FATAL ATTRACTION

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-Turn They called me a serial dater (Aidah Alabastron Season 27) I learnt about Alabastron for the first time a couple of years back but never really bothered to know the details. Fast forward to last year, my friend, who has been a strong advocate of the program in our group of friends, finally convinced me. I attended the open day and I knew I had to sign up there and then. My friend had said it will help me rediscover myself, bounce back, deal with issues and situations I have been avoiding but necessary that they are addressed. At first I thought it was a place for counseling women with alooooot of issues. I knew I needed help but I did not think my issues were Alabastron level. LOL. In the past two years I had been jumping from ‘relationship’ to ‘relationship’. I had had about 8 short relationships in two years. All of them left me devastated, angry and sad, a good friend of mine even called me a ‘serial dater’. I really didn’t want this to be my destiny as I was just a girl seeking love in all the wrong places unknowingly; it’s not that I had planned for each of these not to work out. But I also remembered the saying if it happens once maybe it is him but if it hasn’t worked out eight times……maybe it’s you. I knew I was a contributing factor but couldn’t quite pin point what the issue was and there is where I needed help discovering and bouncing back. DADAZINE 14
My approach had been to jump to the next available relationship to make up for the one that did not work out so I do not have to explain the break ups. At some point I realized I never used to u pdate my friends if it didn’t work out so some would think I am still dating X, some would think I am dating Y, some Z it was even hard for me to keep up with knowing which friend thinks am dating who so I don’t confuse stories….. all this to save face. The few that I told I informed them of what bad people the guys were so they can give me the ‘you dodged a bullet’ talk and justify my actions but I knew they were not all bad….some, but not all. I really yearned for a happy thriving relationship. Through the process of Alabastron, I have discovered the role I was playing in making things not work out and the attributes I needed to work on. I was also able to regain self-appreciation. Most importantly I regained my confidence in God in the issue of marriage and settling down so that it has been much easier leaning on him and trusting His ways and not mine. I am now able to let go and let God. I can guard my heart so I do not self-sabotage. I can sit back and wait to be wooed knowing I am a queen. I have learnt to be still and follow God’s leading and not be self-seeking I feel God is using Alabastron to redeem/give answers and directions to relationships of all forms. If you are experiencing something close to what I have been through, I recommend you Come and learn what God has for you and see Him deliver you to new heights. Bounce back and live a fulfilled life as God intends for us. DADAZINE 15
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