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The Green Paper for Vulnerable Children - Ministry of Social ...

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[A good childhood means] good education, good health, good family, having a nicefamily. [<strong>Children</strong> need] people who care about them, and who never give up [on them].We should be allowed to take risks. Trust us. Have confidence in us. Look at our brightside and make a good future. (child/young person)Parents and families/whānauIn the free-<strong>for</strong>m submissions children and young people said they want their parents andfamily/whānau to support them and meet their needs as they grow and develop.Be supportive: This theme captured ideas such as parents and family being encouraging,assisting them in the development <strong>of</strong> their own opinions and personal growth, being there totalk to, being close and helping build confidence, and taking children seriously. This theme wasillustrated particularly well through the lyrics to a rap we received.To get to where we need to go you’ve gotta help us out, Bro.After all I’m just a kid who’s trying to figure out how to live.Give me a chance to do my best. Don’t treat me like a little pest.Listen to what I’ve got to say. Encourage and love me along the way.Pick me up when I feel down. I always need my whānau around.In times <strong>of</strong> need we need to turn to adults, caregivers and teachers to learn.A happy child will always go far. Help us reach that shooting star.(child/young person)Keep them safe and secure: This meant children living in an environment free <strong>of</strong> threats suchas fighting, drugs and alcohol, hitting, yelling/shouting, physical or sexual abuse and abusivelanguage. <strong>Children</strong> and young people suggested parents take parenting courses if they wereviolent. Other suggestions here were making sure children knew how to keep safe; <strong>for</strong> example,teaching them self-defence. <strong>Children</strong> and young people want their families to be together,to be well and to be functional.I’d just like to say that adults should not do child abuse, or anything else and stuff,and parents should stop fighting and should stop saying [hurtful] things…cause thatstuff hurts us. Really, really, really naughty <strong>of</strong> them…. (child/young person)Meet their emotional needs and provide a sense <strong>of</strong> belonging: This theme included parentsand families giving love (unconditional love), trust, respect and care so that children and youngpeople know they are good people. As above, some submissions suggested parents go toclasses to learn to look after children well.Show us you care by cuddles, hugs and texting “I love you sweetie, have a good dayat school.” (child/young person)Kids should feel like we belong. (child/young person)Be involved in their activities: <strong>Children</strong> and young people want their parents and whānau tobe involved in their activities. This included taking an active interest in their children’s learning,helping with homework, attending school and sporting events, and spending time eating andhaving fun with them.Play with us. (child/young person)34 Submissions from <strong>Children</strong> and Young People

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