May '18

them now is bringing tears
of joy to my eyes, Mom.
That?s the power and value
of this. Not only is it great
for filling that Attention
Bucket, but you are putting
the memories into place for
your child for how THEY are
going to remember YOU!
You?ve got one shot and
this thing called
Motherhood, Mom. You?re
doing a magnificent job
already. Stuff like this is
merely here to have more
of your greatness be known
to your cute kiddos.
When they themselves
look back upon their life
and reminiscent about their
childhood.
Now let?s get to the last
one and then I expect you
to go continue to be that
awesome Mom that you
are?
Bucket #5 Cont ribut ion:
This one is so often
overlooked. In my mission to be
one of the best Coaches on the
planet to help you get those
kids to listen and knock off
parenting stress?
? I?ve read and researched A
LOT.
This one never comes up or is
talked about all that much. It
goes right along with those first
2 buckets of the Belonging and
Importance.
Let me give you a good story
that very clearly describes what
this Contribution is all about.
It was the story of one of my
mentors in this business world.
Him talking about one of the
darkest days of his life?
? he just had a business go
bankrupt and he was in the
hole many thousands of
dollars.
7
He had to come home and tell
13
the family. Tell the family of
the financial crisis they were
in.
The family gathered in the
kitchen and he broke down
and cried. Told them
everything.
Shared his mistakes and
screw-ups and the financial
ruin they were now in.
One of the lowest parts of
his life. But from it, came one
of his most cherished
memories.
His daughter, only around 4,
gets up from the table and
runs to her room.
Comes running back out
with her piggy bank.
Puts it on the kitchen table
and says, ?Here, Daddy, take
mine! Let me help!?
This melted his heart even