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OLIVER SHIFLISH - LESS FEAR MORE HAPPINESS (sample)

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the ones who have to execute it. It is left for us to come to<br />

a realization, an understanding, and then work on it.<br />

“No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no<br />

one may. We ourselves must walk the path.”<br />

Buddha<br />

And now I will tell you how to do it.<br />

We have to start by observing and analyzing ourselves in<br />

order to find the source of fear; to find who or what is giving<br />

existence to it, and then gradually work on dissolving it.<br />

We condemn the misbehaviors and negative actions of our<br />

parents and ancestors, but at the same time we accept them<br />

because we understand that at that moment they thought<br />

they were doing the best they could. Unfortunately in their<br />

ignorance 2 (“Ignorance” may be offensive, so I will use another<br />

expression – “lack of knowledge”), our parents let fear direct<br />

and steer them. Become aware of that, and realize that you<br />

still carry their negative actions. Recognize that you are the<br />

only one who has a chance to stop the trail of negativity! Make<br />

a decision, and become an observer of your mind, thoughts,<br />

speech and actions and do it with full awareness. Surround<br />

yourself with mirrors, watch yourself with cameras from every<br />

angle and become a “hunter” for negative thoughts.<br />

Be aware that our negative thoughts are the result of<br />

our own self-protection against fear.<br />

We have to develop the ability to foresee what<br />

2 ignorance: the state or fact of being ignorant: lack of knowledge,<br />

education, or awareness ( Merriam-Webster )<br />

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