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DAILY HERITAGE MONDAY, <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>20</strong>, <strong>20</strong>19<br />
Indecent dressing debases women<br />
BY ELIZABETH DANSO, STUDENT, GIJ<br />
IN CONTEMPORARY<br />
times, one might have noticed<br />
how most ladies, even<br />
married women, put on<br />
clothes that reveal parts of<br />
their bodies which hitherto<br />
were considered sacred and<br />
therefore forbidden to expose to<br />
the public.<br />
This deviant behaviour in our<br />
society these days is gradually eating<br />
into the moral fibre of our<br />
country, which should not be<br />
condoned.<br />
Years ago, women<br />
were the centre of<br />
morality and decency<br />
and it took<br />
eternity to come<br />
by a Ghanaian<br />
woman<br />
dressed in a<br />
seductive,<br />
sexual or<br />
tempting<br />
way. Today,<br />
it is very uncommon<br />
to<br />
see majority of<br />
women decently<br />
dressed.<br />
Some women<br />
even go to the extent<br />
of taking shots of their<br />
naked bodies and uploading<br />
them on social media, all in their<br />
quest to get more likes, comments<br />
and followers on social<br />
media. Some too walk about<br />
without brazziers just to free<br />
•Indecent dressing debases women<br />
their<br />
nipples to<br />
enable them to pierce through<br />
their dresses. This has made majority<br />
of bloggers to describe<br />
such ladies as 'ashawobrities'.<br />
Due to the influence<br />
these ladies have on social<br />
media, they are<br />
gradually getting some<br />
females to tread this<br />
same path, hence the<br />
emergence of 'slay<br />
queens'.<br />
Notwithstanding the<br />
fact that most women<br />
long to appear in fashionable<br />
clothes that<br />
might boost their confident<br />
level and also<br />
identify them as classy.<br />
Clothes like ‘skinny’, ‘show your<br />
stomach’, ‘bare back’, and<br />
‘Apuskeleke’ as they are referred<br />
to in our local parlance enslave,<br />
demean, devalue and portray<br />
women as whores. Such are patronized<br />
all in the name of<br />
modernity or fashion but this<br />
should not be patronised.<br />
It hurts even more to see how<br />
some married women who are<br />
supposed to inculcate moral values<br />
in their children and other<br />
young girls dressed in clothes that<br />
display sensitive parts of their<br />
bodies as if they are a new product<br />
that is being unveiled. The<br />
most irritating aspect of it is how<br />
they gather the confidence to parade<br />
themselves as<br />
role models.<br />
Forgive me for<br />
being harsh but this<br />
act is irritating, dehumanizing<br />
and a disgrace<br />
to womanhood.<br />
Education is<br />
mostly recognized as<br />
a way of shaping<br />
human behaviour. On<br />
the contrary, most of<br />
our dear ladies in institutions<br />
of higher<br />
learning -- universities,<br />
polytechnics and<br />
even training colleges<br />
-- have the worse<br />
sense of dressing;<br />
their way of dressing<br />
is so despicable. They<br />
go for lectures in<br />
clothes that depict<br />
them like sex workers<br />
trying to entice their clients.<br />
The most ironic aspect of it is<br />
how these half-naked students<br />
complain of being sexually harassed<br />
or raped by male lecturers<br />
and male school mates. If I may<br />
ask, what do they expect?. Men<br />
are certainly not angels so it is<br />
high time women stopped leading<br />
innocent men to the abyss of<br />
hell.<br />
Sometimes one has to close<br />
his or her eyes or sit in shame<br />
when a lady comrade has her<br />
beads and G-strings revealing to<br />
almost everybody in a troski,<br />
upon alighting from or getting on<br />
board a vehicle. Such a pity!<br />
The painful part of it is how<br />
you receive insults from them<br />
when you try correcting them. It<br />
is so ridiculous how most of the<br />
half-naked women desperately<br />
cover their mobile phones instead<br />
of their bodies, which is capable<br />
of making someone sin.<br />
Dressing decently does not<br />
make a woman nerd or less<br />
human but it rather makes people<br />
to accord you great respect. God,<br />
in the fullness of His time and<br />
knowledge, hides all precious resources<br />
beneath the earth. A<br />
woman's body is more precious<br />
than any of those minerals and it<br />
needs to be hidden too.<br />
Cover your bodies as cultured<br />
and disciplined women and you<br />
will be respected.<br />
Remember that nudity cannot<br />
fetch any woman a good and responsible<br />
husband.<br />
The writer is a level 300<br />
student of the Ghana Institute<br />
of Journalism<br />
BY GEORGINA WUNKUMI MABE,<br />
STUDENT, GIJ<br />
GROWING UP in the village<br />
while living with my mum, I realized<br />
that there were certain times<br />
in the month that my mum would<br />
just stay in the room throughout,<br />
sometimes for up to a week. All<br />
she did was to eat, take her bath,<br />
then sleep.<br />
I never understood why until I<br />
got a bit older. It was all because<br />
she was “menstruating”. She was<br />
considered unclean and so she<br />
was not allowed anywhere near<br />
my father until her period was<br />
over. She could not cook, wash or<br />
even touch anything that would<br />
be used by my father or any male<br />
in the house (that was 12 years<br />
ago).<br />
A lot of things have changed<br />
since then but this problem still<br />
exists in some villages in the<br />
Northern Region of Ghana.<br />
Menstruation is not a taboo<br />
Menstruation is a normal<br />
monthly flow of blood and any<br />
adolescent girl could experience<br />
this. Culturally and religiously,<br />
the people of the Northern Region<br />
believe that a menstruating<br />
woman is impure and therefore<br />
cannot mix with other people,<br />
especially males. Thanks to education,<br />
many people are now enlightened<br />
about this condition<br />
but there are people who still<br />
hold this notion, particularly Islamic<br />
and traditional communities.<br />
Girls of school age are the<br />
most affected by this mentality.<br />
They have to stay out of school<br />
throughout their period because<br />
they are stigmatized by boys. The<br />
case is even worse for girls who<br />
live in poor and deprived communities.<br />
They do not have any<br />
knowledge about menstrual hygiene<br />
and do not know how to<br />
manage themselves during their<br />
Some of these girls<br />
use rags to catch the<br />
flow of blood during<br />
their period. They<br />
wash these rags<br />
(sometimes without<br />
soap) and hang them<br />
in the room because<br />
they are too shy to<br />
dry them in the sun.<br />
For girls whose parents<br />
are able to buy<br />
them sanitary towels,<br />
they use just one for<br />
a full day because<br />
they have to manage<br />
it to last the whole<br />
period.<br />
period so that the boys do not<br />
find out. Some do not have access<br />
to hygiene products and in<br />
cases where they even do, they<br />
cannot afford them.<br />
Some of these girls use rags to<br />
catch the flow of blood during<br />
their period. They wash these<br />
rags (sometimes without soap)<br />
and hang them in the room because<br />
they are too shy to dry<br />
them in the sun. For girls whose<br />
parents are able to buy them sanitary<br />
towels, they use just one for a<br />
full day because they have to<br />
manage it to last the whole period.<br />
These practices pose serious<br />
health problems to the girls.<br />
Besides, some schools do not<br />
have facilities that will aid them to<br />
manage this condition properly<br />
while they are in school. In the<br />
case where they stain their clothes<br />
with the blood (which happens<br />
often), they have to go back<br />
home to change and some do not<br />
come back to school.<br />
According to a report<br />
launched by Catholic Relief Services<br />
(CRS), a Christian NGO, in<br />
<strong>20</strong>16, 95% of girls stay out of<br />
school during their period because<br />
they are shy, and <strong>20</strong>% stay<br />
out because their schools do not<br />
have facilities to help them manage<br />
the condition.<br />
With the help of non-governmental<br />
and civil society organizations<br />
like UNICEF, CRS,<br />
NOORSAC and Garls World,<br />
menstrual hygiene is improving in<br />
the Northern Region but more<br />
education and facilities are<br />
needed to get everyone covered,<br />
and to make others, especially<br />
males, know that menstruation is<br />
not a taboo but rather one sure<br />
way to tell that a woman is fruitful..<br />
The writer is a level 300<br />
student of the Ghana Institute<br />
of Journalism