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Most Young<br />
People Today<br />
Lack the<br />
Psychological<br />
Resilience<br />
to Thrive<br />
Professionally.<br />
In the Wake of<br />
Mass Shootings,<br />
Parents<br />
Reconsider Mass<br />
Schooling<br />
By Ryan Ferguson<br />
Saturday, May 19, 2018<br />
In December, I wrote a post about how hard it is to learn how to work. In that post, I talked about how one of the biggest<br />
challenges for someone starting their career is getting used to the undefined nature of work.<br />
It feels very uncomfortable to go from a protective and easy school environment, where you live without responsibilities,<br />
to the professional world, where you are expected to think, prioritize, and deliver.<br />
The only way to get better at it is to stick with it, but many people who have done well in school don’t know how to stick<br />
with it. They quit when they reach the point of responsibility in their work and start a new job where they can feel comfortable<br />
with lower expectations. After a while, if they don’t figure out how to handle expectations, they may retreat<br />
back into mindless work that can support them but never truly allow them to thrive.<br />
What Makes the Adjustment So Hard?<br />
In school, priorities are defined for us. You have projects, papers, and exams that you will complete. You can prioritize in<br />
a limited way, but you have very little control over your direction or responsibilities. The teacher is responsible for making<br />
sure the workload is manageable. You are responsible for getting all your work done and don’t get to decide what you<br />
work on in the first place.<br />
When young people start work, it is usually in jobs that similarly require very little thinking. Whether that is at a fast<br />
food restaurant or doing some sort of manual labor, you learn how to show up and be dependable (which are very valuable<br />
things to learn), but they still don’t develop the skills you need to thrive in a work environment where you could<br />
always do a little more.<br />
As you progress past the first layer of low-responsibility work, you enter into an environment you have never experienced<br />
before. You now have core day-to-day responsibilities, but you also have many other ways that you could invest<br />
your time. You have projects you start that you have to put on the side to work on more urgent things. You have deadlines<br />
you set that you struggle to make or sometimes miss. You don’t know how to set accurate timeframes for your<br />
work. You don’t know how to prioritize what is most important.<br />
These are things you have never had to deal with before. In school, everything was structured. Now you have certain<br />
things that have to get done, but there are countless options for the actual ways you get those things done.<br />
Here's What You Need<br />
You need to develop technical skill at getting things done, but also (and probably more importantly) psychological resilience<br />
to be able to thrive in an environment where you have to set your own priorities, where you don’t have enough<br />
time to finish everything you want to get done, and where you need to quickly bounce back and improve from failures.<br />
This psychological resilience is the exact thing that the best students are missing. They can thrive with the hyper-defined<br />
school work, but fall apart when they enter into the professional world where they need to think for themselves about<br />
their priorities and the methods they use to fulfill their responsibilities.<br />
There is no easy way to make this adjustment. The school system puts us in a bubble, and it hurts to leave that bubble.<br />
Solutions like Praxis and Unschooling are making it easier, but there is no easy way to do it. The only thing you can do is:<br />
Identify that your school experience has not prepared you.<br />
Accept that is going to be uncomfortable.<br />
Get to work and stick with it.<br />
Source: The Foundation for Economic Education (FEE)<br />
86 <strong>NHEG</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | <strong>September</strong> - <strong>October</strong> 2018<br />
https://fee.org/<br />
By Kerry McDonald<br />
Monday, May 21, 2018<br />
n the wake of recent tragic school shootings, anxious parents are contemplating homeschooling to protect their children.<br />
After February’s school shooting in Parkland, Florida, the Miami Herald reported that more parents were considering the<br />
homeschooling option. And after Friday’s disturbing school shooting in Sante Fe, Texas, a local ABC news affiliate in Alabama<br />
reported the increasing appeal of homeschooling.<br />
“If I had the time, I would teach my kids myself, and I would know that they’re safe," a father of four told ABC station,<br />
WAAY31. A public school teacher interviewed by the channel disagreed with the idea of homeschooling. According to the<br />
news story, the teacher “says resorting to homeschooling is teaching your children to run from reality.”<br />
But that raises the question: Is compulsory mass schooling “reality”?<br />
Public Schools Are Consuming More and More of Kids' Time<br />
Segregating children by age into increasingly restrictive, test-driven classrooms where they are forced by law to be unless<br />
a parent or caregiver liberates them is hardly “reality.” What’s worse is that young people are spending increasingly<br />
more time in this coercive “reality” than ever before.<br />
For young children ages six to eight, schooling increased from an average of five hours a day in 1981-82 to an average of<br />
seven hours a day in 2002-03. And for today’s teens, schooling consumes much more of their time than it did for previous<br />
generations, seeping into summertime and other historically school-free periods. According to data from the U.S. Bureau<br />
of Labor Statistics, 42 percent of teens were enrolled in school during July 2016, compared to only 10 percent enrolled in<br />
July 1985.<br />
In the case of teens, spending more time in school and school-like activities may be further separating them from the<br />
actual real world in which they previously came of age. As Business Insider reports: “Almost 60% of teens in 1979 had a<br />
job, compared to 34% in 2015.” Spending more time in the contrived reality of forced schooling and less time in authentic,<br />
multi-age, productive communities may be taking its toll on today’s youth.<br />
Compulsory Mass Schooling Is Hurting Our Kids<br />
New findings from researchers at Vanderbilt University show a disturbing correlation between time in school and suicidal<br />
thoughts and attempts by young people, which have been increasing over the past decade. Whereas most adults see<br />
suicide spikes in July and August, most kids see suicide dips in summer. Children’s suicidal tendencies appear strongest<br />
during the school year.<br />
Boston College psychology professor Dr. Peter Gray believes that increasingly oppressive schooling is leading to serious<br />
psychological damage in some children. He writes on his blog at Psychology Today:<br />
Children now often spend more time at school and at homework than their parents spend at their full-time jobs, and the<br />
work of schooling is often more burdensome and stress-inducing than that of a typical adult job. A century ago we came<br />
to the conclusion that full-time child labor was child abuse, so we outlawed it; but now school is the equivalent of full-time<br />
child labor. The increased time, tedium, and stress of schooling is bringing many kids to the breaking point or beyond, and<br />
more and more people are becoming aware of that. It can no longer be believed that schooling is a benign experience for<br />
children. The evidence that it induces pathology is overwhelming.”<br />
Recent school shootings may be extreme examples of this rising school-induced pathology.<br />
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