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ERENET Profile Vol. IV, No. 4.<br />

www.erenet.org<br />

intimacy. In most families these cultural values are togetherness, love, serenity, selflessness and adoration, and<br />

we also have to mention the main familiar traditions, too.<br />

However, in case of businesses we can talk about common goals, co-operation in order to realize the<br />

corporate interests, and efficient operating models as the basis of corporate culture.<br />

So when we examine family businesses we face a further conflict: familiar values do not enlarge the<br />

effectiveness of organizations, and corporate values also cannot be transplanted into families. We have to<br />

differentiate the roles in the family and in the organization, and we always have to behave and make decisions<br />

accordingly the culture of the certain role.<br />

The role of the counsellor of development, I mean the ‘coach’, in a family business can be an interesting<br />

topic, too. When a coach examines an organization first he examines the owner of it, the leader, and only after<br />

then asks the employees about their opinions. When intervention is needed he checks the organizational<br />

culture, the organizational net, the behaviour of the members, and by these pieces of information he makes<br />

proposals. There are coaches who do not have to meet people face to face, since they know such typical<br />

‘illnesses’ that are common in case of entrepreneurships, for example communicational problems,<br />

disorganized systems, the miss of mission and vision, and so on.<br />

At the same time it is hard to examine a family business like this in practice. The relation of people in<br />

this case is different, so you cannot set out the above mentioned problems. The only way of curing in a family<br />

is letting the boss tell his story. This time the coach is a kind of family-therapist to whom the boss – mainly<br />

the father – can confess his problems.<br />

Consumer-orientated roles – Partner-orientated roles<br />

Business organizations, mainly micro and small businesses, often depend on their customers. One of<br />

the reasons for it is that these entrepreneurships are in most cases suppliers of multinational organizations<br />

with special financial parameters like deadlines, penalty, and so on. On the other hand the size of their local<br />

target market is not big enough to take the risk of loosing any of their customers from a day to another. That<br />

is why sometimes micro and small businesses get from one extreme to the other. In practice it means that they<br />

tend on their customers officiously: the owners make decisions and operate the companies focusing on the<br />

obligate goal: the customers’ satisfaction.<br />

Contrarily, the main aims within a family are the satisfaction of the members and the common pleasure.<br />

The difference among the target groups in case of family businesses can cause many conflicts and difficulties.<br />

Shall I make my decisions according to an unselfish point of view in order to make my partner happy? Or<br />

shall I follow a kind of business-orientated point of view so that my customers are satisfied with my product<br />

and service?<br />

Relations on contracts – Relations on confidence<br />

The main stress within a family is on trust. When a man and a woman get to know each other they learn<br />

how to trust the other at the same time. By and by they start to live a common life, they start their own family,<br />

and they also teach their children how to trust the other the way they do. Without this kind of connection the<br />

system would fail, since there would be nothing to save the family from the external dangers, and there would<br />

be no reasons why to call a family ‘family’. The relation among the members is based on trust, too. This is why<br />

children accept their parents’ instructions, and we do not always have to manifest what we say – we simply<br />

believe what we are told, since we trust it.<br />

As people say, there is no friendship within business. The reason for it is that there is no trust among<br />

unknown people, since they have nothing to base it on. But if trust is missing from a relationship then we<br />

have to compensate it with such unnatural things like contracts, promissory notes or references. However<br />

these concepts do not come through in a family, since they endanger trust. This is why intrinsic conflicts<br />

happen in family businesses.<br />

Succession: by profession and contracts – Succession: by congenital privilege<br />

As I have already mentioned, in time of Feudalism succession happened according to the following<br />

method: if a man assumed his fatherhood and got married with the mother then succession happened on the<br />

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