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Wellness<br />

Building a<br />

Winning Mind<br />

• <strong>The</strong>y are threatened by the<br />

success of others. It's a measure by<br />

which they look bad. <strong>The</strong>y may try to<br />

convince themselves and others the<br />

success was luck or even try to<br />

demean it.<br />

<strong>The</strong> winning mindset<br />

What is a winning mindset? let's look at the differences between a<br />

People with this mindset:<br />

• Believe ability, intelligence,<br />

personality can be developed -<br />

Anybody can change and grow.<br />

• Effort is necessary to grow and<br />

gain skill mastery.<br />

• <strong>The</strong>y embrace challenges as<br />

opportunities.<br />

• <strong>The</strong>y are not discouraged by<br />

obstacles or setbacks. <strong>The</strong>ir selfimage<br />

is not tied to how they look to<br />

others.<br />

• Failure is seen as an opportunity to<br />

learn, so risking it is a win-win.<br />

• To them, constructive feedback<br />

may provide useful information<br />

winning (what Dweck calls a<br />

Law enforcement, along with the<br />

"growth") mindset and a limited (or<br />

military, business and athletics, has<br />

accepted that a winning mindset is<br />

Dweck's "fixed") mindset.<br />

key to a winning performance. But <strong>The</strong> limited mindset<br />

about their current abilities, which<br />

they can learn from.<br />

• <strong>The</strong> success of others is a model<br />

from which they are inspired and<br />

learn.<br />

• What is a winning mindset?<br />

• Can it be taught?<br />

• If so, how?<br />

People with this mindset:<br />

• Believe ability, intelligence,<br />

personality are static - You've got it or<br />

Mindset produces different<br />

results<br />

For 30 years, Carol Dweck, a you haven't.<br />

What are the results of a limited<br />

professor of Psychology at Stanford • Effort is fruitless, or worse - because mindset? <strong>The</strong>se folks level off early<br />

University and an expert in if you try and fail, you're dumb, a and then their beliefs become selfmotivation<br />

and intelligence, has loser.<br />

fulfilling. <strong>The</strong>y don't risk, change, or<br />

researched what makes some people<br />

give up when they encounter difficulty<br />

while others - who are no more<br />

talented or skilled - press on,<br />

persevere and excel.<br />

• This person wants to appear smart<br />

so...<br />

Rather than risk failing and negatively<br />

impact their self-image they avoid<br />

challenges because they're hard and<br />

improve much. This confirms their<br />

belief that we are as we are. <strong>The</strong>y end<br />

up achieving less than their <strong>full</strong><br />

potential.<br />

And a winning mindset? Seeing<br />

Her work is rocking the scientific, success is not certain. challenges and obstacles, failures<br />

business and educational worlds and • <strong>The</strong>y stick to what they already and set backs as opportunities to<br />

has taken the public by storm in her know and can do.<br />

learn and grow, these people keep<br />

book, Mindset:<strong>The</strong> New Psychology • When facing obstacles they give striving and learning. <strong>The</strong>y create a<br />

of Success. up. If you have to try, you're dumb. positive self-fulfilling prophecy that<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are important lessons here for • Any criticism of their capabilities is encourages them to try harder, learn<br />

law enforcement in hiring, job seen as a personal criticism. <strong>The</strong>y from their mistakes, persevere and<br />

performance and supervision. First, ignore it or are insulted.<br />

get smarter and wiser.<br />

THE PROTECTOR<br />

Sept-Oct 2009 53

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