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If you go on a date at a coffee shop or a hotel<br />
lobby, you may consider bringing things to make the date<br />
more fun. For example, bring a game with you or play<br />
cards. You can learn a lot about someone when playing a<br />
game with him/her. This also lightens the mood and does<br />
not require you to just sit and talk the entire time. It also<br />
helps you determine whether you can have fun with the<br />
person, which is extremely important.<br />
Speak about current events and other<br />
controversial topics. These are usually sensitive subjects,<br />
so it is good to see if you agree or disagree on certain<br />
matters, and whether he/she is respectful of your points<br />
of view.<br />
Speak about any issues that come up along the<br />
way. The most important aspect to a relationship and<br />
marriage is communication; so, if you feel strongly about<br />
something, you must discuss it with your partner. If<br />
he/she does something that is annoying or bothers you,<br />
you need to raise the issue in a respectful manner and try<br />
to work it out. People aren’t going to change once you<br />
get married. If you for example really wish your husband<br />
will go learn for an hour every night and currently he is<br />
not, just because you get married and you can start to<br />
push him more does not mean that he will go. Marriage<br />
does not solve problems, so any small thing that bothers<br />
you that you cannot get over you must discuss during<br />
these dates.<br />
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