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Pittwater Life March 2023 Issue

2023 NSW ELECTION SPECIAL MEET THE CANDIDATES + ROB STOKES FAREWELL INTERVIEW DOUGIE: FREE & BACK HOME / GENTLE GIANT BRAD DALTON THE WAY WE WERE / ARTISTS TRAIL / SEEN... HEARD... ABSURD...

2023 NSW ELECTION SPECIAL
MEET THE CANDIDATES + ROB STOKES FAREWELL INTERVIEW
DOUGIE: FREE & BACK HOME / GENTLE GIANT BRAD DALTON
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Upbeat Merissa on a roll<br />

News<br />

Merrisa Wills is capable of landing a<br />

lawn bowl on a jack from 35 metres<br />

away – not a particularly remarkable feat.<br />

Other than she is totally blind.<br />

After losing her sight in a car accident<br />

in Western Sydney 33 years ago, Merrisa,<br />

49, is preparing to compete for Australia<br />

in the International Blind Bowls Association<br />

<strong>2023</strong> World Championships in<br />

Tweed Heads from <strong>March</strong> 6 to 16.<br />

While Merrisa has won a swag of medals<br />

at NSW State and National titles since taking<br />

up lawn bowls in 2015, the worlds will<br />

be her first major, international event.<br />

“It’s scary, bloody scary,” Merrisa said.<br />

“My goal is to come out alive. I don’t care<br />

if I win. I’m doing it for the experience.<br />

I’m just going to enjoy it.”<br />

Eleven days after her 17th birthday<br />

Merrisa was in the passenger seat of a car<br />

that ran into the back of a bobcat trailer<br />

without reflectors, attached to a truck in a<br />

no-parking zone, during a thunderstorm.<br />

Merrisa’s side of the car slid under the<br />

bobcat trailer, the roof “rolling in like a<br />

tin can”, shattering her forehead.<br />

Taken to Westmead Hospital, Merrisa’s<br />

optic nerves died as a result of a lack of<br />

blood. In a coma for 14 days, she spent<br />

five months in hospital, learning to walk<br />

and talk all over again. She still suffers<br />

from hemiparesis, which is characterised<br />

by weakness on the left side of her body.<br />

“It was like being a baby in an adult’s<br />

body,” Merrisa explained.<br />

After living like a recluse for two<br />

years, Merrisa had an epiphany.<br />

“Something went ‘ping’ inside my head,”<br />

she said. “I’ve got a life ahead of me. I<br />

started going to the gym, got a personal<br />

trainer. I rang a friend from school and<br />

asked if they went to nightclubs. That’s<br />

when life started happening again.”<br />

Merrisa worked for the national youth<br />

mental health foundation, Headspace,<br />

part-time, gave talks on road safety and<br />

took up tenpin bowling.<br />

Nine years ago Merrisa moved from<br />

Lidcombe to Narrabeen where she<br />

PHOTOS: Bret Harris<br />

TEAM: Blind lawn bowler Merrisa<br />

Wills with her director Maureen Eves.<br />

lives independently in a unit above her<br />

mother Merril.<br />

It was at a monthly gathering of the<br />

Northern Beaches Vision Impaired<br />

Group at the Dee Why RSL that Merrisa<br />

met Maureen Eves, who runs the Avalon<br />

Vision Impaired Bowls Group, which<br />

started in 2005.<br />

At first, it was difficult to find a club<br />

that would accommodate the blind bowlers,<br />

but Avalon Bowlo, a little club with<br />

a big heart, welcomed them with open<br />

arms, providing the players with free use<br />

of the greens, club shirts and coaching.<br />

Merrisa joined the Avalon Vision<br />

Impaired Bowls Group in 2015. The nine<br />

blind bowlers have a set routine of morning<br />

tea every Tuesday, an hour or so of<br />

bowls and lunch at the nearby Avalon RSL<br />

Club.<br />

“People who are visually impaired<br />

have a tendency to be hermits,” Merrisa<br />

said. “It’s a good social atmosphere, a bit<br />

of a workout, and it’s enjoyable.”<br />

Maureen became Merrisa’s director,<br />

acting as her “eyes” while she is bowling.<br />

She describes Merrisa as “street-smart”.<br />

“I admire Merrisa greatly because she<br />

has lost all of her vision and she gets out<br />

and lives her life in the world,” said Maureen,<br />

who received a Northern Beaches<br />

Australia Day Award for Community<br />

Service. “The loss of vision doesn’t stop<br />

her doing anything.”<br />

Merrisa’s coach Peter Ward, who is<br />

chairman of Mona Vale Bowls Club where<br />

she has been training, believes she will be<br />

competitive in the world championships.<br />

“Merrisa has got very good ball sense,”<br />

Peter said. “She’s got all the shots. She<br />

will hold her own.”<br />

Whether Merrisa wins a medal or not,<br />

she has already demonstrated champion<br />

qualities.<br />

“My life’s a trilogy,” Merrisa said. “The<br />

first one was life before the accident.<br />

The part of the book that’s open now is<br />

the second part. And the third one is my<br />

future and what I make it.” – Bret Harris<br />

18 MARCH <strong>2023</strong><br />

The Local Voice Since 1991

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