L& R December 2020

Would it lead in a real life relationship? Again this is up them to decide how they use the
online. It might be a period of trial, to see and learn each others likes before deciding to
take it to the next level in real life, or it might simply be a pleasure game that will stay the
same. If they are honest from the start in what they seek it will save time for both. I, for
example, feel quite hesitant to get involved with an online relationship as I know to many
out there use the cyber just to satisfy some fantasy and never explore their deeper
desires. As I am one who cares mostly for a true relationship the online D/s comes with
the fear of losing time and invest (sentimentally) with those who care for a cyber sex
experience.
Here is something found on the
web from a Mistress that I totally
agree with:
“Among the cyber population is a
growing number of predators.
Those who seek to find the
vulnerable, exploit their dreams
and pervert those dreams into
ugly episodes of brutality and
cruelty. And there are those who
have discovered a way to find
‘free’ people to use for sex or
servant. They have landed amidst the herd of the unsuspecting. The only way to combat
these people who are not ‘of’ our community but ‘using’ it for ugly purposes is education.
The more a person learns the easier it becomes to spot those who have suspect
motives.”
To conclude this article, I have to admit that online-cyber D/s might be a possibility to
explore up to some level your self but at the end of the day you need to take this in real
life. If you wish to try it, then it is up to you how you will explore your world of Domination
and submission.