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DAILY HERITAGE MONDAY, <strong>MAY</strong> <strong>20</strong>, <strong>20</strong>19<br />

Indecent dressing debases women<br />

BY ELIZABETH DANSO, STUDENT, GIJ<br />

IN CONTEMPORARY<br />

times, one might have noticed<br />

how most ladies, even<br />

married women, put on<br />

clothes that reveal parts of<br />

their bodies which hitherto<br />

were considered sacred and<br />

therefore forbidden to expose to<br />

the public.<br />

This deviant behaviour in our<br />

society these days is gradually eating<br />

into the moral fibre of our<br />

country, which should not be<br />

condoned.<br />

Years ago, women<br />

were the centre of<br />

morality and decency<br />

and it took<br />

eternity to come<br />

by a Ghanaian<br />

woman<br />

dressed in a<br />

seductive,<br />

sexual or<br />

tempting<br />

way. Today,<br />

it is very uncommon<br />

to<br />

see majority of<br />

women decently<br />

dressed.<br />

Some women<br />

even go to the extent<br />

of taking shots of their<br />

naked bodies and uploading<br />

them on social media, all in their<br />

quest to get more likes, comments<br />

and followers on social<br />

media. Some too walk about<br />

without brazziers just to free<br />

•Indecent dressing debases women<br />

their<br />

nipples to<br />

enable them to pierce through<br />

their dresses. This has made majority<br />

of bloggers to describe<br />

such ladies as 'ashawobrities'.<br />

Due to the influence<br />

these ladies have on social<br />

media, they are<br />

gradually getting some<br />

females to tread this<br />

same path, hence the<br />

emergence of 'slay<br />

queens'.<br />

Notwithstanding the<br />

fact that most women<br />

long to appear in fashionable<br />

clothes that<br />

might boost their confident<br />

level and also<br />

identify them as classy.<br />

Clothes like ‘skinny’, ‘show your<br />

stomach’, ‘bare back’, and<br />

‘Apuskeleke’ as they are referred<br />

to in our local parlance enslave,<br />

demean, devalue and portray<br />

women as whores. Such are patronized<br />

all in the name of<br />

modernity or fashion but this<br />

should not be patronised.<br />

It hurts even more to see how<br />

some married women who are<br />

supposed to inculcate moral values<br />

in their children and other<br />

young girls dressed in clothes that<br />

display sensitive parts of their<br />

bodies as if they are a new product<br />

that is being unveiled. The<br />

most irritating aspect of it is how<br />

they gather the confidence to parade<br />

themselves as<br />

role models.<br />

Forgive me for<br />

being harsh but this<br />

act is irritating, dehumanizing<br />

and a disgrace<br />

to womanhood.<br />

Education is<br />

mostly recognized as<br />

a way of shaping<br />

human behaviour. On<br />

the contrary, most of<br />

our dear ladies in institutions<br />

of higher<br />

learning -- universities,<br />

polytechnics and<br />

even training colleges<br />

-- have the worse<br />

sense of dressing;<br />

their way of dressing<br />

is so despicable. They<br />

go for lectures in<br />

clothes that depict<br />

them like sex workers<br />

trying to entice their clients.<br />

The most ironic aspect of it is<br />

how these half-naked students<br />

complain of being sexually harassed<br />

or raped by male lecturers<br />

and male school mates. If I may<br />

ask, what do they expect?. Men<br />

are certainly not angels so it is<br />

high time women stopped leading<br />

innocent men to the abyss of<br />

hell.<br />

Sometimes one has to close<br />

his or her eyes or sit in shame<br />

when a lady comrade has her<br />

beads and G-strings revealing to<br />

almost everybody in a troski,<br />

upon alighting from or getting on<br />

board a vehicle. Such a pity!<br />

The painful part of it is how<br />

you receive insults from them<br />

when you try correcting them. It<br />

is so ridiculous how most of the<br />

half-naked women desperately<br />

cover their mobile phones instead<br />

of their bodies, which is capable<br />

of making someone sin.<br />

Dressing decently does not<br />

make a woman nerd or less<br />

human but it rather makes people<br />

to accord you great respect. God,<br />

in the fullness of His time and<br />

knowledge, hides all precious resources<br />

beneath the earth. A<br />

woman's body is more precious<br />

than any of those minerals and it<br />

needs to be hidden too.<br />

Cover your bodies as cultured<br />

and disciplined women and you<br />

will be respected.<br />

Remember that nudity cannot<br />

fetch any woman a good and responsible<br />

husband.<br />

The writer is a level 300<br />

student of the Ghana Institute<br />

of Journalism<br />

BY GEORGINA WUNKUMI MABE,<br />

STUDENT, GIJ<br />

GROWING UP in the village<br />

while living with my mum, I realized<br />

that there were certain times<br />

in the month that my mum would<br />

just stay in the room throughout,<br />

sometimes for up to a week. All<br />

she did was to eat, take her bath,<br />

then sleep.<br />

I never understood why until I<br />

got a bit older. It was all because<br />

she was “menstruating”. She was<br />

considered unclean and so she<br />

was not allowed anywhere near<br />

my father until her period was<br />

over. She could not cook, wash or<br />

even touch anything that would<br />

be used by my father or any male<br />

in the house (that was 12 years<br />

ago).<br />

A lot of things have changed<br />

since then but this problem still<br />

exists in some villages in the<br />

Northern Region of Ghana.<br />

Menstruation is not a taboo<br />

Menstruation is a normal<br />

monthly flow of blood and any<br />

adolescent girl could experience<br />

this. Culturally and religiously,<br />

the people of the Northern Region<br />

believe that a menstruating<br />

woman is impure and therefore<br />

cannot mix with other people,<br />

especially males. Thanks to education,<br />

many people are now enlightened<br />

about this condition<br />

but there are people who still<br />

hold this notion, particularly Islamic<br />

and traditional communities.<br />

Girls of school age are the<br />

most affected by this mentality.<br />

They have to stay out of school<br />

throughout their period because<br />

they are stigmatized by boys. The<br />

case is even worse for girls who<br />

live in poor and deprived communities.<br />

They do not have any<br />

knowledge about menstrual hygiene<br />

and do not know how to<br />

manage themselves during their<br />

Some of these girls<br />

use rags to catch the<br />

flow of blood during<br />

their period. They<br />

wash these rags<br />

(sometimes without<br />

soap) and hang them<br />

in the room because<br />

they are too shy to<br />

dry them in the sun.<br />

For girls whose parents<br />

are able to buy<br />

them sanitary towels,<br />

they use just one for<br />

a full day because<br />

they have to manage<br />

it to last the whole<br />

period.<br />

period so that the boys do not<br />

find out. Some do not have access<br />

to hygiene products and in<br />

cases where they even do, they<br />

cannot afford them.<br />

Some of these girls use rags to<br />

catch the flow of blood during<br />

their period. They wash these<br />

rags (sometimes without soap)<br />

and hang them in the room because<br />

they are too shy to dry<br />

them in the sun. For girls whose<br />

parents are able to buy them sanitary<br />

towels, they use just one for a<br />

full day because they have to<br />

manage it to last the whole period.<br />

These practices pose serious<br />

health problems to the girls.<br />

Besides, some schools do not<br />

have facilities that will aid them to<br />

manage this condition properly<br />

while they are in school. In the<br />

case where they stain their clothes<br />

with the blood (which happens<br />

often), they have to go back<br />

home to change and some do not<br />

come back to school.<br />

According to a report<br />

launched by Catholic Relief Services<br />

(CRS), a Christian NGO, in<br />

<strong>20</strong>16, 95% of girls stay out of<br />

school during their period because<br />

they are shy, and <strong>20</strong>% stay<br />

out because their schools do not<br />

have facilities to help them manage<br />

the condition.<br />

With the help of non-governmental<br />

and civil society organizations<br />

like UNICEF, CRS,<br />

NOORSAC and Garls World,<br />

menstrual hygiene is improving in<br />

the Northern Region but more<br />

education and facilities are<br />

needed to get everyone covered,<br />

and to make others, especially<br />

males, know that menstruation is<br />

not a taboo but rather one sure<br />

way to tell that a woman is fruitful..<br />

The writer is a level 300<br />

student of the Ghana Institute<br />

of Journalism

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