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your LETTERS<br />

In response to<br />

First Generation<br />

American Guilt<br />

I understand what you are saying.<br />

When you get your degree and start<br />

your life, the guilt will dissipate and<br />

you will be so thankful that she made<br />

the journey to America, and pushed<br />

you hard to succeed. She didn’t sacrifice<br />

her dreams for you. Her dreams<br />

were to make a better life for her<br />

future children. She moved to this<br />

beautiful country before you were<br />

born, but throughout her journey,<br />

she did it because she wanted her future<br />

children to have the opportunities<br />

she never had. Those were her<br />

dreams and she fulfilled them. When<br />

you have children, you too will sacrifice<br />

for them. You will push them<br />

to succeed, and sometimes they will<br />

feel like they can’t live life the way<br />

they want, and they will feel guilty<br />

for feeling that way, and you may<br />

say things out of love that will make<br />

them feel guilty. Your mother did a<br />

brave thing to go through the journey<br />

to come to this country. That<br />

When you have<br />

children, you too will<br />

sacrifice for them.<br />

You will push them<br />

to succeed, and<br />

sometimes they will<br />

feel like they can’t live<br />

life the way they want,<br />

and they will feel guilty<br />

for feeling that way.<br />

was her dream. Her “job” as a parent<br />

was to make sure you don’t take<br />

her sacrifice for granted, and to make<br />

sure you have all the skills needed to<br />

be self-sufficient, to be able to provide<br />

for your children, and to live the<br />

beautiful life you so deserve. I wish<br />

you and your family all the best.<br />

– Mary Barson<br />

BIRMINGHAM<br />

How can we help you? Woodward north of 14 Mile 248.723.7200 boaa.com<br />

Member FDIC<br />

<strong>AUGUST</strong> <strong>2019</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 7

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