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Married, Single…Waiting<br />
How long have you been married?<br />
My name is Deaconess O. Powell and I am very proud to be a part of the<br />
T.H.R.A.C. ministry. I have been married for many years.<br />
What is the most memorable moment in your marriage?<br />
In Matthew 19:5 it states, “For this cause shall a man leave father and mother,<br />
and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh.” Cleaving to<br />
someone indicates that there is a struggle before you are actually joined<br />
together. This is why in a marriage vow, it asks for a man and a woman to<br />
support each other in good times and bad times until death parts them. For me<br />
to select the most memorable memory in my marriage I would find myself<br />
being biased to that memory, as I would be leaving out all the other memories<br />
that have helped to shape my marriage into what it is today. In a marriage<br />
every memory is memorable and one thing that we should not forget is that<br />
memories begin before the marriage vows are even spoken.<br />
What did you learn from the most trying period of your marriage?<br />
Becoming one with someone is not easily accomplished. It commands for you to<br />
sacrifice some of the goals that you have set for yourself. It also calls for you to<br />
not think selfishly and to share not only your physical assets, but also your<br />
thoughts and feelings; this can be quite trying. However, if one is submitted to<br />
God, then they would also be submitted to their husband. To submit to<br />
someone would indicate evidence of love. I have learned to exercise the love of<br />
God within my marriage. I bear witness to 1 Corinthians 13:7 which states that<br />
"love beareth all things, believes all things, hopeth all things and endureth all<br />
things."<br />
What are some foundational characteristics that an individual must<br />
possess before entering into marriage?<br />
In Proverbs 18:22 it states, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains<br />
favour from the Lord.” A lot of women today do<br />
not understand that getting married does not<br />
make them a wife. The word of God commands us<br />
to submit to Him. It is in this submission that we<br />
learn to attend unto the needs of God. If we are<br />
able to honour these commandments, only then<br />
can we fulfill all the other commandments which<br />
God wants our hearts to be aligned with. The foundational characteristics an<br />
individual must possess before entering into marriage will only come when they<br />
When G<br />
are able to submit to God. Submitting to God would evoke love for Him, love for<br />
others and love for yourself. Love causes us to make sacrifices, which is a way<br />
we practice how to give to others.<br />
What advice would you give to newly married couples?<br />
By Mother Powell<br />
What advice would give to<br />
single saints?<br />
Becoming a wife or a husband is a<br />
ministry that requires the complete<br />
involvement of God in one’s life. It<br />
is important to not rush this<br />
ministry, as it can only be activated<br />
by God. If you cannot submit to<br />
God, then you won’t be able to<br />
submit to anyone else. I encourage<br />
saints to seek ye first the kingdom<br />
of God, and his righteousness; and<br />
all these things shall be added unto<br />
you.<br />
If you knew what you know<br />
today about marriage, what<br />
changes would you make?<br />
God joins two people together, no<br />
man can put that asunder. I am<br />
glad that God is the head of my<br />
marriage as I would change<br />
absolutely nothing about it.<br />
I encourage every newlywed couple to know that a marriage is a beautiful<br />
journey to be on. It will only be a blessing to your union to have the<br />
involvement of God in every aspect of your life. This means that in the good<br />
Gtimes and the bad times you both run to God and each other, not to<br />
man. Let the word of God and prayer be your portion to sustain you on your<br />
journey.<br />
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