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Featured Stories<br />
18 | THE PERFECT DAY<br />
Laurel Wreath Bridal offers luxury, private appointments<br />
in a beautiful setting<br />
31 | AWED BY SUNLIGHT<br />
The plein air paintings of Kazhia Kolb<br />
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44 | FRIENDS FOREVER<br />
Marengo pair has shared decades of good times<br />
Southern Indiana Living<br />
SEPTEMBER / OCTOBER <strong>2019</strong><br />
Special Sections<br />
11 | FALL FUN IN SOUTHERN INDIANA<br />
Holiday World & Splashin’ Safari, dining at the Overlook,<br />
and more!<br />
23 | HOME IMPROVEMENT<br />
Updating your home on a budget, designing your dream<br />
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18<br />
In Every Issue<br />
7 | FLASHBACK PHOTO<br />
Harvest Homecoming 1973<br />
8 | A WALK IN THE GARDEN WITH BOB HILL<br />
What’s in a name?<br />
10 | A NOTE TO BABY BOOMERS<br />
To be old is to be happy. Who knew?<br />
36 | COMMUNITY PAGES<br />
Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library of Floyd County,<br />
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46 | EVERYDAY ADVENTURES<br />
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In <strong>Oct</strong>ober of 1973, a crowd gathers on Pearl Street, just north of Main, in<br />
downtown New Albany to celebrate the fifth annual Harvest Homecoming.<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 7
A Walk in the Garden with Bob Hill<br />
What’s in a Name?<br />
Rudbeckia (“Black-Eyed Susan”)<br />
Plant titles come from all kinds of sources<br />
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Late summer is when the plant<br />
commonly called Black-eyed<br />
Susan comes into flower, often<br />
in thick, bright yellow, excitedlooking<br />
clumps that stand and shout and<br />
wave like happy fans too long adrift in a<br />
sports bar.<br />
Truth be told, the Rudbeckia, or<br />
Black-eyed Susan, is one of the more useful<br />
and hard-working perennials any<br />
gardener with a sunny spot and limited<br />
budget can use. Some will only live a<br />
few years, but in such glory while they’re<br />
around.<br />
But today, class, we are going to<br />
walk farther down this garden path and<br />
mostly talk about the sources of fun and<br />
descriptive plant names. What’s with this<br />
Rudbeckia thing? Where did the name<br />
Black-eyed Susan came from? Even the<br />
very popular Zinnia has some funky<br />
name history. Wait until you read about<br />
the Yellow Wax Bells.<br />
But first, the academics. To do all this<br />
naming-explaining properly we must begin<br />
with Swedish naturalist Carl Linnaeus<br />
who, in the mid-1700s, came up with a<br />
binomial system using Latin — a universal<br />
language — to categorize the world’s<br />
plants and animals.<br />
Think about that. Prior to Linnaeus,<br />
a flower common to Germany or France<br />
or the Baltic countries could be given vastly<br />
different names by the locals. A rose by<br />
any other name would smell as sweet, but<br />
those names sure wouldn’t be the same.<br />
So, Linnaeus proposed that plants<br />
first be named in the general group in<br />
which they fell, called a “genus.” For instance,<br />
all pine trees would be pine or<br />
pinus. But a specific pine tree, such as<br />
our common Eastern White Pine, would<br />
be given a second name: Pinus strobus to<br />
distinguish it from the roughly 115 other<br />
pine species.<br />
OK — and I promise there will not<br />
be a pop quiz on this — you are now wondering<br />
where the strobus came from. The<br />
answer is it comes from the Latin strobilus,<br />
meaning pine cone and the Greek<br />
strobus, meaning whirling around.<br />
You apply this tedious process to a<br />
few various trees and only the true plant<br />
geeks and academics can tell a Pinus sylvestris<br />
(Scotch Pine) from a Pinus thunbergii<br />
(Japanese Black Pine).<br />
It took some time — and a ton of international<br />
meetings still going on — but<br />
what’s important here is that a botanist<br />
in China and one in Canada can discuss<br />
a tree native to South America and know<br />
exactly what the other is talking about.<br />
And Linnaeus got it all started, labeling<br />
some 5,900 plant species himself.<br />
OK, class over; back to the Blackeyed<br />
Susans. Linnaeus gave them their<br />
Latin name, Rudbeckia hirta, some 270<br />
years ago. The Rudbeckia part came in<br />
honor of his old Swedish botanist buddy,<br />
Olaf Rudbeck, and his son, also an Olaf<br />
Rudbeck and a botanist. The more distinguishing<br />
hirta part is Latin for hairy/<br />
shaggy/unpolished.<br />
That’s how it worked — and works<br />
— over and over. Registered plant names<br />
come from friends, locations, botany. It<br />
gets complicated because, for instance,<br />
the Rudbeckia, a North American native,<br />
is related to the sunflower. It’s also called<br />
“coneflower” and comes in at least 40<br />
types, with each of them needing a Latin<br />
name.<br />
Not to worry; we are not going there.<br />
In the Rudbeckia’s case, its incredibly<br />
diverse history includes it being a<br />
Native American favorite used for washing<br />
sores and swellings, as a poultice for<br />
snake bites and for treating colds. You<br />
may or may not try that at home.<br />
And the name Black-eyed Susan?<br />
According to the classic story, it came from<br />
a poem written by Englishman John Gay<br />
(1685– 1731). It tells the story of a Blackeyed<br />
Susan (she had been crying) coming<br />
aboard a ship facing a long voyage looking<br />
for her lover, a guy named William.<br />
Yes, the very memorable four lines in the<br />
poem also gave us another flower: “Sweet<br />
William”:<br />
“All in the downs the fleet was<br />
moored,<br />
Banners waving in the wind<br />
When black-eyed Susan came<br />
aboard<br />
And eyed the burly men.<br />
‘Tell me ye sailors, tell me true.<br />
If my Sweet William sails with<br />
you.’”<br />
The historical kicker is the Blackeyed<br />
Susan and Sweet William bloom at<br />
roughly the same time.<br />
The very versatile Zinnia plant also<br />
has some dated history. The first of them<br />
— looking nothing like they do today —<br />
And the name Black-eyed Susan?<br />
According to the classic story, it came from<br />
a poem written by Englishman John Gay<br />
(1685– 1731). It tells the story of a Black-eyed<br />
Susan (she had been crying) coming aboard<br />
a ship facing a long voyage looking for her<br />
lover, a guy named William.<br />
were native to Mexico and brought to Europe<br />
by the Spaniards in the 1500s. A very<br />
complicated plant, they are also in the aster<br />
family and kissing cousins to daisies.<br />
There was no poetry involved in<br />
its naming. The “Zinnia” name was born<br />
when a Dr. Johann Gottfried Zinn of Gottingen<br />
University in Germany — and say<br />
that quickly five times — wrote the first<br />
description of it in the 1750s. Almost disappointing,<br />
isn’t it?<br />
Then there are the Yellow Wax Bells,<br />
a somewhat bushy native of China, one<br />
of which made its way to below a partly<br />
shaded downspout just outside Utica,<br />
Indiana. It came highly praised as a yellow-blooming<br />
gem, but I only keep mine<br />
around because it has refused to fully<br />
bloom for 10 years and I am willing to<br />
wait it out.<br />
The proper name of this thing is Kirengeshoma<br />
palmata. That would be kihren-gesh-OH-may<br />
palm-AY-tah — but<br />
many of you already knew that. Loosely<br />
translated in original Japanese, it all<br />
means “a yellow lotus hat embroidered in<br />
a palm branch.”<br />
All I want it to do is fully bloom. •<br />
About the Author<br />
Bob Hill owns Hidden Hill<br />
Nursery and can be<br />
reached at farmerbob@<br />
hiddenhillnursery.com.<br />
For more information,<br />
including nursery hours<br />
and event information, go<br />
to www.hiddenhillnursery.<br />
com<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 9
A Note to Baby Boomers<br />
To Be Old Is to Be Happy. Who Knew?<br />
Do not assume.<br />
Editors insist on that like<br />
they insist on commas and<br />
deadlines and, you know, all<br />
that pesky truth stuff. I spent nearly a half<br />
century stringing together paragraphs for<br />
pay.<br />
Yet here I am assuming.<br />
I assume up a storm, assume up one<br />
side and down the other, assume ‘til the<br />
cows come home, assume like I ever could<br />
run out of silly clichés.<br />
Assuming is about guessing —<br />
hoping, sometimes — instead of about<br />
knowing. I used to assume I might be a<br />
star athlete. I used to assume the prettiest<br />
girls in class would find me as irresistible<br />
as a Beatle, at least Ringo.<br />
I used to assume the world couldn’t<br />
go on without me as some sort of big shot.<br />
Of course, I then had to assume that, like<br />
on soap operas, one can become, say, a<br />
doctor in six weeks.<br />
I also assumed I’d be accepting<br />
Pulitzer Prizes and becoming everyone’s<br />
brilliant editor at whatever newspaper<br />
I worked. And I assumed I never would<br />
need to have my pants let out or that I’d<br />
always need a haircut more than once per<br />
season.<br />
Assumptions come and go, of<br />
course, not all shamelessly. I assumed I’d<br />
learn to change a tire or to fix a running<br />
toilet. I assumed I’d give blood or tutor<br />
kids.<br />
As much as anything, however, I<br />
assumed how it would be to be old.<br />
Research claims old people tend to<br />
be happier than young ones. By and large,<br />
we old people are done with careers,<br />
done with child rearing, done with fear<br />
about seeming cool or stylish, done with<br />
needing to get from our car to the door of<br />
the grocery in less than 10 minutes.<br />
We cannot keep up with the Joneses<br />
even if we remember who they are.<br />
Am I happy being old? Happier<br />
than when I was making all those<br />
outlandish assumptions about how life<br />
would go? Happier than my children or<br />
my grandchildren?<br />
I assumed old age and retirement<br />
10 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • Southern Indiana Living<br />
were as much to be endured as to be enjoyed.<br />
Sure, the inevitability of cataract<br />
surgery does not make my heart dance.<br />
Being old is not about waiting to die,<br />
though giving up is always easier than<br />
getting up. We need not run more minimarathons<br />
or learn to play the violin.<br />
But hey, age is but a challenge, not<br />
an excuse.<br />
Old people — mostly other old people<br />
— do all sorts of young things. Some<br />
do not so much as trade in their hips or<br />
knees to act less than their age. For them,<br />
happiness is not assumed.<br />
They insist on it like they insist on<br />
the senior discount.<br />
I am happy to wake up when I want<br />
instead of when my employer wants,<br />
even though I still wake up about the<br />
same time I did then. I am happy both to<br />
be busy and to be blatantly not busy. I am<br />
happy to be a grandfather and a community<br />
volunteer. I am happy to keep politics<br />
increasingly at a distance — watching sitcom<br />
reruns or ballgames instead of cable<br />
news.<br />
I am happy for Medicare and to be<br />
old enough to qualify. Especially since I<br />
also am happy about the new platter-fullof-fried-chicken<br />
at Cracker Barrel.<br />
Happiness is a choice, I realize. I try<br />
not to gripe. My blood pressure is dicey as<br />
it is. I know gripers. They latch like ticks<br />
onto crisis after crisis, enemy after enemy.<br />
Some are Oscar-worthy at feeling bad.<br />
Maybe being honked is their warped way<br />
of being happy.<br />
If only I was as good at emptying<br />
the dishwasher as I am at not getting all<br />
wound up about anything and everything.<br />
More cares equal fewer naps, I suggest.<br />
By and large, we old people are done with<br />
careers, done with child rearing, done with<br />
fear about seeming cool or stylish, done with<br />
needing to get from our car to the door of the<br />
grocery in less than 10 minutes.<br />
So here I am, rerouting my life’s<br />
TripTik. First off, I glumly assumed I<br />
would not be old for all that long. But I<br />
already have lived longer than my father<br />
and three of my grandparents. I get sick<br />
much less often than when I was half<br />
this age. Now that too makes me happy.<br />
I actually can hope to live long enough to<br />
celebrate another Indiana University basketball<br />
championship.<br />
Granted, modern medicine only can<br />
do so much.<br />
Happiness is my wife continuing<br />
to put up with me. Happiness is a grandchild<br />
on my lap and when gasoline prices<br />
drop. Happiness is being able to afford<br />
HBO and to listen to birds chirp in the<br />
morning. Happiness is meeting friends<br />
for lunch and planning the next vacation.<br />
Happiness is having gotten to the<br />
point where exercise is as much routine as<br />
brushing my teeth.<br />
Happiness is readers still giving my<br />
rambling words a chance. My ego apparently<br />
is not ready to retire.<br />
Okay, that’s enough. That’s a lot.<br />
Dump the assumptions. Embrace the research.<br />
More often than not, I really am<br />
happy.<br />
What a nice surprise. •<br />
After 25 years, Dale Moss<br />
retired as Indiana columnist for<br />
The Courier-Journal. He now<br />
writes weekly for the News and<br />
Tribune. Dale and his wife Jean<br />
live in Jeffersonville in a house<br />
that has been in his family<br />
since the Civil War. Dale’s e-<br />
mail is dale.moss@twc.com
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Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 11
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The Overlook is positioned uniquely<br />
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Summer Hours:<br />
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Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 13
Celebrate autumn with “Tales from the Leaf Pile”<br />
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Available<br />
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There’s something for everyone!<br />
Discover the Past, Enjoy the Present<br />
Friday Night on the Square<br />
<strong>Sept</strong>ember 20 • 6:00-10:00 PM<br />
Courthouse Square, Salem<br />
Lots of vendors, food trucks, games and<br />
activities for the kids, fun for the whole<br />
family!<br />
Old Settlers Days<br />
<strong>Sept</strong>ember 21-22<br />
E. Market St, Salem<br />
Craft vendors, pioneer demonstrations<br />
in the Pioneer Village, re-enactments,<br />
live music, food vendors, free admission<br />
to the Stevens Museum and Depot Train<br />
Museum and lots more!<br />
Oktoberfest at Beck’s Mill<br />
<strong>Oct</strong>ober 26 • 11:00 AM-4:00 PM<br />
Live music. Campfire beans and Beck’s<br />
Mill cornbread will be served. Craft<br />
vendors and Flea Market in parking lot<br />
area. Blacksmith demonstrations. Tommy<br />
Green and his moonshine gang-skits and<br />
local “shine” stories.<br />
Note: Gun firing “blanks” during their<br />
skits. Living history talk given by a Civil<br />
War Group “Indiana Company D”.<br />
Contact us at:<br />
www.washingtoncountytourism.com<br />
or call 812-883-4303 to plan your trip!<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 15
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16 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • Southern Indiana Living
Congratulations H&R Bakery on being<br />
in business since 1946!<br />
Welcome to your new location on the Salem Square.<br />
Your community is so proud!<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 17
Cover Story<br />
Laurel Wreath Bridal offers luxury, private appointments in a beautiful setting<br />
18 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • Southern Indiana Living<br />
Story by Darian Eswine<br />
Photos by Michelle Hockman
When starting Laurel Wreath<br />
Bridal, Laurie Haag had already<br />
had her hand in the<br />
wedding business for seven<br />
years, running The Loft on Spring — a<br />
wedding and event venue.<br />
“Pretty much what happened is, I<br />
was taking care of a lot of brides over at<br />
The Loft, and on the tour appointments,<br />
they would say things like, ‘Oh, I just<br />
came from picking my dress,’” Haag said.<br />
“I was like, I kind of would love to do<br />
that.”<br />
Haag has experience working in<br />
the bridal industry, and combined with<br />
her design and marketing background,<br />
she was ready for the challenge. Laurel<br />
Wreath opened in January 2016.<br />
“Helping girls feel beautiful and<br />
have special days is important to me, and<br />
so I thought that would be a great extension,<br />
and so I’ve had many Loft brides<br />
that have done every single thing with<br />
me, down to their dress,” Haag said.<br />
Although the space at The Loft<br />
wasn’t necessarily conducive to the full<br />
wedding experience — with hair, makeup,<br />
etc. — the space at Laurel Wreath<br />
Bridal is able to meet any need. There’s<br />
the bridal boutique, but across the hall<br />
there’s also a “Beauty Lounge” with stations<br />
for hairdressers or makeup artists, a<br />
dressing room and a sitting area.<br />
“I have a daughter that’s a hairdresser,<br />
so it was a way to kind of bring<br />
my whole family into the thing. I thought,<br />
well, wouldn’t it be a really cool concept<br />
to do like an actual wedding day ‘Beauty<br />
Lounge,’” Haag said.<br />
Brides can rent the space, and<br />
snacks, drinks and mimosas are part of<br />
their package.<br />
“Photographers love it — there’s<br />
great lighting,” Haag said. “We think it’s<br />
kind of been a great little win for downtown<br />
New Albany. I feel like I have my<br />
hand on every little thing that has to do<br />
with weddings down here.”<br />
One of the reasons she opened a<br />
venue in the first place was because she<br />
used to work on the opposite end, booking<br />
venues for radio events. After having<br />
some good experiences and some bad<br />
ones, Haag thought it would be great if<br />
she could open her own venue with her<br />
own unique touches.<br />
“So when I stumbled upon the space<br />
where The Loft on Spring is now — it’s<br />
very small; I call it ‘grand, but intimate,’ it<br />
felt like something I could really do something<br />
special and unique with.”<br />
Haag said that The Loft on Spring is<br />
pretty booked on all of the major wedding<br />
season months, along with public events<br />
and smaller events. Overall, they do 70 to<br />
75 events a year at The Loft on Spring, and<br />
Lauren Ellis, bride,<br />
with assistant Allison Hoffer<br />
“Photographers love it — there’s great lighting.<br />
We think it’s kind of been a great little win for<br />
downtown New Albany. I feel like I have my<br />
hand on every little thing that has to do with<br />
weddings down here.”<br />
- Laurie Haag<br />
Owner, Laurel Wreath Bridal<br />
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about half of those are weddings.<br />
In all of Haag’s spaces, she wants<br />
brides and visitors to feel like it’s going<br />
to be a great day when they walk in. Part<br />
of their motto is “helping brides feel like<br />
their perfect day starts here,” whether<br />
that’s using The Loft on Spring, trying on<br />
dresses or renting the Beauty Lounge.<br />
“Another part of our mission is that<br />
we’re treating the brides as if they are part<br />
of our family. We want to be an extension<br />
of that,” Haag said.<br />
Haag wants brides to have a highend<br />
experience, but not worry about a<br />
high-end budget. Laurel Wreath has a<br />
wide range of pricing, and the consultants<br />
work to find the perfect dress instead of<br />
the highest price.<br />
“We really feel like it’s about the<br />
journey and getting them to the perfect<br />
dress, whether that’s a $600 dress or a<br />
higher-end dress,” Haag said. “We always<br />
say put that extra money toward something<br />
else special for your wedding.”<br />
Laurel Wreath carries three major<br />
bridal lines — Sophia Tolli, Enchanting<br />
and LW Bridal. They carry a range of<br />
gowns, with some having no bling to others<br />
having full ball gowns.<br />
“We want to carry dresses that girls<br />
more average-sized to plus-sized can get<br />
on their body. They get a little frustrated<br />
when they can’t get it on their body to<br />
decide, but we have the tiny girls that get<br />
equally frustrated because you’re clipping<br />
them in six inches and they’re wondering<br />
if it’ll look the same,” Haag said. “It’s a<br />
balancing game on carrying enough sizes<br />
for everyone.”<br />
Most recently, Laurel Wreath was<br />
hand-selected by a popular Australian designer<br />
to carry their line. After a wedding<br />
dress called the Elora went viral on Pinterest,<br />
anyone and everyone was calling the<br />
Australian shop to try to get the dress.<br />
“They decided there’s a very big<br />
market for us in the U.S., so we’re going<br />
to come to the U.S. and find the right-fit
etailers,” Haag said. “So they actually did<br />
research, checked out websites and social<br />
medias and they had to have a certain<br />
look and feel to match them.”<br />
Laurel Wreath was hand-picked<br />
as one of the retailers. “They came from<br />
Australia, suitcases in hand with all their<br />
dresses,” Haag said.<br />
After planning to order only the<br />
minimum of eight sample gowns, Haag<br />
ended up ordering 13, because she<br />
thought the gowns were so amazing.<br />
“I feel proud because this little slice<br />
of Southern Indiana pulled some attention<br />
from a big-name Australian designer<br />
looking to expand in the U.S.,” she said.<br />
“And it’s our biggest, most exciting thing<br />
we have going on right now. The dresses<br />
are starting to come in.”<br />
Haag said the difference between<br />
bigger wedding chains and Laurel Wreath<br />
is that her store won’t have as many options,<br />
which she considers a good thing<br />
given that too many options can lead to<br />
overwhelmed brides.<br />
“We always say we’re an artfully<br />
procured line — we’re not going to have<br />
1,000 dresses — but the experience is going<br />
to be much better than if you went to<br />
a big-box wedding store,” she said. “We<br />
have about 80 or 90 sample dresses right<br />
now. I think sometimes less is more.”<br />
Laurel Wreath’s appointments are<br />
completely private. They offer two-hour<br />
slots in order to make sure the brides<br />
don’t feel rushed or frustrated.<br />
“We try not to interject too much but<br />
do try to offer moral support and try to<br />
help wrangle in their entourage in a loving<br />
way that gets an entourage to be like,<br />
‘She really loves this dress, doesn’t she<br />
look great?’” Haag said.<br />
When brides choose a dress, there is<br />
always a toast to celebrate, an Instagram<br />
Boomerang and a picture of the bride in<br />
front of the large laurel wreath in their sitting<br />
area.<br />
Eventually, Haag said she’d like to<br />
find a way to expand where they can be<br />
running more appointments and servicing<br />
more brides but maintain the friendly<br />
connection and private experience.<br />
Haag said the whole experience and<br />
day should be about the bride enjoying<br />
the day with her family and friends, looking<br />
beautiful and feeling special.<br />
Laurel Wreath is also out making<br />
the community feel beautiful. They host<br />
runway bridal shows, have given dresses<br />
to photographers for styled shoots and<br />
loaned dresses for styled shoots as well.<br />
“I feel like we all down here in Indiana<br />
try really hard to work together and<br />
we’re all about supporting each other,”<br />
Haag said. “We’re all doing something<br />
a little bit different, but we all can add<br />
something nice.” •<br />
“I feel proud because<br />
this little slice of<br />
Southern Indiana pulled<br />
some attention from a bigname<br />
Australian designer<br />
looking to expand in the<br />
U.S. And it’s our<br />
biggest, most exciting<br />
thing we have going on<br />
right now. The dresses<br />
are starting to come in.”<br />
- Laurie Haag<br />
Owner, Laurel Wreath Bridal<br />
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In all of Haag’s spaces, she<br />
wants brides and visitors<br />
to feel like it’s going to<br />
be a great day when they<br />
walk in. Part of their motto<br />
is “helping brides feel like<br />
their perfect day starts<br />
here,” whether that’s using<br />
The Loft on Spring, trying<br />
on dresses or renting the<br />
Beauty Lounge.
Special Section:<br />
Home Improvement<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 23
Interested in updating your home?<br />
No idea where to start? Don’t worry,<br />
you’re not alone! It’s easy to be overwhelmed<br />
with ideas for home renovation.<br />
Just deciding what style you’d like to<br />
create in your home can be tough when<br />
you’re surrounded by a constant stream<br />
of HGTV, picture-perfect homes on social<br />
media and products by Joanna Gaines at<br />
your local Target. The choices seem endless!<br />
The urge to revamp, redo and redecorate<br />
is everywhere, constantly nagging<br />
you about your home’s lack of tastefully<br />
chosen shiplap. That urge can quickly become<br />
complicated and very expensive if<br />
you don’t consider your budget. As much<br />
as I would love to customize my entire<br />
home, this isn’t a reality show. However,<br />
my husband and I have managed to make<br />
several updates to our 1990s brick ranch<br />
that made a huge difference, with only a<br />
small dent in our bank account. I’d like to<br />
share some budget-friendly tips you can<br />
use to refresh your space, without tearing<br />
the whole thing down and starting over.<br />
First, I want to share my best-kept<br />
renovation secret, and the No. 1 way to<br />
make an affordable change in your home.<br />
If you don’t love the look of something,<br />
paint it! Do you wish you had beautiful<br />
white cabinets like the ones you see shining<br />
all over Pinterest? Paint them! Is your<br />
old furniture starting to look scratched<br />
and worn-down? Paint it! Would you like<br />
your rooms to flow and make your space<br />
feel larger? Paint those walls! Paint is<br />
highly undervalued in the home renovation<br />
world, as it gives you the opportunity<br />
to completely change the look and feel of<br />
something at very little cost.<br />
When our family moved into our<br />
home a few years ago, every room looked<br />
like your dad’s favorite Hawaiian shirt.<br />
We had a bright yellow living room, salmon<br />
pink dining room, green kitchen, and<br />
mauve and teal bathrooms. You needed<br />
sunglasses just to walk around indoors,<br />
and all of the rooms felt small and choppy.<br />
One of our first projects was to paint the<br />
three main rooms of our home our favorite<br />
gray/beige color, allowing them to<br />
flow together and give our home the open<br />
concept feel we love, without knocking<br />
down walls.<br />
After we found sophisticated and<br />
calming neutrals for our walls, we painted<br />
several pieces of furniture white to<br />
give everything a modern farmhouse look<br />
without having to buy all new things. I<br />
found a beautiful vintage buffet in downtown<br />
Corydon for the centerpiece of our<br />
family room, and three tables at a consignment<br />
shop in Clarksville for next to nothing.<br />
One can of flat paint later, and they<br />
all look like a “Fixer Upper” reveal. Check<br />
out your local flea markets and thrift<br />
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Special Section: Home Improvement<br />
Home Sweet Home<br />
Updating your home doesn’t have to cost a fortune<br />
Story and Photos by Ali Webb
Special Section: Home Improvement<br />
shops for unique and affordable pieces for<br />
your space. You can easily customize furniture<br />
with a quick coat of paint, and still<br />
spend only a fraction of the cost of new<br />
items.<br />
We saved our largest paint makeover<br />
until only recently, putting off what<br />
we feared to be an expensive and insurmountable<br />
task: painting our exterior<br />
brick. While our 1990s ranch was starting<br />
to look like modern-day HGTV inside, it<br />
still looked like an outdated sitcom on the<br />
outside. The pink-and-tan brick had been<br />
bothering us from the moment we moved<br />
in, and we were finally ready to change it.<br />
I, of course, thought we should paint the<br />
entire exterior white for a clean, timeless<br />
vibe to really brighten up the brick and<br />
add some serious curb appeal. Once my<br />
husband got a few professional painting<br />
quotes, I knew my vision just wasn’t within<br />
our budget. We settled on painting the<br />
brick a neutral tan ourselves, matching<br />
the existing vinyl siding on the rest of the<br />
house, saving us a few thousand dollars.<br />
We also added some inexpensive black reversible<br />
shutters, and I hand-painted our<br />
door and mailbox black to match. Within<br />
only a few days, we had what looked like<br />
a new home! The painted brick completely<br />
changed the look of our home and was<br />
exactly the refresh I desperately wanted.<br />
In addition to paint, there are several<br />
other inexpensive ways to update your<br />
home. While some people overlook the<br />
fixtures in their home, focusing solely on<br />
their functionality, I feel they can really<br />
bring a space up to date. We swapped out<br />
several of the brass light fixtures original<br />
to our house for modern black and<br />
brushed nickel options. Don’t be afraid to<br />
look at display and clearance light fixtures<br />
in your local home improvement stores.<br />
We have replaced almost every fixture<br />
on the interior and exterior of our home<br />
slowly over time by shopping open-box,<br />
display and clearance items, and have<br />
only spent a few hundred dollars total!<br />
Following a light fixture upgrade, you can<br />
also consider switching out your hardware<br />
for a simple and inexpensive way to<br />
update the cabinets and drawers in your<br />
home. Hardware options can be found at<br />
nearly any home improvement store in a<br />
variety of finishes and styles. We matched<br />
While our 1990s ranch was starting to look like<br />
modern-day HGTV inside, it still looked like<br />
an outdated sitcom on the outside. The pinkand-tan<br />
brick had been bothering us from the<br />
moment we moved in, and we were finally ready<br />
to change it.<br />
our hardware to the new or existing light<br />
fixtures in each room to really tie all of the<br />
accents together.<br />
No matter your style or budget, you<br />
deserve to love your home. There are an<br />
endless number of ways to update your<br />
space, with little more than a trip to your<br />
local flea market and Lowe’s. I hope that<br />
these tips and tricks make you feel more<br />
comfortable tackling your next home project.<br />
•<br />
Pictured: (this page, top) The updated exterior of author Allie Webb’s house, with painted brick, shutters, and a new garage<br />
door. (this page, right) the original exterior before updates. // Photos by Allie Webb<br />
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Artist Spotlight<br />
Awed by Sunlight<br />
The plein air paintings of Kazhia Kolb<br />
Kazhia sketching in her yard<br />
The iconic Overlook in<br />
Leavenworth, with its panoramic<br />
view of the sweeping curve of the<br />
Ohio River, is, for Saint Meinrad<br />
artist Kazhia Kolb, a favorite spot to set up<br />
her easel and paint en plein air.<br />
“From there, I can look down on the<br />
river and fields on the opposite bank,”<br />
she said. “The scene is never the same:<br />
The light, the mood, the atmosphere can<br />
change moment to moment. Painting on<br />
location allows me to imbue the work<br />
with these elements. I don’t paint from<br />
photographs because that is not how I<br />
see.”<br />
When looking at Kolb’s painting<br />
“Leavenworth Overlook” (a 22-by-60-inch<br />
oil on canvas), the viewer can see — in addition<br />
to the river scene — the painter’s<br />
mind while she is creating, and it is alive,<br />
full and joyous.<br />
The artist occasionally sketches diners<br />
inside the Overlook Restaurant who<br />
are lingering after a meal, watching the<br />
river and engaging in casual table talk.<br />
Her work named “Dining Out” (a 16-by-<br />
20-inch mixed media piece) was painted<br />
from a sketch done inside the restaurant.<br />
The relaxed poses of her simplified figures<br />
set against the background of a bright river<br />
scene create an impression of an easygoing<br />
Sunday afternoon.<br />
Bluegrass on the Square in downtown<br />
Corydon is another Southern Indiana<br />
setting where Kolb likes to sketch.<br />
“This kind of on-the-spot drawing is more<br />
suitable for me than using a model who<br />
can become stiff and lifeless after sitting<br />
still for hours,” Kolb said. “When the musicians<br />
are in their zone, and they don’t<br />
know I’m there, I can better capture their<br />
personal sparkle and feeling for their music.”<br />
Kolb’s painting “Music in the Park”<br />
(a 16-by-24-inch egg tempera on wood) is<br />
a triptych, with three panels painted from<br />
Story by Judy Cato<br />
Photos by Lorraine Hughes<br />
sketches of members of the audience and<br />
band at the Corydon festival. Egg tempera<br />
is an emulsion of egg yolk and pigment<br />
that Kolb grinds herself. This was the primary<br />
method of painting used in the West<br />
until oil paint gained popularity in the<br />
15th century. Kolb likes to use it because<br />
it is good for simplifying — capturing the<br />
essence of a figure in a few brushstrokes<br />
instead of painting all of the realistic details.<br />
Kolb’s studio, attached to her home,<br />
is on a scenic country road off Ind. 62, just<br />
past the stunning Saint Meinrad Archabbey.<br />
This quiet setting, Kolb believes, is<br />
suited to her artistic spirit. “These rolling<br />
hills make me think of the simple hills in<br />
the paintings of children,” she said. Sheep<br />
graze in the valley next to her home, and<br />
dozens of irises bloom outside her studio<br />
window, planted there, Kolb said, “so I<br />
can see them while I’m working.”<br />
Both Kolb and her husband work at<br />
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Their home is the subject of quite a few of<br />
Kolb’s paintings. The couple’s rooms, with their<br />
views of sunlit gardens, fields and hills, are<br />
depicted on canvas after canvas.<br />
A painting of Kazhia’s home<br />
The Leavenworth Overlook<br />
Saint Meinrad Seminary. He is the library<br />
director and a professor of philosophy;<br />
she is the coordinator of the Library Art<br />
Gallery.<br />
Their home is the subject of quite<br />
a few of Kolb’s paintings. The couple’s<br />
rooms, with their views of sunlit gardens,<br />
fields and hills, are depicted on canvas<br />
after canvas. In the painting “Home” (a<br />
30-by-30-inch oil on canvas), a scene of<br />
cozy domestic life is set forth in the details:<br />
a table with a vase of flowers, a wall<br />
painting of an interior and a packed bookcase.<br />
The open door in the painting is one<br />
of Kolb’s trademarks. Her windows and<br />
doors let the light in and set the mood. In<br />
“Home,” red flowers and sunlit greens<br />
show through the open door. In other<br />
paintings, the light is more suggestive of<br />
dusk, when a touch of longing is concentrated<br />
in the window to the outside world.<br />
Kolb grew up in the countryside of<br />
Surrey County, England. When she was 10<br />
or 11, her mother took her to a Van Gogh<br />
exhibition. “It was this exhibit,” she said,<br />
“that inspired me to become an artist.”<br />
In 1971, she moved to Paris to study<br />
at the Sorbonne and the École des Beaux-<br />
Arts. In 1978, she moved to the United<br />
States, where she studied art at the University<br />
of Notre Dame, then Indiana University.<br />
She has lived in Saint Meinrad<br />
since 2006.<br />
One memory from her childhood<br />
stands out. “I had a pet sheep and took<br />
him out with me for a walk,” she said. “I<br />
can remember seeing a fern that seemed<br />
very ordinary until the sun came out.<br />
Suddenly it was beautiful.” The experience<br />
left a lasting impression. “Maybe,”<br />
she said, “I am always painting this experience<br />
in every picture — the power of the<br />
subtle mutations of shifting light to create<br />
such beauty.” •<br />
For more information about Kazhia Kolb, visit<br />
her website at kazhia.wixsite.com/kazhiakolb.<br />
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“The scene is never the same: The light, the mood, the atmosphere can change<br />
moment to moment. Painting on location allows me to imbue the work with these<br />
elements. I don’t paint from photographs because that is not how I see.”<br />
- Kazhia Kolb<br />
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The artist occasionally sketches diners inside the<br />
Overlook Restaurant who are lingering after a meal,<br />
watching the river and engaging in casual table talk.<br />
Reader Submitted Photo<br />
“Dining Out” (a 16-by-20-inch mixed media piece)<br />
The Wasson family of Floyds Knobs<br />
took Southern Indiana Living with<br />
them to Norway this summer as they<br />
posed overlooking a mountain and<br />
fjord. Kate, Jenny, Rev. Dr. George<br />
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screenings, backpacks, personal care services, and much more--plus live<br />
music and a buzz of excitement welcomed more than 400 people of all<br />
ages to the summer event focused on them and their healthy lifestyle.<br />
Sponsored by non-profit CASI at 1613 E. Eighth Street in Jeffersonville,<br />
the first fair throughout the expansive building was timed around backto-school.<br />
It was all about making sure kids have what they need and<br />
parents have health resources and develop valuable connections, according<br />
to Pam Clark, CASI’s Minority Health Initiative Director. The<br />
day was supported and funded by 23 partners, along with a bevy of<br />
volunteers.<br />
(Right, top) Nursing student Cassie Enlow<br />
took the blood pressure of Daquan<br />
Kaiser as his son, Alijah, watched. Standing<br />
is Pam Clark, CASI’s Minority<br />
Health Initiative Director.<br />
(Right, middle) Denise Triplett, Certified<br />
Healthcare Navigator, gave goodie bags<br />
with helpful items and health insurance<br />
information to Ayala Appling, Nevaeh<br />
Carruthers, La-Praysha Armstrong, Latrice<br />
Appling, Acia Battles, and Anascasia<br />
Campbell.<br />
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(Right, bottom) Aisha Mohammed and<br />
Nathan Hamilton (in front) stopped at<br />
the backpack giveaway station staffed by<br />
volunteers Alayassa Douglas, Shahanna<br />
Cousins, and Lelani Gentry. Backpacks<br />
were provided by Anthem, Inc.<br />
(Left) Louwanna Ball, beautician, adjusted<br />
the bow in Guine Champ’s hair as her<br />
brother, Gabe, stood by.<br />
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The Mustard Seed<br />
GROWTH IN SPIRIT AND SPACE<br />
A remarkable expansion in just 3 1/2 years has led The Mustard Seed<br />
to its newest location at 3579 Paoli Pike in Floyds Knobs, across from its<br />
original store. The non-profit, which opened a store at 7410 Charlestown<br />
Road in Sellersburg in 2017, accepts donations in all areas—clothing<br />
(the bulk of their business and at an average price of $4.27), household<br />
items and furniture, kids’ items and toys, and tons of miscellaneous—<br />
and gives profits to the community’s non-profits.<br />
One such non-profit is SOAR (Survivors Of Abuse Restored), a<br />
Christian group in Sellersburg that provides resources to women who<br />
have been victims of sexual abuse.<br />
“The Mustard Seed has been planted to help heal the wounds of<br />
abuse through counseling, education, and support. We turn used and<br />
discarded items into treasures to restore people from the feeling of being<br />
used and discarded because, after all, they are treasures,” according<br />
to its mission statement.<br />
This fourth expansion, from beginning with 1,800 sq. ft. in late<br />
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mission by also giving the community more room for educational opportunities<br />
and event space. The Mustard Seed is open from 9 a.m. to<br />
6 p.m. Monday through Thursday and 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. Friday and Saturday.<br />
Settling into new space are Ginny Weigleb, founder and<br />
President/CEO, and Christie Morris, Executive Director<br />
of Development.<br />
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Sponsored by the NAFC Education Foundation, Dolly Parton’s Imagination<br />
Library has delivered more than 370,000 books to 14,000 children<br />
since its launch in 2009. The program is open to all children in Floyd<br />
County from birth through fifth birthday, and, once registered, they receive<br />
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Retired Slate Run teacher Marcia Arnold volunteered to register<br />
families for the benefit at Floyds Knobs Elementary’s open<br />
house before school started. Signing up was kindergartener<br />
Gray Schneid as Reece, Natasha, and Drew Schneid looked on.<br />
The generous benefit, currently sending monthly books to 3,700 kids, is<br />
funded by The Horseshoe Foundation of Southern Indiana, Metro United<br />
Way, Samtec, PNC, and numerous individuals. To register, call 812-542-<br />
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Faithpoint United Methodist Church<br />
JUMP START ON CHRISTMAS<br />
The women of Faithpoint United Methodist Church invite the public<br />
to the church’s popular “Gift of Christmas,“ a day retreat for women<br />
before the holidays. The tenth annual event, which is free and open to<br />
the public, will be held from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 9, at the<br />
church, 6694 Hwy. 150 at Navilleton Road in Floyds Knobs. The event<br />
features music, brief worship, enriching fellowship, and a variety of<br />
make-and-take craft workshops before and after the lunch, which will<br />
be provided. Watch the media this fall for more details about on-line<br />
registration, but plan now to attend with family and friends as you prepare<br />
your heart and home for the holidays.<br />
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Shannon McKay, (in back) Susan McKay, Kathy Yeager,<br />
Julie James, chair Julie Aemmer, and Deanna Lockman.<br />
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Real Life Nutrition<br />
Breaking the Breakfast Barrier<br />
As a dietitian, I hear many excuses<br />
from people about why<br />
they skip breakfast: “I don’t like<br />
breakfast foods,” “I have no<br />
time” or “I’m on a diet”. Despite its benefits,<br />
breakfast is one of the most skipped<br />
and neglected meals. Breakfast can be<br />
anything you want it to be! Eating anything<br />
in the morning, even if it is not a<br />
traditional breakfast, helps fuel your body<br />
for the day.<br />
What happens to your body when<br />
you eat or skip breakfast? According to<br />
research, breakfast eaters tend to have<br />
more strength and endurance, and better<br />
concentration and problem-solving<br />
ability. Eating breakfast is linked to better<br />
attitudes at work and school, and higher<br />
productivity in late morning. On the other<br />
side, breakfast-skippers are more likely<br />
tired, irritable or restless in the morning.<br />
Even eating a small amount in the morning<br />
helps refuel your body. It is hard to say<br />
if one meal is better than another is, but<br />
it is generally recommended to distribute<br />
your nutrition throughout the day.<br />
Breakfast is your body’s morning<br />
refueling after eight to twelve hours without<br />
a meal or snack. Your body needs that<br />
meal for improved brain function at work,<br />
home or school, and your muscles need<br />
it to do your daily tasks. Eating a mix of<br />
carbohydrates, fat and protein provides a<br />
sustained release of energy that can continue<br />
to keep you full until lunch. Those<br />
who regularly eat breakfast usually consume<br />
more vitamins, minerals and fiber<br />
for the day. This provides more nutrients<br />
that Americans typically consume too little<br />
of such as calcium, potassium, folate,<br />
and iron. Eating a morning meal is linked<br />
to a healthy body weight and to weight<br />
loss and maintenance. This may be because<br />
breakfast foods can be more satisfying<br />
or the timing of the meal may prevent<br />
extra midmorning snacking.<br />
What makes a good breakfast? It really<br />
depends on what and how much you<br />
eat the rest of the day, what foods you<br />
enjoy in the morning, and your schedule.<br />
It’s recommended to include foods from<br />
at least three food groups including a protein<br />
rich food and a whole grain, which are<br />
rich in fiber. Including both protein and fiber<br />
makes your breakfast more satisfying<br />
and can keep you feeling full longer. Try to<br />
limit foods high in sodium, added sugars<br />
and saturated fats. Try to add vegetables<br />
to breakfast. Vegetables are often under<br />
consumed and adding them to breakfast<br />
is a great way to get more in your diet.<br />
Breaking down breakfast barriers<br />
can be easier than you think. Think outside<br />
the traditional breakfast box and start<br />
including a morning meal!<br />
About the Author<br />
Madisson Veatch, MA, RDN, CD is a Registered<br />
Dietitian with Baptist Health Floyd.<br />
She graduated from Purdue University with<br />
a Bachelor’s of Science in Dietetics. She<br />
completed her dietetic internship through Ball<br />
State University while completing her Master’s<br />
degree. She has been a Clinical Dietitian<br />
with Baptist Health Floyd for three years. She<br />
enjoys cooking and trying out new recipes with<br />
friends and family.<br />
Ingredients:<br />
Directions:<br />
Savory Oats<br />
with a Fried Egg<br />
¼ cup dry quick-cooking steel cut oats<br />
(or ½ cup cooked steel cut oats or rolled oats)<br />
¾ cup water<br />
Pinch of salt<br />
Pinch of pepper<br />
2 tsp extra virgin olive oil, divided<br />
¼ cup red pepper, diced<br />
¼ cup zucchini, diced<br />
2 TBSP onion, diced<br />
¼ cup kale, chopped<br />
1 large egg<br />
Optional: Trader Joe’s Everything Bagel spice<br />
1. Bring water to a boil. Add steal cut oats,<br />
reduce heat to low and simmer for about 3<br />
minutes, until all liquid is absorbed. Turn off<br />
heat and stir in salt and pepper.<br />
2. Heat a nonstick pan or skillet over medium-high<br />
heat, add 1 tsp oil. Add vegetables<br />
and cook for 2-3 minutes, until they soften.<br />
Spoon vegetables over cooked oats.<br />
3. Add remaining 1 tsp of oil and fry egg.<br />
Cook until the whites are no longer translucent<br />
and serve over oatmeal.<br />
4. Optional – top with everything bagel spice.<br />
Mix and match vegetables as you like!<br />
Recipe borrowed from Culinary Nutrition Cuisine<br />
Solutions for Every Breakfast Excuse<br />
I have no time<br />
to make or eat breakfast<br />
I’m trying<br />
to lose weight<br />
I don’t like<br />
breakfast foods<br />
• Keep quick fixes on hand such as<br />
instant oatmeal, whole-grain toaster<br />
waffles, yogurt, fresh fruit, cheese,<br />
and peanut butter<br />
• Try putting peanut butter and fresh<br />
fruit on top of a whole-grain toast<br />
or waffle<br />
• Follow the recipe for Heat and Eat<br />
Oatmeal Cups at www.budgetbytes.<br />
com/heat-eat-oatmeal/<br />
• Try a lean-protein and whole-grain<br />
food which may help you feel fuller<br />
longer and avoid midmorning snacking<br />
• Limit higher-calorie breakfast, such as<br />
those with bacon or sausage, biscuits<br />
and gravy, and hash browns because<br />
their high fat contents can add up to<br />
more calories than you need<br />
• Try a savory breakfast like hummus<br />
on a whole-wheat tortilla or wholegrain<br />
bread with a side of yogurt<br />
• Eat leftovers like chicken noodle<br />
soup or cold cheese or veggie pizza<br />
• Make a lean turkey sandwich with<br />
milk<br />
• Follow the recipe above for Savory<br />
Oatmeal with a Fried Egg<br />
Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 43
People of Southern Indiana<br />
Friends Forever<br />
Marengo pair has shared decades of good times<br />
The two little girls had spent a delightful<br />
evening catching fireflies<br />
and putting them in a Mason jar.<br />
But then things went a bit downhill.<br />
Jackie Jones Bullington and Della<br />
Stewart White liked playing together and<br />
enjoyed overnight visits. However, after<br />
they went to bed this sleepover went awry.<br />
Jackie decided to turn the fireflies loose in<br />
the house. “I didn’t like bugs,” said Della,<br />
“so I just got up and went home.”<br />
However, the incident didn’t damage<br />
the friendship.<br />
The two 87-year-old lifelong Marengo<br />
residents are not sure whether they<br />
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first met at school or church, but they believe<br />
it was in 1938 when they started first<br />
grade at the former Marengo Elementary<br />
School.<br />
That was not an easy time for either.<br />
“Sometimes it became unbearable,” Jackie<br />
said. That is when the tiny 6-year-old<br />
grabbed her little black lunch bucket and<br />
headed home. It wasn’t a successful runaway.<br />
Word of the escape always reached<br />
her sister, Opal, a high school senior, who<br />
promptly retrieved the young pupil and<br />
marched her back to class.<br />
“Let’s just not talk about that year,”<br />
Della said with a slight shake of her head,<br />
Story by Sara Combs<br />
Photo by Tom McDonald<br />
as the two recalled early days while relaxing<br />
in Della’s apartment in the Lincoln<br />
Hills Development Corporation housing<br />
complex in Marengo.<br />
However, the two little girls soon<br />
adjusted to life as students – and something<br />
good came out of that long-ago trying<br />
year. They formed a friendship that<br />
has spanned more than eight decades.<br />
It is a connection that flowed on as they<br />
married, reared children (Della has seven;<br />
Jackie had two). It continued through<br />
deaths, divorce and illnesses, as well as<br />
many good times, and a lot of fun and<br />
laughter.
And it seems that those early school<br />
problems quickly smoothed out.<br />
“The second grade was great,” Della<br />
said. “Melvin Tower was our teacher and<br />
we learned a lot and had a lot of fun.”<br />
Jackie agreed, recalling that the teacher often<br />
joined the class on the playground for<br />
games such as tug-of-war.<br />
The two went through all 12 grades<br />
together, graduating high school in 1950.<br />
“Our class stayed close, especially<br />
the girls,” said Jackie, who lives north of<br />
Marengo in the home that she and her<br />
husband, Russell, built in the early 1960s.<br />
“We girls met for breakfast and other gettogethers.<br />
We even went to Indianapolis<br />
for overnight visits with fellow students<br />
Vivian Clifton Gregory and Oneida Green<br />
Cook. While many of our classmates are<br />
gone, we still send birthday cards and<br />
stay in touch with those who are left,”<br />
Jackie said.<br />
Although Della’s heath issues have<br />
curtailed some of their activities — like<br />
weekly shopping trips to Corydon — the<br />
two women still know how to have a<br />
good time. And the pair agree that one of<br />
their favorite activities is talking about the<br />
old days.<br />
School years were filled with movies<br />
at the old Rialto Theater, basketball<br />
games, picnics at Marengo Cave and parties<br />
at classmates’ homes. “No one had vehicles,<br />
so we walked everywhere,” Jackie<br />
said. End-of-school celebrations usually<br />
meant wiener roasts on the Ed Ross property<br />
just east of town.<br />
“In those days, we made do with<br />
what we had,” Jackie said. She recalls getting<br />
hat boxes from Ella Murphy, a milliner<br />
and women’s apparel shop owner<br />
during that time. “We covered them with<br />
crepe paper for valentines. When we<br />
thought the town needed more Christmas<br />
decorations, we dipped light bulbs in<br />
paint. Frank Sprinkle (a local resident who<br />
worked for Public Service — now Duke<br />
Electric) hung them for us and Gordon<br />
Green (then a local funeral home director)<br />
helped with financing.”<br />
Most of their activities revolved<br />
around the church. Both are members of<br />
Marengo Christian Church, where they<br />
hold unique records. Jackie recently received<br />
an award for 79 years of perfect<br />
Sunday School attendance; Della has a<br />
77-year record. “My hospital and nursing<br />
home stay caused me to miss out this<br />
year,” she said.<br />
“You are allowed two sick days a<br />
year,” Della said. She had to take advantage<br />
of this a few times as her children<br />
were inclined to be born on Sunday.<br />
Besides services, there were church<br />
picnics, Christmas caroling and camps.<br />
“We had picnics at Santa Claus Land<br />
(now Holiday World) when it was just a<br />
statue of Santa and a train,” said Jackie.<br />
“Sometimes it is the little things you<br />
remember,” Della added. She recalled<br />
Jackie’s mother (the late Lula Jones) sending<br />
chicken and dumplings in a Thermos.<br />
“They were still nice and hot when we<br />
ate.”<br />
Church camp was fun, and they<br />
learned a lot there, Jackie said. However,<br />
they remember one camping trip that did<br />
not start out so well. “The older group had<br />
already had its camp week and we were<br />
the only two our age from our church,”<br />
she said. “We got there before any other<br />
campers or staff and we just sat on our<br />
suitcases and asked ourselves, ‘Why did<br />
we come here?’ But when everyone else<br />
arrived, we had a good week and forgot<br />
our earlier distress.”<br />
Life wasn’t all fun and games. Jackie<br />
recalls picking strawberries at Stumler’s<br />
in Borden. “A bus picked up local kids<br />
and took us to the berry patch. I used my<br />
money for some lavender-dotted Swiss<br />
and my mom made me a dress.”<br />
Della worked at Towers’ General<br />
Store (a former business in Marengo) after<br />
school and on Saturdays from 8 a.m. to 6<br />
p.m. “I was paid $3.50 a week,” she said.<br />
During the busy years of rearing<br />
children, the two remained good friends.<br />
“Our families often got together for meals,<br />
games and good times,” Jackie said. “For<br />
a long time, we were part of a neighborhood<br />
club, but then most everybody went<br />
to work and that was that.”<br />
And they have been there for each<br />
other through some rough times. Those<br />
include the deaths of Jackie’s husband,<br />
Russell, and son, Kevin, and White’s divorce<br />
and the care of her daughter, Julie,<br />
who has Down syndrome. “Although<br />
she is high-functioning and remembers<br />
everybody’s names and birth dates, she<br />
required a great deal of care,” Della said.<br />
The two women have supported<br />
each other during various illnesses. Jackie<br />
remembers once talking to Della on the<br />
phone. “I was very sick, and she could tell<br />
it. I barely got the phone hung up when<br />
she got to my house to stay with me until<br />
my husband got home.” And during<br />
Della’s recent health problems, neighbors<br />
mistook Jackie for the home health nurse,<br />
because she was there so often to check on<br />
her friend.<br />
And anyone who thinks slumber<br />
parties are just for teenage girls does not<br />
know these two. Della has hosted several<br />
recently, partly to help her adjust to Julie’s<br />
move to an assisted living apartment<br />
in New Salisbury. “I had her with me for<br />
45 years,” she said. “Although she comes<br />
However, the two little girls soon adjusted to<br />
life as students – and something good came<br />
out of that long-ago trying year. They formed<br />
a friendship that has spanned more than eight<br />
decades. It is a connection that flowed on as<br />
they married, reared children.It continued<br />
through deaths, divorce and illnesses, as well as<br />
many good times, and a lot of fun and laughter.<br />
home for weekends, it has taken some getting<br />
used to.” Having friends over helps<br />
with that transition. And those gatherings<br />
are much the same as any slumber party.<br />
“We talk, laugh, eat, listen to music and<br />
laugh some more.”<br />
Although they resemble the earlier<br />
overnight visits, they don’t include catching<br />
fireflies for Jackie to release at bedtime.<br />
“I know better now,” she said. •<br />
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Everyday Adventures<br />
Riding the Waves<br />
My only job on the lake that<br />
day was to hold on tight. I<br />
was riding something called<br />
a water rocket, which is basically<br />
a giant inflatable banana pulled by a<br />
ski boat.<br />
All I had to do was hang on to the<br />
strap in front of me and keep my balance.<br />
Sounds easy enough, right? It would have<br />
been, except for the fact that the guy driving<br />
the boat had one job: Dump me in the<br />
lake. That meant he was going to drag me<br />
in circles, whip me from side-to-side and<br />
do everything he could to beat the tar out<br />
of me to force me to let go.<br />
There were six of us on the water<br />
rocket that afternoon — three dads, two<br />
teenage boys and my 10-year-old daughter.<br />
From the second we took off, the boys<br />
started taunting the driver, yelling at him<br />
and giving him a thumbs-up to go faster,<br />
go faster. I was pretty sure they were going<br />
to get us killed.<br />
My daughter took the worst of<br />
it. Riding on the front, she had a steady<br />
spray of lake water pummeling her face.<br />
After drinking several gallons, she’d had<br />
enough. She signaled the driver to cut the<br />
engines, then swam across to the boat.<br />
I realized, as she climbed on board,<br />
the rest of us were now toast. The driver<br />
had been taking it easy on us because of<br />
her, but now that it was just the guys, we<br />
were in serious trouble.<br />
As soon as my daughter settled in,<br />
the driver punched it. He veered right<br />
and left, bouncing us over the waves. It<br />
was like riding a mechanical bull in a hurricane.<br />
Each bump felt like it was going to<br />
throw me. I did my best to lean into the<br />
curves and white-knuckled it with every<br />
ounce of strength I had. The banana boat<br />
was so slippery, though, I knew I wouldn’t<br />
last long.<br />
A few minutes later, one of the teenagers<br />
shot into the air in front of me, and<br />
I was thankful for the break. My forearms<br />
were killing me. We picked him up, took<br />
a few more curves and then lost the two<br />
other dads off the back.<br />
Now there were only two of us who<br />
hadn’t fallen off. We didn’t have much<br />
time left on the rocket, so the driver went<br />
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for broke. He threw us into a tight turn,<br />
then suddenly yanked us back the other<br />
direction. At that moment, the wind<br />
caught the side of the water rocket and<br />
flipped the whole thing in the air, spilling<br />
us into the lake.<br />
Despite the fact I’d outlasted almost<br />
everyone else on the boat, at the end of the<br />
day we all ended up soaked. All it took<br />
was one good turn to break my grip.<br />
My adventure on the lake seemed all<br />
too familiar.<br />
Sometimes life has a way of whipping<br />
us around faster than a water rocket.<br />
We feel like we’re being dragged through<br />
circumstances we never would have chosen.<br />
We get sprayed in the face with money<br />
problems, yanked across the rough waters<br />
of diffcult relationships and bumped,<br />
battered and bruised by all manner of<br />
hard situations that seem designed to toss<br />
us into the deep.<br />
It’s all we can do just to hang on and<br />
keep going.<br />
Worse yet, at times it feels like someone<br />
is actively trying to throw us. We<br />
hear that little voice in our heads telling<br />
us life will never get better, to give up on<br />
our marriage, to give up on our faith, to<br />
give up on ourselves. What’s the point, we<br />
think? Why do we even bother trying?<br />
On days like that we all need to remember<br />
that life isn’t just about holding<br />
on tight. It’s about the fact that God is<br />
holding onto us. In Isaiah 41:13 God says,<br />
“For I hold you by your right hand …<br />
And I say to you, ‘Don’t be afraid. I am<br />
here to help you’” (NLT).<br />
My problem on the lake that day<br />
was that I was clinging to a flimsy craft<br />
attached to a boat piloted by a guy who<br />
was working against me. No matter how<br />
much I tried to hold on, he was in the driver’s<br />
seat, which meant that eventually he<br />
was going to win.<br />
In my everyday life, though, I have<br />
an option. I can choose to hold on to someone<br />
who is for me, not against me. I can<br />
anchor myself to someone who is more<br />
solid and stable than the fickle circumstances<br />
of this crazy world.<br />
In the Bible, the people who knew<br />
God best compared him to things like a<br />
rock, a fortress and a firm foundation. He<br />
is unshakable, unstoppable and relentlessly<br />
loving toward his people.<br />
I do have an adversary who is trying<br />
to throw me overboard, but the good<br />
news is he’s not driving the boat. When<br />
I’m tired, discouraged and feel like giving<br />
up, I have to remind myself that God<br />
is still good and he is still in control. And<br />
when I’m too weak to hold onto him, I discover<br />
that he is holding onto me. Sure, I’ll<br />
still get tossed around on the waves, but<br />
his strength is more than enough to keep<br />
my head above water and bring me safely<br />
to shore. •<br />
Jason Byerly is a writer, pastor, husband and<br />
dad who loves the quirky surprises God sends<br />
his way every day. You can read more from<br />
Jason in his books Tales from the Leaf Pile and<br />
Holiday Road. You can catch up with Jason on<br />
his blog at www.jasonbyerly.com.
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