AUGUST 2019
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your LETTERS<br />
In response to<br />
First Generation<br />
American Guilt<br />
I understand what you are saying.<br />
When you get your degree and start<br />
your life, the guilt will dissipate and<br />
you will be so thankful that she made<br />
the journey to America, and pushed<br />
you hard to succeed. She didn’t sacrifice<br />
her dreams for you. Her dreams<br />
were to make a better life for her<br />
future children. She moved to this<br />
beautiful country before you were<br />
born, but throughout her journey,<br />
she did it because she wanted her future<br />
children to have the opportunities<br />
she never had. Those were her<br />
dreams and she fulfilled them. When<br />
you have children, you too will sacrifice<br />
for them. You will push them<br />
to succeed, and sometimes they will<br />
feel like they can’t live life the way<br />
they want, and they will feel guilty<br />
for feeling that way, and you may<br />
say things out of love that will make<br />
them feel guilty. Your mother did a<br />
brave thing to go through the journey<br />
to come to this country. That<br />
When you have<br />
children, you too will<br />
sacrifice for them.<br />
You will push them<br />
to succeed, and<br />
sometimes they will<br />
feel like they can’t live<br />
life the way they want,<br />
and they will feel guilty<br />
for feeling that way.<br />
was her dream. Her “job” as a parent<br />
was to make sure you don’t take<br />
her sacrifice for granted, and to make<br />
sure you have all the skills needed to<br />
be self-sufficient, to be able to provide<br />
for your children, and to live the<br />
beautiful life you so deserve. I wish<br />
you and your family all the best.<br />
– Mary Barson<br />
BIRMINGHAM<br />
How can we help you? Woodward north of 14 Mile 248.723.7200 boaa.com<br />
Member FDIC<br />
<strong>AUGUST</strong> <strong>2019</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 7