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have a certain position or prestige, or someone they can look up to in some way. Both sexes are romantic and possess a<br />

passionate nature. There is a tendency to get involved in heated love-affairs. There is also a taste for luxury and the good<br />

things in life. In long-term relationships, mutual respect is an important ingredient - if this is lost, love dies.<br />

Personal<br />

There were a lot of troubles in your early upbringing, and the atmosphere around you was often tense or perhaps<br />

argumentative. This may have been due to a competitive relationship to a brother, or an irritable father or stepfather. You<br />

had to learn to defend yourself to survive this early turmoil. Maybe you have learned that the best form of defence is offence -<br />

at any rate later relationships tend to be marred by a lack of domestic harmony. You will however be a very dynamic parent,<br />

and you can play an energetic role in your local community. You can seek release for this domestic stress by being active in the<br />

home - building, gardening or working professionally at home.<br />

&Birth Analysis<br />

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It may be difficult for you to discern the influence of this combination of planetary energies as it is not a strong configuration<br />

in your chart.<br />

The influence of this planetary connection is subtle and unconscious. You can however expect quite acute periodic crises when<br />

the negative effects of the aspect manifest themselves.<br />

You are the kind of person who likes action, excitement and adventure. Being easily bored you tend to be rather provocative.<br />

Women with this aspect may have had a young or immature father, and in the more extreme cases there may even have been<br />

physical violence in childhood. Alternatively the woman with this aspect will have had a “buddy” relationship to the father<br />

and become involved with masculine pursuits. Later in life there will be a tendency to be attracted to a very masculine type of<br />

man. It may be important for the woman to really respect and look up to the man - but there is often an attraction to rather<br />

immature males, who never quite got out of adolescence. Subsequently the man may have great difficulty living up to<br />

masculine archetypes which basically exist within the woman’s character, and this will lead to conflicts or battles of power,<br />

until the woman accepts a more personally assertive role.<br />

Men with this aspect are very concerned about their masculinity and take pride in their ability to compete in the world. Sexual<br />

performance and the ability to take on a classic male role in relation to a woman are essential elements in the character. This<br />

Tarzan syndrome has its drawbacks. Problems can arise because of lack of sensitivity to the emotional needs of the woman.<br />

The man’s over-identification with the male role can be perceived as faintly comical by the woman who would probably set<br />

greater store by demonstrations of tenderness and affection. The woman tends to be the prize which the man wins and later<br />

guards and protects.<br />

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This aspect is of medium strength and its influence will often be felt, though not acutely.<br />

Two energies are unified into one in this planetary aspect, and you will express this energy in a very personal way, for good or<br />

ill depending on other factors in your chart.<br />

You were brought up in an atmosphere of tension which has made you constantly on guard. Perhaps your mother was an<br />

unusually aggressive woman, or perhaps there were many struggles in your family life. Whatever the reason you tend to get<br />

easily upset now - especially in your domestic life. Women with this aspect are often attracted to emotional men who express<br />

their feelings passionately and intensely. However this may be because of unconscious provocation from the woman, who -<br />

never having experienced peace and calm in her early life - recreates the atmosphere of tension through criticism or angry<br />

moods.<br />

Men with this aspect tend to have a short fuse, and often go about in an irritated state of mind. By identifying early childhood<br />

patterns of tension it may be possible to combat these negative emotional anger-states, which can be the source of a great deal<br />

of internal pain. Expression of anger rarely solves anything. It does not pay to let anger out, as you may fondly imagine. It<br />

pays to be conscious of the reasons for anger, before it arises.<br />

As you mature and you gain insight into your emotional nature, you can learn to create an atmosphere of excitement around<br />

you. You will be inspiring to be with, and moreover, you learn to combat insecurity by giving freedom of movement and<br />

encouraging independence in those you are attached to.

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