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Dorothy & Leslie Oxenbury<br />
<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> mid-1950s<br />
Oxenbury Family Memories, Part 1<br />
Dorothy Kathleen Muriel<br />
Legg was born <strong>in</strong> Halstock<br />
<strong>in</strong> 1911 and was educated<br />
<strong>in</strong> Crewkerne. When she was<br />
18 years-of-age, her family<br />
moved to Great Coombe Farm,<br />
Wootton Fitzpa<strong>in</strong>e, where she<br />
met local coach builder Leslie<br />
John Oxenbury. After <strong>the</strong><br />
couple married <strong>in</strong> 1932, <strong>the</strong>y<br />
moved to Romany <strong>in</strong> Lower<br />
Sea Lane.<br />
Dorothy jo<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>the</strong> Red Cross<br />
<strong>in</strong> 1944 and attended lectures<br />
and nurs<strong>in</strong>g demonstrations <strong>in</strong><br />
preparation <strong>for</strong> her <strong>in</strong>itial<br />
exam<strong>in</strong>ations <strong>in</strong> home nurs<strong>in</strong>g<br />
and first aid, which she<br />
passed <strong>the</strong> follow<strong>in</strong>g year.<br />
Many more exam<strong>in</strong>ations<br />
followed and <strong>in</strong> 1954 she became Miss Joan Whitt<strong>in</strong>gton’s<br />
deputy. Miss Whitt<strong>in</strong>gton had been a nurse dur<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> war<br />
and, toge<strong>the</strong>r with her sisters, ran <strong>Charmouth</strong>’s ambulance<br />
service – a service that also covered Whitchurch<br />
Canonicorum, Wootton Fitzpa<strong>in</strong>e and Morecombelake. When<br />
Miss Whitt<strong>in</strong>gton retired, Dorothy took <strong>the</strong> helm.<br />
Taxi driver George Rowland drove <strong>the</strong> ambulance and Billy<br />
Gear of Gear’s Garage (located just west of <strong>the</strong> Abbots<br />
House) generously paid George’s wages, thus provid<strong>in</strong>g his<br />
services free of charge to <strong>the</strong> Red Cross. Dr Arthur<br />
Chamberla<strong>in</strong>, who was based at Askew House, frequently<br />
used <strong>the</strong> ambulance <strong>for</strong> his patients, while Dorothy and<br />
Hazel Clarke provided first aid cover at fetes and o<strong>the</strong>r local<br />
events. Dorothy was frequently called to beach emergencies<br />
and, on one occasion, tried to resuscitate a girl who,<br />
tragically, became trapped under <strong>the</strong> river Char footbridge.<br />
Red Cross meet<strong>in</strong>gs were held at Romany, and Elsie Bragg,<br />
Ruby Pennells, Jill L<strong>in</strong>thorne, Yvonne Fiddler and Hazel<br />
Clarke were amongst <strong>the</strong> regular attendees who heard Dr<br />
Chamberla<strong>in</strong> and several doctors from Bridport talk about<br />
different aspects of nurs<strong>in</strong>g. Throughout <strong>the</strong> years Dorothy<br />
organised fund-rais<strong>in</strong>g events <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> Red Cross, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g<br />
cream teas on Romany’s front lawn and sales of knickknacks<br />
and Hazel’s home-made toys. She became<br />
Commandant of Detachment 102 of <strong>the</strong> Dorset Branch <strong>in</strong><br />
1958, eight years after be<strong>in</strong>g made Assistant Commandant.<br />
In 1958, when <strong>the</strong> Duchess of Marlborough was President of<br />
<strong>the</strong> Red Cross, a Christian Dior fashion show was held at<br />
Blenheim Palace <strong>in</strong> aid of <strong>the</strong> charity. Dorothy sold<br />
programmes to <strong>the</strong> 1,650 guests, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g guest-of-honour<br />
Pr<strong>in</strong>cess Margaret.<br />
In <strong>the</strong> 1960s she spent two weeks each summer help<strong>in</strong>g<br />
disabled children and adults enjoy <strong>the</strong>ir holiday at Pont<strong>in</strong>’s<br />
Osm<strong>in</strong>gton Bay campsite.<br />
One day Dorothy was called to <strong>the</strong> roadside by Nutcombe<br />
Terrace and rema<strong>in</strong>ed with a dy<strong>in</strong>g motorcyclist while <strong>the</strong><br />
ambulance took an <strong>in</strong>jured girl to hospital. Her family recall<br />
that <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>cident affected her. Shortly afterwards she<br />
developed diabetes.<br />
In 1975 Dorothy was presented with a British Red Cross<br />
Society Certificate <strong>for</strong> meritorious service, and <strong>in</strong> 1979 she<br />
received a Badge of Honour and Life Membership <strong>in</strong><br />
recognition of her devoted service. Sadly, <strong>the</strong> local branch<br />
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was disbanded when Dorothy’s diabetes worsened and no<br />
one else took over.<br />
In addition to her many Red Cross commitments, Dorothy<br />
ran a bed and breakfast bus<strong>in</strong>ess at Romany. She started<br />
<strong>the</strong> Char Valley Over Sixties Club <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> 1960s and<br />
organised <strong>the</strong> annual Christmas lunches at <strong>the</strong> Village (WI)<br />
Hall. For many years she ran a chiropody cl<strong>in</strong>ic <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />
elderly, disabled and expectant mo<strong>the</strong>rs and <strong>the</strong> Lyme<br />
Regis six monthly blood donor sessions. She enjoyed<br />
embroidery and was skilled <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> Dorset stitch, which she<br />
exhibited at a Dorset Arts & Crafts exhibition <strong>in</strong> 1957. In<br />
later life Dorothy took up bridge, which she played with W<strong>in</strong><br />
North <strong>in</strong> Parkway <strong>the</strong> night be<strong>for</strong>e her sudden death <strong>in</strong> 1987.<br />
Dorothy was a popular lady with a strong <strong>community</strong> spirit,<br />
who wholeheartedly <strong>in</strong>volved herself <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> life of <strong>the</strong> village.<br />
Her only son, Ronald John Oxenbury, lives with his wife<br />
Gwen at Greenbanks <strong>in</strong> Lower Sea Lane.<br />
With thanks to Gwen and Ron, who will contribute <strong>the</strong>ir own<br />
memories <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> w<strong>in</strong>ter issue of Shorel<strong>in</strong>e.<br />
Char Valley Over Sixties Club Christmas Lunch <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />
Village Hall, 1960s –<br />
Left to right, Elsie Bragg, ?, Dorothy Oxenbury, Ruby<br />
Pennells, Jean Bowditch, Fred Morgan, ?, ?, Hazel Clarke;<br />
gentleman <strong>in</strong> <strong>for</strong>eground unknown Please let Shorel<strong>in</strong>e<br />
know if you can help name those featured <strong>in</strong> this<br />
photograph<br />
Lesley Dunlop<br />
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