January-February 2012 - The Jewish Georgian
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<strong>January</strong>-<strong>February</strong> <strong>2012</strong> THE JEWISH GEORGIAN Page 49<br />
A note of gratitude from a rookie softball coach<br />
By Marc Frost<br />
Having read and enjoyed Jerry<br />
Schwartz’s “Schwartz On Sports” column<br />
in <strong>The</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Georgian</strong>, I was motivated to<br />
write about my firsthand experience as a<br />
rookie coach at the Marcus <strong>Jewish</strong><br />
Community Center of Atlanta (MJCCA).<br />
What a thrill it was for me. I only hope that<br />
I can approach what Jerry does in capturing<br />
the excitement and camaraderie that is part<br />
of this scene.<br />
While I played baseball in my younger<br />
years in New York, 2011 was only my second<br />
year of playing at MJCCA. I so enjoyed<br />
the experience, that when the Fall League<br />
concluded, I decided to try my hand at<br />
coaching. <strong>The</strong> team ranged from people in<br />
their 20s to those in their 60s, and some had<br />
participated for over 30 years.<br />
Coaching added a new dimension to<br />
my sports participation. Naturally, there<br />
were lows, including a 7-game losing<br />
streak. But, like the World Series-winning<br />
St. Louis Cardinals, our players got hot at<br />
the right time. Although we were underdogs<br />
in all three playoff games, we swept those<br />
three teams, winning the season-finale<br />
championship game by a 14-2 score. What<br />
a thrill!<br />
Success in baseball and softball starts<br />
with a pitcher, and Jack Arogeti, who reactivated<br />
himself to play in the 2011 Spring<br />
and Fall Leagues, filled that bill. Having<br />
played and become friends with Jack in the<br />
Spring League on Michael Kornheiser’s<br />
championship team (we won 11 of 12<br />
games), I was excited to not only have him<br />
as a player but also to help me coach. Jack<br />
On Sunday, December 11, <strong>The</strong><br />
William Bremen <strong>Jewish</strong> Home remembered<br />
former residents who died in the past<br />
twelve months, with a candle lighting and<br />
remembrance service in <strong>The</strong> Home’s<br />
Garson Auditorium. <strong>The</strong> new tradition provided<br />
an opportunity for staff and current<br />
residents to remember the deceased and to<br />
provide comfort to their families.<br />
Led by <strong>The</strong> Home’s Culture Change<br />
Team with assistance from in-house chaplain<br />
Cantor Donna Faye Marcus, the<br />
poignant non-denominational service was<br />
sprinkled with touching and sometimes<br />
humorous anecdotes from family members,<br />
current residents, and staff. Each of the 41<br />
residents was remembered individually. As<br />
the person’s name was read, a family member<br />
was invited to light a candle. For those<br />
who did not have family present, a staff<br />
member close to that individual lit a candle.<br />
Many families expressed appreciation<br />
to <strong>The</strong> Home’s staff, and some recounted<br />
stories about their loved ones’ experiences<br />
at <strong>The</strong> Home.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> service gave our staff and residents<br />
a way to honor those who impacted<br />
MJCCA Menʼs Softball Tournament Champs: (front, from left) Todd Mitman<br />
(supersub), Neil Weisenfeld, and Josh Tolchin (supersub); (standing)<br />
Jeremy Zisholtz, Dr. Barry Zisholtz, Josh Perlstein, Jack Arogeti, Captain<br />
Mark Frost, Michael “Diggs” Grosswald, Scott Arogeti, Wayne Aronson, and<br />
Jeremy Friedman. Not pictured: Harris Weinstein<br />
kept the book and would e-mail me recaps<br />
of each game and season-to-date statistics,<br />
which helped me tweak our lineup for the<br />
upcoming game.<br />
Outfielders Wayne Aronson and Neil<br />
Weisenfeld played on our teams in both the<br />
Spring and Fall Leagues, and their experience,<br />
outfield dependability, and leadoff<br />
batting consistencies were tremendous<br />
assets throughout our 24-game 2011 seasons.<br />
We also drafted young guys, including<br />
newcomer Jeremy Zisholtz, son of teammate<br />
Barry Zisholtz; Harris Weinstein;<br />
our lives,” says Harley Tabak, CEO of <strong>The</strong><br />
Home. “While the end of life is part of our<br />
job, our residents become our extended<br />
family. <strong>The</strong>y are our grandmothers, sisters,<br />
uncles, and fathers. We feel the loss each<br />
Scott Arogeti, Jack’s son; and Jeremy<br />
Friedman, whom we traded for after the<br />
draft and who played outstanding shortstop<br />
and had many big hits. Catcher John<br />
Perlstein performed yeoman’s duties as “a<br />
pitcher’s catcher” and often batted as cleanup<br />
hitter. Michael “Diggs” Grosswald had<br />
hit after hit, and it seemed as though he,<br />
Neil, Wayne, Josh Pearlstein, and Jeremy<br />
would be on base every time I looked up.<br />
This was perhaps the first time ever at<br />
MJCCA that there were two father-son<br />
combinations playing together. This added<br />
time and appreciate being part of their lives<br />
for however long they were part of ours.”<br />
Among the memorialized was Irene<br />
Russ. A Holocaust survivor, she left a lasting<br />
legacy at <strong>The</strong> Home by donating a<br />
an extra dimension, and this family feeling<br />
spread throughout the team. While no one<br />
hit the ball over the fence for a home run—<br />
ever—the camaraderie and cohesiveness<br />
melded for a winning combination.<br />
Teamwork, defense, and respect for<br />
fellow players during the game and in the<br />
dugout were paramount. We discouraged<br />
negative remarks to one another on and off<br />
the field, realizing that mutual respect leads<br />
to teamwork and focusing on the next<br />
inning. This is what amateur athletics is<br />
supposed to be about. And if you can win,<br />
that’s not too bad, either.<br />
Whatever the ingredients were, they<br />
worked.<br />
For anyone considering playing this<br />
upcoming Spring <strong>2012</strong> season, come on<br />
out. Call the MJCCA, and, whether you’ve<br />
played before or not, you’ll find a great<br />
group of guys who take the league and competition<br />
seriously but know it’s a recreational<br />
league. You’ll find an environment where<br />
you can make friends with people who have<br />
respect for one another and the game.<br />
Special thanks to fellow coaches Jody<br />
Blanke, Gene Benator, Todd Schecter, and<br />
Greg Eisenman, who set admirable coaching<br />
and personal examples and helped make<br />
finding substitute players less stressful.<br />
I’m looking forward, G-d willing, to<br />
coaching next year and would gladly take<br />
the same ten players. While a competitive<br />
draft is likely to preclude that, I am so glad<br />
to be part of this fun and competitive<br />
league. And that’s always worth giving<br />
thanks for.<br />
William Breman <strong>Jewish</strong> Home remembers residents at First Annual Memorial Service<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Home Culture Change Team lights the final remembrance candle<br />
handwritten chronicle of her experiences in<br />
concentration camps. She did this to help<br />
staff understand the needs of other survivors.<br />
Ms. Russ’ two sons attended the<br />
memorial and expressed appreciation to<br />
<strong>The</strong> Home’s staff for “making her life<br />
much richer.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> remembrance service is part of<br />
<strong>The</strong> Home’s ongoing Culture Change<br />
efforts to create a place that looks and feels<br />
more like home. Staff members are consistently<br />
assigned to the same “neighborhood”<br />
and the same residents. Staff members<br />
become family with the residents, and the<br />
residents’ families become extended family<br />
to others in <strong>The</strong> Home.<br />
<strong>The</strong> William Breman <strong>Jewish</strong> Home has<br />
been providing skilled nursing care in the<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> tradition for over 60 years. As one<br />
of Atlanta’s leading senior residential care<br />
providers, the Home also owns and operates<br />
<strong>The</strong> Zaban Tower, an independent and<br />
assisted living community for low-income<br />
seniors, and <strong>The</strong> Cohen Home, an assisted<br />
living community in Johns Creek. For more<br />
information on <strong>The</strong> William Breman<br />
<strong>Jewish</strong> Home, visit www.wbjh.org.