Women in Business Fall 2017
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BREAKING THE MOULD<br />
RAVINDER MANHAS | How I thrived <strong>in</strong> a male-dom<strong>in</strong>ated <strong>in</strong>dustry<br />
You cannot be<br />
afraid to say you<br />
don’t understand<br />
someth<strong>in</strong>g. Fear<br />
impairs your<br />
ability to learn<br />
“I<br />
am not your mother. I am your<br />
boss, leader, mentor, and that<br />
means I will support you <strong>in</strong><br />
your career growth.” This mantra<br />
has served me well as I was surrounded<br />
by men on my climb to becom<strong>in</strong>g<br />
head of f<strong>in</strong>ance for a global<br />
f<strong>in</strong>ancial technology (f<strong>in</strong>tech) company.<br />
Today I am thrilled to be on<br />
an executive team of 10 with three<br />
other women. Four years ago, this<br />
was not the case.<br />
In Canada, men are two to three<br />
times more likely than women to be<br />
<strong>in</strong> a senior management position. In<br />
f<strong>in</strong>ancial services, the average proportion<br />
of female directors is only<br />
32 per cent, which is only slightly<br />
better than the average proportion<br />
of female executives at 29 per<br />
cent. At this rate, true gender parity<br />
won’t happen for decades to come.<br />
For those on similar journeys or<br />
situations, here are some th<strong>in</strong>gs<br />
that I’ve learned along the way<br />
to break<strong>in</strong>g the mould:<br />
My journey at work paralleled<br />
my journey through motherhood.<br />
As I progressed through various<br />
positions, I also juggled rais<strong>in</strong>g my<br />
two daughters. Every mother takes<br />
a different approach; I purposely<br />
took a non-leadership position after<br />
return<strong>in</strong>g to work after my second<br />
maternity leave. This allowed me to<br />
leave my work at work, and return<br />
home to my family on time. As my<br />
responsibilities grew at work, my<br />
husband took on more responsibilities<br />
at home. I would not to be able<br />
to do what I do without the support<br />
system he gives me.<br />
As I climbed the corporate ladder,<br />
I found myself surrounded by<br />
men. In the early days of work<strong>in</strong>g<br />
at Beanstream (now Bambora), I<br />
was the only female voice at the<br />
executive table. It wasn’t always<br />
easy, but it wasn’t always hard<br />
either. When you f<strong>in</strong>d<br />
your peers are mostly<br />
men, it can be difficult for<br />
numerous reasons. Not only do<br />
men and women work differently,<br />
but you may feel like you are<br />
try<strong>in</strong>g to prove the importance of<br />
female leaders. Know that it isn’t<br />
about just pick<strong>in</strong>g your battles; it<br />
is go<strong>in</strong>g all the way when you do. By<br />
do<strong>in</strong>g this, I earned the respect of<br />
my peers and was able to guide our<br />
company forward with them even<br />
if we disagreed.<br />
But enough about me. My advice<br />
to you, whether you are just<br />
start<strong>in</strong>g your career, stepp<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to<br />
a male-dom<strong>in</strong>ated <strong>in</strong>dustry, or try<strong>in</strong>g<br />
to climb the corporate ladder, is<br />
this: you cannot be afraid to say you<br />
don’t understand someth<strong>in</strong>g. Fear<br />
impairs your ability to learn. Even<br />
though I work <strong>in</strong> a f<strong>in</strong>tech company,<br />
I have never coded. If I cannot<br />
understand an issue our head of development<br />
is hav<strong>in</strong>g, I cannot offer<br />
support and vice versa. We need to<br />
ask the stupid questions to get to the<br />
hard-hitt<strong>in</strong>g ones. Never be afraid<br />
to understand your bus<strong>in</strong>ess, problems.<br />
By hav<strong>in</strong>g the courage to say<br />
it like it is, or stat<strong>in</strong>g that you don’t<br />
understand someth<strong>in</strong>g, you will be<br />
able to do your role more effectively.<br />
You cannot sugar-coat th<strong>in</strong>gs or else<br />
the bus<strong>in</strong>ess, your team and your<br />
career will suffer.<br />
My journey is not your journey,<br />
but our struggles and challenges<br />
may be the same. I am not your<br />
mother; I am not here to parent or<br />
micromanage you, but <strong>in</strong>stead to<br />
guide and support you. F<strong>in</strong>d out<br />
what works for you and stick to<br />
it. Not every moment will be easy.<br />
There will be long nights and early<br />
morn<strong>in</strong>gs. And like me, you may<br />
f<strong>in</strong>d yourself <strong>in</strong> a stalemate at one<br />
po<strong>in</strong>t, with your job on the l<strong>in</strong>e. If<br />
you want to challenge the status quo<br />
or earn your place, you must do just<br />
that; challenge and earn. <br />
Rav<strong>in</strong>der Manhas is<br />
head of f<strong>in</strong>ance for<br />
Bambora North<br />
America.