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THE ROLE OF MARRIAGE<br />

God instituted the family and performed the first wedding<br />

ceremony in the Garden of Eden. This marriage relationship<br />

is the cornerstone of every family. That is why satan regards<br />

marriage and the home as his greatest battle ground. He<br />

knows that the easiest way to destroy churches and society<br />

is through the home. This is why he attacks marriages and<br />

attempts to weaken and tear the family unit apart. It is<br />

our duty therefore as Christians, to be diligent in standing<br />

against his intrusions (1 Pet 5:8).<br />

Marriage is not for the immature. You have to be ready and<br />

be selfless. A good marriage does not just happen, you have<br />

to work on it, it must be built. It takes wisdom to have a good<br />

family and it takes understanding to make it strong (Prov<br />

24.3).<br />

RULES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE<br />

• Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.<br />

• If you feel you must criticize do it lovingly.<br />

• If you have a choice between making yourself or your<br />

mate look good, choose your mate.<br />

• Never bring up a mistake of the past.<br />

• Neglect the whole world rather than neglecting each<br />

other.<br />

• Never let the day end without saying one complimentary<br />

thing to your partner.<br />

• Don’t lie to your spouse because you think that is what<br />

they want to hear.<br />

• Be polite to one another.<br />

• Wear your wedding ring if you are married.<br />

• Date your spouse at least once a week.<br />

• Laugh together.<br />

• Listen to one another.<br />

• Show respect and try to look your best.<br />

• Seek help when needed.<br />

RESTORATION<br />

What the devil has taken can be restored. If the enemy has<br />

come in, he can be driven out. If children have been lost, they<br />

can be prayed back into the Kingdom of God. God will put<br />

things back together again. Acknowledge that your family<br />

and your marriage are priority. Make God your priority and<br />

let Him do the building.<br />

This article is based on the message:– Is there a Family in<br />

your House (2004) © Yemisi Ashimolowo. To obtain your copy<br />

of this message please log onto www.pastormatthew.tv<br />

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There is also a stock of ethnic foods.<br />

NAFB also works with Fareshare Kent, a charity that redistributes<br />

surplus food to charities and community organisations working with<br />

disadvantaged people across the region. This service is not exclusive<br />

to KICC members. People come via KICC Branches or Chapels in and<br />

around London and people are also referred from local health groups,<br />

single parent clubs and other churches.<br />

NAFB products are supplied through a mix of retail partners at<br />

subsidised rates, structured shopping at local grocery stores and<br />

donations from KICC members, individual donors, local schools &<br />

businesses. Min Peju said: “We welcome everyone’s support. They can<br />

fundraise for us, volunteer, and after discussions with us people can<br />

contact their local schools, businesses, grocery stores on our behalf.”<br />

NOAHS ARK CARES<br />

This programs serves the needs of the elderly in care homes. A<br />

Visitation Team goes to the Fort Horstead Nursing Home, Chatham,<br />

Kent on the last Saturday of each month. The team conducts a church<br />

service in the care home’s common room and also visit the bedbound<br />

in their rooms. In Walthamstow, the teams visits the residents<br />

of Aspray Care Home, Hoe Street on the 3rd Saturday of each month.<br />

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JOINING THE TEAM<br />

It’s easy to join the NAFB Ministry. “You only need to ask!”, says Min<br />

Peju, “Serving in the NAFB offers the joy of pleasing God, knowing<br />

that we are ambassadors for Christ and KICC, personal contentment<br />

and fulfilment and serving God’s purpose in our generation. NAFB<br />

stewards serve intentionally, lovingly, respectfully, with a heart of<br />

gratitude and with excellence and great grace. It is humbling and<br />

fulfilling to be a part of the NAFB team, we are a family.” “Renowned<br />

author Malcolm Gladwell has an idea that it takes at least 10,000<br />

hours of practice, plus talent, to achieve mastery a particular skill.<br />

The stewards who serve in this department, build up our own 10,000<br />

hours of practice through several activities including community<br />

engagement with local and national agencies, producing monthly,<br />

quarterly and annual reports, interview skills (face-face & telephone),<br />

team building, project management, logistics efforts and so much<br />

more.<br />

For more information about the Noah’s Ark Food Bank Ministry<br />

please call the church office on +44 (0) 20 8525 0000 or email:<br />

noahsark@kicc.org.uk<br />

KICC ALSO RUNS THE FOLLOWING FREE SERVICES:<br />

Legal Counselling, Educational Counselling, the Christmas hamper<br />

Challenge, Homeless Outreach (befriending team), a Prison Ministry<br />

and Career Counselling. For more details please call the church office<br />

or email admin@kicc.org.uk.<br />

WINNING WAYS MAGAZINE 13

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