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Family feelings are central in your emotional life. Women with this position are motivated to create a warm home atmosphere,<br />
cook good food, and generally cater for the needs of the partner. They are looking for a man who will be a good father to the<br />
children. Men will be attracted to the mothering type. Communication takes place far more on an emotional than mental level.<br />
Faithfulness and family loyalty are essential values, and a relationship will not function without them. If the feelings are hurt,<br />
there is a powerful tendency to withdraw emotionally. Love centers around the home, and there is little need to go out and<br />
meet people. There is a strong sentimental attachment, even to relationships from the distant past.. &Birth Analysis<br />
You exhibit a very warm personality and are capable of creating a stable and secure environment for your loved ones.<br />
However you prefer to live the good life, and do not like to deny yourself the pleasures that material things can bring. To feel<br />
good, you often resort to buying yourself presents. Your strong attachments and desires - both materially and romantically -<br />
can create financial problems. On the other hand you tend to be materially fortunate. In your love life you demand tangible<br />
expressions of love - the more expensive the better. You too can be generous, both materially and emotionally. One of your<br />
greatest talents is your ability to appreciate the bounties of Nature. Financial issues are important in your relationships.<br />
&Birth Analysis<br />
This aspect is extremely powerful in your horoscope; it will dominate many areas of your life.<br />
This conjunction shows a fusion of energies in you. Both the positive and negative sides of this aspect will be an integral part of<br />
your character.<br />
It is extremely important for you to feel liked, and you go to considerable lengths to make a good impression. You are<br />
personally warm and affectionate, and enjoy both making and being the recipient of romantic gestures. Your mild manner<br />
probably comes from your father, who may well have been very loving and considerate. Indeed, women with this aspect often<br />
idealise their fathers and have difficulty shaking off their attachment. Later in life they will tend to become romantically<br />
involved with a softer type of man, in whom they imagine very gallant properties. For both sexes problems can arise through<br />
denial of the shadow side of the personality and the reluctance to see that people cannot always be ladies and gentlemen.<br />
Sometimes too, there may be a tendency to manipulate others through the conscious use of charm, and a far too rosy selfportrayal.<br />
Nevertheless personal self-esteem is a central issue for the identity, and learning to love and accept yourself is a<br />
prerequisite before you can function well in a relationship. &Birth Analysis<br />
Though not especially strong, you will be able to feel the influence of this aspect under many circumstances.<br />
The influence of this planetary connection is subtle and unconscious. You can however expect quite acute periodic crises when<br />
the negative effects of the aspect manifest themselves.<br />
As Mars and Venus are the male and female archetypes, this combination brings a powerful need to resolve the dilemma<br />
between the sexes. Harmonious aspects show greater ease in this matter, but inharmonious contacts and the conjunction bring<br />
extremely difficult challenges. Often confusion about the sexual role stems from the impression given by the parents<br />
concerning their love-life, particularly if infidelity was involved. Women with this aspect often experience a strong contrast<br />
between the demands of femininity and those of sexuality, and in extreme cases the man is perceived as being a primitive only<br />
interested in sexual satisfaction. Actually the woman sends strong sexual signals but gets confused about the response she<br />
receives, not knowing whether to take the initiative, (ladies don’t do that), or be passive. The paradox is that women with this<br />
aspect have strong masculine traits, and can resent the man taking the initiative. Men with this aspect will sometimes have<br />
rather feminine traits, and have difficulty taking the initiative.<br />
Whatever the circumstances, the erotic life plays an important role in the character, and there is a strong tendency towards<br />
sexual involvements which can be a threat to stable relationships. There is in both sexes a difficulty in integrating the loving<br />
nature with passion and desire - when to be tender and affectionate, when to go your own way? When to be attached, when to<br />
be detached? When to be chaste, when to let the body take over? When a balance is found, then there is great potential to have<br />
enjoyable relationships on both the physical and spiritual level. &Birth Analysis<br />
It may be difficult for you to discern the influence of this combination of planetary energies, as it has only a mild effect in your<br />
chart.<br />
Please remember when reading this section, that the harmonious nature of this contact means that you can use the energies<br />
creatively, for the most part without negative effects.<br />
The major characteristic of your love-life is your need for excitement and the unpredictable, coupled with a restlessness which<br />
you feel when relationships do not offer you the opportunity for personal development. You have a tendency to form<br />
relationships to people from foreign countries, different cultures or unusual environments - in other words with a person who<br />
can bring an element of the exotic into your life. Often you can find yourself in a situation, in which you choose not to actually<br />
live together with a partner. Preferring to keep your independence - especially as regards the freedom to have your own<br />
friends - you maintain the excitement of romance by periodic meetings where you can constantly have your need for<br />
excitement fulfilled. In extreme cases you experience “airport-love” - short but exciting relationships with someone from