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What made you go into this line<br />

of work?<br />

I have always been interested in social<br />

justice and I believe that violence<br />

against women and girls is an<br />

enduring social injustice which erodes<br />

all women’s choices.<br />

Male violence continues to be an<br />

accepted fact across society and this is<br />

damaging to boys, girls, men and<br />

women. I realised I was a feminist<br />

after I had my daughter, before then I<br />

could see the ongoing reality of<br />

gendered labour divisions, the glass<br />

ceiling and expectations upon mothers<br />

to behave in a particular way, which do<br />

not affect men in the same way.<br />

We have twenty staff and around 25<br />

volunteers supporting victim/survivors<br />

of domestic abuse across Swale and<br />

Medway. I am currently in the process<br />

of writing up my PhD thesis which is<br />

entitled “Impossible Expectations? A<br />

Study of the Experiences of Abused<br />

Mothers in the Child Protection<br />

System” and the research which I have<br />

carried out has helped me shape the<br />

services we now provide – putting<br />

women at the heart of way.<br />

“ I became determined that he would not have expectations<br />

lumped upon his “masculinity” due to his gender."<br />

I did not want my daughter growing up<br />

in a world where she had any less<br />

chances to fulfil her ambitions than a<br />

boy.<br />

When I had my son, I became<br />

determined that he would not have<br />

expectations lumped upon his<br />

“masculinity” due to his gender.<br />

This is when I realised that my passion<br />

for social justice, my feminist views<br />

and my law degree should be used to<br />

effect change.<br />

I started out for the first three years as<br />

an IDVA directly supporting high risk<br />

victims of domestic abuse, and when<br />

the founder of SATEDA left to pursue<br />

new challenges I was asked by our<br />

Board of Trustees to step in to the<br />

role. Now here I am four years later!<br />

How do people react when you<br />

tell them what you do? Outside of<br />

the DV sector that is!<br />

I either get a disclosure of abuse,<br />

historic or current, either about them<br />

or someone they know – or, anger and<br />

disbelief that DA even exists and an<br />

argument that some women enjoy it,<br />

some women ask for it, and women are<br />

also violent to men.<br />

Both of these responses tell me that we<br />

have a long way to go until the<br />

acceptance of intimate and gendered<br />

violence is a thing of the past. I f all we<br />

do.<br />

Liza Thompson, CEO SATEDA

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