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&Birth Analysis<br />

You will often feel the influence of this aspect, though stronger influences may predominate in other areas of your chart.<br />

When reading the following description, please bear in mind that you are a fast learner and overcome any difficulties involved<br />

very quickly. You can expect to use this aspect constructively and harmoniously.<br />

You get into too many arguments, and rarely consider the idea that you may be wrong. This truculent manner probably stems<br />

from conflicts in childhood with brothers, or perhaps your father. You worked out then that the best means of defence was<br />

offence. Yet troubles arise later in life because your frank and direct manner makes people feel that you are offensive. You<br />

don’t always have to tell people what is on your mind. You hate to be bossed around or told what to do, so make an effort not<br />

to act in this way with others. Give them time to express themselves without interrupting, and resolve to stop criticism and<br />

arguments. Women with this aspect are often attracted to rather sharp men who may have questionable morals, or be rather<br />

argumentative types, although this is a projection mechanism based on inner conflicts. Men tend to retain adolescent qualities<br />

and act at times as if they know everything.<br />

For both sexes it is important to slow down, otherwise the nervous system can be adversely affected. When you channel your<br />

enormous energy into creative, fun projects, you can achieve a great deal.<br />

Though not especially strong, you will be able to feel the influence of this aspect under many circumstances.<br />

The influence of this planetary connection is subtle and unconscious. You can however expect quite acute periodic crises when<br />

the negative effects of the aspect manifest themselves.<br />

As Mars and Venus are the male and female archetypes, this combination brings a powerful need to resolve the dilemma<br />

between the sexes. Harmonious aspects show greater ease in this matter, but inharmonious contacts and the conjunction bring<br />

extremely difficult challenges. Often confusion about the sexual role stems from the impression given by the parents<br />

concerning their love-life, particularly if infidelity was involved. Women with this aspect often experience a strong contrast<br />

between the demands of femininity and those of sexuality, and in extreme cases the man is perceived as being a primitive only<br />

interested in sexual satisfaction. Actually the woman sends strong sexual signals but gets confused about the response she<br />

receives, not knowing whether to take the initiative, (ladies don’t do that), or be passive. The paradox is that women with this<br />

aspect have strong masculine traits, and can resent the man taking the initiative. Men with this aspect will sometimes have<br />

rather feminine traits, and have difficulty taking the initiative.<br />

Whatever the circumstances, the erotic life plays an important role in the character, and there is a strong tendency towards<br />

sexual involvements which can be a threat to stable relationships. There is in both sexes a difficulty in integrating the loving<br />

nature with passion and desire - when to be tender and affectionate, when to go your own way? When to be attached, when to<br />

be detached? When to be chaste, when to let the body take over? When a balance is found, then there is great potential to have<br />

enjoyable relationships on both the physical and spiritual level.<br />

This aspect is of medium strength and its influence will often be felt, though not acutely.<br />

There will be great difficulty in integrating these two planetary influences, and the promised harmonious results will only arise<br />

after you have expended time and effort.<br />

You may well be an exciting person to be with because of your sharp intellect, optimistic nature and sense of fun. If you are a<br />

man, you will enjoy the company of your own sex, and be engaged in many activities, perhaps connected with sport or travel.<br />

You can excel in mental sparring contests and the thrill of debate. However there may be a tendency to pontificate, or<br />

generally make your opinions known in a rather dominating manner. Knowledge and understanding are strong motivating<br />

factors for you, so you like to sharpen your mind with discussion and involve yourself in cultural interests.<br />

Women with this aspect are attracted to intelligent men, and often have attachments to foreigners. The most important<br />

motivation factor when choosing a man is his ability to expand her mental horizons - either through religious, political,<br />

philosophical or cultural interests. An intellectual watershed arises in the relationship, where the man is no longer able to<br />

satisfy the intellectual hunger of the woman. How this issue is dealt with is critical for the success of the relationship. The most<br />

important thing for both sexes is to take personal responsibility for ensuring constant intellectual or philosophical expansion<br />

and personal growth. Relationships would improve dramatically, if you were able to admit that sometimes you are wrong.<br />

It may be difficult for you to discern the influence of this combination of planetary energies; it is weak and may be outweighed<br />

by stronger influences.<br />

When reading the following description, please bear in mind that you are a fast learner and overcome any difficulties involved<br />

very quickly. You can expect to use this aspect constructively and harmoniously.

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