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CR Magazine – Winter 2017

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REALTOR ®<br />

Spotlight<br />

REALTOR ®<br />

Designs Custom Spaces<br />

for Grieving Children<br />

MICHAELA GORDON<br />

@properties<br />

Losing a loved one is never easy to<br />

understand or accept, for children it can<br />

be nearly impossible. Michaela Gordon,<br />

@properties, lost her mother at a young<br />

age, changing the course of her life forever.<br />

Her own experiences grieving led her to<br />

understand the special care and attention<br />

children need to cope with and understand<br />

difficult circumstances. Gordon combined her<br />

background in architecture and real estate<br />

with her passion for helping children deal<br />

with loss to found the non-profit, the From<br />

Now On Project.<br />

FNOP works closely with children who have lost loved ones in their<br />

immediate family and create their ideal environment for grieving.<br />

“As adults, we can make the conscious decision to take a step back<br />

or participate in things that give us mental space in difficult times,”<br />

Gordon said. “But children often can’t articulate what they need to<br />

grieve or don’t have access to necessary spaces to do so.” By getting<br />

to know the children, the From Now On Project team learns what<br />

brings them a sense of calm, like a water feature or a space all to<br />

themselves, and work tirelessly to bring their ideal spaces to life.<br />

The project connects with local hospitals and organizations, like Lurie<br />

Children’s Hospital and local YMCA’s, to find families in need. One of<br />

FNOP’s first projects was a young girl who lost her brother, who left a<br />

star with his name on it in the castle at Disney World through the Make a<br />

Wish Foundation. The young girl took comfort in stars, so FNOP created<br />

a space for her with her own unique stars, to remind her of her brother<br />

and encourage her to find her own healing ground to move forward.<br />

“My healing comes from helping these children through a process<br />

I also had to go through,” Gordon said. Having to learn how to live<br />

in a new reality, she often had to look at things with the perspective<br />

of: “from now on.” This idea sparked the organization’s name and<br />

brings a positive outlook to the phrase.<br />

FNOP runs smoothly thanks to amazing volunteers,<br />

teamwork and creativity; their team of designers and<br />

creatives work tirelessly to create these spaces for<br />

children. Gordon says having a team in place<br />

who is just as passionate<br />

about the outcome<br />

as she is helps her<br />

move forward, even<br />

when it is difficult.<br />

FNOP receives support from donors and fundraising events, and<br />

hopes to see even more involvement from the REALTOR ® community<br />

in the coming year. One of the easiest and most personal ways to get<br />

involved is by purchasing a gift off of the project registry. Similar to an<br />

event registry, items needed for the project are listed on the website<br />

and can be purchased for the spaces. New items are added with each<br />

new project.<br />

FNOP also hosts build-out days to piece together project elements<br />

and create the final space for the child. Currently, the team is working<br />

with a family with three children and is constructing a large-scale<br />

outdoor project to adhere to each child’s needs.<br />

Dealing with loss is never an easy process, and creating safe spaces<br />

for children to do so is just a small gesture that could impact the<br />

course of a child’s life.<br />

To learn more about the From Now On Project and how you can get<br />

involved, visit www.FromNowOnProject.org.<br />

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