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Together Again<br />

In 2015-2016, my parents decided to get a divorce.<br />

My mom, my brother, my sister, and I all moved to<br />

Smyrna, Tennessee, together to start our new lives.<br />

In October 2016, my mom was diagnosed with stage<br />

4 colon cancer and wasn’t given that long to live.<br />

The impact it had on our lives and our family was<br />

immeasurable. My mom and my step-dad had a<br />

falling out and she decided to leave and take us to live<br />

with our grandmother that summer. Behind the<br />

curtains, my mom and my dad were talking about the<br />

possibility of all of us coming home. My brother and I,<br />

at the time, had moved in already with my dad. It was<br />

just the matter of getting my mom and my little sister<br />

home. My dad found it within himself to forgive my<br />

mom for everything and decided that he wanted all<br />

of us to be together as a family again.<br />

At this point, my mom had already lived past her<br />

life expectancy by a couple of months. She was slowly<br />

beginning to lose her hair, lose weight, and lose all of<br />

her energy. We had a lot of financial troubles with<br />

having to pay for hospital bills and tools that helped<br />

my mom get around easier. Before we knew it,<br />

Thanksgiving and Christmas were right around the<br />

corner. Thanksgiving brought some family members<br />

together that we hadn’t seen in years. Mom clearly<br />

enjoyed it, but Thanksgiving had nothing on<br />

Christmas! Christmas was our most cherished and<br />

most favorite holiday. We didn’t know it at the time,<br />

but this would be her last Christmas with us.<br />

December 2016–the most wonderful time of the<br />

year. Lights lit up our streets and love and laughter<br />

filled our home. Mom’s condition slowly began to<br />

worsen. In order for her to get around, she had to be<br />

pushed in a wheelchair, but that didn’t stop her from<br />

enjoying Christmas with her family. Gifts upon gifts<br />

were crowded up under our Christmas tree to the<br />

126 • December 2018

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