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IV.<br />

Going on Your Date<br />

A. Traveling<br />

In a situation of an “out-of-town” girl going out<br />

with an “in-town” boy, the girl should prepare to travel<br />

to his city. Of course, there are always exceptions, but<br />

this is usual practice if you are dating a boy from the east<br />

coast. There are several reasons for this practice. For<br />

instance, if a boy lives in New York, he has a large<br />

community of girls from which to choose; so he would<br />

not necessarily desire or feel the need to travel to meet<br />

a girl from another city, rent a car and drive in an<br />

unfamiliar location, and miss a few days of work to travel.<br />

Generally speaking, a girl does not need to travel<br />

for every date, but she most likely will need to do so at<br />

least for the first visit and possibly the second visit. After<br />

that, a compromise should be reached where the boy<br />

should travel as well.<br />

In a situation where the girl is living on the east<br />

coast and the boy is from out-of-town, the girl does not<br />

need to travel to meet him, for the same reasons as<br />

above.<br />

When the boy and girl reside in nearby cities,<br />

such as Chicago and Detroit or Cleveland and Cincinnati,<br />

the boy should always travel for the date. It is more<br />

gentleman-like for the boy to travel to the girl’s city.<br />

B. Transportation<br />

When a boy picks up the girl for a date, he should<br />

make sure to have his car washed and cleaned. If the boy<br />

does not own a car or if the car is in poor condition, then<br />

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