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12 | December 27, 2018 | The orland park prairie faith<br />
opprairie.com<br />
Pastor Column<br />
Ruminating on the gift of time<br />
The Rev. Michael Foley<br />
Our Lady of the Woods<br />
Any trip to a Las Vegas<br />
casino reveals<br />
an environment<br />
stripped of time. There are<br />
no clocks. There are no<br />
windows to show forth day<br />
or night. The lighting in<br />
the room remains the same,<br />
even as the hours change.<br />
This design takes a sense<br />
of time away from the<br />
patrons, so that they might<br />
play longer and increase the<br />
revenues of the casino.<br />
In a sense, Vegas is a<br />
reflection of the modern<br />
world. We are told that<br />
New York is the “city that<br />
never sleeps.” This is true<br />
of all cities today. Unlike<br />
our ancestors just a few<br />
generations ago, the darkness<br />
does not imprison us.<br />
Electric lights glow 24<br />
hours. In our homes, we<br />
can be on our phones, computers<br />
or TVs at any hour.<br />
The seasons are modulated<br />
by air-conditioning and<br />
heating systems.<br />
In all of this, we lose the<br />
rhythm of time and season.<br />
One of the gifts of my<br />
faith is that time itself<br />
cannot be ignored. The liturgical<br />
calendar has helped<br />
many people keep some<br />
perspective on time.<br />
In Advent, the readings<br />
from the Bible speak of a<br />
world in darkness and a<br />
desire for God’s light. This<br />
is appropriate for this time<br />
of the year. The religious<br />
calendar calls us to times of<br />
waiting, to celebration, to<br />
fasting and repentance, and<br />
then to joy again throughout<br />
the year. For those who<br />
are regular in worship, this<br />
can help focus on the passage<br />
of time.<br />
Christians believe in<br />
keeping a Sabbath, although<br />
for most Christians<br />
“Sabbath” occurs on<br />
Sunday and we call it “The<br />
Lord’s Day.” But the idea is<br />
very similar to our Jewish<br />
brothers and sisters who<br />
mark the actual Sabbath (it<br />
is where we get the word<br />
Saturday from).<br />
By taking time each<br />
week to stop what we are<br />
doing and pray, we are reminding<br />
ourselves that the<br />
treadmill of work is not the<br />
focus of our lives.<br />
Sadly, like the absence<br />
of clocks in the casino, we<br />
are losing the meaning of<br />
Sunday. Many people work.<br />
The stores are open. Sports<br />
have become the new religion.<br />
Sunday is another day<br />
to watch pro football, along<br />
with Monday and Thursday.<br />
In monastic communities,<br />
there is a rhythm of daily<br />
prayer. The monks pray<br />
together to mark the break<br />
of day, the noon of day, the<br />
evening and night. It is quite<br />
beautiful to experience.<br />
In the secular world, Jan.<br />
1 marks the beginning of<br />
a New Year. It is the one<br />
holiday often symbolized<br />
by an hourglass or a calendar.<br />
It reminds us that time<br />
is a gift that can deepen<br />
our lives or a prison that<br />
confines us.<br />
If we let it, time is our<br />
teacher. Time calls us to<br />
prioritize our lives. Time<br />
reminds us that we are<br />
human and will not accomplish<br />
all we wish to do.<br />
Time can teach us to cherish<br />
the moments that are in<br />
front of us.<br />
In the seminary, we had<br />
a psychologist who spoke<br />
forcefully of the need to<br />
organize our time. He<br />
explained that, for a healthy<br />
person, a day is not the<br />
only organizing principle.<br />
We must also use the<br />
concept of the week and the<br />
year to guide us (weekly<br />
day off, annual vacation<br />
and annual retreat). I have<br />
found his wisdom helpful.<br />
In faith, we are reminded<br />
that we must organize our<br />
lives around the rhythm of<br />
the day, the week and the<br />
seasons. Anything less will<br />
leave us impoverished. As<br />
the new year begins, let us<br />
see time as our teacher and<br />
a gift from God.<br />
The opinions of this column<br />
are those of the writer. They do<br />
not necessarily reflect those of<br />
The Orland Park Prairie.<br />
FAITH BRIEFS<br />
Christ Lutheran Church (14700 S. 94th<br />
Ave., Orland Park)<br />
New Year’s Even Communion<br />
Service<br />
5 p.m. Dec. 31, in Duehr<br />
Memorial Chapel.<br />
Faith United Methodist Church (15101 S.<br />
80th Ave., Orland Park)<br />
Crosstown Classic<br />
10 a.m.-noon Jan. 5, 12,<br />
19 and 26. Boys and girls<br />
ages 4-7 can join for some<br />
baseball basics on the first<br />
three Saturdays in January.<br />
Baseball basics will include<br />
catching, throwing and<br />
batting (T-ball based). On<br />
Jan. 26, parents, grandparents,<br />
aunts and uncles, and<br />
older brothers and sisters<br />
are invited to play in the<br />
first Faith UMC Crosstown<br />
Classic. Sign-up sheets are<br />
outside Room 4 for Baseball<br />
Basics and the Crosstown<br />
Classic.<br />
Our Lady of the Woods Church (10731 W.<br />
131st, Orland Park)<br />
Eucharistic Adoration<br />
9 a.m.-7 p.m. Thursdays.<br />
The church invites all to<br />
spend some silent time with<br />
The Lord in its chapel. For<br />
more information, call (708)<br />
361-4754.<br />
St. Elizabeth Seton Catholic Church (9300<br />
W. 167th St., Orland Hills)<br />
Weekday Service<br />
9 a.m. Monday through<br />
Friday.<br />
Southwest Seventh Day Adventist Church<br />
(15760 Wolf Road, Orland Park)<br />
Bible Study<br />
10 a.m. Monday, 7 p.m.<br />
Tuesday, 10 a.m. Saturday.<br />
Attendees can learn about<br />
Jesus. For more information,<br />
call (630) 708-0234.<br />
Hope Covenant Church (14401 West Ave.,<br />
Orland Park<br />
Alzheimer’s Support Group<br />
7:30-8:30 p.m. second<br />
Monday of each month.<br />
Aishling Companion Home<br />
Care, a support group facilitator,<br />
hosts monthly meetings<br />
to provide emotional,<br />
educational and social support<br />
for family and friends of<br />
individuals with Alzheimer’s<br />
Disease or related dementia.<br />
For more information, visit<br />
www.alz.org.<br />
Ashburn Baptist Church (153rd Street and<br />
Wolf Road, Orland Park)<br />
Bible Study<br />
9:45 a.m.<br />
Have something for Faith<br />
Briefs? Contact Editor Bill<br />
Jones at bill@opprairie.com<br />
or call (708) 326-9170 ext. 20.<br />
Information is due by noon on<br />
Thursdays one week prior to<br />
publication.<br />
In Memoriam<br />
Peter Lally<br />
Peter N. Lally, 91,<br />
formerly of Orland<br />
Park, died Dec. 13.<br />
He was a veteran of the United<br />
States Navy who served World War<br />
II.<br />
Husband for 63 years to the late<br />
Elaine P. Lally; father of Lorrie<br />
Lally, Robert (Eileen) Lally, Kath<br />
(late John) Miller, Michael Lally<br />
and the late Kenneth Lally; grandfather<br />
of Kristine (Frankie) Chojnacki,<br />
Jay (Christina) Miller and<br />
Nicholas Miller; great-grandfather<br />
of Madelyn, Olivia, Delilah, Emma<br />
and Lillyanna; brother of the late<br />
Jack (Gerrie) Lally, the late Marlene<br />
(late Tom) Spence and the late<br />
Jim (late Cathy) Lally; and uncle of<br />
many nieces and nephews.<br />
Retired in 1988 from ComEd<br />
with over 45 years of service. Peter<br />
was a proud member of the American<br />
Legion for 66 years and recently<br />
was a member of American<br />
Legion Post 615 in Tinley Park.<br />
Visitation was held at Colonial<br />
Chapel. A Funeral Mass was held<br />
at St. Michael Church. Interment<br />
Good Shepherd Cemetery.<br />
In lieu of flowers, memorials to<br />
American Cancer Society (cancer.<br />
org) preferred.<br />
Deanne Agnes O’Toole<br />
Deanne Agnes O’Toole (nee<br />
Dempsey), 78, of Orland Park died<br />
Donald Pekau<br />
The Village of Orland Park announced on its<br />
Facebook page Dec. 20 that former Trustee<br />
Donald Pekau, father of Mayor Keith Pekau, died<br />
Dec. 17.<br />
Trustee Pekau served on the Village Board<br />
from 1969-1975 and was a members of the<br />
board when Orland Square came to Orland Park.<br />
Dec. 17.<br />
Wife of the late Paul for 45<br />
years; mother of Paul III (Melissa),<br />
Dennis (Angela) and Peggy<br />
(Adam) Lavelle; grandmother of<br />
Georgie O’Toole, Maggie, Patrick<br />
and Brendan O’Toole, and Fiona,<br />
Kevin and Charlie Lavelle; sister<br />
of the late George Dempsey, the<br />
late Rev. Richard Dempsey, Sister<br />
Dorothy Dempsey, Msgr. Thomas<br />
Dempsey, Sally Dempsey, Donald<br />
“Duke” (late Denise) Dempsey and<br />
Kathy (Dale) Moyer; sister-in-law<br />
of Mary Ann (Tom) McKenna; and<br />
aunt of many nieces and nephews.<br />
In lieu of flowers, donations to<br />
the Syrian American Medical Society<br />
(www.sams-usa.net) would be<br />
appreciated.<br />
The O’Toole family would like<br />
to thank the nurses and doctors<br />
He also was a founding member of the Orland<br />
Park Pioneers and the Orland Youth Association.<br />
He coached for both, according to the Village<br />
post.<br />
Arrangements were pending as of press time,<br />
and The Orland Park Prairie will publish more<br />
information when it becomes available, both in<br />
print and at <strong>OP</strong>Prairie.com.<br />
who cared for her over the years.<br />
Visitation was held at Curley<br />
Funeral Home. A Funeral Mass<br />
was held at Our Lady of the Woods<br />
Church. Interment private.<br />
Have someone’s life you’d like to<br />
honor? Email Editor Bill Jones at<br />
bill@opprairie.com with information<br />
about a loved one who was a part of<br />
the Orland Park community.