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Featured Stories<br />

18 | THE PERFECT DAY<br />

Laurel Wreath Bridal offers luxury, private appointments<br />

in a beautiful setting<br />

31 | AWED BY SUNLIGHT<br />

The plein air paintings of Kazhia Kolb<br />

8<br />

44 | FRIENDS FOREVER<br />

Marengo pair has shared decades of good times<br />

Southern Indiana Living<br />

SEPTEMBER / OCTOBER <strong>2019</strong><br />

Special Sections<br />

11 | FALL FUN IN SOUTHERN INDIANA<br />

Holiday World & Splashin’ Safari, dining at the Overlook,<br />

and more!<br />

23 | HOME IMPROVEMENT<br />

Updating your home on a budget, designing your dream<br />

home with PC Homebuilders, and more!<br />

18<br />

In Every Issue<br />

7 | FLASHBACK PHOTO<br />

Harvest Homecoming 1973<br />

8 | A WALK IN THE GARDEN WITH BOB HILL<br />

What’s in a name?<br />

10 | A NOTE TO BABY BOOMERS<br />

To be old is to be happy. Who knew?<br />

36 | COMMUNITY PAGES<br />

Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library of Floyd County,<br />

Faithpoint United Methodist Church, and more!<br />

31<br />

43 | REAL LIFE NUTRITION<br />

Breaking the breakfast barrier<br />

46 | EVERYDAY ADVENTURES<br />

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In <strong>Oct</strong>ober of 1973, a crowd gathers on Pearl Street, just north of Main, in<br />

downtown New Albany to celebrate the fifth annual Harvest Homecoming.<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 7


A Walk in the Garden with Bob Hill<br />

What’s in a Name?<br />

Rudbeckia (“Black-Eyed Susan”)<br />

Plant titles come from all kinds of sources<br />

8 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


Late summer is when the plant<br />

commonly called Black-eyed<br />

Susan comes into flower, often<br />

in thick, bright yellow, excitedlooking<br />

clumps that stand and shout and<br />

wave like happy fans too long adrift in a<br />

sports bar.<br />

Truth be told, the Rudbeckia, or<br />

Black-eyed Susan, is one of the more useful<br />

and hard-working perennials any<br />

gardener with a sunny spot and limited<br />

budget can use. Some will only live a<br />

few years, but in such glory while they’re<br />

around.<br />

But today, class, we are going to<br />

walk farther down this garden path and<br />

mostly talk about the sources of fun and<br />

descriptive plant names. What’s with this<br />

Rudbeckia thing? Where did the name<br />

Black-eyed Susan came from? Even the<br />

very popular Zinnia has some funky<br />

name history. Wait until you read about<br />

the Yellow Wax Bells.<br />

But first, the academics. To do all this<br />

naming-explaining properly we must begin<br />

with Swedish naturalist Carl Linnaeus<br />

who, in the mid-1700s, came up with a<br />

binomial system using Latin — a universal<br />

language — to categorize the world’s<br />

plants and animals.<br />

Think about that. Prior to Linnaeus,<br />

a flower common to Germany or France<br />

or the Baltic countries could be given vastly<br />

different names by the locals. A rose by<br />

any other name would smell as sweet, but<br />

those names sure wouldn’t be the same.<br />

So, Linnaeus proposed that plants<br />

first be named in the general group in<br />

which they fell, called a “genus.” For instance,<br />

all pine trees would be pine or<br />

pinus. But a specific pine tree, such as<br />

our common Eastern White Pine, would<br />

be given a second name: Pinus strobus to<br />

distinguish it from the roughly 115 other<br />

pine species.<br />

OK — and I promise there will not<br />

be a pop quiz on this — you are now wondering<br />

where the strobus came from. The<br />

answer is it comes from the Latin strobilus,<br />

meaning pine cone and the Greek<br />

strobus, meaning whirling around.<br />

You apply this tedious process to a<br />

few various trees and only the true plant<br />

geeks and academics can tell a Pinus sylvestris<br />

(Scotch Pine) from a Pinus thunbergii<br />

(Japanese Black Pine).<br />

It took some time — and a ton of international<br />

meetings still going on — but<br />

what’s important here is that a botanist<br />

in China and one in Canada can discuss<br />

a tree native to South America and know<br />

exactly what the other is talking about.<br />

And Linnaeus got it all started, labeling<br />

some 5,900 plant species himself.<br />

OK, class over; back to the Blackeyed<br />

Susans. Linnaeus gave them their<br />

Latin name, Rudbeckia hirta, some 270<br />

years ago. The Rudbeckia part came in<br />

honor of his old Swedish botanist buddy,<br />

Olaf Rudbeck, and his son, also an Olaf<br />

Rudbeck and a botanist. The more distinguishing<br />

hirta part is Latin for hairy/<br />

shaggy/unpolished.<br />

That’s how it worked — and works<br />

— over and over. Registered plant names<br />

come from friends, locations, botany. It<br />

gets complicated because, for instance,<br />

the Rudbeckia, a North American native,<br />

is related to the sunflower. It’s also called<br />

“coneflower” and comes in at least 40<br />

types, with each of them needing a Latin<br />

name.<br />

Not to worry; we are not going there.<br />

In the Rudbeckia’s case, its incredibly<br />

diverse history includes it being a<br />

Native American favorite used for washing<br />

sores and swellings, as a poultice for<br />

snake bites and for treating colds. You<br />

may or may not try that at home.<br />

And the name Black-eyed Susan?<br />

According to the classic story, it came from<br />

a poem written by Englishman John Gay<br />

(1685– 1731). It tells the story of a Blackeyed<br />

Susan (she had been crying) coming<br />

aboard a ship facing a long voyage looking<br />

for her lover, a guy named William.<br />

Yes, the very memorable four lines in the<br />

poem also gave us another flower: “Sweet<br />

William”:<br />

“All in the downs the fleet was<br />

moored,<br />

Banners waving in the wind<br />

When black-eyed Susan came<br />

aboard<br />

And eyed the burly men.<br />

‘Tell me ye sailors, tell me true.<br />

If my Sweet William sails with<br />

you.’”<br />

The historical kicker is the Blackeyed<br />

Susan and Sweet William bloom at<br />

roughly the same time.<br />

The very versatile Zinnia plant also<br />

has some dated history. The first of them<br />

— looking nothing like they do today —<br />

And the name Black-eyed Susan?<br />

According to the classic story, it came from<br />

a poem written by Englishman John Gay<br />

(1685– 1731). It tells the story of a Black-eyed<br />

Susan (she had been crying) coming aboard<br />

a ship facing a long voyage looking for her<br />

lover, a guy named William.<br />

were native to Mexico and brought to Europe<br />

by the Spaniards in the 1500s. A very<br />

complicated plant, they are also in the aster<br />

family and kissing cousins to daisies.<br />

There was no poetry involved in<br />

its naming. The “Zinnia” name was born<br />

when a Dr. Johann Gottfried Zinn of Gottingen<br />

University in Germany — and say<br />

that quickly five times — wrote the first<br />

description of it in the 1750s. Almost disappointing,<br />

isn’t it?<br />

Then there are the Yellow Wax Bells,<br />

a somewhat bushy native of China, one<br />

of which made its way to below a partly<br />

shaded downspout just outside Utica,<br />

Indiana. It came highly praised as a yellow-blooming<br />

gem, but I only keep mine<br />

around because it has refused to fully<br />

bloom for 10 years and I am willing to<br />

wait it out.<br />

The proper name of this thing is Kirengeshoma<br />

palmata. That would be kihren-gesh-OH-may<br />

palm-AY-tah — but<br />

many of you already knew that. Loosely<br />

translated in original Japanese, it all<br />

means “a yellow lotus hat embroidered in<br />

a palm branch.”<br />

All I want it to do is fully bloom. •<br />

About the Author<br />

Bob Hill owns Hidden Hill<br />

Nursery and can be<br />

reached at farmerbob@<br />

hiddenhillnursery.com.<br />

For more information,<br />

including nursery hours<br />

and event information, go<br />

to www.hiddenhillnursery.<br />

com<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 9


A Note to Baby Boomers<br />

To Be Old Is to Be Happy. Who Knew?<br />

Do not assume.<br />

Editors insist on that like<br />

they insist on commas and<br />

deadlines and, you know, all<br />

that pesky truth stuff. I spent nearly a half<br />

century stringing together paragraphs for<br />

pay.<br />

Yet here I am assuming.<br />

I assume up a storm, assume up one<br />

side and down the other, assume ‘til the<br />

cows come home, assume like I ever could<br />

run out of silly clichés.<br />

Assuming is about guessing —<br />

hoping, sometimes — instead of about<br />

knowing. I used to assume I might be a<br />

star athlete. I used to assume the prettiest<br />

girls in class would find me as irresistible<br />

as a Beatle, at least Ringo.<br />

I used to assume the world couldn’t<br />

go on without me as some sort of big shot.<br />

Of course, I then had to assume that, like<br />

on soap operas, one can become, say, a<br />

doctor in six weeks.<br />

I also assumed I’d be accepting<br />

Pulitzer Prizes and becoming everyone’s<br />

brilliant editor at whatever newspaper<br />

I worked. And I assumed I never would<br />

need to have my pants let out or that I’d<br />

always need a haircut more than once per<br />

season.<br />

Assumptions come and go, of<br />

course, not all shamelessly. I assumed I’d<br />

learn to change a tire or to fix a running<br />

toilet. I assumed I’d give blood or tutor<br />

kids.<br />

As much as anything, however, I<br />

assumed how it would be to be old.<br />

Research claims old people tend to<br />

be happier than young ones. By and large,<br />

we old people are done with careers,<br />

done with child rearing, done with fear<br />

about seeming cool or stylish, done with<br />

needing to get from our car to the door of<br />

the grocery in less than 10 minutes.<br />

We cannot keep up with the Joneses<br />

even if we remember who they are.<br />

Am I happy being old? Happier<br />

than when I was making all those<br />

outlandish assumptions about how life<br />

would go? Happier than my children or<br />

my grandchildren?<br />

I assumed old age and retirement<br />

10 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • Southern Indiana Living<br />

were as much to be endured as to be enjoyed.<br />

Sure, the inevitability of cataract<br />

surgery does not make my heart dance.<br />

Being old is not about waiting to die,<br />

though giving up is always easier than<br />

getting up. We need not run more minimarathons<br />

or learn to play the violin.<br />

But hey, age is but a challenge, not<br />

an excuse.<br />

Old people — mostly other old people<br />

— do all sorts of young things. Some<br />

do not so much as trade in their hips or<br />

knees to act less than their age. For them,<br />

happiness is not assumed.<br />

They insist on it like they insist on<br />

the senior discount.<br />

I am happy to wake up when I want<br />

instead of when my employer wants,<br />

even though I still wake up about the<br />

same time I did then. I am happy both to<br />

be busy and to be blatantly not busy. I am<br />

happy to be a grandfather and a community<br />

volunteer. I am happy to keep politics<br />

increasingly at a distance — watching sitcom<br />

reruns or ballgames instead of cable<br />

news.<br />

I am happy for Medicare and to be<br />

old enough to qualify. Especially since I<br />

also am happy about the new platter-fullof-fried-chicken<br />

at Cracker Barrel.<br />

Happiness is a choice, I realize. I try<br />

not to gripe. My blood pressure is dicey as<br />

it is. I know gripers. They latch like ticks<br />

onto crisis after crisis, enemy after enemy.<br />

Some are Oscar-worthy at feeling bad.<br />

Maybe being honked is their warped way<br />

of being happy.<br />

If only I was as good at emptying<br />

the dishwasher as I am at not getting all<br />

wound up about anything and everything.<br />

More cares equal fewer naps, I suggest.<br />

By and large, we old people are done with<br />

careers, done with child rearing, done with<br />

fear about seeming cool or stylish, done with<br />

needing to get from our car to the door of the<br />

grocery in less than 10 minutes.<br />

So here I am, rerouting my life’s<br />

TripTik. First off, I glumly assumed I<br />

would not be old for all that long. But I<br />

already have lived longer than my father<br />

and three of my grandparents. I get sick<br />

much less often than when I was half<br />

this age. Now that too makes me happy.<br />

I actually can hope to live long enough to<br />

celebrate another Indiana University basketball<br />

championship.<br />

Granted, modern medicine only can<br />

do so much.<br />

Happiness is my wife continuing<br />

to put up with me. Happiness is a grandchild<br />

on my lap and when gasoline prices<br />

drop. Happiness is being able to afford<br />

HBO and to listen to birds chirp in the<br />

morning. Happiness is meeting friends<br />

for lunch and planning the next vacation.<br />

Happiness is having gotten to the<br />

point where exercise is as much routine as<br />

brushing my teeth.<br />

Happiness is readers still giving my<br />

rambling words a chance. My ego apparently<br />

is not ready to retire.<br />

Okay, that’s enough. That’s a lot.<br />

Dump the assumptions. Embrace the research.<br />

More often than not, I really am<br />

happy.<br />

What a nice surprise. •<br />

After 25 years, Dale Moss<br />

retired as Indiana columnist for<br />

The Courier-Journal. He now<br />

writes weekly for the News and<br />

Tribune. Dale and his wife Jean<br />

live in Jeffersonville in a house<br />

that has been in his family<br />

since the Civil War. Dale’s e-<br />

mail is dale.moss@twc.com


Brown County, Indiana<br />

Special Section:<br />

Fall Fun in Southern Indiana<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 11


Amazing views only rivaled by the great<br />

food and friendly atmosphere!<br />

The Overlook is positioned uniquely<br />

on a bluff in Leavenworth, Indiana the<br />

Overlook Restaurant offers a 20 mile<br />

panoramic vista of the Ohio River. As you<br />

enjoy your meal, watch barges churning<br />

up and down the river or the sun setting<br />

behind the wooded hills of Indiana.<br />

Summer Hours:<br />

11:00 AM - 8:00 PM<br />

Sunday - Thursday<br />

_________________<br />

11:00 AM - 9:00 PM<br />

Friday and Saturday<br />

Walters Pub features different types<br />

of beer including draft and craft beer<br />

selections. Walter’s serves mixed drinks<br />

as well as a food menu consisting of<br />

appetizers and pizza. Customers can sit<br />

out on the deck and enjoy a spectacular<br />

view of the Ohio River.<br />

Come In For A Pizza!<br />

Now Open:<br />

Every Friday, Saturday and Sunday.<br />

812-739-4264<br />

812-739-4264 | www.theoverlook |<br />

12 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


Fun. With a Twist.<br />

The World’s #1 Wing Coaster, the World’s 2 Longest Water<br />

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Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 13


Celebrate autumn with “Tales from the Leaf Pile”<br />

by Southern Indiana Living columnist Jason Byerly<br />

Available<br />

in paperback and e-book<br />

at Amazon!<br />

www.jasonbyerly.com<br />

14 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


There’s something for everyone!<br />

Discover the Past, Enjoy the Present<br />

Friday Night on the Square<br />

<strong>Sept</strong>ember 20 • 6:00-10:00 PM<br />

Courthouse Square, Salem<br />

Lots of vendors, food trucks, games and<br />

activities for the kids, fun for the whole<br />

family!<br />

Old Settlers Days<br />

<strong>Sept</strong>ember 21-22<br />

E. Market St, Salem<br />

Craft vendors, pioneer demonstrations<br />

in the Pioneer Village, re-enactments,<br />

live music, food vendors, free admission<br />

to the Stevens Museum and Depot Train<br />

Museum and lots more!<br />

Oktoberfest at Beck’s Mill<br />

<strong>Oct</strong>ober 26 • 11:00 AM-4:00 PM<br />

Live music. Campfire beans and Beck’s<br />

Mill cornbread will be served. Craft<br />

vendors and Flea Market in parking lot<br />

area. Blacksmith demonstrations. Tommy<br />

Green and his moonshine gang-skits and<br />

local “shine” stories.<br />

Note: Gun firing “blanks” during their<br />

skits. Living history talk given by a Civil<br />

War Group “Indiana Company D”.<br />

Contact us at:<br />

www.washingtoncountytourism.com<br />

or call 812-883-4303 to plan your trip!<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 15


We Are<br />

Outdoor<br />

Recreation<br />

CrawfordCountyIndiana.com<br />

812-739-2246<br />

16 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


Congratulations H&R Bakery on being<br />

in business since 1946!<br />

Welcome to your new location on the Salem Square.<br />

Your community is so proud!<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 17


Cover Story<br />

Laurel Wreath Bridal offers luxury, private appointments in a beautiful setting<br />

18 • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • Southern Indiana Living<br />

Story by Darian Eswine<br />

Photos by Michelle Hockman


When starting Laurel Wreath<br />

Bridal, Laurie Haag had already<br />

had her hand in the<br />

wedding business for seven<br />

years, running The Loft on Spring — a<br />

wedding and event venue.<br />

“Pretty much what happened is, I<br />

was taking care of a lot of brides over at<br />

The Loft, and on the tour appointments,<br />

they would say things like, ‘Oh, I just<br />

came from picking my dress,’” Haag said.<br />

“I was like, I kind of would love to do<br />

that.”<br />

Haag has experience working in<br />

the bridal industry, and combined with<br />

her design and marketing background,<br />

she was ready for the challenge. Laurel<br />

Wreath opened in January 2016.<br />

“Helping girls feel beautiful and<br />

have special days is important to me, and<br />

so I thought that would be a great extension,<br />

and so I’ve had many Loft brides<br />

that have done every single thing with<br />

me, down to their dress,” Haag said.<br />

Although the space at The Loft<br />

wasn’t necessarily conducive to the full<br />

wedding experience — with hair, makeup,<br />

etc. — the space at Laurel Wreath<br />

Bridal is able to meet any need. There’s<br />

the bridal boutique, but across the hall<br />

there’s also a “Beauty Lounge” with stations<br />

for hairdressers or makeup artists, a<br />

dressing room and a sitting area.<br />

“I have a daughter that’s a hairdresser,<br />

so it was a way to kind of bring<br />

my whole family into the thing. I thought,<br />

well, wouldn’t it be a really cool concept<br />

to do like an actual wedding day ‘Beauty<br />

Lounge,’” Haag said.<br />

Brides can rent the space, and<br />

snacks, drinks and mimosas are part of<br />

their package.<br />

“Photographers love it — there’s<br />

great lighting,” Haag said. “We think it’s<br />

kind of been a great little win for downtown<br />

New Albany. I feel like I have my<br />

hand on every little thing that has to do<br />

with weddings down here.”<br />

One of the reasons she opened a<br />

venue in the first place was because she<br />

used to work on the opposite end, booking<br />

venues for radio events. After having<br />

some good experiences and some bad<br />

ones, Haag thought it would be great if<br />

she could open her own venue with her<br />

own unique touches.<br />

“So when I stumbled upon the space<br />

where The Loft on Spring is now — it’s<br />

very small; I call it ‘grand, but intimate,’ it<br />

felt like something I could really do something<br />

special and unique with.”<br />

Haag said that The Loft on Spring is<br />

pretty booked on all of the major wedding<br />

season months, along with public events<br />

and smaller events. Overall, they do 70 to<br />

75 events a year at The Loft on Spring, and<br />

Lauren Ellis, bride,<br />

with assistant Allison Hoffer<br />

“Photographers love it — there’s great lighting.<br />

We think it’s kind of been a great little win for<br />

downtown New Albany. I feel like I have my<br />

hand on every little thing that has to do with<br />

weddings down here.”<br />

- Laurie Haag<br />

Owner, Laurel Wreath Bridal<br />

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about half of those are weddings.<br />

In all of Haag’s spaces, she wants<br />

brides and visitors to feel like it’s going<br />

to be a great day when they walk in. Part<br />

of their motto is “helping brides feel like<br />

their perfect day starts here,” whether<br />

that’s using The Loft on Spring, trying on<br />

dresses or renting the Beauty Lounge.<br />

“Another part of our mission is that<br />

we’re treating the brides as if they are part<br />

of our family. We want to be an extension<br />

of that,” Haag said.<br />

Haag wants brides to have a highend<br />

experience, but not worry about a<br />

high-end budget. Laurel Wreath has a<br />

wide range of pricing, and the consultants<br />

work to find the perfect dress instead of<br />

the highest price.<br />

“We really feel like it’s about the<br />

journey and getting them to the perfect<br />

dress, whether that’s a $600 dress or a<br />

higher-end dress,” Haag said. “We always<br />

say put that extra money toward something<br />

else special for your wedding.”<br />

Laurel Wreath carries three major<br />

bridal lines — Sophia Tolli, Enchanting<br />

and LW Bridal. They carry a range of<br />

gowns, with some having no bling to others<br />

having full ball gowns.<br />

“We want to carry dresses that girls<br />

more average-sized to plus-sized can get<br />

on their body. They get a little frustrated<br />

when they can’t get it on their body to<br />

decide, but we have the tiny girls that get<br />

equally frustrated because you’re clipping<br />

them in six inches and they’re wondering<br />

if it’ll look the same,” Haag said. “It’s a<br />

balancing game on carrying enough sizes<br />

for everyone.”<br />

Most recently, Laurel Wreath was<br />

hand-selected by a popular Australian designer<br />

to carry their line. After a wedding<br />

dress called the Elora went viral on Pinterest,<br />

anyone and everyone was calling the<br />

Australian shop to try to get the dress.<br />

“They decided there’s a very big<br />

market for us in the U.S., so we’re going<br />

to come to the U.S. and find the right-fit


etailers,” Haag said. “So they actually did<br />

research, checked out websites and social<br />

medias and they had to have a certain<br />

look and feel to match them.”<br />

Laurel Wreath was hand-picked<br />

as one of the retailers. “They came from<br />

Australia, suitcases in hand with all their<br />

dresses,” Haag said.<br />

After planning to order only the<br />

minimum of eight sample gowns, Haag<br />

ended up ordering 13, because she<br />

thought the gowns were so amazing.<br />

“I feel proud because this little slice<br />

of Southern Indiana pulled some attention<br />

from a big-name Australian designer<br />

looking to expand in the U.S.,” she said.<br />

“And it’s our biggest, most exciting thing<br />

we have going on right now. The dresses<br />

are starting to come in.”<br />

Haag said the difference between<br />

bigger wedding chains and Laurel Wreath<br />

is that her store won’t have as many options,<br />

which she considers a good thing<br />

given that too many options can lead to<br />

overwhelmed brides.<br />

“We always say we’re an artfully<br />

procured line — we’re not going to have<br />

1,000 dresses — but the experience is going<br />

to be much better than if you went to<br />

a big-box wedding store,” she said. “We<br />

have about 80 or 90 sample dresses right<br />

now. I think sometimes less is more.”<br />

Laurel Wreath’s appointments are<br />

completely private. They offer two-hour<br />

slots in order to make sure the brides<br />

don’t feel rushed or frustrated.<br />

“We try not to interject too much but<br />

do try to offer moral support and try to<br />

help wrangle in their entourage in a loving<br />

way that gets an entourage to be like,<br />

‘She really loves this dress, doesn’t she<br />

look great?’” Haag said.<br />

When brides choose a dress, there is<br />

always a toast to celebrate, an Instagram<br />

Boomerang and a picture of the bride in<br />

front of the large laurel wreath in their sitting<br />

area.<br />

Eventually, Haag said she’d like to<br />

find a way to expand where they can be<br />

running more appointments and servicing<br />

more brides but maintain the friendly<br />

connection and private experience.<br />

Haag said the whole experience and<br />

day should be about the bride enjoying<br />

the day with her family and friends, looking<br />

beautiful and feeling special.<br />

Laurel Wreath is also out making<br />

the community feel beautiful. They host<br />

runway bridal shows, have given dresses<br />

to photographers for styled shoots and<br />

loaned dresses for styled shoots as well.<br />

“I feel like we all down here in Indiana<br />

try really hard to work together and<br />

we’re all about supporting each other,”<br />

Haag said. “We’re all doing something<br />

a little bit different, but we all can add<br />

something nice.” •<br />

“I feel proud because<br />

this little slice of<br />

Southern Indiana pulled<br />

some attention from a bigname<br />

Australian designer<br />

looking to expand in the<br />

U.S. And it’s our<br />

biggest, most exciting<br />

thing we have going on<br />

right now. The dresses<br />

are starting to come in.”<br />

- Laurie Haag<br />

Owner, Laurel Wreath Bridal<br />

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In all of Haag’s spaces, she<br />

wants brides and visitors<br />

to feel like it’s going to<br />

be a great day when they<br />

walk in. Part of their motto<br />

is “helping brides feel like<br />

their perfect day starts<br />

here,” whether that’s using<br />

The Loft on Spring, trying<br />

on dresses or renting the<br />

Beauty Lounge.


Special Section:<br />

Home Improvement<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 23


Interested in updating your home?<br />

No idea where to start? Don’t worry,<br />

you’re not alone! It’s easy to be overwhelmed<br />

with ideas for home renovation.<br />

Just deciding what style you’d like to<br />

create in your home can be tough when<br />

you’re surrounded by a constant stream<br />

of HGTV, picture-perfect homes on social<br />

media and products by Joanna Gaines at<br />

your local Target. The choices seem endless!<br />

The urge to revamp, redo and redecorate<br />

is everywhere, constantly nagging<br />

you about your home’s lack of tastefully<br />

chosen shiplap. That urge can quickly become<br />

complicated and very expensive if<br />

you don’t consider your budget. As much<br />

as I would love to customize my entire<br />

home, this isn’t a reality show. However,<br />

my husband and I have managed to make<br />

several updates to our 1990s brick ranch<br />

that made a huge difference, with only a<br />

small dent in our bank account. I’d like to<br />

share some budget-friendly tips you can<br />

use to refresh your space, without tearing<br />

the whole thing down and starting over.<br />

First, I want to share my best-kept<br />

renovation secret, and the No. 1 way to<br />

make an affordable change in your home.<br />

If you don’t love the look of something,<br />

paint it! Do you wish you had beautiful<br />

white cabinets like the ones you see shining<br />

all over Pinterest? Paint them! Is your<br />

old furniture starting to look scratched<br />

and worn-down? Paint it! Would you like<br />

your rooms to flow and make your space<br />

feel larger? Paint those walls! Paint is<br />

highly undervalued in the home renovation<br />

world, as it gives you the opportunity<br />

to completely change the look and feel of<br />

something at very little cost.<br />

When our family moved into our<br />

home a few years ago, every room looked<br />

like your dad’s favorite Hawaiian shirt.<br />

We had a bright yellow living room, salmon<br />

pink dining room, green kitchen, and<br />

mauve and teal bathrooms. You needed<br />

sunglasses just to walk around indoors,<br />

and all of the rooms felt small and choppy.<br />

One of our first projects was to paint the<br />

three main rooms of our home our favorite<br />

gray/beige color, allowing them to<br />

flow together and give our home the open<br />

concept feel we love, without knocking<br />

down walls.<br />

After we found sophisticated and<br />

calming neutrals for our walls, we painted<br />

several pieces of furniture white to<br />

give everything a modern farmhouse look<br />

without having to buy all new things. I<br />

found a beautiful vintage buffet in downtown<br />

Corydon for the centerpiece of our<br />

family room, and three tables at a consignment<br />

shop in Clarksville for next to nothing.<br />

One can of flat paint later, and they<br />

all look like a “Fixer Upper” reveal. Check<br />

out your local flea markets and thrift<br />

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Special Section: Home Improvement<br />

Home Sweet Home<br />

Updating your home doesn’t have to cost a fortune<br />

Story and Photos by Ali Webb


Special Section: Home Improvement<br />

shops for unique and affordable pieces for<br />

your space. You can easily customize furniture<br />

with a quick coat of paint, and still<br />

spend only a fraction of the cost of new<br />

items.<br />

We saved our largest paint makeover<br />

until only recently, putting off what<br />

we feared to be an expensive and insurmountable<br />

task: painting our exterior<br />

brick. While our 1990s ranch was starting<br />

to look like modern-day HGTV inside, it<br />

still looked like an outdated sitcom on the<br />

outside. The pink-and-tan brick had been<br />

bothering us from the moment we moved<br />

in, and we were finally ready to change it.<br />

I, of course, thought we should paint the<br />

entire exterior white for a clean, timeless<br />

vibe to really brighten up the brick and<br />

add some serious curb appeal. Once my<br />

husband got a few professional painting<br />

quotes, I knew my vision just wasn’t within<br />

our budget. We settled on painting the<br />

brick a neutral tan ourselves, matching<br />

the existing vinyl siding on the rest of the<br />

house, saving us a few thousand dollars.<br />

We also added some inexpensive black reversible<br />

shutters, and I hand-painted our<br />

door and mailbox black to match. Within<br />

only a few days, we had what looked like<br />

a new home! The painted brick completely<br />

changed the look of our home and was<br />

exactly the refresh I desperately wanted.<br />

In addition to paint, there are several<br />

other inexpensive ways to update your<br />

home. While some people overlook the<br />

fixtures in their home, focusing solely on<br />

their functionality, I feel they can really<br />

bring a space up to date. We swapped out<br />

several of the brass light fixtures original<br />

to our house for modern black and<br />

brushed nickel options. Don’t be afraid to<br />

look at display and clearance light fixtures<br />

in your local home improvement stores.<br />

We have replaced almost every fixture<br />

on the interior and exterior of our home<br />

slowly over time by shopping open-box,<br />

display and clearance items, and have<br />

only spent a few hundred dollars total!<br />

Following a light fixture upgrade, you can<br />

also consider switching out your hardware<br />

for a simple and inexpensive way to<br />

update the cabinets and drawers in your<br />

home. Hardware options can be found at<br />

nearly any home improvement store in a<br />

variety of finishes and styles. We matched<br />

While our 1990s ranch was starting to look like<br />

modern-day HGTV inside, it still looked like<br />

an outdated sitcom on the outside. The pinkand-tan<br />

brick had been bothering us from the<br />

moment we moved in, and we were finally ready<br />

to change it.<br />

our hardware to the new or existing light<br />

fixtures in each room to really tie all of the<br />

accents together.<br />

No matter your style or budget, you<br />

deserve to love your home. There are an<br />

endless number of ways to update your<br />

space, with little more than a trip to your<br />

local flea market and Lowe’s. I hope that<br />

these tips and tricks make you feel more<br />

comfortable tackling your next home project.<br />

•<br />

Pictured: (this page, top) The updated exterior of author Allie Webb’s house, with painted brick, shutters, and a new garage<br />

door. (this page, right) the original exterior before updates. // Photos by Allie Webb<br />

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Artist Spotlight<br />

Awed by Sunlight<br />

The plein air paintings of Kazhia Kolb<br />

Kazhia sketching in her yard<br />

The iconic Overlook in<br />

Leavenworth, with its panoramic<br />

view of the sweeping curve of the<br />

Ohio River, is, for Saint Meinrad<br />

artist Kazhia Kolb, a favorite spot to set up<br />

her easel and paint en plein air.<br />

“From there, I can look down on the<br />

river and fields on the opposite bank,”<br />

she said. “The scene is never the same:<br />

The light, the mood, the atmosphere can<br />

change moment to moment. Painting on<br />

location allows me to imbue the work<br />

with these elements. I don’t paint from<br />

photographs because that is not how I<br />

see.”<br />

When looking at Kolb’s painting<br />

“Leavenworth Overlook” (a 22-by-60-inch<br />

oil on canvas), the viewer can see — in addition<br />

to the river scene — the painter’s<br />

mind while she is creating, and it is alive,<br />

full and joyous.<br />

The artist occasionally sketches diners<br />

inside the Overlook Restaurant who<br />

are lingering after a meal, watching the<br />

river and engaging in casual table talk.<br />

Her work named “Dining Out” (a 16-by-<br />

20-inch mixed media piece) was painted<br />

from a sketch done inside the restaurant.<br />

The relaxed poses of her simplified figures<br />

set against the background of a bright river<br />

scene create an impression of an easygoing<br />

Sunday afternoon.<br />

Bluegrass on the Square in downtown<br />

Corydon is another Southern Indiana<br />

setting where Kolb likes to sketch.<br />

“This kind of on-the-spot drawing is more<br />

suitable for me than using a model who<br />

can become stiff and lifeless after sitting<br />

still for hours,” Kolb said. “When the musicians<br />

are in their zone, and they don’t<br />

know I’m there, I can better capture their<br />

personal sparkle and feeling for their music.”<br />

Kolb’s painting “Music in the Park”<br />

(a 16-by-24-inch egg tempera on wood) is<br />

a triptych, with three panels painted from<br />

Story by Judy Cato<br />

Photos by Lorraine Hughes<br />

sketches of members of the audience and<br />

band at the Corydon festival. Egg tempera<br />

is an emulsion of egg yolk and pigment<br />

that Kolb grinds herself. This was the primary<br />

method of painting used in the West<br />

until oil paint gained popularity in the<br />

15th century. Kolb likes to use it because<br />

it is good for simplifying — capturing the<br />

essence of a figure in a few brushstrokes<br />

instead of painting all of the realistic details.<br />

Kolb’s studio, attached to her home,<br />

is on a scenic country road off Ind. 62, just<br />

past the stunning Saint Meinrad Archabbey.<br />

This quiet setting, Kolb believes, is<br />

suited to her artistic spirit. “These rolling<br />

hills make me think of the simple hills in<br />

the paintings of children,” she said. Sheep<br />

graze in the valley next to her home, and<br />

dozens of irises bloom outside her studio<br />

window, planted there, Kolb said, “so I<br />

can see them while I’m working.”<br />

Both Kolb and her husband work at<br />

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Their home is the subject of quite a few of<br />

Kolb’s paintings. The couple’s rooms, with their<br />

views of sunlit gardens, fields and hills, are<br />

depicted on canvas after canvas.<br />

A painting of Kazhia’s home<br />

The Leavenworth Overlook<br />

Saint Meinrad Seminary. He is the library<br />

director and a professor of philosophy;<br />

she is the coordinator of the Library Art<br />

Gallery.<br />

Their home is the subject of quite<br />

a few of Kolb’s paintings. The couple’s<br />

rooms, with their views of sunlit gardens,<br />

fields and hills, are depicted on canvas<br />

after canvas. In the painting “Home” (a<br />

30-by-30-inch oil on canvas), a scene of<br />

cozy domestic life is set forth in the details:<br />

a table with a vase of flowers, a wall<br />

painting of an interior and a packed bookcase.<br />

The open door in the painting is one<br />

of Kolb’s trademarks. Her windows and<br />

doors let the light in and set the mood. In<br />

“Home,” red flowers and sunlit greens<br />

show through the open door. In other<br />

paintings, the light is more suggestive of<br />

dusk, when a touch of longing is concentrated<br />

in the window to the outside world.<br />

Kolb grew up in the countryside of<br />

Surrey County, England. When she was 10<br />

or 11, her mother took her to a Van Gogh<br />

exhibition. “It was this exhibit,” she said,<br />

“that inspired me to become an artist.”<br />

In 1971, she moved to Paris to study<br />

at the Sorbonne and the École des Beaux-<br />

Arts. In 1978, she moved to the United<br />

States, where she studied art at the University<br />

of Notre Dame, then Indiana University.<br />

She has lived in Saint Meinrad<br />

since 2006.<br />

One memory from her childhood<br />

stands out. “I had a pet sheep and took<br />

him out with me for a walk,” she said. “I<br />

can remember seeing a fern that seemed<br />

very ordinary until the sun came out.<br />

Suddenly it was beautiful.” The experience<br />

left a lasting impression. “Maybe,”<br />

she said, “I am always painting this experience<br />

in every picture — the power of the<br />

subtle mutations of shifting light to create<br />

such beauty.” •<br />

For more information about Kazhia Kolb, visit<br />

her website at kazhia.wixsite.com/kazhiakolb.<br />

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“The scene is never the same: The light, the mood, the atmosphere can change<br />

moment to moment. Painting on location allows me to imbue the work with these<br />

elements. I don’t paint from photographs because that is not how I see.”<br />

- Kazhia Kolb<br />

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The artist occasionally sketches diners inside the<br />

Overlook Restaurant who are lingering after a meal,<br />

watching the river and engaging in casual table talk.<br />

Reader Submitted Photo<br />

“Dining Out” (a 16-by-20-inch mixed media piece)<br />

The Wasson family of Floyds Knobs<br />

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them to Norway this summer as they<br />

posed overlooking a mountain and<br />

fjord. Kate, Jenny, Rev. Dr. George<br />

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Booths with 35 vendors offering free items and information--from health<br />

screenings, backpacks, personal care services, and much more--plus live<br />

music and a buzz of excitement welcomed more than 400 people of all<br />

ages to the summer event focused on them and their healthy lifestyle.<br />

Sponsored by non-profit CASI at 1613 E. Eighth Street in Jeffersonville,<br />

the first fair throughout the expansive building was timed around backto-school.<br />

It was all about making sure kids have what they need and<br />

parents have health resources and develop valuable connections, according<br />

to Pam Clark, CASI’s Minority Health Initiative Director. The<br />

day was supported and funded by 23 partners, along with a bevy of<br />

volunteers.<br />

(Right, top) Nursing student Cassie Enlow<br />

took the blood pressure of Daquan<br />

Kaiser as his son, Alijah, watched. Standing<br />

is Pam Clark, CASI’s Minority<br />

Health Initiative Director.<br />

(Right, middle) Denise Triplett, Certified<br />

Healthcare Navigator, gave goodie bags<br />

with helpful items and health insurance<br />

information to Ayala Appling, Nevaeh<br />

Carruthers, La-Praysha Armstrong, Latrice<br />

Appling, Acia Battles, and Anascasia<br />

Campbell.<br />

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(Right, bottom) Aisha Mohammed and<br />

Nathan Hamilton (in front) stopped at<br />

the backpack giveaway station staffed by<br />

volunteers Alayassa Douglas, Shahanna<br />

Cousins, and Lelani Gentry. Backpacks<br />

were provided by Anthem, Inc.<br />

(Left) Louwanna Ball, beautician, adjusted<br />

the bow in Guine Champ’s hair as her<br />

brother, Gabe, stood by.<br />

These pages are sponsored by Idealogy


The Mustard Seed<br />

GROWTH IN SPIRIT AND SPACE<br />

A remarkable expansion in just 3 1/2 years has led The Mustard Seed<br />

to its newest location at 3579 Paoli Pike in Floyds Knobs, across from its<br />

original store. The non-profit, which opened a store at 7410 Charlestown<br />

Road in Sellersburg in 2017, accepts donations in all areas—clothing<br />

(the bulk of their business and at an average price of $4.27), household<br />

items and furniture, kids’ items and toys, and tons of miscellaneous—<br />

and gives profits to the community’s non-profits.<br />

One such non-profit is SOAR (Survivors Of Abuse Restored), a<br />

Christian group in Sellersburg that provides resources to women who<br />

have been victims of sexual abuse.<br />

“The Mustard Seed has been planted to help heal the wounds of<br />

abuse through counseling, education, and support. We turn used and<br />

discarded items into treasures to restore people from the feeling of being<br />

used and discarded because, after all, they are treasures,” according<br />

to its mission statement.<br />

This fourth expansion, from beginning with 1,800 sq. ft. in late<br />

March of 2016 to 9,000 sq. ft. now, is better able to fulfill the thrift store’s<br />

mission by also giving the community more room for educational opportunities<br />

and event space. The Mustard Seed is open from 9 a.m. to<br />

6 p.m. Monday through Thursday and 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. Friday and Saturday.<br />

Settling into new space are Ginny Weigleb, founder and<br />

President/CEO, and Christie Morris, Executive Director<br />

of Development.<br />

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Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library<br />

of Floyd County<br />

FIVE YEARS OF FREE BOOKS<br />

Sponsored by the NAFC Education Foundation, Dolly Parton’s Imagination<br />

Library has delivered more than 370,000 books to 14,000 children<br />

since its launch in 2009. The program is open to all children in Floyd<br />

County from birth through fifth birthday, and, once registered, they receive<br />

a free book in the mail each month.<br />

Retired Slate Run teacher Marcia Arnold volunteered to register<br />

families for the benefit at Floyds Knobs Elementary’s open<br />

house before school started. Signing up was kindergartener<br />

Gray Schneid as Reece, Natasha, and Drew Schneid looked on.<br />

The generous benefit, currently sending monthly books to 3,700 kids, is<br />

funded by The Horseshoe Foundation of Southern Indiana, Metro United<br />

Way, Samtec, PNC, and numerous individuals. To register, call 812-542-<br />

4001, or go online at imaginationlibrary.com.<br />

Faithpoint United Methodist Church<br />

JUMP START ON CHRISTMAS<br />

The women of Faithpoint United Methodist Church invite the public<br />

to the church’s popular “Gift of Christmas,“ a day retreat for women<br />

before the holidays. The tenth annual event, which is free and open to<br />

the public, will be held from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 9, at the<br />

church, 6694 Hwy. 150 at Navilleton Road in Floyds Knobs. The event<br />

features music, brief worship, enriching fellowship, and a variety of<br />

make-and-take craft workshops before and after the lunch, which will<br />

be provided. Watch the media this fall for more details about on-line<br />

registration, but plan now to attend with family and friends as you prepare<br />

your heart and home for the holidays.<br />

These pages are sponsored by Idealogy<br />

Among the planners with their Christmas string art are<br />

Shannon McKay, (in back) Susan McKay, Kathy Yeager,<br />

Julie James, chair Julie Aemmer, and Deanna Lockman.<br />

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We wish to congratulate the <strong>2019</strong> Samaritan Award Winners...<br />

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Real Life Nutrition<br />

Breaking the Breakfast Barrier<br />

As a dietitian, I hear many excuses<br />

from people about why<br />

they skip breakfast: “I don’t like<br />

breakfast foods,” “I have no<br />

time” or “I’m on a diet”. Despite its benefits,<br />

breakfast is one of the most skipped<br />

and neglected meals. Breakfast can be<br />

anything you want it to be! Eating anything<br />

in the morning, even if it is not a<br />

traditional breakfast, helps fuel your body<br />

for the day.<br />

What happens to your body when<br />

you eat or skip breakfast? According to<br />

research, breakfast eaters tend to have<br />

more strength and endurance, and better<br />

concentration and problem-solving<br />

ability. Eating breakfast is linked to better<br />

attitudes at work and school, and higher<br />

productivity in late morning. On the other<br />

side, breakfast-skippers are more likely<br />

tired, irritable or restless in the morning.<br />

Even eating a small amount in the morning<br />

helps refuel your body. It is hard to say<br />

if one meal is better than another is, but<br />

it is generally recommended to distribute<br />

your nutrition throughout the day.<br />

Breakfast is your body’s morning<br />

refueling after eight to twelve hours without<br />

a meal or snack. Your body needs that<br />

meal for improved brain function at work,<br />

home or school, and your muscles need<br />

it to do your daily tasks. Eating a mix of<br />

carbohydrates, fat and protein provides a<br />

sustained release of energy that can continue<br />

to keep you full until lunch. Those<br />

who regularly eat breakfast usually consume<br />

more vitamins, minerals and fiber<br />

for the day. This provides more nutrients<br />

that Americans typically consume too little<br />

of such as calcium, potassium, folate,<br />

and iron. Eating a morning meal is linked<br />

to a healthy body weight and to weight<br />

loss and maintenance. This may be because<br />

breakfast foods can be more satisfying<br />

or the timing of the meal may prevent<br />

extra midmorning snacking.<br />

What makes a good breakfast? It really<br />

depends on what and how much you<br />

eat the rest of the day, what foods you<br />

enjoy in the morning, and your schedule.<br />

It’s recommended to include foods from<br />

at least three food groups including a protein<br />

rich food and a whole grain, which are<br />

rich in fiber. Including both protein and fiber<br />

makes your breakfast more satisfying<br />

and can keep you feeling full longer. Try to<br />

limit foods high in sodium, added sugars<br />

and saturated fats. Try to add vegetables<br />

to breakfast. Vegetables are often under<br />

consumed and adding them to breakfast<br />

is a great way to get more in your diet.<br />

Breaking down breakfast barriers<br />

can be easier than you think. Think outside<br />

the traditional breakfast box and start<br />

including a morning meal!<br />

About the Author<br />

Madisson Veatch, MA, RDN, CD is a Registered<br />

Dietitian with Baptist Health Floyd.<br />

She graduated from Purdue University with<br />

a Bachelor’s of Science in Dietetics. She<br />

completed her dietetic internship through Ball<br />

State University while completing her Master’s<br />

degree. She has been a Clinical Dietitian<br />

with Baptist Health Floyd for three years. She<br />

enjoys cooking and trying out new recipes with<br />

friends and family.<br />

Ingredients:<br />

Directions:<br />

Savory Oats<br />

with a Fried Egg<br />

¼ cup dry quick-cooking steel cut oats<br />

(or ½ cup cooked steel cut oats or rolled oats)<br />

¾ cup water<br />

Pinch of salt<br />

Pinch of pepper<br />

2 tsp extra virgin olive oil, divided<br />

¼ cup red pepper, diced<br />

¼ cup zucchini, diced<br />

2 TBSP onion, diced<br />

¼ cup kale, chopped<br />

1 large egg<br />

Optional: Trader Joe’s Everything Bagel spice<br />

1. Bring water to a boil. Add steal cut oats,<br />

reduce heat to low and simmer for about 3<br />

minutes, until all liquid is absorbed. Turn off<br />

heat and stir in salt and pepper.<br />

2. Heat a nonstick pan or skillet over medium-high<br />

heat, add 1 tsp oil. Add vegetables<br />

and cook for 2-3 minutes, until they soften.<br />

Spoon vegetables over cooked oats.<br />

3. Add remaining 1 tsp of oil and fry egg.<br />

Cook until the whites are no longer translucent<br />

and serve over oatmeal.<br />

4. Optional – top with everything bagel spice.<br />

Mix and match vegetables as you like!<br />

Recipe borrowed from Culinary Nutrition Cuisine<br />

Solutions for Every Breakfast Excuse<br />

I have no time<br />

to make or eat breakfast<br />

I’m trying<br />

to lose weight<br />

I don’t like<br />

breakfast foods<br />

• Keep quick fixes on hand such as<br />

instant oatmeal, whole-grain toaster<br />

waffles, yogurt, fresh fruit, cheese,<br />

and peanut butter<br />

• Try putting peanut butter and fresh<br />

fruit on top of a whole-grain toast<br />

or waffle<br />

• Follow the recipe for Heat and Eat<br />

Oatmeal Cups at www.budgetbytes.<br />

com/heat-eat-oatmeal/<br />

• Try a lean-protein and whole-grain<br />

food which may help you feel fuller<br />

longer and avoid midmorning snacking<br />

• Limit higher-calorie breakfast, such as<br />

those with bacon or sausage, biscuits<br />

and gravy, and hash browns because<br />

their high fat contents can add up to<br />

more calories than you need<br />

• Try a savory breakfast like hummus<br />

on a whole-wheat tortilla or wholegrain<br />

bread with a side of yogurt<br />

• Eat leftovers like chicken noodle<br />

soup or cold cheese or veggie pizza<br />

• Make a lean turkey sandwich with<br />

milk<br />

• Follow the recipe above for Savory<br />

Oatmeal with a Fried Egg<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 43


People of Southern Indiana<br />

Friends Forever<br />

Marengo pair has shared decades of good times<br />

The two little girls had spent a delightful<br />

evening catching fireflies<br />

and putting them in a Mason jar.<br />

But then things went a bit downhill.<br />

Jackie Jones Bullington and Della<br />

Stewart White liked playing together and<br />

enjoyed overnight visits. However, after<br />

they went to bed this sleepover went awry.<br />

Jackie decided to turn the fireflies loose in<br />

the house. “I didn’t like bugs,” said Della,<br />

“so I just got up and went home.”<br />

However, the incident didn’t damage<br />

the friendship.<br />

The two 87-year-old lifelong Marengo<br />

residents are not sure whether they<br />

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first met at school or church, but they believe<br />

it was in 1938 when they started first<br />

grade at the former Marengo Elementary<br />

School.<br />

That was not an easy time for either.<br />

“Sometimes it became unbearable,” Jackie<br />

said. That is when the tiny 6-year-old<br />

grabbed her little black lunch bucket and<br />

headed home. It wasn’t a successful runaway.<br />

Word of the escape always reached<br />

her sister, Opal, a high school senior, who<br />

promptly retrieved the young pupil and<br />

marched her back to class.<br />

“Let’s just not talk about that year,”<br />

Della said with a slight shake of her head,<br />

Story by Sara Combs<br />

Photo by Tom McDonald<br />

as the two recalled early days while relaxing<br />

in Della’s apartment in the Lincoln<br />

Hills Development Corporation housing<br />

complex in Marengo.<br />

However, the two little girls soon<br />

adjusted to life as students – and something<br />

good came out of that long-ago trying<br />

year. They formed a friendship that<br />

has spanned more than eight decades.<br />

It is a connection that flowed on as they<br />

married, reared children (Della has seven;<br />

Jackie had two). It continued through<br />

deaths, divorce and illnesses, as well as<br />

many good times, and a lot of fun and<br />

laughter.


And it seems that those early school<br />

problems quickly smoothed out.<br />

“The second grade was great,” Della<br />

said. “Melvin Tower was our teacher and<br />

we learned a lot and had a lot of fun.”<br />

Jackie agreed, recalling that the teacher often<br />

joined the class on the playground for<br />

games such as tug-of-war.<br />

The two went through all 12 grades<br />

together, graduating high school in 1950.<br />

“Our class stayed close, especially<br />

the girls,” said Jackie, who lives north of<br />

Marengo in the home that she and her<br />

husband, Russell, built in the early 1960s.<br />

“We girls met for breakfast and other gettogethers.<br />

We even went to Indianapolis<br />

for overnight visits with fellow students<br />

Vivian Clifton Gregory and Oneida Green<br />

Cook. While many of our classmates are<br />

gone, we still send birthday cards and<br />

stay in touch with those who are left,”<br />

Jackie said.<br />

Although Della’s heath issues have<br />

curtailed some of their activities — like<br />

weekly shopping trips to Corydon — the<br />

two women still know how to have a<br />

good time. And the pair agree that one of<br />

their favorite activities is talking about the<br />

old days.<br />

School years were filled with movies<br />

at the old Rialto Theater, basketball<br />

games, picnics at Marengo Cave and parties<br />

at classmates’ homes. “No one had vehicles,<br />

so we walked everywhere,” Jackie<br />

said. End-of-school celebrations usually<br />

meant wiener roasts on the Ed Ross property<br />

just east of town.<br />

“In those days, we made do with<br />

what we had,” Jackie said. She recalls getting<br />

hat boxes from Ella Murphy, a milliner<br />

and women’s apparel shop owner<br />

during that time. “We covered them with<br />

crepe paper for valentines. When we<br />

thought the town needed more Christmas<br />

decorations, we dipped light bulbs in<br />

paint. Frank Sprinkle (a local resident who<br />

worked for Public Service — now Duke<br />

Electric) hung them for us and Gordon<br />

Green (then a local funeral home director)<br />

helped with financing.”<br />

Most of their activities revolved<br />

around the church. Both are members of<br />

Marengo Christian Church, where they<br />

hold unique records. Jackie recently received<br />

an award for 79 years of perfect<br />

Sunday School attendance; Della has a<br />

77-year record. “My hospital and nursing<br />

home stay caused me to miss out this<br />

year,” she said.<br />

“You are allowed two sick days a<br />

year,” Della said. She had to take advantage<br />

of this a few times as her children<br />

were inclined to be born on Sunday.<br />

Besides services, there were church<br />

picnics, Christmas caroling and camps.<br />

“We had picnics at Santa Claus Land<br />

(now Holiday World) when it was just a<br />

statue of Santa and a train,” said Jackie.<br />

“Sometimes it is the little things you<br />

remember,” Della added. She recalled<br />

Jackie’s mother (the late Lula Jones) sending<br />

chicken and dumplings in a Thermos.<br />

“They were still nice and hot when we<br />

ate.”<br />

Church camp was fun, and they<br />

learned a lot there, Jackie said. However,<br />

they remember one camping trip that did<br />

not start out so well. “The older group had<br />

already had its camp week and we were<br />

the only two our age from our church,”<br />

she said. “We got there before any other<br />

campers or staff and we just sat on our<br />

suitcases and asked ourselves, ‘Why did<br />

we come here?’ But when everyone else<br />

arrived, we had a good week and forgot<br />

our earlier distress.”<br />

Life wasn’t all fun and games. Jackie<br />

recalls picking strawberries at Stumler’s<br />

in Borden. “A bus picked up local kids<br />

and took us to the berry patch. I used my<br />

money for some lavender-dotted Swiss<br />

and my mom made me a dress.”<br />

Della worked at Towers’ General<br />

Store (a former business in Marengo) after<br />

school and on Saturdays from 8 a.m. to 6<br />

p.m. “I was paid $3.50 a week,” she said.<br />

During the busy years of rearing<br />

children, the two remained good friends.<br />

“Our families often got together for meals,<br />

games and good times,” Jackie said. “For<br />

a long time, we were part of a neighborhood<br />

club, but then most everybody went<br />

to work and that was that.”<br />

And they have been there for each<br />

other through some rough times. Those<br />

include the deaths of Jackie’s husband,<br />

Russell, and son, Kevin, and White’s divorce<br />

and the care of her daughter, Julie,<br />

who has Down syndrome. “Although<br />

she is high-functioning and remembers<br />

everybody’s names and birth dates, she<br />

required a great deal of care,” Della said.<br />

The two women have supported<br />

each other during various illnesses. Jackie<br />

remembers once talking to Della on the<br />

phone. “I was very sick, and she could tell<br />

it. I barely got the phone hung up when<br />

she got to my house to stay with me until<br />

my husband got home.” And during<br />

Della’s recent health problems, neighbors<br />

mistook Jackie for the home health nurse,<br />

because she was there so often to check on<br />

her friend.<br />

And anyone who thinks slumber<br />

parties are just for teenage girls does not<br />

know these two. Della has hosted several<br />

recently, partly to help her adjust to Julie’s<br />

move to an assisted living apartment<br />

in New Salisbury. “I had her with me for<br />

45 years,” she said. “Although she comes<br />

However, the two little girls soon adjusted to<br />

life as students – and something good came<br />

out of that long-ago trying year. They formed<br />

a friendship that has spanned more than eight<br />

decades. It is a connection that flowed on as<br />

they married, reared children.It continued<br />

through deaths, divorce and illnesses, as well as<br />

many good times, and a lot of fun and laughter.<br />

home for weekends, it has taken some getting<br />

used to.” Having friends over helps<br />

with that transition. And those gatherings<br />

are much the same as any slumber party.<br />

“We talk, laugh, eat, listen to music and<br />

laugh some more.”<br />

Although they resemble the earlier<br />

overnight visits, they don’t include catching<br />

fireflies for Jackie to release at bedtime.<br />

“I know better now,” she said. •<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Sept</strong>/<strong>Oct</strong> <strong>2019</strong> • 45


Everyday Adventures<br />

Riding the Waves<br />

My only job on the lake that<br />

day was to hold on tight. I<br />

was riding something called<br />

a water rocket, which is basically<br />

a giant inflatable banana pulled by a<br />

ski boat.<br />

All I had to do was hang on to the<br />

strap in front of me and keep my balance.<br />

Sounds easy enough, right? It would have<br />

been, except for the fact that the guy driving<br />

the boat had one job: Dump me in the<br />

lake. That meant he was going to drag me<br />

in circles, whip me from side-to-side and<br />

do everything he could to beat the tar out<br />

of me to force me to let go.<br />

There were six of us on the water<br />

rocket that afternoon — three dads, two<br />

teenage boys and my 10-year-old daughter.<br />

From the second we took off, the boys<br />

started taunting the driver, yelling at him<br />

and giving him a thumbs-up to go faster,<br />

go faster. I was pretty sure they were going<br />

to get us killed.<br />

My daughter took the worst of<br />

it. Riding on the front, she had a steady<br />

spray of lake water pummeling her face.<br />

After drinking several gallons, she’d had<br />

enough. She signaled the driver to cut the<br />

engines, then swam across to the boat.<br />

I realized, as she climbed on board,<br />

the rest of us were now toast. The driver<br />

had been taking it easy on us because of<br />

her, but now that it was just the guys, we<br />

were in serious trouble.<br />

As soon as my daughter settled in,<br />

the driver punched it. He veered right<br />

and left, bouncing us over the waves. It<br />

was like riding a mechanical bull in a hurricane.<br />

Each bump felt like it was going to<br />

throw me. I did my best to lean into the<br />

curves and white-knuckled it with every<br />

ounce of strength I had. The banana boat<br />

was so slippery, though, I knew I wouldn’t<br />

last long.<br />

A few minutes later, one of the teenagers<br />

shot into the air in front of me, and<br />

I was thankful for the break. My forearms<br />

were killing me. We picked him up, took<br />

a few more curves and then lost the two<br />

other dads off the back.<br />

Now there were only two of us who<br />

hadn’t fallen off. We didn’t have much<br />

time left on the rocket, so the driver went<br />

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for broke. He threw us into a tight turn,<br />

then suddenly yanked us back the other<br />

direction. At that moment, the wind<br />

caught the side of the water rocket and<br />

flipped the whole thing in the air, spilling<br />

us into the lake.<br />

Despite the fact I’d outlasted almost<br />

everyone else on the boat, at the end of the<br />

day we all ended up soaked. All it took<br />

was one good turn to break my grip.<br />

My adventure on the lake seemed all<br />

too familiar.<br />

Sometimes life has a way of whipping<br />

us around faster than a water rocket.<br />

We feel like we’re being dragged through<br />

circumstances we never would have chosen.<br />

We get sprayed in the face with money<br />

problems, yanked across the rough waters<br />

of diffcult relationships and bumped,<br />

battered and bruised by all manner of<br />

hard situations that seem designed to toss<br />

us into the deep.<br />

It’s all we can do just to hang on and<br />

keep going.<br />

Worse yet, at times it feels like someone<br />

is actively trying to throw us. We<br />

hear that little voice in our heads telling<br />

us life will never get better, to give up on<br />

our marriage, to give up on our faith, to<br />

give up on ourselves. What’s the point, we<br />

think? Why do we even bother trying?<br />

On days like that we all need to remember<br />

that life isn’t just about holding<br />

on tight. It’s about the fact that God is<br />

holding onto us. In Isaiah 41:13 God says,<br />

“For I hold you by your right hand …<br />

And I say to you, ‘Don’t be afraid. I am<br />

here to help you’” (NLT).<br />

My problem on the lake that day<br />

was that I was clinging to a flimsy craft<br />

attached to a boat piloted by a guy who<br />

was working against me. No matter how<br />

much I tried to hold on, he was in the driver’s<br />

seat, which meant that eventually he<br />

was going to win.<br />

In my everyday life, though, I have<br />

an option. I can choose to hold on to someone<br />

who is for me, not against me. I can<br />

anchor myself to someone who is more<br />

solid and stable than the fickle circumstances<br />

of this crazy world.<br />

In the Bible, the people who knew<br />

God best compared him to things like a<br />

rock, a fortress and a firm foundation. He<br />

is unshakable, unstoppable and relentlessly<br />

loving toward his people.<br />

I do have an adversary who is trying<br />

to throw me overboard, but the good<br />

news is he’s not driving the boat. When<br />

I’m tired, discouraged and feel like giving<br />

up, I have to remind myself that God<br />

is still good and he is still in control. And<br />

when I’m too weak to hold onto him, I discover<br />

that he is holding onto me. Sure, I’ll<br />

still get tossed around on the waves, but<br />

his strength is more than enough to keep<br />

my head above water and bring me safely<br />

to shore. •<br />

Jason Byerly is a writer, pastor, husband and<br />

dad who loves the quirky surprises God sends<br />

his way every day. You can read more from<br />

Jason in his books Tales from the Leaf Pile and<br />

Holiday Road. You can catch up with Jason on<br />

his blog at www.jasonbyerly.com.


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