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Maturity - n. 1. Fully developed or
grown up 2. Ripe, seasoned.
The dictionary definition of "maturity" is
quite specific - it prompts us to consider a
mature wine with its fine full-bodied flavour,
or to conjure up the image of a
mature tree resplendent in its
autumn glory.
We think of a mature
cheese whose flavour and
texture has reached its
peak, or a mature garden
displaying beauty and
harmony, the result of
sensitive planting and
much loving care.
All of these are to
enjoyed and celebrated,
but do we apply this sense
of admiration and celebration when it
comes to people?
The path to maturity is very much shaped
by experiences, events and the acquisition
of knowledge. The vibrant energy of youth
and their unshakeable confidence that
they can, and will, change the world is
not maturity - it is the passing of the
years with all the responsibilities,
decision-making, errors of judgement,
and acknowledgement that we are not
the "Be All and End All" which matures
us. A mature person knows when to
offer advice and when to stay silent and
be a good listener.
There may be mature people living
quite close to us whose life experiences
have given them a wealth of knowledge,
who have many a story to tell, but who
feel trapped in their homes and would
welcome a friendly chat to enrich their
day.
They may be unable to travel very far
but might enjoy a gentle stroll or a
welcome ride to a nearby activity which
might provide an opportunity for shared
memories and some laughter. Perhaps
family members have moved away and
friends find it difficult to visit, but a younger,
more able-bodied person with a caring
heart could be a breath of fresh air.
Our mature friends and neighbours are
as much an essential part of our
community as are our cared-for
parks and woodlands and our
well-stocked shops, but we
have to make, and take,
time for them so that they
continue to thrive and feel
valued. Can we in
Woodseats and Beauchief
take action and lead the
way?
There is a group of caring
people in St. Chad's
Church who are giving
time, energy and love through its 3rd Age
ministry. You too can reach out by caring
for those near you or by encouraging others
to enquire if we can help continue to value
and nurture their passing years.
For more details, call 0114 274 5086.
Find out more about a new Friendship
Club to be held at St Chad’s Church
House every second and fourth
Thursday afternoon from 2-4pm.
The club is open to all over 50 years.
There is disabled access and all
facilities are on the ground floor.
Activities offered are varied and
designed to encourage friendships,
stimulate conversation, produce laughter
and create interest in new ideas.
Please contact the church offices on
0114 274 5086 for more details or leave
a message and telephone number for
Yvonne Smith to contact you.
Tell your neighbours and friends and
encourage them to give it a try!
St Chads Church, Linden Avenue, Woodseats
email: office@stchads.org
Church Offices: 15 Camping Lane, Sheffield S8 0GB Page 18 web site: stchads.org
Tel: (0114) 274 5086