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How To Cope When<br />

Your Partner Is Unwell<br />

Whether it’s a long-term illness<br />

or a passing cold, life isn’t easy<br />

when your partner is ill. Perhaps<br />

you rely on them to help with<br />

childcare or maybe they are a<br />

difficult patient to care for.<br />

Whatever your situation, here<br />

are some ways to cope when your<br />

partner is unwell:<br />

Ask for help from<br />

elsewhere<br />

If you’re shouldering the burden<br />

of housework, childcare and<br />

your own job, all while caring<br />

for your sick partner, you<br />

may feel like there’s no<br />

time to relax or take<br />

time out for yourself.<br />

If your partner is likely to be<br />

unwell for several weeks or months,<br />

then it’s wise to seek help elsewhere.<br />

Ask your extended family or friends<br />

if they can provide support.<br />

Look after yourself<br />

You can’t care for someone else<br />

effectively if you don’t first care for<br />

yourself. So even if you’re struggling<br />

to keep on top of everything while<br />

your partner is out of action, make<br />

sure you find the time to<br />

relax – even if it’s just<br />

for five minutes<br />

while enjoying<br />

a cup of tea.<br />

Remember to<br />

eat properly<br />

and get enough sleep so that you<br />

can stay healthy to help your<br />

partner recover.<br />

Address financial<br />

worries head on<br />

When a partner is sick it might<br />

mean less money coming into the<br />

household – particularly if they (or<br />

you) have to take time off work. If<br />

you’re worried about how you will<br />

cover the bills while your partner is<br />

unwell, seek professional help from<br />

local advisors.<br />

Speak to your boss<br />

Explain the situation to your boss.<br />

They might be willing to let you<br />

work shorter hours or reduce your<br />

workload while your partner is sick.<br />

yourwellness.com

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