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11. They ring constantly because they are *worried* about you 12. They go *off grid* to make you panic 13. They let you know who is safe to talk to and who isn't. 14. They hold onto your vital documents for *safeguarding* 15. They ask to see/ check your mail, your phone messages etc on the pretext to keep you safe. 16. They insist you stay in their comfort zone, not yours. Red Flags 1. They seek you out. 2. They refuse to take No for an answer 3. They insist on helping despite protestations. 4. They insist they know your situation better than you 5.They like to create fear. 6. They see fault in other services and insist that they know better. 7.They are vague on specifics 8. They ask for a lot of information without giving a reason for needing it. 17. They give advice on the pretext of keepinh you safe but these are really rules. 18. They like calling a *red alert* situation. 19.They like to alienate you from other services by creating an atmosphere of distrust, of failings, maybe even corruption but certainly incompetence. 20 They say things like " Don't go to a refuge, they can't keep you safe". This is a time to speak UP and speak OUT when victims are put at risk, we can not sit by and watch while others 9. They tell you they will take care of everything. 10. They monitor you SCAs
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