CR Magazine – Winter 2017
The official publication of the Chicago Association of REALTORS®.
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REALTOR ®<br />
Spotlight<br />
REALTOR ®<br />
Designs Custom Spaces<br />
for Grieving Children<br />
MICHAELA GORDON<br />
@properties<br />
Losing a loved one is never easy to<br />
understand or accept, for children it can<br />
be nearly impossible. Michaela Gordon,<br />
@properties, lost her mother at a young<br />
age, changing the course of her life forever.<br />
Her own experiences grieving led her to<br />
understand the special care and attention<br />
children need to cope with and understand<br />
difficult circumstances. Gordon combined her<br />
background in architecture and real estate<br />
with her passion for helping children deal<br />
with loss to found the non-profit, the From<br />
Now On Project.<br />
FNOP works closely with children who have lost loved ones in their<br />
immediate family and create their ideal environment for grieving.<br />
“As adults, we can make the conscious decision to take a step back<br />
or participate in things that give us mental space in difficult times,”<br />
Gordon said. “But children often can’t articulate what they need to<br />
grieve or don’t have access to necessary spaces to do so.” By getting<br />
to know the children, the From Now On Project team learns what<br />
brings them a sense of calm, like a water feature or a space all to<br />
themselves, and work tirelessly to bring their ideal spaces to life.<br />
The project connects with local hospitals and organizations, like Lurie<br />
Children’s Hospital and local YMCA’s, to find families in need. One of<br />
FNOP’s first projects was a young girl who lost her brother, who left a<br />
star with his name on it in the castle at Disney World through the Make a<br />
Wish Foundation. The young girl took comfort in stars, so FNOP created<br />
a space for her with her own unique stars, to remind her of her brother<br />
and encourage her to find her own healing ground to move forward.<br />
“My healing comes from helping these children through a process<br />
I also had to go through,” Gordon said. Having to learn how to live<br />
in a new reality, she often had to look at things with the perspective<br />
of: “from now on.” This idea sparked the organization’s name and<br />
brings a positive outlook to the phrase.<br />
FNOP runs smoothly thanks to amazing volunteers,<br />
teamwork and creativity; their team of designers and<br />
creatives work tirelessly to create these spaces for<br />
children. Gordon says having a team in place<br />
who is just as passionate<br />
about the outcome<br />
as she is helps her<br />
move forward, even<br />
when it is difficult.<br />
FNOP receives support from donors and fundraising events, and<br />
hopes to see even more involvement from the REALTOR ® community<br />
in the coming year. One of the easiest and most personal ways to get<br />
involved is by purchasing a gift off of the project registry. Similar to an<br />
event registry, items needed for the project are listed on the website<br />
and can be purchased for the spaces. New items are added with each<br />
new project.<br />
FNOP also hosts build-out days to piece together project elements<br />
and create the final space for the child. Currently, the team is working<br />
with a family with three children and is constructing a large-scale<br />
outdoor project to adhere to each child’s needs.<br />
Dealing with loss is never an easy process, and creating safe spaces<br />
for children to do so is just a small gesture that could impact the<br />
course of a child’s life.<br />
To learn more about the From Now On Project and how you can get<br />
involved, visit www.FromNowOnProject.org.<br />
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