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STAFF PROFILE<br />

Since moving from a<br />

teaching position to the<br />

role of unit manager at<br />

the Boys Ranch, Dorothy<br />

Phillips has discovered<br />

new ways to build relationships<br />

with youth.<br />

Pictured with Phillips are,<br />

left to right, Raymond,<br />

Jacob, Michael, Jayden,<br />

Marvin and Andrew.<br />

Following her heart<br />

Dorothy Phillips followed her<br />

heart and decided it was time<br />

to make a change.<br />

After finishing her counseling<br />

degree, she made<br />

the transition from teacher<br />

at the University of Texas-<br />

University Charter School<br />

on the Waco campus to unit<br />

manager at the Boys Ranch<br />

in October 2012. Little did<br />

she know that this decision<br />

would have such a big impact<br />

on her as well as the youth.<br />

In only a short time,<br />

Phillips and the youth in her<br />

home unit have developed a<br />

strong connection. Phillips<br />

said she has been able to<br />

build positive relationships<br />

with the boys by gaining<br />

their trust and respect, letting<br />

them know she is an advocate<br />

for them, and always keeping<br />

their best interest at heart.<br />

“The youth have to know<br />

you have a genuine desire in<br />

your heart to want to build<br />

a relationship with them,”<br />

Phillips said. “You have to<br />

have the perfect balance of<br />

love and compassion, along<br />

with a level of high expectations<br />

and respect for each<br />

individual.”<br />

Phillips and the youth<br />

have group sessions twice a<br />

week. She also meets individually<br />

with youth to discuss<br />

their grades as well as any of<br />

their concerns or needs. She<br />

also makes a point to check in<br />

on a daily basis, whether by<br />

calling them before school,<br />

greeting them when they get<br />

off the buses, or attending<br />

their athletic events. This extra<br />

effort has not gone unnoticed<br />

by the youth.<br />

“When she was a teacher,<br />

I struggled in her class<br />

and she really helped me,”<br />

said Andrew, a Boys Ranch<br />

resident for two years. “Now<br />

that she is our unit manager,<br />

it just seems to work. She is<br />

friendly and kind and she is<br />

able to keep things in order.<br />

Every morning, she calls our<br />

homeparents to check on us<br />

and see how we’re doing. She<br />

always talks to us and asks us<br />

how we are feeling.”<br />

Phillips said the most enjoyable<br />

part of being a unit<br />

manager is seeing the youth<br />

every day and having the opportunity<br />

to connect with<br />

them and be there for them.<br />

“Since I made the transition<br />

from teaching in the<br />

charter school to unit manager,<br />

it has opened my eyes<br />

to so many other ways I can<br />

directly be of service to these<br />

boys,” she said. “I don’t look<br />

at this as being a job because<br />

it is something I truly enjoy<br />

doing. I see it more as a<br />

ministry because we shape<br />

the lives of these young individuals<br />

to help them become<br />

responsible and successful<br />

adults one day.”<br />

<strong>Sunshine</strong> I Winter 2013<br />

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