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January-February 2012 - The Jewish Georgian

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<strong>January</strong>-<strong>February</strong> <strong>2012</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 49<br />

A note of gratitude from a rookie softball coach<br />

By Marc Frost<br />

Having read and enjoyed Jerry<br />

Schwartz’s “Schwartz On Sports” column<br />

in <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong>, I was motivated to<br />

write about my firsthand experience as a<br />

rookie coach at the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong><br />

Community Center of Atlanta (MJCCA).<br />

What a thrill it was for me. I only hope that<br />

I can approach what Jerry does in capturing<br />

the excitement and camaraderie that is part<br />

of this scene.<br />

While I played baseball in my younger<br />

years in New York, 2011 was only my second<br />

year of playing at MJCCA. I so enjoyed<br />

the experience, that when the Fall League<br />

concluded, I decided to try my hand at<br />

coaching. <strong>The</strong> team ranged from people in<br />

their 20s to those in their 60s, and some had<br />

participated for over 30 years.<br />

Coaching added a new dimension to<br />

my sports participation. Naturally, there<br />

were lows, including a 7-game losing<br />

streak. But, like the World Series-winning<br />

St. Louis Cardinals, our players got hot at<br />

the right time. Although we were underdogs<br />

in all three playoff games, we swept those<br />

three teams, winning the season-finale<br />

championship game by a 14-2 score. What<br />

a thrill!<br />

Success in baseball and softball starts<br />

with a pitcher, and Jack Arogeti, who reactivated<br />

himself to play in the 2011 Spring<br />

and Fall Leagues, filled that bill. Having<br />

played and become friends with Jack in the<br />

Spring League on Michael Kornheiser’s<br />

championship team (we won 11 of 12<br />

games), I was excited to not only have him<br />

as a player but also to help me coach. Jack<br />

On Sunday, December 11, <strong>The</strong><br />

William Bremen <strong>Jewish</strong> Home remembered<br />

former residents who died in the past<br />

twelve months, with a candle lighting and<br />

remembrance service in <strong>The</strong> Home’s<br />

Garson Auditorium. <strong>The</strong> new tradition provided<br />

an opportunity for staff and current<br />

residents to remember the deceased and to<br />

provide comfort to their families.<br />

Led by <strong>The</strong> Home’s Culture Change<br />

Team with assistance from in-house chaplain<br />

Cantor Donna Faye Marcus, the<br />

poignant non-denominational service was<br />

sprinkled with touching and sometimes<br />

humorous anecdotes from family members,<br />

current residents, and staff. Each of the 41<br />

residents was remembered individually. As<br />

the person’s name was read, a family member<br />

was invited to light a candle. For those<br />

who did not have family present, a staff<br />

member close to that individual lit a candle.<br />

Many families expressed appreciation<br />

to <strong>The</strong> Home’s staff, and some recounted<br />

stories about their loved ones’ experiences<br />

at <strong>The</strong> Home.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> service gave our staff and residents<br />

a way to honor those who impacted<br />

MJCCA Menʼs Softball Tournament Champs: (front, from left) Todd Mitman<br />

(supersub), Neil Weisenfeld, and Josh Tolchin (supersub); (standing)<br />

Jeremy Zisholtz, Dr. Barry Zisholtz, Josh Perlstein, Jack Arogeti, Captain<br />

Mark Frost, Michael “Diggs” Grosswald, Scott Arogeti, Wayne Aronson, and<br />

Jeremy Friedman. Not pictured: Harris Weinstein<br />

kept the book and would e-mail me recaps<br />

of each game and season-to-date statistics,<br />

which helped me tweak our lineup for the<br />

upcoming game.<br />

Outfielders Wayne Aronson and Neil<br />

Weisenfeld played on our teams in both the<br />

Spring and Fall Leagues, and their experience,<br />

outfield dependability, and leadoff<br />

batting consistencies were tremendous<br />

assets throughout our 24-game 2011 seasons.<br />

We also drafted young guys, including<br />

newcomer Jeremy Zisholtz, son of teammate<br />

Barry Zisholtz; Harris Weinstein;<br />

our lives,” says Harley Tabak, CEO of <strong>The</strong><br />

Home. “While the end of life is part of our<br />

job, our residents become our extended<br />

family. <strong>The</strong>y are our grandmothers, sisters,<br />

uncles, and fathers. We feel the loss each<br />

Scott Arogeti, Jack’s son; and Jeremy<br />

Friedman, whom we traded for after the<br />

draft and who played outstanding shortstop<br />

and had many big hits. Catcher John<br />

Perlstein performed yeoman’s duties as “a<br />

pitcher’s catcher” and often batted as cleanup<br />

hitter. Michael “Diggs” Grosswald had<br />

hit after hit, and it seemed as though he,<br />

Neil, Wayne, Josh Pearlstein, and Jeremy<br />

would be on base every time I looked up.<br />

This was perhaps the first time ever at<br />

MJCCA that there were two father-son<br />

combinations playing together. This added<br />

time and appreciate being part of their lives<br />

for however long they were part of ours.”<br />

Among the memorialized was Irene<br />

Russ. A Holocaust survivor, she left a lasting<br />

legacy at <strong>The</strong> Home by donating a<br />

an extra dimension, and this family feeling<br />

spread throughout the team. While no one<br />

hit the ball over the fence for a home run—<br />

ever—the camaraderie and cohesiveness<br />

melded for a winning combination.<br />

Teamwork, defense, and respect for<br />

fellow players during the game and in the<br />

dugout were paramount. We discouraged<br />

negative remarks to one another on and off<br />

the field, realizing that mutual respect leads<br />

to teamwork and focusing on the next<br />

inning. This is what amateur athletics is<br />

supposed to be about. And if you can win,<br />

that’s not too bad, either.<br />

Whatever the ingredients were, they<br />

worked.<br />

For anyone considering playing this<br />

upcoming Spring <strong>2012</strong> season, come on<br />

out. Call the MJCCA, and, whether you’ve<br />

played before or not, you’ll find a great<br />

group of guys who take the league and competition<br />

seriously but know it’s a recreational<br />

league. You’ll find an environment where<br />

you can make friends with people who have<br />

respect for one another and the game.<br />

Special thanks to fellow coaches Jody<br />

Blanke, Gene Benator, Todd Schecter, and<br />

Greg Eisenman, who set admirable coaching<br />

and personal examples and helped make<br />

finding substitute players less stressful.<br />

I’m looking forward, G-d willing, to<br />

coaching next year and would gladly take<br />

the same ten players. While a competitive<br />

draft is likely to preclude that, I am so glad<br />

to be part of this fun and competitive<br />

league. And that’s always worth giving<br />

thanks for.<br />

William Breman <strong>Jewish</strong> Home remembers residents at First Annual Memorial Service<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Home Culture Change Team lights the final remembrance candle<br />

handwritten chronicle of her experiences in<br />

concentration camps. She did this to help<br />

staff understand the needs of other survivors.<br />

Ms. Russ’ two sons attended the<br />

memorial and expressed appreciation to<br />

<strong>The</strong> Home’s staff for “making her life<br />

much richer.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> remembrance service is part of<br />

<strong>The</strong> Home’s ongoing Culture Change<br />

efforts to create a place that looks and feels<br />

more like home. Staff members are consistently<br />

assigned to the same “neighborhood”<br />

and the same residents. Staff members<br />

become family with the residents, and the<br />

residents’ families become extended family<br />

to others in <strong>The</strong> Home.<br />

<strong>The</strong> William Breman <strong>Jewish</strong> Home has<br />

been providing skilled nursing care in the<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> tradition for over 60 years. As one<br />

of Atlanta’s leading senior residential care<br />

providers, the Home also owns and operates<br />

<strong>The</strong> Zaban Tower, an independent and<br />

assisted living community for low-income<br />

seniors, and <strong>The</strong> Cohen Home, an assisted<br />

living community in Johns Creek. For more<br />

information on <strong>The</strong> William Breman<br />

<strong>Jewish</strong> Home, visit www.wbjh.org.

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