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FOLLOWING

JESUS

A 30-DAY GUIDE EXPLORING

CHRISTIAN DISCIPLINES


FOLLOWING JESUS

WRITTEN BY

Chris Price, Jeremy King, Jason Eliason, Jaden Neufeld

DESIGNED AND PRODUCED BY

Daniel Roe, Jason Ballard, Jeremy King

EDITED BY

Chris Price, Laura O’Reilly, Brandon Peterson, Daniel Roe

THANKS TO

Danielle Strickland for introducing us to the Prayer of

Submission. (infinitumlife.com)

Pastor Wayne Cordeiro for introducing us to the S.O.A.P.

Bible Reading model. (enewhope.org)



PREFACE

What do you think of when you hear the phrase

‘spiritual disciplines’?

A list of chores to perform? Dry and lifeless rituals?

Monks and monasteries? Spirituality on steroids?

Or just the normal Christian life?

Whatever comes to mind when we hear this phrase,

the reality is these practices have been a staple feature of

Christian spirituality throughout church history. Rather

than lifeless chores, spiritual disciplines are life-giving

habits that bring vibrancy into our walk with God.

Jesus himself engaged in a wide variety of disciplines

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throughout the duration of His public ministry and we

are called to follow in His footsteps.

The following pages will both explain and encourage

the practice of the disciplines, helping us incorporate

these habits into the daily rhythm of our lives, breathing

fresh life into our walk with God.

In the end, spiritual disciplines are about the pursuit

of intimacy with God, and nothing is more important

than closeness with our Creator — it is through this

closeness with God that we begin to take on the character

of God. And ministry for God without intimacy with

God is nothing but religion without relationship; a list of

churchy chores to perform, the appearance of godliness

devoid of power, lifeless rituals sucked dry of passion,

almost like a beautiful monastery with only dead bones

inside.

Our God invites us to something far more beautiful,

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deep and life-giving.

The disciplines are our “yes” to God’s invitation, our

response to His loving initiative, our first faltering steps

into the experience of life that is truly life.

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GETTING THE MOST

OUT OF THIS GUIDE

WHY A 30 DAY GUIDE?

1. To experience the gift of spiritual disciplines.

2. To develop life-giving rhythms as a community.

3. To make walking with Jesus a more tangible part of our daily lives.

4. To make walking with Jesus something we celebrate in our

friend groups.

PLAN TO CREATE MARGIN

Walking through the 30 days will take personal

planning as well as group planning. You will want to

make sure to create margin in your life! We encourage

you to read ahead so you know what’s coming.

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PUT YOUR PHONE TO BED EARLY

We strongly encourage you to turn your phone off

before you go to bed each night to help create the margin

needed. Make sure your phone isn’t the last thing you

look at before bed and make sure it’s not the first thing

you look at when you wake up. Commit to a rhythm that

makes this possible.

JOURNAL

You might feel like journaling isn’t your thing but we

are confident that you’ll find it beneficial for these next

30 days; and who knows, maybe it will end up becoming

a discipline you continue to practice. Regardless,

journaling will be an essential part of your daily rhythm

over the next month.

DO THIS IN COMMUNITY

We also encourage you to walk this out with a few

friends. Our prayer is that these 30 days would strengthen

the relationships in this community as a whole. We all

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know that it is hard to stay focused when taking on new

rhythms and so having people to journey with will be

extremely helpful.

BEFORE YOU START WE SUGGEST YOU…

1. Find 2-4 people willing to commit to the 30 day journey.

2. Pre-plan 4 times you’ll commit to meeting with your group.

COMMIT TO FINISH

There will likely be days you don’t feel like finishing.

But we really encourage you to see it through! You may

want to ask a leader or mentor in your life to encourage

you on days you don’t feel like finishing. If you fall behind

at any point just pick up where you left off. It’s better to go

through each day than it is to finish in 30 days!

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WHAT TO EXPECT

As you keep turning pages you’ll find that this

booklet includes the following:

DISCIPLINE SUMMARIES

Throughout the booklet you’ll find pages that

introduce specific Christian disciplines. These write-ups

are to help you better understand what the disciplines

are.

UNIQUE PRACTICES

Every 5 days a new discipline will be highlighted and

explained. Each day you’ll be challenged with a unique

opportunity to practice the highlighted discipline for

that 5 day period. We’ve designed these 30 challenges as

opportunities to put what you’re learning into practice.

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DAILY RHYTHMS

You should plan to block out 40 minutes for prayer

and Bible reading each day. The Bible is God’s word to us.

Scripture reveals to us the character of God and the plans

and purposes He has for us. Prayer is communicating

with God — it is the language of relationship between us

and our Creator. Daily rhythms will include starting and

ending the day in prayer. We have also included a simple

Bible reading plan that requires reading one chapter of

the Bible each day. But if you’d rather do your own Bible

reading plan, feel free!

EXTRA RESOURCES (pg. 74)

To help you navigate your times in prayer and

scripture we have included a few extra resources in the

Appendix, at back of this booklet. Some of these resources

are essential for getting the most out of this booklet.

NEXT PAGE FOR LIST OF RESOURCES

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LIST OF INCLUDED RESOURCES

THE PRAYER OF SUBMISSION

PG. 75

We encourage you to pray this every day during your 10 minutes of

morning prayer.

THE PRAYER OF EXAMEN

PG. 77

Use this resource every evening. Praying through these questions is an

amazingly helpful way to end each day.

PRAYER LIST

PG. 79

You may want to make a list of things you’re praying for early on.

Committing to pray for a few things daily for 30 days is a powerful

exercise. It will be encouraging to look back and see how God has

answered prayer.

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4 TOOLS FOR INTERPRETATION

PG. 81

Unless you are a Bible scholar, you may be wondering how to most

effectively understand what you’re reading. These are 4 helpful tips to

assist you on the journey.

S.O.A.P

PG. 84

This simple journaling tool will give you some ideas for how to read a

chapter of the Bible effectively. You likely won’t have time to highlight

more than 1 or 2 verses each day but these steps will be helpful when

you do.

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DISCIPLINE ONE

MEDITATION

The scriptures are an essential ingredient in the

journey of God transforming us to be more like Christ.

Jesus himself prayed, “Sanctify us by your truth. Your

word is truth.” One of the primary ways in which God

sanctifies us is through His word. The word of God

reveals to us the character of God, the purposes of God

and the path to life that is truly life. As such, it is not

enough to simply browse through the pages of the Bible

as we would an Instagram post or a Facebook thread.

A deeper engagement is required.

In the Christian tradition, meditation is the practice

of focused thinking about the truth of God’s revelation.

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MEDITATION

As one pastor quipped, “if you know how to worry,

you know how to meditate.” Whereas worry is focused

thinking on something negative or distressing, meditation

is a slow, focused reading of scripture. Distinct from

eastern forms of meditation, which involve emptying

one’s mind, Christian meditation is an invitation to fully

saturate your mind in the word of God; to become like

a sponge soaked in the truth of God’s revelation so that,

when circumstances squeeze you, God’s truth is what

pours out.

Meditation doesn’t have to be complicated. Simply

find a quiet space to be alone. Minimize your distractions

by turning off the notifications on your phone. Take a few

deep breaths to quiet your mind and center yourself.

Slow down and embrace the beauty of “wasting

time” with God.

Then pick up your Bible and invite the presence

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of the Holy Spirit, trusting that the same Holy Spirit

who inspired the word of God will illuminate it to your

understanding. Pick a short passage of scripture or just

one verse and read it multiple times. Pay attention to

whether or not the Spirit of God highlights certain words

or phrases, perhaps writing down any thoughts that strike

you as especially significant. Start with a shorter length

of time like ten minutes and watch how, over time, your

capacity to spend meaningful moments with God grows.

End your time of mediation with prayer and worship in

response to God’s revelation.

Remember that meditation is like a muscle that

grows stronger with use, so make this discipline a staple

of your walk with God. The beautiful result will be that

as you spend time in the richness of scripture, slowly

savouring the beauty of God’s promises and the reality

that you are His beloved child, His word will begin to

transform you from the inside out in remarkable ways.

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DAY 1

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 1

10 MINS

If you are using the Bible reading plan that we’ve included in this booklet,

then open up to John 1 now. If you’re doing your own Bible reading

reading plan, we encourage you to decide which chapters you’ll be

reading each day before you proceed.

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

MEDITATION

Pick one verse from today’s reading and write it on a sticky note or

figure out a way to make the verse your phone background. Attempt to

memorize the verse by meditating on it throughout the day.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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MEDITATION

DAY 2

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 2

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

MEDITATION

Read the chapter you just read again, but this time read it out loud.

Before you read it out loud, pray that you would understand the truth of

what you’re reading in a deeper way.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 3

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 3

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

MEDITATION

Choose a short passage of scripture that’s easy to understand and read it

a few times over, (i.e., Psalm 23.) Write a paragraph of notes summarizing

what stands out to you from the passage after reading it a few times over.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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MEDITATION

DAY 4

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 4

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

MEDITATION

Go on a walk and choose something from creation to focus on, (i.e.,

tree, ocean, bird.) One example of this practice that Jesus used in his

teaching, was to ‘consider the flowers of the field.’ Stop and focus on

what you see and allow God to speak to you through it. Do this for 5-10

minutes.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

*Some of you may worry that this unique practice sounds new age or perhaps like

worship of creation. However, this practice is quite the opposite; it is rather pausing

to allow creation to speak to you about God’s nature. (Psalm 19, Matthew 6)

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DAY 5

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 5

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

MEDITATION

Choose a worship song you love and listen to it. Listen closely and

meditate on the specific truths being sung.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DISCIPLINE TWO

SOLITUDE

Do you remember the last time you were bored?

Of course, we all have times that we feel a sensation

that might be called boredom, but it seems that we have

developed a new reflex in our culture to deal with that

funny feeling. We’re all now programmed to, without

even thinking about it, at the moment nothing interesting

seems to be happening around us, reach into our pocket,

pull out a device and kill that feeling of boredom. As a

result, we are living in a noisy and distracted world. At

any given moment there are dozens of things, all working

to grab our limited attention; it’s like we’re afraid of what

we’ll find or experience if we get alone and quiet so we

turn the volume up all around us to drown out the quiet.

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But silence and solitude should be a major part

of the Christian life. Both these disciplines have been

practiced by Christians for almost two thousand years -

the practice of stopping, quieting our minds and souls to

hear the “still, soft voice” of the Spirit.

We see this practiced in the life of Jesus. Many times

the gospel writers comment on how Jesus withdrew to

a solitary place to pray (Luke 5:16, Matthew 14:13). He

stopped what He was doing, withdrew to a quiet place

and spoke to the Father. It didn’t matter how popular

Jesus had become or how many people put demands on

His time, He made it a priority to create space in His life

for solitude. And it seems as though this practice gave

power to everything else He did.

Henri Nouwen says that, “A life without a lonely

place, that is, a life without a quiet centre, easily becomes

destructive” 1 . Is it possible that a large part of what

contributes to pain, anxiety, depression and destruction

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in our world is that we’ve largely abandoned the “lonely

place”? And perhaps a key to regaining a sense of

strength, peace, harmony, joy and balance in our lives

is to reclaim the discipline of solitude. To get quiet with

the Father and let Him remind us of the power that is

ours and the promises He has given; all in an attempt to

unload the angst we carry onto His capable shoulders.

Solitude is difficult and will feel awkward at first.

Many of us don’t know how to be alone with God and our

thoughts. Take it slow; find a comfortable, distractionfree

place. Invite God’s Spirit to meet you in that time.

Ask Him to give you a fresh filling of His presence and

power. Talk to Him about the things you’re worried

about. Repent. Thank Him for His love and forgiveness.

And listen. Spend lots of time in silence and let your

Father say the things your soul needs to hear.

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DAY 6

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 6

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SOLITUDE

Plan an evening on your own. Try and commit to being alone for an hour

and take the time to be silent and journal. Your assignment today is to

schedule it in. Finding an hour in a busy week can be tough!

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 7

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 7

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SOLITUDE

Spend 10 minutes alone reflecting on one significant relationship in your

life. Bring that person and your relationship to God in prayer.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 8

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 8

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SOLITUDE

Take 10 minutes and ask God to speak to you. Write down what you feel

He’s bringing to your mind. Afterwards, consider if what you feel He’s

said lines up with other things Jesus has said in scripture. We encourage

you to bring up what you heard with your friend group during your

weekly time together.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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SOLITUDE

DAY 9

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 9

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SOLITUDE

Whenever you have alone time today allow for silence. Refrain from

watching Instagram stories, listening to music, and from doing anything

that would fill the space you’re in with noise. Take the time to think about

God.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 10

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 10

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SOLITUDE

Read back over your journal entries from the past few days. Take time to

focus on what God has been showing you.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DISCIPLINE THREE

SIMPLICITY

Matthew 6:25-33 records Jesus saying:

“I tell you, do not worry about your life,

what you will eat or drink; or about your body,

what you will wear. Is not life more than food,

and the body more than clothes? Look at the

birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store

away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father

feeds them. Are you not much more valuable

than they? Can any one of you by worrying add

a single hour to your life?

And why do you worry about clothes?

See how the flowers of the field grow. They do

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not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even

Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like

one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass

of the field, which is here today and tomorrow

is thrown into the fire, will he not much more

clothe you—you of little faith? So do not worry,

saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we

drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans

run after all these things, and your heavenly

Father knows that you need them. But seek

first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all

these things will be given to you as well.”

We worry about so much. We worry about our

health, finances, approval, future, grades, whether or not

we’re behind socially or if we’re up to date culturally; the

list really does go on and on.

Jesus calls His followers away from worry. He suggests

that the reason we shouldn’t worry is because God knows

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what we need and cares about us. Furthermore, He

commands us to seek first the kingdom of God.

In our western culture, it’s fair to say that we busy

ourselves with acquiring more than just the essentials.

We believe that if we have everything we want then we’ll

find peace and tranquility, but Jesus knows this is a lie.

His promise is that if we seek first God and His kingdom,

not only will we have what we need for this life, but we’ll

also find that God is ultimately what we need in this

life. We’ll discover that our hurried chase after things

is exhausting, whereas knowing God’s presence and

purpose is satisfying.

God’s kingdom culture swims against the current

of our cultural moment. While our moment propagates

materialism, gaining and keeping, God’s kingdom says

it’s better to give and live open-handedly.

Those who seek to live this out find just that–it’s

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better; living under God’s reign is better than relying on

our own set of ideals.

The discipline of simplicity moves us towards fuller

life. It’s a discipline that is rooted in the trust that God

is enough and that the things of this world won’t satisfy.

Simplicity lines up with Jesus’ teaching in that it doesn’t

deny life’s necessities, but reminds us life is about more

than clothing, food, and having what advertisements

convince us we should have. Simplicity is about letting

go, reordering our desires, placing God on the throne

of our hearts, and allowing Him, instead of our fragile

possessions, to sustain and bear the weight of our lives.

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DAY 11

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 11

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SIMPLICITY

Take time to write down your answers to these questions.

1. What material possessions would be hardest to give up?

2. In what way does that attachment seem unhealthy?

3. What might your close friends say about your relationship with

stuff?

4. What possessions do you think God is calling you to be more openhanded

with?

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 12

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 12

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SIMPLICITY

Invite someone over who might appreciate your clothing. Let them

choose 1-2 items of yours that they’d like to take home with them.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 13

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 13

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SIMPLICITY

Pray and ask God to bring a person or a specific ministry to mind. Ask

God how much He would have you give financially to that person or

ministry. Find a way to give that amount today. If no one comes to mind

when you pray simply decide to give a certain amount to a certain person

or ministry.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 14

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 14

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SIMPLICITY

Gather 5-10 items that you’re hanging onto but don’t really need. Take

them to a thrift store or some other local charity.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 15

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 15

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SIMPLICITY

You’re half way through the booklet! As a way to grow in living more

simply make the commitment to not buy anything new (besides absolute

essentials) for the last 15 days of this journey.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DISCIPLINE FOUR

FASTING

Jesus doesn’t command his followers to fast. If He

did, a failure to fast would be sinful. Nevertheless, Jesus

does expect His followers to fast. He said to his disciples

“when you fast” not “if you fast.” Fasting, in its traditional

sense, is going without food for a time with the desired

purpose of prayer and seeking God. In a day and age of

over consumption and slavery to bodily impulses, fasting

can be a powerful, counter-cultural act for the follower of

Christ. Fasting is a profound statement to God, yourself,

and the world that you long for God’s presence, power

and nearness, more than the comforts of food.

The benefits of fasting are numerous, including but

not limited to: increasing your spiritual sensitivity to

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God, engaging powerfully in spiritual warfare, exposing

and dealing with hidden sin that lays buried under the

the weight of constant snacking and creature comforts

and, sometimes, an increased awareness of God’s

presence. In this last sense, fasting is not a refusal to feast;

rather, it is a choice to feast on the joy of God’s presence.

Perhaps this is what Jesus meant when, after missing

lunch, he told his disciples, “I have food to eat that you

know nothing about.” (John 4:32) To quote Sam Storms,

“Fasting is all about eating, of a sort. Fasting is feasting

on God, drawing deeply on His goodness, gazing on his

beauty, and trusting Him to do for us what we could

never remotely expect to do on our own. The reason we

don’t eat is to help us focus on the energy that comes

from God.” 2

There are many different types of fasts that last for

all different lengths of time. There is a fast without food

and drink, which can only last for a short period of time,

unless miraculously sustained by God as in the case with

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Moses. This type of fast is not a helpful model for the

beginner.

More popularly, there is fasting from food for a

period of time, but still drinking liquids like juices,

smoothies or water. This is a great type of fast to try for

24 hours from evening to evening. If you plan on fasting

without food for more than a day, keep in mind that the

first day or two will be the hardest, and then you will be

surprised by how your body adapts. By day three the

hunger pangs will diminish significantly. When coming

off a food fast, especially one extending for several days,

don’t gorge yourself on fatty foods. Start with fruits or

greens and slowly work your way back to your normal,

everyday diet of Chipotle and Cheetos.

There is also fasting from certain forms of

entertainment or activities, devoting the time usually

spent engaging these platforms to prayer and spiritual

disciplines. Given how addicted we can be to our phones,

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and considering the studies that indicate the amount

of depression and increased anxiety this specific habit

brings into our lives, this may be a challenging, but

extremely beneficial, type of fast to try out for a time.

A media fast can be a powerful way of detoxing from

the values of the world that we are constantly bombarded

with through social media and marketing; in addition to

being a far safer fast for those who struggle with binging,

purging, or any other type of eating disorder. This type

of media fast, especially from our phones, is also a better

option for those of us with physical conditions that make

going without food dangerous or unhelpful.

Though a foreign concept to many of us, fasting is

a wonderful spiritual discipline that brings all kinds of

benefits into our lives. But it is not always easy so we

leave you with this last piece of encouragement. Give

fasting a try, but don’t try it alone, especially if you have

never fasted before. Fast with friends for the purpose of

encouragement and support.

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DAY 16

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 16

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

FASTING

We encourage you to give up any 6 meals over the next 5 days. You can

decide if you would like to do 2 full days, or breakfast and lunch 3 days.

Take time today to plan out your week. Pray about when you should fast

and what approach you should take.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 17

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 17

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

FASTING

Pick 1 food item to give up for the remainder of this 5 day period (ie.

coffee, sugar, dairy, chocolate, bread, etc.) Pick something that’s not

overly burdensome but pick something that’s unique to you. Alternatively,

you may want to choose to not eat out for the remainder of the 5 days.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 18

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 18

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

FASTING

Fight the natural instinct to pick up your phone whenever there’s a down

moment in your day today. Take the in-between moments to pray.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 19

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 19

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

FASTING

Take the day off from saying anything critical. There are of course

situations in life where critique is helpful; but today abstain from all of it.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 20

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 20

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

FASTING

Take the day off from social media.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DISCIPLINE FIVE

SERVICE

Do to others as you would have them do to you. Lots

of people don’t realize Jesus of Nazareth is the one who

said this famous adage, but He is. (Luke 6:31) Our Savior

taught so clearly on considering the needs of others.

He also famously said loving our neighbors is second

only to loving God Himself. (Mark 12:31) After Jesus’

resurrection, Paul wrote to the church and encouraged

them to imitate Jesus. He wrote, “Do nothing out of

selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value

others above yourselves… (Phillipians 2:3)

This is the way of Jesus.

To do nothing out of selfish ambition.

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SERVICE

Most of us feel so far from living out this call.

However, if we are open to the Holy Spirit’s work, we

can become more like Jesus. Another discipline we hope

to awaken in our lives is the discipline of service. It is

important to embrace the process and recognize that

growing in humility and becoming Christlike through

our actions is a journey. And part of that journey involves

cultivating the discipline of service.

The discipline of service is about intentionally

treating others the way you would like to be treated,

and choosing to consider other people’s needs as more

significant than your own.

This type of practice doesn’t happen by accident. It

needs to be cultivated, which is why we are calling it a

discipline.

Sometimes planning out acts of service seems

ingenuine or contrived, but be encouraged that there is a

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genuineness in the fact that you desire to be transformed

by Christ.

As you decide to serve people around you, ask the

Holy Spirit to kill selfishness in you, and show you where

you can grow to be more like Christ.

Our prayer is that as you step out in the following

acts of service you’d find yourself more aware of God’s

heart for people and more aware of the needs around you.

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DAY 21

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

JOHN 21

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

Bring someone a coffee today.

SERVICE

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 22

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

EPHESIANS 1

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SERVICE

Pick up litter every time you see it today.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 23

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

EPHESIANS 2

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SERVICE

Buy a less privileged person a meal today and engage in a meaningful

conversation with them.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 24

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

EPHESIANS 3

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SERVICE

Lighten the load of housework for someone today. (Make a meal, clean

the kitchen, etc.)

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 25

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

EPHESIANS 4

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

SERVICE

Schedule a time to visit someone who’s lonely or sick. Make sure you plan

it for a day before the end of the 30 days.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DISCIPLINE SIX

CELEBRATION

‘God is a cosmic killjoy.’

‘God is the sort of chap that goes poking around

other people’s affairs with the expressed desire of ruining

their fun.’

‘God is anti-pleasure.’

The above sentiments represent a view of God

that many people today believe in on the basis of their

upbringing.

truth!

But in reality, nothing could be further from the

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When you open the pages of the Bible you encounter

an entirely different picture. The God of scripture

demands his people gather and celebrate together. We

worship the God who made wine “to gladden the hearts

of people” (Psalm 104:15); the God who holds pleasure

in His right hand forevermore (Psalm 16:11). When the

Son of God took on flesh His first miracle was to turn

water into fabulous wine at a party, all to save a young

couple from public shame and embarrassment (John

2:1-11). Not only that, Jesus continuously talked about

the kingdom of God as a celebration, a feast, a joyous

occasion, that everyone was invited to attend.

Sadly, the church hasn’t always embraced the

celebratory side of God’s kingdom.

But in a world that is bombarded with bad news on a

daily basis, in a day and age where depression and anxiety

are on the rise, we are called to be people who rejoice

always (Phillipians 4:4), who celebrate the goodness of

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God in the land of the living (Psalm 27:13), who live

with hope and vibrant expectancy that the best is yet

to come, and everything bad will one day come untrue

(Revelation 21).

And when we celebrate now: when we laugh until

we cry, when we smile until our faces hurt, when we join

hearts and hands to feast, and drink, and share our food

and resources with the least of these; when we do all of

the above, we offer our world a prophetic witness to the

abundant goodness of our God and the nature of His

coming kingdom.

So, learn to host good parties.

Learn to cultivate a joy that is too big to be squashed

by the awkward party guest.

Study the art of occasional levity.

Embrace a love that is big enough to laugh, even

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when a part of us knows there are always reasons to cry.

Do that and we will be a step closer, as a community,

to embodying the discipline of celebration that will make

the world take notice.

Set aside some time to celebrate this week. We

have given you something you can do each day for your

unique practice, but go above and beyond for the last five

days! Make plans with friends and consider inviting the

lonely and isolated along in what you’re doing.

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DAY 26

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

EPHESIANS 5

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

CELEBRATION

Acknowledge 3 birthdays today in a personal way. Facebook can help

you out.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 27

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

EPHESIANS 6

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

CELEBRATION

Identity someone who’s impacted your life positively and thank them by

writing them a one page letter. Try and deliver a hard copy rather than

emailing it.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 28

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

2 PETER 1

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

CELEBRATION

Think of someone who works at a church that you don’t attend and find a

way to creatively appreciate them for what they’re doing.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 29

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

2 PETER 2

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

CELEBRATION

Message someone who has impacted your spiritual walk with God. Note

how they did it and thank them for it.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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DAY 30

DAILY RHYTHM

MORNING PRAYER

10 MINS

BIBLE READING

2 PETER 3

10 MINS

JOURNAL

10 MINS

UNIQUE PRACTICE

CELEBRATION

Organize a gathering of family, friends or strangers and find a way to

celebrate each person that RSVP’s. We encourage you to do this with a

group of friends.

EVENING PRAYER

PRAYER OF EXAMEN

10 MINS

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APPENDIX

EXTRA

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PRAYER OF

SUBMISSION

We encourage you to make the following prayer of

submission a habit. It is an awesome way to start each

day.

Hold your hands in these specific positions / postures

to mirror your intention to live these vows out today.

FIRSTLY, HANDS UP. SURRENDER.

“I choose to hold up my hands as a symbol of

surrender. My life is not about me, I surrender

to your Lordship. I surrender my preferences, prejudices

and position to you. My fears, finances, friends and

family to you.”

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SECOND, HANDS OUT. GENEROSITY.

“I choose to hold out my hands as a symbol

of generosity. What I have is not mine. I am

only a steward of all that you have given me. I want to

mirror the way the you have opened your hand to us and

lavished your love and life upon us. I want to live an open

handed life in a closed fist culture.”

THIRDLY, HANDS FORWARD. MISSION.

“I choose to hold my hands forward as

a symbol of mission. I want to live for

something greater than me. I want to embrace your

kingdom mission. I want to embrace and welcome your

mission to the lost, last, least and lonely - the poor,

powerless, privileged and persecuted.”

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PRAYER OF

EXAMEN

The church father Ignatius did this prayer exercise

regularly and we encourage you to do it each evening.

Ask yourself this set of questions.

1. Look back on your day with the Holy Spirit. The day

may seem confusing to you. Ask God to help you

understand it and how to learn from it.

2. Review the day with gratitude. Look for the good

in the day, how God was present to you through

people, places, and things. Pay attention to the small

things because God is in the details.

3. Pay attention to your emotions. What were your

feelings today? Happiness? Sadness? Boredom?

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Anger? Confidence? Frustration? What is God

saying to you through these feelings?

4. Choose one feature of the day and pray from it. Ask

the Holy Spirit to direct you to something during the

day that God thinks is particularly important. Look

at it. Pray about it.

5. Look toward tomorrow. Ask God to give you light

for tomorrow’s challenges. Seek God’s guidance,

help, and understanding. Pray for hope.

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PRAYER LIST

Make a list in your journal of 5-10 situations you

want to commit to prayer. Take time each day to pray for

the situations on your list.

Colossians 4:2 says we should devote ourselves to

prayer being watchful and thankful. This verse introduces

a great rhythm and mindset for us when we pray. First,

we should devote ourselves to prayer. Devotion to prayer

means we prioritize it, disciplining ourselves to do it

regularly. Few things are more important than developing

a routine that makes space for prayer.

Second, this verse commands us to be watchful.

At times we pray but then forget to watch for how God

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will answer. One way to devote yourself to prayer is to

make a list of people and situations that you can bring

consistently before God. Look at this list regularly because

looking is a part of the watching. Don’t just pray for the

items on the list; watch the situations closely for glimpses

of how God is answering your prayers. As you do this

you will become more aware of how God is answering

your prayers. Watchfulness like this naturally leads to

the third part of this verse which tells us to be thankful.

Watchfulness and thankfulness really do go together!

When we watch it is easier to thank God because we

become aware that He isn’t aloof and uninterested, but is

rather engaged and interested in answering our prayers.

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4 TOOLS FOR

INTERPRETATION

LEARN THE CONTEXT

Pay attention to the original context into which the

God-inspired writer is speaking. A good principle of

Biblical interpretation is, “The Bible can never mean what

is never meant.” Our goal is to find out what the author

was communicating to the original audience, and then

apply it to our lives and culture. A Bible commentary can

be helpful in this undertaking, or a good Study Bible.

LET THE REST OF THE BIBLE HELP YOU READ PARTS

OF THE BIBLE

Another general principle for reading the Bible is,

“Allow scripture to interpret Scripture”. For example,

Ecclesiastes 9:7 says, “Go, eat your food with gladness, and

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drink your wine with a joyful heart, for it is now that God

favours what you do.” Read by itself this text could be used

to promote drunkenness. This is where scripture helps

interpret scripture. In Ephesians 5:19, the apostle Paul

writes, “Do not get drunk on wine (or beer or hard liquor),

which leads to debauchery. Instead, by filled with the

Spirit.” Ecclesiastes 9:7 should, therefore, be understood

to encourage the believer to enjoy God’s good creation,

which includes wine (Psalm 104), but not abuse it. The

rest of the Bible teaches that alcohol should be consumed

in moderation at an appropriate age if conscience permits

(Ecclesiastes 9:7, Psalm 104:15, Romans 13:1, Romans 14)

LOOK FOR JESUS IN THE TEXT

Jesus claims on multiple occasions that the entire

Bible is about Him (Luke 24:27, John 5:39-40, 46-47).

Even the Old Testament is pointing towards Jesus. Jesus

is our high priest, our sacrifice for sins, and the temple

in which the presence of God fully dwells. Whenever we

read of sacrifices, the priesthood, or the temple in the

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Old Testament, our hearts and minds should be drawn

towards Jesus.

ENTER INTO THE STORY

If you are reading a story in the Bible, use your

imagination and seek to place yourself in the narrative.

How would you feel if you were in a similar situation?

Can you identify with any of the characters and the

emotions they may be experiencing? Does the story

speak to anything you have experienced in the past, or

are experiencing in the present?

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BIBLE READING GUIDE

S.O.A.P.

S.O.A.P. is a helpful format for reading your Bible

and journaling your thoughts and prayers. Each letter

represents a section to write in your journal. Use this

method as you read your Bible each day, even if you only

have time to make 1 or 2 observations.

What does S.O.A.P. stand for?

S - SCRIPTURE

Take time to physically write out the scripture you’re

reading. You’ll be amazed at what God will reveal to you

just by taking the time to slow down and actually write

out what you’re reading.

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O - OBSERVATION

What do you see in the verses that you’re reading?

Who is the audience? Is there any repetition of words?

What words or phrases stand out to you? Take some time

to write out any interesting observations you may have

while reading.

A - APPLICATION

This is when God’s word gets personal. What is

God saying to you through this scripture? How can you

apply what you just read to your own personal life? What

changes do you need to make? Are there any actions you

need to take?

P - PRAYER

Once you’ve completed the other sections, take time

to pray about anything God may have revealed to you

through the text.

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Endnotes

1 Henri Nouwen: Show Me the Way: Daily Lenten

Readings, p.67, 19922

2 Sam Storms, Practicing the Power: Welcoming

the Gifts of the Holy Spirit in your Life, p.57

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