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I know you are a mediator, but<br />

that’s all I know. Could you tell me a<br />

little more about it?<br />

Mediation can be an effective solution<br />

when an argument / disagreement cannot<br />

be rectified with the personnel involved.<br />

It is less costly than resorting to courts<br />

and can often provide a more acceptable<br />

outcome because both parties are given<br />

equal input.<br />

My training in Commercial & Civil<br />

Mediation has been further enhanced by<br />

my training and knowledge in group<br />

counselling.<br />

I fit a gym workout in when I can but<br />

have been lax over the past months due to<br />

spending a number of nights away<br />

looking after my Mother.<br />

I do generally enjoy exercise so I want to<br />

get back into a healthy routine. My day is<br />

then taken up with meeting clients or<br />

potential clients, answering emails and<br />

preparing mail outs.<br />

My hobbies are Dramatics and as a<br />

member of Bury Theatre Workshop, I’m<br />

either rehearsing for a play or helping<br />

with the set-up of the next play, twice a<br />

week.<br />

This provides me with a wonderful outlet<br />

and tremendous fun.<br />

“I believe you need to have an open mind, be non<br />

judgemental and to know you’re not there<br />

to solve their problem.”<br />

Mediation can be effective in many areas<br />

of conflict such as neighbour disputes ,<br />

business agreements • Business<br />

Partnership Disputes , doctor / patient<br />

disputes • family disputes around wills .<br />

My role as a Mediator is to facilitate the<br />

discussions, not to advise or suggest<br />

solutions. I listen to the options each<br />

person wishes to offer and go back and<br />

forth to each person until there is an<br />

agreed acceptable outcome.<br />

What would be a typical day for<br />

you?<br />

I get up around 7 to 7:30 am, check<br />

emails and after showering, arrive in my<br />

office any time from 9 to 10:30 am,<br />

depending on whether I have an evening<br />

group counselling session.<br />

In your opinion, what are the qualities<br />

to look out for in a good mediator?<br />

I believe you need to have an open mind, be<br />

non judgemental and to know you’re not<br />

there to solve their problem. Encourage<br />

people to believe they have the answers and<br />

provide them with the space and belief they<br />

can come up with an acceptable solution.<br />

To contact Gwen:<br />

Email: thewestsuffolkhub@gmail.com<br />

Mobile: 07979 151509<br />

<strong>CCChat</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> - Making the Invisible Visible

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