It has been difficult to get involved effectively in the activities of the local community. This is because life has become busier as most of uswork at night time <strong>and</strong> study during the day. Communication is a barrier <strong>and</strong> in general the public is often impatient or uncomfortable in tryingto communicate.’• ‘Acceptance from others’• ‘More people need to know about all the different ethnic communities in PN’• ‘An issue is also underst<strong>and</strong>ing general social interactions with NZ public, what is acceptable, <strong>and</strong> what is not.’• ‘Neighbours should be more tolerant to the needs of various communities. Sometimes some people become less tolerant <strong>and</strong> pass remarks.’• ‘Care to be taken by govt <strong>and</strong> authorities to not confuse our nationality (Congolese) with the RDC. We are from the Republic of the Congo orThe Congo. However, our country is often mistaken with Democratic Republicof The Congo or DRC. This is not only among the general public but also insome government departments.’• ‘A Mayoral “Welcome Morning Tea” – perhaps every 6 months – a letter ofinvite <strong>and</strong> the date of the next one could be issued as part of the WelcomePack at the I-site or is there another way it could be distributed – through realestates etc? This discussion grew into a New Residents Expo where localbusinesses <strong>and</strong> community services could “lay out their wares” in a way thatwas particularly appropriate to new residents’• ‘I need to be more actively involved in the community – promote my ownculture’• ‘Note: there was discussion about the KIWI HOST courses? This was invogue a while ago. But doesn’t seem to be around anymore.’Potluck dinner at Manawatu Multicultural CentreSETTLING IN PALMERSTON NORTH AND FEILDING28This feedback comprises direct quotes from focus group participants or notes as interpreted <strong>and</strong> presented by facilitators.33