Tu B'Shevat Seder - Congregation B'nai Tikvah

Page HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6February 2012 Sh’vat 8—Adar 6 5772 volume 33 issue 6Our Mission: To foster a vibrant egalitarian Jewish community founded in the religious customsand traditions of Conservative Judaism; offering excellent Jewish education and communityactivities for all ages with commitment to Israel and Jewish communities throughout the world.Yiddish ClubJan. 29 at 10:00 amBasic Prayer ClassFeb. 11 at 9:30 amJewish LawFeb. 15 at 8:00 pmMinyan ClassFeb. 22 at 8:00 pmRabbinic LiteratureFeb. 26 at 10:00 amShabbat ShirahSaturdayFebruary 4Lunch & SingWednesday, February 8Tu B’Shevat SederAt 6:15 pmTHINGS TO DOFebruary 5 World Wide Wrap at 9:00 amFebruary 6 Board of DirectorsCamp Registration BeginsFebruary 8 Tu B’Shevat SederFebruary 10 Birthday ShabbatFebruary 11 Dalet Jr. Congregation ServiceFebruary 12 Kadima Rock ClimbingFebruary 15 Adult EducationFebruary 16 Sisterhood/Men’s ClubFebruary 17 Family Shabbat ServiceFebruary 21 BT DaytimersFebruary 25 Seudah and StudyINSIDE THIS ISSUEpageRabbi’s Message 2Hazzan’s Voice 3Another Viewpoint 6Webmaster 7Kadima 8USY 9Bikur Cholim 10Religious School 11Schedule of Times 15Men’s Club 18Sisterhood 19Nursery School 21Bikur Cholim 31CHECK OUR WEBSITE: BNAITIKVAH.ORG FOR EVENTS & SCHEDULE UPDATES THROUGHOUT THE MONTHMAIN OFFICE PHONE # 732-297-0696 NURSERY & RELIGIOUS SCHOOL PHONE # 732-297-0295

Page 2 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6A Message From Rabbi Robert WolkoffThe Supreme Court recently issued a ruling that hassweeping implications for questions of religiousfreedom. Keeping a long story short, what theCourt said was that when anti-discriminationlegislation bumps up against religious freedomissues, religious freedom wins.I won’t go into the details, or defend the Court’sdecision. I will point out, though, that the Court’sdecision was unanimous—and how often doesthat happen in these fractious times!! Why theunanimity? Because the Court understood exactlyhow precious the “free exercise” of religion is toboth the American past and the American future.The existence of a realm outside the bounds ofnormal political discourse cannot help but have ahumbling and restraining influence on our society.Simply put, the Court’s perspective goes tounderscore that the experts, the professionalpoliticians, the “authorities,” don’t know it all,despite their elitist pretentions. And, perhaps evenmore important, the Court’s perspective goesto underscore how truly crucial the free exercise ofreligion is. It is assumed to be an endless font ofinspiration that serves our nation well.So….we all know what happens when we don’t doenough exercise—and the exercise of our religionis at least as important as all those sit-ups andaerobics. All too often, we practice our Judaismwithout a sense of vitality and commitment. Ourtradition is treated as a matter of habit, a routinethat at best has some nostalgic resonance. Rarelydo we even acknowledge that the most profoundideas in the world concerning the value ofhumanity and the audacity of morality come fromthe wellspring of Torah. And rarer still do we liveour lives attempting to personally epitomize theTorah’s ideals.It is no coincidence that the Continental Congressdeclared, “… true religion and good morals arethe only solid foundations of public liberty andhappiness.”The founding fathers said it. G-d said it. Who elseneeds to say it before we get the message?Shalom,Rabbi Robert L. Wolkoff

Page 3 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Shabbat Shira for All Generations!From the Desk of Cantor Bruce RockmanThe most incredible feeling as a cantor is to hear theresponse of the congregation. More than positivereinforcement for me, it becomes a recognition thatwe are uniting to express ourselves to the heavens,and what a heavenly sound it is when I hear andexperience you singing with me. I first wrote this forShabbat Shira 2004 and you continue to shower mewith joy every time we sing and pray together.This year, our annual Shabbat Shira Lunch and SingAlong following our service on February 4th, wewill honor the music of L’dor Vador. We will singpopular songs that were performed on our bima byour three most prolific guests, Neshama Carlebach,Craig Taubman, and Debbie Friedman z”l.Since her untimely passing early last year, the legacyof Debbie and her music has been growing. Like somany others who had met her and spent time withher in her last year of life, we at B’nai Tikvah heardDebbie sing her last original melody. She neverrecorded it professionally, but it’s a melody that shebelieved would become better known than her healingprayer, Mi Shebairach.The perspective that we arrive at when we mourn theloss of someone close to us or another special personcan become a special gift to the survivors. Generally,it seems to me, we are able to look past theirshortcomings and see their accomplishments aboveall else. This time of deep sadness is tinged withpride, joyous memories, and a sense of clarity.Hopefully when we experience profound loss and askthat the person’s memory be a blessing, we becomeinspired by the legacy of our loved ones good deeds.For the past few months, those of you who have attendedour Friday night Kabbalat Service have joinedme as we softly sing Debbie Friedman’s ShalomAleichem, the hymn traditionally sung to welcomethe Sabbath angels. I am far from the only personplanning to highlight this melody on Shabbat Shira.On January 11 th , Debra Nussbaum Cohen of TheDaily Jewish Forward wrote that Rabbi Joy Levittand Cantor Angela Buchdahl, of Manhattan’s CentralSynagogue, are planning to reach out to every clergymember in the Reform, Conservative, and Reconstructionistmovements — urging us to sing Debbie’sversion of “Shalom Aleichem” on February 3 and 4.I am excited and not surprised about this effort. As Istated, we have been getting to know this melodyfor some tine. In addition, Jerry Silver of The Sonsof Tikvah Band has written a hauntingly beautifularrangement that we were honored to perform at ourInterfaith Service this past November.As we have demonstrated with our Rejoice Festivalsand The L’dor Vador concerts, our goal is to helpB’nai Tikvah build bridges and strengthen both ourJewish and our community connections. WhenCraig Taubman asked us all to sing with him, wejoined him without hesitation, just as we did withDebbie Friedman and Neshama Carlebach. Now,WE know the songs. When you come to our events,the community joins us, brothers and sisters, singingand dancing with joy.Once again, invite your friends to join us onShabbat Shira for one of our most lively anduplifting Shabboses of the year. And the highlight ofthe day may not be the music after all; Stacey andMarci are planning one of their Shabbat Shira LunchExtravaganzas.“Worship the Lord in gladness; come before Godwith joyous song…For Adonai is good and his love is eternal andAdonai’s faithfulness endures for all generations.”Psalm 100B’simcha, with Joy!Cantor Bruce Rockman

Page 4 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6The Newsletter ofCongregation B’nai TikvahJCC of North & South Brunswick1001 Finnegan’s LaneNorth Brunswick, NJ 08902Published monthly, except for July and August.Submissions are welcomed about Congregationevents, group activities, and other material relevantto the Jewish communityAll Submissions for HAKOLare due by the 12th of thepreceding monthPlease send submissions and correspondencevia e-mail to:Hakol.CBT@gmail.comAll e-mail submissions are acknowledged via e-mail.You may also put submissions in the HAKOL Box inthe synagogue office. All submissions are subject toavailable space and editorial constraints. Please callMichael Weiss, editor at 732-246-0306 or email atmeweiss@optonline.net if you have any questionsSUBMISSION FORMATSTEXT:Editorial submissions should be in MS-Word, plaintext, rich text format or typed directly into the bodyof an e-mail. No special fonts will be used withoutprior arrangement. Graphics embedded in a text filewill not be used. Graphics and photos must besubmitted separately, rather than inside other filesor documents.GRAPHICS & IMAGES:Advertisements should be submitted in one of thefollowing formats: PDF, TIFF, or BMP. JPEG filesmay also be used, but may print as lower quality.All text should be converted to black and white. Allimages should be converted to grey scale. Allimages submitted for scanning must be photo orphoto quality images.ORDER FORMS & FLYERS:In most cases, full-page flyers will be reduced tohalf page or less, at the editor’s discretion.FOR ADVERTISING INFO:www.bnaitikvah.org/hakol.htmlHakol.CBT@gmail.comOrMichael Weiss, editor at 732-246-0306CarolAnn Harkavy, advertising at 732-438-0796Congregation MeetingDecember 19, 2011The meeting was called to order by PresidentGary Bergman. Rabbi Robert Wolkoff’s D’varTorah was about this week’s Parsha, Joseph andhis 10 brothers and their first sin. We have 391families and 27 new members. The outsideauditor will submit his report on our financessometimes in the month of January.We are doing well financially in the areas of thecaterer, dues, High Holiday Pledges, Kiddish,and the Nursery and the Religious Schools.The Rabbi was impressed with the evaluationsthat where given out to the nursery schoolparents this month.The Adult Education Committee has come upwith many varied classes. and knows that peoplewill attend.The Cantor wishes to thank everyone whohelped with the various committees that heldand will hold future events for this year. Also,thanks to the Religious Committee, for runningservices so smoothly. He reminded us to countour blessings and be happy. Remember thatpeople who attend services tend to be happierpeople than the population at large. He recommendsa book about positive thinking by Dr.Martin Seligman. In the future, he said, there willbe a class on getting a job in this bad economy.President reported that our number ofcongregants is increasing. The Bikur CholimCommittee is having a big impact on people.We are looking forward to Casino Night and toAmanda Dillman as our new USY advisor.Looking to establishing a Marketing andPublicity Committee. And, lastly, we wantpeople to talk to people other than their friendsafter services.

Page 5 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Sharim v’Sharot AnnouncesThe Sixth Annual Young People’s Jewish Song-Writing ContestFor Ages 8-12, 13-17, and 18-24This year’s contest is expanded to include young adults.The Sixth Annual Young People’s Jewish Song-Writing Contest for children 8-17 and young amateur adults(ages 18-24) - - with a First-Prize of $72 for the winner in each age category - - is sponsored by Sharimv’Sharot, Central New Jersey’s Select Jewish Choir. Visit www.sharimvsharot.com fordetails, guidelines, information. See: Song Contest.Children and Young Adults residing or attending school in New Jersey, Pennsylvania, New York, or Delaware,are asked to create original Jewish songs in three age-appropriate categories: 8–12, 13–17, and 18–24.Songs are judged by Jewish-music educators, musicians, rabbis, cantors, principals, or teachers employed inJewish education. Winners are presented to the community, and some of these songs may be performed at aSharim v’Sharot concert. This year’s theme is: Jerusalem.Music reaches beyond boundaries and connects one generation to another. Young song-writers are askedto express their thoughts and feelings about Jewish life, events, people, prayers, customs, or writings.

Page 6 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6ANOTHER VIEWPOINTA Father – My FatherSeptember 20, 2010, Father’s Day. By 11AM I hadreceived two phone calls and a card from my kids sofar, and got to thinking of my own father. Mother’sDay was a big deal in the 1930’s of my youth. I’mnot sure Father’s Day had been invented, but I don’tremember any talk of it in my day.Relationships vary between parents and childrenin different cultures. In my experience, European fatherswere sterner with their children than Americanbornfathers. The Papa was the boss. He broughthome the money and he made the rules. His effortsprovided the shelter, food, clothes, medicine, booksand whatever else it took to survive, especiallyduring the Great Depression days. Although myPop (as he was called) was literate in 5 or 6 languages,he and I almost never talked. I mean talk asin dialogue. It wasn’t until I was in my later HighSchool years that we had anything that could becalled a conversation.Sometimes Pop would make a suggestion and othertimes a statement. If my brothers or I had a request, itwas answered with a yes or no. Don’t get me wrong,my father was a kind and thoughtful person. He waswell liked by the extended family on both sides andvery popular with his friends and landsmen. He justdidn’t know how to relate to children, other than tosmile and pinch their cheeks, which could makesome little ones avoid him.Each of us has a memory gate. Some larger, somesmall and narrow. Some open easily, some slowlyand creaking and reluctantly, will swing open to letothers in or out. Papa would tell stories of his life inthe shtetel, of before he came to America after WorldWar I. Almost always, it would be at night, especiallyon Friday night after lights out. Then he wouldtell us stories about his experiences in the RussianArmy during World War I. The sounds of shellswhistling overhead during a barrage, or the rat-a-tatof machine gun fire. He told about the time that hespent as a German prisoner of war at a coal mine andwas promoted to be clerk when they found out thathe was literate.Pop also told stories about growing up as a boy inthe little shtetel of Russia/Poland (the flexibleborder moved according to who was in power atthe moment). One of his funniest stories was aboutthe time that the Rabbi had to leave his class to goout unexpectedly. The classroom was in the Rabbi’shome. He warned the eight and nine year old boysthat they were expected to study and be on their bestbehavior while he was out.No sooner was the Rabbi out, when the boys, sounused to being on their own, reverted to being boys.There were no schoolyards to play in. In those daysand so they began to look for ways to amuse themselvesoutside the classroom. The end result? Whenthe Rabbi’s wife opened her flour bin, imagine hersurprise when out jumped a mouse.Boys will be boys, won’t they?Aaron RosloffBT DaytimersBoard meetingTuesday, February 7at 1:00 pmRegular MeetingTuesday, February 21at 1:00 pmThere is no charge for this eventAll adults are welcomeAt B’nai TikvahCOME AND JOIN US

Page 7 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6CLICK HEREWouldn’t it be cool if you could just click on an adin Hakol and have the info you want displayed onyour smart-phone? If you asked me how to do thatlast year, I would have called you nuts.Technology is moving so fast, it’s hard to realizethat just two years ago, many of the things some ofus now take for granted would be justly categorizedunder the heading of science fiction. Yes, Virginia,you CAN click some ads in Hakol, using a freeQuery Response (QR) app for your smart-phone.My new “HY TEK” car came with a subscription to“OnStar”. So, now I can hold my iPhone to Hakoland, with just a few clicks, upload the address ofJesse & David’s to my cars’ navigation system.Gary Bergman,WebmasterRaise your hand if you thinkI’m nuts. Now rethink thatbecause, you are reading thiswith your hand in the air.ENTERTAINMENT AHEADYour Opinion is Wanted by the NewBT DaytimersCould you be “FREE FOR FUN” one daytime a month?Interested in joining other congregants for visits to historic sites, museums, ethnic dining,quaint villages, walking tours, gardens, or grand architecture?Curious enough about a wide range of subjects to come to CBT to hear talks by experts?If so, just complete this brief opinion survey and get it to the BT office by February 15th;Attention: Aaron Rosloff. Thanks, and let’s all enjoy, together.When: Check the best day (+), or OK day (x) for youMon ( ) Tues ( ) Wed ( ) Thurs ( ) Fri ( )Check the best time for you10 to noon ( ) 1 to 3 ( ) anytime ( )What: On a scale of 1 (lowest) to 10 (highest), tell us which of the these examplesyou would like to participate in._____Local art museum: Princeton, Newark, Montclair_____Other museums: Philadelphia, Brooklyn, Manhattan_____Walking tours: Backstage Lincoln Center or Broadway, Dumbo, Jewish Harlem_____Gardens: Doris Duke’s, Brooklyn orBronx Botanical_____Historic sites: Thomas Edison Labs, Lower East Side Tenements, Eldridge St. Synagogue_____Speakers: Current events, history, health, culture, government, Judaism, Israel, Storytellers_____Quaint villages: New Hope, Allentown, NJ_____Architecture: Governors Mansion, Doris Duke Mansion, Park Avenue Buildings_____Events: Flower shows, etc_____Ethnic Dining._____Anything else you can think of ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Page 8 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6What an exciting time for our Chapter! We hadmore than 50 kids come from all over the Region toour Annual Lock-In on January 14 th . Ross the Entertainerkept the kids busy, doing magic, playinggames, and acting as DJ. The 8 th graders stayed uplate in the Youth Lounge...who can say “no sleep?!”Finally, everyone was treated to a delicious pancakebreakfast prepared and served by Alan Miller andRenee Juro. We can’t thank them enough!By the time you read this, we will have had the followingevents –January 21 st – Regional ‘Saturday Night Live’ inSouth Orange – with a DJ, games, crafts, food andfun!January 23 rd – ‘Mike the Chocolate Guy’ – willhave made delicious Israeli themed chocolate barswith the kids!UP COMING EVENTSFebruary 12 – Rock Climbing at Rockville, 200Whitehead Road, Hamilton from 2-4 pm. The cost toyou is only $13 & the Youth Fund will pick up allother costs. Snacks & water will be served. We willmeet at Rockville. Anyone attending must fill out awaiver available at http://www.rockvilleclimbing.com/images/stories/Waiver2.pdf RSVP by 2/6.March 4 th – SAVE THE DATE for the PurimCarnival, 11:30 am-2 pm!Also on the same day, Regional Kadima Day atPowerhouse Studios, 7 Littell Road, East Hanoverfrom 2-5 pm. You will need your own transportation.The application is being sent out in our weeklyemails. They are due to the Regional Office by 2/27.In addition to Hakol articles each month, all communicationwill be going out through weekly emails.Please make sure if you change your email addressduring the year, you let me know.Scholarships are available to help with some of thecosts for programs. Please contact Steve Juro at732-960-1215. All conversations are confidential.Contact me with questions or concerns throughoutthe year! Applications are available atbnaitikvah.org/app-usy-kadima-2011-12.pdfand always accepted.Jordana Andersen 732-422-7457btkadima@gmail.comFebruary 27 – Game Night in the Youth Loungefrom 7-8:15 pm or come to relax w/ your Kadimafriends. Bring along your favorite games. Snackswill be served. Bring a Jewish friend who isinterested in joining, let them see how much funKadima is. RSVP by 2/23.

Page 9 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6our USYers preference!) and the USYers sharedstories of their own experiences in the Bedouin tents.The whole night was a lot of fun!Back when I was in USY, I was told “you get 4years”…proving this wrong has been a lot of fun sofar!My very first event upon returning to USY was meetingthe USYers at Israeli Movie Night on December13 th . It was a well thought out and fun event that featureda choice of 4 Israeli movies, and delicious Israelisnacks, chocolate and bubble gum. With 15USYers in attendance, it was a big success!Next, we had the Regional Dance in Bridgewater onDecember 17 th . It was another very well attendedevent with 19 of our own USYers who danced andsocialized the night away!We ended December on a great note by attending theCongregation wide Hanukkah Party on December21 st . 14 USYers joined the rest of the congregationand enjoyed latkes and sufganeot (jelly donuts) whilelistening to the talented Sons of Tikvah Band. Wemade the event our own by having a SA/TO project.We collected small, unwrapped toys for the Bristol-Myers Squibb Children’s Hospital at Robert WoodJohnson University Hospital for its “Child Life Program.”Every USYer brought an item from the officialwish list to donate to the kids. Everyone wasexcited about this wonderful mitzvah!Please join me in welcoming back our USYers whoattended the International Convention 2011 in Philadelphia.I have heard only great things about it andam so glad we had representation from N/SBUSY atIC!To start off 2012, we hosted a fantastic and successfulIsraeli/Bedouin Night on January 7 th . With EastWindsor, East Brunswick & Bridgewater, we had 33USYers in attendance. The USYers had fun competingin the Israeli Army style obstacle course, didsome Israeli Dancing, ate Israeli salad, falafel, pita,hummus & pizza (all served Bedouin Style in tents),learned the history of the Bedouins, drank the specialBedouin “teas” (which was really hot chocolate perBy the time you read this article, we will have hadthe following events:January 14 th – Regional SA/TO Dance in RumsonJanuary 22 nd – Snowtubing at Camelback in the Poconos(with EB & EW chapters)January 28 th – USY Services in the Youth Lounge –Once a month, USYers will participate in their ownShacharit and Musaf service in the youth lounge andjoin the main service during the Torah Service,where a USYer will deliver a D’var Torah usingideas and stories from the rest of the USYers!UPCOMING EVENTS:Thursday, February 2 nd – EBUSY Holiday Mash Up– Our chapter has been invited to East BrunswickUSY annual event where everyone’s favorite Jewishholidays are celebrated at one time.February 10-12 th – MID-WINTER KINNUSThis year, Mid-winter Kinnus will be hosted by theLivingston chapter at Temple Beth Shalom. Pleasemake sure you get your applications in ASAP! Thedeadline is Monday, January 23 rd . If you need anapplication, please email me.Thursday, February 16 th at 7pm –CANDY BAR CREATIONSTaking a suggestion from our favorite Kadimaniks,we will be hosting Mike, the Chocolate Guy, whowill make chocolate bars with the USYers. Cost is $5(with the balance being covered by the Youth Fund).Please RSVP by Thursday, January 26 th .February 24-25 th – USY TAKES OVER SHABBATThe USYers will be participating in all aspects ofleading teffilah including reading Torah, haftorah,having aliyot, delivering d’vree torah and MORE! Ifany USYer would like to lead a service, read Torahor would like to learn to lead a service, please contactLauren Wistreich at lwistreich613@aol.com. Wehope this becomes an event with many participantsso we can really show the B’nai Tikvah communitywhat USYers can do!Continued on page 30

Page 10 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6YOU’RE INVITED TO DINNER!by Eve CukorHello, my name is Eve Cukor, I'm 12 yearsold, and I’m working on a new program thatbesides being my Bat Mitzvah project, isalso something I hope will become a longstandingtradition at Congregation B'NaiTikvah. This new program is called, "BeOur Guest" and the idea is to create a databasethat pairs families and/or individualsfrom our community who would like to attenda Friday night shabbos dinner, or aholiday event such as a Passover Seder, thatis being held in the home of a CBT congregant.My goal is that this program will helppeople in our community who may be newto the area or to CBT, or do not have friendsor family nearby, to get to know each otherbetter, see different customs, try differentfoods, and also enable everyone to meetnew people and have a good time. Whetheryou (and your family) would like to attend adinner or whether you want to invite a "newfriend" to attend a dinner at your home --(and you are welcome to sign up for both) --you can easily add your name to our databaseby visiting my website. To kick off theprogram, we'll be signing up people forwould like to attend a PASSOVER SEDERat one of our congregant's homes. To signup to attend a seder or to invite a family orindividual to your own seder, please contactme and I will get in touch with you. Youcan contact me at:www.beourguestcbt.weebly.com, or youcan email me directly atbeouguestcbt@gmail.com (that's: be ourguest cbt at gmail.comThank you, Eve.Trying to find the wordsAs I sit here thinking about what I want to say,many words are running through my mind.Here are a few: compassionate, selfless, dependable,helpful, patient, kind, available. Allof these words define the same thing, theBikur Cholim committee of congregationB’nai Tikvah.I broke my leg in May of 2011. Since then Ihave received help with whatever I haveneeded by the amazing people who make upthis committee. They have cooked for me,shopped for me, taken me to and from physicaltherapy, and so much more. As it turns out myfracture has not healed and now requires surgery.I have been told by members of BikurCholim not to worry, they will be there forwhatever I need.If you have never been in the position I was in,which was mostly helpless, you do not knowwhat a gift it is to know there are people whoare ready to do whatever you need. Thatknowledge is so comforting. I can not expressmy gratitude.There is one other person I would like to mention.She has taken me to every Dr. appointmentand showed me how to get in and out ofmy condo, where there is a step. She has shownme how to deal with situations that felt overwhelmingto me. Her name is Rachel Ruchlinand most of you know her.Between her and the committee, I have made itthis far. Knowing they will be there for whatcomes next has given me peace of mind. Itmakes the idea of surgery just a little less scary.I thank each and every person who has helped,I could not have gotten this far without you.Although the committee’s primary purpose isto visit the sick and injured, I urge you tocontact them if you, or anyone you know,is in need of help while healing. Hopefullyyou will never need them but, rememberthey are ready to help if you do.Thank you for taking the time to read this.Jeryl Roller

Page 11 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Ann Ruth Nmberg, Religious School PrincipalThe month of February begins with Parent –TeacherConferences. Conferences will be held onWednesday, February 1 st . We will dismiss schoolat 5:45 p.m. that day so that conferences maybegin promptly at 6:00 p.m. You should alreadyfind a sign-up sheet outside your child’s classroom.Please sign- up early for a time that works wellfor you. If you cannot schedule a suitable time,please notify the office and your child’s teacherwill contact you to schedule an in-person ortelephone conference time that is suitable. And,please remember to sign and return your child’s Jr.Congregation form and Behavioral Contract priorto your conference; otherwise, you will need tocome into my office for your child’s report card.Your child must sign his/her Behavioral Contract aswell. Thank you for your cooperation.World Wide Wrap will take place on Sunday,February 5 th .The Tu B’Shevat Seder will be held on Wednesday,February 8 th . We will send you more informationabout these events via constant contact.The Dalet Jr. Congregation has been postponeduntil the spring.On Sunday, February 26 th , the Hei students andtheir parents will be involved in a special project.This program will reflect on their journey ofbecoming a Bar/Bat Mitzvah. The students willcreate a piece of fiber art that expresses theirfeelings.We have planned a trip to visit the Dead Sea Scrollsand Temple Emanuel in New York City. This trip isbeing offered to our Chai, Hei and Dalet students.Parents are welcome to join us as space permits.We will send all information regarding this trip toyou within the next few weeks via constant contact.I want to thank Hilary Friedman for volunteeringher time and providing our Chai students with agreatly appreciated cooking experience. Thevariety of foods, the taste and the wonderful smellsthat wafted through the Religious School wing onSunday mornings were remarkable. Hillary willbe returning in the fall and we look forward tosampling more of her delicious cuisine.February 5February 8February 12February 13February 26DATES TO REMEMBER:World Wide WrapTu B’Shevat SederBreakfast with the RabbiReligious School CommitteeMeetingHei Family EducationProgram

Page 12 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Learn Live and Connect With-G-d And Each OtherBy Joining Us For Some Enjoyable Adult Education ClassesFEBRUARY CLASSESRabbi Wolkoff: “Jewish Law,” Wednesday, February 15 th , 8 pm, in Beit MidrashStacey Rochman: “About the Minyan Service,” Wednesday, February 22 nd ,7:30 pm, in Beit Midrash RoomRabbi Wolkoff: “Junior Congregation for Grown-Ups, “Saturday, February 11 th , 9:30 am, sharp in Beit Midrash RoomRobert Wolkoff: “Mishnah, Midrash, and Talmud,”Sunday, February 26 th , 10:00am, in Beit Midrash RoomFor most classes, coffee and bagels will be served. Please drop by and take achance on learning something new and interesting. It is important to learn, no matterhow old we are. Try a class or three and we promise that your children will take noticeand, while they may not admit it, it is sure to “soak deep into to their subconscious”that the adults at CBT value Jewish education. And, just like our children, we do goto classes every once in a while.Sincerely,The Adult Education Committee of Congregation B’nai TikvahEach issue of Hakol reaches more than 400 Jewish households. It is one of the most cost effective ways to reach our community.Hakol is published monthly, except for July and August. Advertisers get free hyperlinks to their websites at bnaitikvah.org.Advertising rates for 2011-2012SizeArtwork(W x H)Annual Contract(10 Issues)Single IssueFull page 8” x 10.5” $675 $100½ page 3.75” x 10.5” or 8” x 5” $525 $80¼ page 3.75” x 5” $400 $60Business card 2” x 3.5” $300 $45Contact: CarolAnn Harkavy 732-438-0796 CaHarkavy@aol.com

Page 13 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6SCHEDULE OF SERVICESAND CANDLE LIGHTING TIMESDaily Schedule of ServicesCandle Lighting TimesSundayMondayTuesdayWednesdayThursdayFridaySaturday9:00 am & 7:30 pm7:30 pm7:30 pm7:30 pm7:30 am & 7:30 pm8:00 pm9:30 amFebruary 3 5:00 pmFebruary 10 5:08 pmFebruary 17 5:17 pmFebruary 24 5:25 pmShabbat EndsMincha/Ma’ariv and HavdalahFebruary 4 6:01 pmFebruary 11 6:09 pmFebruary 18 6:17 pmFebruary 25 6:25 pmFebruary 4 5:00 pmFebruary 11 5:15 pmFebruary 18 5:15 pm(Sundaes on Saturday)February 25 4:45 pm(Seudah and Study)TREE OF LIFECOME GROW WITHUSLOCATED IN THESYNAGOGUE’SMAIN LOBBY

Page 14 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6BT Daytimers Board Planning Meeting,January 3 MinutesThe first regular meeting will be held onJanuary 17th. Refreshments and a shortmembership meeting will be followed by amusical program by Don Anthony. We arelooking forward to a great turnout.Looking to build on the first regular meetingtwenty people met at B’nai Tikvah on Tues,January 2nd to discuss the future of the newadult group, BT Daytimers. The group wascomposed of B’nai Tikah members and nonmembersfrom the surrounding area. Thepurpose of the organization is to have afternoonprograms and trips for adults that willbe held on the third Tuesday of each monthat 1:00 pm.Many ideas where presented, such as having3 or 4 trips per year. We can car pool for theshorter ones and hire a bus for the longerones. Also for speakers that would interestthe group.B’nai Tikvah gets a shareThe money that’s made Is given to youB”nai Tikvah commission is 30%$100 minimum saleBonnie KudwittBeedirect@aol.com732-422-7276The next board meeting will be on Tuesday,February 7th at 1:00 pm. We are looking forideas for future meetings such as local artmuseums, walking tours, gardens, speakers,quaint villages, historical sites, specialevents (flower shows) and ethnic dining.Also, what is the best day of the week foryou and whether it makes a difference if it isin the morning or afternoon.For the next regular meeting, which will beon Tuesday, February, 21 at 1:00 pm theprogram will feature R. J. Lewis , who is amagician. So please join us, it is a great wayto spend an afternoon and be mystified.

Page 15 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6THANK YOU ……NEEDY FAMILY PROGRAMA SUCCESSThis year, we sponsored 6 needy families for theholiday. Because of our efforts, a total of 32 peoplewill enter the new year with basic things we all takefor granted: winter coats, boots, clothing, blankets,pillows, dishes, silverware--and the list goes on andon.On December 21, six vans and a pick-up truck cameto my home and loaded their vehicles with all thepurchased goods. One of the social workers toldme, as she was looking at all the gifts for a particularfamily, that at the beginning of the school year, shebought a pair of uniform pants for one of the boysbecause he was sharing one pair with his brother!She emphasized that our gifts will make a significantdifference in this family’s daily life.This year the Needy Family Program became a synagogue-wideevent. The nursery school donated theTzedakah they collect weekly and the religiousschool collected personal hygiene items for the sponsoredfamilies as well as for other families in need inthe New Brunswick area. After all these years, itstill amazes me how this program continues to grow.This program is a success due to the generosity ofthose who participate. Thanks to all who donatedmoney. Please know that every penny was usedtoward needed purchases for the families. To thosewho sponsored a child, adult, or family and bought,wrapped, and delivered the gifts to my house, thankyou for your time, efforts and expense. Many ofyou ,have been with this program since its inceptionand I can’t thank you enough.A big thanks goes to Jennifer Shapiro for her supportand commitment to this program. Thanks also toRebecca Shapiro for spending an entire day helpingus wrap and organize for the pick-up.I wish you all a year full of health, peace, andcontentment.Janice BaerNotes of Board of DirectorsMeeting January 2, 2012The Rabbi’s D’var Torah was about communicationamoung Joseph, his family, and thePharaoh.Amanda Dillman will be the new USY advisorstarting immediately.The marketing/publicity committee will bestarting soon. Its job will be coordination of all thesynagogue’s various committees to better informus and the general public.We have 392 member families and hope to keepgrowing.Our financial audit has been completed and theresults will be announced shortly.The new heater for the synagogue has arrived andwill be installed as soon as the mounting bracketarrives.Casino Night is coming on Saturday, March 31st.The committee still is looking for more volunteers.How about YOU? Please email Rob Blackin atrblackin@comcast.net.Gordon Heit is our new ritual chair.The Men’s Club will be holding the World WideWrap on Sunday, February 5th at 9:00 am in thesanctuary They are planning to have a formerWWII bombardier as a future speaker.Rabbi reported that the Talmud and Introduction toPrayer classes will be starting.Cantor said that the Lunch and Sing will be onFebruary 4th.Rejoice has received a grant of $3,150 from MiddlesexCounty. Considering moving Rejoice fromSeptember to May, 2013, as this would be a lesscongested period of time with the high holidays.

Page 16 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Men’s ClubXIII Annual World Wide Wrap on Sunday,February 5th at 9am in the sanctuary.What is a World Wide Wrap? On this day, (alsoknown as Super Bowl Sunday), the Federation ofJewish Men's Clubs tries to have all Jews worldwideput on TEFILLIN! Cantor Rockman alongwith Rabbi Wolkoff will lead and help those inneed in laying Tefillin. This is a family event, soif you are a rookie or veteran come join us in thisfun and spiritual mitzvah. Breakfast will beserved, compliments of the Men's Club.'Sex after 50", Thursday, February 16th at 8pm -Joint meeting with Sisterhood.This is a joint meeting with the Sisterhood. Join usfor an educational, interactive discussion on 'Sexafter 50'. Dr. Theresa Schaer has over 21 yearsexperience as the Chief of the Division of Geriatricsat St. Peters University Hospital. So even ifyou are not quite 50 yet, you will be one day!Please join us for this very special opportunity tolearn and ask questions about the process of agingand how it relates to intimacy.For information about Men's Club, please emailSteven Katz, MC President at skatz56@aol.comThank you.

Page 17 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Save the Dates:Thursday, February 16th: Join us for an educational,interactive discussion on ‘Sex as we Age:How Hormones Affect Us.” This is a joint meetingwith the Men’s Club. Dr. Theresa Schaer has morethan 21 years of experience as the Chief of the Divisionof Geriatrics at St. Peters University Hospitaland now has a private practice: Signature Health Solutions.Dr. Schaer will be discussing sex as we agein relation to hormones, vitamins, thyroid, and sleepamong other things. Grab your spouse or come aloneand listen to what Dr. Schaer has to say. You willfind this discussion enlightening.Thursday, March 15th ‘at 8:00PM: MartiniMixology. Learn the history, the recipes and ideasfor entertaining.Sunday April 22nd: Rosh Chodesh with BobbiBinder. Don’t miss this very special event when ourvery own Bobbi Binder will facilitate this morning’sprogram. What a great opportunity to have fun, beinspired and perhaps learn something new!Thursday May 10th: Please join us for this very importantmeeting on the Torah Fund. Our own AnnRosensweig will be instrumental in overseeing andpresenting this program to us.Social Action - For the month of February, SocialAction is continuing the collection of the followingitems for Woman Aware:$5.00 supermarket, Target, Walmart gift cards, andgas cards.Bathroom items: wash cloths, hand/bath towels.Cleaning supplies: Windex, garbage bags, bleach,dish soap, detergent, Lysol wipes.Paper Products: paper towels, toilet paper, disposablecutlery, napkins, and plates.These items can be brought to any Sisterhood meeting/eventor contact Caroline Scharf (732-735-1345),to arrange a convenient collection time. Thank youfor your support!Gift Shop - Hours are Sunday 9AM-12PM &Wednesday 4:15PM-6:15PM or by appointment.Contact Serena Blackin at 732-390-9515.February specials:20% of all in stock jewelry.Tallit of the month: all in stock women’s Gabrielli20% off.Please stop by and see our expanded clearancesection, all items 50% off.Purim Baskets – Let us help you continue the traditionof Mishloach Manot-sending baskets of goodiesto family and friends for Purim. Look out for thePurim Baskets letter in the mail. Any questionsplease call Andrea at 732-329-0687,macmommm@aol.com. Orders will be received byFebruary 8, 2012. Purim baskets will be distributedat the Wine Tasting table on March 4th and at theMegillah Reading on March 7th, or can be picked upat the Gift Shop during shop hours.Passover Wine Sale – Order your Passover Wine byWednesday March 21st. Order form and wine selectionlist can be found on the web site at http://www.bnaitikvah.org/winesale.html. Wine pick upwill be at the Gift Shop on Sunday 4/1, Tuesday 4/3and Wednesday 4/4.Membership - We encourage and invite all B'naiTikvah women to join Sisterhood and help makeyour Sisterhood even stronger. Please contact PhyllisSafeer: pbjsr@comcast.net or 732-432-9622 with anyquestions. To join, please send or drop off a check inthe BT office. Dues are as follows: Synagogue members-$36 / Seniors- $26 /Non-synagogue members-$46We look forward to sharing fun times together withold friends and new!Torah Fund - Your Torah Fund contribution strengthensand perpetuates Conservative Judaism throughoutthe world. For information on ways you can supportTorah Fund, contact Ann Rosenzweig,732-249-9141.

Page 18 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Ink Recycle ProgramWe collect used inkjet cartridgesthroughout the year. Bring emptycartridges from your inkjet printersat home or work to the synagogueoffice. We recommend that emptycartridges be brought in a ziploc bag,to prevent any possible leakage onhands, clothing, bags, etc.Tune in to Rabbi Wolkoff’s Adult Education lectureseries on: “Jewish Law”Call in during a live session or text your questions andopinions to elicit responses from the rabbi during thebroadcast.Clock:A small mechanical device to wake uppeople without children.Compromise:The art of dividing a cake so thateverybody believes he or she got thebiggest piece.Click the BlogTalkRadio icon wherever you see it onthe website to catch up on previous lectures orparticipate with us from the comfort of your home orwherever you happen to be.Next session:Wednesday, February 15th, at 8 pmIn March, on the 28th, at 8:00 pmBE A TATTLE TALEPlease let us know when a congregant can useour caring support.Contact Rabbi Wolkoffor the Bikur Cholim Committeeat bikur@bnaitikvah.org

Page 19 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6NURSERYSCHOOLby Phyllis Denenberg,REGISTRATION IS GOING ON NOWFOR ALL OUR SCHOOL AND CAMPPROGRAMS!Check out our Early BirdSpecials!New for this year - Gan Aleph Bet,a Jewish enrichment afternoon class.We are able to accommodate working parents byhaving 5 full-day programs for ages 2 ½ through 5and early/late-stay hours starting from 7:30 AM until6:30 PM.Our Toddler Fun Club class has openings. This is aparent, caregiver/child separation program for ages24 to 30 months old. It is a mini version of our nurseryprogram. The class runs on Thursdays from 9:15AM-10:45 AM. We will add a Tuesday class when itis requested.Our winter/spring My Kid & Me FREE programstill has a few openings. Don’t miss out! The classruns on Thursdays from 11:00 AM to 12:00. If youhave (or know anyone with) a child, grandchild,niece, or nephew of aged 12-24 months and islooking for socialization for their children and forthemselves, please contact us about our wonderfulMy Kid & Me class.Todah Rabah to everyone who donated items for ourRegifting Boutique. We made more than $500.00profit! We will have another Regifting Boutique inthe spring. Collection of new items will begin afterFriday, March 16 th . Just in time to do your springand Passover cleaning!During winter break, we had “Ben’s Best Magic” atour school. The program was attended by more than35 children (and their parents), including JCCNursery graduates from two and three years ago!We received many requests to have another programnext year during breaktime.Thank you to those who participated in our LittleLambs cookie dough fundraiser. It was a resoundingsuccess!This year, Tu B’Shevat, (New Year of the trees),falls on Wednesday, February 8th. A special guestvisitor will arrive that day.Plan to spend Friday morningswith us! The JCC of North &South Brunswick NurserySchool and CongregationB’nai Tikvah invite the entirecommunity to a FREEbimonthly program,“Shabbat Together” onFridays for adults with children aged 12 months to 4years old. Grandparents are invited with their grandchildrentoo! Rabbi Wolkoff and/or Cantor Rockmanwill participate in the class.The class takes place from 10:45 AM until 11:45 AMon specified Fridays. Please go to our website for thedates and to sign up!All are welcome!Space is limited. You can also reserve a spot byemailing our Early Childhood Director, PhyllisDenenberg, at nursery@bnaitikvah.org or by calling732-297-0295.Save The Date!!Wednesday, March 14 th from 6:30 PM to 8:00 PMOpen House/Family Art NightClass Art Galleries, A special musical guest,family art projectsWine and Cheese will be served(sparkling fruit juice and cheese crackers!)Until next month…Phyllis

Page 20 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Pictures from Ben’s Best Magic Showat the Nursery School, Mon., Dec 26.W W WSunday, February 5 ConservativeJews from around the world willcelebrate the mitzvah of Tefillin atmorning minyan, joining thousandsof others in the seventh annual“World Wide Wrap” sponsored bythe Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs.COMINGNEXT MONTHMarch 3 Lunch and LearnMarch 4 Purim CarnivalWine TastingMarch 5 Board of DirectorsMarch 7 Fast of EstherMarch 8 Megillah ReadingPURIMMarch 9 Birthday ShabbatMarch 10 Kadima ShabbatonBasic Prayer ClassMarch 15 Sisterhood MeetingMarch 16 Family Shabbat ServiceMarch 18 USY / Men’s ClubPancake BreakfastMarch 23 Gimel ServiceMarch 25 Kadima Chocolate SederSchool Model SederMarch 28 Rabbi’s ClassMarch 31 Casino Night

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Page 23 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Sisterhood and Men’s Club Present:Dr. Teresa Schaer“Sex as We Age: How Hormones Affect Us”Dr. Schaer has more than 21 years of experienceas the Chief of the Division of Geriatricsat St. Peters University Hospital and is now theFounder and Medical Director of theSignature Health Solutions Private Practice.When: Thursday, February 16th, 2012Time: 8:00 pmDr. Schaer will be discussing sex as we agein relation to hormones, vitamins, thyroidand sleep, among other subjects.Grab your spouse, or come alone and listento what Dr. Schaer has to say. You will findthis discussion enlightening.R.J. Lewis has performed at:MONDAY NIGHT MAGIC Regular 2000 - PresentSalt Lake Olympic Square Magician 2002VAUDEVILLE LIVES One-Man Show 2000 - PresentAnd the list goes on and on...R.J. Lewis’ unique style of comedy combines the skills of Magic, Juggling, and Ventriloquism withOne-liners and an ingratiating personality. His performance usesimagination, wit, and energy to dazzle and delight audiences fromBroadway to the White House. He can present a show for any age, anygroup, and is always tasteful, frenetic, and fun.Coming to the BT DAYTIMERSAt B’nai TikvahTHURSDAY, FEBRUARY 21stat 1:00 pm

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Page 25 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Continued from page 9Sunday, February 26 th at 12:30pm – OUT-DOOR ICE SKATINGWe have invited Springfield, Clark, Metuchen,EB, EW & Scotch Plains to join us at RooseveltPark Family Ice Skating Rink in Edison.The cost, which includes skate rental and admission,is $10 per USYer under 18 years old,$11 if over 18. Please RSVP by Sunday, February19 th so we have enough time to arrangecarpools. This is a GREAT event for USYersto bring friends from other chapters!Sunday, March 4 th – PURIM CARNIVAL –Save the date for games, food and fun!Scholarships are available to help with some ofthe costs of USY programs. Please contactSteve Juro at 732-960-1215. All conversationsare strictly confidential.Amanda Dillmannsbrunswickusy@gmail.com908-930-2526

Page 26 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Viva Las Vegas…and Viva B’nai TikvahBe the Life of the Party and give Life to CBTEating…drinking...dancing…playing…who would have thought that all these fun activities could actuallyhelp the shul? But that’s exactly what our Viva Las Vegas Casino Night Annual Fundraiser is all about.It’s about having a great time and helping B’nai Tikvah at the same time. Whether you join us forthe fun, place an ad in our ad book, donate a prize or volunteer for the committee, you’ll actually becontributing to the temple’s bottom line. This event brings in much needed contributions, especially inthis difficult economy, that keep dues down and member benefits funded.“What happens in Vegas…”There’s something for everyone…tasty food, delicious drinks, fun casino games, music, friends, prizesand much more. Casino games will include blackjack, roulette, a big wheel, a few sit-n-go Texas Holdem’tournaments and more. The tables will be staffed by professionals who will teach anyone the gameand make it fun for all. And, of course, you can win great prizes.Even if you are not a “player,” there will be lots to do for everyone! Scrumptious cuisine and libationsfrom the always amazing Classical Caterers, a dedicated “lounge” area, music, friends, fun and…well, wecan’t tell you everything because “what happens at B’nai Tikvah, stays at B’nai Tikvah.”Let’s get this party started!Who: Members and non-membersWhat (to wear): Whatever you want – the more “Vegas” the better.When: Saturday, March 31st8:00pm to 12:00 midnightWhere: B’nai TikvahWhy: Fun, Friends and For the ShulHow (much): $75 per person gets you in the door, food, drinks and $50 worth of chips. Deals topurchase additional chips will be forthcoming.Get your seat at the tableSign up and come to the party! No long flights, no lost baggage, just a great night out! Invitations willbe mailed in February. Or go online to bnaitikvah.org.Come with friends. Make new friends. Just get there!

Page 27 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Celebrate New Year's for TreesThe Jewish new year for trees, Tu B’Shevat(15th of the month of Shevat), this year fallson February 8 th . We celebrate the event byhaving a Tu B’shevat Seder, where we eatdifferent fruits and nuts that are mentionedin the Torah as grown in the land of Israel.In doing so, we tie ourselves to our Jewishheritage, the Torah, the land of Israel.The celebration is fun for the whole family.Please come and join us onFebruary 8 at 6 PMThe Brams family invites you tojesse and david’scentral jersey’s premier kosher deliunder rabbinical supervisionof rabbi robert WolkoffMention you are a member ofB’nai Tikvah and Save 10%Cater your next event we DeliverBaby Naming, Shiva Platters,Kiddush, Bris, Bar & Bat MitzvahB’nai Tikvah Gift Certificates AvailableTowne Pointe 357 Rt9 S. Manalapan, NJ 07726732-972-7755 - fax 732-972-7492www.jesseanddavids.com!See you soon, Patty, Rick, Erica & Allie“My father never lived to see his dream come trueof an all-Yiddish-speaking Canada.”–David SteinbergPLANT A TREEBlood DriveIn case you missed ours,Congregation Etz ChaimMonroe Township Jewish CenterSunday, February 5th,from 9 am through 3 pm.11 Cornell Avenue,Monroe TownshipAppointments are preferred.Please contact Hope Fisherat rettuhepoh@verizon.net orsign up on-line atwww.redcrossblood.organd enter sponsor code 02212392or call the temple office at732-251-1119Facebook, Twitter,Google+, LinkeinConstantContactEmail & WebsitePrint media, TVTo be a part of ourmarking/publicitycommitteePlease contactMarcie Kfare732-238-3819kfare@comcast.net609-540-0304MMDA24@gmail.com

Page 28 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6Hakol DonationsDecember 12, 2011 –January 13, 2012Rabbi’s Discretionary FundAudrey & Lou Flumen, in appreciation of Rabbi Wolkoff’s kindnessand support following the passing of their beloved mother &mother-in-law, Helen FlumenbaumCarla Visser, in memory of her beloved mother, Sara BilanderBette & Stephen Koffler, in memory of Jeanette KofflerSusan Miller, in memory of her beloved husband, ArnieCantor’s Discretionary FundBarbara & Joe Plotnick, in memory of Jack SondikeSusan Keller, in memory of Muriel OstroffElaine & Alvin Brackup, in memory of Bessie WattenbergJanet & Marcel SzpiroArlene & Marc Lassin, in memory of Steve FranzmanGeneral DonationsLinda Rifkin, in memory of Jack SondikeMichele & Paul Watter, in memory of Jack SondikeMiriam & Robert Schachter, in memory of Edward GreenhauseRosy & Raymond Benno, in memory of Clemy CohenMarilyn & Shel Widlan, in memory of Abraham “Eddie” KleinElizabeth Poplin & Stephen WolpertLinda & Ben Gottesman, in memory of Abraham KleinBikur Cholim FundMaxine & Mark Kasdin, in memory of Ann KernisAdrienne & Andrew Ross, in memory of Abraham KleinDebra & Stu Allen in honor of Rachel Blackin becoming aBat MitzvahArnie Miller Memorial FundMargaret CroninJanet & Fred Goodstein, in memory of Janet’s beloved father,Harold HeineZina & Yakov KleymanIna & Ira MorgenthalFriends of Brian MillerJudith & Stan RubensteinDeborah & Martin SpignerReligious School Education FundCandace & Craig Botnick, in memory of Abraham KleinCandace & Craig Botnick, in memory of Ina SegalAnn Nimberg & the Religious School Staff, in memory ofAbraham KleinCandace & Craig Botnick, in memory of Elliott BotnickYartzeit DonationsMichele & Dave Greenfield, in memory of Hyman AroughetiNancy & Barry Kivor, in memory of Rose KivorBarbara & Arnold Tracy, in memory of David TracySylvia & Erwin Lewis, in memory of Fannye AronskySandra, Yitzhak & Dina Sharon, in memory of Helen BrookEllen & Gerald Platz, in memory of Robert LepowskyAudrey & Peter KukerMelanie & Richard Margolis, in memory of Lilian SiegelPhyllis & Leon Horlick, in memory of Harry HorlickGail & William Reinholtz, in memory of Bennett ReinholtzVicki & Burt Bauman, in memory of Yetta BaumanDiane & Jordan Rosuck, in memory of Cheryl GelfandzGloria & Fred Landsman, in memory of Isadore LandsmanJoel & Joyce Gerbman in memory of Solomon GerbmanSusan & Andrew Shapiro, in memory of Edward WerfelPhyllis & Albert Garten, in memory of Yetta KadinMichael Silverstein & Family, in memory of Theresa SilversteinEddie Flateman, in memory of his beloved wife, MaxineChelli & Marty Haller, in memory of Chelli’s beloved mother,Sylvia RichterBeverly Leipzig-SilienCarol & Howard Kalish, in memory of Albert KalishBetty & Marvin Stark, in memory of Esther StarkBetty & Marvin Stark, in memory of Louis GoldenJoyce & Arthur Warner, in memory of Gertrude WarnerSusan Turner, in memory of Dora TurnerPhyllis Rich, in memory of her beloved husband, HowardArleen & Barry Parson, in memory of Harold HerlandsSocial Action FundAmy & Clifford Smith, in memory of Murray HorowitzJodi & David Marcou, in memory of Louis WexlerFamily Shabbat FundDeborah & Martin Spigner, in memory of Abraham KleinNursery School FundMichele & Dave Greenfield in honor of the birth of Joyce & GeraldFishelberg’s grandson, Ari MyerPrayer Book FundCarol & Marvin Eisenberg, in memory of Bernard RatzmanAaron Rosloff, in memory of Alex Rosloff

Page 29 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6DonationsAllen Karp Memorial FundcontinuedContributions:In honor of: __________________________Debbie & Jerry Rosen, in memory of Jack SondikeShabbat Luncheon FundSusan Miller, in memory of Shirley ScisorekAaron Rosloff, in memory of Alex RosloffMitzvah 613Lauren & Andrew Cohen, in memory of Abraham KleinSherry Valan, in loving memory of her beloved husband, HaroldSherry Valan, in memory of Jack SondikeBarbara Mailman, in memory of her beloved husband, JackAndrea, Steven, Melissa & Matthew Katz, in honor of Sara &Brian BinderChelli & Marty Haller, in memory of their dear friend, Jack Pilato-Chelli & Marty Haller, in memory of Barry HorneyMarci & Marty Abschutz, in honor of Steve GordonSon’s of TikvahBarbara & Joe Plotnick, in memory of Hilda SnyderMirah & Murray Becker, in memory of Marshall BeckerTzedakah FundBarry & Mona Portnoy, in memory of Marilyn & Elaine Portnoy &Sandra SakSandra & David FriedheimYouth FundJudy & Steve Harris, in honor of Vicki Bauman’s BirthdayThe Spigner Family, in memory of Harry JustSherry Valan, in memory of Abraham KleinThe office thanks:Joyce Fishelberg, Bill Greenberg, Jeryl Roller, SandyScharf & Beverly Leipzig-Silien for making Januarybirthday calls.Sherry Valan for continuing to help in the office.A special thank you to Susan Shapiro for her beautifulcalligraphy for the B’nai Mitzvah and Baby Namingcertificates.In memory of: ________________________On the occasion of:___________________________________This donation is being made by:Name: _____________________________Address: ______________________________________________________Telephone: _________________________Please send an acknowledgment to:Name: _____________________________Address: ______________________________________________________City, State, Zip: ______________________Amount of your donation:{ }$18 { }$36 { }$54 { }$72 { }$118 { }OtherPlease Allocate Donations to:{ } Building / Capital Improvement Fund{ } Shabbat Luncheon { } Yahrzeit Fund{ } Prayer Book Fund { } General Fund{ } Cantor’s Special Fund* { } Library Fund{ } Passport to Israel { } Youth Fund{ } Religious School { } Nursery School{ } Bikur Cholim { } Tzedakah Fund{ } Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund* { } Sons of Tikvah{ } Social Action { } Family Shabbat{ } L’Dor Vador Fund { } Ritual Fund{ } Rejoice Fund{ }Other__________________*Please send separate checks for these funds.You can make your contributions online byclicking the “Giving” link at bnaitikvah.org

Page 30 HAKOL bnaitikvah.org February 2012 Sh’vat 8 - Adar 6 5772 Volume 33 issue 6B’NAI TIKVAH DIRECTORYTITLE NAME PHONE # E-MAIL ADDRESSRabbi Robert Wolkoff 732-297-0696 rabbi@bnaitikvah.orgCantor Bruce Rockman 732-422-0963 cantor@bnaitikvah.orgPresident Gary Bergman 732-246-7285 president@bnaitikvah.orgVP Administration David Cukor 732-690-6714 lpcushionsales@aol.comVP Membership Marcie Kfare 732-328-3819 kfare@comcast.netVP School and Youth Jeff Schwartz 732-297-6365 jschwartz@auerpak.comVP Ways and Means Jeffrey Cadoff 732-398-3769 cadoffj@gmail.comRecording Secretary Howard Hoffman 732-940-7269 howard.hoffman@wsj.comFinancial Secretary Mark Kasdin 609-336-7068 eagles242@aol.comTreasurer Gary Wesalo 732-821-0588 gwesalo@aol.comAsst. Treasurer Andrew Ross 732-422-0637 adrcpa@comcast.netPast President Ruth Anne Koenick 732-828-8141 koenick@echo.rutgers.eduTRUSTEES Rob Blackin 732-390-9515 rblackin@comcast.netArthur Cederbaum 732-821-8162 arlceder@optonline.netLauren Cohen 732-438-8079 andrewlauren3@gmail.comLinda Fellen 732-651-7953 linda.fellen@gmail.comWayne Gonchar 732-238-5564 wgonchar@aol.comBen Gottesman 732-651-7953 ben.gottesman@gmail.comRenee Juro 732-960-1215 rsjuro@verizon.netDaniel Reninger 609-309-5031 daniel.reininger65@gmaiI.comDouglas Smoller 732-254-2313 dsmoller@comcast.netMichael Weiss 732-246-0306 meweiss@optonline.netVOTING BT Daytimers Aaron Rosloff 732-297-2233 msro8@aol.comMen’s Club Bill Greenberg 732-297-6953 sailor449@optonline.netSisterhood Bonnie Kudwitt 732-422-7276 beedirect@aol.comAdministrator Lynne WeissMarshall 732-297-0696 admin@bnaitikvah.orgAdministrator Assistant Roz Fischman 732-297-0696 office@bnaitikvah.orgAdult Education Mirah Becker 732-967-9791 mirahb@comcast.netBikur Cholim Hilary Friedman 732-274-2154 bikur@bnaitikvah.orgBlood Drive Marty Engel 732-297-3198 martinengel@verizon.netBook Club Shirley Engel 732-297-3198 shirleyengel@verizon.netBT Daytimers Aaron Rosloff 732-2972233 msro8@aol.comCatering Committee Irwin Millinger 732-297-6477 imillinger@comcast.netCemetery Arthur Cederbaum 732-821-8162 arlceder@optonline.netCollege Connection Phyllis Safeer 732-432-9622 pbjsr@comcast.netEbay Fundraising Bonnie Kudwitt 732-422-7276 beedirect@aol.comGift Cards and Room Rentals Sherry Valan 732-297-0696 sherry@bnaitikhah.orgHakol Editor Michael Weiss 732-246-0306 hakol.cbt@gmail.comHakol Advertising CarolAnn Harkavy 732-438-0796 CaHarkavy@aol.comHistorical Committee Bill Greenberg 732-297-6953 sailor4498@optonline.netHouse & Grounds David Cukor 732-967-0866 lpcushionsales@aol.comIsrael Bonds Larry Cohen 732-821-4376 Licdac@optonline.netIsrael Taskforce Alan Kane 732-418-1913 akane@optonline.netJudiaca/Gift Shop Serena Blackin 732-390-9515 serena@blackin.orgJunior Congregation Barry Safeer 732-432-9622 safeer@comcast.netKadima Jordana Andersen 732-422-7457 Jorde1174@aol.comLeagrams Lori Sookerman 732-274-9599 Lorishookerman@comcast.netMen’s Club Steve Katz 732-329-0687 skatz56@aol.comNursery School Director Phyllis Denenberg 732-297-0295 nursery@bnaitikvah.orgParent Advisory Committee Co-Chairs Dana Chalson 732-438-8853 penndana@gmail.comMarlene Buckwald 732-951-9519 marteach819@aol.comPassport to Israel Program Keith Zimmerman 732-398-1420 keith@kzplanning.comReligious School Committee Co-Chairs Lauren Cohen 732-438-8079 andrewlauren3@gmail.comAimee Weber 732-940-2477 aimjweb@gmail.comReligious School Principal Ann Ruth Nimberg 732-297-0295 school@bnaitikvah.orgSchool Administrator Asst. Terez Slim 732-297-0295 school@bnaitikvah.orgShabbos Luncheons Lynne WeissMarshall 732-297-0696 admin@bnaitikvah.orgSupermarket Gift Cards Manager Barry Safeer 732-432-9622 safeer@comcast.netSisterhood Co-Presidents Bonnie Kudwitt 732-422-7276 beedirect@aol.comTeresa Samtur 732-821-8163 msamtur@comcast.netSoftball League Mark Kirsch 609-356-0490 markkirsch@comcast.netTree of Life Sherry Valan 732-297-0696 sherry@bnaitikah.orgTransportation Toby Ehrlich 732-329-1082 tgehr18@yahoo.comUSY Amana Dillman 908-930-2526 nsbrunswickusy@gmail.comWebmaster Gary Bergman 732-246-7285 webmaster@bnaitivah.orgYouth Committee Ruth Shindler 732-238-6893 ruthshindler@comcast.net

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