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Married, Single…Waiting<br />

How long have you been married?<br />

My name is Deaconess O. Powell and I am very proud to be a part of the<br />

T.H.R.A.C. ministry. I have been married for many years.<br />

What is the most memorable moment in your marriage?<br />

In Matthew 19:5 it states, “For this cause shall a man leave father and mother,<br />

and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh.” Cleaving to<br />

someone indicates that there is a struggle before you are actually joined<br />

together. This is why in a marriage vow, it asks for a man and a woman to<br />

support each other in good times and bad times until death parts them. For me<br />

to select the most memorable memory in my marriage I would find myself<br />

being biased to that memory, as I would be leaving out all the other memories<br />

that have helped to shape my marriage into what it is today. In a marriage<br />

every memory is memorable and one thing that we should not forget is that<br />

memories begin before the marriage vows are even spoken.<br />

What did you learn from the most trying period of your marriage?<br />

Becoming one with someone is not easily accomplished. It commands for you to<br />

sacrifice some of the goals that you have set for yourself. It also calls for you to<br />

not think selfishly and to share not only your physical assets, but also your<br />

thoughts and feelings; this can be quite trying. However, if one is submitted to<br />

God, then they would also be submitted to their husband. To submit to<br />

someone would indicate evidence of love. I have learned to exercise the love of<br />

God within my marriage. I bear witness to 1 Corinthians 13:7 which states that<br />

"love beareth all things, believes all things, hopeth all things and endureth all<br />

things."<br />

What are some foundational characteristics that an individual must<br />

possess before entering into marriage?<br />

In Proverbs 18:22 it states, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains<br />

favour from the Lord.” A lot of women today do<br />

not understand that getting married does not<br />

make them a wife. The word of God commands us<br />

to submit to Him. It is in this submission that we<br />

learn to attend unto the needs of God. If we are<br />

able to honour these commandments, only then<br />

can we fulfill all the other commandments which<br />

God wants our hearts to be aligned with. The foundational characteristics an<br />

individual must possess before entering into marriage will only come when they<br />

When G<br />

are able to submit to God. Submitting to God would evoke love for Him, love for<br />

others and love for yourself. Love causes us to make sacrifices, which is a way<br />

we practice how to give to others.<br />

What advice would you give to newly married couples?<br />

By Mother Powell<br />

What advice would give to<br />

single saints?<br />

Becoming a wife or a husband is a<br />

ministry that requires the complete<br />

involvement of God in one’s life. It<br />

is important to not rush this<br />

ministry, as it can only be activated<br />

by God. If you cannot submit to<br />

God, then you won’t be able to<br />

submit to anyone else. I encourage<br />

saints to seek ye first the kingdom<br />

of God, and his righteousness; and<br />

all these things shall be added unto<br />

you.<br />

If you knew what you know<br />

today about marriage, what<br />

changes would you make?<br />

God joins two people together, no<br />

man can put that asunder. I am<br />

glad that God is the head of my<br />

marriage as I would change<br />

absolutely nothing about it.<br />

I encourage every newlywed couple to know that a marriage is a beautiful<br />

journey to be on. It will only be a blessing to your union to have the<br />

involvement of God in every aspect of your life. This means that in the good<br />

Gtimes and the bad times you both run to God and each other, not to<br />

man. Let the word of God and prayer be your portion to sustain you on your<br />

journey.<br />

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