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Dhaka Tribune<br />

vol 5 Issue 1 | FRIDAY, April 21, 2017<br />

4<br />

Sustainable<br />

fashion<br />

14 Documenting<br />

history<br />

17 Earth<br />

day


CONTENTS 1<br />

Volume 5 | Issue 1 | April 21, 2017<br />

Editor<br />

Zafar Sobhan<br />

Features Editor<br />

Sabrina Fatma Ahmad<br />

Magazine Editor<br />

Farina Noireet<br />

Deputy Magazine Editors<br />

Khan N Moushumi<br />

Shuprova Tasneem<br />

<strong>Weekend</strong> Tribune Team<br />

Saudia Afrin<br />

Moumita Ahmed<br />

Tasfia Huda<br />

Baizid Haque Joarder<br />

Saqib Sarker<br />

Mahmood Sadi<br />

Sabiha Akond Rupa<br />

Contributors<br />

Nisha Ali<br />

Mahmood Hossain<br />

Anika Humaira<br />

Farzana Romine<br />

Cartoons<br />

Syed Rashad Imam Tanmoy<br />

Priyo<br />

Graphics<br />

Md Mahbub Alam<br />

Alamgir Hossain<br />

Shahadat Hossain<br />

Colour Specialist<br />

Shekhar Mondal<br />

Advertisement<br />

Shahin Ahsan<br />

Production<br />

Masum Billah<br />

Circulation<br />

Masud Kabir Pavel<br />

Website<br />

dhakatribune.com/weekend<br />

facebook.com/<strong>Weekend</strong>Trib<br />

Email your letters to:<br />

weekend@dhakatribune.com<br />

6<br />

10<br />

Cook your own way<br />

Kitchen chronicles<br />

Photo Story<br />

Monkey business<br />

Editor’s note<br />

Dear Readers,<br />

Now that the fun and festivities of<br />

the Noboborsho have passed, it is<br />

time we take a solemn step towards<br />

a year that will hopefully bring peace<br />

and prosperity to all.<br />

Dhaka Tribune turned four this<br />

April 19, and like always, we aim to<br />

provide our readers with stories that<br />

will not only be a source of relevant<br />

news, but also pique their interests<br />

on a range of subjects.<br />

April 22 is International Mother<br />

Earth Day, and this week we bring to<br />

you a collection of articles relating<br />

to environment and conservation.<br />

We start off with our regular fashion<br />

section, featuring designer Maheen<br />

Khan in a moment of introspection<br />

about our consumerist choices.<br />

We then move on to an Earth Day<br />

Special page on locally made ecofriendly<br />

products. Our photo story<br />

features some rare close-ups of<br />

some of the famous furry inhabitants<br />

of Lawachara National Park, who are<br />

precariously close to being termed<br />

endangered unless more is done for<br />

conservation.<br />

April 16 also saw the inauguration<br />

of the new premises of the Liberation<br />

War Museum. We have a section<br />

dedicated to this new space for<br />

documenting history that will serve as<br />

a crucial source of information on the<br />

birth of our country for generations<br />

to come.<br />

Here’s wishing our readers a<br />

happy weekend.<br />

Farina Noireet<br />

News<br />

2 News<br />

3 Meanwhile<br />

Features<br />

4 Trending<br />

Sustainable fashion<br />

8 Earth Day<br />

Eco-friendly buys<br />

12 Fiction<br />

13 Interview<br />

Shamsul Alam Bir Uttam<br />

14 Space<br />

Documenting history<br />

16 Groceries<br />

Food safety<br />

17 Earth Day<br />

Lifestyle<br />

19 Gastronomy<br />

For the love of dim sum<br />

20 Health<br />

Depression<br />

Regulars<br />

9 Tailored<br />

18 Stay in<br />

On the cover<br />

Metal sculpture of Bangabandhu<br />

Sheikh Mujibur Rahman and four<br />

national leaders at the new premises<br />

of the Liberation War Museum<br />

Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


2 News | This week<br />

Local<br />

Two razakars to<br />

die for war crimes<br />

in Kishoreganj<br />

The world at a glance<br />

Two Russian jets ‘intercepted’<br />

by US fighter planes near Alaska<br />

Syria evacuations resume<br />

after deadly bombing<br />

A special tribunal has sentenced<br />

two collaborators to death for<br />

their involvement in the murder<br />

of over 60 people, arson and<br />

looting in Kishoreganj during the<br />

1971 Liberation War.<br />

The three-member<br />

International Crimes Tribunal<br />

headed by Justice Anwarul<br />

Haque pronounced the<br />

judgement in presence of one<br />

of the convicts, Muhammad<br />

Moslem Pradhan, 66 on last<br />

Tuesday.<br />

The other convict, Syed<br />

Mohammad Hussain alias<br />

Hossain, 54, is absconding. They<br />

were indicted on six charges of<br />

crimes against humanity on May<br />

6 last year.<br />

Charges brought against the<br />

duo include killing of 62 people,<br />

abduction and detention of 11<br />

people, and burning down some<br />

250 houses in Nikli upazila in<br />

collaboration with the Pakistani<br />

occupation forces.<br />

In this case, the prosecution<br />

prayed to the court to declare<br />

rape and forced religious<br />

conversions equal to genocide.<br />

The duo, both hailing from<br />

Kishoreganj sadar upazila, were<br />

given death sentence on charge<br />

No 3.<br />

News: Dhaka Tribune<br />

Egyptian police last Tuesday arrested a man<br />

wanted for alleged involvement in twin church<br />

bombings this month claimed by the Islamic<br />

State group, an official said.<br />

Acting on a tip-off, police arrested Ali<br />

Mahmoud Mohamed Hassan, one of 19 suspects<br />

whose names police made public after the Palm<br />

Sunday explosions, the official said.<br />

Two suicide bombers attacked two churches<br />

in the cities of Tanta and Alexandria on April<br />

9, killing 45 people in the deadliest attack on<br />

Coptic Christians in recent memory.<br />

Hassan was arrested in the southern province<br />

of Qena, from where the two suicide bombers<br />

also came.<br />

The interior ministry had raised a reward for<br />

US fighter planes have intercepted and escorted two<br />

Russian bombers in international airspace off the coast of<br />

Alaska.<br />

The TU-95 Bear bombers flew within 100 miles (160 km)<br />

of Alaska’s Kodiak Island before being intercepted by two<br />

American F-22 Raptors last Monday.<br />

The US pilots escorted the Russian planes for 12<br />

minutes before the TU-95s changed course and departed<br />

towards eastern Russia.<br />

CNN reported that the Russian planes were within<br />

international air space but inside the Alaskan Air Defence<br />

Identification Zone, meaning they should in theory have<br />

identified themselves and their destination. The planes<br />

were 280 miles south west of the Elmendorf Air Force Base<br />

when the Raptors were scrambled. The Russian planes<br />

also flew near the Aleutian Islands.<br />

Pentagon spokesman and Navy Commander Gary Ross<br />

said the intercept procedure was “safe and professional.”<br />

US officials also said the Russian behaved professionally,<br />

although there was no “cockpit-to-cockpit” radio contact.<br />

Monday’s incident was not the first incident. On July 4,<br />

2015 Russian bombers appeared off California and Alaska.<br />

Photo: Reuters<br />

Egypt arrests church bombings suspect<br />

information<br />

leading<br />

to the<br />

suspects’<br />

arrests to<br />

500,000<br />

pounds<br />

($27,518).<br />

The Palm Sunday bombings followed<br />

an earlier attack by a suicide bomber who<br />

detonated his explosives in a packed Cairo<br />

church in December, killing 29 people.<br />

The Islamic State group, which claimed all<br />

three bombings, has threatened more attacks on<br />

the minority, which makes up about 10 percent<br />

of Egypt’s 90 million people.<br />

Photo: AP<br />

Hundreds of Syrian civilians who have been under<br />

crippling siege left their homes last Wednesday as<br />

evacuations resumed after a weekend bombing<br />

killed dozens of others fleeing, nearly 70 of them<br />

children.<br />

A large convoy of buses from the governmentheld<br />

towns of Fuaa and Kafraya reached the edge<br />

of the rebel-held transit point of Rashidin outside<br />

second city Aleppo, the correspondent said.<br />

The Syrian Observatory for Human Rights<br />

confirmed the hard-won evacuation deal was back<br />

under way.<br />

“The process has resumed with 3,000 people<br />

leaving Fuaa and Kafraya at dawn and nearly 300<br />

leaving Zabadani and two other rebel-held areas,”<br />

the head of the Britain-based monitoring group,<br />

Rami Abdel Rahman, told AFP.<br />

Rashidin was the scene of Saturday’s deadly<br />

car bombing. At least 109 of the 126 dead were<br />

evacuees, among them 68 children. The rest were<br />

aid workers and rebels guarding the convoy.<br />

Dozens of wounded were taken to hospitals<br />

in nearby rebel-held territory, while others<br />

were taken to Aleppo, which government forces<br />

regained full control of late last year.<br />

Security was tightened up for Wednesday’s<br />

departures. Several dozen armed rebel fighters<br />

stood guard over the marshalling area where the<br />

buses were parked.<br />

The AFP correspondent said all other vehicles<br />

were carefully searched.<br />

The evacuations were taking place under a deal<br />

between the government and the rebels that is<br />

also seeing residents and rebels transported out of<br />

Madaya and Zabadani, towns near Damascus that<br />

are surrounded by pro-government forces.<br />

It was brokered late last month by Qatar, a<br />

longtime supporter of the rebels, and Iran, a key<br />

regime ally, but its implementation had been<br />

repeatedly delayed.<br />

When Wednesday’s evacuations are complete,<br />

a total of 8,000 people should have left Fuaa and<br />

Kafraya, including pro-government fighters as well<br />

as civilians.<br />

In exchange, 2,500 civilians and rebel fighters<br />

should have left rebel areas including Zabadani<br />

and Madaya.<br />

Photo: AFP<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


. . . Meanwhile 3<br />

Photo of the week<br />

Jubilant crowds defy<br />

all threats and come<br />

together to celebrate<br />

the Bengali New Year<br />

during the annual<br />

Mongol Shobhajatra,<br />

now listed as a part of<br />

our intangible cultural<br />

heritage by UNESCO.<br />

Photo: Mahmud<br />

Hossain Opu<br />

Woman gets her hand stuck in her toilet<br />

and has to be freed by firefighters<br />

say what?<br />

Firefighters had to free a<br />

woman after she got her<br />

hand stuck in a toilet.<br />

Gracie Henderson had just<br />

moved into her new house and<br />

needed to unblock her toilet. But<br />

because she didn’t have a plunger,<br />

Gracie made the decision to carry<br />

out the task using her hands.<br />

However, she ran into problems<br />

immediately when her watch got<br />

stuck in the toilet basin, leaving her<br />

stuck fast.<br />

Poor Gracie had no choice but to<br />

call firefighters to her home in New<br />

Caney, near Houston in the USA to<br />

help free her.<br />

Crews had no choice but to<br />

remove the toilet, carry it into<br />

Gracie’s back garden – with her<br />

still attached to it by the arm. They<br />

eventually managed to free the<br />

embarrassed woman by smashing<br />

the porcelain bowl.<br />

Although<br />

poor Gracie’s<br />

neighbours were<br />

treated to quite<br />

a show as fire<br />

crews worked to<br />

free her.<br />

Thankfully,<br />

Gracie has been<br />

uninjured by her ordeal and was<br />

such a good sport she shared the<br />

video online, where it has been<br />

viewed thousands of times.<br />

News and photo: Mirror Online<br />

horoscopes<br />

Aries (Mar21-Apr19): This week is<br />

a good time to avoid overreacting.<br />

Also steer clear of petty arguments.<br />

However, it can be perfect for<br />

romance and a special evening out.<br />

Taurus (Apr20-May20): Although<br />

you may be busy, you could have<br />

a powerful desire to kick back and<br />

relax at the start of the week. You<br />

may also find that unexpected<br />

tasks or deadlines show up.<br />

Gemini (May21-June20): The lively<br />

sparkle around leisure activities<br />

and your social life continues, with<br />

a powerful influence enhancing<br />

feelings on Saturday. If you want<br />

to ask someone out on a date, this<br />

could be the day to make your<br />

move.<br />

Cancer (June21-Jul22): When<br />

it comes to your career and<br />

key ambitions, an unexpected<br />

opportunity could open the door to<br />

a startling new vista, which could<br />

prove beneficial if you accept it.<br />

Leo (Jul23-Aug22): Be careful what<br />

you say, especially on Sunday, as<br />

it could be all too easy to become<br />

irritated by a minor matter. Try<br />

a massage, spa treatment, or<br />

anything that will help you relax.<br />

Virgo (Aug23-Sep22): The desire to<br />

splurge could be very strong early<br />

in the week, and you could hit<br />

the mall or shop online. Go easy,<br />

though.<br />

Libra (Sep23-Oct22): Avoid making<br />

spontaneous decisions until you<br />

feel calmer and more settled.<br />

Relationships seem to be an<br />

ongoing theme. Someone close<br />

could spring a surprise on you.<br />

Scorpio (Oct23-Nov21): Be<br />

prepared for fresh opportunities<br />

regarding work or everyday<br />

routines. Information could come<br />

out of the blue that moves you in<br />

a new direction. A new romantic<br />

attraction seems to hold promise<br />

this weekend.<br />

Sagittarius (Nov22-Dec21): This<br />

week, avoid hanging out with<br />

people who do nothing but<br />

complain. Stick with those who are<br />

upbeat and you’ll get the week off<br />

to a great start.<br />

Capricorn (Dec22-Jan19): Be<br />

prepared for some disruption to a<br />

family plan, this weekend. It may<br />

be minor, but try to give yourself<br />

more leeway around Thursday so<br />

you can handle any unexpected<br />

snafus.<br />

Aquarius (Jan20-Feb18): The week<br />

could bring unusual news that<br />

coincides with an opportunity or<br />

perhaps an encounter you might<br />

relish. Something or someone<br />

intriguing and refreshingly<br />

different may be about to enter<br />

your life.<br />

Pisces (Feb19-Mar20): The<br />

temptation to spend could be strong,<br />

but at the same time you’ll have a lot<br />

of fun. Just make sure you can afford<br />

it so there are no regrets.<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


4 Trending | Sustainable fashion<br />

‘Earth Day is a good<br />

time to spiritually<br />

connect with all the<br />

decisions that make us<br />

humane’<br />

FDCB President Maheen Khan gets candid about the environment<br />

Sabrina Fatma Ahmad<br />

April already sizzles with<br />

the portent of a scorching<br />

summer ahead of us, and<br />

as Earth Day rolls around,<br />

it bears thinking seriously about this<br />

little planet we call home. Putting<br />

aside larger climate change issues<br />

such as oil wells and coal mines and<br />

carbon emissions, one industry that<br />

has recently been seeing a lot of flak<br />

is the fashion industry, particularly<br />

the rising threat of “fast fashion.”<br />

Eileen Fisher, award-winning<br />

clothing industry magnate has even<br />

gone so far as to say “The clothing<br />

industry is the second largest<br />

polluter in the world ... second only<br />

to oil.”<br />

From filling landfills with<br />

discarded clothings, to chemical dyes<br />

polluting the water, to microfibres<br />

choking marine wildlife, and<br />

certainly not least of all, the human<br />

rights abuses in fashion sweatshops,<br />

the evils of fast fashion are many.<br />

While Bangladesh, with its<br />

sizeable garments sector, is certainly<br />

no stranger to these problems<br />

(one has merely to glance at the<br />

Buriganga for visual confirmation),<br />

the couture scene is actually working<br />

extremely hard to make fashion<br />

more sustainable in as many ways as<br />

possible. From promoting fair trade<br />

to the use of organic vegetable dyes,<br />

local designers have been tireless in<br />

their attempt to be more responsible<br />

in their practices.<br />

You can’t begin to talk about<br />

sustainable fashion without<br />

mentioning khadi. The ancient<br />

handwoven and handloom textile<br />

is labour intensive, and has a much<br />

lower carbon footprint than other<br />

textiles, and can be a bridge between<br />

our rich cultural heritage and fashion<br />

of the future.<br />

Over the past two years, the<br />

Fashion Design Council, Bangladesh,<br />

has been relentlessly promoting<br />

these textiles, and with two<br />

consecutive years of successful<br />

festivals, have definitely made<br />

ripples of awareness about our<br />

handloom traditions.<br />

On Earth Day, however, Maheen<br />

Khan, founder of the fashion house<br />

Mayasir, and President of the FDCB,<br />

appears to be in a brooding frame of<br />

mind. “We’ve been trying to show,<br />

through our shows, how khadi is the<br />

ideal fabric for the Bangladeshi heat<br />

and humidity. Not only is it a more<br />

eco-friendly fabric, but requires very<br />

little capital investment to set up and<br />

can help generate income in rural<br />

households, particularly for women,<br />

for whom economic independence<br />

is important,” she says. “However,<br />

unless we are able to remunerate<br />

the labour of the khadi artisans at<br />

market value, they are forced to look<br />

for other means of employment.<br />

Our studies have shown large<br />

numbers of weavers migrating to<br />

other professions to sustain their<br />

families. Naturally, the handloom<br />

and handwoven industry takes a hit.<br />

The scenario is quite bleak.”<br />

A lot of this forced migration<br />

can be blamed on the demand<br />

for mass-produced readymade<br />

garments, and the popularity of<br />

Indian and Pakistani clothes as<br />

opposed to local textiles and local<br />

styles. Other environmental factors<br />

that contribute to this is the lack of<br />

locally produced cotton, owing to<br />

water shortages, climate change, and<br />

the dwindling of arable land.<br />

The iconic fashion designer<br />

refuses to get pessimistic, however.<br />

“People are slowly starting to care<br />

about these things. They’re getting<br />

more interested in things like where<br />

their food comes from, expressing<br />

concern about things like formalin or<br />

other forms of food adulteration. I’d<br />

like to think this growing awareness<br />

will bleed into other areas of life,<br />

such as clothing choices. We at the<br />

FDCB are of course, continuing our<br />

efforts to promote green fabrics.”<br />

As Maheen Khan and her<br />

compatriots gear up for the annual<br />

khadi festival in December, her<br />

message to readers and fashion<br />

enthusiasts is to try and instill good<br />

environmental values in the next<br />

generation, and to practice green<br />

fashion by respecting tradition,<br />

buying organic clothing, and<br />

adopting practices such as recycling<br />

and upcycling. “Don’t try to just go<br />

for a readymade Bollywood outfit.<br />

Take your own piece, be it a kurti<br />

or even a cotton sari, and try to use<br />

your imagination to accessorise, and<br />

mix and match, and make it your<br />

own.” •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


5<br />

Fast fashion facts<br />

• 2 billion pairs of jeans are produced globally every year. It take 7000<br />

litres of water to make just one pair (Source: Forbes magazine)<br />

• It takes 2700 litres of water to make just one machine-made cotton<br />

t-shirt (Source: bettercotton.org)<br />

• An estimated 400 billion square meters of textiles are produced<br />

annually, of which 60 billion square meters are left on the cutting<br />

room floor (Source: greenpeace.org)<br />

• Only a quarter of discarded garments gets recycled. The rest go to<br />

landfills, or are incinerated (Source: greenpeace.org)<br />

1.7 million tonnes of various chemicals are used<br />

annually around the world to dye/waterproof<br />

clothes. A lot of these chemicals leach into our<br />

rivers, harming wildlife Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

“Buy less,<br />

choose<br />

well, make<br />

it last”<br />

- Vivianne Westwood<br />

• Instead of splurging on<br />

a new garment you’re<br />

going to tire of in a month,<br />

arrange for clothes swap<br />

programmes with your<br />

friends. The perfect<br />

excuse to make a party of<br />

it. Youtube has plenty of<br />

“haulternative” videos to<br />

help you organise these.<br />

• Upcycling! Put your craft<br />

skills to use (or get your<br />

tailor involved) to turn old<br />

garments to new. Thus<br />

an old sari can be made<br />

into a new kameez, an old<br />

kameez into a new kurti,<br />

and so on and so forth<br />

• Look for eco-friendly<br />

options, such as clothes<br />

that use vegetable dye<br />

The rising popularity of fast fashion is forcing<br />

handloom weavers out of jobs Photo: Rajib Dhar<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


6 Cook your own way | Kitchen chronicles<br />

Organic edibles<br />

No animals were hurt in the making of these desserts<br />

Farzana Romine<br />

Good vegan desserts are a bit challenging to make. It’s difficult to make most desserts without dairy or eggs. But<br />

sometimes when I invite a lot of people, I try to make sure that, if there is anyone vegan, he/she can have some<br />

options for dessert. It’s not something that you will make often, but it’s good to have some easy recipes ready, just in<br />

case you need it.<br />

Today I am sharing two easy vegan dessert recipes, which you can make in a very short time and with some<br />

common ingredients. It tastes so good that anyone will enjoy them.<br />

Vegan<br />

Eton Mess<br />

(Serves 4 people)<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


7<br />

Ingredients:<br />

• 1 can of good quality coconut<br />

milk<br />

• 1/3 cup toasted almond flakes<br />

• 1 cup berries (any berries you<br />

like; tropical fruits like mango,<br />

pineapple work well too)<br />

• 2 tsp powdered sugar<br />

• 1/4 cup crushed vegan<br />

meringue cookies<br />

Photos: Farzana Romine<br />

For the vegan meringue cookies:<br />

• Brine from 1 can of chickpeas<br />

• ½ tsp cream of tartar<br />

• 2 tbsp powdered sugar<br />

Directions:<br />

To make the vegan meringue,<br />

drain and keep the liquid from a<br />

tin of chickpeas. With an electric<br />

beater, whisk this liquid on high<br />

until frothy. Add the cream of<br />

tartar and sugar. Keep whisking<br />

until the mixture reaches glossy<br />

stiff peaks.<br />

Line a baking tray with baking<br />

paper and spoon or pipe dollops<br />

of this mixture. Bake in the oven<br />

on low for one hour or until set.<br />

Allow to cool completely before<br />

crushing.<br />

When you buy the coconut<br />

milk, look for the one that has<br />

the highest fat content. Keep<br />

it in the fridge for a few hours<br />

or overnight. Open the can and<br />

scoop out the thick cream from<br />

top. Now mix the sugar with the<br />

coconut cream until it is smooth<br />

and light. Don’t over beat.<br />

Now mix the berries and<br />

crushed cookies with this cream.<br />

Top it off with the toasted<br />

almonds and some extra berries<br />

and serve.•<br />

Vegan<br />

chocolate<br />

mousse<br />

The brine that we usually discard<br />

when we use canned chickpeas, is<br />

known as “Aquafaba”. It’s a unique<br />

mix of starches, proteins, and<br />

other soluble plant solids which<br />

have migrated from the seeds<br />

to the water during the cooking<br />

process that gives aquafaba a wide<br />

spectrum of emulsifying, foaming,<br />

binding, gelatinising and thickening<br />

properties. Aquafaba can be used to<br />

replace egg whites in many sweet<br />

and savoury recipes.<br />

Ingredients:<br />

• Brine from one can of chickpeas<br />

• 3 tbsp sugar<br />

• 90 to 100 gram of good quality<br />

bittersweet chocolate (You can<br />

add more if you want)<br />

• 1/4 cup coconut cream<br />

Directions:<br />

After draining the chickpeas, keep<br />

the liquid in the fridge for a few<br />

hours, until very cold.<br />

Melt the chocolate with the<br />

coconut cream and cool it down to<br />

room temperature.<br />

In a clean bowl pour the chickpea<br />

liquid and start beating with a whisk<br />

or beater. It takes a bit longer than<br />

egg whites. Once soft peaks are<br />

formed, start adding the sugar one<br />

tablespoon at a time and beat until<br />

stiff.<br />

Mix 1/3 of the fluffy mixture into<br />

the chocolate. This will loosen up the<br />

chocolate. Add the rest of the fluffy<br />

mixture and gently fold them in. Be<br />

careful not to knock all the air out.<br />

Once done, pour them in serving<br />

ramikens or dessert glasses and chill<br />

for a few hours before serving. •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


8 Earth Day | Eco-friendly buys<br />

Nature knows best<br />

Fantastic organic products and where to find them<br />

Moumita Ahmed and Tasfia Huda<br />

The world is currently observing<br />

a growing trend, where an ever<br />

increasing number of people are<br />

turning towards using natural and<br />

herbal products. They are becoming<br />

more educated about the unsafe<br />

reactions of synthetic items, and<br />

are thus moving towards herbal<br />

solutions. This Earth Day, we bring<br />

you some tips on the best natural<br />

beauty products and home-grown<br />

organic produce, and where to find<br />

them.<br />

JATRA<br />

In the beginning of 2015, Jatra<br />

started a venture called Matir Mela.<br />

The idea was to decrease the misuse<br />

of earth’s natural resources, and find<br />

eco-friendly options that guarantee a<br />

better world for future generations.<br />

With a view to reducing waste<br />

and embracing conscious living,<br />

Anusheh Anadil, activist and founder<br />

of fairtrade eco craft store, Jatra,<br />

collaborated with Saba Humaira<br />

Ahmad, environmental activist and<br />

blogger, and came up with the idea<br />

of making homemade daily products<br />

like toothpaste, shampoo, lotions<br />

and cosmetics. Jatra not just sells the<br />

raw materials needed to make these<br />

items, but also makes handmade lip<br />

balm, natural mosquito repellent<br />

candles and other sustainable<br />

household products, using unrefined<br />

organic coconut oil, beeswax, etc<br />

sourced from local villages around<br />

Bangladesh.<br />

A few of the star ingredients they<br />

use are:<br />

Gram flour<br />

Also known as chickpea flour, or<br />

beshon, this is a traditional cleanser<br />

for hands, face, body and hair. It’s<br />

effective for removing dirt without<br />

upsetting the body’s natural<br />

moisture balance.<br />

Soap nuts<br />

Usually called reetha in Bangla,<br />

Natural, cruelty-free<br />

products at Jatra<br />

• Shaving kits in wood boxes<br />

that come with mini soap<br />

for lathering, alum stone for<br />

disinfecting and a lotion bar<br />

for moisturising.<br />

• Candles made of pure beeswax<br />

(plain or with neem or clove)<br />

in recycled glass jars, that will<br />

burn for at least 16 hours.<br />

• Sachets of kalojeera (nigella<br />

seeds) that you can bash<br />

lightly, and then inhale to<br />

unblock a stuffed nose.<br />

• Recycled glass jars with fabric<br />

holders that can be used as a<br />

beverage mug.<br />

• Reusable baby diapers/<br />

nappies.<br />

• An alum stone (phitkiri) that<br />

can be used as an effective<br />

natural, stain-free deodorant.<br />

A tiny, lightweight,<br />

packaging-free cube will last<br />

more than a year.<br />

• A lotion bar, which is actually<br />

body lotion in a solid bar<br />

that you rub over your limbs.<br />

It’s perfect for dry skin and<br />

made with only two quality<br />

ingredients: pure beeswax<br />

and raw coconut oil.<br />

• A fabric sponge to remove<br />

makeup and clean your<br />

face. Using this will replace<br />

eye makeup remover, face<br />

cleanser, rosewater toner,<br />

and the disposable cotton<br />

pads and Q-tips required to<br />

apply these.<br />

soap nuts are actually dried fruit<br />

shells, used for thousands of years<br />

in Asia and by Native Americans as<br />

a natural soap. They are great for<br />

washing clothes, and work well as<br />

a fabric softener as well. They are<br />

mild and hypo-allergenic, making<br />

them perfect for those with sensitive<br />

skin. They can be reused up to three<br />

times before composting them back<br />

in nature.<br />

Coconut oil<br />

Real coconut oil has been replaced in<br />

recent years by refined, chemically<br />

processed and diluted commercial<br />

versions, that bear little resemblance<br />

to the original product. Jatra<br />

however, is the first place in Dhaka to<br />

sell the real deal.<br />

DHAKA DOUGH<br />

With the hope that Bangladesh would<br />

not lag behind in appreciating the<br />

many benefits of organic production,<br />

Dhaka Dough began their journey in<br />

November, 2015. They started small<br />

but in over a year their popularity<br />

grew among Dhakaites.<br />

In order to help promote the<br />

country’s economy and to focus<br />

on long term sustainability, their<br />

concept is to obtain only Deshi<br />

supplies and make sure that Dhaka<br />

Dough’s products are as fresh as<br />

possible.<br />

Dhaka Dough also has an<br />

environment friendly return policy<br />

for their food grade containers, and<br />

makes sure that they are consistently<br />

reusable. Most of their products are<br />

sold per gram/kilogram, starting<br />

from Tk55.<br />

Grain<br />

A variety of grains such as rice flour,<br />

kalojeera polaw rice, whole wheat<br />

flour, and millet is being offered by<br />

Dhaka Dough. The health conscious<br />

population has relearned the benefits<br />

of unrefined, manually processed,<br />

fibre-rich versions and Dhaka Dough<br />

Dhaka Dough also offers a<br />

variety of other products,<br />

which include:<br />

• Flaxseed<br />

• Bay leaf<br />

• Kashundi<br />

• Mango pickle<br />

• Garlic pickle<br />

• Date molasses<br />

• Almond milk<br />

• Murki<br />

• Lip balm<br />

is helping “back to school” process.<br />

Honey<br />

Dhaka Dough procures their honey<br />

directly from the Sundarbans. It<br />

is done during the honey hunting<br />

season, which is April to June,<br />

which is later filtered and poured<br />

into wooden containers without any<br />

tampering in-between.<br />

Oil and Butter<br />

From coconut oil, mustard oil,<br />

sesame oil, almond oil, to flaxseed<br />

oil, peanut oil and black cumin,<br />

Dhaka is offering a wide range of oil.<br />

They are even selling peanut butter<br />

on top of their regular butter.<br />

Spices<br />

As Dhaka Dough wants their<br />

products to be as natural as possible,<br />

they try to procure their spices<br />

from local sources. The chilli<br />

comes from Bogra and turmeric is<br />

acquired directly from the hill tracts<br />

in Bandarban. The other spices<br />

available on their website are mace<br />

(joyotri), clove, coriander powder,<br />

cardamom, isabgol (psyllium husk),<br />

cumin powder, ground cinnamon,<br />

and pistachio. •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


Fashion editorial | Tailored 9<br />

Spring fashion<br />

at 30,000 feet<br />

You know you’re in an advanced stage of style<br />

when you have to change up your airport outfit<br />

according to season<br />

Mahmood Hossain<br />

Spring/summer is in full<br />

swing and all of your<br />

favourite or popular<br />

clothing stores and brands<br />

are putting their new collections on<br />

display. This usually the best time<br />

to update your wardrobe, given that<br />

the relentless sun is on your back<br />

throughout the entire day. What you<br />

airplane will drop temperatures almost<br />

drastically. It’s best to have a denim<br />

jacket. Keep in mind, we’re hanging<br />

out around the casual department<br />

when it comes to airport wear. And if<br />

it’s going to be a lengthy flight, you’ll<br />

want to be as comfortable as possible.<br />

The denim jacket is sophisticated<br />

enough to heighten your look, and<br />

comfortable enough to slip in-andout<br />

of. Ultimately, even with your<br />

destination in mind, the only time<br />

you’ll be donning the jacket is when<br />

you’re safely in your assigned seat. No<br />

one is telling you to flaunt it around<br />

like you’re on the runway.<br />

may not know is that there is actually<br />

a proper outfit for the new season as<br />

you decide to book your ticket to fly<br />

abroad. We’ve discussed travelling<br />

wardrobes in the past, but here’s<br />

a sure hit for any man planning to<br />

make a couple of trips above 30,000<br />

feet.<br />

Climate change<br />

With plenty of ludicrous politicians<br />

who continue to deny the rising<br />

tensions in climate change, you<br />

do have to consider where you’re<br />

departing from and where you’ll be<br />

landing. Dhaka, as we already know,<br />

is disgustingly hot. For the time<br />

being, we don’t have to deal with the<br />

infamous humidity in our tropical<br />

climate. This is where the outer most<br />

layer of this spring/airport look; the<br />

most important thing to have hanging<br />

on your arm.<br />

Most cooler climates will require<br />

a fresh new coat; however, our city<br />

requires something much lighter. Even<br />

though it’s hot outside, the airport and<br />

Safe with basics<br />

A basic white or any other solid<br />

coloured t-shirt is the ideal top<br />

underneath that denim jacket. While<br />

you’re channelling your inner James<br />

Dean, remember you want to feel<br />

as light as possible when waiting in<br />

unforgiving lines all the way to the<br />

boarding pathways. As you make<br />

sure you’ve applied your deodorant<br />

correctly and in all<br />

the right places,<br />

the white, cottonjersey<br />

t-shirt (even<br />

better if it’s linen)<br />

will you make<br />

you feel and look<br />

at ease. Literally,<br />

you cannot look<br />

any lighter than<br />

wearing a basic<br />

white, but with<br />

plenty of quality,<br />

t-shirt. And a<br />

crispy new t-shirt will never take away<br />

your classy take on something so<br />

casual.<br />

Not a fan of white? No worries, just<br />

make sure the shades you are aiming<br />

for on the lighter end of the spectrum.<br />

Something like a light blue or even<br />

pastel red will do just fine.<br />

From the waist, down<br />

Light-wash, slim-fit jeans are<br />

the go-to airport bottoms for the<br />

season. Sure, it might sound more<br />

comfortable to wear those fancy<br />

sweats from one place to another,<br />

but we’re talking about what’s “in”<br />

now, and<br />

not what<br />

used to be<br />

passable.<br />

Also, let’s<br />

be practical<br />

here. Sweats<br />

in this<br />

weather? If<br />

you think<br />

that to be<br />

acceptable,<br />

you’ve been<br />

drinking too<br />

much of that right-wing Kool-Aid.<br />

The entire idea behind this outfit<br />

is to look as light and fresh as you<br />

can. Naturally, light-coloured denim,<br />

protecting the family jewels and<br />

everything else below the waist,<br />

does the trick. Doesn’t matter if they<br />

are selvedge denim, stretch-denim<br />

Illustrations: Priyo<br />

or traditional washed and distressed<br />

denim, just make sure they are<br />

lighter shades of blue.<br />

Cushion those puppies<br />

As mentioned countless times<br />

before, the sneakers culture is here<br />

to stay. You’ve guessed it, a fresh pair<br />

of quality sneakers rounds off this<br />

season’s airport look. Nothing too<br />

crazy or fancy, just the right pair that<br />

compliments an already simple look.<br />

The shoes themselves should keep<br />

the shades in the same colour family.<br />

Be it Nike, Adidas, Converse, Vans or<br />

even in the higher-end departments<br />

like Lanvin, the contrasting colours<br />

shouldn’t stick out like a sore thumb.<br />

Look for subtle contrasts that are<br />

likely to mesh in well with your<br />

outfit. You want to look good and<br />

slightly different from the rest, but<br />

you don’t want to attract too much<br />

attention to you either.<br />

Think of yourself as a celebrity who<br />

simply cannot be bothered by the<br />

paparazzi but not too uppity to<br />

accept a compliment by a fellow<br />

passenger about your fly gear. •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


10 Photo Story | Monkey business<br />

Primates at Lawachara<br />

Spanning over 12 square kilometres area,<br />

Lawachara National Park was created in 1925<br />

through forestation. The trees planted then<br />

gradually expanded to become one of the major<br />

forest in the country. Rich in biodiversity the park<br />

attracts bird watchers from across the country, as<br />

well as people from outside of the national border.<br />

Khasi and Tipra tribes of indegenous people live in<br />

and around the park.<br />

Lawachara National Park houses a number<br />

of monkey species. Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

captured pictures of hoolock gibbons, a critically<br />

endangered species in Bangladesh. The other<br />

pictures are of the Phayre’s leaf monkey, which<br />

is also an endangered species. Hoolock gibbons<br />

are locally known as ‘woollook’ and Phayre’s leaf<br />

monkeys are known as ‘choshma pora honuman’.<br />

Photos: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


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WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


12 Fiction<br />

Page<br />

21<br />

through Muhammadpur, in a plastic<br />

bag being carried around by a man<br />

who sells “jhalmuri”.<br />

Feeling a little suffocated in there,<br />

I was soon sold off to a man who<br />

paid 10 bucks for the jhalmuri I was<br />

safeguarding in my pouch. Oh those<br />

freshly sliced lemons, tomatoes and<br />

chilli smelled like pure bliss!<br />

We jumped on a bus and it was<br />

then when I ran into my long lost<br />

friend, Page 7, who was carefully<br />

protecting some peanuts on the seat<br />

next to mine.<br />

Life cycle of a newspaper<br />

Khan N Moushumi<br />

Hi there! My name is Page 21 and I<br />

was born on April 3, 2017.<br />

It was a bright Monday morning.<br />

I had DT Sports written on my<br />

forehead. I was told, not in so many<br />

words though, that I was one of the<br />

many clones to have come out from<br />

our shared mother--the press--that<br />

day.<br />

I was printed in black and white,<br />

and I had a lot of sports-related info<br />

written all over me. There was also a<br />

big picture of West Indies’ cricketer<br />

Evin Lewis playing a shot at the third<br />

T20I pasted on my face.<br />

I went around Dhaka and after a<br />

bumpy, two and a half hour ride in<br />

a rowdy, green three-wheeler, I was<br />

dropped off at a distribution centre<br />

in Dhanmondi, but was soon picked<br />

up again and we headed towards a<br />

news-stand near Shankar.<br />

A guy named Kollol then stacked<br />

a few bundles of us on the back of<br />

his cycle and pedalled us around<br />

Dhanmondi, dropping us off at the<br />

doorstep or the patio of different<br />

structures. One by one, we were all<br />

gone.<br />

I remember landing on a<br />

brown doormat, and soon after a<br />

30-something lady came and picked<br />

me up.<br />

I watched her flip through the<br />

pages, taking a quick glance at the<br />

pictures and the headlines of the<br />

newspaper. I watched her staring,<br />

fixated at my second cousin Page 23,<br />

he had a picture of Canadian Prime<br />

Minister Justin Trudeau printed on<br />

him. I don’t blame the lady though,<br />

I mean, have you seen that smile<br />

on Mr Trudeau? Who wouldn’t be<br />

polarised by those pearly whites?<br />

I was left on the tea table for<br />

about half an hour or so until a<br />

middle-aged man approached me,<br />

then a young kid in his early teens<br />

and finally, an elderly woman who<br />

examined me through a pair of thick<br />

spectacles. The young boy was most<br />

excited to see me, he read the entire<br />

story on Lewis and how he crushed<br />

Pakistan in the T20.<br />

The next morning, I was thrown<br />

under the table in a basket with a<br />

bunch of other old newspapers.<br />

I sat there for a while. A few days<br />

passed, and I had my successors<br />

piling up on top of me. It was getting<br />

dark, boring, and quiet. I don’t<br />

remember when I passed out.<br />

When I woke up under the<br />

scorching sun, it was to a man<br />

yelling “Purano boi, khata, kagoz.”<br />

I was sitting on top of his head in<br />

what looked like an old, wicker<br />

basket; he was buying old books<br />

and newspapers from households in<br />

exchange for a red cent. And soon, as<br />

the day concluded, we were dumped<br />

in a small room where women and<br />

children would rip us off, tear us in<br />

half or quarters and make “thongas”<br />

(small paper bags) using glue.<br />

I quite enjoyed my time there,<br />

although heart-broken to be ripped<br />

apart from my family and friends. I<br />

watched those kids giggle away and<br />

talk about school or games while<br />

they folded and glued us together.<br />

A week later, I was travelling<br />

Illustration: Priyo<br />

Trying to hold back my tears, we<br />

exchanged greetings and he told<br />

me all about how others wound<br />

up. Page 15 and 17 were used for<br />

making hand fans, Page 4 was cut<br />

out to make paper flowers and that<br />

Justin Trudeau photo made it to the<br />

scrapbook of a 6th grader. Honestly, I<br />

couldn’t be any prouder.<br />

Next thing I remember, I was<br />

flicked in a dustbin, drenched in<br />

salt and oil from the remnants of<br />

the jhalmuri. There was nothing<br />

left of me. I was of no use, or so I<br />

thought. Two days later, I remember<br />

a tokai picked me up. I knew where<br />

I was headed next—the papermill<br />

again. To be washed, cleansed and<br />

recycled for a brand new page of the<br />

newspaper. •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


Shamsul Alam Bir Uttam | Interview 13<br />

“We are leaving you a country<br />

where you can flourish”<br />

A decorated war veteran discusses Kilo Flight<br />

Saqib Sarker<br />

Group Captain (retd)<br />

Shamsul Alam Bir Uttam’s<br />

name is inseparably<br />

associated with the<br />

birth of Bangladesh Air Force and<br />

by extension the history of the<br />

country itself. Along with a small<br />

number of rebel Bengali officers<br />

of the erstwhile Pakistani military,<br />

Shamsul Alam formed the very first<br />

fighting formation of the nascent<br />

Bangladesh Air Force, which was<br />

dubbed ‘Kilo Flight’. For his historic<br />

role in the liberation war he was<br />

awarded ‘Bir Uttam’. This year the<br />

veteran war hero has been awarded<br />

the Independence Award.<br />

Now in his 70s, the retired Group<br />

Captain strikes as more of an amiable<br />

grandfather figure than a former<br />

armed force personnel when you<br />

meet him in person. Perhaps age<br />

has mellowed him a bit but his<br />

diction has remained extremely<br />

sharp and his perspectives robustly<br />

straightforward. Most noticeably,<br />

his genuine enthusiasm for<br />

discussing history and Bangladesh is<br />

contagious.<br />

“Look, you probably want to<br />

know all about Kilo Flight. But<br />

I talked about that and they put<br />

out a video. I’ll give you the CD,”<br />

said Shamsul Islam, referring to a<br />

TV documentary made about the<br />

trainings and operation of Kilo<br />

Flight. “We will just chat,” he said,<br />

looking mischievously gleeful at the<br />

prospect of “chit-chatting”.<br />

“Listen, you cannot possibly<br />

fathom how incredibly poor we<br />

were,” said Shamsul Alam Bir Uttam,<br />

referring to the historic Bangladeshi,<br />

as he sat on a sofa at his residence,<br />

wearing a cream coloured punjabi<br />

and white lungi. “After the ‘bongo<br />

bhongo’ we got the first ever glimpse<br />

or a taste of independence. Because<br />

the Muslim majority population in<br />

this region never actually had any<br />

kind of autonomy. It’s not really a<br />

‘Hindu-Muslim’ thing at the core of<br />

it. But that is how the natives of this<br />

region felt,” he said.<br />

Being born in 1947, Shamsul<br />

Alam had the interesting historical<br />

opportunity of observing how the<br />

state of Pakistan unfolded and<br />

manifested itself. At the same time,<br />

he was within close proximity of<br />

colonial times and had a real sense of<br />

what it was like being the subject of<br />

British rule.<br />

“Lord Curzon divided Bengal to<br />

weaken the Hindu base,” he said.<br />

“We were happy because we felt we<br />

would no longer be dominated by<br />

and lorded over from Kolkata. We<br />

had nothing, nothing! Not any proper<br />

school or college,” he went on.<br />

“The Hindus built all the<br />

institutions and Muslim students did<br />

not have access. That’s just natural,<br />

because the local Muslims did not<br />

have anything from which they could<br />

build. All the scholarships went<br />

to the Hindus. Only a few Muslim<br />

students managed to enter into<br />

good quality mainstream education<br />

institutions. We used to ‘nomoshkar’<br />

them, because they owned<br />

Photo: Courtesy<br />

everything; they were the founder,<br />

the principles, the governing body<br />

and everything else.”<br />

The point Shamsul Alam was<br />

making was that the Bengali<br />

people never really knew what it<br />

was like to have freedom, what<br />

in modern language we call ‘selfdetermination’.<br />

However, despite<br />

being poor, the Bengali people<br />

were more educated than the West<br />

Pakistani people.<br />

“Bengal as a region was far<br />

superior in education than, for<br />

instance, Baluchistan, Punjab,<br />

Sindh etc. Although we had rejected<br />

education at first thinking English<br />

was the language of the ‘kafir’.<br />

That was our mental destitution.<br />

People starting from Titumir, Haji<br />

Shariatullah and everyone else was<br />

anti-British. But the Hindus accepted<br />

the language, so they were able to get<br />

jobs with the English administration.<br />

We fell behind a few hundred years<br />

by not accepting that education.”<br />

But life was good for Shamsul<br />

Alam as an officer at the Pakistan air<br />

force. “As a pilot officer first rank my<br />

salary was 1175 rupees. I was only<br />

24 then and that was a lot of money.<br />

Let me tell you what that money<br />

was worth in 1967. A European<br />

refrigerator then cost 600 to 800<br />

rupees. I could buy a brand new<br />

Toyota car after a year’s saving from<br />

my salary. It cost me 11,000 rupees,”<br />

explained Shamsul Alam.<br />

But the monstrous brutality of<br />

the Pakistan military on March 25<br />

and afterwards made it absolutely<br />

clear to Shamsul Alam and his peers<br />

that a freedom struggle was the only<br />

way left for Bangladeshi people to<br />

live with dignity. That propelled<br />

him to travel to East Pakistan risking<br />

his life. The story of his capture at<br />

the Tejgaon airport and subsequent<br />

release is no less thrilling than spy<br />

novels. Shamsul Alam crossed the<br />

border to India to eventually join<br />

with his comrades and ultimately<br />

form the Kilo Flight. His story would<br />

remain as one of the most glowing<br />

examples of fighting for what is right.<br />

What does he think of Bangladesh<br />

in 2017, the country he helped<br />

liberate? “Look, journalists like to<br />

print negative news all the time. Yes,<br />

you have to report the bad things. Do<br />

that. But also let people know about<br />

the bright side,” said Shamsul Alam.<br />

“We can now provide free<br />

textbooks to millions of students.<br />

No one has done that in the subcontinent.<br />

We are the fourth largest<br />

rice producer in the world, even<br />

though land mass has shrunk<br />

because of population. The media<br />

must gather up the courage to<br />

publish these achievements,” he<br />

added. As the chit-chatting neared<br />

to an end for the day, Shamsul Alam<br />

said that Bangladesh can now truly<br />

look forward to a future. “Your<br />

generation can achieve things that<br />

we never could. We are leaving<br />

you a country where you can really<br />

flourish,” the Bir Uttam said, a look<br />

of tranquil satisfaction glinting in his<br />

eyes. •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


14 Space | documenting history<br />

Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

‘A people’s<br />

museum’<br />

Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

The Liberation War Museum begins a new chapter<br />

<strong>Weekend</strong> Tribune Desk<br />

From 1996 to 2017, the<br />

Liberation War Museum<br />

(LWM) in Bangladesh<br />

has gone from being<br />

a budding project of a team of<br />

dedicated trustees to what they want<br />

to call a “people’s museum”. The<br />

group started off with scrounging<br />

together enough cash to create a<br />

trust fund and travel the nation in<br />

search of the stories of pain and<br />

pride from 1971, and collecting<br />

artifacts and information related<br />

to the Bangladeshi struggle for<br />

independence.<br />

20 years in the making, the<br />

LWM has finally shifted to its new<br />

premises in the capital’s Agargaon<br />

area, with the Honourable PM Sheikh<br />

Hasina formally inaugurating the<br />

museum on April 16, 2016. Designed<br />

by budding architect Tanzim Hasan,<br />

the 20,000 sq meter museum now<br />

houses over 21,000 artifacts that<br />

have been collected over the years.<br />

Wandering through the now<br />

expansive spaces of the Liberation<br />

War Museum, you not only learn the<br />

greater story of the Liberation War<br />

in more detail than what most of us<br />

know from formal education – it is<br />

the simpler stories of resistance, and<br />

glimpses into the lives of ordinary<br />

people living through extraordinary<br />

times, that really touches you. You<br />

see the black-and-white faces of<br />

freedom fighters, young men clad in<br />

simple lungis, who will never return.<br />

You see the faces of Birangonas<br />

Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


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intellectuals in the final few days of<br />

the war.<br />

But you also take immense pride in<br />

the pockets of resistance that flowered<br />

across the country; starting from the<br />

young women in guerrilla training<br />

to the fiery words of poets dreaming<br />

of revolution, the LWM invokes<br />

Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

“When we started off, we<br />

(the trustees) all contributed<br />

to a trust fund to set up the<br />

museum, no matter how<br />

difficult it was for us. How could<br />

we ask people for money for our<br />

cause, if we were not willing<br />

to invest in it ourselves? There<br />

are a lot of things in Bangladesh<br />

that make us feel frustrated,<br />

but we have learnt that if the<br />

country needs something, and<br />

if there are a group of people<br />

dedicatedly working towards<br />

it whose intentions cannot be<br />

questioned – then ordinary<br />

people will come together to<br />

show their support.<br />

We started off with only Tk<br />

25,000 each, and we needed Tk<br />

140 crore for the new premises.<br />

Of this, Tk 40 crore came from<br />

the government, but the rest<br />

simply came from ordinary<br />

people in Bangladesh, starting<br />

from donations from bank<br />

officials to tiffin money from<br />

school children. No foreign<br />

funds were involved.”<br />

- Dr Sarwar Ali, LWM trustee<br />

hopelessly staring into the distance,<br />

of children fearlessly running head<br />

on into protests, and the sheer horror<br />

of the torture inflicted on martyred<br />

what is perhaps even more relevant<br />

in 2016 – the spirit of 1971, and the<br />

unconditional love for one’s nation<br />

that made even the simplest farmer<br />

turn into a fearless freedom fighter.<br />

Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

The LWM’s galleries are truly<br />

an emotive experience, and filled<br />

with little gems that most of us<br />

have no idea exist, whether is the<br />

rudimentary contraptions used on<br />

rail tracks to transport necessary<br />

resources in a war-ravaged<br />

nation, a makeshift press used to<br />

print revolutionary slogans, or<br />

a newspaper clipping of the first<br />

time a football team representing<br />

Bangladesh, and not East Pakistan<br />

played the game to raise awareness<br />

about the war-torn nation. The<br />

museum’s representation of history<br />

comes in many layers, with a focus<br />

not only on the history of the war<br />

at home, but of the greater political<br />

game being played by world powers<br />

at the height of the Cold War, as well<br />

as the international focus on the<br />

genocide that occurred during those<br />

nine months.<br />

Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

Last but not least, the LWM also<br />

plays a crucial role in preserving the<br />

history that many would have us<br />

forget, such as a newspaper article<br />

written by the notorious war criminal<br />

Ghulam Azam on how Hindus<br />

cannot be friends with Muslims,<br />

and decrying the secularism that<br />

was the fire lighting the flames<br />

of revolution in an independent<br />

Bangladesh. In fact, the LWM played<br />

an important role in contributing<br />

evidence to the recent war crimes<br />

trials, and continues to add to some<br />

much-needed research on 1971<br />

through its Centre for the Study<br />

of Genocide and Justice, as well<br />

as the Institute of Liberation War<br />

Studies. On top of that, it constantly<br />

engages in outreach programmes for<br />

the younger generation, including<br />

organising museum visits and<br />

creating a mini museum on wheels<br />

to reach school children from across<br />

the country, as well as inspiring them<br />

to collect eye-witness accounts. So<br />

“The hugeness of what this<br />

museum has turned out to be<br />

has stunned us the most. This<br />

was always a personal and<br />

emotional project for us, and<br />

we have all worked together<br />

in the background to make<br />

this happen because we really<br />

believed in this – there was<br />

never any public posturing<br />

or vying for leadership. This<br />

museum is our gift to the next<br />

generation and we hope you will<br />

all come together and become<br />

involved in preserving it.”<br />

- Tariq Ali, LWM trustee<br />

“Everyone has contributed<br />

to the museum – from a<br />

schoolchild to a rickshaw puller,<br />

and a petty shopkeeper to a<br />

large-scale corporation. For<br />

this reason I think it truly is a<br />

people’s museum, but now we<br />

need to ensure that it continues<br />

to grow and evolve, and not just<br />

turn into a collection of exhibits<br />

within four walls.<br />

Our most important task<br />

now is to bring in the younger<br />

generation to not only know<br />

of the history of the Liberation<br />

War, but to assimilate the spirit<br />

of the time. Without this, it<br />

will not be possible to infuse<br />

new blood into the museum<br />

and hand over its care to a new<br />

generation that truly believes<br />

in it. Another important focus<br />

is obviously on doing proper<br />

historical research, as well as<br />

recording our oral history before<br />

it is too late.”<br />

- Asaduzzaman Noor, LWM<br />

trustee<br />

Photo: Syed Zakir Hossain<br />

far, over 28,000 records have been<br />

collected through this programme.<br />

According to LWM trustee Dr<br />

Sarwar Ali, “There was a time we<br />

were worried that many aspects<br />

of our history would be lost to the<br />

next generation. But the immense<br />

support we get, as well as the<br />

renewed interest in justice after the<br />

Shahbagh movement, has made us<br />

very hopeful. The museum’s journey<br />

has been a very emotional one, and<br />

we have high hopes of the next<br />

generation taking over and taking it<br />

further.” •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


16 Groceries | Food safety<br />

You are what<br />

you eat<br />

Options for healthy food in the local market<br />

Saudia Afrin<br />

The growing problem of food<br />

adulteration continues to be a<br />

health concern. However, people are<br />

more aware now than before, and<br />

instead of waiting for others to take<br />

initiatives to fix the situation, they<br />

are taking matters into their own<br />

hands and doing whatever possible<br />

to minimise the consequences of<br />

food adulteration in society and on<br />

themselves.<br />

How would you react if you found<br />

out that about half of the vegetable<br />

items in the markets are intoxicated<br />

by pesticides? Unfortunately, that<br />

is exactly what the situation is like.<br />

According to a survey conducted by<br />

the National Food Safety Laboratory<br />

(NFSL), with support from the Food<br />

and Agriculture Organisation (FAO),<br />

most of the vegetable items sold<br />

in the market are adulterated with<br />

pesticides.<br />

Civilians are<br />

purchasing and<br />

consuming fatal<br />

chemicals such<br />

as formalin and<br />

lead chromium<br />

along with their<br />

groceries<br />

Over time, the list of adulterated<br />

food items grew longer as several<br />

other daily grocery items were<br />

found to be adulterated as well.<br />

Even fish, chicken, fruits and spices<br />

have not been exempted from this<br />

list. Civilians are purchasing and<br />

consuming fatal chemicals such as<br />

formalin and lead chromium along<br />

with their groceries.<br />

A lot of mobile courts have<br />

appeared over time but the entire<br />

process of getting things under<br />

control is still just a work in progress.<br />

It’s high time people were made<br />

aware of it and something was being<br />

done to prevent it. But the fact that a<br />

few people and organisations started<br />

to combat the problem of food<br />

contamination, is probably the only<br />

silver lining.<br />

Jahan Dairy is one such<br />

organisation. To provide nutritious<br />

food for families, they began farming<br />

their own products. The rising<br />

demand for healthy food initiated<br />

this endeavour. Jahid Alam, one<br />

of the initiators said, “There is an<br />

endless demand for unadulterated<br />

food with zero supply. We wanted<br />

to grow vegetables and other food<br />

items for personal consumption but<br />

it was too expensive. That’s when we<br />

decided to start farming these items<br />

not for just ourselves, but for others<br />

looking to buy unadulterated food<br />

items as well. We wanted to serve<br />

people and also create a sustainable<br />

process.”<br />

Alam also informed that<br />

everything which include milk and<br />

milk products such as ghee, curd,<br />

deshi chicken and eggs and fish<br />

are produced in their own farm in<br />

Mawla, Gazipur. Vegetables and<br />

fruits are sold depending on their<br />

seasonal availability. A few products<br />

such as ghee are being processed<br />

as per order. Enriched by the<br />

knowledge of feasibility and demand<br />

gathered from pilot projects, Jahan<br />

Dairy has dedicated gardens for each<br />

fruit. Initially they have started with<br />

papaya, guava and mango.<br />

In the 16 bigha farm everything is<br />

farmed through natural processes.<br />

“In our chicken farm, we strictly<br />

avoid processed food, and we feed<br />

local rice grains. The same process<br />

has been applied to every other<br />

section. And in future our plan is<br />

to focus more on vegetable,” Alam<br />

said. Most of its customers are from<br />

Gulshan, Banani, Morpur DOHS,<br />

Dhanmondi, Uttara and Niketon.<br />

For nearer places home delivery<br />

is Tk50 and for deliver to distance<br />

destinations Tk100 is charged.<br />

Currently, Jahan Dairy takes orders<br />

from across the city throughout the<br />

week and home delivering on Fridays<br />

and Saturdays via their hotline<br />

number (+8801710990999).<br />

Sabuj Udyog, which specialises<br />

in the same sector are providing<br />

unadulterated red/white flour,<br />

deshi sugar, a variety of rice,<br />

spices, shudh ghee, achaar, honey,<br />

puffed rice, seasonal fruits etc.<br />

Apart from having their own farm,<br />

they also source their products<br />

from local farmers but only after<br />

they’ve ensured the quality of the<br />

produce. Sabuj Udyog has a store<br />

in 766/E, Road-7, Baitul Aman<br />

Housing, Adabor, Mohammadpur.<br />

They also take orders through their<br />

hotline number (+8801791002007).<br />

“About four years of journey, we<br />

never compromise with quality.<br />

With a consistent growing number<br />

everyday, currently we are serving<br />

more than 500 customers,” Firoz<br />

Infograph: Bigstock<br />

Alam, a sales executive of the store<br />

happily informed.<br />

Another similar initiative by<br />

Madol has been providing organic<br />

food for last ten months. Their<br />

products include rice, lentil, different<br />

types of spices, puffed rice, which<br />

they collect from reliable local<br />

farmers directly. While collecting<br />

food, Madol go for collecting<br />

products from renowned districts<br />

for each agricultural product. Belal<br />

Hossain, Manager, said, “Milk is<br />

collected from Madol’s own farm<br />

located in Savar. After collecting<br />

the seeds and raw materials from<br />

local farmers mustered oil, powder<br />

of coriander, turmeric and cumin<br />

are produced under the careful<br />

supervision of our staffs.” Till now,<br />

most of the selling are operated<br />

by its shop at Pathapath near<br />

Square hospital and home delivery<br />

is available for walking distance<br />

customers. This shop has around<br />

15 regular customers who hail from<br />

Uttara and Gulshan mostly on<br />

weekly basis to get their products.<br />

Siqat Food Shop offers kalijira<br />

honey, collected directly from<br />

farmers and Sundarban honey<br />

collected from the local mawali.<br />

They can be reached at their<br />

designated hotline as well<br />

(+8801875221866). •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


6<br />

ways to celebrate<br />

Earth Day<br />

Green practices to your everyday routine<br />

Sabiha Akond Rupa<br />

Turn off the taps already<br />

2 4<br />

No, we’re not asking you to be dirty, but there really isn’t<br />

On April 22, the world is going to any reason for having a half-hour long shower everyday.<br />

celebrate Earth Day in honour of As stated by the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA), a<br />

the environmental movement daily nice shower of ten minutes or more can consume up<br />

that began in the 1970s. While to 50 to 70 gallons of water. But according to water.org, a<br />

issues like pollution and climate change<br />

typical family in an African country uses only 10% of that<br />

require intervention on a policy level, there for an entire day; this includes drinking water, cooking<br />

remains the need for greater environmental and everything else. So why not just go back to the basics<br />

awareness on a micro level in Bangladesh. and use a bucket to ration your shower water, or just draw<br />

There are dozens of ways you can promote yourself a small bath? We also have a terrible habit of<br />

a healthy ecosystem and spread awareness, keeping the tap running while doing the dishes, when really<br />

not just tomorrow but all year long. Here are we just need a fraction of that in a bucket/washbasin to<br />

a few suggestions.<br />

soak our dirty dishes in and rinse.<br />

rewarding experiences.<br />

Life style | Earth day 17<br />

Give back to Mother Earth<br />

One of the best and easiest ways to<br />

celebrate Earth Day is by planting a tree<br />

anywhere you like. You can also have<br />

plants inside a corner of your own house<br />

and if you’re really feeling adventurous,<br />

why not try to grow some of your own,<br />

fresh food and ensure you bypass the<br />

pesticides? You can grow low maintenance<br />

vegetables like tomatoes, ladies-fingers,<br />

eggplants, chilies, curry leaves, tulsi and<br />

aloe vera. Even if it is only a little flower,<br />

you’ll find that making something grow<br />

from a seed or sapling can be a surprisingly<br />

1<br />

good idea, but just think of how much of your<br />

Give up the comfy cars<br />

In this hot weather, this may not sound like a<br />

carbon footprint you can reduce by using<br />

alternatives. You don’t have to do it daily –<br />

just consider it as a day off for your car now<br />

and then. If you’re going to make a short trip,<br />

why not give yourself some much-needed<br />

exercise and walk, and then the cool shower<br />

you step into once you get home will feel<br />

twice as good? Both you and the planet will<br />

be the healthier for it. You can also give your<br />

favourite bicycle a run, carpool with someone<br />

from work, or just use a rickshaw and watch<br />

the city go by during your daily commute.<br />

Re-use the garbage for compost<br />

3<br />

Among many other benefits, the most<br />

important reasons of composting can be the<br />

reduction of garbage volume, less usage of<br />

chemical fertilisers, and improvement of soil<br />

drainage and aeration, which is the key factor<br />

of plant growth. Many of you will have plants,<br />

flower pots and maybe even mini kitchen<br />

gardens in your balconies and roofs, and<br />

you can save yourself the hassle of going out<br />

and getting compost by just using the waste<br />

from your home. Fruit and vegetable scraps,<br />

eggshells, leaves, grass, garden plants, flowers,<br />

newspapers, cardboards, wood chips etc. can<br />

all be turned into compost.<br />

Create 5an energy efficient home<br />

On Earth Day, we all should try to make this<br />

6<br />

world a little more livable, and consuming<br />

less gas and electricity is one of our biggest<br />

concerns in saving the environment. If you’re<br />

willing to make a one-off investment that will<br />

benefit you in the long-run, why not set up a<br />

solar panel at your house? Or at least practice<br />

cooking less food, and using less lights, fans<br />

and air conditioners whenever possible. Use<br />

your other home appliances less as well,<br />

and now that energy efficient lighting is so<br />

affordable and easily available, there really is<br />

no excuse to not use it.<br />

Photo: Bigstock<br />

Switch off the gadgets and enjoy nature<br />

The world is becoming bigger inside the small<br />

screens of our mobile phones and gadgets.<br />

We feel connected to the multiple devices<br />

occupying our attention, but are becoming<br />

more and more distant from the real world out<br />

there. Put down the gadgets and look outside<br />

your window. Go to your roof or hunt out an<br />

open space in this overcrowded city and look<br />

at the sky, and enjoy the wind, the storms<br />

and the sun. Let’s connect with Mother Earth<br />

before connecting with its creations around us,<br />

whether they are on screens or by our sides. •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


18 stay in<br />

Clues<br />

Mini cryptics<br />

ACROSS<br />

1 Floated used vacuum with<br />

nothing removed (7)<br />

4 Makes movie orders (7)<br />

6 Folding art or I keep three wise<br />

men returning (7)<br />

7 Need drink, sips first in two<br />

and a half dozen (7)<br />

DOWN<br />

1 Leather not at home<br />

for secret place (7)<br />

2 Drive crazy composer<br />

(5)<br />

3 Deny its alternate<br />

future (7)<br />

5 Quality of lesson (5)<br />

Sudoku<br />

Use the numbers 1-9 to complete each<br />

of the 3x3 square grids such that each<br />

horizontal and vertical line also contains all<br />

of the digits from 1-9<br />

Make your<br />

own tassel<br />

earrings<br />

Tasfia Huda<br />

diy<br />

You will need:<br />

• Hand embroidery thread or any<br />

thread (any colour you want)<br />

• 9″ rhinestone chain<br />

• 2 earring parts (lever-backs or fishhooks)<br />

Last week’s solutions<br />

Solved it? Email answers to weekend@dhakatribune.com and win one free<br />

month of the Dhaka Tribune.<br />

ACROSS<br />

1 Untied, reformed and put together<br />

(6)<br />

6 Average is capital (5)<br />

7 Diving method of bear in South<br />

Africa (5)<br />

8 State gone or moved around (6)<br />

DOWN<br />

2 Write up melody for sea god<br />

(7)<br />

3 Winding wind ripped a party<br />

(7)<br />

4 Lust of french father (6)<br />

5 Embarrassing failure in Sofia’s<br />

company (6)<br />

Last week’s solutions<br />

Solved it? Email answers to weekend@dhakatribune.com and<br />

win one free month of the Dhaka Tribune.<br />

• 2 large jump-rings<br />

• Chain-cutting pliers<br />

• Scissors<br />

• Glue<br />

Cut one of the embroidery threads in<br />

half, and add each half to the other<br />

thread skein, so you have two piles<br />

of thread. Line up each thread, so<br />

you have two threads placed together<br />

through a jump-ring.<br />

Estimate how long you want your<br />

earrings to be, and add a little more<br />

length than you think you need. Fold<br />

the thread towards the other end,<br />

match the ends, and trim the long ends.<br />

Repeat the same process, putting<br />

the two thread ends into the jump-ring,<br />

matching the ends to what you already<br />

have, and trimming. Keep going until<br />

you have used all your thread.<br />

Use a shorter thread to tie around<br />

the longer ones, just underneath the<br />

jump-ring in a double knot. Do the<br />

same for your other bundle of threads<br />

and jump-ring.<br />

Place a dot of glue on the thread<br />

knots, and snip the free thread ends.<br />

Snip the rhinestone chain in half<br />

with the chain cutters.<br />

Place a thin strip of glue onto the<br />

back of the chain. Then, place the tassel<br />

on top of the chain, exactly where you<br />

have tied the thread.<br />

Wrap the glued chain around the tassel.<br />

Do the same for the other tassel, and<br />

allow to dry.•<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


For the love of dim sum | Gastronomy 19<br />

Diaspora<br />

of delectable<br />

dim sum<br />

Nisha Ali<br />

Steamy, hot, juicy, succulent<br />

and filling, they burst open<br />

with a medley of flavours<br />

as soon as you put them in<br />

your mouth – if you haven’t guessed<br />

it already, I am talking about delicious<br />

dim sums, the marvellous bite-sized<br />

snacks that are a unique culinary<br />

Cantonese creation. Generally<br />

steamed in bamboo steamers, pan<br />

fried, baked, or deep-fried, these<br />

dumplings, buns, wraps, puffs, tarts<br />

and stuffed cakes are among the<br />

world’s finest hors d’oeuvres.<br />

Personally, dim sums serve as my<br />

other favourite for lunch, because<br />

although filling, they don’t make you<br />

feel heavy and lethargic afterwards.<br />

Having said that, within a 40 minute<br />

lunch break, it’s impractical to travel to<br />

a restaurant, beating the crazy traffic<br />

in this heat, ordering, dining in and<br />

making my way back to work.<br />

Just a few days back, one of my<br />

colleagues gave me the sweetest<br />

surprise for lunch at work – a<br />

beautiful red ‘Yum Cha’ box from<br />

Chows, the fine dining Cantonese<br />

restaurant’s newest<br />

launch containing an<br />

assortment of dim sum.<br />

It took me back to<br />

my late teen years when<br />

I was located in Hang<br />

Zhou for a fashion internship. There I<br />

got to know that in Chinese custom,<br />

locals loved to go to teahouses and<br />

restaurants with friends and family,<br />

especially during the weekend to<br />

unwind over a cup of tea and dim<br />

sum served in carts that are pushed<br />

around from which diners can order.<br />

The drinking of tea is as important as<br />

eating dim sum.<br />

Dim sums originated in China<br />

thousands of years ago and has grown<br />

increasingly popular in the Western<br />

world in recent years. According to<br />

some sources, they were first made<br />

more than 2,500 years ago, as evident<br />

in the music and poetry of that<br />

time. Although inextricably linked<br />

to Cantonese cuisine, the first dim<br />

sum is believed to have been made in<br />

Northern China and has changed and<br />

developed enormously over time. The<br />

popular story is that it was created<br />

by chefs of the Royal Court many<br />

centuries ago as an exclusive luxury,<br />

in order to touch the heart of Chinese<br />

emperors.<br />

‘Dim sum’ is intimately linked<br />

with ‘yum cha’, so much so that<br />

the two phrases are often used<br />

interchangeably. ‘Dim sum’ literally<br />

translates to ‘touch the heart’, which<br />

is an ideal way to describe the small,<br />

scrumptious, sweet or savoury dishes<br />

while the term ‘yum cha’ translates to<br />

‘drink tea’. The small portions were<br />

designed to merely touch the heart<br />

and not sate the appetite and as such<br />

were first enjoyed as snacks.<br />

The filling, pastry and shape<br />

depends on the region and climate<br />

from which it originates. The tastiest<br />

and best, according to many, comes<br />

from Southern China, Canton and<br />

Hong Kong. Many of the<br />

dim sum are classic, their<br />

roots inherently traditional,<br />

but all are given a uniquely<br />

contemporary twist, either in<br />

technique or the ingredients<br />

used.<br />

Most items come in<br />

a serving for four to six,<br />

allowing diners to share a<br />

good variety of delicacies<br />

around a table. Although<br />

every restaurant has its own<br />

dim sum menu, certain<br />

traditional items can be found<br />

in almost all dim sum outlets.<br />

My long relationship with<br />

dim sums continued even<br />

when I returned from Hang<br />

Zhou to Melbourne, one of the<br />

Photos: Courtesy<br />

most culturally diverse cities across<br />

the globe. I realized that this Chinese<br />

version of Spanish tapas, indeed,<br />

has carved its name as one of the top<br />

favourites in the world of appetizers.<br />

With Dhakaites having demonstrated<br />

fascination for Chinese and Thai<br />

cuisine (although with a deshi twist)<br />

for years, it was only a matter of<br />

time that dim sum and many other<br />

authentic dishes in Chinese cuisine<br />

earned quick acceptance amongst<br />

them, once they were introduced.<br />

I have tried Dim Sums in almost all<br />

the good restaurants offering them<br />

in Dhaka. The dumplings in Hakka<br />

Dhaka are alright as part of the platter<br />

deals, although they are outshined<br />

by the other dishes such as wrapped<br />

prawn and hunan chicken in the<br />

platter menu. Both Flavors of China<br />

and Mainland China do pretty decent<br />

jobs with the few different types of<br />

Dim Sums they offer to their clientele.<br />

It was at Chows that I felt no other<br />

restaurant in Bangladesh knows dim<br />

sum better than they do; their beef<br />

and chive sui mai and crispy prawn<br />

cheung fung are to die for. Their<br />

BBQ chicken bao as well as steamed<br />

mushroom and herb dumplings are<br />

also extremely popular to the repeat<br />

clients. I’d recommend ordering a<br />

Beijing Black mocktail made from<br />

blackberry, orange and cinnamon<br />

to cleanse your palate. If you want<br />

a small trial before going in for the<br />

ultimate experience of fine dining<br />

there, just get their latest Yum Cha box<br />

with assorted Dim Sums for take away;<br />

trust me, you will want to go back for<br />

more of these delectable delights. •<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017


20 HEALTH | depression<br />

The roots of depression<br />

Finding the hidden causes are essential<br />

Anika Humaira<br />

This year’s slogan for<br />

World Health Day is<br />

‘Depression: Let’s talk’,<br />

shining a much-needed<br />

light on the growing cases of<br />

depression all across the world.<br />

For most of us, ‘abuse’ is a<br />

discomforting word and quite<br />

often, it makes us think of physical<br />

and sexual violence. However,<br />

emotional abuse is also an<br />

important factor when thinking of<br />

depression, and we can face all of<br />

these forms of abuse at home or any<br />

other comfort zone. Children are<br />

more affected here by that weapon<br />

that often remains hidden from<br />

sight. Several studies have found<br />

that childhood abuse is related to<br />

low self-esteem and depression.<br />

We need to ask ourselves, are we<br />

providing enough security at home.<br />

Why is childhood depression so<br />

high in cities? Here are a few stories<br />

to explain what we’re doing wrong,<br />

and how crucial it is for family<br />

members to find the root causes of<br />

psychological problems. Security<br />

and loving attachments can go a<br />

long way in preventing depression.<br />

Physical violence<br />

leads to anger<br />

Shaikat, an<br />

adolescent, came<br />

to me with anger<br />

problems. Anger is<br />

usually an impact<br />

of serious neglect or<br />

punishment. When<br />

he described his<br />

story, he just became<br />

furious. He was talking about his father and how he beat him in his<br />

childhood, as if he was some sort of animal. His parents were unhappy<br />

together and always fighting. When he interrupted, even if it was for<br />

food, he would be scolded for no fault of his own. In this way, beatings,<br />

punishment and neglect became a part of his life.<br />

When he became older, he decided that he will not tolerate this<br />

anymore, and also became very defensive.<br />

Parents must take sexual abuse seriously<br />

Rima was 11 years old when she was first sexually harassed by her<br />

private tutor. Then at 12 years, she was almost raped by her music<br />

teacher. Her life, emotions, socialisation - everything changed, but<br />

her parents only noticed behavioural change and anger. They were<br />

disturbed by their failure to control their child, and objected to her<br />

becoming “too independent”. Their lack of understanding made her<br />

more emotionally distant, and even though she tried to tell her story<br />

once, they focused only on her ‘honour’ and kept her more under<br />

surveillance. She was not allowed to go anywhere, even with friends.<br />

She became more and more lonely.<br />

One day, something even worse happened in her life. She went to<br />

her grandmother’s house, and was sexually harassed by her own uncle.<br />

Based on her past experiences, she didn’t bother to tell her mother,<br />

because she knew she would somehow be blamed. Even when her<br />

parents finally sought medical help, their only complaint was that she<br />

had behavioural problems and was unsocial.<br />

Cut out the constant criticism<br />

Selina was very conscious about her beauty and her parents did not<br />

approve - they criticised her, punished her, and kept nagging in front<br />

of visitors at home. She often felt humiliated this way, and started to<br />

isolate herself. Her parents became more controlling and she became<br />

more arrogant. Once they reached breaking point, they came to seek<br />

help. The first thing to find out was, why was she so crazy about<br />

beautification? She<br />

explained how she<br />

had been bullied in<br />

her childhood for<br />

being fat, and how<br />

people put examples<br />

of others in front of<br />

her and asked her<br />

to follow suit. They<br />

questioned every<br />

choice of hers and<br />

advised her on what to eat, what to wear and what to do. She was afraid<br />

to join family gatherings because she became ashamed. She drawn a<br />

negative picture of herself and tried to change herself, and this effort<br />

made her more and more depressed.<br />

This kind of story is common in children who achieve low academic<br />

grades at school. Criticism kills confidence.<br />

*Names have been changed to protect identities •<br />

The author is counselor at the Clinical Psychology Department of<br />

United Hospital Limited<br />

WEEKEND TRIBUNE | FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 2017

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