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American Women's Club magazine Oct 2018 edition
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<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong><br />
<strong>Oct</strong>ober <strong>2018</strong><br />
The Magazine of the<br />
American Women’s Club<br />
of The Hague<br />
Denneweg 56<br />
2514CH The Hague<br />
Tel. 0703458442<br />
www.lifestylesalonthehague.nl<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> treats its Honorary Members to a<br />
luncheon.<br />
See what the Holiday Bazaar has to offer.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> kicks off the new Club year!<br />
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22<br />
26<br />
5 Officers and<br />
Chairwomen<br />
6 Volunteer and Honorary<br />
Member Luncheon<br />
8 Message from the<br />
President<br />
9 <strong>Oct</strong>ober General<br />
Meeting<br />
9 Vote!<br />
10 Letter from the Editor<br />
12 Membership and<br />
Newcomers<br />
13 Newcomer’s Coffee<br />
14 Club and Community<br />
Chair<br />
15 Ongoing Activities<br />
20 One-of-a-Kind Activities<br />
22 Holiday Bazaar<br />
26 Fall Kick Off<br />
28 <strong>Oct</strong>ober Calendar<br />
31 <strong>AWC</strong> and the Arts<br />
32 F<strong>AWC</strong>O Corner<br />
34 Recipe<br />
35 <strong>AWC</strong> Community<br />
Calendar<br />
36 Chat, Craft and Cake<br />
40 The <strong>Dutch</strong> Daily<br />
42 Adventures in Madeira<br />
47 Lunch with Girlfriends<br />
48 Announcements<br />
52 Classifieds<br />
53 Index of Advertisers<br />
and Ad Rates<br />
54 Proost! Interview<br />
OCTOBER <strong>2018</strong> 3
Editor<br />
Audrey Goodman<br />
<strong>2018</strong>-2019 <strong>AWC</strong> Officers<br />
Committee Chairs<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Johan van Oldenbarneveltlaan 43<br />
2582 NJ Den Haag<br />
Tel: 070 350 6007<br />
info@awcthehague.org<br />
www.awcthehague.org<br />
<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> Magazine<br />
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<strong>Dutch</strong> magazine not included)<br />
Add € 15 new member registration fee<br />
Design and Layout<br />
Teresa Mahoney<br />
Cover Photo<br />
Cows in Leidschendam by Melissa White<br />
Photography<br />
Mary Adams, Jane Choy, Sabine Crowley,<br />
Greetje Engelsman, F<strong>AWC</strong>O, Dena<br />
Haggerty, Teresa Insalaco, Veronica June,<br />
Suzanne MacNeil, Julie Mowat, Perspektief,<br />
Melissa Rider, Anne van Oorschot, Melissa<br />
White<br />
Proofreaders<br />
Celeste Brown, Jane Gulde, Diane Schaap,<br />
Debbie van Hees<br />
Advertising Manager & Invoicing<br />
Open<br />
Contributors<br />
Jane Choy, Susanne Dundas, Roberta<br />
Enschede, Jan Essad, Heather DeWitt, Dena<br />
Haggerty, Marsha Hagney, Eileen Harloff,<br />
Deana Kreitler, Suzanne MacNeil, Sunita<br />
Menon, Julie Mowat, Melissa Rider, Lindsay<br />
Turnau, Emily van Eerten, Melissa White<br />
Printer<br />
www.dwcprint.nl<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Bank Account Number<br />
IBAN: NL42ABNA0431421757<br />
KvK Den Haag<br />
40409274<br />
Honorary President Diane Hoekstra<br />
President Suzanne MacNeil<br />
awcthehague.president@gmail.com<br />
Vice President Marsha Hagney<br />
awcthehague.firstvp@gmail.com<br />
Treasurer Sheyla Karman<br />
awcthehague.treasurer@gmail.com<br />
Secretary Heather DeWitt & Laura Suttles<br />
awcthehague.secretary@gmail.com<br />
Club and Community Development<br />
Naya Pessoa<br />
awcthehague.community@gmail.com<br />
Clubhouse Administrator<br />
Jan Essad<br />
awcthehague.clubhousemgr@gmail.com<br />
Communications Open<br />
awcthehague.communications@gmail.com<br />
Member-at-Large<br />
Sunita Menon<br />
Front Office<br />
Liduine Bekman, Siska Datema-Kool,<br />
Dominique Duysens, Amber Gatewood,<br />
Machelle Hollar, Paula Looijmans, Melissa<br />
Rider, Robin Rose, Holly Savoie, Carol<br />
Schapira, Chelsea Wald<br />
Activities: Greetje Engelsman<br />
Arts: Jane Choy<br />
Assistant Treasurer: Teresa Insalaco<br />
Board Advisor: Jessie Rodell<br />
Caring Committee: Naomi Keip<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake: Suzanne Dundas<br />
eNews Amber Gatewood<br />
Events & Tours: Open<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O: Julie Mowat<br />
Front Office Coordinator: Open<br />
General Meeting Programs: Dena<br />
Haggerty<br />
Heart Pillow: Jan de Vries<br />
Historian/Archivist: Open<br />
Holiday Bazaar: Jaimie Keppel-Molenaar<br />
Hospitality: Open<br />
IT Administrator: Julie Otten<br />
Kids’ Club: Lindsey Turnau<br />
Library: Dena Haggerty<br />
Membership: Melissa Rider<br />
Newcomers: Holly Savoie, Greetje<br />
Engelsman<br />
Parliamentarian: Georgia Regnault<br />
Philanthropy: Holly Savoie<br />
Public Relations: Open<br />
Social Media: Ceci Wong and Julie Otten<br />
Tennis: Molly Boed<br />
Volunteer Coordinator: Laurie<br />
Martecchini<br />
Webmaster: Julie Otten<br />
Women with <strong>Dutch</strong> Partners: Loren<br />
Mealey<br />
Deadlines: Submissions are due no later than the last Monday of the month preceding the publication month.<br />
For example, for the December issue, submissions are due before Monday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 29<br />
Please Note: Articles submitted to <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> will be published subject to space limitations and editorial approval.<br />
All rights reserved; reprints only by written permission of the Editor. Please email to: goingdutchmag@<br />
gmail.com<br />
Legal Notice: Articles in <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> express the views and opinions of their authors alone, and not necessarily<br />
those of the <strong>AWC</strong> of The Hague, its Members or this publication.<br />
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<strong>AWC</strong> Mission Statement<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> is an association formed to provide social and educational activities for American<br />
women living in the Netherlands and to promote amicable relations among people of all nations,<br />
as well as acquiring funds for general public interest. Membership in the club is open<br />
to women of all nations who are friendly and welcoming to American culture. The association<br />
does not endeavor to make a profit. The <strong>AWC</strong> is a 100% volunteer organization.<br />
OCTOBER <strong>2018</strong> 5
Volunteer and Honorary Member Luncheon
Message from the President<br />
by Suzanne MacNeil<br />
<strong>Oct</strong>ober General Meeting<br />
by Dena Haggerty<br />
The new Club year is off to a rousing<br />
start! I hope you were able to take part<br />
in one (or more) of the many offerings<br />
in September, whether it was Kick Off,<br />
Prinsjesdag, watching an NDT rehearsal, or<br />
the Welcome Back BBQ. I went to most of<br />
the above and it was fun to reconnect with<br />
Members who’ve been away for the summer<br />
and the new Members who are just getting<br />
acquainted with the Club.<br />
One of the September events held in the<br />
Clubhouse was a Board and Committee Chair<br />
Luncheon. My goal was to help our great team<br />
of volunteers to put faces to names and to<br />
meet others who serve under the same Board<br />
Member. More than 20 Members joined us,<br />
including our favorite Club mascot, three-yearold<br />
Simon (Lindsey Turnau’s son), and the<br />
attendees were able to share best practices, ask<br />
questions, and get to know what’s entailed in<br />
the job of other volunteers.<br />
I did notice a few pieces missing at the luncheon,<br />
though. There are several key volunteer<br />
positions still open and I’d like you (if you’re<br />
thinking of how to become more involved) to<br />
consider jumping into the fray. And, when I say<br />
fray, it’s more like a fun fray, not a brawl, but<br />
an easy way to make the Club better.<br />
Pick one, any one of the volunteer opportunities<br />
still open, and find yourself working<br />
with the best team in The Hague! This is just<br />
a sampling:<br />
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A major missing<br />
piece is our Gala<br />
Chair. Our<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> offers<br />
social events<br />
and activities,<br />
but we also<br />
give back<br />
through our<br />
philanthropic<br />
programs. This<br />
Club year we<br />
plan to hold a<br />
gala in May.<br />
Several Members<br />
have already<br />
approached me<br />
to say they will<br />
serve on the<br />
Gala Committee.<br />
If planning<br />
and project<br />
management are<br />
your forte, please<br />
consider helping<br />
in this crucial<br />
role. If you would like more information about<br />
the position, please contact Naya Pessoa, our<br />
new Club and Community Officer. She can be<br />
reached by email at awcthehague.community@<br />
gmail.com. (To learn more about Naya, please<br />
turn to page 14.)<br />
<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong>, our monthly magazine, is<br />
self-sustaining. The ads in the magazine pay<br />
for the printing and mailing of each edition. If<br />
you have sales skills, please consider volunteering<br />
as the Advertising and Invoice Chair.<br />
This is a high-priority role that will enable<br />
<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> to continue.<br />
Have you been to Hoge Veluwe National<br />
Park in Gelderland? Did you know that<br />
Maastricht was once a Roman settlement? Or,<br />
that Waddenzee in Groningen is almost 2,500<br />
square kilometers and is home to millions of<br />
migratory birds, fish, and colonies of seals?<br />
If we had a Chair overseeing tours, she could<br />
design trips that will help us explore more of<br />
our host country.<br />
Have you got www.Kayak.com, www.<br />
Booking.com, and www.Hopper.com down to a<br />
science? We’re missing our own travel agent!<br />
The most recent major trip was several years<br />
ago to Iceland. Pick a place you’d like to visit<br />
and chances are other Members would like to<br />
join you. Many of our Members have traveled<br />
thanks to the Club and we already have information<br />
and contacts to get you started. >>39<br />
Garbage. Not the sexiest of topics but<br />
a topic everyone must deal with on<br />
a daily basis. It’s also an important<br />
method by which individuals can lend a<br />
helping hand in saving the environment.<br />
Separating waste is a part of life in The<br />
Hague. Plastic, tin, drink cartons, paper, glass,<br />
batteries… the list of items that do not belong<br />
in the household waste containers (and for<br />
which you can actually get a fine for improper<br />
disposal) is long and varied. These items are<br />
recycled into raw materials for new products<br />
such as plastic bottles, toys and car parts.<br />
Drink cartons are used to make office supplies,<br />
cardboard boxes and toilet paper. Tin/<br />
steel cans are used to make new food cans,<br />
paint cans, aerosol cans and other materials.<br />
A representative of The Hague will join us for<br />
our <strong>Oct</strong>ober meeting to discuss recycling and<br />
how separating your trash can help save the<br />
environment. She’ll discuss what items can<br />
be recycled (which plastic can be recycled)<br />
and where they should be deposited. She will<br />
also discuss the city’s adopt-a-bin program<br />
and how the municipality is aiming to make<br />
The Hague a cleaner city.<br />
Thursday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 11<br />
10:00 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Free<br />
Register NOW to vote on<br />
November 6, <strong>2018</strong>!<br />
To start the process, it is recommended that you submit a Voter<br />
Registration and Absentee Ballot Request, aka the Federal Post<br />
Card Application (FPCA), to your state election official.<br />
This should be done early in every calendar year you<br />
wish to vote, or whenever you change your address.<br />
If you voted in past elections, do not assume you<br />
will continue to receive automatic mailings or<br />
you could end up missing out on the November 6<br />
midterm elections.<br />
For more information, please visit https://fawco.overseasvotefoundation.org/vote/home.<br />
htm.<br />
Photo credit: Federal Voting Assistance Programs<br />
OCTOBER <strong>2018</strong> 9
Letter from the Editor<br />
by Audrey Goodman<br />
One of my favorite things about being<br />
an expat is sharing my adventures<br />
with family. Since arriving in the<br />
Netherlands in January, we have had the pleasure<br />
of hosting my mother- and father-in-law,<br />
my sister-in-law, and my mom.<br />
When my in-laws visited in July, we<br />
crossed quite a few things off our bucket list.<br />
We met them in Paris (first time visit for me<br />
and my husband!), where we spent several<br />
days exploring the Louvre, tasting many wonderful<br />
French desserts, strolling through the<br />
Trocadéro while gawking at the Eiffel Tower,<br />
wandering through Versailles, and enjoying a<br />
wonderful dinner on the Seine. But the highlight<br />
of our trip was the two-day adventure to<br />
the Normandy region.<br />
We hired a private guide, Mathias with<br />
D-Day Guided Tours, who made the experience<br />
absolutely perfect. He picked us up<br />
from the train station in Bayeux and took us<br />
to numerous World War II sites on the first<br />
day. Between the stops, while driving, he provided<br />
us with endless facts and stories about<br />
the war. We ended our day at an adorable bed<br />
and breakfast in Bayeux, Hôtel Tardif. The<br />
next morning, Mathias drove us to Mont Saint<br />
Michel, where he again wowed us with endless<br />
facts during our tour. It’s awe-inspiring to<br />
think such an amazing monastery was designed<br />
and built in the 11th century, without the use<br />
of modern tools and technology. It was a trip<br />
that I never thought I would have the opportunity<br />
to take.<br />
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My mom visited in August and spent two<br />
weeks exploring with me. During her time<br />
here, we took a trip to Munich and (back) to<br />
Paris. She studied in Germany when she was<br />
in high school and again in college, but was<br />
never able to visit the Neuschwanstein Castle.<br />
When I was a teenager, she and I took a trip to<br />
the Bavarian region, where we enjoyed beers<br />
for the first time together. Sadly, the castle was<br />
under renovation at that time, so we were unable<br />
to take a tour. But we made up for it this<br />
year! We took a day trip from Munich, and<br />
she was absolutely thrilled to finally visit the<br />
castle. And, of course, no visit to Munich is<br />
complete without a stop at the Hofbräuhaus,<br />
for a couple very large beers.<br />
When we went to Paris, we stayed at Hotel<br />
Muguet, just a ten-minute walk from Champ<br />
de Mars. We spent our days drinking wine,<br />
visiting the Notre Dame Cathedral, taking a<br />
tour of the King’s Apartments in Versailles,<br />
and wandering the charming streets of Paris.<br />
For her, the highlight of the trip was sitting in<br />
the park and watching the Eiffel Tour sparkle<br />
at night.<br />
It’s sad when family leaves to return to<br />
the U.S., because we know it will be awhile<br />
before we see them again. But it’s thrilling<br />
to spend time with them, enjoying European<br />
adventures that may otherwise be impossible.<br />
Whenever I’m feeling a little homesick, I just<br />
think about the experiences I’ve had since<br />
arriving in The Hague. My time as an expat<br />
will be over before I know it, so I’m taking<br />
advantage every chance I get!<br />
Audrey<br />
OCTOBER <strong>2018</strong> 11
Membership<br />
by Melissa Rider<br />
Thank you for<br />
renewing your<br />
membership to<br />
the <strong>AWC</strong> for<br />
the <strong>2018</strong>/19<br />
Club year and<br />
a warm welcome<br />
to those<br />
just joining<br />
the <strong>AWC</strong>. As<br />
an <strong>AWC</strong> Member you automatically become<br />
a Member of F<strong>AWC</strong>O (Federation of<br />
American Women’s Clubs Overseas).<br />
Welcome New Members!<br />
Theres Akesson<br />
LaTasha Baker<br />
Mary Ellen Brennan<br />
Barbara Brookman<br />
Marianne De Beer<br />
Shanon Gonzales<br />
Rachel Hines<br />
Julie Miller<br />
Lori Schnebelie<br />
Michelle Voorn<br />
More benefits of being an <strong>AWC</strong> Member<br />
include the ability to gain entry into the<br />
wholesale stores Hanos in Delft and Sligro<br />
in Leidschendam and The Hague. The<br />
American Book Center in The Hague offers<br />
a 10% discount and the Crowne Plaza<br />
Promenade offers discounted rates on their<br />
health club, spa, and other services to our<br />
Members. Please remember to bring your<br />
Membership card to these businesses.<br />
If you have any questions about your<br />
Membership, please feel free to contact me<br />
at awcthehague.membership@gmail.com.<br />
Newcomer’s Coffee<br />
Newcomers<br />
by Holly Savoie and Greetje Engelsman<br />
Are you a new <strong>AWC</strong> Member? Be sure to<br />
attend a General Meeting at the Clubhouse<br />
on the second Thursday of the month.<br />
Meetings start at 10:30 a.m., but please do<br />
stop in a bit early to meet Members, sip coffee,<br />
and get the lay of the land. Also, take<br />
advantage of the monthly events planned especially<br />
for Newcomers. If you have questions<br />
about how to navigate in your expat<br />
country, the <strong>AWC</strong> Newcomers’ team is very<br />
eager to help. Greetje Engelsman and<br />
Holly Savoie welcome your emailed questions<br />
at awcthehague.newcomers@gmail.<br />
com.<br />
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Birthdays<br />
Due to changes in European privacy laws, and because <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> will soon be posted on<br />
our external Facebook page, we won’t be sharing birthdays in print any longer. Instead, you’ll<br />
see Members’ birthdays in the weekly eNews, which is sent to your private email account<br />
and is more secure. We value our Members’ privacy. If you have any questions, please contact<br />
Melissa Rider, our Membership Coordinator, at awcthehague.membership@gmail.com.<br />
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OCTOBER <strong>2018</strong> 13
Club and Community Chair<br />
by Naya Pessoa<br />
I<br />
have been living in The Hague for seven<br />
years, and recently joined the <strong>AWC</strong>. The<br />
path that brought me to The Hague was<br />
unexpected as I was born in the city of Manaus<br />
in Brazil, and grew up in a multicultural and<br />
multilingual family in the small town of<br />
Gainesville, Florida. I completed my undergraduate<br />
degree at the University of Florida<br />
and graduated cum-laude with a Bachelor’s<br />
Degree in Political Science and Spanish. I<br />
spent time in the beautifully preserved town<br />
of Guanajuato, Mexico in order to improve<br />
my Spanish language skills. As graduation<br />
approached, my interests in human rights<br />
drove me to pursue a Juris Doctorate from<br />
New England Law Boston. During my legal<br />
studies, I was an AmeriCorps Fellow working<br />
on the immigration rights project and also<br />
volunteered at the local legal clinic providing<br />
assistance to Haitians seeking temporary protected<br />
status. I decided to take my experience<br />
global as an International Criminal Process<br />
Clinic Fellow at the ICTY in 2010. During<br />
that time, my personal life changed when I<br />
met the Spaniard who is now my husband.<br />
Upon graduation from law school, I decided<br />
to follow my heart and return to The Hague. I<br />
immediately began working at the Permanent<br />
Court of Arbitration in the Peace Palace where<br />
my work focused on Latin American commercial<br />
contract claims, investor-state claims<br />
under bilateral investment treaties, and interstate<br />
disputes. I recently made the decision to<br />
change my career path and now work at the<br />
Webster University Leiden Campus as the<br />
dedicated officer<br />
for Graduate<br />
Studies where I<br />
can embrace a<br />
healthy work-life<br />
balance.<br />
Did you know that any woman who speaks English is<br />
eligible to join the American Women’s Club?<br />
Invite your English-speaking friends, wherever they’re<br />
from, to join us today!<br />
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I have been passionately<br />
involved<br />
in volunteer<br />
work for the<br />
past 15 years, including<br />
Habitat<br />
for Humanity in<br />
the U.S. and Buddy Project for Victims of<br />
Human Trafficking in the Netherlands. Most<br />
recently, I have served as a nonprofit project<br />
manager spearheading refugee-focused<br />
projects including language workshops, access<br />
to higher education programs, active<br />
lifestyle programs, and a number of other<br />
initiatives. The most successful program,<br />
My University Cares Too, is formally part<br />
of the UN campaign to address Sustainable<br />
Development Goal 4 to “ensure inclusive<br />
and equitable quality education and promote<br />
lifelong learning opportunities for all”.<br />
My goal is to help empower others to recognize<br />
they have skills that can be shared. My<br />
aim is to contribute to the continued success<br />
of <strong>AWC</strong> projects, and also learn from fellow<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Members who bring a wealth of<br />
experience to the table. I really am honored<br />
and look forward to this new chapter with<br />
the <strong>AWC</strong>.<br />
Photo and summary credit: Amazon<br />
Ongoing Activities<br />
Book Clubs<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> Book Clubs are open to all<br />
readers, and new Members are especially<br />
welcome! There are no requirements that<br />
you must attend every meeting or lead<br />
a discussion. Snacks are provided by a<br />
different Member each month. There are<br />
two Book Clubs hosted by <strong>AWC</strong> Members:<br />
One in the daytime and one in the evening.<br />
Questions? Teresa Mahoney organizes the<br />
daytime group, and Dena Haggerty handles<br />
the evening meetings. For more information,<br />
please contact them at awcthehague.<br />
bookclub@gmail.com. Happy reading!<br />
Daytime Book Club<br />
<strong>Oct</strong>ober Selection:<br />
Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi<br />
This unforgettable New<br />
York Times best seller<br />
begins with the story of<br />
two half-sisters, separated<br />
by forces beyond<br />
their control: one sold<br />
into slavery, the other<br />
married to a British slaver.<br />
Written with tremendous sweep and<br />
power, Homegoing traces the generations<br />
of family who follow, as their destinies<br />
lead them through two continents and three<br />
hundred years of history, each life indelibly<br />
drawn, as the legacy of slavery is fully revealed<br />
in light of the present day.<br />
Thursday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 25<br />
10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Daytime Book Club Recap – August<br />
Think about post-revolutionary Russia:<br />
Bolsheviks, famine, Siberia, Stalin. Your<br />
images will hardly be gentle and charming.<br />
Yet, A Gentleman in Moscow by Amor<br />
Towles, which takes place in Russia between<br />
1922 and 1954, is gentle and charming.<br />
How does Towles do it? He confines<br />
his protagonist, a serene and genteel Russian<br />
count named Alexader Ilyich Rostov, to<br />
Daytime Book Club Reading List:<br />
Thursday, November 15: Educated: A<br />
Memoir by Tara Westover<br />
house arrest in an exclusive Moscow hotel.<br />
With one brief exception, the count spends<br />
32 years within the Metropol. Yes, Rostov is<br />
surrounded by luxury and worldly visitors<br />
but his own accommodation is a small converted<br />
storeroom. As we all must do, Rostov<br />
becomes the architect of his own life within<br />
circumstances over which he has no control.<br />
Rostov’s quest for purpose, meaning, and<br />
love in his life makes for an interesting and<br />
uplifting story. Some of us could have done<br />
without the references to classic Russian literature<br />
but others thought they helped anchor<br />
the story to place and to illuminate the<br />
Russian mindset. Recommended.<br />
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Photo and summary credit: Amazon<br />
Ongoing Activities (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 15<br />
Evening Book Club<br />
<strong>Oct</strong>ober Selection: A<br />
Long Way from Home by<br />
Peter Carey<br />
A Long Way from Home is<br />
Peter Carey’s latest style<br />
masterpiece; a thrilling<br />
high-speed story that starts<br />
in one way, then takes you<br />
to another place altogether.<br />
Set in the 1950s in the embers of the British<br />
Empire, painting a picture of the Queen and<br />
her subjects, black, white and those in-between,<br />
this brilliantly vivid novel illustrates<br />
how the possession of an ancient culture<br />
spirals through history —and the love made<br />
and hurt caused along the way.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 10<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Evening Book Club Reading List:<br />
Wednesday, November 14: A Gentleman in<br />
Moscow by Amor Towles<br />
Wednesday, December 12: The Only Story<br />
by Julian Barnes<br />
Chat, Crafts & Cake<br />
Chat, Craft and Cake is a weekly highlight<br />
for those who enjoy crafts and camaraderie.<br />
Whether your craft is knitting, quilting,<br />
needlepoint or simply mending your<br />
clothes, or whether you are a beginner or an<br />
expert, you are welcome to join us. Fish that<br />
UFO (Unfinished Object) out of the drawer<br />
and get going on it again. CCandCer’s are<br />
always ready with a helping hand, a lesson,<br />
or some advice. Each week, a different<br />
Member brings a cake—tried and true,<br />
or experimental. Babysitting is not available<br />
and there are lots of sharp objects<br />
about (pins, needles, scissors and wit) so<br />
we cannot accommodate children. Contact<br />
Suzanne Dundas at awcthehague.crafts@<br />
gmail.com for more information<br />
Every Tuesday<br />
10 a.m. – Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Heart Pillow Project<br />
Members work together to make heartshaped<br />
pillows designed to help support<br />
the arms of recent mastectomy patients.<br />
Each pillow is made with TLC, wrapped,<br />
and comes with a note signed by an <strong>AWC</strong><br />
volunteer. No sewing skills are needed,<br />
as you can cut, stuff, or wrap the heart<br />
pillows. We are proud to provide men<br />
and women with something both practical<br />
and comforting, and we know our work<br />
helps because we often receive thank-you<br />
notes and emails from the patients who<br />
have received a heart pillow. For more<br />
information, please contact Jan de Vries at<br />
awcthehague.heartpillow@gmail.com.<br />
Tuesday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 9<br />
Noon – 2 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Visitors Welcome<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch: <strong>Oct</strong>ober<br />
Restaurant De Haagsche Beek is as <strong>Dutch</strong><br />
as <strong>Dutch</strong> can be, and as Haags as The Hague<br />
can be. But for most expats, it is a hidden<br />
secret. It is time the Lunch Bunch discovers<br />
this restaurant in Kijkduin, close to the<br />
beach. The restaurant is located in a >> 18<br />
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Ongoing Activities (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 17<br />
modern building but tells you a lot about the<br />
history of the Haagsche Beek (The Hague<br />
brook). The restaurant is used by many citizens<br />
in The Hague for parties, weddings,<br />
birthdays, bridal showers, etc. But also for<br />
dinner or lunch of course: never a dull moment.<br />
The food is international, but with a<br />
Kijkduin touch. The restaurant is easy to<br />
reach by car or public transport. After signing<br />
up, you will receive a leaflet about the<br />
the Haagsche Beek and about the panorama<br />
in the dunes. It’s a piece of art on top of the<br />
dune, opposite the restaurant!<br />
Restaurant De Haagsche Beek, Machiel<br />
Vrijenhoeklan 175, Kijkduin<br />
www.dehaagschebeek.nl<br />
Friday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 26<br />
Noon – 2 p.m.<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Tennis League<br />
Players needed! The <strong>AWC</strong> Tennis Group<br />
plays doubles every Tuesday in Warmond.<br />
Ladies move up and down the courts according<br />
to a ladder tennis system. The emphasis<br />
is on having fun! The League is available<br />
for all levels except true beginners. Contact<br />
Molly Boed at mollyboed@gmail.com for<br />
more information.<br />
Every Tuesday<br />
(except specific holidays TBD)<br />
1 – 3 p.m.<br />
Dekker Tennis Courts<br />
Veerpolder 14, Warmond<br />
€ 275 Members / € 325 Nonmembers<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Thirsty Thursday<br />
Join us again for our monthly gathering.<br />
Thirsty Thursday is a casual evening of<br />
companionship and good conversation—a<br />
new favorite for <strong>AWC</strong> Members and prospective<br />
Members. Two soft drinks, wine or<br />
beer, plus tapas.<br />
Thursday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 18<br />
6 – 9 p.m.<br />
Tapisco, Kneuterdijk 11, Den Haag<br />
€ 15 for two drinks and food<br />
No RSVP needed<br />
Walkie Talkies<br />
Whether you count your steps or just want<br />
to walk with friends, the Monday morning<br />
Walkie Talkies is a fun, healthy and<br />
energetic way to start the week. The group<br />
meets in front of the Clubhouse before<br />
heading out to walk to various destinations<br />
in the area, usually racking up 10,000 steps<br />
along the way. Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
to receive email updates or contact Emily<br />
van Eerten or Greetje Engelsman at<br />
awcthehague.walkietalkies@gmail.com.<br />
Mondays<br />
9:30 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Free<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Wassenaar Coffee &<br />
Conversation<br />
If you live in or north of Wassenaar, join<br />
your neighbors for coffee and conversation<br />
once a month without having to drive to<br />
the clubhouse. One Member will host a casual<br />
coffee at her home at 9:30 on the first<br />
Thursday of every month. Prospective<br />
Members are welcome too. Suzanne<br />
Dundas coordinates these meetings and<br />
can be reached at awcthehague.crafts@<br />
gmail.com. Because the location changes<br />
every month, contact Suzanne if you are<br />
interested in attending or for more information.<br />
Thursday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 4<br />
9:30 a.m.<br />
FREE<br />
Cancellation Policy<br />
Members may reserve a spot for an <strong>AWC</strong> tour, activity or<br />
event in advance. Payment is required within five business<br />
days of the reservation or before the deadline date (whichever<br />
is sooner) otherwise your name will be moved to a waitlist.<br />
It is the responsibility of the Member to notify the Club at<br />
awcthehague.finance@gmail.com to cancel a reservation<br />
prior to the cancellation deadline. Please note that there will<br />
be NO REFUNDS (no exceptions) after the cancellation deadline.<br />
Members may find a substitute in lieu of cancellation<br />
provided that arrangements are made with the tour, activity<br />
or event organizer. Members shall be held responsible for<br />
their guest reservations in accordance with this policy.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Guest Policy<br />
Guests are welcome<br />
to participate in <strong>AWC</strong><br />
activities and tours<br />
on a limited basis.<br />
As a nonmember, a<br />
guest is limited to<br />
attend two functions<br />
per calendar year<br />
and will be charged<br />
an additional<br />
nonmember fee. Only<br />
Members are entitled<br />
to use babysitting<br />
services.<br />
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One-of-a-Kind Activities<br />
by Marsha Hagney<br />
RSVP directly on <strong>AWC</strong> GroupSpaces.com. Direct any questions to<br />
awcthehague.firstvp@gmail.com.<br />
Payment must be made within 5 calendar days of reserving or your name will be moved to<br />
a waitlist. Payment can be made in the Front Office by PIN or by bank transfer to the <strong>AWC</strong><br />
account NL42ABNA0431421757.<br />
Guided Tour of <strong>Dutch</strong> Masters<br />
from British Country Houses<br />
This autumn the Mauritshuis will feature a<br />
special exhibit of <strong>Dutch</strong> 17th-century paintings<br />
from National Trust Houses. This will<br />
be a Mauritshuis exclusive: never before<br />
has such a selection been exhibited in the<br />
Netherlands.<br />
Thursday, November 1<br />
6:00 – 7:30 p.m.<br />
Mauritshuis, Museum Plein 29<br />
Den Haag<br />
Max 15 / Minimum 12<br />
€ 10 Members (€ 15 nonmembers)<br />
Museum entrance fee of € 15.50 is not<br />
included (Entrance is free with Museum<br />
Card)<br />
Registration Deadline: <strong>Oct</strong>ober 22 (Later<br />
registration possible if space is available)<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Members, please connect with<br />
us on LinkedIn<br />
https://nl.linkedin.com/in/<br />
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awcthehague<br />
Members: eNews Distribution<br />
A weekly electronic newsletter<br />
is sent to all <strong>AWC</strong> Members.<br />
If you have not been receiving your<br />
eNews,<br />
please contact Melissa at<br />
awcthehague.membership@gmail.com.<br />
Halloween Trick-or-Treating in<br />
Voorburg<br />
We’re thrilled to be partnering with the<br />
town of Voorburg for a Halloween event<br />
this year. Join us for trick-or-treating. All<br />
are invited, including nonmembers.<br />
Saturday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 27<br />
Time TBA<br />
Location TBA<br />
FREE<br />
See eNews for details<br />
Morning Tea with Diane<br />
Hoekstra, <strong>AWC</strong> Honorary<br />
President<br />
Join us for tea, coffee and great company.<br />
Our Honorary President, Diane Hoekstra,<br />
invites <strong>AWC</strong> Members to gather at her<br />
home. Details will be sent directly to those<br />
who register, closer to the event. Please<br />
note that this event is for <strong>AWC</strong> Members<br />
only.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 24<br />
10:00 a.m. – Noon<br />
Location will be provided upon registration<br />
Max 30 / No Minimum<br />
FREE<br />
Registration Deadline: <strong>Oct</strong>ober 18<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Tour of Private Art Collection<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> and The Arts are honored to offer<br />
this very special activity. The collection<br />
you will visit is a private art space<br />
that houses a multidisciplinary collection<br />
spanning the genres of painting, sculpture,<br />
photography, installations and video. You<br />
will visit this collection in a unique building<br />
which in part is built 26 feet (8 meters)<br />
underground. It is situated close to The<br />
Hague; you will receive location information<br />
once you have signed up on Group<br />
Spaces and confirm that you will be taking<br />
part in the tour.<br />
Tuesday, November 13<br />
10:30 a.m. – Noon<br />
Location will be provided upon registration<br />
Max 22 / No Minimum<br />
€ 10 Members (€ 15 nonmembers)<br />
Registration/Cancellation Deadline:<br />
<strong>Oct</strong>ober 15<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Visit from F<strong>AWC</strong>O’s Amanda<br />
Lane<br />
Amanda Lane, Executive Director of the<br />
Collateral Repair Project, will be visiting<br />
to discuss F<strong>AWC</strong>O’s Target Project: Hope<br />
Beyond Displacement. This is a great opportunity<br />
to ask her questions and learn<br />
more about the efforts to support refugees.<br />
See the F<strong>AWC</strong>O article in last month’s<br />
<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong>, for more information.<br />
Monday, November 5<br />
10:30 a.m. – Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
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Holiday Bazaar - Come One, Come All…<br />
and Shop!<br />
by Amber Gatewood<br />
Believe it or not, the holidays are right<br />
around the bend. This means Santa and<br />
his <strong>AWC</strong> elves are in full swing preparing<br />
for our annual <strong>AWC</strong> Holiday Bazaar!<br />
On November 10 & 11 you’ll find the most<br />
unique range of gift options under one roof, as<br />
The Hilton Hotel is transformed into a winter<br />
wonderland. From baked goods to paintings<br />
to textiles to beer and wine, there is something<br />
for everyone. You’ll also have the opportunity<br />
to support several of our own Members who<br />
will be selling their goods.<br />
Let your senses carry you by the Aromatique<br />
Shop. You’ll find a selection of candles, wax<br />
melts and reed diffusers to satisfy all your<br />
fragrance needs. (www.aromatiqueshop.com)<br />
Are you enthusiastic about vintage finds?<br />
Atelier34bc brings flea market discoveries to<br />
life and transforms them into revitalized interior<br />
furnishings. (www.atelier34bc.com)<br />
Need something with some <strong>Dutch</strong> flare?<br />
Check out a Bazaar favorite, Alexandra<br />
Breeze Ceramics, and her line of imprinted<br />
porcelain Amsterdam canal houses. Each<br />
piece has its own unique character. (www.alexandrabreezeceramics.nl)<br />
The variety doesn’t stop here. Make your list<br />
and check it twice: the <strong>AWC</strong> Holiday Bazaar<br />
is coming to town!<br />
Hilton Hotel, Zeestraat 35, Den Haag<br />
Saturday, November 10<br />
11 a.m. – 6 p.m.<br />
Sunday, November 11<br />
11 a.m. – 5 p.m.<br />
Entry: € 2 Adults / Children Free<br />
Kid’s Corner: € 5 per Child<br />
A friend or family member must be with<br />
your child, so bring your spouse, partner, or<br />
friends, and take turns shopping!<br />
Bake for the Bazaar<br />
by Cathleen Owens<br />
The days are getting shorter, which means<br />
it’s almost time to show off those baking<br />
skills! Break out those recipes for your famous<br />
cookies, brownies, or pies (non-perishable).<br />
If baking isn’t in your repertoire,<br />
or you prefer savory treats, why not stir up<br />
spicy cashews or marinated olives? Your<br />
baked goods give our guests the energy to<br />
shop ‘til they drop!<br />
The Holiday Bazaar is taking place this year<br />
at the Hilton Hotel on November 10 and<br />
11. Baked goods drop off takes place at the<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse on Friday, November 9.<br />
Sign up to donate your baked goods by filling<br />
out the form at http://bit.do/bazaarbakesale.<br />
You will be contacted closer to the date to<br />
confirm. If you have any specific questions,<br />
feel free to email hol.baz@gmail.com.<br />
To volunteer for the Bake Sale, contact<br />
Laurie Martecchini at awcthehague.<br />
volunteercoord@gmail.com.<br />
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We Need Your Hands at the Holiday Bazaar<br />
by Jaimie Keppel<br />
Calling all hands ... and bodies and smiles!<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> annual Holiday Bazaar is one<br />
of our major fundraising activities. It’s<br />
also a lot of fun. Volunteers are needed for<br />
both Saturday, November 10 and Sunday,<br />
November 11. There are two shifts each<br />
day: 11a.m. – 2 p.m., and 2 p.m. – close. For<br />
most shifts, we pair an experienced Member<br />
with someone new to the Bazaar. There are<br />
plenty of areas in which to volunteer:<br />
• Entry Table: Welcome visitors and sell<br />
entry tickets<br />
• Floor Monitors: Help as needed<br />
• Bake Sale: See Cathleen’s article on<br />
page 23 for details<br />
• Raffle Table: Sell raffle tickets and<br />
highlight all the wonderful donations<br />
• Payment Tables: Accept payment for<br />
goods using a PIN machine and tallying<br />
funds received. No prior experience<br />
needed, just a comfort with taking payments.<br />
• Kids’ Corner: See Holly’s article below.<br />
Will you come and help? Please contact our<br />
Volunteer Organizer, Laurie Martecchini:<br />
awcthehague.volunteercoord@gmail.com.<br />
Help Share Christmas Fun at the Kid’s Corner<br />
by Holly Savoie<br />
Do you enjoy crafts or working with<br />
children? Then this is for you! The Kid’s<br />
Corner is a dedicated play space with<br />
activities run by <strong>AWC</strong> volunteers. All the<br />
activities and crafts will be planned and<br />
organized ahead of time. The children will<br />
be accompanied by a parent or family friend<br />
during their time in the Kid’s Corner.<br />
Saturday, November 10<br />
Sunday, November 11<br />
Shifts: Noon – 3 p.m. & 3 – 6 p.m.<br />
(2 adults per shift)<br />
To volunteer, please contact Holly Savoie<br />
ASAP, at awcthehague.kidsclub@gmail.<br />
com.<br />
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Fall Kick<br />
Off
<strong>Oct</strong>ober <strong>2018</strong><br />
Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat<br />
1<br />
2<br />
3 4<br />
5 6<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Crafts & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
Wassenaar Coffee and<br />
Conversation 9:30 a.m.<br />
7 8<br />
9<br />
10<br />
11<br />
12<br />
13<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Crafts & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
Heart Pillow Workshop<br />
Noon<br />
Coffee 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>Oct</strong>ober General Meeting<br />
10:30 a.m.<br />
Buddy Check 12<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
Evening Book Club<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
14 15<br />
16<br />
17 18<br />
19<br />
20<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Crafts & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Board Meeting<br />
9:30 a.m.<br />
Thirsty Thursday 6 p.m.<br />
21 22<br />
23<br />
24<br />
25<br />
26<br />
27<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Crafts & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
Morning Tea with Diane<br />
Hoekstra, Honorary<br />
President 10 a.m.<br />
Daytime Book Club 10 a.m.<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch Noon<br />
Halloween Trick-or-Treating<br />
in Voorburg TBA<br />
28 29<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
30<br />
Chat, Crafts & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
31<br />
Upcoming:<br />
Holiday Bazaar - November 10 – 11<br />
Thanksgiving in Leiden - November 22<br />
Jewelry/Pearl Party - December 6<br />
Christmas Lunch - December 14<br />
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<strong>AWC</strong> and the Arts<br />
by Jane Choy, <strong>AWC</strong> Member and Mauritshuis Docent<br />
Tour of Private Art Collection<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> and The Arts are honored to offer<br />
this very special activity. The collection<br />
you will visit is a private art space<br />
that houses a multidisciplinary collection<br />
spanning the genres of painting, sculpture,<br />
photography, installations and video. You<br />
will visit this collection in a unique building<br />
which in part is built 26 feet (8 meters)<br />
underground. It is situated close to The<br />
Hague; you will receive location information<br />
once you have signed up on Group<br />
Spaces and confirm that you will be taking<br />
part in the tour.<br />
Tuesday, November 13<br />
10:30 a.m. – Noon<br />
Location will be provided upon registration<br />
Max 22 / No Minimum<br />
€ 10 Members / € 15 Nonmembers<br />
Registration/Cancellation deadline:<br />
<strong>Oct</strong>ober 15<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
RSVP for all Arts Activities directly on<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> GroupSpaces.com<br />
Direct any questions to jechoy@me.com<br />
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F<strong>AWC</strong>O Corner<br />
by Julie Mowat, <strong>AWC</strong> The Hague F<strong>AWC</strong>O Representative<br />
Federation of American Women’s Clubs Overseas, a United Nations NGO with<br />
consultative status with the UN Economic and Social Council<br />
www.fawco.org.<br />
This year, our Club sponsored a<br />
Development Grant, naming it the <strong>AWC</strong><br />
The Hague Creating Better Futures.<br />
Recipient: Kitchen for Rural Kenyan<br />
Catering Program<br />
Location: Chepkanga, Kenya<br />
Nominating Club: AAWE Paris<br />
Purpose of the Grant: Grant funding will<br />
go to Rafiki Ya Maisha, an NGO that raises<br />
money for two schools in Kenya. The funds<br />
will be used to construct a teaching kitchen<br />
at Sergoek Vocational Training Center in<br />
Chepkanga to help improve professionalism,<br />
as well as the self-esteem of the students.<br />
Wonderful way for our Club to make<br />
a difference again!<br />
Curious to learn about F<strong>AWC</strong>O? Contact<br />
Julie Mowat or Terri Mahoney<br />
(awcthehague.fawco@gmail.com) to learn<br />
more!<br />
On November 5, Amanda Lane, Executive<br />
Director of the Collateral Repair Project<br />
(CRP), will be visiting to discuss our<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O Target Project: Hope Beyond<br />
Displacement. (Teaser: we will have the<br />
Helping Hands Fundraiser for them on<br />
February 21.) Even if you attended Celeste’s<br />
and my dinner discussion about our Jordan<br />
trip, you will still find this session informative.<br />
This is a great opportunity to ask<br />
Amanda questions and learn more about the<br />
efforts to support refugees.<br />
Monday, November 5<br />
10:30 a.m. – Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O’s Biennial Conference will be<br />
hosted by <strong>AWC</strong> of Central Scotland in<br />
Edinburgh. Mark your calendars for this<br />
major conference, Thursday, March 21<br />
through Sunday, March 24. Many of us<br />
from this Club will be attending. Scotland<br />
is not too far away (last one was in India),<br />
so it is a great opportunity to see what<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O is about and hear some great<br />
speakers. More information to follow in<br />
the near future.<br />
We are in Region 4, but are invited to other<br />
regions’ meetings. Region 5 will be in<br />
Heidelberg November 9 through 11, for<br />
an opportunity to get to know the newest<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O member club. International<br />
Women’s Club Heidelberg is a brand-new<br />
club and looks forward to welcoming<br />
you. This Regional Meeting will throw<br />
out watches and give ample time to connect,<br />
chat, help, support, understand and,<br />
of course, inspire. Please check out www.<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O.org or reach out to me if you have<br />
any questions.<br />
Did you know as a Member of this Club<br />
you and your family are eligible to apply<br />
for an Educational Grant? Did you also<br />
know that you can nominate your favorite<br />
nonprofit for a Development Grant? Several<br />
of our Members and their families have<br />
received one. There are several different<br />
catagories and it can be well worth your<br />
time! Member Michelle Oliel’s Pillow<br />
Project with Stahili was awarded a grant<br />
this spring and this amazing program has<br />
already started making a difference. Please<br />
check out fawcofoundation.org for further<br />
information.<br />
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A Retrospective of Past <strong>Oct</strong>ober Covers<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Community Calendar –<br />
Fall <strong>2018</strong><br />
Philanthropy is a large part of what the<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> does for our community, and this<br />
fall we will again ask you to open your<br />
hearts for Children’s Gift & Clothing Drive<br />
and the Toiletry Drive. Your donations mean<br />
so much to the families who receive them,<br />
and even the smallest gift can go a long way<br />
in the eyes of a child. For those of you who<br />
have contributed in the past, many thanks for<br />
your kindness! And for those considering a<br />
contribution this year, please know the organizations<br />
to whom we donate always deeply<br />
appreciate anything you can give.<br />
Toiletries Donations<br />
Collection of toiletries:<br />
Thursday, November 1 through Tuesday,<br />
November 27<br />
Package toiletries:<br />
Thursday, November 29 (time TBA)<br />
Toiletries drop-off:<br />
Monday, December 3<br />
Holiday Bazaar<br />
Saturday, November 10 (11 a.m. – 6 p.m.)<br />
Sunday, November 11 (11 a.m. – 5 p.m.)<br />
Children’s Gifts & Clothes<br />
Collection of tagged gifts:<br />
Thursday, November 1 through Tuesday,<br />
November 27<br />
Wrap gifts and clothes:<br />
Thursday, November 29 (time TBA)<br />
Gift drop-off: Monday, December 3<br />
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OCTOBER <strong>2018</strong> 35
Chat, Craft and Cake: The Crafts<br />
(Part Two of a Two-Part Series)<br />
by Suzanne Dundas<br />
Quilting<br />
Most <strong>AWC</strong> Members think “quilting”<br />
when they think of CCandC because quilting<br />
is our most visible handwork. It’s hard<br />
to sneak into the Clubhouse unnoticed with<br />
a queen-size quilt tucked under your arm.<br />
Some of our quilts are for charity. CCandC<br />
as a group have made and donated quilts<br />
to be auctioned off for our local causes.<br />
Anja Knoop and Agatha Zwaan made an<br />
“Arkansas Crossroads” quilt out of scraps<br />
left over from the Heart Pillows Project. It<br />
was destined to be auctioned off but was<br />
so beautiful that Sonja Kelle bought it outright.<br />
The money raised was used to buy a<br />
dedicated sewing machine and more fabric<br />
for Heart Pillows.<br />
Every year CCandC quilters contribute<br />
squares to be incorporated into a F<strong>AWC</strong>O<br />
quilt. Since 1996, Roberta Zollner of the<br />
Munich International Woman’s Club has<br />
sewn together donated blocks to make 24<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O quilts. Auctioned off at F<strong>AWC</strong>O<br />
conferences, these quilts have raised approximately<br />
$75,000. This year we’re<br />
making a simple “bookcase” block. If<br />
you’d like to make one, contact me and I’ll<br />
send you the instructions.<br />
We have some very experienced quilters<br />
among us. Beverly Bennett is experienced<br />
in all forms of quilting and is amazingly<br />
prolific. In fact, one of our outings was to<br />
see Beverley’s quilt-filled home and her<br />
well-appointed quilting room. She keeps<br />
abreast of what experts are doing in terms<br />
of quilt and fabric design and has had a pattern<br />
of one of her own designs published.<br />
Beverley is a geologist by training and her<br />
quilts are crafted with scientific precision.<br />
As a quilting teacher herself, Beverley<br />
keeps current, taking classes at quilting<br />
shows and online via such sites as<br />
www.craftsy.com. She and I met in a<br />
2008 appliqué class at Quilter’s Palet on<br />
Weissenbruchtstraat in Den Haag.<br />
The instructor was the internationally renowned<br />
quilting superstar, Ted Storm, who<br />
lives in Monster. Lifelong learners, most<br />
CCandC members relish a class that teaches<br />
them either a new technique in their craft<br />
of choice or an entirely new craft.<br />
Agatha Zwaan’s speciality is appliqué<br />
and she turns out three-dimensional blocks<br />
of great intricacy and beauty. Agatha also<br />
has a very large sewing machine, called a<br />
long-arm machine. About ten feet (three<br />
meters) long, it is used to machine quilt<br />
entire quilts. Agatha has an empowering<br />
saying that comforts me when I am struggling<br />
with a quilt. “You are the boss of your<br />
fabric.”<br />
My goal for my quilts is warmth and washability.<br />
No one will ever make a pattern of<br />
the quilt I’m currently designing and working<br />
on (A Tribute to My Dogs), but I enjoy<br />
the process. My dogs, already spoiled, now<br />
strut through the park like runway models.<br />
Susan Baragwanath is not a quilter herself<br />
but an expert nonetheless. Susan is an extremely<br />
knowledgeable collector of historical<br />
quilts. She is currently a long-distance<br />
curator of an exhibit of her own quilts to be<br />
shown in New Zealand in 2019. It’s called<br />
Conversations with the Quilts and features<br />
many fascinating antique American quilts<br />
along with their histories. If we ask nicely<br />
and often enough, Susan may be willing<br />
to speak on this topic at an <strong>AWC</strong> General<br />
Meeting.<br />
Cross Stitch<br />
Dory Ritchie can cross-stitch anything,<br />
including a “medieval” box. Her latest<br />
project, a mermaid, gleamed with golden<br />
thread and beads throughout.<br />
Dory is currently working on her second<br />
mystery stitch-along. Every month for a<br />
year, instructions are downloaded onto<br />
http://linenandthreads.com/mysterysampler-stitch-a-long.<br />
Each part to be<br />
completed before the next part is available.<br />
You don’t know what the finished project<br />
will look like until it is done. It’s free and it’s<br />
fun for the 10,000 participants worldwide.<br />
There are similar monthly mystery projects<br />
for quilts, called “Block of the Month” .<br />
Knitting<br />
We have a lot of knitters—Sonja Kelle,<br />
Elaine Pimm, Gabrielle van der Winden,<br />
Hilde Hatlestad Volle—who turn gorgeous<br />
yarns into wearable art. It’s amazing<br />
to see how they can hold up a piece of knitting<br />
and, working without a pattern, modify<br />
the fit, change the sleeves, or add an intricate<br />
border. >> 38<br />
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OCTOBER <strong>2018</strong> 37
Chat, Craft and Cake (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 37<br />
Message from the President (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 8<br />
Eileen Baker, who has repatriated to<br />
Colorado, is also a superb knitter. I had the<br />
good fortune to win a set of her famous fingerless<br />
gloves and a scarf at an <strong>AWC</strong> auction<br />
one year. She is also extremely knowledgeable<br />
about wools, especially handspun<br />
wools. The patinaed wooden spinning wheel<br />
that stood in her dining room was not a conversation<br />
piece. It was well used.<br />
Sewing<br />
Yes, we sew. Susan Baragwanath and<br />
Loren Mealey maintain, mend, and modify<br />
their clothing, often with advice from<br />
Anja Knoop, who has been sewing her own<br />
clothing since she was a young girl. Anja is<br />
so skilled at sewing that she has been known<br />
to make her own, very intricate bras.<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> women of a certain age learned to<br />
sew, and sew very well, at school. Dory<br />
brought in a charming yellow cotton dress<br />
for a young girl, beautifully detailed and<br />
sewn by hand.<br />
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Gabrielle van der Winden, our Jill of all<br />
Trades, also sews, her latest creation being<br />
a Tory Birch inspired summer dress with<br />
long sleeves and an embellished neckline.<br />
Gabrielle also dyes silk scarves and sews<br />
elegant cushions.<br />
Miscellany<br />
At any given time, CCandC’s table can<br />
be laden with needlepoint destined to be a<br />
pillow, green rope being crocheted into a<br />
purse, or family photographs—hard copies<br />
being arranged in an album or virtual ones<br />
being organized onto a laptop.<br />
Once or twice, an adult coloring book has<br />
made an appearance. That makes sense.<br />
Though they yield nothing wearable or usable,<br />
adult coloring books distill the soothing<br />
repetition of handwork into its purest<br />
form. Creativity can take many forms and<br />
operate at many skill levels. Chat, Craft<br />
and Cake welcomes them all.<br />
Interested in history? Specifically, the<br />
Club’s history, dating back to 1930? The<br />
Historian/Archivist Chair is available.<br />
Preserving almost 90 years of history was<br />
started by a Member who recently repatriated,<br />
so this isn’t a start-from-scratch job.<br />
Our <strong>AWC</strong> offers numerous opportunities to<br />
use our skill sets in significant ways, whether<br />
you chair a committee or join other Members<br />
for the events and activities we offer. One of<br />
the most significant ways we can reduce the<br />
stress of moving to a new country and putting<br />
our own career on-hold (for those of us who<br />
were employed outside the home) is helping<br />
one another realize we are significant, no matter<br />
the role we play within our family, at a job,<br />
within the Club, or with friends.<br />
I subscribe to a number of expat Facebook<br />
pages. Some posts are funny, some members<br />
ask advice, while other posts are written by<br />
expats who need a boost because they’re experiencing<br />
loneliness, miss their home country<br />
comforts, and are looking for a way to enjoy the<br />
expat experience without self-imposed guilt.<br />
One recent post caught my attention. It was<br />
written by a woman who had been floundering,<br />
having given up her long-time career to follow<br />
her husband to a country that didn’t offer her<br />
the opportunity to continue working in her<br />
field. She found workarounds and is building<br />
her new life piece-by-piece through her volunteer<br />
work. In her post, she wrote that she’s gone<br />
from success to significance. For many of the<br />
Members of our American Women’s Club, this<br />
is what we’re doing. We are all significant and<br />
have much to offer one another.<br />
We are continuing the Membership drive<br />
that was started last Club year. More than<br />
five new Members joined the day of Kick Off<br />
and more say they will soon become part of<br />
our <strong>AWC</strong>. And we welcome them with open<br />
arms! It’s important that we keep welcoming<br />
new Members as the expat community<br />
in The Hague and nearby communities is<br />
constantly shifting, and with that shift, we<br />
sometimes lose Members who repatriate or<br />
leave for personal reasons. One such recent<br />
loss is Rebecca Niles-Pourier who served<br />
on the Board as our Communications Officer.<br />
We wish her well.<br />
As you can see, it’s a bit of a chess game<br />
to maintain our numbers, but we have so<br />
much to offer women who are looking for<br />
their home away from home. Whether you<br />
hear someone speaking English at your<br />
neighborhood Albert Heijn, or read a post<br />
on a local Facebook page written by a<br />
woman who wants to meet other expats,<br />
please reach out and let her know that our<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> offers many possibilities for interesting<br />
and unique experiences. I truly believe<br />
the warm welcome new Members receive<br />
from our amazing group of women is what<br />
separates our Club from all other organizations.<br />
Thanks to everyone for all you do to<br />
make our <strong>AWC</strong> special and for making each<br />
and every Member feel significant.<br />
Tot ziens,<br />
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OCTOBER <strong>2018</strong> 39
The <strong>Dutch</strong> Daily<br />
by Eileen Harloff<br />
Broken Record<br />
One of the complaints that are often made<br />
by visitors, temporary citizens and nativeborn<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> people themselves has to do<br />
with the weather here, especially the summer<br />
weather—the sun never shines, it is<br />
cold, it’s always raining, etc. This is the reason<br />
that once vacation days come around,<br />
the airports and the roads are overcrowded<br />
with people escaping to the south and east,<br />
to the sun. This year, however, there was a<br />
turn-about: the country experienced the longest<br />
ever period—since records have been<br />
kept beginning in 1901—of warm, sunny<br />
weather. One day it was even so hot that<br />
people didn’t want to go to the beach and<br />
bask in the sun. The previous record of 53<br />
days in a row occurred in 2003. In fact, the<br />
<strong>2018</strong> record may even be higher by the end<br />
of the summer, we shall have to wait and<br />
see. So if you were here for only the beginning,<br />
the end, or the whole summer period,<br />
you have experienced a rare phenomenon<br />
that may never happen again, or may instead,<br />
according to the environmentalists,<br />
be the weather of the future.<br />
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Another Record<br />
Near the end of summer each year, Stichting<br />
De Noordzee (North Sea Foundation) carries<br />
out a clean-up day by volunteers of<br />
the beaches from Schiermonnikoog in the<br />
north to Cadzand in the south, with local<br />
groups each covering some 10 kilometers.<br />
The purpose of the clean-up, aside from<br />
beautifying the beaches, is to see how much<br />
trash is left, as all trash eventually ends up<br />
in the North Sea where it becomes part of<br />
the “plastic soup”. Not only is the soup unsightly,<br />
it is also the cause of death for many<br />
sea animals. This year, the 125 volunteers<br />
from The Hague area were asked to focus<br />
especially on cigarette butts, as these tend<br />
to remain on land and are often mistaken as<br />
food by birds. The findings were amazing—<br />
between the Hook of Holland and Monster<br />
(The Hague’s neighbor to the south), 14,696<br />
cigarette filters were found, or 184 filters per<br />
100 meters of beach. Add to this the findings<br />
of another organization with a similar aim,<br />
TrashUre Hunt, whose volunteers cleared<br />
up 31,712 cigarette filters from the beach<br />
at Scheveningen last year, and the danger<br />
is clear. Filter cigarette butts are the worst<br />
of all beach trash as they account for 95%<br />
of cellulose acetate plastic, which takes two<br />
years to deteriorate. There is a lesson to be<br />
learned from these clean-ups. If one insists<br />
on smoking, don’t throw your butts away,<br />
put them in a container for trash. But most<br />
of all, just stop smoking—our air will be<br />
purer and your breathing will be easier.<br />
Windmills in the Limelight<br />
Who hasn’t seen or heard about windmills<br />
in the Netherlands? There are 1,200<br />
of them: 397 are for drainage purposes as<br />
26% of the country lies below sea level,<br />
594 are industrial and corn mills, and the<br />
others, in my view, are there to pretty-up<br />
the landscape. The most famous group of<br />
windmills is at Kinderdijk, where 19 rise<br />
above the flat landscape and are so remarkable<br />
that they are on the UNESCO World<br />
Heritage list. But windmills don’t just work<br />
on their own volition. They have molenaars<br />
or millers who maintain and run them, and<br />
these important people have now also been<br />
added to UNESCO’s Cultural Heritage List,<br />
describing this as “a splendid trade that is<br />
through and through interwoven with the<br />
Netherlands culture”. At present there are<br />
50 professional millers and hundreds of<br />
volunteers who are keeping the <strong>Dutch</strong> mills<br />
turning.<br />
Historical Exhibition<br />
Across the street from the Mauritshuis is The<br />
Hague Historical Museum, where an exhibition<br />
devoted to the life and times of Johan<br />
van Oldenbarnevelt (1574 – 1619) will open<br />
on December 1. This man rose from a modest<br />
background to become the most powerful<br />
person in the country. He lived in turbulent<br />
times, with the Netherlands rebelling<br />
against and breaking away from Spain, the<br />
murder of William of Orange, the country’s<br />
so-called ”Father”, and giving support, advice<br />
and encouragement to his son and successor,<br />
Maurits. The two worked together in<br />
harmony for several years, but eventually<br />
fell out over state and religious matters, with<br />
the result that Maurits and his followers accused<br />
van Oldenbarnevelt of high treason,<br />
which ended in a public beheading on the<br />
Buitenhof in The Hague on May 13, 1619.<br />
This is the first ever exhibition held on this<br />
historic figure and is named “Johan van<br />
Oldenbarnevelt, Man, Power and Murder”.<br />
Aside from an historical interest in this figure,<br />
Club Members may want to know more<br />
about the person for whom the street on<br />
which the Clubhouse stands is named.<br />
In Short<br />
• According to a German institute for economic<br />
research, the Netherlands has the<br />
fairest income distribution in Europe.<br />
Next in line are Finland and Norway, with<br />
Lithuania, Italy and Romania showing the<br />
least fair distribution of income among<br />
their citizens.<br />
• By the end of this year, smoking will be<br />
forbidden in all Paris parks, following the<br />
example of Strasbourg, which initiated<br />
the ban on July 1. The reasoning behind<br />
this decision is that parks are the lungs of<br />
the city and that citizens must be given the<br />
cleanest possible air to breathe. Moreover,<br />
each year some 350,000 kilos of cigarette<br />
butts are swept off public property;<br />
last year fines of € 68 each were issued<br />
to 21,000 people for discarding butts in<br />
parks and on the streets. Also, since 2015<br />
smoking has been forbidden in the vicinity<br />
of all children’s play areas.<br />
• In an effort to attract entrepreneurs and<br />
institutions with ingenious and doable<br />
innovations, the City of The Hague has<br />
laid out a 100 x100 sea mile experimental<br />
garden outside the Scheveningen Harbor.<br />
Experiments can be carried out, new ideas<br />
tested and demonstrations held. These<br />
experiments will deal with sailing, boats,<br />
water sports and technology that can detect<br />
drowned victims.<br />
• The headlines read that 1 out of 5<br />
Netherlanders between the ages of 18<br />
and 34 suffers from serious mental complaints,<br />
which can lead to a burn-out.<br />
The cause? The smartphone. From tests<br />
it was found that 80% of those questioned<br />
took their telephones to bed with<br />
them, with the result being that they fell<br />
asleep later than intended, and 5% even<br />
set their phone alarm so as to wake up in<br />
the middle of the night to check for any<br />
new messages so that they would not miss<br />
what was going on in their social and/or<br />
work environment. Facebook, Instagram,<br />
Twitter, etc., all lead to distress. The test<br />
sample revealed that 17% of those questioned<br />
felt they were acting badly if they<br />
did not immediately respond to a call or<br />
message.<br />
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Adventures in Madeira<br />
by Melissa White<br />
I<br />
must admit that I have always been geographically<br />
challenged. When an <strong>AWC</strong><br />
Member first mentioned years ago that<br />
she thought my family would love Madeira,<br />
I had no idea what she was talking about, as<br />
the only Madeira I had ever heard of was a<br />
type of wine. More recently, Jan Essad came<br />
back from Madeira raving about it and said<br />
that she thought it was a perfect vacation<br />
spot for my adventurous family. The timing<br />
of her recommendation was ideal, as I had<br />
just begun to investigate options of where<br />
to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary.<br />
Rather than a romantic holiday for two, we<br />
brought along our two daughters, Veronica<br />
and Ashlynn, to celebrate their 21st and 18th<br />
birthdays, respectively.<br />
Madeira is an autonomous region of<br />
Portugal, located 620 miles (1,000 kilometers)<br />
southwest of Portugal. It was founded<br />
by Portuguese mariner Joao Goncalves Zarco<br />
in 1418 and became autonomous in 1976.<br />
Nearly half of the island’s 280,000 inhabitants<br />
live in the capital city of Funchal, named<br />
by the first settlers due to an abundance of<br />
wild fennel. Formed on top of a volcano, the<br />
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terrain is very rugged and hilly, forming one<br />
of Europe’s highest sea cliffs: Cabo Girao at<br />
1,932 feet (589 meters). With a subtropical<br />
climate, the island is like a vast garden with<br />
incredible plant diversity.<br />
When researching our travel plans, I was<br />
happy to see that Transavia had very affordable<br />
flights to Madeira. However, their return<br />
flights were over twice as expensive. Luckily<br />
TapPortugal’s fare was more reasonable for<br />
our return and I was happy to learn that they<br />
offer free layovers in either Lisbon or Porto.<br />
Thus, we were able to add a two-night stay<br />
in Lisbon for less than the Transavia flight<br />
would have cost, even after considering the<br />
cost of our additional accommodation.<br />
While I was originally determined to rent<br />
a villa with a private pool for an entire week,<br />
I had to compromise with just four nights<br />
in Arco do Calheta in the western part of<br />
the island, and an apartment in Funchal for<br />
the remaining three nights. Although I was<br />
initially disappointed, these arrangements<br />
turned out to be a blessing in disguise as it<br />
allowed us two entirely different experiences<br />
during our stay.<br />
We began our adventures after leaving<br />
the airport. Since we couldn’t check into our<br />
apartment until the afternoon, we had several<br />
hours to kill. James asked the rental car<br />
agent if she had any suggestions of places<br />
that would be easy for us to park and she suggested<br />
that we head to Garajau to see Christo<br />
Rei (Christ the King), a 49-foot (15-meter)<br />
statue built in 1927. The views from the top<br />
of the cliff were incredible. After our short<br />
hike, we hopped on the cable car down to<br />
the beach. What we assumed would just be<br />
a snack bar at the bottom turned out to be<br />
a nice café with a lovely terrace. It was the<br />
perfect way to start our trip. Although there<br />
are a few black-sand beaches on the island,<br />
Garajau Beach consists of grey pebbles and<br />
black basalt stones, but that didn’t stop our<br />
daughters from swimming and sunbathing.<br />
Our apartment in Funchal was exactly as<br />
advertised on www.booking.com with amazing<br />
views of the hills and the ocean from<br />
every room and an incredible rooftop terrace<br />
where we ate many of our meals. It was in a<br />
great location within easy walking distance<br />
of the old town, so we had no need for the<br />
car. We thoroughly enjoyed wandering >> 44<br />
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Adventures in Madeira (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 43<br />
the small streets and alleyways of what we<br />
affectionately nicknamed Funky Town. The<br />
Painted Doors Project in the old town has<br />
transformed that neighborhood into an openair<br />
art gallery.<br />
We had planned to go up the mountain<br />
via cable car to the village of Monte to take<br />
the carrinhos (wacky wood and wicker sleds)<br />
pulled by two guides in traditional costumes<br />
down the mountain, but we never managed<br />
to get our timing right. James and Ashlynn<br />
also hoped to go scuba diving, but had failed<br />
to book in advance and were turned away<br />
when they arrived at the dive center. Luckily,<br />
we did manage to fulfill one of our biggest<br />
desires: whale and dolphin watching. Our<br />
two-hour sea safari on a semi-rigid boat was<br />
incredible! While there were no whales to<br />
be seen, we saw dolphins in three locations.<br />
At the last, James and the girls got in the<br />
water, held onto a rope and were dragged<br />
along so that they could “swim” with the<br />
Atlantic Spotted Dolphins. When three dolphins<br />
swam right along beside her, Ashlynn<br />
forgot that she was human and nearly forgot<br />
to lift her head to breathe.<br />
Often island prices seem very inflated, so<br />
we were surprised that the grocery store at the<br />
modern shopping center within a short walk<br />
of our flat was cheaper than <strong>Dutch</strong> stores. We<br />
became quickly addicted to the local bread:<br />
bolo do caco, which is made with sweet potatoes<br />
and is cooked over a stove or stone rather<br />
than in an oven because of a medieval ban<br />
on using ovens without paying an extra tax.<br />
Restaurant prices were also very reasonable,<br />
which was another pleasant surprise.<br />
Driving in Madeira is not for the faint of<br />
heart. While I am not afraid of speed, I am a<br />
wimp when it comes to mountain roads, so I<br />
opted to sit in the backseat and let Ashlynn<br />
play navigator. The drive to Funchal wasn’t<br />
too scary, but the drive to our villa was rather<br />
hair-raising. Much of the journey was on<br />
the main road around the island which went<br />
through a series of tunnels built to keep the<br />
road relatively flat. However, once off that<br />
road we encountered a series of incredibly<br />
steep switchbacks. Although there was always<br />
a guardrail, I still found the roads terrifying.<br />
Luckily James doesn’t share my fears<br />
and drove with confidence. Once he perhaps<br />
had too much confidence as he attempted to<br />
drive up a road with a warning sign about a<br />
32% grade. As he neared the crest, he realized<br />
that he wasn’t going to make it. Luckily<br />
there was no one behind us and he was able<br />
to back into a driveway to turn around.<br />
For our anniversary, we piled into the<br />
car and drove further up into the hills so<br />
we could hike to an incredible lagoon and<br />
an impressive waterfall. Most of Madeira’s<br />
hiking trails are narrow paths built alongside<br />
levadas, stone irrigation canals dating back to<br />
the 16th century used to carry surplus water<br />
from the wet northwest of the island to the<br />
more arid parts. The path to the levada itself<br />
was quite steep, but most of the route was<br />
quite flat and easy going.<br />
After our hike, we continued to drive<br />
up and over the island to make our way to<br />
the northwest town of Porto Moniz. I kept<br />
my eyes closed for much of the journey, but<br />
the views coming down into the town were<br />
breathtaking. Our destination was the natural<br />
swimming pools formed by the volcanic<br />
rock along the rugged coastline. There was<br />
a nominal entry fee for what proved to be an<br />
excellent way to spend a few hours. Once<br />
back at the villa, the girls made us a lovely<br />
three-course anniversary dinner. >> 46<br />
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Adventures in Madeira (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 45<br />
Lunch With Girlfriends<br />
by Kathy O’Malley (submitted by Rebecca Failor)<br />
For one last adventure, James and the<br />
girls went diving. I also know how to scuba<br />
dive, but prefer diving in warmer water. I<br />
entertained myself by walking up the steep<br />
roads to the modern art museum, followed<br />
by reading in a café until their return. Our<br />
final day was spent just hanging out at the<br />
villa, which was relaxing and a wonderful<br />
end to our week. As Jan had said, Madeira<br />
was perfect for our family. Perhaps it is for<br />
yours as well?<br />
Elaine’s vertigo has never been worse<br />
Kay can’t recall where she left her purse<br />
Rhonda’s about to replace her knees<br />
Linda’s breathing is tinged with a wheeze<br />
Donna’s left boob has a troublesome lump<br />
Diane’s on her third trip to take a dump<br />
Lorraine’s husband can’t remember a thing<br />
Nine years a widow, Marge still wears her ring<br />
Marlene is dealing with another UTI<br />
Sally’s giving a hearing aid another try<br />
Marie has decided she can’t drive at night<br />
Sharon still wears clothes two sizes too tight<br />
They’ve been through divorces and babies and wakes<br />
They do for each other whatever it takes<br />
They’ve already buried Marcia and Kate<br />
And truthfully, Lizzie’s not looking so great<br />
SAVE THE DATE!<br />
Thanksgiving Ceremony at the Pieterskerk<br />
Thursday, November 22<br />
Meet at Starbucks in Den Haag Centraal at 9:45 a.m.<br />
The Thanksgiving Ceremony will take place at the Pieterskerk in Leiden, at 11:00 a.m.<br />
After the ceremony, lunch will be at Restaurant Koetshuis de Burcht, Burgsteeg 13,<br />
Leiden<br />
The ceremony is Free / Lunch and transportation is at your own expense<br />
Registration deadline: November 20<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Contact Greetje Engelsman with questions (awcthehague.newcomers@gmail.com)<br />
So whenever they can, they get out to eat<br />
Open bottles of wine and forget their sore feet<br />
There’s laughing and crying and letting down guards<br />
And when the bill comes, there’s ten credit cards<br />
So here’s to the waiters who keep orders straight<br />
And to the places that let lunches run three hours late<br />
And here’s to the girlfriends, those near and those far<br />
Here’s to the girlfriends, you know who you are!!!<br />
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Announcements<br />
Leiden Liberation Celebration<br />
This annual Leiden event commemorates<br />
the Spanish siege and subsequent relief<br />
of the city in 1574. The party starts on<br />
Monday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 2 at 1 p.m. with a huge<br />
fun fair and market that covers a large part<br />
of the city center. On Tuesday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 3,<br />
the official day of liberation, Breestraat is<br />
turned into a lively street theater boulevard<br />
with a giant parade featuring floats,<br />
bands, and dancers starting at 1 p.m. This<br />
year is the 131st anniversary of the parade<br />
with a theme of: Parade Royale. The day<br />
concludes with fireworks at 11:30 p.m.<br />
www.3october.nl<br />
Saturday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 6 and Sunday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober<br />
7 from noon to 6 p.m. Within the informal<br />
atmosphere of these studios, visitors can<br />
view and buy artwork as well as see artists<br />
working in different disciplines. www.<br />
openateliersdenhaag.nl<br />
Community Fair for<br />
Internationals<br />
Experience the 16th annual “I am Not a<br />
Tourist” Fair, a community fair for internationals<br />
and expatriates living in<br />
the Netherlands, hosted by Expatica in<br />
Amsterdam. Whether you’ve lived in the<br />
Netherlands for five months or five years,<br />
you will no doubt find a workshop or entertainment<br />
session of interest to you. One<br />
hundred and twenty-five exhibitors will be<br />
available to offer advice on topics as diverse<br />
as employment, housing, relocation,<br />
taxes and banking. Free tickets are offered<br />
online: www.expatfairamsterdam.nl<br />
Sunday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 7<br />
10 a.m. − 5 p.m<br />
Beurs van Berlage<br />
Damrak 243, Amsterdam<br />
Japanese Garden Open<br />
The Japanese Garden in Clingendael Park,<br />
home to rare trees and plants, is so fragile<br />
that it is only open six weeks per year, four<br />
in the spring and two in the fall. Don’t miss<br />
the chance to see this special garden in magnificent<br />
fall colors. Free entrance.<br />
Saturday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 13 –<br />
Sunday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 28<br />
10 a.m. – 4 p.m.<br />
Clingendael Park, Den Haag<br />
Canal Race in Amsterdam<br />
On Saturday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 13, the canals of<br />
Amsterdam will come alive with 140<br />
rowing teams participating in the 32nd<br />
edition of the Grachtenrace Amsterdam,<br />
a 15-mile (24-kilometer) race in the city<br />
center. In addition to staying out of each<br />
other’s way, the boats must contend with<br />
many narrow bridges and tourist boats.<br />
www.grachtenrace.com<br />
>> 50<br />
Open Ateliers The Hague<br />
Sixty-five artists in the center of The<br />
Hague will open their studios to visitors on<br />
The Arts Society Lecture<br />
The Changing Face of London<br />
The Romans arrived 2,000 years ago on<br />
the banks of the River Thames. Then<br />
came the Norman Invasion, Elizabeth l,<br />
the Great Fire of 1666, Samuel Pepys,<br />
Christopher Wren, John Betjeman, the railways<br />
and Docklands. The street names remain<br />
while the buildings change constantly.<br />
Lecturer Andrew Davies is the author of<br />
nine books and is a frequent contributor to<br />
radio and television. Previously known as<br />
DFAS, The Arts Society The Hague aims<br />
to bring people together through a shared<br />
curiosity for all types of art. Nonmember<br />
fee is € 13. www.theartssocietythehague.<br />
org<br />
Tuesday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 9<br />
Doors open at 7:15 p.m.<br />
Lecture begins at 8:00 p.m.<br />
Cultural Centrum Warenar<br />
Kerkstraat 75, Wassenaar<br />
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Announcements (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 49<br />
International Children’s Art<br />
Festival<br />
From <strong>Oct</strong>ober 19 to 27, children between<br />
the ages of 2 and 12 years old will be<br />
treated to 550 enchanting performances<br />
of both <strong>Dutch</strong> and international origin and<br />
workshops at 50 different locations around<br />
The Hague as part of De Betovering (The<br />
Enchantment). Performances, a number of<br />
which are suitable for a non-<strong>Dutch</strong> speaking<br />
audience (highlighted in the program<br />
as NDR), include puppet shows as well as<br />
dance, music and film. To see the program,<br />
go to: www.debetovering.nl<br />
LEGO World<br />
LEGO World is the largest LEGO event in<br />
the Netherlands for kids of all ages. Your<br />
kids can play and build with millions of<br />
LEGO bricks, giving them the possibility<br />
to build anything they can imagine.<br />
Your little ones can play with DUPLO<br />
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in a separate area. Discounted tickets are<br />
available online: www.legoworld.nl<br />
Thursday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 18 to<br />
Wednesday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 24<br />
10 a.m. – 5 p.m.<br />
Jaarbeurs Utrecht<br />
Jaarbeursplein, Utrecht<br />
Sea Sights Festival<br />
This festival at Scheveningen Beach from<br />
Friday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 19 – Sunday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 21,<br />
offers a unique insight into the future of cities<br />
by the sea. In ten sea containers placed<br />
on the boulevard, you will find a variety of<br />
forward-thinking start-ups, students, artists<br />
and architects presenting their vision on the<br />
development of our coast. www.seasights.nl<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> Design Week<br />
During <strong>Dutch</strong> Design Week (DDW) in<br />
Eindhoven from Saturday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 20 –<br />
Sunday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 28, you can see with your<br />
own eyes how tomorrow’s world is taking<br />
shape with smart solutions and inventive<br />
designs by 2,500 national and international<br />
designers offering new perspectives. This<br />
year’s theme is If Not Us, Then Who? meaning<br />
it is up to all of us to embrace and stimulate<br />
creative solutions because together we<br />
will decide how the world will look in the<br />
future. DDW offers 400 events at 100 venues<br />
throughout Eindhoven, including exhibitions,<br />
experiments, lectures and workshops.<br />
www.ddw.nl<br />
Wildlife Film Festival<br />
This multi-day film festival, organized<br />
by a non-profit foundation, focuses on the<br />
screening of 40 wildlife films and documentaries.<br />
The main program consists of a juried<br />
competition that is open to professional and<br />
non-professional nature filmmakers from<br />
the Netherlands and abroad.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 24 –<br />
Sunday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 28<br />
Cinerama Filmtheater<br />
Westblaak 18, Rotterdam<br />
www.wffr.nl<br />
Crossing Border Festival<br />
Ever since the first edition in 1993,<br />
Crossing Border has examined the frontiers<br />
of music and language in the city center of<br />
The Hague. It has expanded to become one<br />
of the most progressive international music<br />
and literature festivals in Europe featuring<br />
more than 100 artists ranging from<br />
renowned names to promising upcoming<br />
talent.<br />
Monday, <strong>Oct</strong>ober 29 –<br />
Sunday, November 4<br />
Various venues in Den Haag Centrum<br />
www.crossingborder.nl<br />
Affordable Art Fair<br />
Amsterdam is also hosting an art fair early<br />
next month. This four-day event presents a<br />
wide array of contemporary art from a variety<br />
of galleries. You can find thousands<br />
of original paintings, prints, sculptures and<br />
photography all under one roof, and all under<br />
€ 6,000. The work of young, emerging<br />
artists hangs alongside some of the biggest<br />
household names.<br />
Thursday, November 1 to<br />
Sunday, November 4<br />
De Kromhouthal<br />
Gedempt Hamerkanaal 231, Amsterdam<br />
www.affordableartfair.com<br />
Annual Church Bazaar<br />
The American Protestant Church of The<br />
Hague will host its 61st Annual Bazaar.<br />
You can savor appetizing dishes and delicacies<br />
from the international kitchen, as<br />
well as shop for books, clothing, accessories,<br />
arts and crafts, and more. Free entrance<br />
with proceeds from sales to support<br />
charities worldwide. www.apch.nl<br />
Saturday, November 3<br />
10 a.m. – 4 p.m.<br />
Esther de Boer-van Rijklaan 20,<br />
Den Haag<br />
Frans Hals and the Moderns<br />
This year marks the 150th anniversary of<br />
the rediscovery of Frans Hals (Antwerp c.<br />
1582 – Haarlem 1666) and his transformation<br />
from a drunkard into a modern idol.<br />
He was admired and venerated by late 19th<br />
century artists like Manet, Singer Sargent,<br />
Liebermann and Van Gogh. From <strong>Oct</strong>ober<br />
13 through February 24, this exhibition<br />
shows the immense impact Hals had on<br />
these modern painters as works by the famous<br />
17th century portrait painter are being<br />
shown alongside responses to his work<br />
from other major eras of painting. www.<br />
franshalsmuseum.nl<br />
Postman Joseph Roulin by Vincent<br />
van Gogh, 1888, Museum of Fine Arts,<br />
Boston<br />
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Proost! Questionnaire<br />
Answers by Deana Kreitler<br />
What do you love best about living here?<br />
Everything, truly everything. The pace is<br />
slower, everyone speaks English, it’s a better<br />
environment. There’s time to just live, and<br />
people take time to stop and smell the roses.<br />
Give us a quick wrap-up of your family.<br />
I have three children: two boys and one girl.<br />
Darren, my husband, has one of each. We<br />
met, and our families came together about 12<br />
years ago. We have two grandchildren. Aidan<br />
just started kindergarten and Lily is 10.<br />
What do you consider the most overrated<br />
virtue of being an expat?<br />
I don’t think any of it is overrated. I get to<br />
travel and meet new people. None of that is<br />
overrated.<br />
Which <strong>Dutch</strong> words or phrases do you most<br />
overuse?<br />
“Tot ziens!” I’ve been trying to incorporate<br />
more <strong>Dutch</strong>, but it’s really all just<br />
conversational.<br />
What is your greatest travel extravagance?<br />
Excursions. We try to splurge on the<br />
experience.<br />
What was your best travel experience?<br />
Our trip to Yellowstone and Grand Tetons<br />
National Parks. We did a road trip through<br />
South Dakota and Wyoming for about<br />
three weeks. It was the most beautiful and<br />
interesting trip. We got to see so many things,<br />
and it was relaxing.<br />
Which locations haven’t been ticked off<br />
your bucket list?<br />
I don’t have a bucket list, but we still want<br />
to go to Australia, Japan, and so many other<br />
places.<br />
Which talent would you most like to have?<br />
There are two: I wish I could sing really well,<br />
and be a good photographer without even<br />
trying.<br />
Tells us about your pets.<br />
We have Maggie, who is a one-and-a-halfyear-old<br />
corgi. Then there are the cats: Oreo,<br />
Tigger, Snuggles, and Molly. We started our<br />
pet collection almost 11 years ago.<br />
What is your motto?<br />
Oh, I have so many! But I always tell the<br />
children, “Make good decisions.”<br />
What is your most treasured possession?<br />
Some of my mom’s possessions… A quilt<br />
she made for me, some of her jewelry, and a<br />
Christmas runner for my table.<br />
What is your favorite drink?<br />
That’s evolving. My new favorite is gin and<br />
tonic. But I also really love a good margarita<br />
or chocolate martini.<br />
Where is your favorite place in the<br />
Netherlands?<br />
Maastricht. It was one of the first places we<br />
spent a weekend, so it still had newness. We<br />
were still in awe of the country. We had the<br />
most delicious dinner at Courage, from the<br />
Chef’s menu. And we brought Maggie for<br />
that trip!<br />
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