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12 | December 27, 2018 | The orland park prairie faith<br />

opprairie.com<br />

Pastor Column<br />

Ruminating on the gift of time<br />

The Rev. Michael Foley<br />

Our Lady of the Woods<br />

Any trip to a Las Vegas<br />

casino reveals<br />

an environment<br />

stripped of time. There are<br />

no clocks. There are no<br />

windows to show forth day<br />

or night. The lighting in<br />

the room remains the same,<br />

even as the hours change.<br />

This design takes a sense<br />

of time away from the<br />

patrons, so that they might<br />

play longer and increase the<br />

revenues of the casino.<br />

In a sense, Vegas is a<br />

reflection of the modern<br />

world. We are told that<br />

New York is the “city that<br />

never sleeps.” This is true<br />

of all cities today. Unlike<br />

our ancestors just a few<br />

generations ago, the darkness<br />

does not imprison us.<br />

Electric lights glow 24<br />

hours. In our homes, we<br />

can be on our phones, computers<br />

or TVs at any hour.<br />

The seasons are modulated<br />

by air-conditioning and<br />

heating systems.<br />

In all of this, we lose the<br />

rhythm of time and season.<br />

One of the gifts of my<br />

faith is that time itself<br />

cannot be ignored. The liturgical<br />

calendar has helped<br />

many people keep some<br />

perspective on time.<br />

In Advent, the readings<br />

from the Bible speak of a<br />

world in darkness and a<br />

desire for God’s light. This<br />

is appropriate for this time<br />

of the year. The religious<br />

calendar calls us to times of<br />

waiting, to celebration, to<br />

fasting and repentance, and<br />

then to joy again throughout<br />

the year. For those who<br />

are regular in worship, this<br />

can help focus on the passage<br />

of time.<br />

Christians believe in<br />

keeping a Sabbath, although<br />

for most Christians<br />

“Sabbath” occurs on<br />

Sunday and we call it “The<br />

Lord’s Day.” But the idea is<br />

very similar to our Jewish<br />

brothers and sisters who<br />

mark the actual Sabbath (it<br />

is where we get the word<br />

Saturday from).<br />

By taking time each<br />

week to stop what we are<br />

doing and pray, we are reminding<br />

ourselves that the<br />

treadmill of work is not the<br />

focus of our lives.<br />

Sadly, like the absence<br />

of clocks in the casino, we<br />

are losing the meaning of<br />

Sunday. Many people work.<br />

The stores are open. Sports<br />

have become the new religion.<br />

Sunday is another day<br />

to watch pro football, along<br />

with Monday and Thursday.<br />

In monastic communities,<br />

there is a rhythm of daily<br />

prayer. The monks pray<br />

together to mark the break<br />

of day, the noon of day, the<br />

evening and night. It is quite<br />

beautiful to experience.<br />

In the secular world, Jan.<br />

1 marks the beginning of<br />

a New Year. It is the one<br />

holiday often symbolized<br />

by an hourglass or a calendar.<br />

It reminds us that time<br />

is a gift that can deepen<br />

our lives or a prison that<br />

confines us.<br />

If we let it, time is our<br />

teacher. Time calls us to<br />

prioritize our lives. Time<br />

reminds us that we are<br />

human and will not accomplish<br />

all we wish to do.<br />

Time can teach us to cherish<br />

the moments that are in<br />

front of us.<br />

In the seminary, we had<br />

a psychologist who spoke<br />

forcefully of the need to<br />

organize our time. He<br />

explained that, for a healthy<br />

person, a day is not the<br />

only organizing principle.<br />

We must also use the<br />

concept of the week and the<br />

year to guide us (weekly<br />

day off, annual vacation<br />

and annual retreat). I have<br />

found his wisdom helpful.<br />

In faith, we are reminded<br />

that we must organize our<br />

lives around the rhythm of<br />

the day, the week and the<br />

seasons. Anything less will<br />

leave us impoverished. As<br />

the new year begins, let us<br />

see time as our teacher and<br />

a gift from God.<br />

The opinions of this column<br />

are those of the writer. They do<br />

not necessarily reflect those of<br />

The Orland Park Prairie.<br />

FAITH BRIEFS<br />

Christ Lutheran Church (14700 S. 94th<br />

Ave., Orland Park)<br />

New Year’s Even Communion<br />

Service<br />

5 p.m. Dec. 31, in Duehr<br />

Memorial Chapel.<br />

Faith United Methodist Church (15101 S.<br />

80th Ave., Orland Park)<br />

Crosstown Classic<br />

10 a.m.-noon Jan. 5, 12,<br />

19 and 26. Boys and girls<br />

ages 4-7 can join for some<br />

baseball basics on the first<br />

three Saturdays in January.<br />

Baseball basics will include<br />

catching, throwing and<br />

batting (T-ball based). On<br />

Jan. 26, parents, grandparents,<br />

aunts and uncles, and<br />

older brothers and sisters<br />

are invited to play in the<br />

first Faith UMC Crosstown<br />

Classic. Sign-up sheets are<br />

outside Room 4 for Baseball<br />

Basics and the Crosstown<br />

Classic.<br />

Our Lady of the Woods Church (10731 W.<br />

131st, Orland Park)<br />

Eucharistic Adoration<br />

9 a.m.-7 p.m. Thursdays.<br />

The church invites all to<br />

spend some silent time with<br />

The Lord in its chapel. For<br />

more information, call (708)<br />

361-4754.<br />

St. Elizabeth Seton Catholic Church (9300<br />

W. 167th St., Orland Hills)<br />

Weekday Service<br />

9 a.m. Monday through<br />

Friday.<br />

Southwest Seventh Day Adventist Church<br />

(15760 Wolf Road, Orland Park)<br />

Bible Study<br />

10 a.m. Monday, 7 p.m.<br />

Tuesday, 10 a.m. Saturday.<br />

Attendees can learn about<br />

Jesus. For more information,<br />

call (630) 708-0234.<br />

Hope Covenant Church (14401 West Ave.,<br />

Orland Park<br />

Alzheimer’s Support Group<br />

7:30-8:30 p.m. second<br />

Monday of each month.<br />

Aishling Companion Home<br />

Care, a support group facilitator,<br />

hosts monthly meetings<br />

to provide emotional,<br />

educational and social support<br />

for family and friends of<br />

individuals with Alzheimer’s<br />

Disease or related dementia.<br />

For more information, visit<br />

www.alz.org.<br />

Ashburn Baptist Church (153rd Street and<br />

Wolf Road, Orland Park)<br />

Bible Study<br />

9:45 a.m.<br />

Have something for Faith<br />

Briefs? Contact Editor Bill<br />

Jones at bill@opprairie.com<br />

or call (708) 326-9170 ext. 20.<br />

Information is due by noon on<br />

Thursdays one week prior to<br />

publication.<br />

In Memoriam<br />

Peter Lally<br />

Peter N. Lally, 91,<br />

formerly of Orland<br />

Park, died Dec. 13.<br />

He was a veteran of the United<br />

States Navy who served World War<br />

II.<br />

Husband for 63 years to the late<br />

Elaine P. Lally; father of Lorrie<br />

Lally, Robert (Eileen) Lally, Kath<br />

(late John) Miller, Michael Lally<br />

and the late Kenneth Lally; grandfather<br />

of Kristine (Frankie) Chojnacki,<br />

Jay (Christina) Miller and<br />

Nicholas Miller; great-grandfather<br />

of Madelyn, Olivia, Delilah, Emma<br />

and Lillyanna; brother of the late<br />

Jack (Gerrie) Lally, the late Marlene<br />

(late Tom) Spence and the late<br />

Jim (late Cathy) Lally; and uncle of<br />

many nieces and nephews.<br />

Retired in 1988 from ComEd<br />

with over 45 years of service. Peter<br />

was a proud member of the American<br />

Legion for 66 years and recently<br />

was a member of American<br />

Legion Post 615 in Tinley Park.<br />

Visitation was held at Colonial<br />

Chapel. A Funeral Mass was held<br />

at St. Michael Church. Interment<br />

Good Shepherd Cemetery.<br />

In lieu of flowers, memorials to<br />

American Cancer Society (cancer.<br />

org) preferred.<br />

Deanne Agnes O’Toole<br />

Deanne Agnes O’Toole (nee<br />

Dempsey), 78, of Orland Park died<br />

Donald Pekau<br />

The Village of Orland Park announced on its<br />

Facebook page Dec. 20 that former Trustee<br />

Donald Pekau, father of Mayor Keith Pekau, died<br />

Dec. 17.<br />

Trustee Pekau served on the Village Board<br />

from 1969-1975 and was a members of the<br />

board when Orland Square came to Orland Park.<br />

Dec. 17.<br />

Wife of the late Paul for 45<br />

years; mother of Paul III (Melissa),<br />

Dennis (Angela) and Peggy<br />

(Adam) Lavelle; grandmother of<br />

Georgie O’Toole, Maggie, Patrick<br />

and Brendan O’Toole, and Fiona,<br />

Kevin and Charlie Lavelle; sister<br />

of the late George Dempsey, the<br />

late Rev. Richard Dempsey, Sister<br />

Dorothy Dempsey, Msgr. Thomas<br />

Dempsey, Sally Dempsey, Donald<br />

“Duke” (late Denise) Dempsey and<br />

Kathy (Dale) Moyer; sister-in-law<br />

of Mary Ann (Tom) McKenna; and<br />

aunt of many nieces and nephews.<br />

In lieu of flowers, donations to<br />

the Syrian American Medical Society<br />

(www.sams-usa.net) would be<br />

appreciated.<br />

The O’Toole family would like<br />

to thank the nurses and doctors<br />

He also was a founding member of the Orland<br />

Park Pioneers and the Orland Youth Association.<br />

He coached for both, according to the Village<br />

post.<br />

Arrangements were pending as of press time,<br />

and The Orland Park Prairie will publish more<br />

information when it becomes available, both in<br />

print and at <strong>OP</strong>Prairie.com.<br />

who cared for her over the years.<br />

Visitation was held at Curley<br />

Funeral Home. A Funeral Mass<br />

was held at Our Lady of the Woods<br />

Church. Interment private.<br />

Have someone’s life you’d like to<br />

honor? Email Editor Bill Jones at<br />

bill@opprairie.com with information<br />

about a loved one who was a part of<br />

the Orland Park community.

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