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Peter Charles Richard<br />
Cornelius<br />
25.07.1935 - 01.07.2021<br />
“It’s been a<br />
good ride”<br />
Chatting about Dad, and sharing with you all<br />
– officially called an Obituary.
Where do you start when<br />
you are writing about your<br />
own Dad? This pondering<br />
has taken a while. Wanting<br />
to put something into print,<br />
and to thank others for<br />
their friendships, that have<br />
come about since Dad<br />
had ‘finished his ride’<br />
on this earth.<br />
So, let’s start at the<br />
beginning ‘it’s a very<br />
good place to start . . .’<br />
as the song goes.<br />
– Susan Waller<br />
Early Days<br />
First memories- this has to be life through the RAF. Dad<br />
was in the RAF (69th entry, <strong>28</strong>th August 1951) through<br />
which he met our mum when in Australia. He had<br />
arrived there on his 21st Birthday, 25th July 1956, at<br />
RAAF Edinburgh Field, Adelaide, as part of Operation<br />
Buffallo, to do with the Atomic Bomb tests at Maralinga<br />
(49 Squadron). He was a Corporal Technician, 586929<br />
and calibrated the navigational and bombing equipment<br />
on the Valiant (Green Satin radar equipment).<br />
Upon his return to Australia in July 1958, with 543<br />
Squadron he met up with Janet Paltridge, who was<br />
on night nursing shifts, and after 2 weeks courting<br />
(understand Adelaide River Bridge was a popular<br />
place!), they continued in communication. He proposed<br />
by post and mum made the 5 week ship journey to<br />
England, arriving on 11th October 1959, and started her<br />
new life.<br />
They were married 23rd January 1960 at Watford,<br />
Hertfordshire, and spent their early married days moving<br />
around Norfolk in Caravans, a flat and RAF Married<br />
quarters. My earliest memories are from these days,<br />
when I was approx. 3 years old. Blackberry bushes, toy<br />
box under the stairs, and having a photograph taken<br />
with my younger brother, Richard (‘Itchy’, because I<br />
could not say Richard!)<br />
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Back to before Mum, myself or brother Richard (Itchy)<br />
appeared on the scene, Dad had been evacuated<br />
during the war, and it was a pleasure in recent years<br />
to have ‘email conversations’ with him, and using<br />
the modern internet to not only know about these<br />
early days, but to also see ‘Google maps’ and find<br />
out about his growing up days in Plymouth and<br />
evacuated to Liskeard. Many fascinating life stories<br />
and experiences. Dad’s parents had been ‘separate’<br />
for many years due to Grandad being in the Royal<br />
Marines, so Dad’s older sister Pat, and younger<br />
brother Colin, where born years apart. One of the<br />
most moving things Dad shared was the first time he<br />
saw his Dad.<br />
6 years old, while evacuated at Liskeard, he was<br />
playing outside a neighbours house, and saw this man<br />
walking down the street, and shouted out ‘It’s my Dad!<br />
It’s my Dad! No dad we don’t live here, we live next<br />
door’ or words very similar to that, is what he shared.<br />
To go back further, Dad was almost born in Malta<br />
(Grandma had saved up for her and their daughter<br />
Pat, to join Grandad when he was posted there), but<br />
she chose to return to England. Malta is one of those<br />
countries that has been a special place for Dad, he<br />
also spent some time there with the RAF. (As a side<br />
note, Grandad (Sydney Charles Cornelius) was in the<br />
Royal Marines in WW1 and WW2, and wrote about<br />
his experience on 21st November 1918, as Captains’<br />
buglar, on the bridge of the “Orion”, he witnessed the<br />
surrender of the German High Sea Fleet surrender to<br />
the Allies. He never spoke about it to us, but I guess<br />
we never asked either!<br />
543 Sqdn Photo Reconnas<br />
Trials Team<br />
R.A.A.F Edinburgh Field<br />
South Australia<br />
August 1958<br />
Dad was a very keen motorcyclists and<br />
rode Triumph motorbikes (his first bike<br />
when 19yrs in 1955, was a 1955 199c<br />
Triumph T20 Tiger Cub (photo for you!),<br />
then a T20C competition model, and<br />
rode that for ‘the One-hour Sunbeam<br />
MCC Trial at Silverstone’ and won a 1st<br />
M/Class pewter tankard (Richard now<br />
has this). He relayed many stories of his<br />
RAF biking days. Both some RAF antics<br />
and motorcycling experiences, and it’s<br />
through these that you start to realise<br />
that your Dad ‘was in fact young’ and<br />
not just a dad!!! He soon changed to a<br />
car when mum arrived (this was a brief<br />
intermission in his biking life).<br />
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The RAF and<br />
Family Man<br />
Mum and Dad’s first home together (a caravan in<br />
Snettersham, Norfolk) included a model railway<br />
(TT3 Great Western Railway), alsation dog, no<br />
running water or mains electricity! When I joined<br />
them in 1961, Mum’s parents had came over<br />
from Australia for approx. a year, and stayed<br />
in a nearby caravan. Dad took photos of us all<br />
going on trips out together. Gosh so many more<br />
wonderful stories and memories relayed, but have<br />
to stop it there!<br />
Our final RAF family home together was at RAF<br />
Marham, (dad 49 squadron and still with Valiants).<br />
Richard joined us 23rd December 1963 (little<br />
‘itchy’). Dad spoke about the model railway<br />
club in the museum at the base, and living in<br />
RAF married quarters, said it was not really for a<br />
family (so different than today). There are some<br />
fabulous family photos of us in this home, garden,<br />
birthdays and picnics. Dad has always taken<br />
lots of photos, and when we came to empty their<br />
family home in 2021, there seemed to be every<br />
camera he had ever owned in the cupboard,<br />
along with boxes of slides and prints!<br />
Dad left the RAF in 1965 and after us all living<br />
briefly with his parents, we moved to 131<br />
Longcroft, Watford. I can still remember us all<br />
moving in, and Dad worked hard on making<br />
that house into a home. We had another dog<br />
join us, and he chewed the wood that Dad<br />
had pannelled the kitchen wall! Richard and I<br />
started school, and mum walked us there and<br />
back every day! Dad worked with IBM, the<br />
early days of computers, that took up a whole<br />
room. IBM included the younger family for<br />
Christmas parties, and when older to London<br />
for Pantomime on Ice. I also remember<br />
going around an IBM office with lots of large<br />
computers and a ‘desktop’ type screen with<br />
questions you had to answer. It made Dad’s<br />
work seem like fun! He also travelled at times<br />
and brought back our first taste of Muesli<br />
from Switzerland!<br />
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It was not long before Dad was back on the motorbike<br />
(the 1970/80’s UK fuel crisis), and soon after mum was<br />
riding bikes, and they had many years of fun together.<br />
That included researching & breaking the dating code’s<br />
of triumph machines manufactured after 1923 (lost when<br />
the Coventry factory was bombed 14th November 1940<br />
during WW2) and Dad became the Marque Specialist<br />
for Triumph Motorbikes 1923 to 1933, for the Vintage<br />
Motorcycle Club, UK. Over the years he recorded his<br />
research and documented these in multiple books. My<br />
brother Richard is now making these available to all,<br />
publishing them online through Amazon (Triumph The<br />
Facts). A copy also goes into the national archives. (As<br />
a side line, dad has also written about his eclectic life<br />
experiences (which you will find out more as you read<br />
on!) in a series of books titled ‘Chance’.<br />
Our life as a family has various memories. Mum and dad<br />
were always hospitable so we welcomed people from<br />
all parts of the world, when visiting the UK through IBM<br />
(including France, Turkey and New Zealand). We moved<br />
from Watford to 4 Cuckmans Drive Chiswell Green, St<br />
Albans in approx. 1970, and the garage filled up with<br />
motorbikes, the drive had 2 cars in it, and our bicycles<br />
(essential for paper round and getting to school) were<br />
in the back garden shed. Mum had a greenhouse and<br />
garden pond.<br />
We were also joined by a cat (Winnnie) and dog<br />
(Caesar). You will note that the garage had two railway<br />
finials on the roof above the doors. These were from the<br />
Great Western Railway (obviously no room for the full<br />
signals at the house!)<br />
Summer family holidays often included Dad’s parents for<br />
a week in Devon and visiting relatives. And a second<br />
holiday with just us 4 (& the dog!) on the canal. Dad<br />
was able to be away from work and being ‘on call’, the<br />
days before mobile phones! Richard and I soon learnt<br />
to swim so we did not have to wear the life jackets! We<br />
also regularly saw dad’s parents who lived down the<br />
road in Garston, <strong>North</strong> Watford.<br />
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Mum’s parents were in Australia (Grannie and<br />
Grandad Aussie) and we spoke with them<br />
once a year on a ‘pre-booked 10 min call’,<br />
otherwise it was letters and photos in the post<br />
from our Australian grandparents and cousins.<br />
There were always photos of them on display,<br />
and their lives living on farm seemed so<br />
different than ours! It wasn’t until 1977 when<br />
we met them for the first time (apart from<br />
when I was a baby!). We all took a sudden<br />
family trip to Australia, when Grandad was not<br />
well. Dad had been saving up for us all to go,<br />
and it was mum’s first trip back to Australia.<br />
For the first time got to know the other side<br />
of the family, and their lives. This included<br />
Richard and mine first experience on our<br />
cousins off road bikes on their farm. Many<br />
fun memories, and grandad wore his Scottish<br />
Beret from his trip to England in 1961 (proud<br />
of his Scottish ancestry)! As a child you just<br />
‘go along with these things’ but it’s not until<br />
later years you realise the thought and effort<br />
that your parents put into these parts of your<br />
lives.<br />
One of these is learning to ride motorbikes<br />
in England! As a family we all soon learnt to<br />
ride, and Dad took us approx. 45 mins down<br />
the road to Watford to the RAC/ACU Training<br />
scheme. A very strict course, including hill<br />
start, road test and bike maintenance, before<br />
taking the ‘not so strict’ government legal<br />
test. The examiner just stood on the road<br />
watching us ride past! Dad then permitted us<br />
to go on the road!<br />
Life takes a turn and<br />
moves ‘Down South’<br />
Life for Mum and Dad was about to change<br />
again in 1978 when Dad’s work took him to<br />
New Zealand for 3 months. IBM New Zealand<br />
were looking for a course instructor and offered<br />
Dad the opportunity of going and taking the<br />
whole family, and then stopping off at Australia<br />
on the way home.<br />
We rented a house in Karori, the hills of<br />
Wellington, Dad went to work at IBM Nae<br />
Nae, Richard ‘got the short straw’ and went to<br />
school, Mum (I’m not sure what she did!!!), and<br />
I went to dad’s work to help out (filing, copying),<br />
then saw advertised a short typing course in<br />
Wellington, and then went onto Petone College<br />
and learnt bookkeeping and to ‘touch type’ (a<br />
skill that continues to this day, hence typing<br />
this!). New Zealand has a lot to answer for!<br />
And the travel by Trolley Bus, Cable Car and<br />
Wellington train were special experiences.<br />
Dad met some friends through this work that<br />
they still have to this day (Lindsay and Vivienne<br />
McIsaac who came to the rescue of the English<br />
lady who didn’t know how to shop in New<br />
Zealand!). Dad somehow managed to also<br />
squeeze in trips for us as family around the<br />
<strong>North</strong> Island to Rotorua, Mount Egmont, glow<br />
worm caves. And a trip to the South Island<br />
including Arthurs pass, Franz Joseph Glazier<br />
and panning for gold.<br />
They fell in love with the country and the<br />
people. After returning to England, Mum & Dad<br />
went out a New Zealand a few more times for<br />
Motorbike rallies (incl 1986 First Pan Pacific<br />
Rally) and new friends loaned them motorbikes<br />
to ride on (including Richard Caldwell).<br />
Then in 1991 Dad took early<br />
retirement (at 56years!) and on a<br />
bike trip around New Zealand, they<br />
decided to look at houses. They<br />
found a detached 2 story (“you have<br />
to go upstairs to bed” dad said) at 9<br />
Strachan Place, Rangiora, that had<br />
that a large enough garage for dad’s<br />
bikes and garden for mum, and they<br />
chose to emigrate to New Zealand!<br />
5
So on 13th September 1993 (noted in dad’s<br />
flying log, and saved plane tickets!) Mum, Dad,<br />
cat Smutty and dog Chum, along with around<br />
12 motorbikes, 2 cars, bike parts and their<br />
home contents, they left England and their two<br />
‘children’ for a life in New Zealand! They were<br />
made so welcome on their arrival and I’ve only<br />
recently found how much. Derek Upton met<br />
them at the airport and gave them somewhere<br />
to sleep that night. He has continued to be<br />
a friend, and almost part of the family! The<br />
shipping company, Pickfords, said they had<br />
not moved anyone with so many bikes since<br />
Barry Sheen!<br />
When they emigrated they took their whole<br />
lives and memories from England with them,<br />
documents, paperwork and memories from<br />
RAF life, Watford home and St Albans home,<br />
all to New Zealand. We discovered this when<br />
going through their home recently. Just glad<br />
dad stopped at a 5 bedroomed house!<br />
They had a further 27 years of retired life<br />
in New Zealand, and celebrated 61 years<br />
together. It is only recently that I’ve found<br />
out through their friends, that dad’s eclectic<br />
enjoyment of life continued!<br />
This included the Daimler and Lanchester<br />
Spare Parts Club. Dad was actively involved<br />
(see photo of flip chart with ideas for<br />
membership!), he had his own area for parts,<br />
which he proudly showed us when visiting,<br />
and was editor of the magazine ‘The Flut’ed<br />
Grill’ for 6 years, 2010-2016 (John Galey and<br />
Kay McCallam, thanks for your input and<br />
friendship ).<br />
6
Mum and Dad never really learnt<br />
how to retire, and at the age of 70yrs<br />
Dad had flying lessons at Wigram,<br />
just outside Christchurch and<br />
obtained his private pilots licence<br />
when 72years young! He also passed<br />
a course for multi engine rating<br />
flying Cougar ZK-PAP at Wigram.<br />
Mum and dad joined the <strong>Canterbury</strong> Vintage Car Club<br />
(thanks Jeff Rogers for your friendship) and dad would<br />
source information from the club library and went on<br />
many car and bike events (his diary has this recorded<br />
and planned ahead!). Gloria Micallef from Waimack<br />
Classic Cars has relayed the joy and experience of<br />
meeting them at many of these events. Dad somehow<br />
managed to fit into their lives time to continue<br />
researching triumph motorbikes, and communicating<br />
around the world by email, letters and welcoming<br />
visitors.<br />
In 2010 Dad set up the Rangiora Menz Shed (Morris<br />
Harris has relayed memories). We as children have seen<br />
many photos over the years of the club building being<br />
developed, fund raising events and items made, and<br />
had the privilege of being introduced to members when<br />
we visited. In 2019 Dad retired as Chairman, with life<br />
long membership and received an Acknowledgement of<br />
Service Certificate, presented by Mayor David Ayers.<br />
I have recently found that dad had kept a typed diary<br />
on his computer, for many years, and had typed up<br />
what they had done, and who they had met, with his<br />
own ‘special way of commenting!’ One of their early NZ<br />
friends are Richard & Audrey Caldwell, Dad mentioned<br />
them visiting most years, for motorbikes of course! (I<br />
omitted to say that steam trains and traction engines<br />
were also part of our childhood, but he never owned<br />
one, otherwise I’m sure that would have been shipped<br />
to NZ!).<br />
Mum and Dad never really learnt how to retire, and at<br />
the age of 70yrs Dad had flying lessons at Wigram, just<br />
outside Christchurch and obtained his private pilots<br />
licence when 72years young! He also passed a course<br />
for multi engine rating flying Cougar ZK-PAP at Wigram.<br />
In 2014 the Model Railways boxes were opened again,<br />
including his original 1961 Table Top Great Western<br />
Railway, in 3mm size (he had never cancelled his UK<br />
3mm Society membership!) Dad was a foundation<br />
member of the <strong>North</strong> <strong>Canterbury</strong> Model Railway club,<br />
and after a brief break (as busy with the Menz Shed<br />
Dad) returned to his layout on Wednesday nights<br />
and Saturday mornings. Dad shared by email many<br />
photos of his ideas and models, and his considerations<br />
and attention to detail continued with these small but<br />
important replicas. (Thank you Arthur Linnell and Kevin<br />
Ching for sharing with us Dad’s life and enjoyment at<br />
the club, and the club having a running track at Dad’s<br />
funeral reception!)<br />
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When mum and dad emigrated to NZ, they left<br />
Richard and myself behind in the UK. Dad was<br />
never a ‘religious’ man, and attended Church<br />
for particular and special events. He always<br />
encouraged us as children to be involved with<br />
Sunday school/choir etc. Mum has a strong<br />
Christian Faith in the Lord and has testimony of<br />
being healed from Arthritis, and has continued in<br />
strong health and exercising many dogs over the<br />
years. Mum when in NZ occupied her time with<br />
many new friends and Church life, Nursing/Care<br />
home visits, and dog training. She even managed<br />
to fit in studying for Theology Degree, and her thesis<br />
was ‘Why Spiritual Care for the Elderly’ (copies<br />
available). She also supported dad with his triumph<br />
bikes and classic cars and all their activities and<br />
events.<br />
Dad never stopped mum with her Church life, he<br />
would support and when they celebrated their 50<br />
years, they had a recommittal of their marriage at<br />
Church, followed by a car rally event! As a family we<br />
also met up for a week together in Singapore, and<br />
Dad was great at organizing all our varying ideas and<br />
what we wanted to do – he got a flip chart from the<br />
hotel!<br />
Dad was a great lover of ice-cream, and I make<br />
no excuse in sharing with you one of my favourite<br />
photos from Singapore. Mum and Dad with<br />
an Icecream in the café under our hotel! Great<br />
memories!<br />
On 23rd January 2020 they celebrated another<br />
milestone of 60 years marriage! Their friends John<br />
and Kay Galey hosted a tea party for them, and<br />
a journalist from the local <strong>North</strong> <strong>Canterbury</strong> <strong>News</strong><br />
newspaper visited, with a subsequent article printed<br />
‘Years on, love still triumphs’. A title that summed up<br />
their lives perfectly!<br />
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Life changes<br />
again<br />
On 13th May 2021 Dad’s life changed direction again.<br />
He sent us an email stating ‘don’t by any gifts for my<br />
birthday this year’. His birthday was 25th July. He<br />
had been diagnosed with terminal cancer and given a<br />
few weeks/months to live. He started to put various<br />
affairs in order. How do you do that, with a lifetime of<br />
experiences in the house. I later found out that you<br />
do what you can, and then leave the rest for the family<br />
and friends!<br />
Mum by now was also in the early stages of<br />
Dementia, still enjoying life to the max, but not always<br />
remembering it all! So dad had been increasingly<br />
supporting her in various ways, over the recent years.<br />
His concern for her was expressed in various emails to<br />
me and phone calls.<br />
Back in England Richard and I prepared to travel from<br />
England and applied for New Zealand Visas during<br />
COVID lockdown. Many years before, the Lord had<br />
made it clear to me, that ‘If I put Him first, He would<br />
take care of our family’. I truly believed that, even<br />
though it was not always easy being so far apart from<br />
them. I didn’t realise it, but this was that time.<br />
Since Mum and Dad had emigrated, the Church that<br />
myself and my husband Alan are part of (His Church),<br />
have grown in their Humanitarian Aid work and moved<br />
further north to Lincolnshire and occupied a large<br />
50,000 square foot Hangar for a warehouse and other<br />
buildings on an old RAF site. I was back again at an<br />
RAF base! We as a Church are restoring the buildings<br />
and ex-pilots & RAF personnel visit, sharing their<br />
memories. It is like life is coming back into both the<br />
buildings and the people. I was sharing this with Dad<br />
over the recent years, and it increased in our last few<br />
weeks. We had a giggle as I said “My first home was a<br />
caravan with the RAF and it looks like I will be finishing<br />
it in a caravan at an RAF site!”.<br />
The miraculous care that was given to both mum and<br />
dad in his final weeks was just awesome to watch.<br />
Cousins Jim and Jodie Bowden travelled over from<br />
Australia and cared for them both, which ended up<br />
being for 7 weeks. Anne Barnes from mum’s church<br />
was prompted to visit their home and has assisted with<br />
practical provision, and still does.<br />
The ‘nursing home bed from nowhere’ that became<br />
available for dad’s final days, The personal help from<br />
Judith at Older People’s Health, including Adriel House<br />
as a ‘unique’ new home for mum and a room available<br />
immediately. The provision for a new home for Bluey<br />
Dog, Katelyn visited & immediately fell in love with him.<br />
The team of ladies from mum’s church that sewed on<br />
all her clothing labels. Ann Jelf and Morris Harris that<br />
helped finish emptying the house. Neighbours, Les<br />
and Shirely Nelson who looked after the house when<br />
empty and thoughtfully cared for the garden……….<br />
the list goes on………….<br />
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It says in the Bible John 21v25 ‘But there are also<br />
many other things which Jesus did; were every one of<br />
them to be written, I suppose that the world itself could<br />
not contain the books that would be written’, well<br />
those 5 weeks was just like that time. I can’t express<br />
how much The Lord did for His care for both Mum and<br />
Dad, and His continued care since then for Mum.<br />
The Anglican Church in Amberley have welcomed<br />
mum and Pamela Welch was there to meet her on<br />
the day she moved in! Pamela and Sally regularly<br />
walk mum to church and back on Sundays, and Mary<br />
Shaw from New Life Church ‘bumped into mum’ at<br />
an Adriel House church meeting, years after mum<br />
visited her mum in a Rangiora Nursing home! The St<br />
Johns Church in Rangiora continue to keep in touch<br />
with Mum, and she can’t speak highly enough of Tina<br />
Thorpe, a precious friend to her.<br />
Adriel House has been a perfect provision, in endless<br />
ways (thanks Mischael & Elaine!), including gardens<br />
for mum to walk around and weed, and she has her<br />
own bird bath. The staff have been so personal and<br />
become ‘telephone friends’ to us when we call from<br />
England. We may no longer have dad with us, as<br />
‘he’s had his last ride’, but have now gained so many<br />
of dad’s friends, and mum’s new friends as part of<br />
our extended family! Your kind words to Mum and<br />
obituaries to Dad have been so thoughtful.<br />
Just want to finish with thanking all those that have<br />
written & came to Dad’s funeral on 7th July 2021,<br />
at St Johns Church, Rangiora. It was a very special<br />
moment in time, including the Last Post by the RSA.<br />
Our Church back at RAF Binbrook, England also<br />
lowered the flag to Half Mast at 11am. A mark of<br />
respect. Our heavenly Father has certainly taken care<br />
of them both. Thank you.<br />
Susan Waller (nee Cornelius)<br />
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The FACTS<br />
Peter Cornelius – Riding Forwards<br />
Dad’s research, covered more than 4 decades, and so Mum suggested that he<br />
put it down into book form for the future generations. This advice he took<br />
and wrote 22 books covering every model of Triumph in detail up until 1936<br />
plus a further 6 books on the history of Triumph and its founders 1863-1940.<br />
His son, Richard, is now in the process of publishing these<br />
so they are available on every continent via Amazon.<br />
Peter’s wife Janet, and his son and daughter Richard and<br />
Susan, can be contacted via: cornelius@actrix.co.nz<br />
Peter’s website is still available at it’s new home of:<br />
http://earlytriumph.com<br />
And his books are becoming available through<br />
Amazon, in most countries:<br />
Search for “Triumph The Facts by Peter Cornelius”<br />
or type https://www.amazon.com.au/<br />
s?k=triumph+by+peter+cornelius